“Umm….I think all of us better think about doing it cuz these brothas are GONE! Or maybe I am just speaking for the West Coast…”

Monique,
I am from L.A. and live there too. I think it has a lot to do with the whole Hollywood thing. I lived in Atlanta for 7 years and had no problem meeting educated black men. I can’t wait to get back down South to see those corn feed men - white and black!

I take that back we dont feel out of place we actually feel proud blessed to have created a union that has become very rare: A beautiful black Queen and a handsome Black King honoring, respecting and loving each other!(yes we do look good together lol)

nope, love brothas would NEVA do it.

This is to headcount who feels betrayed…SO WHAT! When black men date these broke ass ugly ass trailer trash looking white girls, I say nothing and move on. And to The Answer, whatever, you are probably to 1st to bang 1 of the afore mentioned hoes. I date ANY man who is interested, a man is a man. There are bad apples in all races and we need to wake up and realize that. I have met his family and if they have anything bad to say about me, it is behind closed doors.

@ mizphattycakez

I love when I see black couples in L.A. Thank God I have an example in my parents. They been married 42 years. They could care less who I marry as long as they’re not on drugs, have any children, have a job, etc…

@ mizphattycakez

I love when I see black couples in L.A. Thank God I have an example in my parents. They have been married 42 years. They could care less who I marry as long as they’re not on drugs, been in jail, have any children, etc…

Gordon Parks died!

@muchlove

I don’t know how I feel about you putting me on your list of girls who “know the deal” and are “keeping it real”. I actually said that I WOULD date a white guy, but that I have some concerns when it comes to us creating a family i.e. having children. But I don’t know what the Lord has planned for me. The man I’m meant to be with could very well be a white man, and if that’s the case, I won’t let that stop us from having a wonderful happy life together.

However, if it’s just me and my man, we can handle all the stares and racist comments because we are grown and we made a conscious decision to be together knowing full well what the consequences would be. However, I don’t like the idea of people’s ignorance casting a shadow over my children or the time that I spend with them. I think that when it comes to race and racism, nobody has a harder time than mixed children, because they get it from both sides and have a hard time knowing who to go to for comfort.

My sisters, who are light skinned and look mixed (well I guess they are, but our father is not white just a fair-skinned black man), have had ignorance thrown at them from both sides, like darker skinned blacks saying that they’re not really black and can’t relate to the black experience, and they have had the white boys flirting with them, but not asking them out because they couldn’t bring them home to their white mama’s, or the white boys wanting to ask them out but having their mama’s discourage them from doing it in subtle ways instead of coming right out and saying that they don’t want them dating a black girl (even if she is light-skinned).

Also, my Dad who is very light-skinned and has been mistaken for white by black AND white people (as in, white people using the ‘n’ word around him not realizing that he was black) had a whole lot of problems growing up when it came to his black identity (and a lot of it, if not most of it, came from darker-skinned black people).

So, I’m not just talking out if my @$$ when I say that I have concerns about having mixed children looking white. It’s not just about me, and people mistaking me for their nanny or baby-sitter. That’s just the tip of the iceburg. I may get some hate thrown at me for being black, but I’ve always been able to find a comfortable place with other black people. but if your mixed and are getting the hate from both sides, i know for a fact that that’s harder than anything i’ve ever gone through.

UMMM…hell to the NAW!!

The first three guys I ever dated were white and my boyfriend right now is Asian. Korean to be exact. I don’t care either way. As long as he treats me how I ought to be treated, his skin color makes me no never mind.

I’ve always said the only way I would date a white man is if the world ran out of brothas to date…well I think the time has come cuz there seems to be a shortage of available black men. Women of all races are snatching them all up, not leaving a drop behind.

I can only say:
back in my early 30s, (39 now), this guy used to come to my job. He owned his own rig company, and they would deliver shipments. Very wealthy. Kept asking a afro’d sista out, called me all the time. I finally gave in for “dinner”.
LAWD- he kept saying his mom wanted to meet me, he told his whole family about me etc. I couldn’t stand it. Especially coming from a daishiki-wearing, huge-afro-goateed-power-to-the-people FATHER; I felt like he was putting me on the auction block ready to show my teeth.

