K-CI SPEAKS OUT ON MARY J. BLIGE
Thursday, April 20, 2006

Vibe: What is your response to the new video that Mary is doing with 50 cent?
K-Ci: That’s crazy. After all this time she’s making a video about me
and her? I haven’t seen the video. But I’ve heard about it. It’s supposed to be about a time in our life when we were supposed to get married. I never said I was going to marry her.Vibe: So you two were never engaged to jump the broom? Did you ever give her a ring?
K-Ci: Yes I gave her a ring, not because I wanted to marry her. I gave her a ring after she came off tour and she kept hinting around that she wanted a ring. I never agreed to marry Mary J. We never talked about starting a family or anything like that. We were not as serious as people thought.
Vibe: So, she thought that the two of you were getting married?
K-Ci: Right. That was all in her head. I was young and living my life. I didn’t want to be anybody’s husband. I was young and living wild. I was celebrating everyday and partying and hooking up with different women. I wasn’t ready to settle down with anybody. Mary knew that. She knew I cared about her but she also knew that I wasn’t going to be tied down to her. She accepted that and continued to call me and come around me even at times I didn’t want her around me. I would tell Mary over and over to go and find a man that is ready to settle down and play hubby.
Vibe: You had to have loved her at one point or another. You guys sang together, did shows together. There had to be something.K-Ci: There was something. It wasn’t what Mary wanted everybody to think. She wanted the world to think that we were living a fairytale and all of a sudden I ended it. We cared about each other, but I wasn’t in love with here. The feelings were never mutual. We would do shows together and afterwards I wanted to hang out with the guys and party and talk to fans. Mary would go crazy. She would come up to my hotel and bang on the door, screaming and hollering at the top of her lungs until I came out. She would come up to me at parties and disrespect my company. I had to be careful because if she saw me with a woman she would try to start fights and put on a big show. It was crazy.
Vibe: Why do you think she was acting like this? There had to be reason. Do you think she was mislead to believe that you wanted to be with her?
K-Ci: I don’t understand how, because I told her all the time that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with her. That still didn’t stop her from calling and paging me and showing up at the studio drunk. There were so many episodes. She was constantly embarrassing herself.
Vibe: Do you think the sex made her fall in love.
K-Ci: *laughs* I thinks so, but no woman should let sex control them and make them feel things for someone. If the feelings are not there, you have to let go and move on and work on building yourself. You can’t let good sex control your mind and control your emotions. A lot of men would have loved to be with her, but she was into me instead of being into Mary J. Blige. She turned down a lot of guys because she thought they only wanted her for her money and fame. She would cry about this all the time.
Vibe: Were you ever attracted to her. She is a beautiful women. Very stunning.
K-Ci: I was attracted to her because she had so much ambition. She would be in the studio for 12 hours a day. She was determined to live her dream. That’s what I was attracted to. Her determination and her drive is what motivated me.
Vibe: What about the physical? When you first saw Mary, what was your first thought?
K-Ci: She seemed very nice. Very down to earth. I wasn’t attracted to her the first time we met.
Vibe: How did the two of you start dating? There had to be some kind of attraction between you and Mary. What was It? How did the two of you make a match?
K-Ci: We saw each other at Uptown records several times before we exchanged numbers. I wasn’t trying to get involved at the time. When we recorded a song for her debut album What’s the 411, we had a lot of chemistry. We slept together. She enjoyed it. We began hanging out at the studio. We became friends. We would talk a lot. She was very opened about everything. I respected her for that. She was honest. She would tell me the truth about myself. That’s what made me want to embrace her as a friend.
Vibe: She was a good friend, so how did everything fall downhill?
K-Ci: Mary had a lot of problems. She came from Yonkers New York. She was from a broken family and she still had to carry those issues on her back. She had low self-esteem. She was very insecure. That’s the part of Mary I didn’t like. She was a determined woman and she was serious about her career, but she had no self love. She would always say how much she hated her big feet. She would complain about the scares on her face she got from fighting girls around her neighborhood in Yonkers. She wanted me to make her feel pretty. I couldn’t. She was just a woman to me. I didn’t see her the way people look at Halle Berry, Robin Givens or Vanessa Williams. She was just a regular woman. That was fine with me, but it wasn’t fine with Mary. She didn’t feel good about herself. Even with the clothes, the hairstyles and the jewelry, she didn’t feel worthy.
