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ROY WILLIAMS DESCRIBES BREAKUP WITH KELLY ROWLAND

Monday, June 5, 2006

roy_kelly.jpg Roy Williams sat down with Vibe Vixen recently, to get the record straight on why he & Kelly Rowland broke up. He said he realized that they really didn’t know each other

“I sat her down on the bed and said, Kelly, we don’t know each other well enough to get married. At the time, she was cool with it, but I ended up catching a lot of heat for doing the grown-up thing.”

Eurweb reports that Kelly was embarrased by the whole situation. She told Vibe Vixen:

“I was so embarrassed. I didn’t even want to go out of the house and I really didn’t want to put my family in the position of having to answer questions about the wedding.”

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1.

Rudy

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

First again! I personally believe that Mathew Knowles had something to do with the break up…He has something to do with everything…I think he knows where Jimmy Hoffa is…

2.

Angel.La

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

LMAO!! Yall a trip. I think they could still be together, I mean damn all he wanted to do was get to know her better.

But there is always another side to the story..

3.

special_k

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

he’s a football player and she’s a pop singer…the world is FULL of beautiful people. they will BOTH be alright.

4.

Bouga (from South Africa)

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Kelly, come this side my beautiful princess. I swear I’ll appreciate and adore you more.

5.

Menina21

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

It’s better to find out that person isn’t right before hand, instead of having to find out after there going through a nasty divorce.

6.

Coko

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Str8 up…they were engaged after like 2 months of dating…yeah, that marriage would have been long lasting….

7.

Nefer

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Damn, I feel for her, even though the engagement was rushed, I’m sure it was really embarassing for her, but she’ll be alright though.

8.

E

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I am sure reflecting on the past, they both agree that was the best thing. I wonder why he is coming out now. Anyway, like many have said: “THEY WILL BE ALRIGHT.”

9.

Lovelyree

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Personally I don’t see what’s to be embarrassed about people break up all time, it’s not like he left her cause she had bad breath or something. They just shouldn’t have rushed their relationship.

10.

speakinmymind

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

exactly Lovelyree, i totally agree with you. i’d much rather a guy be that honest with me upfront before marriage than find out after the wedding that he was having second thoughts all along but still went through with it because he didn’t want to “embarass me”.

11.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Roy goes to my church and now he’s front row and center with his new girl, named Jade. She’s from Dallas and is a local DJ here at k104.

http://www.k104fm.com/res...d=2194&extension=.JPG

12.

cookiemonsterswife

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Damn…does anyone stay married? Makes me a little nervous about jumping the broom.

13.

Diana

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Dang Meagan you are up on a lot of stuff! Where you stay at?

14.

caff

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

How could you possibly get married with all the NFL pussy being handed off, pitched, and hail mary’d to you?

15.

isaywhatiwant

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

megan sounds glad that she got to say he goes to her church with his new woman named Jade….well whopptydoo for you….who cares….i think he is saying something now because kelly spoke on it in some magazine last month….and she is probably embarrassed because she rushed into an engagement without knowing the person….and she’s in the public eye so now everyone wants to know what happened….it would be kinda embarrassing to say we broke up because we were too dumb to take our time and get to know each other…but they’ll be alright…she’ll find someone else, and now they both know to take things slow instead of trying to have a relationship cause it looks good…

16.

mika

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

At least he was honest. I don’t see why they couldn’t put the wedding on hold, but that’s life. It wasn’t meant to be.

17.

dukesman2000

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I dont know what happed between the two but I cannot respect his move. That simpy says, “baby you didnt quite turn out the way I expected you to. I am not feeling you or this relationship anymore”.

Though hurtful and embarassing (according to Kelly), I think she prefers it that way rather than have dude just play her. It is an ego thing with these women. No woman on God’s green Earth thinks a man can or should leave her.

18.

Impossible06

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I personally find this man to be a low life coward. Why bring Kelly though all of this bullshit? If its about not “knowing” each other. Why the hell did he propose to her in the first place. He knew all along that he didnt “know” her that well. Only he soon realized, he would be dating a very famous woman, who wouldnt let his coward ass just go off and fuck all that NFL groupie pussy in the world. Yes Kelly has every right to feel embarressed, what this man did was low. The poor girl, all over the place taking wedding pictures for magazines and shit, and her cowardly fiance wants to back out at the last minute. I dont believe one bit that he was doing “the grownup thing” he did the coward thing. But I still love you kelly, good women like you persevere.

19.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Diana

I stay in Dallas.

I remember reading somewhere where Kelly said they both went to a pastor for marriage couseling and he asked them a lot of questions and they found out a lot of things about each other they didn’t know. So it influenced them not marrying each other.

I also thought she said she was still in love with someone else. Who knows?

20.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Impossible06

This post makes it seem like he broke up with her but from my understanding it was mutual.

