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DEELISHIS INTERVIEW WITH BET.COM

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

dee.jpg Deelishis, who is the winner of the second season of Flavor of Love, recently sat down with BET.COM to talk about random topics regarding the show….

BET.com: Congrats on your win! How are you feeling?

Deelishis: I’m feeling great. I am involved with the greatest guy and his name is William Drayden! We’ve been separated for four months. Contractually, we could not be seen in public together and that was hard. But I wrote a lot of letters, sent him pictures, and we talked on the phone. He was on his tour with Public Enemy and I did promos with King…, so we had other things going on in our lives to keep us occupied. But now it’s finally over. Today is the beginning of our courtship without 19 other women in the picture.

BET.com: Your feelings for Flav sound so genuine, yet many viewers can’t picture you, or anybody for that matter, having real feelings for him.

Deelishis: My feelings are genuine, and I really don’t care to explain it. People will hopefully see a wonderful outcome and eventually come to see it for themselves. It’s real.

BET.com: How did you feel when you heard Flav tell New York he loved her?

Deelishis: We recognized he loved her when he wanted her back on the show. He’s a person who is easy to love, so it’s easy for him to love. When I heard him say that, I was confused. I thought it was the end, but they had history and that love may have been a respect thing.

BET.com: Did you feel bad for her when she lashed out at Flav?

Deelishis: No, she was a tad bit extra for me. I never witnessed a true moment for her until that moment. You would never see New York pull her weave behind her ear. That was the only time she was real. She was humiliated.

BET.com: Were you upset to find out that New York and Flav slept together?

Deelishis: During the Belize trip, yeah, I was upset because I thought my connection with him was crazy. But prior to that point, it was whatever. I wasn’t sleeping with him, so maybe he just wanted to get his rocks off.

In the end, I won. And If he didn’t pick me, I would have thought it was all for TV.

BET.com: OK, Sweetlikhoney wants to know, “How [did] you keep cool without kicking New York’s ass?”

Deelishis: Knowing eventually a reunion would come. My focus was on Flav. When we made it to Belize, I was tired of fighting. I chilled, prayed and enjoyed the scenery. I was preparing for what could have been one of the most devastating days of my life.

BET.com: Lagrette asks, “Will you be making any calendars for the holiday season?”

Deelishis: I have been offered, but you can find me in Big Tigga’s Kittens 2007 - 2008, Flawless Edition. But I’m really interested in doing a calendar with Flav’s kids and my daughter. Something like the Brady Bunch, but the Flavor Bunch. There are enough of us to cover every month.

BET.com: Gclaybon asks, “I have scars like you and it messes with my confidence level. How do you keep your confidence high?”

Deelishis: There’s something about my personality that’s far more compelling than my scars. I’ve never had to deal with anyone ever making me feel bad about that in my 28 years. I wasn’t self-conscious until recently with the show. I’ve read some of the cruelest things in those blogs.

It wasn’t until now that I find myself covering it up. And I’m going to have to check myself on that. My scars have never defined me. I define them. It’s all about who you are. You can’t worry about things you can’t change or control.

BET.com: Valerie2003 asks, “Will you take care of all of Flav’s kids?”

Deelishis: They’re a rainbow of beautiful personalities. I’m all about that. I’m not trying to run his life, replace their mother or anything. I just want to be there for them.

BET.com: Obviously you know, Hoopz was Flav’s season one pick…. However, they’re not together now. Flav said she didn’t have time for him. How will you avoid that from happening with you?

Deelishis: I’m going to have an adult conversation with him, not to say she did not, but I handle myself differently. Flav is big now and that’s great. He’s going to be very busy. His album drops on Oct. 31, and he’s going to be on tour.

Look, when good things come to people you love, you should support them. I want to support him, and I want him to support me. These opportunities are just stepping stones for us to do great, exciting things together.

BET.com: So, what type of opportunities will you accept? You stated you were not interested in becoming a model; however, you do have a Web site.

Deelishis: I’ve been a part of EyeCandyModeling for several years. I’m not a model. I’m not receiving checks like Tyra Banks or Iman. And have you seen my ass? People use the word “model” too loosely. Do I promote myself? Yes. Take it for what it is. I’m not going to walk on nobody’s catwalk, and I’m not interested in videos. I enjoy taking pictures. Calvin Klein would never hire me. He would tell me to go on the treadmill first.

BET.com: Are there any misconceptions or rumors you’d like to clear up?

Deelishis: I AM a woman. The first time I read that, I didn’t know how to feel. It cut deeply. It cut like a knife and more importantly I have a daughter. I’ve been through things only a woman can go through, so for someone to strip my God-given abilities, it hurt. When we were adolescents we all went through torment because kids are cruel. I didn’t expect to go through this now. It was heartbreaking.

But, I held my head up. I was born a woman and I will die a woman.

BET.com: Will you ever remove your scars?

Deelishis: No, I won’t remove them, and it is very expensive. Plus, if I treat them, my doctor said that there’s no guarantee that they’ll go away and stay away. Like I said, no one really cared until now, but I’m good.

BET.com: What would you like your fans to know about Flav?

Deelishis: He’s awesome. There’s no other word to describe him.

Check out Deelishis on MySpace: myspace.com/londoncharles

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151.

