MYRA PANACHE’S ‘BLIND ITEM DELUXE’

I know some of you hate these Blind Item posts, but a lot of you love them. Nevertheless, Myra Panache is back with another Blind Item. I’m pretty sure most of you will guess right on this one.

*I recently convinced a friend (who is non-black) to open up about her abusive relationship with a well known black celebrity. The physical and mental abuse was so severe, she is still undergoing therapy.

She met him at a party and he swept her off her feet. She was also impressed by his celebrity. When she called and told me she was dating him, I warned her about the physical abuse rumors surrounding him. She brushed off my information but a warning sign did go up when he told her, ‘He was extremely jealous and he didn’t know what he was capable of doing if he ever caught her fooling around on him.’

Despite the remark, they moved in together, things started off okay until his cocaine use escalated. She was also taken aback by his critical comments of black women, since many of her friends were black. He would go on verbal tirades, putting down black women. She said, his rhetoric sounded like something you would hear from a white racist. When her white female friends came over to visit, he was talkative and posed with them for photos. When her black female friends came over, he didn’t even acknowledge them. He was cold and distant. When she confronted him, he punched her in the face and threw her down.

She moved out, he was apologetic and promised not to hit her again, he also lavished her with candy, jewelry and flowers. Foolishly, she went back.

During this time, she began to hear rumors that he was soliciting sleazy street prostitutes behind her back.

When she went on the set of one of his films, she noticed he was agitated, he told her, they had cast a black woman in the film and he planned to make her life miserable, which he did. The actress would complain that he was very rude to her and tried to humiliate her in front of the cast and crew at every turn.

Later, he vowed, this wouldn’t happen again, he had his agent put a clause in his future contracts, he would have casting approval. In future films, his female co-stars were not black.

One night, he hosted a party, she lost track of him, she found him in a room, with a man and she saw white powder under his nose. After the party, he beat her, because she hadn’t knocked before she entered the room.

Before she left him for good, she said, he was strung out on drugs and paranoid. He was also spending all of his money on cocaine.

She also said, ‘it was odd, right after he covered me with bruises, it seemed like a turn-on to him, he always wanted to have sex, after he beat me up.’ She adds, ‘It was almost like the bruises aroused and excited him, the abuse was like foreplay for him.’

Recently, she heard from a mutual friend, that he was using a ‘Metro’ phone ($45 dollars a month, unlimited calls) to converse with people and that his last remaining business had gone belly up. He was flat-broke.

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180 Responses to MYRA PANACHE’S ‘BLIND ITEM DELUXE’

  1. Sweets

    #116…I agree with you…..I’m a survivor of domestic abuse and believe me I know…..thanks for the info..and hopefully whoever reads this article will think twice about ever being in a abusive relationship…..or if they are in one…they’d get out.

  2. Sweets

    #116…I agree with you…..I’m a survivor of domestic abuse and believe me I know…..thanks for the info..and hopefully whoever reads this article will think twice about ever being in a abusive relationship…..or if they are in one…they’d get out.

  3. Martin Lawrence

    Yall trippin.
    IT’S STEVE HARVEY!!!

  4. It’s Wesley Snipes and one of the poster’s said he didn’t want a blk woman playing his wife in WHITE MEN CAN’T DROP, this is true but I think the blk actress (he was agitated about in the item) is N’Bushe because she was complaining all over Hollywood that Wesley made her life miserable on the set of one of his movies, I think it was the first Blade film.

    As for the poster who claims Christopher Williams made Halle deaf, WRONG! It was Wesley, he brags about giving her a beatdown and it has been proven to be Wesley. When Halle was in Canada filming CATWOMAN and WESLEY was filming nearby (one of the BLADE films) when she heard he was nearby, set security was doubled. She is still scared of him.

    Wesley has some serious deep seeded issues and he also beat his first wife, the mother of his first son. He is a serial beater, the IKE TURNER of this generation.

    Peace

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  6. Waddie G.

    Metro PCS goes to California too…so I thought…I am guess O.J. Simpson if it ain’t Wesley

  7. Reese

    Wesley Snipes is in Africa Shooting a movie about Toussaint L Overture, Angela Bassett is in this movie also. But he is not the star. SO IDK.

    MyMovies IMDbPro Details

    Genre: Biography / Drama

    Plot Outline: Historical action epic based on the life of Toussaint Louverture, who led a successful slave rebellion in the 18th century that sparked the Haitian Revolution.