21.

dafinest1

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I’m embarassed for Kelly. What a dog but what can you really expect with athletes. They travel the country and fuck anything moving. These women that marry or want to marry them should know better. It’s a fact especially when they’re real cute. Even someone as ugly as Shaq is pulling pussy all over the place. On the other hand they did the right thing because marriage is not something to rush into or take lightly. At least they did not rush into something out of obligation.

22.

Nefer

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

He knew quite well that they did not “know each other” well enough yet he still proposed to her, he’s full of $hit. He probably got close to her so that he could get free admission into the 40/40 club and hang out with Jay-Z.

23.

dafinest1

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Oh by the way I’m have a man and I’m completely straight but I just wanted to let DIANA know that she is really pretty.

24.

caligrl

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

His new girl is pretty (not that Kelly isn’t) just say’n

25.

Roxy

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Impossible06, What in the F*ck are you talking about? And it sounds like a few people on here have been burnt by their own athlete. My god, we are only disappointed by our expectations. DUKESMAN 2000 (#17) I couldn’t agree with you more, although I can respect someone being real with me, I’ve been hurt (I’m sure we all have)but the people who hurt me I can’t say they didn’t keep it real or honest about their feelings no matter how ugly it sounded, the truth does hurt, better to say it to my face. If he dumped her after they got married, people would still be talkin sh*t, in this type of game you can’t win for losing, your best bet is to keep it real.

26.

miss thang

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Man why are some of yall dogging this man like that. Just Like Megan was saying,I too heard that their break up was mutual. I too live in the Dallas area and there was a bunch of buzz going around about their breakup. I think it is correct of him to set the record straight. Some people just get cought up in the love a new relationship and rush into things.
But I don’t think he is a dog.

You guys wanna talk about a man being a dog,the guy my Aunt has been dating for years is a dog. This brotha and my aunt went on a little weekend getaway to Birmingham. They got into a fight and homeboy left her in the hotel with no way to get back home to Tuscaloosa. She had to call a co worker to come and pick her up. This only one of many incidents. Yet my aunt keeps running back to this fool. She is 34 she needs to dump his sorry ass and find a real man. But you know people don’t wanna listen when family and friends try to advise.

27.

momo

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Kelly should not feel embarrassed,she aint the first person that had to break off an engagement.

But I do feel like Roy backed out of it because he is a football “playa”, and it would have been hard for him to be with someone as Independent like Kelly. Cause Kelly look like the kind of sista that don’t take no mess.

28.

Impossible06

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

To Diana & Roxy, I stand behind my opinion. It may not agree with yours, But its mine and thats just how I interpreted the such situation.

29.

Activist Mamma

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I applaude this man…At least he didn’t wait until AFTER they were married…Most people love weddings and I think that a lot of men & women get caught up in all of the “glamour” of a wedding and forget that after the cake is cut, the first dance danced and the presents opened that MARRIAGE is a lot work! Personally, I think they did the smart thing. Making a marriage work is much more work than I ever thought it would be. My husband and I work on it everyday. Contrary to what goes on in America with marriage, it’s something that should NOT be taken lightly. It is a serious commitment, one made before God. Hate on this man if you want, regardless of WHY he decided not to marry Kelly right now (temptation of other women, immaturity, cold feet, etc.) but a lot of men wouldn’t have said anything and just gone ahead and the result would have been D-I-V-O-R-C-E, without a doubt!

30.

Tracy

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Kelly should be happy to be rid of that hoe ass Roy! Anyone with common sense know he was just dating her to be seen in the spotlight because she is high profile, that is just like a sorry ass brotha to get what from a woman and then want to go on to the next, that why I tell every women I know don’t give up so fast, get all you can get out of the brotha before open sesame those legs. Roy is a hoe and probably will always be a hoe, Kelly should be glad, you never know what for god saken disease he will catch being such a hoe. I had a sistah tell me that is why she dates out of her race because of nasty hoe ass brothas like him, I pray for uou sistahs because the brothas are truely in heat 24/7, waiting to stick it in any hole that comes along weither it be woman, man, goat, watermelon, pudding, drinking cups! They so damn nasty they even suck and f**k each other off during half-time while watching sports at designated friends houses, nothing but orgies go on at half-time, my best friend walked in on her boyfriend at one of these events and she said about twenty guys was there. Shame on brothas out there being straight up hoes! Shame you nasty MUTHA FUCKAS!!!!!!!!

31.

NAWIRI

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

he did right by getting out of the Knowles’clan. Personally i think that Tina and Matthew was pushing for this marrige but they science aint strong enough.

32.

Impossible06

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Lol @ Tracy.. .Haha.. WOW!!!!!!! Sucking and fucking each other off during halftime.. haha that was funny as hell. I wonder if that going to happen at any of the NBA final parties the dudes in my town are throwing..

