First again! I personally believe that Mathew Knowles had something to do with the break up…He has something to do with everything…I think he knows where Jimmy Hoffa is…

LMAO!! Yall a trip. I think they could still be together, I mean damn all he wanted to do was get to know her better.

But there is always another side to the story..

he’s a football player and she’s a pop singer…the world is FULL of beautiful people. they will BOTH be alright.

Kelly, come this side my beautiful princess. I swear I’ll appreciate and adore you more.

It’s better to find out that person isn’t right before hand, instead of having to find out after there going through a nasty divorce.

Str8 up…they were engaged after like 2 months of dating…yeah, that marriage would have been long lasting….

Damn, I feel for her, even though the engagement was rushed, I’m sure it was really embarassing for her, but she’ll be alright though.

I am sure reflecting on the past, they both agree that was the best thing. I wonder why he is coming out now. Anyway, like many have said: “THEY WILL BE ALRIGHT.”

Personally I don’t see what’s to be embarrassed about people break up all time, it’s not like he left her cause she had bad breath or something. They just shouldn’t have rushed their relationship.

exactly Lovelyree, i totally agree with you. i’d much rather a guy be that honest with me upfront before marriage than find out after the wedding that he was having second thoughts all along but still went through with it because he didn’t want to “embarass me”.

Roy goes to my church and now he’s front row and center with his new girl, named Jade. She’s from Dallas and is a local DJ here at k104.

http://www.k104fm.com/res...d=2194&extension=.JPG

Damn…does anyone stay married? Makes me a little nervous about jumping the broom.

Dang Meagan you are up on a lot of stuff! Where you stay at?

How could you possibly get married with all the NFL pussy being handed off, pitched, and hail mary’d to you?

megan sounds glad that she got to say he goes to her church with his new woman named Jade….well whopptydoo for you….who cares….i think he is saying something now because kelly spoke on it in some magazine last month….and she is probably embarrassed because she rushed into an engagement without knowing the person….and she’s in the public eye so now everyone wants to know what happened….it would be kinda embarrassing to say we broke up because we were too dumb to take our time and get to know each other…but they’ll be alright…she’ll find someone else, and now they both know to take things slow instead of trying to have a relationship cause it looks good…

At least he was honest. I don’t see why they couldn’t put the wedding on hold, but that’s life. It wasn’t meant to be.

I dont know what happed between the two but I cannot respect his move. That simpy says, “baby you didnt quite turn out the way I expected you to. I am not feeling you or this relationship anymore”.

Though hurtful and embarassing (according to Kelly), I think she prefers it that way rather than have dude just play her. It is an ego thing with these women. No woman on God’s green Earth thinks a man can or should leave her.

I personally find this man to be a low life coward. Why bring Kelly though all of this bullshit? If its about not “knowing” each other. Why the hell did he propose to her in the first place. He knew all along that he didnt “know” her that well. Only he soon realized, he would be dating a very famous woman, who wouldnt let his coward ass just go off and fuck all that NFL groupie pussy in the world. Yes Kelly has every right to feel embarressed, what this man did was low. The poor girl, all over the place taking wedding pictures for magazines and shit, and her cowardly fiance wants to back out at the last minute. I dont believe one bit that he was doing “the grownup thing” he did the coward thing. But I still love you kelly, good women like you persevere.

Diana

I stay in Dallas.

I remember reading somewhere where Kelly said they both went to a pastor for marriage couseling and he asked them a lot of questions and they found out a lot of things about each other they didn’t know. So it influenced them not marrying each other.

I also thought she said she was still in love with someone else. Who knows?

Impossible06

This post makes it seem like he broke up with her but from my understanding it was mutual.

I’m embarassed for Kelly. What a dog but what can you really expect with athletes. They travel the country and fuck anything moving. These women that marry or want to marry them should know better. It’s a fact especially when they’re real cute. Even someone as ugly as Shaq is pulling pussy all over the place. On the other hand they did the right thing because marriage is not something to rush into or take lightly. At least they did not rush into something out of obligation.

He knew quite well that they did not “know each other” well enough yet he still proposed to her, he’s full of $hit. He probably got close to her so that he could get free admission into the 40/40 club and hang out with Jay-Z.

