That hair if killing me. Look at the bangs. Someones actually took time to do this. I keep thinking this is what Miss Jay would look like if He got a hold of a bad batch of coke. Unacceptable!!!

The Al Sharpton perm….I gave her a ring but didn’t want to marry, if that’s not misleading then what is.

he is a real crackhead he be in cali looking like he just hit the pipe.

let us pray for these rich crack heads.

why do crack when you get money? beats me.

not one time did he ever mention if he whooped mary a** and if that was all in her head too-he was a playa and this is what playas do mislead, I find it very hard to believe that he was that blunt with mary and his words matched his actions (not sleeping with her) that she continued to pursue him-and what was the ring all about? mary my girl no matter what and even though there is probably some truth to this interview, it shows that k-ci doesn’t have any class to put her on blast like that.

LMAO, YALL TOO DAMN CRAZY!

I AGREE THAT MARY ALWAYS GOT TO BE SAD, HER AND TONI B, BOTH OF THEM GOT MONEY AND DECENT LOOKING MEN, WHAT YOU CRYING FOR, DAMN?

Referring back to Comment #41…
HE DOES look like Flavor Flav’s mother

On another note i was having a bad day today and then i once again saw the picture of KCi and JOJO and you know what im feeling better cause looking at KCI im laughing and realizing it could always be worse. ALso somewhere Mary is laughing too and crying because she was actually heartbroken over that creature, thats is how weak her mentality was back then and mary has admitted that too.

Thanks KCI was for the pickme up my brother, with yo ashy ass. YOu’s a mess oh my im still laughing

Ok… what is up wit ole boys hair, that is night tight, he is not prince, so he is not allowed to wear his hair like tha. What and ugly guy (K-CI)and mary was going crazy over that, he must had the bomb because he is no where near attractive, he looks like a gremlin. Mary is pretty, i see he likes the lighter skinned females, he must not find darker skinned females attrative. If i was mary i would be clowning his ugly azz right now, instead of sobing about the pass. Forget him…

no he didnt say he wasnt attracted to her. and about the sex…shit im sure his dick aint gold. im glad Mary found somethin good out there.

Shut up fools…I’m K-CI Biiiitch!

What was the incident that happened in the past and involved Mary and the Vibe Awards??

Someone said that Kendau has enough money to buy Mary a mall. Actually, I think Mary was the one with the $$ straight up from the beginning. I still think that they are in love and that her husband is probably the best thing that has happened to her. She needs to erase the memory of this hideous monster from her memory. KC = Cracked Out Gremlin!

i miss jodeci so much- they really need to get themselves right and come back!
i rember watching their concert late night on bet back middle school wishing i was grown enough to do something with dalvin.

KC
What the hell is up with that flip ish???!!

Man I am lmbao with this one…I just cant stop..anways just listen to the lyrics to enough cryin and you can tell she’s in better place (although some references sounds like she could be talkin about KC)…and Im glad she didnt do the marriage setup for the video..it would of confimed what he said in the interview…still cracking up

K-ci you should be happy to even be associated with Mary J.

I believe K-CI, Mary looks like she a fucking insecure drama queen. I know women like that who looks to a man to make them happy. A lesson to all you bitches, you a not happy within yourself no one can make you happy.

K-ci did Mary a huge favor back in the day by not marrying her. I know she thanks God every day that she doesn’t have to wake up to THAT every morning!

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle!

Why is this man making a statement on anything when he is out in public with a perm in his hair and flips not to mention the bang? I am sooooooo mad at him for that!!He better stop playing, right now. He is just pissed cause Mary put him out on front street! It must be true. Because all he has to say is that he didn’t want to marry her. So what, and Thank God for that or she wouldn’t be where she is today.

“She would always say how much she hated her big feet. She would complain about the scares on her face she got from fighting girls around her neighborhood in Yonkers. She wanted me to make her feel pretty. I couldn’t. She was just a woman to me. I didn’t see her the way people look at Halle Berry, Robin Givens or Vanessa Williams. She was just a regular woman. That was fine with me, but it wasn’t fine with Mary. She didn’t feel good about herself. Even with the clothes, the hairstyles and the jewelry, she didn’t feel worthy.”

