DRAMA WITH BUSTA RHYMES & HIS LESBIAN BABY MAMA
Monday, June 26, 2006
Written By: HASANI GITTENS for NYPOST (online edition)
Hip-hop wild man Busta Rhymes had a 10-year roller-coaster romance with a high-school sweet heart. They had three beautiful children together. He repeatedly proposed marriage to her.
Then she turned gay.
The two have just ended one of the nastiest four-year custody battles in hip-hop history - rife with allegations she had lesbian sex in front of their children, that she does drugs in the house and that she’s an absentee mom.
But Rhymes’ ex-girlfriend Joanne Wood says she believes he doesn’t hate her because she’s a bad mother - he simply can’t stand the fact that she’s chosen a woman over him.
“His ego is definitely hurt,” she told The Post in an exclusive interview. “If he’s being emotional, then let him just be emotional - that’s like the bitch in him. If you want to be emotional, I don’t have a problem with that,” but “he’s wearing his emotions on his sleeve.”
Rhymes has been talking trash about his former girlfriend while promoting his new album, “The Big Bang,” which exploded to the No. 1 spot on Billboard. He’s called her names from dangerous to crazy to gold digger to other unmentionables.
In her first newspaper interview, Wood said she wanted to set the record straight. “He can learn a lot from the ‘man-bitch lesbians,’ ” she said, referring to a phrase he’s used lately to describe her.
But Wood, 32, who lives in Baldwin, L.I., with a lover, says they weren’t always at each other’s throats. They once were sweethearts at Uniondale HS.
They were madly in love despite their differences. Rhymes, born Trevor Smith, was a rough rapper wannabe from Jamaica via Brooklyn. She was a demure girl with middle-class parents.
MORE ON THEIR RELATIONSHIP
“Did I cheat on him? Hey. . . .” she said, grinning a little as she trailed off.
But to clarify, she added, “I wasn’t cheating on him with a woman. If anyone wants to know. I wasn’t at all.”
And also for the record she wants to world to know that Rhymes did not “turn her off men.”
“A relationship is a relationship. It happens. I have nothing negative to say as far as our relationship, whether it was good or bad, sexually, or not. That had nothing to do with me doing what I did [becoming a lesbian]. It’s not like I spitefully did it.
“He had a problem with everything,” she laughed. “He’s a Taurus - he’s a real arrogant person, he has a problem with everything.”
In the same breath, however, she defends her former love.
“But on the other hand, he’s soft-hearted - he’s a softy, at times, when we’re together. I don’t know what happened.”
Over the past four years, they have been in a bitter custody battle over their three sons, T’Ziah, 13, T’Khi, 6, and Trillian, 5. She said what Rhymes has been saying about her “pretty much makes me out to be a crazy person. He said what he had to say and that’s fine. I don’t have any problem with that.
“But my kids can read, they can see the negativity that he’s saying about me. He needs to focus on his music and hope that his album goes double platinum or whatever, because you know at this point in his career if you don’t make it now, that’s it.”
Rhymes won custody of the couple’s children in December when Judge Burton Joseph in Nassau County Family Court decided he was a more fit parent than Wood. No abuse or negligence is cited, but there are more than a few references to her “lover” and “lifestyle,” and she and her lawyer thinks she’s been the victim of prejudice.
The court decision notes that on one occasion, one of the kids walked in on her and her female lover having sex in the bedroom, but she and her lawyer point out, “Where else should they have sex?”
Another section points out that she and her lover may one day get married.
“It seems that this judge was dwelling on the fact that it was a woman with a woman, and that’s what came out of this, and it seems to be very unique,” said her lawyer, Rick Savitt, who did not represent her in this latest Family Court case.
“If you find the mother’s unfit, that’s one thing, but they never found any of that. But to take the custody away, give it to the father and say, ‘Dad, go move to L.A., Grandma, you take the kids.’ The people I’ve spoken to say they’ve never seen that before.”
Wood currently has visitation rights twice a week and every other weekend to see her kids, who now live with Rhymes’ mother in New York while he tours.
She is gathering the funds, and the strength, for an appeal of the custody decision.
“Honestly, the kids are the one that got hurt through this entire ordeal,” she sighed.
“As you get older and you have kids, they change your life, and honestly, I thought that they would have changed Trevor’s life, but it didn’t.
“He’s a great father, when it comes to sitting down, talking to the kids. And we can agree on certain things, but I have to say, this fighting me because your ego is hurt, you’re not hurting me, he’s hurting the kids. They know exactly what’s going on, which bothers me. But I can say they’re happy, we spend good times together. I know they don’t see their father as much as he claims he does.”