Oh by the way I’m have a man and I’m completely straight but I just wanted to let DIANA know that she is really pretty.

His new girl is pretty (not that Kelly isn’t) just say’n

Impossible06, What in the F*ck are you talking about? And it sounds like a few people on here have been burnt by their own athlete. My god, we are only disappointed by our expectations. DUKESMAN 2000 (#17) I couldn’t agree with you more, although I can respect someone being real with me, I’ve been hurt (I’m sure we all have)but the people who hurt me I can’t say they didn’t keep it real or honest about their feelings no matter how ugly it sounded, the truth does hurt, better to say it to my face. If he dumped her after they got married, people would still be talkin sh*t, in this type of game you can’t win for losing, your best bet is to keep it real.

Man why are some of yall dogging this man like that. Just Like Megan was saying,I too heard that their break up was mutual. I too live in the Dallas area and there was a bunch of buzz going around about their breakup. I think it is correct of him to set the record straight. Some people just get cought up in the love a new relationship and rush into things.
But I don’t think he is a dog.

You guys wanna talk about a man being a dog,the guy my Aunt has been dating for years is a dog. This brotha and my aunt went on a little weekend getaway to Birmingham. They got into a fight and homeboy left her in the hotel with no way to get back home to Tuscaloosa. She had to call a co worker to come and pick her up. This only one of many incidents. Yet my aunt keeps running back to this fool. She is 34 she needs to dump his sorry ass and find a real man. But you know people don’t wanna listen when family and friends try to advise.

Kelly should not feel embarrassed,she aint the first person that had to break off an engagement.

But I do feel like Roy backed out of it because he is a football “playa”, and it would have been hard for him to be with someone as Independent like Kelly. Cause Kelly look like the kind of sista that don’t take no mess.

To Diana & Roxy, I stand behind my opinion. It may not agree with yours, But its mine and thats just how I interpreted the such situation.

I applaude this man…At least he didn’t wait until AFTER they were married…Most people love weddings and I think that a lot of men & women get caught up in all of the “glamour” of a wedding and forget that after the cake is cut, the first dance danced and the presents opened that MARRIAGE is a lot work! Personally, I think they did the smart thing. Making a marriage work is much more work than I ever thought it would be. My husband and I work on it everyday. Contrary to what goes on in America with marriage, it’s something that should NOT be taken lightly. It is a serious commitment, one made before God. Hate on this man if you want, regardless of WHY he decided not to marry Kelly right now (temptation of other women, immaturity, cold feet, etc.) but a lot of men wouldn’t have said anything and just gone ahead and the result would have been D-I-V-O-R-C-E, without a doubt!

Kelly should be happy to be rid of that hoe ass Roy! Anyone with common sense know he was just dating her to be seen in the spotlight because she is high profile, that is just like a sorry ass brotha to get what from a woman and then want to go on to the next, that why I tell every women I know don’t give up so fast, get all you can get out of the brotha before open sesame those legs. Roy is a hoe and probably will always be a hoe, Kelly should be glad, you never know what for god saken disease he will catch being such a hoe. I had a sistah tell me that is why she dates out of her race because of nasty hoe ass brothas like him, I pray for uou sistahs because the brothas are truely in heat 24/7, waiting to stick it in any hole that comes along weither it be woman, man, goat, watermelon, pudding, drinking cups! They so damn nasty they even suck and f**k each other off during half-time while watching sports at designated friends houses, nothing but orgies go on at half-time, my best friend walked in on her boyfriend at one of these events and she said about twenty guys was there. Shame on brothas out there being straight up hoes! Shame you nasty MUTHA FUCKAS!!!!!!!!

he did right by getting out of the Knowles’clan. Personally i think that Tina and Matthew was pushing for this marrige but they science aint strong enough.

Lol @ Tracy.. .Haha.. WOW!!!!!!! Sucking and fucking each other off during halftime.. haha that was funny as hell. I wonder if that going to happen at any of the NBA final parties the dudes in my town are throwing..