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173 Comments
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1.
Spark
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
he looks horrible in that picture and sadly for some reason i could believe everything he’s saying….it sounds just like mary
2.
Impossible
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
lol what in the hell is wrong wit his hair? who is he tryin to be, the modern day james brown.. Or a poor excuse for a tranny?
Howeverm, man is he riding the fuck out on mary J.. haha he doesnt have hardly anything nice to say.. He call her a druggy, didnt think she was pretty.. Boy if he is tellin the truth.. Mary damn show got sumthin to sing about haha cuz the bitch is crazy.. Put her up there with whitney… haha…
And just when mary thought Vibe was gone let her get away with that “vibe awards” incident.. Woo Woo.. Revenge is a dish best served cold for real!!!!!
3.
Impossible
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Surely there are better pictures of K-Ci and Mary circulating around the NET.. I mean Angel La i know you like to bring the funny, but you could have atlest got some halfway decent and flattering pictures of them..
Haha wait nevermind.. Them sum funny ass pictures.
4.
Angel La
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Lol. I wasn’t even trying to be funny. I already had that Mary J. pic saved and I did a search for K-Ci and that picture was the size I needed. Plus it’s pretty recent.
5.
natalia
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Yea, I’ve seen SEVERAL recent pics of K-Ci and that’s the look crackish look he’s rocking right now. A HOT MESS if you ask me.
A lot of what he’s saying about Mary sounds true because Mary herself has said some of the same things.
About the marraige thing though, he probably led her on.
6.
N.E.
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Gotdamn. I almost thought Juvenile stole Katt Williams’ hair during a coke-sniffin’ rampage. Hand me a rubber stamp that says “DONE” on it.
7.
Omen
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
The new Ike and Tina Turner!
8.
brownsuga
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Dayum K-ci look just like a turd!
what the hell is that crap on his head? He looks like Whitney Houston in that picture! Mary need to be thankful she didn’t end up with that fool.
9.
EnJoi
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
K-Ci= Eddie King= Pookie from New Jack City, lawd let us pray.
10.
Angel La
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
N.E. said:
Gotdamn. I almost thought Juvenile stole Katt Williams’ hair during a coke-sniffin’ rampage. Hand me a rubber stamp that says “DONE” on it.
LMAO!
11.
Impossible
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Looks like hes channeling Condaleeza Rice lol…
12.
The Diva
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
He looks like Jimi Hendrix, risen from the dead. Literally.
Leave Mary alone–”I could lie and told her she was beautiful”. Bitch, have YOU seen a mirror lately. Fugly men sure know how to get bold…
13.
anyll'do
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
looks like they were made for each other if you ask me, wit his drunk azz soundin like he got a bunch a phlegm down his throat wanna hock a loogy singin azz….pass the damn bottle, b*tch, and no backwash either!!! lol
BOUNCE, BOUNCE, BEE OUNCE CAYYY!!!
14.
Angel La
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
Yall are cracking me the hell up with these comments.

Here go the whole K-Ci & Jojo Picture:
I’m mad yall never seen this before.
15.
jaime del rio
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
SORRY ANGELA FOR STEALING UR SHINE (as some have put it) regarding my posting of this interview in the comment section earlier. i don’t think i could steal ur shine b/c u do such a great job well anyway i posted the article b/c i really do like mary very much she does her thang and i was upset by wuh he was saying about her. i dun believe mary was as bad as he was saying. and anyway mary ain’t no dog.she been working out fixing her hair etc etc and most people who say she’s unattractive are judging her against the 18-23 yr old girls like beyonce christina milian rihanna etc let’s not forget she’s a woman not a child so she looks like a woman. and i bet more of the people on this site look like mary ie:her skin color,facial structure,eye color than they look like beyonce. in closing i will send all my news to u via email and let u post them or send u the link to my site
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16.
Angel La
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
I never said you stole my shine. Someone else posted that. But you were wrong for posting that interview in like 3 different posts. All you had to do was e-mail me. LOL!
17.
Impossible
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
we should definately introduce them to the williams sisters….