112 Comments
1.
G
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
now that is some mess…if it aint one thing, it’s another
2.
KD
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
2nd! I must say that I think its petty bullshit. Like she siad, the kids are the only ones getting hurt. If shes gay, so what that doesnt stop her from being a good mother.
3.
Sankofa
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I couldn’t even concentrate on the story, that picture was cracking me up.
4.
Crystal
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
WOW, THATS ALOT OF INFORMATION TO TAKE IN!
5.
Sankofa
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
ok, now that i got that out my system…that’s real sad, and not even about busta and her, about their kids man. they need to pul it togetether for their benefit
6.
TaNeesha
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
well i heard from video vixon book that busta was bi himself so unno bout that one. didnt he have a son to drown in a swimmning pool. who was that son by?
7.
bigtxgyrl28
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Busta…what it is right now!!!
I agree, just because she likes to lick carpet doesn’t make her a bad person.
8.
Ms. Beautiful
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Too much information… when are people going to learn that the media is not their friend and that they should keep their personal matters private. DAMN!!
9.
bluepurple
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Daymn, thats some drama.
10.
Missy C
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Somebody in this drama needs to grow up and raise their children. I’m not sure who’s worst…the baby mama or Busta.
11.
CHUICHI_Lee
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
LMAO I WENT TO UNIONDALE HIGH SCHOOL IN UNIONDALE, LOPNG ISLAND & SHE LOOKS WAY DIFFERENT NOW THEN THAT PHOTO BUT THIS IS REAL SAD THEY BOTH NEED A REALITY CHECK
12.
TaNeesha
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
maybe the state should take the kids.wonder how they look then. settle this for one. and again he had a son to drown in a pool was it by this girl or someone else. busta is so ugly..ewllll, talk about a butterface
13.
Tyrone Biggums
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
well i heard from video vixon book that busta was bi himself so unno bout that one. didnt he have a son to drown in a swimmning pool. who was that son by?
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Dont believe that dumb ass book, I doubt anythign more than 50% in it is true. Supahead just trying to make soem paper.
14.
momo
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I didnt know busta had three kids. I thought he had one the one that was in his videos.
But that is some crazy ish right there…kids walking in on them …ummmm..lock the door.
15.
tee
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
WOW alot drama goin on feel sorry for those kids though and that picture is the funniest.
16.
mzteeairah
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
its sad the kids are in the middle of this madness.
hopefully they can reach a mutal agreement
17.
Megan
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Is that the only reason she went lesbian? To hurt him. Chick please…sit down somewhere. Don’t nobody care about you and your coochie bumper.
18.
J. Lewis
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I resent that Taurus comment,lol! We ain’t arrogant- we stubborn though.
19.
HERO POLI SOKOLATA
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I LOVE THE KIDS GHETTO NAMES… LOL
T’Ziah, 13
T’Khi, 6
Trillian, 5 W.T.F? LOL TRILLIAN??? LOL
TZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ…………. NEGROES NEED TO STOP FUCKING OVER THEIR KIDS LIKE THAT… SERIOUSLY..
WITH NAMES LIKE THAT ALL ONE CAN BE IS A FREAKIN’ RAPPER!
YOU CAN GIVE YOUR KID AN ETHNIC NAME, WHETHER AFRICAN, ASIAN OR MIDDLE EASTERN, BUT LAY OFF THE MADE UP NAMES AND THE NAMES WITH APOSTROPHES… T-A-C-K-Y!!
20.
Stacy
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
… and yet sistas continue to try and challenge the man as being gay when it actuality I have never seen more gay and bi-sexual Black women in my life.
It’s not sistas who need to be worryin’ about the DL, it’s the brothas.
21.
Asentha
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Damn!!! LOL!! Black folks and their drama!!
22.
Lea
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Who really cares! #8 so very true, when do people learn to keep their buisness private! I think homosexuality is gross; just my opinion.
23.
Megan
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
20. If you’ve seen a gay or bi-sexual black woman, she is not on the DL.
24.
HONEYBABY
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I think that is foul for Busta to fight over custody when his mama is the one raising them. He is on tour and I know job doesn’t let him see his children as much as he needs to.
25.