    Production Notes/Status:
    Status: Pre-production
    Comments: Shooting from late 2006 to early 2007 in South Africa.
    Status Updated: 23 May 2006
    Note: Since this project is categorized as being in production, the data is subject to change; some data could be removed completely.

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    Credited cast:

    Angela Bassett …. Suzanne Louverture
    Richard Bohringer

    Don Cheadle …. Toussaint Louverture

    Isaach De Bankolé

    Mos Def

    Chiwetel Ejiofor
    Patrick Rameau

    Jonathan Rhys Meyers …. (rumored)
    Roger Guenveur Smith

    Wesley Snipes
    (more)

  8. It’s gotta be Wesley, these blind itema are driving me crazy, too LOL. Wesley def does not do Black women!
    In “Money Train” he was with JLo. In “Jungle Fever” his wife was a real light Black woman. In “New Jack City” his woman was Micheal Michele, she’s real light. It’s a pattern. That nucca hates Black women!!

    @#125…Bow Weezy big where it counts huh? Lemme find out.

  9. Shay

    That movie sounds interesting.

  10. As far as the Halle Domestic situation…
    Wikipedia Knows All:

    In 2004, Christopher Williams was suspected of having beaten actress Halle Berry so badly that she became nearly deaf in one ear. Williams claimed that it was actually Snipes who physically abused Berry.

    and i guess he’s still married to Nikki the Asian painter.

    hmmmmmm

    http://en.wikipedia.org/w..._Snipes#Domestic_violence

  11. OH MY GOSH said:
    I DON’T KNOW IF HE HAS ANY OFF SPRINGS BUT IF SO, I HOPE THEY’RE NOT FEMALE’S. IF HE HAS IT WITH ANOTHER RACE HE BETTER WAKE UP & REALIZE THAT HIS DAUGHTER IS BLACK & READ HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE TO REMIND HIM THAT HE HAS OR HAD A BLACK DAUGHTER NO MATTER HOW HIGH YELLOW, OR MIXED HER BIRTH CERTIFICATE WILL SAY AFRICAN AMERICAN, BLACK OR NEGRO HOWEVER THE GOVERNMENT WANT TO CATORGORIZE US AT THE TIME.
    _______________________________________________________

    Your comment made me think of something he said. He has a son and daughter with his current wife I believe. He said that his son take more after him and that he thanked God that his daughter took more after his wife. If she didn’t he said that would be a problem. I’m trying to find the link to that interview.

  12. Tracey

    i thought Wesley from jump, but not sure….

  13. Damn a movie about Toussaint Louverture and his ass is playng in it-they should’ve had that guy from Amistad can’t think of his name right now-I am sure he embraces his race & black women unlike Wesley stank ass!

  14. Shay

    At least Don CHeadle is playing Toussaint instead of Wesley.

    I’m glad that Angela is in this movie. This movie is coming out next fall it seems like it could be an Oscar type of movie.

    But why the hell is Wesley in a movie about a slave Rebellion?

  15. cocochanty

    I think that he played the part in “To Wong foo” very well. I knew he was a faggie

  16. Yonni

    Well I doubt he would be in a movie about a Slvae Rebellion with Don CHeadle and Angela Bassett if he hated his own race.

    And just because he doesn’t date Black women doesn’t mean he hates them.

    Robert D’Niro prefers to date Black women (married to TWO black women) doesn’t mean he hates WHite women

  17. Nicole

    It’s one thing to prefer to date outside of your race and another thing to hate your race.

    Last time I checked Robert DeNiro didn’t beat them or said disrespectful things in terms of White women.

  18. kiesha

    “When she went on the set of one of his films, she noticed he was agitated, he told her, they had cast a black woman in the film and he planned to make her life miserable, which he did. The actress would complain that he was very rude to her and tried to humiliate her in front of the cast and crew at every turn.”

    This part actually makes me think that it isn’t Wesley. He did Jungle Fever, Disappearing Acts, etc. There is no way that he could know he’s doing the Disappearing Acts movie and not know a Black woman would be cast as his co-star so that doesn’t make sense.

    I really have no idea who it is…hell, it probably isn’t even true.

  19. Leah

    The only reason he is in that movie is because THEY ARE PAYING HIM.

