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When a black man as wesley say ” no black woman ! out of question ” how do you traduce it ?
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^^^ WELL like I said if they DEGRADE THEIR OWN RACE LIKE WESLEY SNIPES THEY ARE SELLOUTS MEN AND WOMEN. BUT IF THE ONLY REASON IS LOVE THEY ARE NOT!!!! YOu’re blaming EVERY BLACK WOMEN for a FEW OF THEM WHO INSULT BLACK MEN!!! You didn’t say “SOME black women” you said “black women wrote” as if ALL OF US WROTE THAT BLACK MEN AINT SHIT, when MOST BLACK WOMEN HERE NEVER DOWNED BLACK MEN!!!! YOU’RE THE ONE WHO NEEDS A FUCKING BRAIN!!!!

~~~~ My beef with you is that you blame all black women HERE for what a FEW said, cause that’s all you wanna read and see. ~~~~

well said anon. a few sisters hate on black men and generalize, and “virgil” is generalizing talking about we all talk shit on black men, he’s doing the same bullshit as these few hating black women : generalization. you can’t point the finger at them for generalizing, if you’re generalizing yourself too.

It’s so interesting how we RUSH to take up for white people (who don’t need it by the way) and put each other DOWN!!! Are your really serious?!

MASSA’ HAS TAUGHT US WELL I THINK!!!

PEACE.

Just to play the “devil’s advocate”, notice that these so called NEGRO CHAT BOARDS never ask the reverse question of the brothas!!! Afraid of what you might hear huh?!

^ that’s because we’ve been hearing the answers for over 50 years. we’ve been seeing this scenario in movies for over 20 years. that shit been overexposed by the media for over 20 years too. the white man/black woman thing being so exposed is something new to the community, and it’s bout time sisters really talk about how they feel about it because interracial dating is much more taboo for black women.

I would never date a black man and i am black. Black men are to lazy, stupid and got to many dam bastard kids.

Just to play the “devil’s advocate”, notice that these so called NEGRO CHAT BOARDS never ask the reverse question of the brothas!!! Afraid of what you might hear huh?!

Uh, hello Slaveship, but Im willing to bet that most of the black women here have been raised by black men and IF NOT then we have at least black men for brothers, uncles, cousins..etc and they may have dated, flirted, chased, desired and even married outside the race. We know the answer when the question is reversed.

And really, dude, A NEGRO CHAT BOARD?? I suppose if someone says something you wanna hear or agree with then it’ll be a BLACK CHAT BOARD, right?

I would never date a black man and i am black. Black men are to lazy, stupid and got to many dam bastard kids.

POSTED BY: divaherself | March 12, 2006 06:39 PM
^^^^^Idiot

“Person with closed mind should keep mouth in same condition.”

POSTED BY: lala | March 10, 2006 04:53 AM

Black men have too much baggage and too many issues. there are too many fine non- black men to be worried with them, most are in jail anyway.Some Black women need to wake up and see that messing with Black men only leads to problems. I can predict the future and say that my children will be biracial because there’s no way I would even consider being with a Black man in this lifetime.

Black men have too much baggage and too many issues. there are too many fine non- black men to be worried with them, most are in jail anyway.Some Black women need to wake up and see that messing with Black men only leads to problems. I can predict the future and say that my children will be biracial because there’s no way I would even consider being with a Black man in this lifetime.

“And really, dude, A NEGRO CHAT BOARD?? I suppose if someone says something you wanna hear or agree with then it’ll be a BLACK CHAT BOARD, right?”

Maybe so. After RESPECT is earned then it will be given BUT just reading the last 2 or 3 posts I see there are some NEGROES that still have a long, long way to go…lol!

Enjoy the ride!

Black Men aren’t handling Black Women crossing over very well are they? Oh well…that’s life!

Black Men aren’t handling Black Women crossing over very well are they? Oh well…that’s life!