SouthernPimpstress
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
This is a mess, Thatwas too deep for me. Busta also father another child with a “groupie” chick from North Carolina She had a little girl paternity test came back positive and Rhymes was ordered to pay her $2,000/month child support the little girl is 5 years old, I don’t see him going after her for that child. ((SMDH))
26.
damshespretty
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Busta is gay his dam self and I didn’t get that from Super heads book. It’s a shame when you have money you can fuck people over. Because you are gay, doesn’t mean your a bad parent. Dame Dash is fucking over his sons mother to. Mean while the dam boy is bringing bags of weed to school. When you have money, cash talks and bull shit walks.
27.
dukesman2000
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Some men got all the fucking luck and don’t even know it. Do you know how long I’ve trying to get a bitch to do some lesbian shit. I mean if Busta played his fucking cards right, he would have the best of both worlds.
28.
aishab
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Busta needs to know that he’s going to have to explain to his kids all the negative things he’s saying about their mother. They need to be more mature for their children’s sake. Grown ups acting like two year olds…such a shame!
29.
Dymond1230
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Umm,umm,umm
30.
dukesman2000
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
And please dont claim Jamaica, nigga. Aint no Yardman dat stupid.
31.
Tyrone Biggums
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
T’Ziah, 13
T’Khi, 6
Trillian, 5 W.T.F? LOL TRILLIAN??? LOL
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Nigga named his sons after some fucking dinasaurs. Black people be getting all types of silly ghetto ass names.
And what has busta done wrong damnshespretty?? He dont wanna be married to no lesbian that aint interested in him. And he prolly dont know what to tell the kids?? its a hard situation but they need to work shit out for the kids. ALl this dumb shit surrounding niggas all the time. From BET consipracies to white folks poinsining KFC Chicken thies with a formula that kills african american brain cells. They be spraying that same formula shit on all the FUBU and Southpole clothes at Burlington.
32.
algie
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
busta needs a reality check.he needs to call it quits in the rap game.he ain’t never had a cd that was good all the way through
33.
Jaye305
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
I wonder when her book is coming out lol.
34.
Sarah
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Wow.
35.
alligottasayis
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
lmao@dukesman2000. Now ain’t that some shit?
Exposing your child to sex (straight or gay) is poor, poor judgement. Even worse when it’s extra-marital! Nothing to do with her sexuality, or that Busta might be DL (bitter ass black bitches still yapping). Thank god some judges are still thinking. Then she actually tries to make an objective argument on some astrological basis? Some bitches are just dumb.
36.
Mil
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
A true shame. She claims the kids are of reading age. Why is she going to the media to make it worse? When will parents start thinking about the welfare of the children. I’m sure they are hurting as is and this doesn’t make it any better.
37.
HAHA
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Tyrone Biggums…..is there any chance that u go to Temple University??
38.
Tyrone Biggums
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Black folks as usual. Aint nobody surprised. They having some messed up times with they kids. Hope they get out of it.
39.
Mil
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
They just couldn’t divorce and cite irreconcilable differences like everyone else!
40.
aquarius0124
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
i read about thiz in vibe and the only victimz iz the kidz cuz hiz baby mama got her chick and busta braggin about how many nutz he can bust and still stay hard…dayum shame …kidz might need sum therapy…
41.
rj
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Until you’ve lived in a home with a gay parent hold your comments until you’ve talked to a kid in that situation. It’s hard on a kid to grow up in that type of situation especially if there aren’t to many boundaries. A kid walking in on the sexual action, lock the door !!The adults are the ones who trip on each other and I bet those kids are glad to live with their grandmother and still get the best of both worlds from each parent. It like a great feeling living in a comfort zone that’s safe and neutral.
42.
HERO POLI SOKOLATA
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
HONESTLY, THERE ARE LOTS OF BI AND GAY BLACK MALES AND FEMALES. I HIGHLY DOUBT THAT ALL OF THESE PEOPLE WERE “BORN GAY”! A LOT OF THE GUYS GO WITH MEN BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO WORK, SO THEY GO WITH MEN FOR MONEY.
DON’T GO CRAZY BUT IT’S TRUE..
43.
chillin in NY
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
those kids are the real victims: T’Ziah, T’Khi, Trillian?? were they high when they came up w/ those names?
44.
reefer
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Now I know if my kids told me they walked in on their daddy and his lover having sex, I would’ve beat the brakes off that nigga. So, even though busta is going about this situation the wrong way (being all childish calling her names on the album and shit), it’s good that he got those kids out when he did.
45.