Hoping you’re right and that this article is fake, although it might very well be real because that new song and video of hers do seem like a description of her relationship w/K-Ci…

I believe the things he’s saying because Mary has confirmed them herself. TRUTH IS…women do get caught up with good sex, but we can REALLY get caught up in just having a man to be with, to be around. He probably did lead her on a little bit, but it’s completely feasible that Mary was turning their unofficial situation into the fairytale she always wanted– just like so many of us do. If those things occurred, they helped her grow, and we can’t be mad at that.

I know she’s known for her sad songs, etc…they do generate the most support (damn, what does that say about her listening audience..lol), however, as long as she’s just making the music for women to appreciate and find strength in, then I’m happy. If she’s rehashing the past because she can’t let go –while she’s moved on to a loving marriage and step-kids– there’s a serious problem.

At the end of the day, I hope she is enjoying her life and over that busted fool.

What I am mad at tho is that current pic of K-Ci. And damn, are times that bad that he & Jojo have to wear those funky threads?! Coooooooome on. There’s no way that’s a recent photo. lmao

wow what happenned to him…one minute you singing “All My Life” next you singing…..help me out

Who got the sherm? Mary was a fiend too. I have no respect for either of those clowns.

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Yeah he does look like Ms Jay!!! LMAO!!
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Oh so true! LOL!

On the real yall… Im thinking K-Ci may just be mad cuz Mary on top and he done fell off. She got a hot album,new man,etc and he has….a grandma perm! Man,get da fucc out-a here lookin like a fake-ass Andre 3000!!!LmAo

K-Ci looks like a hot ass mess, He tried put MJB on blast but everything he said she already said it in interviews as well as her music he is just trying to bring some shine to himself(KCi) MJB still have her shit on lock regardless(KCi needs to reference song MOTIVATION by T.I and try again) MJB music is theraphy and also a testimony for her fans who are still in relationships like that. Whatever she saw in ass we will never know but from the looks of that picture he looks like an alcoholic and a crackhead. GET IT TOGETHER BRO and stop tryin to get your SHINE in a negative way , and she never said his name so why he automatically assume she is talkin about him unless it’s TRUE.

let it marinate!!!

WTF, since when did Vibe have interviews with misspelled words in them? This interview is fake and lame all at the same time, It was just someone trying to be clever and just switch Mary’s words around, this is an insipid little parlor game. For those real hip hop fans, go back to the Word Up! Interviews, MTV unplugged interviews and it will blow all of this out of the water, trust me….and truth be told, Why would K-Ci have to rebuke this shit now after all these years ? She has been keeping it real, telling the truth from jump street so shit like this can’t come back and make her look stupid, but this article was a nice try though.

k-c look a hot mess god damn

I believe what he’s saying are facts…HIS version of the facts. This sounds like a classic thing that tired, weak brothas like him do to incredible women that don’t know their incredible. It sounds like he straight up lead her own, using her neediness and insecurities to his advantage. I don’t beleive women get caught up in sex to that degree. There’s too much good you know what in the world…and let’s be for real…broke, ugly and bad built, a woman can get sex when she can’t get a glass of water.

But, when you have good intimacy mixed with someone that you’re really feeling, and who YOU THINK is really feeling you, and who keeps you at bay but at the same won’t let you go, the HELL yeah you gone trip.

I don’t agree with making a fool of yourself publicly, I think being his fool is quite enough humiliation. However, my road growing up was different from Mary’s and so are the sources of my insecurities so I can’t judge how she expresses her pain. But I can damn sure identify with the feeling.