    I agree they could’ve got someone else to Play Wesley’s part especially in a Toussaint Loverture film.

    But he is NOT the star Don Cheadle is and Angela is playing Don Cheadle wife not Wesley’s.

  20. ummm

    If you look up Wesley Snipes on the IMDB database which is MORE reliable than wikipedia it says that he did say that about non-Black actors.

    Anyway the news just said he was in Africa filming that movie about Toussaint. I can’t wait to see the movie thoguh.

  21. Ione

    I will say Wesley Snipes black crusty lip ass.

  22. LOVE

    What the fuck? He was turned on by the beatings? That is the freakest shit I’ve heard. That is actually some scary shit. I guess he was whooping her ass everytime he got horny. I don’t know why women are foolish enough to stay with a man after he has slept around and beat on them numerous times. What’s so good about a relationship like that to stay around. If he did it once, hell, he’ll do it again. Get that through those heads, Ladies.

  23. Mike

    I want to know who the hell is this Myra Panache Chick.

  24. Audwin

    People, it’s not Wesley Snipes. I know we want it to be, but you have to look at the specific clues and not the generalizations.

    Wesley has been doing work, in fact, he’s working right now. His IRS problems have to do with thieving accountants and won’t be charged against him.

    I like the “Metro” clue and whoever he is, he’s strung out, likes prostitues, white women, and is out of work and broke.

    So tell me, who else was dating white women? And actually, Wesley prefers “asian women”. Hell, he’s a Martial Artist…

    Holla!

  25. julissa ex-co-host of 106 and Park, and her infamous man larry johnson

  26. wesley snipes wasn’t the one who beat halle it was david justice he used to play with the ny yankees check the timing when halle made that statement she had just broke it off with him

  27. moneytalks

    #147: It was Wesley because Halle was already 60% deaf in her ear before she even met David.

  28. Sweets

    #142, It’s not that easy…..#144 I AGREE>>>

  29. LOVE

    Sweets, what’s not that easy? If a man is beating or cheating on you that should be your way out. I wouldn’t stay in a relationship if I knew the person was a batterer, but that’s me. I don’t care how strong the love is, or what you do for me. That’s my life. He could end up killing you. You’ll be long gone, than what? He’ll probably move on to the next women, who probably wont allow. If someone loved you they wouldn’t attempt to hit you, or cheat on you. No ands, ifs, buts about it. You can talk to somebody without having to put your hands on them.

  30. Krellz

    IT’s Wesley’s black dirty oil looking ass. All the clues add up. All you people that say it isn’t are the same people that think OJ isn’t guilty.

  31. DAMNIT GINA....

    First person I thought of was Taye Diggs. Wasn’t he on Oprah talking about how he’s not attracted to black women, as black as his ass is. They said Oprah was not well and said he’s not allowed on her show anymore. I’m not sure this story is true, but on his tv show he had, all his love interest were white except when Eva was on there and I think he had to do that ,that was probably one of her prizes for winning. But after really reading this post I’m not sure this rumor is true, I mean can someone really be that jacked up?

  32. PLEEZE!!!

    Wesley Snipes all the way!!! String em’ up and hang em’!!!!

  33. PLEEZE!!!

    But what gets me is….He doesn’t like BLACK women…and that is fine, but he goes out of his way to date out of his race and BEATS the HELL out of those women too?!!

    SOunds like he has some issues with women and should consider switching to “The other team” if you know what I mean?!

  34. yes

    i was thinkin of julissa and whoever she was dating, but maybe not, i think she dates a football player

  35. Too Through with this mess

    Although Wesley Snipes is a woman beater..this can’t be about him because the post states that he doesn’t want to be in movies with black women…well there were black women in Waiting to Exhale, New Jack City, Blade 1 (Sanaa Lathan was his mom), Disappearing Acts..Sanaa Lathan again…Blade 2 Sanaa Lathan returns as his mom…AND he seems to date only Asian women..

  36. Ms1derful

    Wesley Fuckin Snipes….I hate his ass. Shit face bastard

  37. anon

    It’s jullissa’s man. stupids

  38. Andrea

    I met Wesley at a club and he was very sweet, and gentlemanly (if that’s the word). I was shocked to hear about all these comments he supposedly said (i never read any of his interviews) regarding his dislike for black women. I am a black woman and I seriously thought he was classy when we met. He talked with me for about an hour along with two other people and seemed down to earth. Go figure!