GG Boo
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
#8 Ms. Beautiful and #22 Lea- you are right, people talk too dayum much about their personal lives. It is a little less offensive when there aren’t any kids that will have to see you act a fool. But to be honest, people get PAID big dollars for stories like that. And the Post is notorious for tracking people and hounding them. She probably gave up the story for about 35 stacks, for real! But people are gonna talk and we’re gonna read it
DAYUM #27 dukes - it seems like you would stop messin with those “bitches” since they’re not doin what you want anyway! Surprise! There are actually some females that think of having a lesbian experience the same as you may feel about having a d*&$ up your a&#. I hate that mess. These videos and what not glorifying two women together so that’s what some of you goofs expect. I am not hatin and am not a homophobe, but come on! I still got luv for dukes tho…some of your posts are real as hell, but this one… I dunno
46.
Tyrone Biggums
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
lol, at this whole shit. Concrete loop need to post some shit like this about white folks. Black people is looking more messed up everyday.
47.
telitlikeitiz
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Obviously there are some factors disclosed in court that were not disclosed in the article, which prompted the judges’ decision. Judges very rarely give custody to fathers, especially knowing Busta would be on tour most of the time. The fact that she lives with the other chick involved is not in the best interest of the children first off. Secondly, she would have just juiced busta for some ridiculous amount of Child Support only to splurge on her lover, and she is probably not financially stable outside of Bustas money. I mean really, do you think she would focus more on being a mother to the 3 kids or pay more attention to her female lover and all of the media attention?
48.
Megan
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
46. Tyrone
If certain people think white folks don’t go through as much or even more mess than what you see on this site, they are sadly mistaken.
49.
Lauren
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
telitlikeitiz I agree with you! we do not know the whole story! and for a male to get custody of their children then something must be going on!
50.
SayWha
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
NOBODY TURNS GAY. YOU ALWAYS WERE.
SHE SOUNDS KIND OF NUTTY AND SPITEFULL TOO.
WHITE PEOPLE GOT DRAMA TOO.
LIKE THAT WEIRDO CHARLIE SHEEN AND HIS CRAZY EX.
LOW CLASS PEOPLE TEND TO REMAIN
TRASHY, MONEY OR NOT.
BUSTA NEED TO HANDLE HIS BUSINESS LIKE
A MATURE ADULT. HE IS DOING A TERRIBLE
JOB IN THAT RESPECT.
51.
Ms Ro
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Everyone is messed up. It’s not just black folks.
52.
MissTee2U
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Being gay should’nt be a reason to have you lose your kids. However you feel about it morally, it’s illegal to make a custody decision on that basis. But it does happen. And while we don’t know the whole story, I do know from seeing friends go through it that men are just as bad if not worse when a woman leaves them, period, never mind for a woman. I have seen it happen too many times - men will try to get custody, trump up all kinds of shit and do anything - not to put the kids in the best situation, but to hurt the mother.
Ain’t no way in hell either one of them talking about this shit in public is good for their kids so I fault them both for that.
53.
telitlikeitiz
Monday, June 26, 2006 /
Its not like Busta is a Kennedy or something, he is still a hip hop industry black man…the judge finding favor in BUSTA RHYMES is highly unlikely.
Forget blackballing the mother because she is gay, I think we are stereotyping BUSTA because he is a MAN. She even admitted he is good with the kids. It would be too easy to proove a rapper to be unfit if she really wanted to. But apparently she doesn’t have too much on Busta cause he MAY JUST BE a great dad and the better fit parent rather, the kids stay with his mom most of the time or not.
54.
Deekaye
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
poor poor kids
i wouldn’t claim them if these people were my parents
55.
doinitwell
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
i remember she went on wendy williams and said he beat the shit out of her and that he was messing with his hype man.
56.
Keta
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
All I can say is huh
57.
Brian
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I bet you’ll she’ll want some of that money! LOL.
58.
daredd1
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
my people my people..this is a hot mess for real..if what she is saying is true..well the kids should be old enough to state where they want to be…sounds like the judge is prejudicial..take them a way from the custodial parent based on a lifestyle..u can’t do that..busta is a ho..the momma in a mongomous relationship PERIOD..doesn’t matter the sex..this is wrong how this is being played out
59.
chiskop
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Does anyone know anything about an interview in which Busta admitted to having slept with Nicole Ritchie?
60.
Rudy
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
The bottom line is that gay behavior is not a natural thing. Get mad if you want to but a man is meant for a woman to pro-create. For children (especially boys) to grow up with a woman that is going against the natural use of her body could and would confuse the hell out of the boys. They need to be around a healthy heterosexual situation so that they too can be normal sexually.
61.