Mess Meet Mess.. Hot Mess meet Hot Mess…
And they can live happily ever after!!!!!!!!
18.
Timeout
Thursday, April 20, 2006 /
WTF? The Hailey brothers done fell off! Poor K-ci is so messed up, he don’t even know he has that damn wig on. Jo-Jo must have alot of his mind, cause his head is big as hell :-)! It scared me at first, I thought Angel La had posted a picture of a alien.
Rick said it best- Cocaine is a hell of a drug.
19.
illdva
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
i read this interview he put Mary on blast something badly. But in his defense she’s been talking about how bad he was for years..guess he just got tired of it..but dayum!
20.
SHALOSH
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-CI LOOKS LIKE A PILE OF STEAMIN’ SHIT!!!
MARY WHAT DID YOU SEE IN THAT LUNP OF DUNGGGGGG?
I WILL NOT EVEN GO NEAR THE HAIR DO OR IN THIS CASE DON’T!!
21.
Lashae
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-CI look like HELL
22.
GA Gurl
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Somebody needs to SLAP him for that perm! Then he got it STYLED!! WTF? He talkin ’bout Mary on drugs. Maybe he got jealous and tried some too.
23.
Lashae
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
SOMEBODY PRAY 4 em
24.
asbury
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Damnnnnnnnn, I can’t believe he put Mary on blast like that.
I don’t know Mary does seem to have a lot of issues. Don’t me wrong I love her to death but damn sistah got issues.
I don’t know whether what K-ci says is true but it sure as hell does sound like Mary. MY sister went to college with Mary’s next door neighbor and he told some crazy ass stories about her and Tonya, so anything is possible.
The only thing that baffles me is why she continues to rehash the past when she’s “happily” married? I listened to Father whatever on the CD and K-ci was the first person I thought of listening to that song. Pray for her ya’ll.
25.
Elle B.
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
this article is damn near unbelieveable…i read it earlier today and the article is written by “staff”
*hmmmm*
(he could be somebody’s cousin and this is their ‘exclusive’)
26.
ME
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Mary - stop making the past your future by bringing it up - it’s taking away from the shine of your wonderful married life and unstoppable career.
He is obviously not worthy of bringing up - look at him and it sounds as though he is on the same s#$! - don’t validate him anymore by speaking about him.
You can still teach women about relationships without talking about him directly. I know it hurt (whether he was into you or not) if it hurt you then that’s understood but it’s time to bury the past.
27.
Badlilmoma
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
If any of you know any thing about Mary the things that he’s speaking on are things that have also come out of her mouth. So he is not bad mouthing her! But believe me I know every time she see that nucca she thanks her lucky stars……
28.
Omen
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
KC and Mary, them niggas should play Ike and Tina Turner in a Broadway stage show. Or better yet, may be KC and Jo-Jo can play the roles! After all, these two negros are starting to look like twins of Ike and Tina Turner that just happened to be separated at birth!!! Jo-Jo just needs a wig to play Tina…but I gotta admit, he’s already got the thighs for it!
29.
simplylovely_the1st
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I really don’t believe anything else out his mouth after he said “yes I gave her a ring, but I was never going to marry her.” Really?
30.
diva
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
why shouldnt he put her on blast? she’s been outting him on blast for YEARS. bout tim the brotha said his peice.
31.
LesbianBlackGurl
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Hell Naw k-Ci he can’t say sh*t bout nobody wit that umpalumpa lookin ass hair style!!!! He ought to be shame … Is he still on crack????
32.
J-SHYNE
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Well, even if all he said is true, it’s not gonna change that he’s an asshole. No matter what yall got thru, you should keep the private things low. That aint very nice you talking about her personal issues and all that crap about yall relationship like Mary did this, Mary did that. Hell, you wouldn’t like it if someone talking about your gay ass hair style or your drug problem. Show some respect to the woman that you were with. Oh he said he wasn’t with her? and bought her a ring huh? PLEASE.
33.
jaime del rio
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
i jus sent an interview that karrine steffans did on hot 97, to angela she may post the link it’s like 44 mins and is very graphic!! oral for 2 hrs til her nose bled!!!???