Well..I hear Essence Atkins is dating a White guy too..looks like all the sisters are snatching up these vanilla fellas. But the ultimate one is Ms Halle Berry…that White guy is super fine! I think Halle started a trend..nothing like a chocolate/ vanilla swirl!

Well..I hear Essence Atkins is dating a White guy too..looks like all the sisters are snatching up these vanilla fellas. But the ultimate one is Ms Halle Berry…that White guy is super fine! I think Halle started a trend..nothing like a chocolate/ vanilla swirl!

Ladies I totally agree!

I could careless what color a man is, as long as he’s ambitious and educated. White men are very respectful, attractive and powerful, this is why the VAST majority of Women in general who do date interracially go for them.

I am pleased to see so many blk women opening up ..ladies don’t believe the hype about white sleeping with blk women but not marrying them…The majority of my blk female acquaintances who are unwed and raising fatherless kids, were with blk men.

..One of ladies has already begun schooling her daughter -full black (who is 3 years old..I sh*t you not) about “the dangers of dating black men”

If I honestly compare the quality of the relationships that I have encountered…the black women who have chosen the white route had a FAR more successful lasting, happier union-this is Also why my sister has started dating white men

..and I’ll be joining her too

Hey Lisa, you can get a mortgage with a black man too, my credit is good!

POSTED BY: james | March 7, 2006 06:08 AM

LOL

^5 Jasmine! You do speak the truth!

^5 Jasmine! You do speak the truth!

“damn !!!!
You need some glasses or maybe a brain to understand what you read ? maybe You can’t read ?

why u talk me about asian people and connect them with slavery master ? you can’t understand the concept of self-hatred ? Self-hatred it’s not specially about others people but about you. It’a about them who scorn they brovas and sistas”

First of all, I wasn’t personally addressing just you. I was talking to whomever has been in here spouting off bullshit about “Black women who date outside their race are sell-out.” “I feel betrayed.” “You’re dating your slavemaster.”

Secondly, I wasn’t connecting Asian peple with slave masters. That’s exactly my point. If black women who date white men are sell-outs, are dating their “slave masters” and have self-hatred, then what does that make me since I’m dating an Asian man? Am I the same? That’s what I’m asking.

Not that I give a shit about anyone’s opinion of me and who I choose to date…but much of this post (not all) seems to only be addressing the white man/black woman relationships.

And yes, you are very hard to understand so that’s probably why we’re misunderstanding each other.

And just to clarify something for you. I don’t have a “self hatred” issue. I’m mixed (black/native american) and I call myself black. I wake up every day PROUD of being what I am: Young, gifted and black. I also have nothing against dating black men. I choose whom to date based on their intelligence, honesty, how they approach me, for instance…and to be truthful, I have NOT ONCE been approached by a black man with anything other than, “Hey baby…come here.” “Hey, you here me talkin to you?” “Hey, I’m tryin to holla at you.” “hey sexy, shake that ass for me.”

I don’t like being approached that way. It’s disrespectful to me and I won’t give ANY MAN who approaches me that way, the time of day..whether they be black, white, orange, purple or candy apple red.

I’m not saying all black men are like this, because I know they aren’t, but I have yet to meet one who isn’t. My boyfriend right now is smart, honest, respectful, funny, sweet,we have alot in common and most importantly..he treats me the way I ought to be treated and nothing less. I’m not dating him for money, wealth, status or any of that other bullshit that has been said. We’re both theatre actors, college students and broke (just like the majority of most college students)so if I’m “using him” for anything, it must not be for much, other than the fact that I love him.

This NEGRO CHAT BOARD is full of SELLOUTS I see! It’s amusing to say the least…lol!

To all of the “I’m in love with a WHITE GUY” freaks, do your black male relatives fall under the same catagory as ALL the other black males in your life?! Just a question.

blackman in france & slaveship…THANK YOU! I don’t post on the weekends, but ya’ll represented the brothers well against the 70 unfortunate on this site who admitted that they sell out to white men for money.