**Gets out Cam to catch the mess!**

33.

NAWIRI

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

kelly should be thankful that Roy broke up with her before the wedding. I know it’s embarassing but things could have been worse-he could have pulled Ben Affleck on her. (lol at J.Lo for Ben not showing up at the alter with all her fam and friends around)

34.

damshespretty

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I think Roy did the right thing. It’s better than being married and unsure of who the person is your sleeping with. They could have stayed together and got to know each other better but shit happens.

Kelly shoud be happy she didn’t make a horrible mistake, who cares about some stupid bride magazine. It’s better than being in a situation like Jessica Simpson.

35.

Brian

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

wow. I’m really glad something finally came out about this because as a huge destiny’s child fan, I was always speculating. it’s good to know that they didn’t beef or anything, he just wanted to get to know her better.

it really sucks that she probably took it as him not wanting to get married at all. it was pretty clear from reading that he still wanted to be with her, and build a relationship and then get married.

that really sucks, ’cause I think he could have been good for her.

36.

Shay

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

THEY MIGHT HAVE NOT BEEN RIGHT FO REACH OTHER BUT HAVE YOU GUYS EVER HEARD ANYTHING ABOUT KELLYS MOTHER? I THINK ITS A SECRET THAT KELLY IS ACTUALLY MATTHEW KNOWLES LOVE CHILD.

37.

damshespretty

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

After thought:

Or worse she could be in a loveless relationship like Solange. Everybody in Texas knows what a mess that boy is. He will stick anything moving. When they got married he continued to live on the Dorm instead of with his wife & kid. What kind of crap is that. lol

The only reason he is with her is because he doesn’t want to work. Even his family is upset about his behavior. Kelly is to good for some bogues marrige.

I’m also glad that the interviewer got both sides of the story. This is from 1 article in Vibe Vixen, not 2 seperate articles.

38.

Asentha

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

They didn’t date long enough before becoming engaged. No wonder they didn’t know a lot of personal things about one another! Plus, with their busy schedules, they probably didn’t get much quality time along. I can understand her being embarrased after a break-up, much less the ending of her engagement. I feel for her. However, it’s better they broke-up BEFORE getting married. DIVORCE would be even worse!!

39.

daredd1

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I applaud him for stepping away..some people find someone and fall in love w/the outside of that person quickly, which I think happened here. They both “seemed” so right to each other that they may have felt waiting was unnecessary at first…it was better to leave now then to wake up one morning look at the person next to you and question why you married a complete stranger.

40.

Luella

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Well he shouldn’t have ever popped the question if he was not prepared for marriage. He is a punk and Kelly is better off without him. He was just caught up in the glamour and atteniton of being with a pop star. It’s better for her that she found out sooner rather than later that he ain’t worth her time.

41.

Marie

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Well I live in Dallas where Roy Willimas live and word on the street here is that she caught him in bed with a female radio v-jay who he is currently dating.

42.

dania

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I go to the same church that Megan and Roy go to. He is at church EVERY Sunday on the front row with Lady Jade. Regardless of the mans past, he may have done some bad things and/or made bad decisions as we all have, at least he did not go through with the whole thing and bring more strife than there already was in that relationship with Kelly. At least he is in church and wether he is trying to live right or not, he is in the presence of the Lord and the word and I do not know how much attention he actually pays to the message but he is bound to get something from sitting on that front row. God has a plan for that man and he is going to use that man however he sees fit. Sometimes he makes a miracle out of a mess…but i will not get into that because I will start preachin’ up in here. Just pray for Roy , Kelly and everybody else in the matter.

43.

Brown_Sugar

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Roy did not do anything wrong by telling her they needed to get to know each other a little better! My mother is a wedding directress and rule #26 on her list is spend some time with each other after marriage counceling. That is to ensure if the both of you have totaly understood the pastor and each other about the seriousness of union! He probably wanted to stay with her to get to know her but sometimes we women get caught up and don’t want to do anything with the brother who has embarrased us in front of our family and friends! Better late than never!

44.

Brown_Sugar

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Oops “counseling”^

45.

kim

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Kelly will never be Beyonce. She only wishes she was.

46.

akamissj

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I can understand why he wound up catching heat for breaking off their engagement because if he really felt he didn’t know her well enough to get married, why did he ask her to marry him?!? That’s not cool. And totally embarrassing for Kelly. But like someone said, there are 2 sides to every story, better to break up or cool off for awhile and get to know each other than get married and eventually get a divorce. Now I feel sorry for Kelly.

47.

speakinmymind

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Whether he broke it off for the reason he gave in the interview or if it was because he was sleeping with someone else?!?…only he knows the real truth. what i find commendable is the fact that he spoke up and broke it off BEFORE marrying her…what would have been cowardly is if he had gone through with the wedding and then commenced dishonoring the marriage by cheating, lying, etc…or if he married her and then everytime they argued brought up the fact that he had second thoughts from the beginning.