34.
dee dee
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I’m mad at Mary for making a video about this mess. This negro ain’t worth 2 cents and she is faaaaaaarrrrr better off without his arrested for tax evasion, relaxer with flip and bangs having ass! I would not have wasted my breath talking about his trashy ass. I hate men who talk dirty about women they have been with “She enjoyed it” MUTHA FUCKA YOU ENJOYED IT TOO! BITCH ASS!
35.
bialto
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I suggest that everybody downloads 2Pac’s “How Do You Want It” video, the uncut version. That’ll help you get a glimpse of how K-ci is livin.
36.
woah
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
When K-Ci says that he could lie and tell her she was beautiful, I don’t think he was trying to innsult her or implying that she’s an ugly woman. I believe he was saying that he could’ve lied and said she was beautiful in her drugged out state to make her feel better and calm her down, but he didn’t see how that would have helped her at the time.
37.
jaime del rio
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
bialto said:
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I suggest that everybody downloads 2Pac’s “How Do You Want It” video, the uncut version. That’ll help you get a glimpse of how K-ci is livin.
where can i get this send a link
38.
bialto
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
you’ve gotta get the video off of limewire. Go to limewire.com to and download the program (its free).
39.
Asia
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I’M SO SICK OF MARY BIG APPLEHEAD ASS. WOMEN YOU GOT MONEY, SOMEBODYS BABYDADDY’S AND HER KIDS PLEASE GO SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE ANYWHERE!!!!! WHY DO SHE THINK SHE ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE A SAD STORY??
40.
yardie-bad-gal
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
holy mary mother of jesus! is wha di hell wrong wid K-ci head! LMAO…u ppl r so FUNNY!!!!!!!!u guys keep me younger man…crack me up!…this is fucked up though, wat he’s sayin, i wonder how she took dis?…she was really a coke head back then,she had to have been man… LOOK @ HIM!!!
41.
Tyra
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
HE LOOK LIKE FLAVA FLAV MAMA. AND THAT’S FUCKED UP WHAT HE SAID ABOUT MARY COMING TO THE STUDIO DRUNK LOOKING FOR HIM. IT MAKE HER SOUND LIKE ONE OF THOSE PHYSCO CHICKS.
42.
Blushbaby
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
OMG!! WTF is going on with his hair?!!!
I saw Jodeci perform over here in London on Valentines Day and Devante was the one fllying th eflag for crackheads united but in that pic ..K-CI? WTF?! LOL
I believe what he’s saying in that interview, he’s got nothing to gain by going so deep and exposing her like that if it were lies.
43.
RUBI
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I HAVEN’T EVEN READ ALL OF THE COMMENTS YET, I JUST HAD TO SCROLL DOWN AND COMMENT ON KC—ALL I GOTTA SAY IS HE LOOK LIKE AL SHARPTON’S GREMLIN COUSIN
44.
uk chick
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
his comments on Queen Marry was uncalled for, it brings shame to him, now all be laughin at his ass for being a dumb ass.
45.
QUEEN
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
LOL U KILLED RUBI
46.
Earth
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I believe every word he says, I just can’t believe the look! Somebody told him wrong.
I say find the stylist and fine him/her.
47.
A_boogie
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
On the real it does sound mostly true but I do believe that a good dick will have you going a little crazy but at the same time he probally was mis leading her …. be real most men do that when they wantto keep you around.She does seem so sad all the time…damn mary cheer up we all have bad times in our lives but we have to get over it!
48.
Frivilous
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
He should be flattered that anyone would want to be with his crackhead ass.
49.
nina
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
They still love each other…
50.
Cutdashit79
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I am a BIG Jodeci fan, seeing K-Ci looking so crazy with that fucked up hair…I am wondering what is going on with him. The man can sing though.