I’ll bet most of the 70 are light skinned like the parkay floor at the Garden. White men usually don’t date darkies! Just the cream of the chrop!

These sisters can’t find a black man…so they get a white man! Can’t get a white man…date a woman! Can’t date a woman…buy battery powred! Can’t afford batteries…use your hand! Hate using your hand…lean against the spin cycle! Don’t own a washer………….find a black man! It’s a victious cycle!

Now, I want all you “sellouts” to take a hard look in his blue eyes and think about what Rosa and Martin felt when they were cuffed and jailed…for being black!

kow…start using you’re name, Boo! I had a dream that you, lala and I had a real nasty threesome!

blkmanhere…you’re not invited! Go to Oprah! Don’t give in blackman! Stand up and fight! Women like lala, lemure, she’s not clever and kow will have you doing the dishes and washing greens! They’re gonna do what they want, but we don’t have to like it!!! Let em know!

No problem bro! Eventhough these boards are dominated by “sistas”, we gotta speak up for the strong bros/strong black folks sometimes! I mean dayum…it’s too much hatin’ with our folks and all along “CHUCK & BECKY” are still on top of us…BELIEVE DAT!

WAKE UP BLACK FOLKS!

don’t even bring up rosa or mlk. done and over with, remember he preached equality. youzatrick, use a book.

“well against the 70″

…..time to do a recount that number has jumped
significantly lol

“what Rosa and Martin felt when they were cuffed and jailed…for being black!”

…..dont dishonour the names and legacy of these people who fought for EQUALITY and not the control and domination you are spewing

“Can’t get a white man…date a woman!”

…..Ok so you hate homosexuals and interracial relationships. homophobe, dont you know that Rosa Parks protested FOR GAY RIGHTS. LOL. What do you think about that! Like another poster said USE A BOOK, idiot

“will have you doing the dishes and washing greens! ”
……what is wrong with a man who helps around the house. You misogynist

And keep on fantazing about some of these balck women because that is the closest you will get to them

Youza Trick, nice to see you lump all black women toegther, when you have the nerve to get pissed at women who lump all black men together.

I see you went ahead with the “sellout to white men for money” defense when half, if not all, of the black women here said that money wasn’t any part of us dating outside our race.

Either that, or you did see it and you choose to ignore it just to make a bullshit point.

Oh well. It makes no nevermind to me. I don’t want your ass anyway, or any man like you, and you’ve just proved why.

You’za Trick ………You’zaFOOL

slaveship:

Wake up? Who are you talking to? We black women are only TOO aware of our situation; that is why some of us are choosing to exercise other options.

It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there?

Go ahead and band up with your little buddy there; maybe you can help him develop his arguments. Because neither of you is addressing the underlying issue here which is this: Looking only at the numbers, every black woman cannot get married to a black men. And this is only based on numbers; not considering how many eligible black men either never want to get married OR have a problem with sistas.

So now what’s up?

Youzatrick: I guess I don’t need to tell you that, once again, you didn’t answer my question. But please, go ahead and “pimp slap” me; afterwards, you’ll be picking your teeth up off the floor. Perhaps it’s been awhile since you’ve been with a black woman, but surely you know that we don’t play that shit.

Oh, and that BULLSHIT that you posted about the being “the lion” tells me all I need to know your mental state. Get help.

Love knows no color. I don’t go looking outside my race but whomever treats me right gets my heart and that’s real.

questioneverything, that was absolutely beautiful.

“It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there? ”

I noticed none of them have addressed the REAL issue. The truth hurts

Hey Ginger granted your points are well taken but I haven’t seen alot of respect & love from many sistas on this board either to the black men that are decent or trying to do the right thing so WTF is up wit’ that?! All the love to the white folks & none to your own who are trying out here just like you? How’s is that part of a people trying to better themselves as a whole?!

The sad part about it is believe it or not black women aren’t perfect either & the HIV rate is NOT all the fault of black men! To even think that you must be sick!

Also, I noticed that no one answered MY question about black male relatives at all!