LOVE

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

Deelishis sounds like she wont be with him too long, neither. When they asked her about him and Hoopz that led me to believe. I guess once him and her do they’re thangs it’s over.

152.

Brielie

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

She is just another Hoops. It doesn’t even shock me how she got a chance to be in Tiggers Kitten’s calendar. By the way, Tigger will try to hit anything with a Booty. They were in Miami all hugged up on eachother, and it never seems to amaze me that he is trying to get at her…………………………………………………

153.

justhinkin

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

Each and every participant in this show on both sides of the camera is in it for the money. Love ain’t got shit to do it with this.

154.

XcuseMeMiss86

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

To #136 :

Ummmm Galiano, why are you coming at me! I’m sorry to insult your precious Queen Deelishis! Whether or not I got my facts twisted, you STILL missed the damn point.

D-O I H-A-V-E T-O S-L-O-W I-T D-O-W-N F-O-R Y-O-U!

People are kissing that girl’s fat ass but she has an agenda like ALL the others. She KNOWS HOW TO PLAY THE GAME!! Just as fake as the others. I really hope you’re married because these golddiggers would tear your dumb gullible ass apart!! Please don’t come at me with that bullshit again!

To Kitten and Diva:

I glad some people on this forum are using their brain, yall speaking the truth.

And if one more person ask about how she got her scars… read the posts damn it!!

155.

justhinkin

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

cont’d. if it’s love, then it’s . . .

Money money money, money
Some people really need it (oh, well)
Some people got to have it (in vain)
Listen here yall, do things, do things, do bad things with it
So you will do things, do things, do good things with it
Talk about cash money, no help at all

For the love of money
People will steal from their mother
For the love of money
People will rob their own brother
For the love of money
People cant even walk the street
Because they never know who in the world they gotta beat
For that lean, mean, mean green

For the love of money
People will lie, lord, they will cheat
For the love of money
People dont care who they hurt or beat
For the love of money
A woman will sell her precious body
For a small piece of paper it carries a lot of weight
Call it lean, mean, mean green

Almighty dollar

I know money is the root of all evil
Do funny things to some people
Give me a nickel, brother can you spare a dime
Money can drive some people out of their minds
Got to have it, I really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Some people really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Got to have it, I really need it
How many things have I heard you say
Lay down, lay down, a woman will lay down
For the love of money
All for the love of money
Dont let, dont let, dont let money rule you
For the love of money
Money can change people sometimes
Dont let, dont let, dont let money fool you
Money can fool people sometimes

156.

XcuseMeMiss86

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

LOL at #142, Kitten you too funny…if Deelishis took that weave out and that makeup off, she would look busted..anybody can get on Flavor of Love, and your pic is cute, brush the haters off!

Nookie, are you related to Deelishis, you’re so sensitive. Ain’t nobody hating, Deelishis look bad period!! Anyone who uses their body to get money is a whore, simple! It’ll be okay boo boo! I know the truth hurts.

157.

regina

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

forone deelishis donot have to reveal who her baby daddy is its no one business.and if she wanted to get on the show to claim flav thats her business.and its a good thing that she is not self contious about her scars she can live lfe much better.

158.

MARIE2

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

DEELISHIS LOOKS LIKE ONE OF THOSE OLD HUGGA-BUNCH DOLLS, I KNOW YALL REMEMBER THEM, I’M NOT THAT OLD…LOL

159.

baby d

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

yall check out young black, fabulous . deelishis pictures are on that site shes a hoe

160.

Diana

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

Oh and about keloids, I have it and it depends on the scar. I had one in my ear and was able to have it removed. But, I had a C-section and it bubbled. It took me a long time to not be self concious about it. Deel,is somewhat smart, but what makes her diff then all them other girls selling they bodies, plz. I won’t say she is ugly but she ain’t cute either. The only thing is that her ass make up for her face. Lets face it some dudes just love big bootys, they don’t care about the face.

161.

litana

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

diana for real…….flav said it……he picked the girl with the biggest ass so no surprise there…..seh aint no dime

162.

flawed...perfection

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

The show was just entertainment people…

It amazes me how once people see “reality tv” they automatically assume that everything they see is “real”. The reality shows have writers just like regular tv shows. Add to the fact that they’re heavily edited and you might as well say that the only thing that was somewhat real was that the girls used their real names (at the end).

Deelishis is no different from Hoopz. She’s just able to articualte herself a little better and sound a little more genuine in interviews. Both of them have websites (although on Deelishis’ website, you have to pay a fee to see her “adult” pictures or chat with her in “adult” conversations.) MOST if not ALL the women there (like someone stated above me) were video chicks, internet models, porn chicks, wanna-be singers, and girls who been on other reality shows many times.

I’m not sure how Deelishis is classy like a lot of people said she was. Any woman who sends in a video of her in a short skirt with both of her butt cheeks hanging out to a old ET-looking glorified hype man (we all know who the true rappers are in Public Enemy…) is just not classy in my opinion.

163.

Niecey

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

Thank you
to all those that realize that Deelishus is just of a gold diggin hoe as the rest.

She wanted to be on the show to show her ass and to get gigs. Please, she respects herself????