KC knew what Mary wanted from him MUCH better than she knew just how little he wanted to give it. He gave her just enough to string her along without giving her affirmation. In many women’s minds, when you think you’re with someone who cares about you, and wouldn’t hurt you like that, you tend to be able to convince yourself that their indecisiveness in nothing more than that. And the men knw this as well, which is why they do it. Come on now, you got a so-called crazy woman who comes to your studio drunk and picks fights with women you’re with, who you KNOW wants to be your wife…so you buy her a ring???

He played on her weakness, and it’s messed up. But it just shows how weak he is. He said himself she had a troubled past, and that that was the source of her insecurities. Knowing all that, why would he play with her more. If anything, understanding her volatility and vulnerableness, you would think he would be even more clear and concise in his dealings with her, than he would a more balanced woman. Even if it meant writing it out in bold letters on neon paper. But I don’t think he ever wanted her to get the message clearly, b/c that would mean him losing out. ]

And for alll of you saying that she hasn’t let go of her feelings than him, I think you have to realize it’s much deeper than that. She’s probably been over him. But I knwo from first hand experience it’s much harder to get over the damage to your self-esteem, especially when it’s already battered by other things. You should never look to somebody to make you better, take your pain away or trust them to hold you down, b/c you lose a lot if they drop the ball. But depending on the scarcity of your family situation it’s easy to look for that in somebody else. That can hurt three-fold, when you wake up to realize not only was the person not there for you, but they were playing with your pain .

Sorry to get sappy on here. But I really like Mary J., and I know how these things can be. Self-esteem is what ultimately defines a person and their happiness in life. Not what happens to them, but how they interpret it internally. It’s sad if Mary is still dealing with pain after this many years.
I hope the recurrence of the sad songs is just to boost her sales and not a reflection of how she’s feeling these days

Even though I don’t like all that dumb shit she said about her God wanting her to “bling”, and I love K-Ci’s voice…he shouldn’t have spilled the beans. He obviously is so talented and doesn’t need the publicity. Thats fucked up K-Ci Hailey.

OF COURSE K-CI IS TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT MARY.

MARY ADMITTED TO EVERY SINGLE THING HE MENTIONED IN THAT ARTICLE. THIS WAS THE SAME TIME SHE WAS ON DRUGS & DRINKING LIKE A FISH. SAME TIME SHE WOULD SHOW UP @ PERFORMANCES IN OUTFITS WHERE SHE’D WEAR “MID DRIFT TOPS” WITH HER BELLY JIGGLING ALL OVER THE PLACE/SHORT SKIRTS WITH THOSE LONG KNEE HIGH BOOTS-THEIGHS THICK & CELLULITE…UUUGH!!

MARY WAS A “WHITNEY” BACK THEN FOR REAL!! I JUST HOPE SHE DOESN’T TRY & SAY THAT “HE IS LYING” MAKING HERSELF LOOK LIKE A “LIAR” TOO BECAUSE SHE HAS TOLD THIS “SAME STORY” OF HER LIFE IN NUMEROUS…COUNTLESS INTERVIEWS IN “PRINT & ON TV”!!!

THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT SHE NEVER “REVEALED” WHO SHE WAS “DATING” @ THE TIME! EVERYONE FIGURED IT WAS WHEN SHE WAS WITH “K-CI” ANYWAY. I BELIEVE HIM–THAT WAS MARY BACK THEN THE R&B HIP HOP DIVA WE LEARNED TO LOVE & HATE @ THE SAME DAMN TIME.

THE SAD PART (some of which I can’t understand is…) WHY AFTER ALL THESE YEARS–DOES SHE DECIDE TO RELEASE AN ALBUM FIGHTING HER PAST DEMONS FROM A “RELATIONSHIP” SHE HAD PREVIOUS TO “HER HUSBAND”?? THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU “THINK” YOU HAVE CONQUERED ALL YOUR INSECURITIES & DEMONS WHEN U REALLY HAVE NOT!