“but I haven’t seen alot of respect & love from many sistas on this board either to the black men that are decent or trying to do the right thing”

But maybe these black women have not encountered a decent black guy. That has not been there experience. Dont personalize it. If you are decent it is not personal

I’ve never dated outside of my race before but I have been approached on numerous occassions only to turn men down on the basis that their skin wasn’t black. Alot of my thinking came from the fact that I had this “obligation” to be with a black man.

But now I’m at a point in my life where I’m so ready for love that I wouldn’t dare pass up the opportunity even if the man turns out to be white, asian, latino etc.

All the petty reasons people listed of why they wouldn’t date a white man (or any man who isn’t black) are just well…petty. Besides bottom line, you want someone who’s into you for the long haul and these crazy myths and stereotypes about penis size, the shade of someones skin or musical taste (NEWSFLASH! Not every white man listens to Green Day and not every black person is feeling Biggie) is not a measurement of someone’s committment, maturity or affections.

Get a grip people! I know I had to!!

Ya’ll need to cool it on that equality biz! Until yo azz can get out here and fix the damn car…we ain’t equal. Thank a man that you don’t have to wash them dam clothes at the river and cook them greens over a hot fired pot.

Have my babies and learn to keep quiet in the church! I’m gone love you and let you go shopping at Christmas! Hell, I’ll even get you something on you’re birthday…especially you kow, you little freaky Boo!

slaveship…you are too kind to these alpha females. They know they’re wrong for this $#|T! especially lala, taco, sindee, t and lemure. This is a black entertainment site and they come on here rubbing their purple-jimmie filth in our black faces.

After all the blood, sweat and tears we’ve shed for they black azzess. I be damned if I lose even one of them without a fight. Even if I have say things to damage their alter-egos, I will, to keep them safe at home. We still need ya’ll black azzes!

Oh, I forgot to tell you about Ginger…she’s a big one! She poisons the minds of people like: Veronica, Penny Woods, Alexis, Essence, e-ka, Gracie, Angela, Leslie, takeitoutside.BITCH, boyer and Ethipoian Princess…all good women who just want to get a steady flow of milk and honey without all the drama. They have good jobs, homes and cars. They just need a strong black roster who’s willing to stand on the post and cock-a-doodle-do er’ now and then.

Ginger, why is it that one black man has made you hate all black men? If the black ranks are so AIDS ridden and infected, what makes you think the white boys gonna bite yo azz?

The problem with these women is, they have no skills. A pack of educated women who couldn’t hold a candle for five minutes against someone like HOOPZ. Spent all that time in those books and now they’re looking for endorsement to go buck wild with Opie and I’m not having it.

I can tell they’re not use to being covered by a strong black alpha man! State college mentalities!

So, don’t let up on them, slaveship! You take one third and I’ll take a third and the blackman in france will take the other third…but just remember kow and lala are mine!!! MyFreakyBoos!

Please take Ginger!!!

MissDiva…you create a intriging challenge for me…I’m interested in hearing more of what you have to say, but be prepared for a pimp slap if you disrespect my house or come too shallow!

And, I refuse to dignify anymore of you ANONYMOUS_POSTERS with responses!

purple-jimmie….

You’zatrick…boy you have a fascination with white mens dicks.
BTW how do you know what a WHITE mans dick looks like??????
paying toooooooo much attention in the bathroom stalls
HOW YOU DOIN?

“Can’t get a white man…date a woman!”

…..Ok so you hate homosexuals and interracial relationships. homophobe, dont you know that Rosa Parks protested FOR GAY RIGHTS. LOL. What do you think about that! Like another poster said USE A BOOK, idiot

Cant you see he is a blasted fool.
Just an ignorant black angry fool

Have my babies and learn to keep quiet in the church! I’m gone love you and let you go shopping at Christmas! Hell, I’ll even get you something on you’re birthday…

LOL!!!

Can you please tell us the name of the church you are a member of so we can stay far away.