48.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Dania

Hey family!!

And Roy Williams is a great guy! He isn’t your typical celebrity athlete. Very humble and graceful man. I don’t know what went on and like I said, I heard the breakup was mutual and in fact Kelly was still in love with someone else, but this man’s character is so much deeper than that.

49.

lightchocolate

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

well a brotha is damned f he do and damned if he dont.
yall cold blooded.

50.

lightchocolate

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

well a brotha is damned if he do and damned if he dont.
yall cold blooded.

51.

ne'

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

she is just silly… Why be embarrassed. He saved her a divorce. people complain about finding a man who will be real and be honest and when they get one they complain.

52.

M E RENEGADE

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I CAN BELIEVE THAT HE BROKE OFF THE ENGAGEMENT WITH KELLY BECAUSE HE DIDN’T KNOW HER BECAUSE I BELIEVE MATTHEW PROBABLY TALKDED HIM INTO PROPOSING TO HER SO THAT “DESTINY FULFILLED” WOULD GET PUBLICITY. YOU KNOW THEY THAT GOT ENGAGED AROUND THE TIME THAT ALBUM WAS SUPPOSED TO DROP. AS I RECALLED, NOBODY WAS REALLY TALKING ABOUT DC’S UPCOMING ALBUM. NO ONE WAS EVEN HYPED ABOUT IT. I THINK PEOPLE HAD REALLY GOTTEN OVER DC. I THINK PEOPLE REALLY TUNED IN DESTINY FULFILLED BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT THAT BEY AND KELS WOULD PUT THEIR BUSINESS OUT BY WAY OF SONG AND THEY GOT FOOLED. YOU KNOW THAT BEY IS VERY PRIVATE, ANYWAY AND KELS IS GONNA GO ALONG WITH ANYTHING “THE KNOWLES” TELL HER TO DO OR NOT TO DO.

53.

Nalu

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

LMMFAO @ Tracy!!!

54.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

LMAO @ M E RENEGADE

You can’t be serious. Their engagement was real. It wasn’t staged…trust me.

And DC had a very strong fan base before the album came out so that type of publicity isn’t even needed. Besides, they got engaged months before the album was even released.

55.

Brown_Sugar

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Is it me, Kelly and Roy look a like…or is my eyes playing tricks on me?

56.

jchill

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Number 30# do not be so harsh on the brothas, all of of us are not bad. I think most of the time women just get wit the wrong guys. Too many guys look at the outward beauty and too many women look at the material things that a guys has. All that does is set up both parties for failure. I wish Roy and Kelly the best.

57.

dbmickey

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

If you listen to Still in Love with my X you will hear kelly side. In the article he also stated that he would love to be by her side.

58.

Chicky

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Well I for one am glad that he had the fortitude to tell her before it got tooooo late that he didn’t think it was a good move, and had she just thought about it she would have thought the same thing.

Could it have been that her upsetness is over the fact that she was in love with the “IDEA” of getting married and not really thinking of the ramifications of it all? Then we would have been on here talking about “oh poor Kelly,” when it all could have been avoided in the first place.

She is much better off now cause hopefully she will take the time to get to know the next fella she decides to settle down with.

59.

Jazzygal26

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

They could have stayed together if that was the case….took time out and got to know eah other. Somethin’ tells there is a whole lot more to the story.

60.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

DAmn, is Concrete Loop hacked???

61.

Mizz Ruby

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Chicky said:

Could it have been that her upsetness is over the fact that she was in love with the “IDEA” of getting married and not really thinking of the ramifications of it all? Then we would have been on here talking about “oh poor Kelly,” when it all could have been avoided in the first place.
———————————————–
I was thinkin the exact same thing. Some people are in love with the “idea” and not the concept. I totally believe he didn’t know her that well, she was in the news and it was all going too fast. When he finally decided it was too soon, I’m sure she agreed cause he was right but deep down inside she was hurting cause she was still in love with the “idea”.

Per Megan and Dania, sounds like he’s a real down to earth, genuine brother and she was the one left wondering if maybe “she” went too fast. JMHO

62.

Mizz Ruby

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Meagan (#60)
what’s up!!
why do you think it’s hacked?? lol
Just curious………

63.

telitlikeitiz

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

@ Impossible06. I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU! Why put her through all of the bullshit?? I always thought he looked like bruh man from the FIF flo anyway.
That negro is brand new to the six figure income, a little fixated on the groupie pussy and stardom, and is not fully ready to commit. That is why he got someone else so quick who will allow him to have his cake and eat it to. Fuck em gurl, Fuck em!!!
(I’ve been married 3 years and still dont feel like I know my husband, I just tolorate his ass. I just know he’s fine as hell,takes care of his business and is a good man). Embarassing Kelly like that…he need his funny looking ass kicked!!!