Shina
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Now i see why Busta is so homophobic
62.
babygirl
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
there is something wrong with a homosexual life style. that’s not the way GOD meant for it to be, so if a women wants a woman and a man wants a man, they should have children. PERIOD
63.
Gela
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Oh-boi, oh-boi, oh-boiiiii.
Busta is rockin’ that hair-do for real… Bless his soul…. More Power to you mah Brotha! Woo-saaaa Woo…..
NOW, WOOOOOOWWWW… Really??????! That WAS a lot to take in, and that was deep…. Mmmmph, that’s really messed UP! **Shakes head in disbelief**
Damn Busta…. IS IT really like that??!!!!!!!
64.
menina21
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
that’s dumb to fight for custody and you’re not even around to raise the kids. that’s not the grandma’s job and they should just go live with their mother. she should also keep her doors locked cause that could scar a kid for life.
65.
Gela
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
^^^… True, True!
66.
caff
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I only read one sentence up there and that was enough to know that she should get all her fronts knocked out.
67.
Niema
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I agree with # 60. That crap is not right. What you do is nobody’s business but yours. Thats between you and your GOD, but don’t let your children grow up seeing that. I do beleive that shit like that can confuse the hell out of a child. Being the ages that his children are everything can influence them. Children now or days follow instead of leading. If they walked in on their mother having sex with her lover she should be scolded for that. Like one post said, lock the door! Why the hell are you having sex knowing that the kids are still up or whatever and don’t lock the door. Be whether it was man or woman your child still shouldn’t have saw that shit. Two women just made it even worse. I hope these people who are living that lifestyle constantly pray real hard.
68.
FUCK BUSTA
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Busta not only have 3 sons but he has 2 daughter neither one he gives a damn about. His baby momma in LA is taking his ass to court right now because his ass won’t spend anytime or bother to call his child that looks just like his bitch ass. And the daughter with the white chick in NC he has never seen. This dude gets in these interview and talk all the bullshit about how he’s a GREAT father “NOT”. He’s a stupid ass jerk who only cares about himself and he don’t give a shit about how his kids feel. It’s all about him. He just have the power to come out and bad mouth his baby momma when the bitch he truely hates is his mom because she did the same stupid bullshit to him and his brother when they was growing up. So when you grow up in bullshit and no one set and example on how things should be you just carry that shit over when your an adult an the abuse continues. So for all ya’ll that look up to this nigga as a roll model just know that he has 5 kids that he’s fucking over not just 3. The only thing i can say is that his sons get to spend a little time with him because he needs them around so he doesn’t have to pay child support. The other 2 girls have a long way to go and they are going through therpy because of this stupid ass nigga. People get it together and take care of your kids and realize that a check doesn’t cut it, it helps the mother to raise them but no attention from daddy especially when your that large and seen by the world and talking all the bullshit this nigga be speakin on in his interview makes a fucked up child.
SO FUCK BUSTA RHYMES….
69.
life2fullest
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
So if one of the boys walks around in lipstick and heels who you gonna blame? Grown folks need to learn when and where it is appropriate to display that type of affection. I close my bedroom door everynight cause my son doesnt need to see me ridin the ….. If she cant be responsible enough to keep her bidness in the bedroom then she dont need the responsibility. Dam you are raising boys-young men, when we as a society will wake up and learn “train up a child in the way he should grow and when he is old he will not depart from it”. Simply put in the Bible. I agree with the poster that said it is more to this than what she is saying and Busta for that matter. Rarely do men get custody and an artist at that-naw its something else and she salty cause now that check has been cut off. Wonder how long her girlfriend will stay now that the mailman dont run on the 1st?
70.
FUCK BUSTA
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
And for real if you people only knew the real deal with this dude you won’t be so amp to support his bitch ass but then again R Kelly can go out a piss on underage girls and still be no.1. So what the hell does that say about us who continue to support these fools? All i can say for his baby momma if she really lost her case because of her lifestlye then she needs to contact NOW (national organization for women) and contact every gay and lesbian organization to help her fight in court for discrimination so she can get her kids back. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP SISTA!!!
71.
life2fullest
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Yall up here speaking on Busta like you know him personally. How do you know his kids are in therapy b/c of him, are you the therapist? No! We are all here SPECULATING on the circumstance but noone can speak for sure on what transpired in that court room. It is 3 sides to a story, his, hers and the truth. I dont know if she is a bad mother or if busta is a bad father but based on the interview she admitted to having her kids walk in on her having sex with another female and for that I say she needs to regroup. How did Busta find out: did it affect one of the kids so much that they told it? Dunno. But to say he is this and he is that like you a baby mamma-please. The woman even said he is a good father and a lot of times these women that get with these artist do it soley for the funds. Cant no court make you see your child, they can make you pay for it so to say that this baby mamma is going to take him to court cause he dont see the child, what is that gonna do? They gonna put him in jail for financially supporting the child but not seeing it. Yall are killing me right now!