**Gets out Cam to catch the mess!**

kelly should be thankful that Roy broke up with her before the wedding. I know it’s embarassing but things could have been worse-he could have pulled Ben Affleck on her. (lol at J.Lo for Ben not showing up at the alter with all her fam and friends around)

I think Roy did the right thing. It’s better than being married and unsure of who the person is your sleeping with. They could have stayed together and got to know each other better but shit happens.

Kelly shoud be happy she didn’t make a horrible mistake, who cares about some stupid bride magazine. It’s better than being in a situation like Jessica Simpson.

wow. I’m really glad something finally came out about this because as a huge destiny’s child fan, I was always speculating. it’s good to know that they didn’t beef or anything, he just wanted to get to know her better.

it really sucks that she probably took it as him not wanting to get married at all. it was pretty clear from reading that he still wanted to be with her, and build a relationship and then get married.

that really sucks, ’cause I think he could have been good for her.

THEY MIGHT HAVE NOT BEEN RIGHT FO REACH OTHER BUT HAVE YOU GUYS EVER HEARD ANYTHING ABOUT KELLYS MOTHER? I THINK ITS A SECRET THAT KELLY IS ACTUALLY MATTHEW KNOWLES LOVE CHILD.

After thought:

Or worse she could be in a loveless relationship like Solange. Everybody in Texas knows what a mess that boy is. He will stick anything moving. When they got married he continued to live on the Dorm instead of with his wife & kid. What kind of crap is that. lol

The only reason he is with her is because he doesn’t want to work. Even his family is upset about his behavior. Kelly is to good for some bogues marrige.

I’m also glad that the interviewer got both sides of the story. This is from 1 article in Vibe Vixen, not 2 seperate articles.

They didn’t date long enough before becoming engaged. No wonder they didn’t know a lot of personal things about one another! Plus, with their busy schedules, they probably didn’t get much quality time along. I can understand her being embarrased after a break-up, much less the ending of her engagement. I feel for her. However, it’s better they broke-up BEFORE getting married. DIVORCE would be even worse!!

I applaud him for stepping away..some people find someone and fall in love w/the outside of that person quickly, which I think happened here. They both “seemed” so right to each other that they may have felt waiting was unnecessary at first…it was better to leave now then to wake up one morning look at the person next to you and question why you married a complete stranger.

Well he shouldn’t have ever popped the question if he was not prepared for marriage. He is a punk and Kelly is better off without him. He was just caught up in the glamour and atteniton of being with a pop star. It’s better for her that she found out sooner rather than later that he ain’t worth her time.

Well I live in Dallas where Roy Willimas live and word on the street here is that she caught him in bed with a female radio v-jay who he is currently dating.

I go to the same church that Megan and Roy go to. He is at church EVERY Sunday on the front row with Lady Jade. Regardless of the mans past, he may have done some bad things and/or made bad decisions as we all have, at least he did not go through with the whole thing and bring more strife than there already was in that relationship with Kelly. At least he is in church and wether he is trying to live right or not, he is in the presence of the Lord and the word and I do not know how much attention he actually pays to the message but he is bound to get something from sitting on that front row. God has a plan for that man and he is going to use that man however he sees fit. Sometimes he makes a miracle out of a mess…but i will not get into that because I will start preachin’ up in here. Just pray for Roy , Kelly and everybody else in the matter.

Roy did not do anything wrong by telling her they needed to get to know each other a little better! My mother is a wedding directress and rule #26 on her list is spend some time with each other after marriage counceling. That is to ensure if the both of you have totaly understood the pastor and each other about the seriousness of union! He probably wanted to stay with her to get to know her but sometimes we women get caught up and don’t want to do anything with the brother who has embarrased us in front of our family and friends! Better late than never!

Oops “counseling”^

Kelly will never be Beyonce. She only wishes she was.

I can understand why he wound up catching heat for breaking off their engagement because if he really felt he didn’t know her well enough to get married, why did he ask her to marry him?!? That’s not cool. And totally embarrassing for Kelly. But like someone said, there are 2 sides to every story, better to break up or cool off for awhile and get to know each other than get married and eventually get a divorce. Now I feel sorry for Kelly.

