You are soo stupid to say that you do that to your girl. You are just no secure enough with your manhood yet. Grow some steem b4 you date, You ignorant young fool!

@ sparkz

ur still young but i hope u stop thinking that “shaking, pounding, etc” a woman is justifiable cause its not. it just shows ur lack of maturity. love does not equate abuse.

sparkz said …
“and im not all i ever did was shake up a few girls in my life time give me a break”

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That’s some FUNNY Shit there… Shake up a few girls
Caff, help me out… bring me a Zinger for that one

And if that’s TRUE sparkz, You’ll be O.K.
Ain’t nothing WRONG with Shaking Up a Girl every now and then

yall do have some good points but if i thought i was truly hurting my girl physically or emotionally then i wouldnt do it the last thing i want to do is to see a girl cry especially mine but thats just how i do things i cant help it

Stop being ignoarnt and learn how to deal with situations.

**loses all interest in what sparkz has to say**

If you gone beat yo girl, beat her then. But dont be trying to act like its justified becuz it never is. And if you gonna point out that we have good points, then you already know that what your doing is wrong. I think you should seek some help. And thats my final thought.

diana…
NOW if we learned anything from the Bill Cosby posts
It’s name-calling will never cause a change for the positive… WE must be encouraging to get understanding
IF you noticed sparkz has acknowledged some of his faults alraedy !!!
Just F.Y.I Baby

@ impossible….wat is ur avatar a pic of? is that a man kissing another man on the neck?

whatever man im sorry that i dont require a shake up here there very abusive

I WAS hoping nobody went for the avator question for comment #156… Oh Well

sparkz I dont think you are crazy. I just wanted to see where your thinking is.

No you are not a bad guy, but I just want you to see that love is so much more that telling someone you love them. It is mostly about respect and having the mentality of treating someone the way you want to treated.

bloo I think your eyes are playing tricks on you lol.

Momo i can respect that but i think i really do kno what love is

ACTION speaks louder than WORDS…

I Love you baby (says boy to girl)
Knock her upside her head (boy does to girl)
I Love you baby (boy says to girl)
Uppercut to the jaw (boy does to girl)

Does girl feel Love.. NO she feels Pain
And words CAN’T make that PAIN go away !!!

Dang why you gotta call me out. I feel you though I guess he is seeing how wrong he was or is.

I wish I would let a lil young light skinned nigga beat my ass!! ROLF

Honestly, if your pipe game is up to par you won’t ever to put your hands on a chick. Good penis will keep a girl in line and have her making you sandwiches at 4:35am.

A chick won’t pop off at the mouth when she knows she has grade-A penis at her disposal. So ladies and gentlemen, the moral to the story is, fuck ‘em right and their mouth will stay zip locked and tight.

Im good, im not a monster i neva sent a girl to the hospital or made her hide bruises or nothing like that….a lil grab or shake aint nothing

I used a Smiley Face at the end of the comment Baby…
It’s ALL GOOD, You’re Good People
We NEED to stick together, I LOVE my beautiful Black sistas !!!

I KNEW I could count on you caff…
PEACE OUT People, I’m leaving work
GO MIAMI !!!!!

Caff, you are off tha chain!
Something Fierce, I know, was messing with you. Lata!

sparkz that is understandable because you are young. Life will teach you what love is.

Real love really starts with loving yourself.

Accepting your flaws, because no one is perfect.
Not being judgemental, but understanding.
Having respect for someone, even when they do not have respect for you.

Love is so much more than the Physical and more to do with someones intellect and who they are as a person.

MUAHAHAHA CAFF if that last bit didnt have a hint of truth i wouldnt be laughing so damn hard!

Momo who are you oprah … i really hear what your saying though and imma think about this cuz i do sometimes think talking is an option but thats what i usually do until i get to mad then ill just grab her but i dont think im abusive i think abuse leaves blood and scars i dont do that

That’s a lie, because when a woman reports and alleged abuse there is a sworn written statement, and an arrest is made; it is now in the hands of the court. She the so called victim cannot do anything to withdraw or drop that shit. And if she tries to she can be slapped with a “creating public mishief” charge.

So that’s a lie, right off the bat.

That the commenters on this page are hella funny, and will take any story you post and use it to downgrade Black Men.. You just post, so no hard feelings to you Angel La.. You Know that.

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Very true

sparkz LOL..No, but she is one woman that I respect alot.

I know sometimes we can get out of control but dont take the easy way out and resort to shaking or whatever. Try a less agressive way.