Then why the hell would she be allowing herself to be toss around like a piece of meat by Flav. And she has a daughter–what type of example is that?

And she does look like a man.

I understand why Flav picked her but, at the same time I think he is better suited for New York.

Anyhow, I don’t mean to sound harsh—but I got to tell it like it is.

Cause some of yall obviously are being delusional by making Deelishus out to be more than what she is.

She was a desperate hoe willing to do whateva to get her damn name out there. At any price regardless of what type of example she was setting for her daughter.

164.

hdizzle

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

161 stop hatin . She got that fire. You probably got a flat screen hd tv azz. Shit that womans body is crazy, man fuck some scratches on her shoulder I cant see past that ass.

165.

Niecey

Wednesday, October 18, 2006 /

no one is hating.

she ain’t no dime.

she ain’t that cute

if a fat azz makes her appealing then so be it

other than that—she is just a less than average looking chic in my opinion.

166.

BOOGIEGIRL

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I don’t pity this chick. She talks all that stuff about her daughter w/ the rumors and all but yet, she has a site (LondonCharles) out showing naked pictures of herself. Now if she was so worried about her daughter she wouldn’t have a site out like that. The chick is fake as hell. Her site cost 19.95 to join what does that tell you? She is trying to get famous so everyone can know who she is and join her site. The only thing I pity for her is the way people been treating her regarding to her scars and being a man. That was wrong!

167.

blakluv

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

DEELISHIS- UGLY PEOPLE ALWAYS HATE-REMEMBER THAT!

168.

hdizzle

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I’ll tell you waht I dont like though. I know Its the reunion and everybod tunes in to see the crazy-ness but she really disrespected her self acting like that going after new york acting a damn fool when Her daughter was there.

169.

THE TRUTH

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

FLAV HAS ONLY A FACE THAT ONLY A MOTHER CAN LOVE! BUT ANYWAY, CONGRATS TO DEELISHIS! YOU REALLY DO HAVE A GREAT INER-BEAUTY AS WELL AS AN OUTER-BEAUTY WITH SCARS OR NO SCARS. THATS THE ONE THING THAT REALY COUNT AND PEOPLE ARE LOOKING OVER THAT.

170.

hdizzle

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

you forgettin about that azz.

171.

t

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Her daughters father is supposed to be some environmental manager at Lear Corporation named Jim Colmer.

172.

twintron4

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

It seem like Puff Daddy be playin when I hear these tracks. Just like he was messin around in the studio playing around. I just can’t believe some of the stuff that is released. The only thing that makes any kind of sense is that first single, but that’s not even all that.

173.

hdizzle

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I guess thats the wrong topic lol. comming outta no where with that. I keep whatching the clip of the reunion special. I was really disapointed that she was acting like that with her daughter around.

174.

Regina

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

For#10 You can’t say it’s not going to last lets just wait and see I hope they make it to prove you wrong.And 141# God Prebibb you get scares like the size of baseballs we couldn’t have that now could we The Creator doesn’t like Ugly.

175.

ta

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

THIS BTCCH REALLY KNOWS HOW, TO MAKE PPL BE ON HER SIDE AND THEN WHEN SHE LEAVE HIM SOME OF YA’LL GONNA HAVE UR FACE CRACKED. CUZ THE BITCH DOESNT WANT HIM. SHE JUST DOESNT WANT TO DEAL WIT THE FUCKIN BACKLASH THAT HOOPZ HAD TO DEAL WIT THATS ALL TO IT. AND SHE WILL HAVE HER LITTLE FAME BUT I GUARANTEE THAT SHE WONT LAST VERY LONG CUZ ALL SHE SAID WAS A WHOLE BUNCH BULLISH ANYWAY. IM NOT, I REFUSE TO BUY ANY OF THAT. I DO NOT BUY ANY OF HER BULL AND I MEAN THAT. DEELISHIS DOES NOT WANT FLAV PEOPLE GET IT THROUGH UR HEAD!!! THAT INNOCENT ACT HAS REALLY GOT TO GO, LIKE 4REALZ. AND THATS ALL I GOTTA SAY ON THAT. THAT SHIT IS GONNA BLOW RIGHT BACK UP IN HER FACE AND I CANT WAIT! SHE’S NOTHING BUT A FAKE BITCH TRYNA GET A MAN FOR ALL HE’S WORTH. NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS. IN A WAY I WISH NEW YORK WOULD HAVE WON AT LEAST WE WOULDNT BE SEEING ALOT HER. NOW WE GOTTA DEAL DEELISHIS IM AM REALLY SICK OF FLAV AND HIS HOES ALL OVER THE PLACE. ALL EXCEPT HOOPZ OF COURSE.

176.

ta

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I REALIZED I SPELLED BITCH WRONG BUT I WAS TRYNA PROVE A POINT.

177.

SHAKE THAT ASS CAUSE

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

IT MUST BE YO ASS CAUSE IT AINT YO FACE

178.

THIS IS A BUNCH OF BULLSHIT

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

HOW SHE GON SAY THEY HAVENT SEEN EACH OTHER CAUSE CONTRACTUALLY THEY CANT BE SEEN IN PUBLIC….SO SHE COULDNT RENT SOME VIDEOS AND GO TO HIS HOUSE AND HAVE A DATE,PLAN A PICNIC IN THE BACK YARD.THEY COULD HAVE SEEN EACH AND IT NOT BE PUBLIC.