Whether he broke it off for the reason he gave in the interview or if it was because he was sleeping with someone else?!?…only he knows the real truth. what i find commendable is the fact that he spoke up and broke it off BEFORE marrying her…what would have been cowardly is if he had gone through with the wedding and then commenced dishonoring the marriage by cheating, lying, etc…or if he married her and then everytime they argued brought up the fact that he had second thoughts from the beginning.

Dania

Hey family!!

And Roy Williams is a great guy! He isn’t your typical celebrity athlete. Very humble and graceful man. I don’t know what went on and like I said, I heard the breakup was mutual and in fact Kelly was still in love with someone else, but this man’s character is so much deeper than that.

well a brotha is damned f he do and damned if he dont.
yall cold blooded.

well a brotha is damned if he do and damned if he dont.
yall cold blooded.

she is just silly… Why be embarrassed. He saved her a divorce. people complain about finding a man who will be real and be honest and when they get one they complain.

I CAN BELIEVE THAT HE BROKE OFF THE ENGAGEMENT WITH KELLY BECAUSE HE DIDN’T KNOW HER BECAUSE I BELIEVE MATTHEW PROBABLY TALKDED HIM INTO PROPOSING TO HER SO THAT “DESTINY FULFILLED” WOULD GET PUBLICITY. YOU KNOW THEY THAT GOT ENGAGED AROUND THE TIME THAT ALBUM WAS SUPPOSED TO DROP. AS I RECALLED, NOBODY WAS REALLY TALKING ABOUT DC’S UPCOMING ALBUM. NO ONE WAS EVEN HYPED ABOUT IT. I THINK PEOPLE HAD REALLY GOTTEN OVER DC. I THINK PEOPLE REALLY TUNED IN DESTINY FULFILLED BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT THAT BEY AND KELS WOULD PUT THEIR BUSINESS OUT BY WAY OF SONG AND THEY GOT FOOLED. YOU KNOW THAT BEY IS VERY PRIVATE, ANYWAY AND KELS IS GONNA GO ALONG WITH ANYTHING “THE KNOWLES” TELL HER TO DO OR NOT TO DO.

LMMFAO @ Tracy!!!

LMAO @ M E RENEGADE

You can’t be serious. Their engagement was real. It wasn’t staged…trust me.

And DC had a very strong fan base before the album came out so that type of publicity isn’t even needed. Besides, they got engaged months before the album was even released.

Is it me, Kelly and Roy look a like…or is my eyes playing tricks on me?

Number 30# do not be so harsh on the brothas, all of of us are not bad. I think most of the time women just get wit the wrong guys. Too many guys look at the outward beauty and too many women look at the material things that a guys has. All that does is set up both parties for failure. I wish Roy and Kelly the best.

If you listen to Still in Love with my X you will hear kelly side. In the article he also stated that he would love to be by her side.

Well I for one am glad that he had the fortitude to tell her before it got tooooo late that he didn’t think it was a good move, and had she just thought about it she would have thought the same thing.

Could it have been that her upsetness is over the fact that she was in love with the “IDEA” of getting married and not really thinking of the ramifications of it all? Then we would have been on here talking about “oh poor Kelly,” when it all could have been avoided in the first place.

She is much better off now cause hopefully she will take the time to get to know the next fella she decides to settle down with.

They could have stayed together if that was the case….took time out and got to know eah other. Somethin’ tells there is a whole lot more to the story.

DAmn, is Concrete Loop hacked???

Chicky said:

Could it have been that her upsetness is over the fact that she was in love with the “IDEA” of getting married and not really thinking of the ramifications of it all? Then we would have been on here talking about “oh poor Kelly,” when it all could have been avoided in the first place.
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I was thinkin the exact same thing. Some people are in love with the “idea” and not the concept. I totally believe he didn’t know her that well, she was in the news and it was all going too fast. When he finally decided it was too soon, I’m sure she agreed cause he was right but deep down inside she was hurting cause she was still in love with the “idea”.