72.
Niema
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Fuck Busta I agree with you about Busta and R Kelly. On the other hand for the court to give Busta custody, there’s more to this story and we are just getting what they want us to know. And people do need to stop supporting R Kelly. He’s a child predator.
73.
plasir
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
In my opinion, I believe that Busta went to court with her over being bitter. He asked her to marry him numerous times; and she declined because she was not a heterosexual. He’s just mad.
Also, for everyone saying lock the door when you have sex. How can you assume that when it could have been 1:00 AM in the morning? The kids could have been asleep and she assumed that they were not going to wake up that ;early in the morning.
74.
ghostposta
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
*note to self - before you think you are ready to wife a shorty up…pump the brakes…and do a little more investigation and waiting* I would hate to have to go through this Bull$h^&.
75.
Niema
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
@ 73 You know what they say about assume. You making an ass out of u and me. Assume, she should have locked that damn door because if you have kids everybody knows most kids don’t sleep during the night. They get up, walk around, eat, watch tv, play, etc. If its the weekend or summer you know little black kids not about to care their asses to bed.
76.
sosoreal
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
LMAO @ #17!
@20: Me neither! I;m seeing too many gay,bi,try females out there. What the fuck is going on? These men are dumb as hell for liking bi women cause they’ll be gay and won’t fuck with men anymore.
77.
msego
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
idk what to say other than thats a lot of information and quite embarassing
78.
Nefer
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
This is too much information and embarrasing. They both need to shut up and stop airing their dirty laundry for the public to hear. He should also have respect for the woman if for nothing else the fact that she is the mother of his children.
79.
ghostposta
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I can’t help but to think this was all brought to light to boost the sales of his CD, especially since this story vaguely resembles certain aspects of the plot from that ‘I Luv My Chic’ video. Ya know…’with Busa Bus and Gabrielle(my wife) fighting’. It kind of goes along with the theme. That PR machine is a beast. Any publicity is good publicity. Feel sorry for the kids though…to have to go through such turmoil in the publics eye.
80.
FUCK BUSTA
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
YES FOR LIFETOTHEFULLEST I DO HAVE PERSONAL INSITE ON HIS LIFE AND I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT’S GOING ON IN THE SITUATION SO BEFORE YOU SPEAK MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET TO KNOW THESE ARTIST ON A PERSONAL LEVEL THEN YOU CAN SPEAK ABOUT WHAT I KNOW. AND NO THE COURT CAN’T MAKE YOU SEE YOUR CHILD BUT DAMN FOR A NIGGA ALWAYS TALKING ALL THAT FAMILY BULLSHIT HE BE TALKING BOUT SOUNDS KINDA CRAZY THAT HE REALLY DON’T PRACTICE WHAT HE PREACHES. THE ONLY REASON HE DOESN’T SEE HIS CHILD FROM NC BECAUSE THE MOM IS WHITE AND HE AIN’T TRYIN TO LET NIGGAS KNOW THAT HE HAVE A MIX CHILD BECAUSE OF HIS “FAMILY VALUES” AND RELIGION AND ETC, ETC, ETC…ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS THAT THERE IS 3 SIDES TO EVERY STORY BUT BEST BELIEVE WHEN BABYMOMMA SAYS HE AIN’T AROUND IT TRUE. AND YES HE CAN BE A GOOD FATHER BUT DO GOOD FATHERS LOVE THEIR KIDS UNCONDITIONALLY OR CAN THEY CHOOSE TO LOVE SOME AND NOT OTHERS. BUSTA NEEDS TO KEEP HIS DICK IN HIS PANTS AND STOP MAKING ALL THESE BABIES SO HE CAN STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT HOW MUCH CHILD SUPPORT HE DOES AND DOESN’T NOT HAVE TO PAY. HE IS FOR REAL FUCKING UP HIS KIDS BUT HE’S AN IDIOT AND CARE NOT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT HE’S DOING THAT. THAT’S WHY WE HAVE SO MANY FUCKED UP KIDS MOMMA’S TRYING TO RAISE 40 ARCES AND A MULE AND FATHERS ARE ROLLING STONES. GROW UP BLACK MEN AND TAKE YOUR FAMILIES BACK UNDER CONTROL BECAUSE WE ARE LOSING OUR CHILDREN EVERYDAY.