179.

ta

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

THE BRADY BUNCH MY ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

180.

ta

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

#177 AND #178 I AGREE 100% YOU COULDNT HAVE SAID IT ANY BETTER. ITS ALL A GAME AND PPL WILL FIND THAT OUT, ALOT SOONER THEN LATER.

181.

Crying for my people...

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Props thrown @25,27,39,54,56,67,69,94,106,126,130,145,162,163,166

y’all are the only ones that REALLY get it…

Yes the show is “entertaining”…sort of like terrible a car crash or train wreck…you know it’s horrible but you just can’t look away. You really can’t believe what your seeing to you continue to watch. But do we all really lack the judgment to see this for “madness” that it really is? Do we have to glorify the newly crowned “Queen of Coonery” as “cool” and “real” and as being “good people”? She may have meant well, but this woman is just like all the other women who decided to disrespect their selves and show their collective “behinds” on national TV for 15 minutes of fame…and they ALL should be embarrassed and ashamed.

This woman lacks virtue…(she has a foul mouth…does soft porn photos…raunchy, loose, selling her behind for 19.95 on the net etc., )

This woman lacks discretion and is a poor decision maker (I mean…kissing ,having sex and wanting to be with someone with the rap sheet and character of Flav? Especially after he’d been all up in all of those other women? And dang… on national TV for the whole world to see? Is Flav really so “awesome”? Is this a sign of her “intelligence” or lack of common sense?)

This woman is FAKE…she is NOT classy…not ladylike at all (the catfights…the cursing…the screening video she sent to get on the show…watch the show again people…and stay tuned for the reunion show)

This woman is self centered and has no regard for how her irresponsible behavior will effect her daughter in the future (you can bet that she WILL see it someday…)

I don’t get the comments about her being “real” and “articulate”… she is “real” pathetic and in all I feel sorry for her.

Bottom line is that she will be forever known as nothing but one of the Flava’s Season 2 hoes and in the end she will realize that will hurt her more than help her…

I truly feel sad and in embarrassed for this woman…and the “entire” Flavor of Love contestant pool…and for all of you who cannot see the depths of all of this dysfunction. Its one thing to watch the show to be “entertained”… its another thing to choose to be fooled by what you see…

182.

STRONGMINDED

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Whew this show was ridiculous.

Dont you people even see “delishis is going to come out with an album.” She needed to build her fanbase and this show helped her. you heard her sing. She is FUG ok , And she does look like a man sometimes. hey they may be feeling each other but She is getting publicity to to promote a career

183.

ta

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

THIS WHOLE THING ABOUT DEELISHIS OR SHOULD I SAY HOELISHIS BEING “REAL” IS RIDICULIOUS SERIOUSLY LETS PONDER ON WHY SHE REALLY WAS THERE CUZ ITS SURE AS HELL IS NOT LIKING FLAV. WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD BE WIT HIM. AND IF SHE REALLY DOES LIKE HIM SHE’S JUST AS LOONEY AND CRAZY AND WEIRD AS HE IS. GIVE IT 1 MONTH FROM NOW THE BITCH WILL BE GONE.
YOU CANT FOOL ME HOELISHIS LMAO!

184.

Tweetypie217

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Personally I feel the whole thing is a bunch of bullshit. Flav probably not even looking for love he just needed some money in his pocket to pay child support I know that nigga was broke. They need to make the show a damn series and quit playing.I love New York and I’m glad she is coming out with her own show but that shit is going to be fake also I bet she is going to have a flavorette 2. I cant wait to for this upcoming Sunday cuz it’s about to be on. Big ups to Bootz cuz that was my favorite one.

185.

Preview

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Please people, you’re too passionate about this tv show. Do you also think wrestling is real?

# 130, 162, 181 - enough said.

186.

grlnva

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

This is the superintendant for Detroit public schools
http://www.detroit.k12.mi.us/admin/ceo/index.htm

187.

ms_mac1

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@ Mika #128, thanks girl. ‘Preciate ya. I guess Assbury was too busy cussing folks out to answer my question. lol.

188.

Ms Opinionated

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I must be one of the few that still think her intentions are fake. Don’t get it twisted she is still cool peeps but I think she knows how to play the game. Think about it…..as pretty as she is, as much SENSE as she has, she clearly had more sense than the rest of them (her and Boots were neck n neck. I love Boots) but how could someone like that be sooooooooooo much in love with FLAVA FLAV “IGnunt” (read it like it sounds) a$$?? She got mad game if you ask me. She know this show gone take her places. You mean to tell me she love him enuff to be ok with kissing all them other women, sleeping with them, like someone said earlier…….they all have low self esteem if you ask me.

New York
I’m not gone apologize but that’s good TV right there. That girl is a trip, everyone needs some NY in they life. Yes she was over the top on the theatrics but out of her and Deelishis I know she loved him sincerly. I keep seeing the show over and over and I think she tripped out on the boat cause she was really nervous. I definately felt sorry for her.