SHE WAS TIRED OF PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT HER VIOLENT RAGES & OUT BURSTS, TIRED OF PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT HOW SHE DRESSES & LOOKS DURING HER PERFORMANCES….SHE CLEANS HERSELF UP, GETS OFF THE DRUGS & ALCOHOL, LOSES WEIGHT & WORKS OUT, GETS NEW CLOTHES, GETS A NEW SET OF BREASTS FINDS A GOOD MAN-MARRIES HIM—TESTIFIES IN HER NEW FOUND FAITH IN GOD & SPIRITUALITY—PUTS OUT A NEW ALBUM etc & DISAPPEARS FOR A MINUTE. WOOOW–MARY IS FINALLY “HAPPY”!-SHE EVEN DID “OPRAH” (she is definately doing BIG things now)…

THEN…All OF SUDDEN…SHE IS DROPPING A NEW ALBUM WITH “DEPRESSING” SONGS “AGAIN”! APPEARED ON “TYRA” TELLING THE “SAME STORIES” SHE TOLD YEARS AGO…(she refused to tell TYRA how she got the SCAR on her face she so proudly displayed on one of her album covers).

BUT WHAT IS MARY’S PROBLEM? I’M STARTING TO BELIEVE SHE IS CRAZY TOO…& ONLY GOT MARRIED IN AN ATTEMPT TO CURE HER PAIN, GOT IMPLANTS IN AN ATTEMPT TO CHANGE HER FORMER SELF INTO A NEW IMAGE….HELL-IF SHE COULD MAKE HER FEET SMALLER I BET SHE WOULD.

ISSUES-ISSUES-ISSUES!!

Why give someone a ring if you don’t mean it? What a tease…

mary got implants? thats news to me.. i thought she got the scars fightin in Yonkers

So what if it is true …nobody is perfect in this life and everybody got flaws..Mary,keep doing your thing girl and remember that time heals all wounds…KC needs to just crawl back into hiding from the jungle with his frog/skunk looking a** and climb up a damn tree somewhere

What in the deep fried hell is wrong with his hair? He thought if he let it grow he would have good hair or something? Awwww Hellz NO. Let me find out this fool go to my hairdresser.

THis MOFO is a confused mess. Here it is damn near 2007 and this Negro still high?!!!
I hope Mary somewhere laughing her Azzz off!

@she’s so clever:

Yes, you are girl…because that was extremely insightul and very well-written. And so true, you broke that whole dynamic down beautifully. I know because I’ve been there as have many of us.

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What was the incident that happened in the past and involved Mary and the Vibe Awards??

She was making an acceptance speech at the Vibe Awards and called out the editor/art director? because they used a pic with the top of her head cut off for the cover making her look all crazy.

Then the editor/art director got all unprofessional and responded with a LONNNNg letter on the vibe website/next issue of VIBE chastizing her for her behavior. It was a mistake for Mary to go public with her complaints, it was downright ig-nent and uprofessional for VIBE mag to respond in public.

kindanice

this picture just messed up my night!!!

okay, now I read the article. I think some of what he has to say is true, but I’m trippin on the fact that he constantly brings up Mary’s former drug habit. I was a big Jodeci fan back in the day and DRUGS is the reason they still haven’t come out with an album, a reunion tour or anything in 10 years.

someone looks dry and ashy…get that man (?) some vaseline….

Question. If he felt this way about her, why did he tattoo Mary’s name on his neck?

Kindanice - Thanks for the info!

K-Ci look like Ms. jay from ANTM

I WAS ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING AT THIS COMMENT

MY CHEST IS ABOUT TO HURT, Y’ALL ARE SILLY

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I believe what he’s saying are facts…HIS version of the facts. This sounds like a classic thing that tired, weak brothas like him do to incredible women that don’t know their incredible. It sounds like he straight up lead her own, using her neediness and insecurities to his advantage. I don’t beleive women get caught up in sex to that degree. There’s too much good you know what in the world…and let’s be for real…broke, ugly and bad built, a woman can get sex when she can’t get a glass of water.

But, when you have good intimacy mixed with someone that you’re really feeling, and who YOU THINK is really feeling you, and who keeps you at bay but at the same won’t let you go, the HELL yeah you gone trip.