@ #162 impossible…i guess my mind is playing trix on me 2, lol

I can’t help it. Wife beater, no wife beater….I can’t be cool with her till she gets off the air. SHE JUST GETS ON MY NERVES! Why is she fooling with this guy AND in the entertainment business? That’s like inviting him to beat her down.

kindanice

bloo I guess Montel aint the only one smokin that good stuff.

Not under ANY circumstance should a man put his hands on a woman. If you even feel the need to either you ain’t doing your job right to keep your woman happy or you are just the devil’s seed.

@ Tyrone Biggums…I laugh everytime I see your name. In fact, I’m laughing now…hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

WELL THERE IS NO WAY I WOULD LET MY MAN PUT HIS DAMN HANDS ON ME. SPARKZ YOU SEEM LIKE A COOL DUDE WHO IS TRYNNA CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. WELL AT LEAST YOU ADMIT YOUR FAULTS…
ALSO…IF THAT’S YOU IN THE PIC..YOU SURE IS CUTE!

Im tired of people talking about missing “Free” her Tacky -Awkward -ass was worst that Julissa. I mean yeah she’s a lil annoying but for the most part Julissa looks like a down to earth, chill type of girl. Good luck to her- hope her man don’t beat her ass.

CHEERS!

I just gotta say to all the people who say that a female need to get beat every once and awhile need they ass beat. No women deserves to be beat no matter what they do. I wish a nigga would step to me with that shit,we just goin be fighting in this motherfucker, fuck all the bullshit. Let me get off here before I get mad and smack the first nigga I see.

men and women both need their asses kicked once in awhile. just so they know whos in control. i know a dude who kicked his gf’s ass erday she’s preggers w/ his baby now and he still beats on her. since i know them and shih i guess she shudent have her ass kicked but other guys/girls they cude get beaten to death idc!!!!! death is all a part of life. now i wude rather see the headline:B.E.T HOST JULISSA BEATEN TO DEATH than to hear about free getting her ass beaten. also i wude rather mad linx get his ass beat than big tigger.

thanx curvey

you know what, some women like for a dude to knock them upside their head a few times. just like in gorilla days. it’s gorilla pimpin playa. lol

these girls on this site dont understand that though!!! they know they need they azz kicked er once in awhile

#137 caff said:
My sources just told me that Sparkz has a set of brass knuckles that have the words “say what bitch?!” engraved on them. He uses them on his girl when he dinner is either not prepared or cold when he walks through the door at night.
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*flatlined* bring the paddles!

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QUEEN LATIFAH’S DAD LOOKS LIKE AN ALCOHOLIC

#123 taco,
i can agree with you to a point that the man can and should turn the other cheek. But let’s expound on that to say that either person, not just the man, should turn the other cheek if he/she gets hit or abused. i think it’s highly unfair and sexist to place the responsibility on the man to “walk away” or “turn the other cheek”. we as women are just as responsible for our actions in a dysfunctional relationship.

i am in no way condoning a man beating a woman, but i am just as passionate that a woman should never, under any circumstances, hit a man and rely on the weak rationalization that just because he’s a man that he shouldn’t hit her back…we women talk about equality so much, then want to fall back on being the weaker sex when it’s convenient.

i’m not beefing with you - like i stated, i agree with you to a point…lol

Well, where im from, you can beat a black woman but the question is can u make it out the door b4 she pulls that big ass knife outta nowhere.

I love Julissa,but Baby when it comes to Beatings…Get out of Relationship…..Fast !

she need her azz kicked!!!! i hate her lol

Men who beat on women are undercover homos. They don’t really want to be with a female, so they are hella resentful. They take out their frustration on that women whom society forces them to be with. There are a lot of mos in the NFL. They have to front hard to stay in the league.

WOWWWWWWW………

dats fugged up if its true.. dont nobody deserve no woman beater…

The girl is annoying as hell and can someone please teach her to read the dam prompter, but I would never wish domestic violence on anyone that shit not right no woman deserves to get treated that way. Julissa is small as hell to just imagine a big ass buff football player slamming her ass is crazy home girl would be DOA.

Oh she’s dating Larry Johnson…don’t know if he’s NBA or NFL (not a sports fan…lol) but it’s def him…

i read these post to see what caff gone say, man you outta control lol LMAO

I don’t hit chicks because some of the ones I date carry more heat than I do! I date REAL sista’s, just like they have popped the trunk to represent for me, they might do the same if I call myself trying to hit ‘em, for real.

oh shyt damn…larry johnson fine as hell…hell i wouldn’t mind gettin a few hits from him………lol…………julissa is kinda annoying sometimes…but she seem like a nice person in and out

Ahhh I saw this a couple of days ago…

I hope the chick watches her back!