I am a NY fan and proud. Sure Flavorette gone be fake too she needs a thug who can shut her up and a thug who will let her just be when he is (high) on the level that he can let her just act a fool. I wish them all the best.

On another note…..Yall got to give it to Krazy. Yeah she got hella punked and all but she never cried or backed down. Something about her that made me want to give her Kudos cause I felt sorry for her *dumb stupid a$$ bi*ch a$$” as Boots said.

Holla

189.

nookie

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

hatin?…never…..and i guess any woman that takes her clothes off for money is a whore….ask halle berry huh….like i said..sex sales…and u buy into it…simple azz dat…she got it so sale it….peace

190.

GET A GRIP

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Everyone needs to get a life… its TV!!!! Why should anyone have this much to say… And who are any of you to judge… how many of you are “perfect” mothers… most of you are probably baby mama’s and that speaks for itself… quit spending so much time judging others and figure out whats wrong with your life that you have to put so much energy into Deelishis… besides if you think she’s just trying to get her name out then guess what she has succeeded because I’ve just seen her name mentioned 185 times…. GREAT JOB DEELISHIS!!!!!

191.

Tweetypie217

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Get a grip #190 Its not that serious don’t be so angry.

192.

honey

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I really enjoyed the show but at the end of the day relationships end for many reasons. I wish them the best I do and I wanted him to pick Deelishis because of who she appeared to be as a person not physical. I do believe she is a pretty girl. The superficial people worried about her scars can go to hell but that isn;t what makes her. I thinks being involved with a man who has so many children is extremely hard and challenging due to the baby mama and the children needs and personalities. I wish you luck in whatever you try. New York might have loved him but she is a crazy, possessive, dram queen and who wants to deal with that. Not I!

193.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

this is a lying mugly bitch! She’s just taking a different route than hoopz! She needs to sit her old cellulite ridden ass and thighs down somewhere out of everybody’s site! Yuke!

194.

honey

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Also people are so quick to judge who is or isn’t a ho. Unless you are a virgin and that is your business. Your mouth needs to be closed. Just because a woman has a child doesn’t mean she can’t have fun and a life too. She is using what she has to get what she wants (players Club). We all maked decisions and not all the right ones. We are the only ones that have to live with those decisions. Everything isn’t about looks so why we hate on a sista. That is exactly what’s wrong with black people. The niggas are disrespectful and the woman are jealous and allow men to treat them any way. Think about this and stop the hating!

195.

Reg

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I’m proud for her and Flav I just hope she doesnt turn out like Hoopz.

196.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@194 honey

DO U HAVE RABIES! ARE YOU FUCKIN MAD! WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD HATE ON THIS UGLY MONEY FACED BITCH! SORRY FOR THE HARSHNESS, BUT I AM TOO OUTDONE RIGHT NOW! IN MY OPINION, THERE’S NOTHING CUTE ABOUT HER AT ALLLLLLL! THERE’S NOOOOOOO WAY I’D HATE ON HER…AND WISH I HAD WHAT OF HERS? HMMMM, LET’S SEE, I’M HATING CAUSE I WISH I HAD HER NASTY ASS SCARS, NO MAYBE HER NASTY CELLULITE RIDDEN DIMPLED ASS AND BACK OF THIGHS! NO WAIT, MAYBE IT’S HER FACE WITH THAT WEIRD BLACK MARK ON HER FREAKIN EYELID! NOTHING ABOUT HER IS UNIQUE AND SHE HAS NOTHING TO ENVY! LMAO!!!GET REAL!!!

I DIDN’T CALL HER A HO, NOR DO I JUDGE HER FOR HAVING A CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK, BUT I DO THINK SHE’S HELLA UNATTRACTIVE AND NEEDS TO FUCKING GO SOMEWHERE WITH THAT FAKE BULLSHIT SHE’S SPILLING..SHE WAS ON THAT DAMN SHOW FOR THE SAME REASON AS ALLLLL THE OTHER GIRLS…FAME AND MONEY! BITCH AINT FEELING FLAV…NO WAY! IT’S JUST A FAKE SHOW WITH FAKE ASS MONEY GROBBLING BITCHES!

197.

Are you serious?

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Deelishis & Flav deserve each other, they are both ugly and they are both in it for the money and exposure. I stopped watching after episode 3 when i found that the majority of those girls were hoes, strippers and want to be porn stars. I did watch the last episode (re-run). Deelishis is now butt a$$ naked all over the internet just like the rest of them, how does that make her any different or classy? And she has a daughter that she should be thinking about one day seeing her that way. They won’t last, they will be over before you know it, and then there will be a Flavor of Love 3.

198.

Lady J

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

OMGosh!!!!! People this is a freakin BLOG, you are SUPPOSED to post your thoughts, feelings, etc. All the “cyber threats”( those really crack me up) and the “cyber cursing out” is so uneccessary(do us all a favor and expand your vocab and pic up a dictionary).

An opinion is just what it is, an opinion that YOU are entitled to.

199.

Nikki

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Crying for my people… Post #181 : THANK YOU!

This is the best commentary I’ve read about this show.

People watch so much reality tv that they loose their lack of judgement and morals.

I watch this show for the entertainment, but this type of coonery is hurting the image of Black women in America.