It must be the church of the deranged
Lord help him!

First of all, Sanaa Looked AMAZING on Oprah. I love her look so much, wish it was more embraced as the standard of beauty in our culture instead of the blonde weave madness.
However, I wish they had interjected a couple points in that stereotype filled half hour..1) the REASON Black women dating white men got its own show. I dont think a lot of people get the divide Black women have in dating interracially in this country. And no Im not talking about weave.
2) To interject in all the weave argument that not all Black women wear them. After a while I was like, why are they acting like thats de rigeur? Ive never had one, neither has many people I know.

Now if I found a white man that I was in love with I would date him, but it’s harder. I think society makes it harder for Black women to date outside of our race than our Brothers. We’ve never been seen in this country in the full spectrum we really are, especially by the images some of our own people choose to put out there.

But so many Black dudes are dating outside their race that you almost have to open yourself to that because the chances of you finding a Black guy who a) wants you & not a Puerto Rican chic b) is comaptable with you c) has all the criteria you’re looking for is slim.

“blackman in france & slaveship…THANK YOU! I don’t post on the weekends, but ya’ll represented the brothers”

serving your weekend jail time, criminal

If he loved me, and I loved him, hell yes I would date,marry,fuck a white man. I would fuck any man, who loved me for me and not what my skin color was. And plus us sistas need to get back out there, all these black men be marrying white girls, why can we do the same?

HELL TO THE MUTHAFUCKIN’ NOOOOO!!!!

ANONYMOUS_POSTER…you’re an anonymous HATER 4 real…lol! I see what you’re about with that last comment!

Peace.

Slaveship……
Release your mind from bondage, you are still enslaved

To all of the “I’m in love with a WHITE GUY” freaks, do your black male relatives fall under the same catagory as ALL the other black males in your life?! Just a question.

@Slaveship
No, cuz we’re not DATING our relatives (I hope not anyway) and they’re looking out for our best interests so I’m glad you asked that…just so happens I was in love with my cousins best friend (a brutha)years ago. My cousin and his 2 best friends were the biggest playas on the high school; hittin on every kind of chicks of all colors in sight. But my cousin pulled me aside at a football game one time and told me point blank “SO AND SO IS MY BOY, BUT IF I EVVVER CATCH YOU WITH OR HEAR THAT YOU WERE WITH HIM I’LL KILL YOU!! AND I’LL TELL YOUR MOM AND DAD AND THEY’LL KILL YOU TOO”..!!

Now, that scared me but it didn’t turn me off to Black men OR send me running to white men because my cousin would dogg out his white friends too. And just between you all here and me…I tried to get with SO AND SO behind my cousins back, but he said “Uh uh…your cousin’s gonna kill me”..!! I like my life”..!! LOL!!

My dad’s on his 4th marriage(to a sister); he’s the last person that needs to lecture me on who to get with.

Miss Diva: I also have nothing against dating black men. I choose whom to date based on their intelligence, honesty, how they approach me, for instance…and to be truthful, I have NOT ONCE been approached by a black man with anything other than, “Hey baby…come here.” “Hey, you here me talkin to you?” “Hey, I’m tryin to holla at you.” “hey sexy, shake that ass for me.”

I don’t like being approached that way. It’s disrespectful to me and I won’t give ANY MAN who approaches me that way, the time of day..whether they be black, white, orange, purple or candy apple red.

Vanessa: PREACH!

Ginger: Wake up? Who are you talking to? We black women are only TOO aware of our situation; that is why some of us are choosing to exercise other options.

It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there?

Vanessa: Well….

ANONYMOUS POSTER: “It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there? ”

I noticed none of them have addressed the REAL issue. The truth hurts

Vanessa: AMEN and AMEN!!

Miss Diva: I also have nothing against dating black men. I choose whom to date based on their intelligence, honesty, how they approach me, for instance…and to be truthful, I have NOT ONCE been approached by a black man with anything other than, “Hey baby…come here.” “Hey, you here me talkin to you?” “Hey, I’m tryin to holla at you.” “hey sexy, shake that ass for me.”