Per Megan and Dania, sounds like he’s a real down to earth, genuine brother and she was the one left wondering if maybe “she” went too fast. JMHO

Meagan (#60)
what’s up!!
why do you think it’s hacked?? lol
Just curious………

@ Impossible06. I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU! Why put her through all of the bullshit?? I always thought he looked like bruh man from the FIF flo anyway.
That negro is brand new to the six figure income, a little fixated on the groupie pussy and stardom, and is not fully ready to commit. That is why he got someone else so quick who will allow him to have his cake and eat it to. Fuck em gurl, Fuck em!!!
(I’ve been married 3 years and still dont feel like I know my husband, I just tolorate his ass. I just know he’s fine as hell,takes care of his business and is a good man). Embarassing Kelly like that…he need his funny looking ass kicked!!!

I’m in the “Matthew had something to do with it” camp. He’s always in the mix and don’t know if he’s using cake batter or Kool-Aid.

I don’t see how people continue to misspell my name and it’s my screen name…lol..not singling you out Mizz Ruby; numerous of other people do it to….For the record, Megan. Can you tell I get kinda irritated by that..lol I tried to hold it in for as long as I could.

But, ConcreteLoop was tripping earlier. Everytime I tried to post it would tell me “couldn’t find server” and it was just…trippin.

LOL, my bad M*E*G*A*N, haha
I got it right the first time cause I cut and pasted it. The second time, I typed it freehand. Didn’t mean to infringe on your uniqueness!!! I got it now!

My ex works at the radio station K-104. Roy is a favorite of the K-104 personalities because he does a show and he asked them not to bash him or rag on him when he broke up with Kelly. Kelly was always doing and performing at Roy’s charities. She was at every game with his family and lived with him. Lady Jade is a DJ at K104 and since Roy hangs out there a lot they got close when Kelly was touring or out of town.

Dont get me wrong, Kelandria is BEAUTIFUL, buttttt….that is a HORRIBLE picture of Kelly up there! Them cornrows make her head look like david letterman and that raised eyebrow is not helping the situation any. (Love you like a playcousin Kelly)

Megan I had that same problem earlier when I was trying to post.

Betta had got it right Mizz Ruby!! heehe

Why would he tell everybody that he sat down on the bed and said they really did not know each other….Why cant he be a man and just say he aint really want her. Men kill me. If you aint want Kelly be man about it and just say that..Dont say some ole bullshit.

Okay, lets see…Roy proposed to Kelly Rowland after his mother wouldn’t relent on the whole marriage thing…his single mom and sister are relentless…He was engaged to a girl from back home but she had her own drama and he met Kelly during allstar game activities in Los Angeles while he was still engaged because his pantychaser cousin wanted to be part of the limelight! The sweet fiancee from back home even got a phone call from Kelly who profusely denied any cheating allegations however over time Roy’s cheating ass was too much for her! They broke up…by the way he was in Los Angeles that weekend of the allstar game to put a down payment on the house they were going to buy together when he met Kelly. Kelly has the nerve to take someone elses man and Roy wanted to be a power couple yet he didn’t reallY love her from the getgo…his mom wants him settled down. In addition, he is a serial philanderer who calls everyone and anyone but at least I guess he buys them gifts…This is one guy who is better left a friend and is easily influenced by mom, friends, and the media

And I never even heard of Roy Williams…Kelly Is Way bigger than him. He could not handle her fame.

Okay, lets see…Roy proposed to Kelly Rowland after his mother wouldn’t relent on the whole marriage thing…his single mom and sister are relentless…He was engaged to a girl from back home but she had her own drama and he met Kelly during allstar game activities in Los Angeles while he was still engaged because his pantychaser cousin wanted to be part of the limelight! The sweet fiancee from back home even got a phone call from Kelly who profusely denied any cheating allegations however over time Roy’s cheating ass was too much for her! They broke up…by the way he was in Los Angeles that weekend of the allstar game to put a down payment on the house they were going to buy together when he met Kelly. Kelly has the nerve to take someone elses man and Roy wanted to be a power couple yet he didn’t reallY love her from the getgo…his mom wants him settled down. In addition, he is a serial philanderer who calls everyone and anyone but at least I guess he buys them gifts…This is one guy who is better left a friend and is easily influenced by mom, friends, and the

it wasn’t like she knew all about him anyway. when they first met she didn’t even know he was a football player,never even cared. the only reason why she went to any of those games was because he asked. if he had not asked she would not have cared. he’ll, she didn’t even remember when they first met.