200.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@198 lady j

Every word i used in my post is in the dictionary; my vocabulary needs so expanding. The words i used EXPRESSED my feelings (though opinion), and while some of the words i used may be expletives, but words nonetheless, and last time i checked, i have freedom of speech and i can say what the fuck i want. (Okay, just kidding with the “f” word - just poking fun at your post)

People seem to get so upset when people use “curse” words, but they are legitimate words, just used for a different purpose at the moment, and this is a blog, so no one should seriously get their feelings hurt over anything posted here; they are just opinions, and if you can’t take the different opinions, then close the door to this blog and let the door hit you where the good-lord split you.

201.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@ 198 -lady j

Oops, correction to the first sentence. Should read “my vocabulary needs NO expanding”.

202.

Lady J

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Well JSCENE that is your opinion. I am the type of person where if I feel as though something is not directed towards me, I won’t give the person the time or day by responding.

If it was eating you up inside that much because you may have thought that my comment was directed to you then so be it.

You are the one who feels that you need to defend yourself and your comments, when I wasn’t even paying attention to your post. A guilty conscious is a mutha…I tell ya

Post what you want…It won’t move me to the left or right. Now with that said enjoy your Thursaday and be easy.

203.

Lady J

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

One final thing, and the last time I checked you had freedom too so you are very correct, I am just saying some of the stuff I read is not that serious.

I mean relax, relate and release…forreal

204.

Diana

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I bet Deelish is reading this thread with tears in her eyes.

205.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@ lady j

YOU TALK OUT OF TWO SIDES OF YOUR MOUTH! ONE MINUTE, YOU’RE CRITICIZING PEOPLE FOR SAYING WHAT THEY WANT TO SAY ON THERE, AND NEXT MINUTE YOU’RE SAYING “YES, WE HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH.” GET IT TOGETHER, FOR REAL!

AND AS FAR AS ME RESPONDING TO YOUR POST, YES, I RESPONDED, NOT BECAUSE I TOOK IT PERSONALLY, CAUSE THERE WERE OTHER POSTS SIMILAR TO MINE, HOWEVER, I JUST THOUGHT YOUR POST WAS SO FUCKIN STUPID..YOU BROUGHT ATTENTION TO THE FACT THAT THIS IS A BLOG…OKAY, THEN EVERYTHING ON HERE IS OPINION; NOBODY NEEDED YOU TO REMIND ANY OF US OF THAT OR WHAT THE SITE IS FOR….YOU’RE THE ONE WHO SEEMS TO HAVE LOST SITE OF WHAT THIS SITE IS ABOUT, CRITICIZING THE WAY PEOPLE ARE BEING EXPRESSIVE…

206.

Lady J

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Lol @ 205 You must have taken my post to the heart because YOU responded. My whole point is geez is all of the cursing/threats necessary?? cool you have your opinion and thoughts but my goodness freakin RELAX.
I donot have to use not ONE curse word to get my points across. To each their freakin’ own, it’s just funny to me.

I don’t have to curse you out, I can tell you to go kick rocks and move on with my day.

207.

Lady J

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Cry me a freakin river JSCENE, this post is gone with the freakin wind. End of discussion. Period.

208.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@ lady j

You’re the one taking things personally; don’t get a attitude because you came on here trying to criticize other people for saying the things they wanted to say, and the way they wanted to say it. You can kick rocks and get the fuck on with that self-righteous bullshit! End of discussion, PERIOD.

209.

Ne'

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I just want to say to those of you who are calling this woman ugly and all the other harsh things… You all are evil, You don’t know her you don’t know what intentions anyone has but your own self. Please be aware that talking about his girl that bad hurts…If you feel good bout potentially hurting someone, you’re demented. It doesn’t matter what she went on the show for, its her business. You people are so cruel it aint even funny. Who gives a fuck about her intentions, Its tv entertainment. It is what it is. Grow up and stop jugding others…I hope you feel good talking shit about someone else’s flaws… delishis, girl do your thing only God can judge you… not these Bloggers.

210.

Goliano

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@ 154.XcuseMeMiss86 - I simply asked you a question. Not saying how I felt about the matter one way or the other. But just like you were easily influenced by a simple post, you’ve now labeled me gullible.

I just enjoy highlighting hypocrisy when I see it… and yours’ stands out brightly.

211.

XcuseMeMiss86

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Jscene you are funny, but you keepin it real! I was thinkin the same thing!

@ Honey:

NOBODY IS HATIN ON HER! What’s there to hate on? Honey, she is not a ho for having a child outside of marriage, honestly I could care less. She is a whore because she had sex on national tv, has NAKED pics online, showed her ass for her casting tape, the list continues… A whore sells her body for money, and if the shoe fits…

@ Crying for my people: BRAVO! Well said!

@ Ta, props for telling to truth!

@ Galiano, please get a fuckin life. It’s sad that your life is so empty that you find pleasure in “highlighting hypocrisy” in others, Yes, I may have gotten my facts twisted, I thought I read that in the interview, but you still missin the point!

