I LUV this song, n tha video is aite.

Im glad she made this her third single

Don’t call it a comeback, she’s been here for years. I like the video.

I loved this song when I first heard it, cause I was going through some things at the time. I love a song that I can really feel and relate, and most of Mary’s songs are like that. Keep doing ya thang girl!

Wow, my eyes were glued to the screen. Great song, great video. Mary stepped up.

I love the song and I love Mary, this is her best CD yet.

Yeah Tianna, this video is classic Mary. I love it. The first video in awhile that I actually didn’t want to stop midway.

I love it!

This is gonna be another Be Without You.Classic!!

Mary looks good.

The video is very nice, Mary has proved over and over that she is the Queen of R&B…..

what a great message and video. We can only be who we are….Sisters need to pay attention, we should only BUILD EACH OTHER UP not TEAR EACH OTHER DOWN no matter what the situation is.

this so is SO BAD, i hope it gos to number one and reboose her career again

i like the song and the video alot

What I Love About Mary is that she isnt tryin to be young!! She doesnt have to show skin to sell records and keep up with prettier, younger artist of today…….I love older women and Mary Could Get It…….LoL Feelin the Video reminds me of the past video’s where Mary plays differnt people……Positive Message!

Angel.LA Thats A Hot New Pic U Have…….Let Me Find Out!…….

MARY IS A DIVA SHE DIDNT TAKE THE ALBUM VERSION AND DID A VIDEO SHE REDID THE SONG AND MADE A VIDEO NOW THATS A PERFORMER! GO MARY I LOVER HER

Powsrful message, mary is so pretty.

I love the song and video, who is that hottie because he look good.

I loved the video…very nice concept. I love the song…wow! Strong message.

The guys in the video are very nice looking. I love all of the different looks on Mary…the business look was a very good look for her too.

Great song but I was hoping that she had released ” I found my everything” That song is simply beautiful

that video was horrible .just listen to her vocals.i like mary but she need to step her game up on the vocal tip.but the video is ok but its classic r&b nothing new it feels like she did this already.(your child,enough crying,give me you.)

Mary J. is still holdin it down! Love the video, the song, the cd and Mary.

LOVED THE SONG AND THE VIDEO. SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY TAKE…

Mary really did step it up. I was like why am I tryna watch this video but as it went on, I loved it. The storyline is great…one of the best videos i’ve seen in a while. Now the song is okay but aftrer watchin the video, i like it more.

MJB is a SSSTTTAAARRRAAAAHHHH…. This is the version she did at the GREATEST SHOW ON EARTH…lolol She is def deliverying a msg!!! I hope these young ladies are listening…

I thought that was very nice and different.

Mary hasn’t had a good song since “What’s the 411″.

I love the majority of Mary’s videos and this is no exception. I love the concept of this video! It was really nicely done. And I’ve loved the song for awhile now, it’s definitely one of my favorites on the album!

Great job Mary! I love it.

Down with this joint since I heard the cd, heard this song the other night and was like I wonder if it’s gonna be her next single, and here it is…really feeling this song….

HORRIBLE!!!!! the same damn thing mary “drug addict” blige.SHE IS STILL GHETTO TRASH TO ME.AND SHE LOOKS OLD IN THE FACE.ACTUALLY YUCK FACE!

To all the contributers…I REALLY DON’T LIKE THE NEW AVATARS….Angela looks like Bobby Christin’a big sister, Brian’s facial expression is irritating(luv the locs though), and Tianna looks like Big Lez…STOP CHANGING THEM…they keep getting worse…AND HOPEFULLY YOU WON’T ERASE THIS COMMENT AGAIN…It’s funny how people can dish it and not take it…I thought this was an open forum….

Wow, this made me believe in videos again. Great job, Mary!

this video is simply beautiful…thank U MJB….

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I CAN RELATE TO THIS SONG/VIDEO.. IF A WOMEN CAN SEND A MESSAGE THROUGH HER MUSIC THAT RELATES TO ANY FEMALE WITH SUCH POWER THEN THAT MEANS HER JOB IS WELL DONE.. THANK YOU MARY.. ANOTHER CLASSIC JOINT GIRL!

I think the song is very nice and the video is very plain and simple, nothing really special, but it defenitely goes with the song and its powerful message.

That’s what I’m talking about! Nice video and great song. They went well together. This is gonna be another one of those songs that people will be writing Mary about telling her how this made a positive impact on their lives. Peace.

Now this is what I’m talking about! Beyonce take notes!!! I love this song and the video is great. It reminds me of that old video, She Works Hard For Her Money.

wow, the characters were so real, u forget that its all her, i love it

Wow this is like so real! There should be allot of women who can relate to this video.

Really love this video.

It’s nice to have some balance in music: you have your booty-shaking songs and videos and you can have a song that really says something. I’m close to being a Mary stan, but not quite Go on Mary! Can’t wait to see her in Toronto on Tuesday night

I want to comment for two reasons……….

1) This is classic Mary; the hurt, the pain, and the success. I LOVE THIS SCHITT!!!!!

2) Behind every great song is/are a great songwiter(s). j.Que (who is my younger brother), Keri Hilson, Zeke Lewis, Candice Nelson, & Balewa Muhammad…..better known as “The Clutch!” This talented crew is behind some of the hottest records to be released this year, including “As I Am”.
More info????? http://www.myspace.com/theclutchinc

**Concrete Loop keep doin ya thing!!!!!! I’m a fan, ya dig?

nices song..i love all the looks. ……but that damn braid is killing me!