Yeah I would..George Clooney says he’ll never get married. So at least I can dream, can’t I??

t, you’re dillusional. it aint nobody else’s fault you can’t get a man (i’m playing)
but seriously. I’m pro swirl. I think it’s a shame that interracial dating is such a hot issue. I think more people ought to try it. Become close to someone who is from a different background than you. Learn a new language. experience a new country. learn to cook a new kind of food. Get into a new kind of music, and learn the dance that accompanies it. I’m tired of segregation. I’m tired of racism. Hell, I’m tired of race. I find beauty in ALL kinds of people. Be more open minded.

I have entertained the idea but quickly dismissed it. I am approached by white men quite often. I have gone to dinner with a white man before. Just to “see” how it is. Black men were openely and blatantly rude. I heard comments like “what a waste” and “damn sistah!”. The black chics were like “You go!”. But I could not get into a relationship with a white man. Atleast today on 03/07/06 I am saying that. I am not one to hop on a fad so I don’t think it becoming vogue will persuade me either. It is something about it that makes me think of being owned my “massah” and you guys I know that all white men/people in general are not like that.

But I have a burning desire for a puerto rican man. Man I miss NY! The closest I have come to a PR in South Carolina is a tall Mexican. I am black (mom)/Dominican (dad) and my family has always been open to dating any race/color/religion. It is just a mental thing for me. But everything ain’t for everybody, ya know?

C Hollins- I don’t sleep with white trailer trash women or any women for that matter. I did not knock anyone for dating whites. I am not sure where this attitude is coming from other than your inability to read properly. So re-read and respond accordingly. Thank you.

Apologies to you the answer. I saw SoDamnYouAll’s comment thinking it was yours. I am sorry. I didn’t mean to offend you b/c you actually had an educated post. Again, I apologize.

I’ve lost a lot of respect for Black men over the past few years. They’re either homosexual, bisexual, on the DL, HIV positive, dating White girls, wanksters, all for show, or stuck on player mode. Its starting to sicken me how Black men are destroying their own race by their TRENDY choices and behaviors. I used to be pro Black, but nowadays I’m open to whomever will keep me healthy and happy.

i don’t know, if i dated a white guy he’d probably be that “white mike” that grew up in the neighborhood and hung with all the black folks,

i prefer dark skinned guys and since whit eguys are well white, i just don’t find myself attracted to too many of them, it’s not about them being white

I’m black and never been tied down to my own race. In school, I was cool with anyone who was cool with me, whether it be skater or gangster. I didn’t start officially dating until college and its all been black men. To be specific, I’ve been with haitian, jamaican, st vincent, bahamas, puerto rican/black mixed and they’ve all fit that typical “player” mode although they acted as though they weren’t like that at all. Now my current boyfriend is spanish (venezuela/colombia mixed) and we are mad cool with eachother. And just like he says when we first started dating a year ago “I don’t care what people think! I’m your man and you’re my girl” that’s all that matters anyways.

I’ve never dated a white guy but if I had the chance I wouldn’t just up and say no. Everyone is human.

im a black gay guy and i can say that being gay that all white guys are caught up in the image that pornography presents: that a black man is the big dick fucker who will leave you senseless. but out in the real world you dont speak no evil.
how covers do you see in the store- ‘big black poles, tight white holes’ it is a fantasy of whites for blacks as sexual objects and that doesn’t sit right with me.

chatting, most white guys show their ignoranc by asking about how big a blk guy’s COCK (?) is, immediate turn off, and i have yet to find a white guy who was finer and made my asshole wink like a man of color be he pr latin or black as night.

bottom line- i think the interracial couples love attention and a re caught up in their own ‘oh my god, look at us, we are taboo’ more than actual genuine turn ons. sorry- it’s true.

you don’t see asians mixing like that. they are smart.

for those that disagree just swallow thea lump in your throat and keep telling yoruself its because you see no color. im sure coretta and martin are still in heir same position.

its sad.

i gave up even acknowledging white guys’ advances for they are only sexual and i now see the beauty of the black men that give me props.