81.
Ana
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Um plasir, that’s bulls***. I dont care if it’s 3:00 in the morning and your kids were sound asleep you are supposed to lock your door before you do you business. Furthermore, kids should not have to grow up seeing their parents having premarital sex especially with the same sex. It only takes two seconds to lock the door and that can save a lot of time later on explaining to your child what they saw you doing.
82.
bill
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
“Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.” Romans 1:27 NKJV
83.
Gela
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Wow, FUCK BUSTA & life2fullest,
Both of your posts were very well stated, & inspiring… I can appreciate & respect that a lot.
It was the truth & that’s what’s real…. I like that!
**Claps**
84.
M E RENEGADE
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT HE WAS MARRIED TO HER. THIS IS NEWS TO MY EARS AND I USUALLY KNOW EVERYTHING. WELL ALMOST EVERYTHING…
85.
Gela
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
**opens drawer, gets a pen & takes notes in a notebook**
This information is very intriguing about BUSTA, I never would have known… For real…
F*%^& BUSTA gave me a new light at seeing Busta… That’s wrong of him, and he lost a lot with me…..
86.
Mikki
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
@ 55 doinitwell
Please dont tell me His HYpe Man was Spiff Star!!!
OOh Lawd Please dont tell me that !!!
87.
Something Fierce
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I WOULDN’T want my child to be raised by gay parents either BUT Busta isn’t much of a FATHER anyway…
So HE’s an idiot for using that info to get custody of his kids… WAS SHE a bad mother because getting caught having sex by the kids IS more common than people are letting on!!!
I HOPE that the kids grow up to be stable adults because the ADULTS in this case are Very Unstable with their actions and behavior !!!
88.
steve
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
THIS IS CLEARLY NOT OUR BUSINESS.
89.
alongway2go
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Busta made it our business when he went on the radio and interviews airing his business. Some brothers needs to learn how to keep their mouth shut if they don’t like other peoples comments.Whateva the problem is between Busta and his baby momma is real screwed up but he has 5 kids that are paying the price for his stupidity. Busta grow up?
90.
Tony
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
That’s a damn shame.
91.
msego
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
i feel sorry for those kids, but this is just nasty, i’m not on anybody’s side.
92.
Shina
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I agree with # 67
93.
Cublktigress
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
@ 18..yea we Taurus are some stubborn beings but sometimes it works to our advantage.
That’s a messed up situation! No matter what the drama is, the truth of the matter is at the end of the day, they are both the parents of those kids and they should at least try to create an environment surrounding them that is not as chaotic and emotionally damaging.
As for him having other kids around that he doesn’t see, if this is true, then that’s even more messed up. Especially for the children involved, it creates emotional damage which can’t be repaired. Not to mention future relationship issues.
94.
no, thank you
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
For all you ignorant folks saying you wouldn’t want a (presumably) straight child raised by gay parents, where you think all us (supposedly sick, fucked up, whatever you’re claiming) gay folks came from? Your straight households! The only thing traumatizing for a child about accidentally witnessing probably a few seconds of adult sex is adults over-reacting to the situation.
95.
Cmeez
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Busta needs Jesus cuz whatever religeon is currently affiliated with (5%????) is not cuttin it.
96.
Cmeez
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
As far as gays coming from heterosexual households…hey once you are grown you can make your own decisions but as a child you need to grow up in a normal (heterosexual)household. Period, point blank. If you have a problem with that you need to take that up with God. He made the rules, not me, homeboys & girlz!
97.
lea
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
ive heard it all right now especially lickn carpet never heard that b 4 lololololoo thats to funn-e but back to the matter at hand busta is right nhe out here tryna make ends meet and she disrespecting the children what you do in yo bed room is yo bissness like i sed b 4 JESUS made adam and eve not adam and steve who da hell want 2 moms or 2 dads black children aint used to dat folk need to stay in da closet and keep da key just my opinion
98.
SheRoc
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
@Tyrone Biggums- You really are a Tyrone Biggums aren’t you? If you want to know what crazy white folk are up to, go to a WHITE GOSSIP WEBSITE. In case you had noticed this is a BLACK ORIENTETED WEBSITE, dumbass.
99.
SheRoc
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
hadn’t
100.
SheRoc
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
BTW, heard Busta was on the DL, long before I ever heard of Superhead.
101.
Gela
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
That’s true too, Steve.