WE AS FANS HAVE SEEN MARY GO THROUGH SO MANY CHANGES I AM SO GLAD SHE IS FINALLY HAPPY WITHIN HER SELF. I FEEL SHE IS A TRUELY GENUINE PERSON THAT WHY HER MUSIC SOUNDS SO REAL. THAT IS THE ONE THING HER AND KEYSHIA COLE DO SHARE THEIR STRUGGLE COMES OUT THROUGH THEIR MUSIC. I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED MARY.

@Rico Love stop the madness clown Mary looks good just because she isn’t showing her ass you think she looks old. get a grip homeboy

i predict that mary will sweap the grammy’s in february. she’s one of the only female artists that really delivered a great album in the past few months.

Terrific!

@#3 girl me too. I use to listen to this song and Good Woman Down all the time because I needed to hear it so that I could get the message that she was giving. I love this video and this song keep up the goodwork Mary.

Wow that was a beautiful video! Mary is my girl!

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I loved it. Her album was great too.

I love the video! it fits the song very well and she is beautiful in it. Once again, Mary does her thing! I love the different hair styles in it…Specially the one where she’s sitin in the window. I want my hair just like that. I wanna know who did it. I will bring that video to the beauty shop if I have and say I want my hair just like that…lol

Beautiful video with a strong message. I am a huge Mary fan have been one since the very beginning. I love Mary because she’s so real and she makes music that comes from the heart. To Caff: How can you say Mary hasn’t made a hit since 411. That’s pure nonsense she has so many hits under her belt. If your not a fan then say that but for real that was a crazy comment. Rico Love whoever you are that was a fucked up statement you made. Yes she has admitted to being on drugs in the past but she has god in her life now and is doing much better. To call her ugly your insane. This shows me how hateful people are. People thrive off of other peoples misery. Honestly you sound like a fucked up individual! And a hater. It’s people like you that keep the hateration flowing. Why because her ass ain’t out and she not hopping around like she crazy. I bet you think Assie is good right? I hate a damn hater!

LOVE IT!

Mary knocked it out of the park again…..as usual. She has staying power….

Wow, that was a good video with a good message for women! Mary always bring the real and the empowering message! I’m about to forward this video to some of my co-workers! Iant got nothing else to do, “It FRIIDAY Craig!”

That’s my fave joint from her last album. I love the video GO ON MARY DO YO BABY!

FYI: Keri Hilson wrote that song! If you don’t know who she is, you will soon!

Damn! About TIME somebody came out with a good video! Show them young bitches how it’s done, Mary.

I thought the song was ok when I first heard it on the CD but now that I have really sat down and listened to it I will be listening to this song more often. She really did a good job with the video. That is the kind of artist that I like. The ones whose song and video actually means something and you can get something out of it and apply it to your present situations or future situations. Go Mary! I love you! Keep doing you babe.

I LOVE THIS VIDEO, AS WELL AS THE SONG. This latest cd has really got me to liking mary again!

SHE LOOKS GREAT

networking you one fine brother damn..anyways mary did it again.. loves it

“take me as i am”…perfect song name cause that’s what mary is all about. she’s one of the few people i can think of that truely does her own thing and it’s always worked for her. she never comes off as someone who has something to prove and relys on gimmics, sexy outfits or crazy antics to get attention. if your han fan, then you’ll ride with her and if not that’s fine too. i like the song, but the video is boring as all hell, but i can garuntee she not’s worried about what i think. she’s just in her own zone…love mary

video is cool, something different. I got the new Ludacris video up on my page not feeling it though, this video is better.

LOVES IT!

MARY DONT HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING…NIGGAS GOT IT TWISTED. YALL THINK CASSIE CAN SING. MOST PEOPLE THAT POST COMMENTS ON THESE SITES ARE A SITE THEM SELVES AND CANT DO ANYTHING BUT HATE. ITS LIKE THIS MARY IS A NEW YORK GIRL. SHE STICKS TO IT, SHE TALKS LIKE IT , HER STYLE IS NEW YORK AND SHE IS FLY. SHE STEPPED HER GAME UP 3000% AND CANT BE STOPPED. WHAT CAN STOP IS THE HATE. IF U DOIN GOOD NIGGAS DONT WANNA SEE THAT BUT IF U GET LOCKED FOR WEED THAN U ARE THE BEST THING THAT HAPPEND. MAN GET YA MIND RIGHT AND STOP TRYIN TO GET WHAT SHE GOT AND GET TO GETTIN YOURS! MARY IS NOT TRYING TO BE ANYBODY BUT HER SELF IN WHICH MOST PEOPLE CAN’T SAY THAT. SHE IS HERE TO STAY AND THATS IT. BOW DOWN TO HER SHE WORKED REALLY HARD TO GET WHERE SHE IS. THIS IS A REAL ARTIST. OHH AND HER LAST SHOW BY THE WAY WAS THE BEST SHOW IVE BEEN TO IN YEARS FROM ANY ARTIST OR RAPPER.

i’ve listned to mary for years and i’ll tell u this new mary is enhanced..she is doing the damn thang..i love mary bc she keeps it funky..o.k. we all know she is getting older however she is also getting better..she’s not trying to act like she’s 19..she is doing the grown woman thing and its cool wit me..

this song makes me wanna cry.. especially towards the end.. u can tell she was singin from the heart..

I love Mary. In every scene she is believable, which is difficult for most artists out there now. Mary is a strong black woman who has overcome many obstacles and should be recognized for her talents. Her songs are uplifting and inspiring. Go head Mary!!

mwah…love you MJB….very nice video and great song…i’ll be rooting for you at the grammys it’s about time the Queen gets to take her bows!!!

Mary has done it once again. I like this video version of the song too. Pretty good.

I like the video, but not what they’ve done to the song. Outside of that braid and the Sasha weave, she looks great. I really want to kidnap that braid and never return it to her.