@ headcount –i’m way too old to play games or to date for the sake of the chase. your playa mantra is tired and indicative of why black women chose to date outside our race. i guess you thought you put the dissenters in our place, but really you just crystallized why many black women don’t mess with black men. so thank you for your “poignant” quotation, but i don’t subscribe to childish ramblings.

@ muchlove - i find it odd that the women who don’t date outside the race are regarded as “beautiful black sistas,” as if to suggest that black women who date outside our race are less beautiful, less black or any less of a “sista.” instead of marginalizing black women who have made the decision to be happy despite (your) prejudiced views, you should applaud them for having the strength of character to look beyond preconceived notions of race and see a person as a person and not as a color. i sure am glad dr. martin luther king, jr. didn’t make such a distinction in his “i have a dream” speech.

sistas, accept love where you find it. this idea what we have to carry on the race is warped maternalism and bondage. i think it’s absolutely ludicrous to expect black women to wait around and risk a life of unhappiness and loneliness waiting for her elusive black knight to rescue her from despair. likewise, i think it’s unfair for black men to suggest that black women should accept the mediocrity that the vast majority of black men are trying to peddle. we should expect nothing less than excellence from our man. i for one will not accept any less merely because the man is black. to do so would be obtuse and completely sad.

dont be ignorant…. Race is one of the stupidest concepts ever devised… it was concieved to divide us… RACE is the thing that made people look at BLACKS as less than human..and for anybody to continually support it is uttery ridiculous. Dogs crossbreed with no problem what so ever, so why are humans so hesitant? We’re all God’s children so WHAT THE PROBLEM IS? what if you came across the love of your life and you decide not to be with them because theyre not black? anybody who says otherwise is a complete fool.

I would date a guy of probably any ethnicity. If you have that chemistry then you can’t put the ethnicity/race factor between the two- you could pass up a soul mate like that.

Or not, just saying.

Race-mixing in Britain is similar to the US in the sense that it is nothing new yet at the same time a dichotomy of opinion exists in terms of what people think. on the whole, I have found that Black British women tend to be more ‘loyal’ to their Black male counterparts who just seem to continuously chase white skirts yet at the same time feeling jealous when Black women look beyond the colour barrier. Black men will always be my first rate choice, regardless of what is in ‘vogue’

Tee–where do u live that you don’t see Asians mixing??Especially the Asians who grew up in America. I have a White friend who is married to an Asian man and also a White male friend married to an Asian woman. I am Black and dating an Asian. Everyone has their prefernece so if you r happy with Black men I am happy for you.

Well said, Rachel!! I have several girlfriends who are educated and attractive who whenever we bring up dating White men don’t even want to approach the subject. These are the same women who deal with the “playa” type of brothers with baby mama drama and other women on the side. Not saying that White men wouldn’t bring drama as well but why limit yourself as if that’s the best you can do just to say you got a Black man?

Geez, my boyfriend is white. Its no big deal, people make too much out of thingss

I am Black/Brazilian and I like guys of all races. We come in all colors, and the guy i’m with now is puertorican, but he’s black too. I prefer afro-latinos because we share the same color, and cultural background.I don’t really have alot in common with most black american guys.Definitey don’t limit yourself to one race.

Well said, Rachel!! I have several girlfriends who are educated and attractive who whenever we bring up dating White men don’t even want to approach the subject. These are the same women who deal with the “playa” type of brothers with baby mama drama and other women on the side. Not saying that White men wouldn’t bring drama as well but why limit yourself as if that’s the best you can do just to say you got a Black man?