64.

tiiana

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I’m in the “Matthew had something to do with it” camp. He’s always in the mix and don’t know if he’s using cake batter or Kool-Aid.

65.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

I don’t see how people continue to misspell my name and it’s my screen name…lol..not singling you out Mizz Ruby; numerous of other people do it to….For the record, Megan. Can you tell I get kinda irritated by that..lol I tried to hold it in for as long as I could.

But, ConcreteLoop was tripping earlier. Everytime I tried to post it would tell me “couldn’t find server” and it was just…trippin.

66.

Mizz Ruby

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

LOL, my bad M*E*G*A*N, haha
I got it right the first time cause I cut and pasted it. The second time, I typed it freehand. Didn’t mean to infringe on your uniqueness!!! I got it now!

67.

simple

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

My ex works at the radio station K-104. Roy is a favorite of the K-104 personalities because he does a show and he asked them not to bash him or rag on him when he broke up with Kelly. Kelly was always doing and performing at Roy’s charities. She was at every game with his family and lived with him. Lady Jade is a DJ at K104 and since Roy hangs out there a lot they got close when Kelly was touring or out of town.

68.

telitlikeitiz

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Dont get me wrong, Kelandria is BEAUTIFUL, buttttt….that is a HORRIBLE picture of Kelly up there! Them cornrows make her head look like david letterman and that raised eyebrow is not helping the situation any. (Love you like a playcousin Kelly)

69.

mika

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Megan I had that same problem earlier when I was trying to post.

70.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Betta had got it right Mizz Ruby!! heehe

71.

kim

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Why would he tell everybody that he sat down on the bed and said they really did not know each other….Why cant he be a man and just say he aint really want her. Men kill me. If you aint want Kelly be man about it and just say that..Dont say some ole bullshit.

72.

GettheheckawayfromME!!!

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Okay, lets see…Roy proposed to Kelly Rowland after his mother wouldn’t relent on the whole marriage thing…his single mom and sister are relentless…He was engaged to a girl from back home but she had her own drama and he met Kelly during allstar game activities in Los Angeles while he was still engaged because his pantychaser cousin wanted to be part of the limelight! The sweet fiancee from back home even got a phone call from Kelly who profusely denied any cheating allegations however over time Roy’s cheating ass was too much for her! They broke up…by the way he was in Los Angeles that weekend of the allstar game to put a down payment on the house they were going to buy together when he met Kelly. Kelly has the nerve to take someone elses man and Roy wanted to be a power couple yet he didn’t reallY love her from the getgo…his mom wants him settled down. In addition, he is a serial philanderer who calls everyone and anyone but at least I guess he buys them gifts…This is one guy who is better left a friend and is easily influenced by mom, friends, and the media

73.

kim

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

And I never even heard of Roy Williams…Kelly Is Way bigger than him. He could not handle her fame.

74.

Mamacita88

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Okay, lets see…Roy proposed to Kelly Rowland after his mother wouldn’t relent on the whole marriage thing…his single mom and sister are relentless…He was engaged to a girl from back home but she had her own drama and he met Kelly during allstar game activities in Los Angeles while he was still engaged because his pantychaser cousin wanted to be part of the limelight! The sweet fiancee from back home even got a phone call from Kelly who profusely denied any cheating allegations however over time Roy’s cheating ass was too much for her! They broke up…by the way he was in Los Angeles that weekend of the allstar game to put a down payment on the house they were going to buy together when he met Kelly. Kelly has the nerve to take someone elses man and Roy wanted to be a power couple yet he didn’t reallY love her from the getgo…his mom wants him settled down. In addition, he is a serial philanderer who calls everyone and anyone but at least I guess he buys them gifts…This is one guy who is better left a friend and is easily influenced by mom, friends, and the

75.

nicole

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

it wasn’t like she knew all about him anyway. when they first met she didn’t even know he was a football player,never even cared. the only reason why she went to any of those games was because he asked. if he had not asked she would not have cared. he’ll, she didn’t even remember when they first met.

76.

kim

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

72# Do you know Roy or something? I dont think so.

77.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Ok this is on but off topic:

I’ve been exposed to some new s***

It’s been said that Kelly’s performance on the Japan MTV Awards(look it up on YouTube) was influenced by Vogue or Dramatics. It’s a type dance, I guess, that gay men do and it’s a trip but this boys got skill though.

http://youtube.com/watch?...amp;search=gay%20ballroom

79.

billionheiress

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

at least she found out before the wedding! i commend him for noticing something was wrong BEFORE he said the vows. and kelly shouldnt be embarrassed “we were going to get married…now were not.” what is there to explain?