I don’t like being approached that way. It’s disrespectful to me and I won’t give ANY MAN who approaches me that way, the time of day..whether they be black, white, orange, purple or candy apple red.

Vanessa: PREACH!

Ginger: Wake up? Who are you talking to? We black women are only TOO aware of our situation; that is why some of us are choosing to exercise other options.

It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there?

Vanessa: Well….

ANONYMOUS POSTER: “It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there? ”

I noticed none of them have addressed the REAL issue. The truth hurts

Vanessa: AMEN and AMEN!!

“You’zatrick…boy you have a fascination with white mens dicks.
BTW how do you know what a WHITE mans dick looks like??????
paying toooooooo much attention in the bathroom stalls
HOW YOU DOIN?”

Well I’m sure you know all about them huh?! And always remember that BLACK MEN are the only carries of STD’s…right?! So, YOU should be safe!

Peace.

“It’s the brothas who need to wake up. Black women have remained faithful to them throughout and in return, what did we get? The highest rate of new HIV cases and the lowest percentage of marriage. Do you not see a problem there? ”

THAT SHIT NEEDED TO BE SAID, AMEN AND AMEN AND AMEN!!!!!!!

Yes I do since I am married to a white man. He is sensual lover with a beautiful and big &*^%!
But not as well as Youzatrick…he has even seen the purple ones, those are a rarity. He must have checked out a lot of white guys cocks.

yea i would. but its just a trip how black dudes walk around wit a white gurl and nobody got no problems but if a black gurl show up to the club wit a white boy, its all rong and sh*t. that happened to my gurl and it mad me sick. but yea if he waz lookin right and if he could treat me better than some of these lame ass niiggas i’ve been wit, i would wanna go with him

ANONYMOUS_POSTER…if you already have your “Chuckie Boy” and you’re happy then why are you up here trashing black men?! Did MASSA’ tell you to do that too?!

get -ya -$…I wonder if any of your black ex’s would say the same about you?! Probably not since you’re a PERFECT catch…lol!

Correction: the previous post was done proudly by me!!!

Hahahahaha! slaveship, you are too smooth! You’re very good at shutting these tricks down! And, that trick done went and married her Massa!!! I bet her looks like hell! Flat pink azz, little purple jimmie, ashy black nuts, red pointed noses and neck!

I bet she tells him to turn off the lights when he comes out of the shower, so she doesn’t have to see his little pink azz!

Probably does ‘Trick>>>lol! The way she comes on the board HATIN’ on brothas & stuff! She’s got problems 4 real!

one thing bm have shown to the world is how jealous and insecure they are when it comes to black women and non black men. black men want the world to think they are ladies men and have all the women but they go crazy when they see black women with non black men..they really crumble like cookies.

one thing bm have shown to the world is how jealous and insecure they are when it comes to black women and non black men. black men want the world to think they are ladies men and have all the women but they go crazy when they see black women with non black men..they really crumble like cookies.

I’m crumblng all around you right now ’cause I believe that you’re WHITE!!!

“Reggae’s most transcendent and iconic figure, Bob Marley was the first Jamaican artist to achieve international superstardom, in the process introducing the music of his native island nation to the far-flung corners of the globe. Marley’s music gave voice to the day-to-day struggles of the Jamaican experience, vividly capturing not only the plight of the country’s impoverished and oppressed but also the devout spirituality that remains their source of strength. His songs of faith, devotion, and revolution created a legacy that continues to live on not only through the music of his extended family but also through generations of artists the world over touched by his genius.
Bob was born to a WHITE FATHER and a BLACK MOTHER, in wedlock!!!!!!”

Thank God this BLACK woman was openminded to love marry and reproduce with this white man. Or Bob Marley, THE GENIUS, would never have been born!!!!!!!!!!