51.
lovely80
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
First off, who in the hell does K.C. think he is? Vibe didn’t have anyone else to interview. Damn they are always trying to start something. And I guess they had to chose a ghetto a** crackhead to try and bring Mary down. So what he wasn’t attracted to her. He wanted to be free. Well, why he stay with her. He tryin to act like it was all in her head. And all my ladies feel me when I say good sex will sometimes have you trippin. Some women invest a lot of emotion into sex. To most women it’s not just a recreation. It is an action you take when you feel deep passion for someone. Gettin back on Crispy black K.C.Where’s his money? Better yet dude, where’s your career? He makes me sick, to look at that is. Don’t people bring black women down enough as it is? This so tacky of Vibe to even get his point of view. He’s talking about she was a druggy but who introduced her to the drugs. He’s a damn bum. And yea I am very angry with this. I really respect Mary J. She been in tha game since she was about 18 years old and she still makin hits. And she’s married to a really good man with enough money to buy her a mall. So what now K.C. Who the F**K are you supposed to be? Still living that lavish life of yours. Yeah, you looked like you lived the hell out of it with your gremblin a**.
52.
E
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I am glad you posted this because I was wondering why Mary has been talking about their relationship for over the past 10+ years. She is married and has moved on with her life. I understand that she has been hurt but leave the past in the past. Now it seems like she exploiting that particular relationship to make money. She has had other relationships after K-Ci and they weren’t that great but she keeps focusing on her relationship with K-Ci. Let it go Mary! I love you to death but she really needs to let it go.
53.
trick please
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-Ci look like Ms. jay from ANTM
and as for his comments about Mary -Ouch!
54.
E
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-Ci hair does look crazy but I have seen a more recent picture of him and his hair is no longer looking like that. Anyway, he ain’t no different from most of these guys out here who are 20 years old and rich. I am sure she knew what time it was with him. I do not know why everybody is bashing him. They both should kept their business to themselves. Honestly, I think it is tacky on both parts. But, I guess, he feels like he is getting a bad rap because everytime you turn around she is bringing this shit up.
55.
Blushbaby
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Yeah he does look like Ms Jay!!! LMAO!!
56.
BigDaddyK
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Dat dude K-Ci is lookin CRAZY!!! He’s the new 3rd member of Outkast…Andre250!!!
57.
mamilinda
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
LOL @ #56 - yes, he does look very………. interesting. It’s time for him to cut the relaxer off. For real.
58.
LOL
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
This interview is a fake, it has been circulating for a week and it is a confirmed fake interview. Even if it is real KCi aint saying nothing that mary hasnt said a million times. People need to stop hating on Mary by acting like KCi is blowing up her spot Mary herself has testified about being a mess so this aint nothiing new. ANyways Mary ALWAYS wins this battle cause she has won the game of life and KCi is a washed up has been who only gets press when talking about his ex girlfriend. His manhood must seriously be hurt by that.
59.
LOL
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
This interview is a fake, i repeat this interview is a fake this has already been confirmed that it is fake
60.
lala
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Oh lawdy. Who let him walk out of the house looking like that. He obviously has no real friends
61.
mia
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
all i gotta say is: what the hell was k-ci thinking with that damn angela bassett hairdo? uh, he know he ain’t right for that shit right there.
62.
candi
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I really believe the things he said, the only thing I’m shady on is the marriage thing. I think he did propose to her. But off the subject does anyone know where I can see a recent pic of Devante? Everyone says he looks like a H.A.M and I want to see it for myself.
63.
jaime del rio
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
i think she’s a really good singer and that she has already told people about her life and shih if this is fake or not it matters just a bit what really matters is that she is better sexually physically spiritually.
obviously she aint over the gecko looking ball of mierda lol. b/c she’s writing songs bout being cheated on this that and i don’t/won’t believe she has done coke
64.
nena
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Confirmed fake by who? This is not from Vibe magazine its from Blackvibe.com.. does that mean its fake though? I believe everything his dusty ass is saying even though Mary’s my girl.. she probably doesn’t think shes lucky to be without him seein him now.. she prolly think she coulda changed that nigga if he had only stayed wit her. Women think that way.
65.
nena
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
How do u not think Mary hss done coke?? Shes a self admitted ex coke head?? Thats why shes reachin out to Witty Hutton!!!
66.
Key from the City
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-CI need to talk to his cousin Fantasia and find out what perm she using cause the one he got ain’t working.
K-Ci really isn’t saying anything new. I believe most of what he said about Mary since she has stated this herself. But I know he did propose to her…even if it was to keep the peace. Now he looking like a cracked-out Mr. Hanky the Christmas Poo. And he broke. He wish he was with Mary now.
67.