212.

ms_mac1

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

OK peoples, let’s not turn this the topic into a back and forth name slinging competition. Here’s my take:

I don’t care to comment on Dee’s scars or any of that irrelevant stuff. What I’m most concerned about is why a seemingly intelligent, articulate woman (and that is undeniable because she can form complete sentences and have them make sense) feel the need to reduce her self-worth to her physical features and shapeliness of her rear end? I mean, I think a woman’s sexuality is a powerful attribute and I would never deny that women should use it wisely. When combined with wit, charm, poise and class, kingdoms can crumble. But when the “ass” becomes your only power, it’s reduced to a shameless representation of the total Black woman (this goes for big titty hoes too)

j/k. Trying to keep it light.

Anyway, the bottom line is that the African American culture has become twisted and we’ve allowed rappers, entertainers and media moguls to define us by our physical selves. When a brother doesn’t give a sista a chance because she “got a flat ass,” we’re showing the rest of the world how lost we’re becoming. When a person’s looks are more important than their character, we’ve already lost it.

Honestly, I could care less how this chick looks. What bothers me is that she competed with other woman for a man that was blatantly disrespectful to a host of females (regardless of how disrespectful they were to themselves. Real men don’t act that way. And if London is attracted to that type of man, and feels she’s ‘Won’ a prize, she may be a fool after all. She’s won nothing, except the admiration of men that like big booty’s and women who feel she was “doing her.”

I wonder if she could show this episode to her daughter when she gets older and comfortably say, ‘Look baby. This was an achievement for me. This is something I am PROUD of’?

Maybe instead of chanting “I AM NOT MY HAIR” we need to be singing “I AM NOT MY ASS, CHEST, HIPS AND BREASTS.

Power to people who “do them” but if doing you means compromising your dignity and self-respect, what are you really doing?

213.

foxxy380

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Ms_Mac PREACH!!!!!

214.

Ms Opinionated

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

212 You went Jill Scott, Musiq, John Legend, Common, etc….deep on us. What can you say after that. That’s so true and if you sit and think about it long enuff its scary. I had a daughter 10 weeks and a day ago and I’m so scared thinking about her and what she will have to face in the future……

215.

Ne'

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

I soooo appreciate MS_MAC.
Such an intelligent woman!

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grlnva

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Ditto #213 & 215

217.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

@209 NE

Just because my opinion is that Deelishis is not attractive doesn’t make me or anyone else who happens to feel that way evil…you sound like a fool! She took part in a competition where appearance mattered, had it not mattered, she would not have felt the need to explain away those scars! In the beginning, Deelishis constantly berated, talked out, called out, other women on the show in order to make herself appear more appealing and genuine. So what she decided to take the high road when she went to Belize, who cares, damage was done and Krazy was off the show! I’m not a Krazy fan, but Karma is a mother! She got so jealous of Krazy cause she felt Flav was favoring her and every chance she got she said something negative about that girl, and laughed at her when Bootz called her ass flat! All those girls went after one another in some way shape or form. I don’t feel bad saying any damn thing i said about her, and i wouldn’t give a ducks-fat-ass if she were reading this! If you go on a show, expect to be picked apart, i was when i did blind date! Some people never looked at me the same, but so what. It would be stupid of me to think people won’t criticize me, ESPECIALLY, when/if i’m in competition with other women. So so what if Deelishis feelings are hurt, tell her what my management told me, “HELL SUCK IT UP!, and if that’s too crass and your feelings are hurt, HIT THE BRICKS, peace.” That’s what i was told and somebody needs to tell that to Deelishis, hell everybody aint gone like you…and so what! She can go on BET all she want and say how horrible she felt when reading some of the blogs, people aren’t intentionally mean, however, people do speak their mind and say exactly how they feel, and anyone who can’t take that kind of realness really shouldn’t read blogs. I will lose no sleep over anything i said on this blog today!

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Meatloaf

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

#212 Damn ms_mac1, you just killed my high! lol

Don’t you really mean that a woman’s sexuality is a powerful “weapon”? If you think that way, use it to make yo man strong, not weak!

Lay of the titties and azz! That azz is what sets us apart from other races! Anyone can go out and get bigger boobs, but not many women want to be sittin on a fake ass all the time. So checkmate! Everyone wants what you black women earned from ya mommas and grandmommas!

Now you got Ms Opinionated all scared for the future! Your daughters will be just fine, because they moms blog on CL and they learn a lot of free $#!T.

I feel like I wandered into the All-Divas society this time! ms_mac1, you a pack leader! Imma have to start reading everything you write! You have too much damn influence on CL!

Ban her Boo! lol

219.

jscene

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

LMAO @ meatloaf!

You better leave Ms_ mac1 alone! She’s speaking the truth. With all the none sense on here, it’s good to hear someone tell it like it t-i-is!

220.

ORA

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

HONESTLY I CAN’T SEE THEM TOGETHER……..FLAV SAID HIMSELF HE JUST BASICALLY WANTS A FUCK BUDDY……..NOT THAT ANYTHING IS WRONG WITH THAT………. BUT AS U CAN SEE SHE WANTS MORE AND SHE IS TOO PRETTY FOR HIM. I THINK HE DESERVES NEW YORK….AND I THINK HIM AND NEW YORK CAN’T GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER AND ITS NOT THE LAST TIME WE’LL SEE THEM TOGETHER. BUT GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE. :)

221.

ms_mac1

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Meatloaf, you make my stomach hurt. I was laughing out lFOR REAL. I swear, if I ever get the chance to run into you one day….