80.

asbury

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Megan you wrong for that one, although I will say it was good. They were not playing they were doin the damn thing. lol

81.

Blaze Blaze

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Aint nobody give a fuck about you or Roy, Kelly. Just saying.

82.

Megan

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

asbury

lol..yes they were very serious

83.

mildred

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Roy left a pretty chocalate sister for a vanilla sister. What’s wrong with those ignorant bastards.

84.

Impossible06

Monday, June 5, 2006 /

Lol @ Megan trying to expose people to ballroom culture.. Madonna been brought the “vogue” shit to the mainstream… Hell she devoted a whole song and video to it. That was really the song that launched her career to mega stardom.

But yeah it aint no joke with vogueing and ish.

***Dramatics***

85.

brittaney

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

that video is a trip!

86.

Megan

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

Impossible06

I mean I seen gay dudes doing this but I didn’t think they had a whole culture of this. Do you “vogue”?

87.

mika

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

LMAO @ Megan…That was video is too damn funny.

88.

mika

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

My bad…that video is too damn funny. LMAO

89.

mamacita88

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

Kim–known him since third grade and we go way back…knew him when noone would talk to him on the school bus, lol…I just happen to read this site ( like a troll) and I never post and only speak on what I know…when I saw the post I felt compelled to post something..

90.

archuletachick

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

I am glad Kelly got outta that. Dating pro atheles causes nothing but shame, heartbreak and pain. She will be ok. I am happy for her.

91.

Impossible06

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

Lol no I dont vogue, It takes way to much time and dedication and can consume your life if you arent careful. I know a few of the moves and what not. And a lot of my friends Vogue, are are deep into the balroom scene.. Heres a brief histoy.. Its been around for a long time. But again didnt get promience until Madonna took it up in her song..

Vogueing
A more recent name given to a dance that has been evolving since the late 60’s, created in the New York City Jail (Rikers Island) by the black gay population as a means of entertaining the inmates during holidays. Originally called Presentation, then later Performance, it combined pantomime, dance and modeling moves performed to uptempo R&B music.

http://www.balls.houseofenigma.com/

That lesbian from the realworld “Aneesa” she vogues, and “Mrs. Jay” from Americas Next Top Model does as well.

92.

ZV

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

Glad to see TX representing, I’m in Arlington. Anyway, at least the guy told Kelly instead of marrying her and THEN cheating. If I know ‘ol boy, he probably looked at Kelly and then some of the other SMOKING HOT Dallas/TX chicks and said, “nope, can’t jump the broom just yet”. Don’t get me wrong, Kelly is Hot but there are some other chicks he can get at that make her look average. As far as Church, most of the Hoes in the club, drug dealers and wanna-be-ballers and sports/entertainers are in Dallas Mega-Churches on Sunday, it’s place to be seen as bad as that sounds.

93.

archuletachick

Tuesday, June 6, 2006 /

I like you M E Renegade, You’re a mess but you’re funny as hell.

94.

redrose

Wednesday, June 7, 2006 /

HOPE IT WAS FOR THE BEST….SHE’LL BE ALRIGHT

95.

Material Gurl

Wednesday, June 7, 2006 /

This is right on time I was wonderin about this tryin to catch a glimpse of her ring to see if they were still engaged. Aw Poor Baby! That Independent Woman shit is a mutha!

96.

shan

Wednesday, June 7, 2006 /

I think Roy was very mature and right in letting Kelly know beforehand that he didn’t know her that well. If I were Kelly, I would respect him for that, learn from it, and keep it moving.

97.

dania

Thursday, June 8, 2006 /

To Megan :

Hey Family !

To ZV:
I understand that Mega Churches are the place to be seen for certain types of people and so on and so forth and yes we do attend a mega church. but i still think that not everybody has to be like that ( there to be seen) I firmly believe that God has plans for people and I hope he ( ROY) is one of those people . As for he and Kelly , I think he did the right thing by calling the whole thing off because like so many people have said before me , he may have saved them some heartache and divorce that was not necessary.

98.

SAY WHAT :O

Thursday, June 8, 2006 /

So why did he propose?

99.

Toy

Saturday, June 10, 2006 /

this is Kelly Roland..she’s pretty and rich..she’ll be ok..keep ya head up girl!!!

100.

leekagyrl

Monday, June 12, 2006 /

Honestly, I think Roy is gay and on the DL (down low) and caught Roy slipping. Hmmmm….a lot of football players and athletes be on the DL. I wouldn’t run it past him. That would fall right in line with his comments towards Kelly about him not knowing each other well enough. PLus, why was he rushing to marry her? SOund’s like a front operation to me. Makes you also think about “Eva the Diva” and that actor guy who was engaged and then they broke it off with no comment. I heard Kelly on the radio in Chicago about a year ago and she sounded hella bitter about being single. She fronted like she was happy and how she wanted “mr.right, not mr.right now.” If things went down the way Roy says, I doubt Kelly would be bitter. If I were Kelly I wouldn’t be ashamed if he broke of the engagment because he wanted to get to know me more, I would be happy that he told me NOW instead of latter. Yup, Roy is probably on the DL, and either way, Kelly you are better off……I’m sure God has someone in store for you and Roy. But both Kelly and Roy need to to figure out what they want. Clearly it ain’t eachother and maybe the break up is a blessing in disquise.