Well said questioneverything : I cosign. I was one of those women. Ages 18 -21, I was well beyond my years in distinction, attractive, brigh-eyed and ambitious, with an innocent heart and chained to those out-dated notions, of the healing power of black love and loyalty therefore the love-of-my life was one of those very men with those very same issues. Charismatic, charming, hints of pure genius and cultured. He also loved the streets and the allure of the hustle and all that came with it. I thought he just needed a little fixing. He was really beautiful on the inside right? The only thing fixed was me, and not for the better. I grew to hate to hear the word baby-mama, and anyone who was one. My outlook, my optimism were dampered. Self-esteem hit rock bottom, and I even began to question my value…not for once thinking that it might just be something wrong wih him if he had someone like me and sacrificed it too have yelling, cussing, fighting daily, not to mention the silly games, broken windows and public embarrasments. When I did finally end it, realizing the dire mistake I had made, it was no better for how I felt abpout myslef, b/c at that point I was completely SHOOK, that the honor-roll princess, the girl who usually got it right, had been so wrong. I was over him LONG before I was over the fact that I had chosen him. He made a complete mockery of something very beautiful, b/c he didn’t know what to do with it. The very light he loved about me, he nearly single-handedly extinguished…and then asked me why I didn’t smile anymore? I have gone on a tangent. But my story is more common than not. Some of the strongest, most beautiful and good-hearted black women have been brought to new lows in the name of loving some of these very black men who they assume deserve it. Yes, I realize someone can only bring you down if you let them, and if you’re REALLY strong you’ll get back up. But many women take that road not realizing that it’s not a necessary for the pilgrimage. That supporting our men doesn’t mean letting go of our needs. We as black women, some, many, don’t realize that we don’t have to sacrifice nearly as much as we think, and we don’t have to feel guilty for not doing so. I WISH when my mother was telling me to not bring a white boy home unless he’s Donald Trump had also shared this with me.

Side Note: Every Black woman and man on this site should read Joan Morgan’s : ‘When Chicknheads Come Home to Roost’ if you haven’t already. All my non-chickens, don’t let the title deter you.

Hey Muchlove, whats with the question mark behind my name? I love Black men all the way, honey. No mistaking it…

CALICHICK IS NOT BLACK! SHE SAID SHE WAS WHITE ON THE 36 MAFIA FORUM!!! CALICHICK, I DON’T APPRECIATE YOU LYIN’ LIKE THIS. WHAT, YOU CAN’T EVEN BE REAL ON A KEYBOARD????

CRAZICHICK, YOU’RE A FUCKING IMPOSTER ASS BITCH THAT NEEDS TO HAUL ASSSSS!!!!!!!

OH, I JUST READ ONE OF YOUR POSTS. OKAY. YOU BETTER KEEP IT REAL…

@ Muchlove & Headcount I believe you are the same person.

But if not pls watch that “Black family/White family” reality show that will air on FX tonight at 10p.m. Not sure if your west coast or east just check your local cable listing.

P.S. GROW UP!

THERE IS NO SUBSTATUTE FOR LOVE AND HAPPYNESS.THE PROBLEM IS WHEN I HERE SOME BLACK FOLKS SAY I ONLY DATE WHITE GIRLS OR MEN.IF YOU CONNECT WITH SOMEONE THAN FINE,BUT DONT SELLOUT.ME MYSELF IT WOULD BE HARD FOR ME TO EXPLAN WHAT I GO THROUGH EVERYDAY AS A BLACK MALE TO WW B/C I THINK SHE WOULD BE INPARTIAL AND NOT REALY UNDERSTAND ME OR US OR THE STRUGGLE!IT TAKES A STRONG PERSON TO DATE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE B/C OF THE DIRTY LOOKS AND THE WISPERS.BUT QUIT FRANKLY THEIR IS A SHORTAGE OF BLACK MEN WHERE IN JAIL,GAY OR DEAD.IT’S LIKE 8 TO 1 WHERE IM FROM. SAD

“and i have yet to find a white guy who was finer and made my asshole wink like a man of color be he pr latin or black as night.”

ok interesting visual…lawdy

@ head count - Would not the path of least resistance be to date a black guy. Or, are you saying that it’s more of a struggle to date a black person than any other ethnicity? I just thought your choice of quotes was interesting.

Anyways, the guy that I’ve known that’s been the nicest to me and treated me the best, with such politeness, has been a guy friend of mine who is Filipino and white. He has the most awesome personality of anyone I’ve met. Sure, we’re from different ethnic backgrounds, but we have a lot in common. Moreso than either of the 2 black guys that I’ve dated in the past. (I’ve only dated 2 people). I say this to back up why I think that it’s personality, upbringing, and socioeconomic status that do play a big role in compatibility.

I agree that there are a lot of things that culturally, black people share because of a common experience with racism and discrimination, but in 2006, that’s really know excuse. The only person that’s going to hold you back is yourself.