Stephen
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-CI looks like a cross between JJ Evans, Whitney Houston, and the comic dog Marmaduke…..Just a hot damn mess!!! Someone needs to put a coat over him and try again
68.
Activist Mamma
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
In Mary’s defense, sometimes it’s hard to get over a relationship when you thought you were in love…I think we’ve all been there…I admit that I have…Even if the person was wrong for you, which is obvious that K-Ci was for Mary, some people take longer to “get over” things than others and I think that since Mary is finally in a good place in her life, she can put closure to her relationship with K-Ci..I personally wouldn’t have make a video about it but I’m not her..Maybe that was her way of finally letting go of the past..Remember y’all, Mary was admittedly heavy into drugs and drinking back then..The life of an addict is something that I can’t even pretend to know…I’m just so happy that Mary has found love in Kendu..She looks so much better now than in her “My Life” “Share My World” days…Keep on making that beautiful music, Mary…
As for K-Ci, I, like everyone else wants to know, WHAT’S UP WIT DA HAIR???? “Pimp Daddy” troll doll!!
69.
Saylove
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-Ci needs to shut the hell up! And stop trying to make it look like Mary still wants him if he’s been paying any attention to what she been saying these days about how she used to be he would know that she is only talking about the past and his dumb ass is apart of her PAST. I have five words for him REHAB!
70.
speakinmymind
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
LOL said:
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This interview is a fake, it has been circulating for a week and it is a confirmed fake interview. Even if it is real KCi aint saying nothing that mary hasnt said a million times. People need to stop hating on Mary by acting like KCi is blowing up her spot Mary herself has testified about being a mess so this aint nothiing new. ANyways Mary ALWAYS wins this battle cause she has won the game of life and KCi is a washed up has been who only gets press when talking about his ex girlfriend. His manhood must seriously be hurt by that.
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I was thinking the exact same thing…well said!
71.
carolina_girl
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
K-CI probably was telling some truth in the matter, but Mary needs to move on. After making making the hit song “No More Drama”, why is she reliving old history. I understand feelings will never completely go away but she’s married with two step-children, get over it. I think its sad how she has looked for love in all the wrong places, and how now she want to relive that dangerous past with a song. Its sick and immoral..
72.
Trenee
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
You are straight out of line for that picture of K-Ci! LMAO!
73.
Trenee
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
Do him and Money Mike get their hair done at the same place?
74.
Omen
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
I must admit that after reading this article…I have to agree with KC. This is no dis to Mary (from me)…nor do I feel that KC was dis’n her! I’ll put it this way…when you are with somebody special, if they really love you, nobody can take them away from you! And if a person needs to leave a relationship, you just simply have to let them go and wish them well. Even though your first instinctive impulse is to fight for them and convince them to stay, it can reach the point of you seeming like a stalker or a troubled soul of another variety.
Showing a person your continued need or desperation to be with them can often frighten away the object of your desire even if you mean them no harm or disrespect. It’s important for you to give them space in order to show them that you can stand on your own and go on and have a positive relationship with another person. Many times, it is something as little and non confrontational as that which may cause that special someone (who has pushed you away) to give you a second look…because they realize what they are missing.
Anger and hostility is a turn off to most men…as there can’t be two dominant forces in a romance. It can feel like the woman is competing with her man for the right to wear the pants in the relationship. Mary’s attempts to fight for her man against perceived rivals were actually acting to emasculate KC…and ultimately, drove a wedge between the two of them.
Believe me…when dealing with these kinds of issues, the best revenge, is no revenge! Put on a brave face and live a good healthy life. Don’t ever show your pain or longing for the person who broke your heart. You’ll find that it is that very action that will, more likely then not, attract your lover back to you! Call it a little healthy measure of reverse psychology if you will!
It’s strange, but true!
Peace, and goodluck to you.
75.
Ginger
Friday, April 21, 2006 /
That DOES sound like Mary!
And I can understand what he’s saying; after all, he was the frontman for Jodeci which is one of the sexiest R&B groups EVER (in terms of the music, not the looks). I’m sure they had groupies out the ass, so I can see him not wanting to settle down.
But hey! If not for this painful relationship, we probably never would have the brilliant, timeless album “My Life”, so I gotta say: Thanks, K-Ci!
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