So slaveship and headcount and black man in France….and any other fool who is so brave…..now let me hear you disrespect BOB MARLEYs mother with the shit you have been spewing from your nasty little insecure mouths about black women who date and marry WHITE MEN.
And watch every JAMAICAN, including myself
….will cut yu bloodclot, ya lickle pussies

jealous and insecure…

AMEN! That sums it up
…. if they raised their own self esteem and self worth the actions of TOTAL strangers would not have such a hurtful affect on them.
But because they obviously have no INDIVIDUAL IDENTITY they take a black woman marrying a white man as a PERSONAL attack and sign of hatred towards them personally.

They should be spending their time in therapy and school

slaveship..if u need me to be white to help you accept the inevitable…that’s fine. it’s funny when bm can’t address an issue they have to start making silly accusations. you have to tell yourself anything rather than deal with the fact that black women are looking past you and moving on with men in other races. I think the worst part for you is that you brought it all on yourselves by your actions toward us.

I doubt anyone is even gonna scroll down to this lol, but whateva.

I was completely against dating white guys until recently. I always said I would date anything and everything else except white guys…but I recently met one of the sweetest guys in the world, who happened to be white. So I let it go, the prejudice that is.

I’m not sure how or why I don’t care anymore, but I don’t. I guess that just shows how amazing love is, all your “specifications” seem to fly out the window if the right person comes into your life. Sorry that sounded sooo corny haha, but I actually believe that.

Obviously SOME of you must have been dealing with some real nut cases in your relationships in order to have so much hatred in you! Get a real life ’cause there are millions of strong black women that STILL love & marry their own!

If you are with a white man then fine…be blessed for it! But don’t hate me or MY KIND because some bro screwed up your life AND your head…lol!

I always stand strong & love my sistas no matter what the MASSA says or does!!! Peace.

So I let it go, the prejudice that is.

I’m not sure how or why I don’t care anymore, but I don’t. I guess that just shows how amazing love is, all your “specifications” seem to fly out the window if the right person comes into your life.

BEAUTIFUL!
“SO I LET IT GO” and by letting go of hate and prejudice you let in LOVE.
not corny at all

Yes, thats what the Bible says about true love.

Well first off, I’m a black male living in the South, I mingle with many different races due to my job. Now I NEVER take things personal, but many of the white guys I know say that they have never found not ONE of my black sisters attractive…that’s bs! I prefer black women, but dang I love women period. If a woman is hot (whether white, black, whatever) she’s just hot. However, there is and never will be any woman like a black woman, I haven’t met my wife yet, but I want a good black woman and a strong black family. Any white man that has the chance to date a black woman but doesn’t for inferior thinking is a fool and for those that say black women are not attractive in their eyes are liars. If that was the case, we wouldn’t have all these different shades of black and brown courtesy of our WHITE SLAVE MASTERS.

lol yall r 2 funny!!!! i jus put that up there to c wo would get mad the most and it looks like all yall r haterz!!! no i would neva date 1 b/c i already have a brotha treatin me rite!!! get ya $!!!

i am happily married to a black women, and have been for 12 years. personally i love black women they are the most beautiful cretures God has ever made. we’ve had our share of hard times
and no i aint rich, i don’t have good credit,
and i’m not a movie star. when u decide to grow up and become men and women you’ll see.i do see a lot of racial injustice in the world and i live in tn. but, it’s more seg. in the north esp. in the cities.a lot of black women not the little 18-25-yr old girls will tell you how lazy, cheatin,no dick havin self-centered,stupid-ass black boys are’nt worth the fuckin time of day. so go ahead and get ur ass beat live in poverty and keep his sorry-ass up.

I got to much loyalty to Black men to date outside my race. I would behind closed doors but you will never catch me dating a white man in public.

My guy is white, and we are kewl. I honestly dont understand what the big deal is???

Oh yeah a brotha has not done one thing to me. I don’t allow Black male/female bashing (PERIOD)

I have to say some people need to stop asking brothas/sista why they date outside of their race. Isnt it obvuious, that’s the man/woman they love and want to be with.