Co-signing to your post #88
102.
CHITOWN FINEST
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
If they both new better they’ll do better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
103.
kindanice
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
Busta Ex said:
“But my kids can read, they can see the negativity that he’s saying about me”—-Yeah. They can read what u say 2. So putting more of your fams business Up in the post is not good for the kids and u barely touching Busta.
The court: They are dead wrong. Where is the court now while Busta azz on tour. The kids lost big time.
kind.
104.
Activist Mamma
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I cosign with #19 Hero….Why do Black folks continue to give their children names like that? It’s not creative, it’s DUMB!!!! Do you know embarassing it is for a school aged child to have their name CONSTANTLY mispronounced? My best friend went thru this all thru school. Most teachers didn’t even bother to learn the correct pronuncation and just gave her a nickname. She was always so hurt by that. Everyone else got to be called by their name, why not her? But as a child, what do you do? She felt powerless. PLEASE Black folks, think about the names you give to your children. It can be ethnic and that is your right but if you’re going to do that, for goodness sake, please let it mean something. Don’t just make ish up!!
I feel so sorry for these children. Their parents putting all their business out in the street like that is a dayum shame because in the end, the kids are going to be the ones to suffer. So what she’s gay? Hey Busta, newsflash for ya: SHE’S ALWAYS BEEN GAY! I think that Busta, along with many others in our community are still very homophobic. Many homosexuals are afraid of being alienated by their loved ones for being gay so they keep quiet and try live a lie. We all know that it shouldn’t matter if someone is gay or not but we all know that in most cases, unfortunately, it DOES matter.
105.
jaime del rio
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
wuh she does in her BEDROOM has nothing to do with him. if she was having sex in front of the kids then thats something totally dif. wuh some of u all fail to realize is that busta is jamaican. jamaica is one of the most homophobic countries/group of peopel out there. ive herd story of people being beaten to death for blowing a kiss @ another dude. as long as u take care of ur kids and do nothing wrong to them or near them then it’s ok
106.
kindanice
Tuesday, June 27, 2006 /
I know this is not a laughing matter but:
@#80
“THAT’S WHY WE HAVE SO MANY ‘UCKED UP KIDS MOMMA’S TRYING TO RAISE 40 ARCES AND A MULE AND FATHERS ARE ROLLING STONES.”
LMAO—U are so wrong for that, yet so right.
kind.
107.
ashleigh
Thursday, June 29, 2006 /
BUSTA’S BABY MOMMA IS A CARPET MUNCHER!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
DAMN BUSTA BUST…I GUESS SHE DIDN’T WANT THEM CRABS THAT U HAD AT 12
THATS A DAMN SHAME. A CARPET MUNCHER AND INFRONT OF THE KIDS OH WOW…THATS REALLI A DAMN SHAME
108.
dee
Thursday, June 29, 2006 /
Homophobia is everywhere ! It has absloutely nothing to do with him being Jamaican. Damn !
109.
dago
Thursday, June 29, 2006 /
I HEARD BUSTA WAS GAY A LONG TIME AGO.
110.
BaddLil'Mama
Saturday, July 1, 2006 /
#27 U STUPID!!!!@#$ If you are really in love with someone you are not going to want to see them chompin’ on nobodys coochie…..(Period) And I think she was unfit (gay or not) if her kids were seeing her have sex! Thats not good, but him taking the kids and giving them to his mother is not good either….
111.
Middlefinger
Saturday, July 1, 2006 /
Whatever…whatever. Kids shouldn’t have to grow up witnessing their mother in some perverted shit. At least they have some degree of stability and normalcy w/their grandparents.
112.
TELITLIKEITIZ
Sunday, July 2, 2006 /
@ 68 FUCK BUSTA- understood, I too am a victim of a financially well off deadbeat father BUT…I didn’t need therapy and neither should his kids whom have never seen him. What makes them different from any other kid that don’t have a daddy? Child support hell yeah, therapy-NOT EVEN (sounds more like a pity stunt for more money). If they are in therapy, its not just because daddy isn’t there. And lets not NEGATE the responsibility of these women who have been screwing since age 9 then get preggo as soon as they get 5 minutes with a dude with some change and have these keep-a-nigga-babies(AKA GROUPIES & WHORES). Instead of therapy, they need to explain that mommie was a hoe and didn’t even know daddy’s last name when she slept with him without a jimmy so that is why all we get is 1 call a year and a check. The moms need to accept it for what it is and raise their daughters to be well-respected individuals in a society that has evolved into a majority of single parent families.