No, I didn’t mean “weapon.” Brothers and sisters need to put the arms down. We’ve fought each other long enough. Now it’s time to build on the positive “attributes” that we have and learn to uplift each other with our gifts — not tear each other down.

Ms Opionated has a right to be scared. Hell, I’m scared. How do we teach our daughter, nieces and little cousins to GIVE themselves without SELLING themselves? It’s a fine line. We (women) want to be attractive, yet respected. But does that mean we have to give up one to get the other? I applaud any parent or guardian raising well-rounded children in today’s society because that’s one tough ass job. And no, it’s not that much easier to raise a young man either because they have to learn how to temper their sexuality with a honest respect for the female form.

To all my ladies, thanks for the positive feedback. I’m not trying to start any trends cause ya’ll know I cut up and act a damn fool on CL when I want to. But the truth is the truth and it pains me when sistas feel they have to sacrifice their intelligence for backshots. Meatloaf, you make my stomach hurt. I was laughing out load FOR REAL. You are crazy, I swear….

No, I didn’t mean “weapon.” Brothers and sisters need to put the arms down. We’ve fought each other long enough. Now it’s time to build on the positive “attributes” that we have and learn to uplift each other with our gifts, not tear each other down.

Ms Opinionated has a right to be scared. Hell, I’m scared. How do we teach our daughter, sisters, nieces and little cousins to GIVE themselves without SELLING themselves? It’s a fine line. We (women) want to be attractive, yet respected. But does that mean we have to give up one to get the other?

I applaud any parent or guardian raising well-rounded children in today’s society because that’s one tough ass job. And no, it’s not that much easier to raise a young man either because they have to learn how to temper their sexuality with an honest respect for the female form.

To all my ladies, thanks for the positive feedback. I’m not trying to start any trends cause ya’ll know I cut up and act a damn fool on CL when I want to. But the truth is the truth and it pains me when sistas feel they have to sacrifice their intelligence for back shots.

To quote my girl:

Now Lauryn is only human
Don’t think I haven’t been through the same predicament
Let it sit inside your head like a million women in Philly, Penn.
It’s silly when girls sell their soul because it’s in…

I’m not putting London down because I’m far from perfect. I’m just hoping that she understand the message she is potentially sending to her daughter or any other female that may look up to her.

I’m out. I got two kids to tend to (and they ain’t even mine).

Peace

222.

ms_mac1

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

WTF was that??

Read this instead:
—————

Meatloaf, you make my stomach hurt. I was laughing out load FOR REAL. You are crazy, I swear….

No, I didn’t mean “weapon.” Brothers and sisters need to put the arms down. We’ve fought each other long enough. Now it’s time to build on the positive “attributes” that we have and learn to uplift each other with our gifts, not tear each other down.

Ms Opinionated has a right to be scared. Hell, I’m scared. How do we teach our daughter, sisters, nieces and little cousins to GIVE themselves without SELLING themselves? It’s a fine line. We (women) want to be attractive, yet respected. But does that mean we have to give up one to get the other?

I applaud any parent or guardian raising well-rounded children in today’s society because that’s one tough ass job. And no, it’s not that much easier to raise a young man either because they have to learn how to temper their sexuality with an honest respect for the female form.

To all my ladies, thanks for the positive feedback. I’m not trying to start any trends cause ya’ll know I cut up and act a damn fool on CL when I want to. But the truth is the truth and it pains me when sistas feel they have to sacrifice their intelligence for back shots.

To quote my girl:

Now Lauryn is only human
Don’t think I haven’t been through the same predicament
Let it sit inside your head like a million women in Philly, Penn.
It’s silly when girls sell their soul because it’s in…

I’m not putting London down because I’m far from perfect. I’m just hoping that she understand the message she is potentially sending to her daughter or any other female that may look up to her.

I’m out. I got two kids to tend to (and they ain’t even mine).

Peace

223.

Meatloaf

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

Damn, I must be losing it, because I could swear that you said the same $#!T three times in a row! I need a vacation!

But, on the real! You women have educated yourselves and established yourselves in the workplace. You live in nice communities and your daughters go to quality schools! Guess what? The other parents at those schools want the same things for their children, so you have nothing to worry about!

Your daughters will probably be leaders in their schools. That means they will have “influence” just like their damn mommas! Especially you ms-mac1. hehe!

I leave the blog for five minutes and come back to find you heading up a All-Butithurts ralley!

I’m sitting in yo balcony cheering you on!

224.

Ne'

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

JSCENE YOU SOUND LIKE AN IDIOT WHEN YOU CONTINUE TO SAY THE STUPID SHIT YOU SAY ABOUT ONE PERSON… I DIDN’T DIRECT MY COMMENT AT YOU SO WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK ABOUT. Keep it movin’ and like I said get a life. London and no one else is perfect her decisions at the end of the day only reflect her and her family. Get over yourself.

225.

kiya

Thursday, October 19, 2006 /

i had enough wit this soft stuff. she was on the show for fame. No one would be fighten over flav like stupid animals. yall grow up. why u think she promoting calenders and shit wit big tigger.yall believe anything the tv says. step yo game up!!!! atl on deck

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