I don’t agree with making a fool of yourself publicly, I think being his fool is quite enough humiliation. However, my road growing up was different from Mary’s and so are the sources of my insecurities so I can’t judge how she expresses her pain. But I can damn sure identify with the feeling.

KC knew what Mary wanted from him MUCH better than she knew just how little he wanted to give it. He gave her just enough to string her along without giving her affirmation. In many women’s minds, when you think you’re with someone who cares about you, and wouldn’t hurt you like that, you tend to be able to convince yourself that their indecisiveness in nothing more than that. And the men knw this as well, which is why they do it. Come on now, you got a so-called crazy woman who comes to your studio drunk and picks fights with women you’re with, who you KNOW wants to be your wife…so you buy her a ring???

He played on her weakness, and it’s messed up. But it just shows how weak he is. He said himself she had a troubled past, and that that was the source of her insecurities. Knowing all that, why would he play with her more. If anything, understanding her volatility and vulnerableness, you would think he would be even more clear and concise in his dealings with her, than he would a more balanced woman. Even if it meant writing it out in bold letters on neon paper. But I don’t think he ever wanted her to get the message clearly, b/c that would mean him losing out. ]

And for alll of you saying that she hasn’t let go of her feelings than him, I think you have to realize it’s much deeper than that. She’s probably been over him. But I knwo from first hand experience it’s much harder to get over the damage to your self-esteem, especially when it’s already battered by other things. You should never look to somebody to make you better, take your pain away or trust them to hold you down, b/c you lose a lot if they drop the ball. But depending on the scarcity of your family situation it’s easy to look for that in somebody else. That can hurt three-fold, when you wake up to realize not only was the person not there for you, but they were playing with your pain .

Sorry to get sappy on here. But I really like Mary J., and I know how these things can be. Self-esteem is what ultimately defines a person and their happiness in life. Not what happens to them, but how they interpret it internally. It’s sad if Mary is still dealing with pain after this many years.
I hope the recurrence of the sad songs is just to boost her sales and not a reflection of how she’s feeling these days
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Um that is a bit much for one person to write for a small, waste of time topic like this one don’t you think?

K-Ci looks like a broke ass Money Mike…

that picture is old actually, proabably a few years old. k-ci’s hair is not like that now, thank god… did any of you in the U.S watch the pre grammy show thingy, how could he grow his hair that fast… & i saw jodeci in concert recently (feb 06),his hair is definately not in that mess, so get your facts right peeps… i think this interveiw might be fake, but who cares, it is their ‘passa passa’ which is just old now… and if it is fake, the person that wrote it has A LOT of time on their hands

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“Question. If he felt this way about her, why did he tattoo Mary’s name on his neck?”

Good Answer, Good Answer!!!

@simplylovely_the1st comment 118:

No, it’s not a wast of time. I was going to get down like that but I could not formulate my words. I was tired of people making his drug induced comments seem like it’s all Mary’s fault for sharing her world with us.

50 cent talks about getting shot every 3rd second but you don’t here people talking about he should move on, get over it. How u get over a MOFO shooting you 9 times? He’s going to remember that every time he look in his mouth at his wounds. (one shot went in the jaw). Well it’s the same for Mary. She remembers those wounds inflicted on her by an X-lover, that can only get press (in the magazine she has beef with) by talking about an affair that has been over for roughly 10 years. She is going to remember those wounds everytime she tries to love. She learned love wrong the first time, now she is tring to learn to love right. She is just bringing us on her journey. And she is multiplatinum because of it. And what is he now? Paper?

Actually, He was the one ranting, maybe HE is not over it!

Shoot, I be alright till somebody piss me off. Then I start typing like I’m on crack. Early in the damn morning. Let me go get some cereal. I’ll holla.

Maybe, just maybe, one never REALLY moves on from their past. That’s probably what’s up with MJB.