    And HUGH GRANT! That was an awful guess since he is a white man.

  39. DelawareDime21

    WHATS UP WITH YALL POSTIN YALL RESUMES ON THE COMMENTS SECTION? DAMN.. KEEP IT TO A MINIMUM..NO ONE WANTS TO KNOW ALL YOUR THOUGHTS..BORED ASSES

  40. 1) Phew! For a moment there we thought Wesley Snipes was about to become homeless. On February 22, Chase Manhattan filed this lawsuit to foreclose on a mortgage for the actor’s 7000 square-foot home in a gated community near Orlando, Florida (neighbors include Tiger Woods, Shaquille O’Neal, and Ken Griffey Jr.). According to the bank, Snipes was in default because he hadn’t made payments in about five months (Chase wanted 664 grand, which represented unpaid principal, interest, late charges, and legal fees). But it seems the lawsuit got the desired result–Snipes made good on the overdue payments, had his loan reinstated, and Chase shelved its lawsuit on March 20. TSG, for one, is relieved. (4 pages)

    http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/snipes1.html

    Whether the actor is Snipes or Ike or the “Devil” himself..it looks as if ol’ rusty dusty Snipes, had some $$$ issues for a while now!

    enjoy your weekend.

  41. E

    @160
    Aint no one a bored ass like yo ass since you over here reading all these “resumes”. Either A. keep it fuckin movin if they to long for you B. Learn to read quicker or C. Shut the fuck up and get a life you “resume” blog comment reader. LOL

  42. YOU KNOW!

    What’s the answer, how do you find out?

  43. WESLEY SNIPES!!!! When was the last time he starred with a Black actress after Angela in Waiting to Exhale He’s always had jungle fever. : it’s white or nothing. And I’ve heard plenty of time about him being abusive.

  44. LEX BKA EAST OAK CHICK

    I THINK WES TOO… I READ IN AN ARTICLE W/ HALLE AND SHE SAID THAT WHEN THEY STARTED DATED BACK IN BOOMERANG DAYS HE HIT HER IN THE EAR AND BECAUSE OF THAT SHE HAS HEARING LOSS, HE ACTED A FOOL OVER BLADE THE ONLY THING I’M UN SURE ON IS THE METRO CUZ I THOUGHT THAT WAS A NORTHERN CALI{OAKLAND} PHONE SERVS…{ I GOTS MY EAST OAKLAND SPECIAL…NE WAYS} BUT U KNOW HE IS ON THE RUN I DID SEE THIS DUDE YESTERDAY….

  45. Thank you #162!!! Isnt conversating what a blogs FOR? I am damn!!

    I have nothing to add to this discussion but …HOW DID I NOT KNOW THERE WAS GOING TO BE A TOUSSAINT MOVIE UP UNTIL JUST NOW?! I’m about to call my sister, my friends and all my cousins and tell ‘em whats up!! LOL

  46. darnell

    I ain’t sure who it is ! But I never heard Wesley openly write off black women . Just never seen him with any . Besides most of you chicks who all in his ass now wanted him about five years ago . His story was similar to Dennis Rodman . Black women wasn’t checking for him until this celeb shit ……. on the ass whipping tip . That shit ain’t cool ! But for the record . If you women was physically as strong as men you’ll be beating men as on a unheard scale . Dudes if a women and you are getting in a heated argument . Bounce ! If she hits you first , call the police . Let the cops beat her ass . Keep your hands clean ! Press charges . .. . . flip the script ! I did it to a an EX and it straightened her out .

  47. Sunshine40

    Metro PCS started out of Atl.

  48. GODWELL

    THE FUNNY THING is how I hear Black females onall these sites sweating gay a$$ Justin Timberlake all day. YEs, the same cat with the BEARD (Cameron Diaz) that disrespected and disregarded JAnet Jackson duringhte nipple incident. YES…Wes is a cat who loves eggrolls (which I am assuming the ‘Blind” person is) and hasn’t had a Black female lead since N’BUSHE WRIGHT disappeared from the BLADE SERIES, but the whole thing is out of control. You got Madonna BUYING Black kids in a country where adoption for ousiders is ILLEGAL, you have Halle Berry and Serina Williams laying up with Dirty Wuropean whiteboys who can never truly relate and understand a Black Woman and you have Black men (who started it all) running around with a White broad the minute their account goes past $100,000.00.