101.

lala

Wednesday, June 14, 2006 /

well shit if roy is on the dl i want summa DAT

102.

brooklyn

Saturday, June 17, 2006 /

kelly just wanted someone cas bey wit some one dey to damn goofy for me bey goofy and kelly just give dat man some pussy and see wat happen just be a ho is all lolololo,olololol

103.

TO HOT FO YO EYES TO SEE

Saturday, July 8, 2006 /

LOOK 45 WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT BEAST GOT TO DO WIT DISS MAN KELLY FUCK HIS SORRY ASS I HEARD HE WAS FUCKIN EVERY THING HE JUST WANTED SOME ATTENTION AND HIS GOOFY ASS GOT IT FUCK HIS DIRTY ASS YOU CAN DO BETTER SWEETY

104.

Shantese

Saturday, July 15, 2006 /

Well I hope for the best for the both of them. And from the interview that I read with Kelly, she says sort of the same thing he said, that they were too young to be exchanging vows. And in the interview the only part that she actually acknowledges as being embarrassed about is the fact that only days after the breakup she was on the cover of some wedding magazine. She held no grudge towards him or the relationship stating that is was something to learn from and that Destiny’s Child helped her get through it. There was noone to blame they both just realized they weren’t ready. The only thing that seems wrong with both stories is the fact that they didn’t stay together and work it out as an unmarried couple. Maybe he was cheating, maybe she was in love with someone else, who knows. All I know is that they both seem pretty content with how things worked out so maybe we should be, too, considering it really has nothing to do with us.

105.

kefale

Friday, July 28, 2006 /

#9. I can see why she’s embarrassed. A man publicly confessed his love to her. Asked her for his hand in marriage. Talked about plans. Thus, he publicly revealed his ultimate motives to her. Thus, having sex would not create Kelly having to guard herself because the information she’s relying on tells her that this man loves her. It’s not really about them rushing because people do that all the time protected or unprotected. If they wanted to have sex, cool, because this is real life and that happens, period. But, the fact that she is pregnant is because he promised her a future and she went on that. The embarrassing part is that he future-talked her until he fucked her pants off and created a baby and still is not interested in a building a future – at least if he really cared or loved her he would invest more time, but he seems to be cutting her off, which makes Kelly a totally different kind of woman. So, she’s left without a man and an incoming child, a typical situation for many young black women. It’s clear that this man’s agenda was definitely hidden. And, now, he’s speaking up because he wants to save his reputation. But, he’s the type black man that makes real, decent, good, hard working and hard-loving black man look bad.
Here’s what is most important, though, although he makes Kelly look like the typical black woman, single mother shit, it’s not her, it’s him. In a fucked up situation like that one party’s always full of shit. And, I don’t knock single parenting, Kelly will be fine just as many other strong black/white/Hispanic.etc woman are without a man. Kelly is beautiful and talented; these things are her highest waves that will take her on a blessed journey. I just hope she doesn’t cover herself in shame.

106.

missn

Saturday, July 29, 2006 /

Did they say he was the baby daddy?

107.

that nigga lil d

Tuesday, August 1, 2006 /

kelly you tube still in luv wit my x feat young texus

108.

bitch from the neighborhood

Thursday, August 3, 2006 /

I AM A BIG FAN OF KELLY ROWLAND AND I AHVE 2 SAY IT FUCKIN HURTS 2 C KELLY IN THIS SITUATION BUT ALL I AHVE 2 SAY IS LET THAT MUTHAFUCKA NOT TAKE CARE OF HIS CHILD KELLY HAS 2 MUCH SHIT TO DO THATS WHY I DON’T KNOW WHY SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS FUCKIN SITUATION BUT SHE IS GONNA GET SOME HELP YALL BETTA BELIVE THAT SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

109.

NayNay

Sunday, August 13, 2006 /

She aint pregnant! Calm yo self but anyway she do seem like she might be on th conceited side. Most men can’t handle it. So don’t be mad b/c of the breakup.STAN. Just hold ya breath till she get it together!