Take your energy and knowledge and focus on strengthening our commmunites, providing strong positive examples for our little ones, stressing the value of marriage before children, just plan striving to be great, knowing when to be kewl (there a time n place for it)

Geez stop hating on eating other, you can’t make him/her stop loving him/her. Focus on things that will make our community stronger.

Dont let all the Hell our ancestors went through be in vain?

Get your a$$ and vote, become active and in your communities more than anything with ya kids. People do yall see all the things the Presidents does and gets away with? See while a Some black people waste time complaining about whose doing who those crooks could be doing anything.

Keep your eyes open

Think about it

In the 1800’s, Imagine if you went to a white person and said,”Blacks will be free, voting, educated,good jobs.” That person would think you were nuts. Yet here we are!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are so strong, survivors HOLD YOUR DAMN HEAD UP AND ACT LIKE IT. Read the papers, keep your eyes on the crooks, yall Im telling ya.

Keep your eyes open to the REAL problems

My guy is white, and we are kewl. I honestly dont understand what the big deal is???

Oh yeah a brotha has not done one thing to me. I don’t allow Black male/female bashing (PERIOD)

I have to say some people need to stop asking brothas/sista why they date outside of their race. Isnt it obvuious, that’s the man/woman they love and want to be with.

Take your energy and knowledge and focus on strengthening our commmunites, providing strong positive examples for our little ones, stressing the value of marriage before children, just plan striving to be great, knowing when to be kewl (there a time n place for it)

Geez stop hating on eating other, you can’t make him/her stop loving him/her. Focus on things that will make our community stronger.

Dont let all the Hell our ancestors went through be in vain?

Get your a$$ and vote, become active and in your communities more than anything with ya kids. People do yall see all the things the Presidents does and gets away with? See while a Some black people waste time complaining about whose doing who those crooks could be doing anything.

Keep your eyes open

Think about it

In the 1800’s, Imagine if you went to a white person and said,”Blacks will be free, voting, educated,good jobs.” That person would think you were nuts. Yet here we are!!!!!!!!!!!!

We are so strong, survivors HOLD YOUR DAMN HEAD UP AND ACT LIKE IT. Read the papers, keep your eyes on the crooks, yall Im telling ya.

Keep your eyes open to the REAL problems

ust curious, it would be intersting to know…what part of the country/ies do these ladies who are open minded to date white/non-black, live. Maybe location, location, location, like real estate, affects all of our opportunities and choices……… by *ANONYMOUS_POSTER*

I come from South Africa, and I live in Germany.

slaveship:

I know it’s long, but you should really go back and read the entire thread before attempting to comment.

I don’t have any kind of “hate” for black men; my BOYFRIEND (and probable future husband) is black, as are my brothers and my dad (obviously). I (and some others) have chastised people coming in here talking that “Black men ain’t shit” mess.

It’s my love for my sistas that prompts me to say what I say. I don’t see any reason under the sun for a black woman to resign herself to a life of loneliness or relationships with dead-beats just because she thinks she should only date black men. There are good black men out there of course; I’m in love with one ‘em. But (I repeat) elementary arithmetic will tell you that every black women cannot get married to a black men. What do YOU suggest they do?

As far as your little friend goes, I won’t even dignify. But maybe you should let him know that he’s part of the PROBLEM.

There’s nothing wrong with dating outside our race as long as he doing us right. As a black woman i have dated a white man and it was ok, don’t get me wrong i love a strong black man but sometimes u get tired of the bulls**t and want someone who is going to do u like u want to be done. If u ask me i would say try every race of men until u find that one that treats u like the queen u r. If he just happens to be white then so be it.

“MissDiva…you create a intriging challenge for me…I’m interested in hearing more of what you have to say, but be prepared for a pimp slap if you disrespect my house or come too shallow!”

I create a challenge for you? Please explain. Whatever, to your pimp slap shit.

Thank you vanessa.