Does that fool own a mirror? That little dried up nigger was always ugly, but DAYUM! Love is sho nuff blind, ain’t it? Or maybe it was the drugs, Mary?

what god name iz wrong with his hair he try tell use he goin as a gurl becuase that shit dont look right or cute., iam sorry k.ci try with the prem… boo boo

WAKE UP PEOPLE!!! First off, KC…..yezzzurrr…..KC-Crack head-Haley…aught to be kissen every corner of Mary’s ass right about now. Can we say LOO-HUUUU–HUUU–ZEEERR!!In every sense of the freeken word. That article shoulda went something like, “my bad Mary, girl, I know I fucked up, please stay, for a little while, forget about yesterdayyyyyy, I’m beggen please stay, cause I really need you to come back home, Im on bended knee, please stay” (cause Im broke as hell and my whole group is on crack and washed up). Im sure Mary J. was the best thing that every happened to dude. Even if she had issues…back then, what woman didnt go to her mans job/studio and get krunk when he need some act right?

OK FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DONT QUITE UNDERSTAND THE NAME OF THE ALBUM IS “BREAKTHROUGH” AND THE TRUE MJB FANS KNOW HOW TO DECIPHER THE MESSAGE WITHIN IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE ALBUM GO BUY IT AND YOU WILL FIND OUT THAT SHE SPEAKS ON HER FATHER, HER FAMILY AND HER HUSBAND SOME PEOPLE PAY THERAPIST AND SOME PEOPLE FIND SOLACE ELSEWHERE AND ON HER LAST ALBUM SHE CAUGHT SO MUCH FLAK FROM SOME OF HER FANS BECAUSE THEY FELT SHE FORGOT ABOUT THEM (THE ONES WHO ARE STILL GOING THRU) AND I REALLY DON’T KNOW WHY KCI IS TRIPPING OFF THIS THE PLAIN MSG IN THE SONG IS SOME THING DON’T WORK OUT AND ARE NOT MEANT TO BE SO MOVE ON ENOUGH CRYIN ANY WAY I’M DONE IF YOU DON’T GET IT BY NOW YOU WON’T

KEEP IT REAL

HELL YEAH MARY GOT IMPLANTS!!! (where were you)?

SHE “ADMITTED” IT ON “WENDY WILLIAMS” RADIO SHOW WHEN THEY WERE “BRAND NEW”! It was obvious to me because one minute she’s in a poster on my bedroom wall damn near flat chested in a bra top.

And a few years later she is featured in VIBE magazine with a pair of FULL C cups or a D cup breasts bulging from a bra top?

yeah boo-she got IMPLANTS around the same time LIL KIM got hers (remember when they were BEST FRIENDS–MARY & LIL KIM)?

& yeah she got the scars from a fight in YONKERS but she REFUSED to tell TYRA where the scar came from when TYRA asked her.

(I thought TBOZ from TLC cut her face “back stage” at an Awards Show some years back—there was this BIG thing with TLC confronting MARY because she “supposedly” was trying to hit on “DALVIN” (of JODECI-he was with TBOZ at that time) & LEFT EYE or TBOZ had slashed her face back stage over accusations that MARY was tryna take her MAN (DALVIN & DEVANTE were the “GOOD LOOKS” of JODECI—K-CI & JO JO—were the “GOOD VOICES” LOL..

I DONT KNOW HOW TRUE THAT STORY WAS…BUT THAT WAS THE “STORY OF THE SCAR” BACK THEN…

TBOZ & LEFT EYE WERE “OFF-THE-HOOK” TOO (without being on DRUGS)!! MARY was with K-CI during that time-that’s how the CONFLICT started (JODECI). PLUS MARY was on DRUGS & ALCOHOL at that time.

WHO ELSE REMEMBERS THAT STORY?….there was an article written about it & every thing.

EITHER CASE…MARY refused to tell “TYRA BANKS” how the SCAR happened.

only one doing any “crying” over having broken up with K-CI is…

MARY!! (NOT K-CI!!!)