SPARKS SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH YOU KNOW YOUR ASS GETS BEAT UP BY ALL THE DUDES IN YOUR ‘HOOD . THAT IS WHY YOU BEAT ON A DEFENLESS GIRL TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A MAN . WOW HOW TOUGH YOU ARE GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE STUPID BITCH .YOUR MOMS PROBABLY A WHORE AND YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH FEMALES IN YOUR LIFE THAT IS PROBABLY IT . BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTCH GO FUCK YOURSELF WITH A DILDO HOE.

YOU HIT THE HAMMER RIGHT ON THE NAIL . IT IS TRUE I AM A LITTLE BITCH WHO FEELS GOOD HITTING ON POOR DEFENSELESS FEMALES . I AM A BITCH AND MY MOMS IS TOO.

some of these messages just goes to show yall wasting yall time, yall dont know me or my situation very well yall cant judge me

@175. That law is only in some states

SPARKZ…YOU’RE WELCOME!!!

@sparks…i give you credit for exposing yourself like that brother, damn. You can’t be that insecure if you’re that open. Just use discretion.

Some women enjoy having black eyes and swollen lips! I wouldn’t hit my girl or wife because I was raised to treat a woman like a queen should be treated. But if she had a gun or knife pointed at me, then I’ll ask GOD for forgivness for what I gotta do to fight for my life.

lol @ Pip

can someone please explain to me why nearly everyone is calling julissa “annoying”? i dont think SHE is however, “big tigger” is annoying-him faking like he is attracted to every female celeb who comes on the show is whats annoying to me. he know he want some pickle if ya know what i mean….

He plays in the NFL. Women throw themselves at him. He has money. He has power. He feels invincible. That’s why when confronted with an uncomfortable situation that’s clearly his fault (cheating), he would go into a rage because goodness forbid he have an uncomfortable situation in his life. Julissa: run, or you’re next.

Same thing with Jason Kidd or whatever his name is.

@ 213

I know, his likes men because when superhead was on hot97 they was talking about his booty hole bleeding cause a man busted out and that she still had sex with him even though she know that he just had sex wit a man before her!

Can someone besides her boyfriend smack her up so she can take her stink ass of the air. Her and Tigger are two of the worst hosts besides that tramp Vanessa on TRL. Now she needs to get her ass whopped for getting with Nick Cannon and every other black guy that comes on that dumb ass countdown. MTV SUCKS and so does Julissa.

Don’t hate..Crab ass negros…

ROFL @ Angel saying making your pick!

Hmm I’m sad to announce that I could pretty much care less about who she’s dating but uh…god bless her poor lil heart if this is true.

Furthermore, whats up with this confessions bit on here lol? A word of advice, KEEP YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS AT HOME!! This ain’t Dr. Phil’s comment board so don’t expect to get some professional expertise on any issue you got going on in your offline life. Its safer to just comment on the topic at hand.

Well hope it isn’t true and Julissa isn’t dating a woman beater. But the woman (if this is true) was beaten up like that she shouldn’t worry about his precious career with her dumb a–.

The show is for 12 year olds, this woman is important to the celebrity world, how??

Lord have mercy!

She looks like she gets that ass whopped. What’s wrong with these women, speak up for yourselves. . .

its a rumor that seems true Larry Johnson is the punks name who hits women what a lil bitch if u have to hit to make urself feel powerful he needs Jesus

Julissa needs to get out of that relatioship safely

did u know that former co-host Free was in a situation like that when she was younger but she came out of it

Get out of the relationship Julisa! Also, please get the HELL off of 106 and Park. She’s really corny!

Spark, I’ve read everything you’ve been saying.. First you egged on other guys to beat their girls or “keep them in line” so you say…Then I go on to read a little more and you changed your story saying then that you don’t beat girls up, you just tap them or shake them when they don’t act right.. and you go on to say that you don’t think it is abuse if no marks or blood is shown..Brotha I feel very sorry for you and the women in your life. You are too young to know what love is. If your father hadn’t shown you how to love women by how he treated your mother, then you have a very long way to go. I congratulate you on coming out and saying the things you said, most triflin bastids up in here can’t even admit that much. I would advise you to get some help. That’s not the way you love a woman. If you ever have to get so angry to where you want to lay your hands on a woman…walk away…and if she grabs you or hits you..run away!! I come from a family where touching a woman ain’t an option! My mother had guys pressing charges on her, we women don’t play that shit either…know who you’re dealing with when you wanna put the hands on women..you never know. But you are a decent looking fellow to think so ugly like that..change your thinking process and you will be a 10 in my book!!!!

Why would you care about damaging someone’s career after they beat your ass?? Wake the hell up!!!