110.

a-big

Wednesday, August 16, 2006 /

Roy and Kelly broke up long before he started dating Jade.

matt knowles was running everything about her life. They wanted to get married, but scheduling got in the way and knowles made her choose.

roy is not a bad guy. he is rich, he is popular. he didn’t need kelly to get in the inner circle of Jay-Z. He doesn’t need the money she has. He just got a $25 million contract.

he did her a favor of not taking her through marriage, then divorce. he didn’t cheat. she didn’t cheat. it was just incompatibility.

all yall stop tripping. roy is not a bad guy or cheater.

111.

darlena

Sunday, September 3, 2006 /

SHE WAS ON THE COVER OF A MAJOR BRIDAL MAGAZINE WITH A WEDDING DRESS ON ! That was childish and immature of him to ask her to marry him too early. He knew that when he asked. Just childish ! Glad she didn’t marry him. Making impromptu important decisions on the fly, she needs to be running from him !

He most likely found someone else he wanted, otherwise they’d still be together, dating and getting to know each other. Yeah, HE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. DAMN SHAME !

112.

icecoldbrew

Wednesday, September 13, 2006 /

I KNOW HE REALLY FEEL STUPID NOW THAT HE GOT FIRED FROM THE LOINS

113.

audrey

Friday, September 22, 2006 /

im dissapointed.how cud that happen oh my God

114.

aire

Wednesday, October 4, 2006 /

I don’t know #110, Roy seems not nice to me. But maybe he was having a bad day that time. yeah he was i guess that was it. yeah right.

115.

mkr81

Thursday, October 5, 2006 /

Roy did the right thing, all he was saying is we need to get to know each other more before we get married. She didnt have to leave him, she must have taken what he said the wrong way and left him.

116.

Trece

Thursday, October 5, 2006 /

#115, Are you Roy? Are know him or something? I know him or somebody he knows be on this site reading about himself..Or him.. Well if so What’s Up!!

117.

Kammy

Friday, October 6, 2006 /

I feel that when you with someone shit happens, but as far as proposing that is a big step to take if you haven’t thought it out carefully. Anyone would be disappointed and embarrassed male or female to think that are getting married and then the other person suddenly has a reality check. It was honest of him not to go through with it though. As for him going to Church every Sunday, It isn’t Church that makes you a better person or love God it’s the love that you haold for him inside of your heart. So many people assume because someone is in Church every sunday he is without sin or on some pedestal. I know some people that go to church every day and they can be as conniving, gossipy and disrespectful as anything.

118.

Kammy

Friday, October 6, 2006 /

*hold (typo)

119.

TRECE

Monday, October 9, 2006 /

WELL KAMMY,
I AM A LITTLE MIX UP , HOW ARE YOU GOING TO CURSE, THEN PREACH ON A GOSSIP SITE?

120.

Joannna

Tuesday, October 10, 2006 /

Okay, don’t know each other well enough to get married but she is pregnant now, so I guess they decided to move on to the bigger stuff!

How she a christian and out getting her behind pregnant?

122.

msblacknasty1

Monday, January 1, 2007 /

he just wanted the pussy and then quit= hit it and quit it

123.

keven li

Monday, January 22, 2007 /

i went to high school with this guy. there’s got to be more to this story. living in the spotlight and all, somebody must have been “distraced” by other things.

124.

heaven

Monday, April 30, 2007 /

They will be alright and just remember to pray for all of them. ROY

125.

Sakuii

Tuesday, May 1, 2007 /

Rudy…shut the fuck up you’re a class A idiot

126.

Chenita Amey

Wednesday, June 6, 2007 /

Yeah Roy,
I was hoping we could hang out and we could get to know each. I like candlelight dinners, going to the theatre, church basketball, football and baseball games. Its so much more fun when you’re are actually at the game. Also, I love the basic things in life. Working hard, going to the movies and spending the rest of my time with my family.

127.

good girl

Monday, June 25, 2007 /

Kelly will be blessed. And hopefully the guy will take care of his child in the event that one is involved or you better believe that God will handle that situation.

128.

dj dink

Sunday, September 9, 2007 /

u did the rite thindg playa,trust me i know women havin a hard time being with this DALLAS COWBOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

129.

Trecee

Sunday, November 4, 2007 /

People still commenting after all this time.
Well what hard time or they having? #128 I want to know??

130.

Hovie Home

Sunday, January 20, 2008 /

Commenting in 08…wooow lol I totally can relate to her new album….post break up. You the best .

131.

FUNNY AS HELL

Monday, July 28, 2008 /

FUNNY AS HEEL YALL ARE FUNNY AND WHAT CHURCH HE GO TO IBOC?

132.

FUNNY AS HELL

Monday, July 28, 2008 /

FUNNY AS HEEL YALL ARE FUNNY AND WHAT CHURCH HE GO TO IBOC?

133.

La Tania

Thursday, January 22, 2009 /

Kelly Rowland shouldn’t be as shame about not getting married too ex-fiance Roy. I rather for a man too tell me the truth then hurt me in the long run.