    If we dont grooming eachother and communicating soon, there wont be a pure Black perspn left on the planet. Its bad enuff Dark-skinned sisters dont eat in video world, due to lost and crazy ass Black men, but we keep calling each other ‘Black ass’ and ‘sellout’ while we have Justin or gwen stefani in the background stealing our works and style. i say all this to say DONT GET DISTRACTED! We are dying out. They are telling us we are out of style because we tell eachother that. I cant evern get a Black female to look me in the wyes for fear she is going to get harrased or belittled. Sister cant get a Black man to grow up and marry her. Shit is crazy.

    Ahh man…I lost my train of thought. You get the point.

    Peace,
    C

  49. History/(His -story)

    I don’t think it’s Wesley Snipes. Last I heard brotha man was trying to get into the Motherland(Africa). Its suppose to be “a well known black celebrity” Which could be a singer, comedian, or actor. Now, I too would have suggested :

    Ice -T ( non- black wife/girlfriend)

    Cuba Gooding Jr. ( non-black wife)

    Taye Diggs ( non- black wife)

    Terrance Howard* ( ex- wife is white)

    Because, I can’t recall any one of them in recent yrs working with a black female artist. (* Terrance was but, still his baby momma is white)

    BUT, this negro is suppose to be BROKE! And I haven’t heard of neither one of these negros being broke.

    Maybe it could be….

    Treach from Naughty by Nature(rumor has it he messed around with Pink) or Chris Tucker or Larenz Tate

    PS. People remember just b/c you do drugs doesn’t mean you look like a crack head

  50. Wesley’s been done for a long time. Not his fault…public has insatiable appetite for wanting something new all the time…and how do you know a star ain’ a star any more? If you haven’t been payin’ attention to the biz side of Hollywood you can still find the answer for yourself, when you ask the question: “Hey, ya know somthin’, I haven’t seen Wesley in a long time, he still makin’ movies?” BAM, he’s done, D U N.

    He may have expensive homes but he’s cash poor. He bought them when he was hot but since he ain’t sellin’ tickets, he can’t even afford to maintain them…

    When all is said and done, after his IRS thing is over, and his jail time is over (if he goes down) we’ll probably see him in a TV series.

    Yeah, we all want to be so-and-so but when their star dims our attention goes elsewhere. Ain’t fame a beeyotch?

  51. Lee

    Its not Wesley. Metro PCS phones only work in Atlanta and Wesley Snipes does not live in Atlanta. Its reported he lives in Florida. Besides, he wouldnt want to live in Atlanta if he really hates black women the way everyone says.

  52. divine

    Wesley Snipes!! Wow, he’s a trip ain he…but then again I can say….every celebrity black man with non-black women who feel the need to degrade us to make their white woman feel important…. A white, asian,hispanic woman can have they azzez; which is why their with them any way because we DON’T want punk azz black men!! IDIOT!!

    his dark,crusty black azz need to go and sit down some where…he should be ashame but his arrogant azz would’nt be…

  53. MyKey

    Lee Metro pcs work in flordia, Michigan,atlanta and cali, check the website, cause metro only works in like five states unless u buy the travel talk.

  54. MyKey

    i think it is wesley cause he and halle berry use to date and he use to beat her, earlier before her career really took off.

  55. IFORGOTTOSIGNINDAMMIT

    damn why they gotta throw Metro in it

  56. IFORGOTTOSIGNINDAMMIT

    Lee the Bay has metro’s too…amongst other places…

  57. lamonee

    It is not Wesley Snipes—think outside the box. . . Check out these movies he did with black female co-stars.
    Unstoppable (2004)
    Undisputed (2002)
    Play It to the Bone (1999)
    Down in the Delta (1998)
    Murder At 1600 (1997)
    One Night Stand (1997)
    America’s Dream (1996)
    Waiting to Exhale (1995)
    Sugar Hill (1994)
    Rising Sun (1993)
    White Men Can’t Jump (1992)
    Jungle Fever (1991)
    New Jack City (1991)
    King of New York (1990)
    Mo’ Better Blues (1990)

  58. Sunshine

    I know its been a minute since this was discussed but Wesley (and I’m not defending him) was in Waiting to Exhale, loving himself some Angela Basset. I’m pretty sure he went for that part and he knew it was all black…so I’m just saying.

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