SHE’s BEEN CRYING OVER THAT BREAK UP FOR YEARS!!! THIS IS HONESTLY THE FIRST TIME AFTER ALL THESE YEARS I AM HEARING K-CI SPEAK ABOUT THAT RELATIONSHIP!!

I NEVER BEEN A BIG “MARY J BLIGE” FAN. AFTER HER FIRST ALBUM..I (was a teenager back then) LEFT HER POSTER ON MY WALL (for a while) BECAUSE THE POSTER WAS NICE BUT…

SOMETHING ABOUT HER NEVER SET WELL WITH ME…HER ATTITUDE—something was off. I LIKED ALOT OF HER SONGS BECAUSE OF THE “BEATS”…her LYRICS got tired man!! SAME DAMN ISSUES WITH HER! EVERY ALBUM…

I EVENTUALLY STOPPED BUYING HER ALBUMS & IF SHE HAD A “HOT” SONG OUT I’D BURN A CD (& put various artists on it).

MARY NEEDS HELP! (professionally) LOOK @ K-CI!!! MARY NEEDS TO GET A GRIP. HE MUST HAVE TURNED HER OUT IN THE BEDROOM. LOL

mary j is one crazy woman! wat ever was she thinkin! well i guess she wasnt!…is he still on drugs? leave di perm up to snoop fool it aint doing shit fa U!…he does look like a cross between flava momma and neyo’s mamma with a little bit a Mamma Combs thrown in for good measure! LOL :0

I haven’t read all of these posts but I can say that I believe everything he said in this interview. Mary has admitted many times in interviews that she is very insecure. She even said it again recently on Lil’Kim’s “going away to jail” party on MTV.

I hope she has found happiness with her husband, Kendu.

Heavens! K-Ci and that hair has got to go! Whewwwwwww!!!!

See, I know about those little, skinny Negroes like K-Ci. They be packing!!!!:-) He whipped it on her and she went crazy!

what ever happened to Mr. Dalvin anyway with his fine chocolate self….

He looks like a corpse. I think he’s on that new Whitney and Bobby diet, CRACK!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m out

K-ci is an asshole. He is such a lair, he is just mad cause mary is doing big things and he is just a hater. Mary got a real man, she don’t need that punk ass nigga in her life. I can’t beleive he would tell all……her shit out like that. But mary got at him on that song Eough cryin. So…FUCK U K-CI.

I gotta agree with a lot of y’all. Mary has said all these things about herself before, so its not like he’s lying. She’s the one who keeps bringing it up by writing and releasing songs about it. Damn, the man does have the right to defend himself, however bad his perm may be.

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i miss jodeci so much- they really need to get themselves right and come back!
i rember watching their concert late night on bet back middle school wishing i was grown enough to do something with dalvin.

Me too. I still listen to the music; it is timeless.

Call me crazy but are we all just making the assumption that K-CI has been the only one she has been with since Kendu? I mean I know she has talked about K-CI previously but that doesn’t mean she hasn’t had other bad relationships. I think he might be giving himself alot more credit for her sad love songs than is actually due. I know I’m late as hell but I had to speak my peace. Holla…

AS for all of that nonsense from K-Ci: Come on, where has he been with the comments about Mary’s songs after all this time? Mary has had a bad relationship song on damn near EVERY album she has had out! Oh because she was still going though her shit then it wasn’t a problem and didn’t offend his weak ass ego? I was a BIG Jodeci fan back in the day, and his ass is crazy! Mary has always made it known about the stuff she used to do. If people would pay attention to what Mary says when she does interviews, she aleays thanks all of her fans who have been with her all through her career. She says she also realizes that while a lot of her fans have moved on and made their breakthrough with her, a lot still have not, and she didn’t want to leave them out, so she make songs for them to be able to relate to. Those songs are to let her fans know that yes, she’s been through this too, and you can make it out and get to the point she’s at in her life.
K-Ci is just mad because she put his ass out there, and she not high or drunk anymore, and she’s doing her damn thing. And while we’re at it, while he’s running his damn mouth trying to have an attitude, why didn’t he tell about those charges he has on his ass in a couple of states for that indecent shit he was pulling on stage. The last time I checked, MJB can go anywhere in the US she wants, but his stupid ass CAN’T! Warrants will do that for you!