Also, I recall poster who mentioned that the place that she met white guys was class or work. I think that has a lot do to with who you meet. Because if you really want to date someone who is truly compatible, you may be likely to meet that person in class or in the workplace. So, if you’re in a field that’s predominantly filled with white, or any other non-black people, than you’re more likely to meet someone non-black to date, because though your race isn’t the common factor, your interests are.

Oh give me a break. I don’t need to prove myself to nobody over the internet. Take your detective skills somewhere else…like to Aruba.

no, you go. They like to snatch your kind up out there and leave ya fa dead!!!!!!!

Bitch, you don’t wanna battle. Take your ass on somewhere else!!!!!!!!!

I think every women should date outside there race at least once. I have dated a lot of men outside my race. I am married to someone outside my race. I think it is a great thing.

this is ridiculous… seeing people that are against interracial dating… you’re supporting the segregation of cultures.

Headcount your comments are ridiculous! I said I have dated white men and while I don’t think I could marry one, I don’t rule out marrying someone of a different race. Why is that sad? I refuse to wait for happiness based on someone else’s hangups. And I certainly didn’t bash Black men to defend my cecision to be openminded. I’m sorry, but I’ve seen Black men who date white women rip Black women to shreds defending their choice. I haven’t seen many Black women do that here. It doesn’t like anyone is specifically choosing white men here. We are just choosing to explore all the possiblities.

That’s where you should direct your vitriol.

I agree that racism exists in this world, but don’t perputuate it with your ignorance. Why do I get the feeling that you are one of those secret “white girl” loving guys that give Black Women out with “others” the hypocritical stink eye?

@mybiz + calichick

y’all really need to cut that sh– out. what are y’all even fightin’ about…please…go be petty some place else…

I think every women should date outside there race at least once. I have dated a lot of men outside my race. I am married to someone outside my race. I think it is a great thing.

@Original Sindee ….Please…Mind ya business!!! Thank you. That’s how you get extra shit started.

@SadDamnYouAll,,

I suggest you p you MEDS

I’m married to a white man and we’re very happy as are both of our families. Saying you’re not willing to date outside of your race is about as open-minded as not willing to date someone from another city! You probably think someone from LA couldn’t possibly have anything in common w/ someone from Detroit? To those that find it difficult to get past the color of a white mans penis or his preferred music choice; does that also mean you couldn’t date a black man that is a bit less endowed and likes country music every now and then? In healthy relationships you teach and learn the truth instead of living in the shadows of these ridiculous stereotypes.

@I am a black man who is tired of Black women and thier fucking hipocrasy! If you want to fuck a limp dick white boy…go ahead! But don’t come crying to me bitch, when he wont take your black ass home to meet his parents!

All I can say is, Up you Meds, baby, Up you Meds

@SadDamnYouAll

All I can say is, Up your Meds, baby, Up your Meds

In forums like this people tend to use overuse hyperbole. Lots of people are saying, “Yeah I date white men because black men don’t do such and such. . .” That is wrong as well. I can’t stand to hear this kind of talk; it’s just as bad as hearing a black guy say “I don’t date black women because they have bad attitudes”. My point is, don’t generalize. All black men aren’t disrespectful and immature; the ones YOU dealt with were.

Although I have dated a white guy and would do it again without hesitation, my current boyfriend is black and he absolutely treats me like a queen. I’m talking dinners, trips, foot massages, back rubs; he even loves to wash my hair!!! There ARE good black men out there, of course. BUT, as I said before, you should keep your mind open because, otherwise, life (and love) could pass you by.

I can’t believe what I’m seeing!! Black women giving up!! You use to be the backbone to the black family! Fight the POLR - path of least resistance. Hang in there Mary J. and Whitney!! We know it ain’t been easy! To all you sellouts, please knock off that “white oral sex” talk, because you can’t get past his pink penis…which it is actually purple! I guess no game leads to no shame…so here’s the updated list of “the 70 forgotten black women who black men rejected”:

lala (2)
Desmon
taco
artgyrl
lamorenaekobe
Lisa
C. Hollis
Anonymosus.Poster (several)
JK
Ke Ke
Bobby.Pins
Veronica
Penny Woods
Alexis
Essence
e-ka
Gracie
Angela
Leslie
takeitoutside.BITCH
boyer
Ethipoian Princess
lemure
dee dee
rachel
pepper
monica
LOVELY
Mssnay
Shannon
J-MAMI
private dancer
calichick
lafemmenikita
Javier ;(
kimmie
RockMusicDiva
im not her
thandi
rastalove
ginger
any’lldo
SlimKim - POLR
she’s clever
missmee
dmac
dee dee again
EM kow
Confussed08
letinian
sure
inaccessible
Monique
Evie E.
mizphattycake
Original Sindee (at your request)
Miss Diva
t
untitleeme
wo
CoCoBunny
Yellie
Setsunna
BlueNotes
Bombshell
Free
questioneverything
Bella
Menina21
she’s not clever

How many white men and black women do you see still together over the age of 60? Not many, because a stange phenomenon occurs around age 50…! It’s like being an “obese elder”…the two conditions can’t exist for long!

“updatedlist”, seriously, get a job and work on keeping your non-interacial relationship together instead of harping on people that are ok with choice they’ve made.

Hang in there sistas! You are the center of our strength. I’ll adorn you with strawberries and champane. Rose peddles and hot oils! I’ll be by your side!

special k
T bean
Observer
illdva
im not her
Euricka
bee
mia
Julia_Claudine_Deveraux
Silvia ?
thetruth
MissTee2U
Sharonda
crazichick
Nai
Shonquayshah
ANAYA
questioneverthing
babyG
mybiz ?
True
Oneblacklilly
Shonuffsista
MzMeMuch
the answer
Bristol

Much love to all of you…cause you know about the chase and you rise to the occasion.

Rachel, you took the words right outta my mouth. I can’t believe he came up in here talking about “the chase.” I’m a grown woman! Why should I be playing games? I don’t think that’s indicative of black men per se, but I think he didn’t make his case any stronger by saying that.

updatedlist—better question, “How many couples–regardless of race, 50 or 60 years old are still together and happy?” Forget the race part. How many women are still putting up with their man’s B.S. 40-50 yrs later and vice versa? It’s about being happy and this is a Whole new generation so in 40-50 years you WILL see interracial couples who have been in it for the long haul. We as women DON’T have to settle for whatever comes our way just to say we have a MAN in our lives. I will continue to choose men who respect me –regardless of color.

Likes to wash your hair, he’s metro or maybe even down low. I like all the other things you mentioned but keep your eyes open girl!

@shoutoutlist

before anyone has a coronary that i’m on your list, i should be taken off as i am a white woman not a black woman.

thank you.

I’m talking dinners, trips, foot massages, back rubs; he even loves to wash my hair!!!

Now we are talking! Does he have a brother?

Just watched Oprah…thought it was a great show.
I loved what O and Sanee said it is about opening your possibilites to love and be loved

“you don’t see asians mixing like that. they are smart.”

I agree with Free. Where the hell do you live? Not only do I see numerous white/asian relationships, I just said that I’m black and my boyfriend is Asian. You must not get out alot.

And go ahead and put me on your little “list.” I don’t give a damn. While you’re busy hanging your head and scrolling through threads to put people on a damn list, I’m happy with my relationship and the choice I’ve made.

You can take your list and shove it up your rightous ass.

hmmmmmmm…dating out of my race….I really am against other people pointing fingers and continually making false accusations of one race or another, therefore I think it is just out of plain ignorance that we as a people should disc anyone one else for dating someone out of our race. We ALL are mixed in some way or another. there is not one pure breed amongest us. I wholeheartly agree with the aforementioned statements of dating, loving and marry someone for themselves. If you find love in another person and v/v, embrace that person and the love they give with all of your heart. This life only goes around once. don’t get stuck on stupid and miss out on the love train because of a color issue.

I’ve dated one white guy before and he treated me better than any black one i had been with.I thought it was funny when we went out and black guys were giving me dirty looks, cause these were the same ones who had white girls on their arms! I don’t have a problem with black guys dating white girls, but there excuses sound like cop-outs. They usually say its because we have attitude problems and are golddiggers etc… black guys don’t have to put us down to justify why they date white girls. I dated that white guy because he treated me well, he was cute and we had alot in common. It had nothing do do with any negative feelings toward black guys. Open your minds, and date outside your race at least once.