WHAT THE F*CK? HE LOOKS LIKE SH*T N0W AND I BET HE WISHES HE STAYED WITH MARY… OMG HE LOOKS BAD!

I just feel that Mary should move on with her NEW life and leave the past behind. I like both MJB and JODECI as artists. I still listen to JODECI as well. They will always be one of my ALL TIME favorite R&B groups w/ issues! ;0)

Too much drama for me to even comment on!

Damn, I love Jodeci but what tha f**k is wrong with yo boi K-Ci. Why does he have that premature baby perm on his head. At least Jo-Jo looks like he got some sense. K-Ci, stop hanging around crazy ass Devante!!! He’s bad 4 you.(Wake-up nigga!!!)

Disturbing!!! MARY NEED TO GET IT TOGETHER. I FEEL K CI BUT NOT HIS HAIR. I HAD THE SAME PROBLEMS WITH MY BABY MAMA. WOMEN FRONT LIKE THEY HAVE IT TOGETHER AND WHEN THE SITUATION PREESENTS ITSELF THEY BLOW UP LIKE THEY SAID THEY WOULD NEVER DO. MARY STILL SINGING ABOUT THAT RELATIONSHIP AFTER A WHOLE DECADE YES 10 WHOLE YEARS IM TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT THE SHIT AND ITS NOT MY RELATIOBNSHIP. SE MUST NOT FEEL SECURE WITH HER MARRIGE IF SHE KEEP TALKING ABOUT WHAT THEY HAD, AFTER SEEING K CI & JO JO ON TUPAC X RATED HOW DO YOU WANT VIDEO ITS CLEAR HOW HE WANTED TO LIVE HIS LIFE NOT TIED DOWN.

#143 I AGREE. MARY J HAS TOO MANY INNER ISSUES FOR ANY MAN TO HANDLE. I BELIEVE EVERY WORD KI-C SAID.

@6-07 I agree with you. He is talking that trash now trying to save face. We were jocking him like a tenth of a minute cause he could sing. But the ugly took over and we were like WTF. His career was over just like that. Now Mary is still turning heads. When she did Oprah that was it( she had “O” crying). Now he sitting around looking like a drag queen. Talking and looking like -ish.

k-ci’s a fucking bitch! he shows all the signs that he was in love w/ mary. maybe still is. but i know 4 a fact that mary is over him.she might have a terrible thing happen to her when she was with kci that he did. c’mon mary has always been really open and i dont think she’s lying about the whole abusing ike & tina stuff.but other than that he a jacked up hoe he even said it,thats only if the interview is true? he even said “i wasnt ready to settle down w/ anybody i was going out with different women everyday”im glade mary got kendu and them 2 little kids. he shows all da steps he was in love with her

1) he gave her a ring.c’mo why would a guy buy a ring for a women he didnt even love.wastin money like dat.

2)dont he got a tactoo of her name on da side of his dirty ass neck

3)why would he stay with her,didnt they have a 6 year or a 5 year affair

4)why would he talk about the sex they had? Is it to make her husband,kendu mad?c’mon mary didnt talk about the sex to other people.thats very personal you supposed to keep that between you and her,not da fuckin world. You (k-ci) just beggin for attention,which you aint getting or will ever will.

5) k-ci like i said before nobody feelin your lame ass so go bac where the hell you were for all of these years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh..My….God…. KC looks a mess…he shold keep real real real quite…help him Jesus..

I say, “Run yo fingers trough some Kev-Care!

The bottom line is I know Mary is like DAMN Im glad I didnt marry him, because her husband now is a cutie, and look at the mess KCI is. lmao he looks like a wanna be superfly.

OMG,what the hell? It’s one thing he had the nerve to get a perm but than it’s another to get that shit curled up.LOL,to top it off, he added bangs. It hurts to see :{