@updatelist PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE POST BEFORE COMMENTING!!!! I’ve been HAPPILY married (8yrs) to one of the most beautiful, intellegent, respectful BLACK MEN I have EVER KNOWN which I stated in one of my post, I have NEVER dated a white man but have been propositioned by many and have NEVER been rejected by NO MAN and as for the strawberries,champagne and rose petals keep yours, hon I have a BEAUTIFUL BLACK man who does ALL those thing for me and MORE!

^^^^^That’s Me MIZPHATTYCAKEZ^^^^^^

RACHEL for President!!!!

Oh so now we used to be the back bone of the black family? I thought we were bitches and hoes and golddiggers. I’m laughing my ass of at them brothers calling sistas dating outside their race sellouts when black men been doing it for sooo damn long and looking down on us acting like we’ve never been good enough cause too ghetto too golddiggish too this too that. Now they’re scared. Yall should have seen how black men reacted when my best friend, one of the most beautiful black woman I’ve ever seen walking on this Earth I swear to God, told her male friends and family members her new love is white. They’re pissed, her male relatives are pissed, her male friends are mad at her. This girl is gorgeous, a Gabrielle Union type of sista. MAN yall should see that crap. All these men are losing their heads, even her (black) ex-man who cheated on her, lied to her, and had A BLONDE SEXUAL GIRL (ala Pamela Anderson) AS HIS PC WALLPAPER. Go figure.

80% of successful black men in hollywood marry white. FASCINATED with white women especially blondes. Calling us bitches and hoes in every song, making songs about us being golddiggers. MORE POWER TO US SISTAS DOING OUR THING WITH NON-BLACK fellas. WE ARE the #1 MOST EDUCATED AND POWERFUL WOMEN of minorites OF THIS COUNTRY. Yall took us for granted. I want to see more and more sistas explore their options, we’re beautiful, smart and successful. The most scorned women in the world apparently, but secretly the most envied by women and desired by men. BLACK WOMEN DO YOUR THANG!!!!

“Don’t it always seem to go that you don’t know what you got til it’s gone?” - Janet Jackson.

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I sooooooo wish I actually gave a phuck about you adding me to your “sellout” list.

As far as being rejected by black men…
If they’re anything like you, please tell me, what am I missing?

Ok,Ok, wait. Let me tell YOU what I’d be missing:

not a muthaphuking thing, shit, nil, nada, etc.

My man caters to me as I do to him in return.

Jealous?

That’s amazing! 70 do’s and only 26 don’ts! That’s not Vouge…that’s epidemic! I knew as soon as Corretta and Rosa passed, ya’ll were gone start showing your true colors!

Meathead, I mean Meatloaf, please explain yourself?

i have and i would again. love is love and i don’t feel loyalty to any particular race.

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Why am I on your list twice??
You’re an idiot and the poster BOY for Black WOMEN who date other races of MEN.
And sweetie, for the record, I was neither REJECTED NOR FORGOTTEN, just taken for granted b/c he was too shallow to see what was real and what makes a woman a woman. I still get calls this day from exes, and glances of regret when they see me out. The only one who’s FOOL enough to still try is the one knows he had my love and never should have let it go. It’s been over 6 years, and I still get a few phone call or letter every year.
But you, on the other hand, are obviously a LONELY ONE if you have time to count ALL the black women on this site who wouldn’t want you… here’s a thought…go find one who will and a CLUE while you’re at it!

DEAR BLACKKK WOMEN WHO DATE WHITE BOYS:

You are the same DUMB bitches who want a THUG and then once he has stuck your ass with a bunch of dumb-ass, bastard kids (who you will one day visit in jail) you wanna run and find a nigga with some class and a good job. When that shit doesn’t work out…and the nigga finds out how domineering you are, you wanna run game on a pussy hungry white boy. But guess what he don’t give a shit about your black ass! HE JUST WANTS SOME BLACK PUSSY. So go ahead give it to him. I could give a fuck less. Try to be more like Lauryn Hill or Erika Badu!

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