hahahaha

I JUST heard this on the radio.

First Mr. Bigg now Nino.

Damn!!

I know he filed for bankruptcy, pooor thing. He has fallen off.

Good for his black ass.

Sad. He need to pay those people.

Where did all the Blade money go?

You can’t fight the IRS! Pay your taxes! Damn! What is it with black male celebrities and the IRS?

@ angel.la
i thought that was christopher williams who slapped her stupid? not wesley…

anyway maybe he hiding out with his boot camp somewhere
wasnt he training some blk people in martial arts?
sort of a modern day blk panthers

@ 8 Yeah, but I remember Chris saying it wasn’t him and that Wesley Snipes actually messed her up. Who knows.

LMAO HE GON’ BE CHANNELING NOXEMA JACKSON IN THE BIG HOUSE….CTFU!!!!

NOXEMA JACKSON..LMAO…..OH I ALMOST CHOKED! THAT’S FUNNY AS HELL!

All men who cause harm to Halle Berry usually get it don’t they! That karma is a bitch!!!!

Run Wesley, run!

No, it was wesley with his black woman hating ass.

Anywho, Can someone tell me how the hell did this negro cheat the govt. out of 12 mil and my ass can’t even get away with $60.

Plus he don’t even work that often. I mean what does he do now.

THATS GOOD FOR HIM. HE NEVER REALLY GAVE A F*CK BOUT BLACK PEOPLE ANYWAYS, HE ALWAYS WAS LIKE THAT. BUT JUST LIKE MOST OF THE LOST ONES THEY ALWAYS GO BLACK WHEN THEY ASS IN TROUBLE.

OH AN THAT WAS BASEBALL PLAYER DAVID JUSTICE WHO MADE HALLE BERRY DEAF IN ONE EAR. NOT WESLEY.

BUT I HOPE THEY CATCH HIS THIEF ASS.

Yup, ever since i found out that he severly abusived my Halle i could care less about him. Halle is so tiny and sweet how on earth could he beat up on her. If you having an argument fine but why he had to use his hands on her, thats messed up. This jail time should be for the time he got off for beating up on Halle.

# 15
No it was Wesley’s Black ass.

Maybe Wesley isn’t feeling black women cuz they weren’t feeling his complexion most of his life… just a thought dont catch feelings.

All good things end up in Nigeria! The perfect place to be enstooled!

lol this man is a mess.

Don’t be wishing the jail on the man. Thats just cold y’all!!!!

to find Wesley all you have to do is look for where the Asian women are

There’s only one thing black folk like about taxes….

Their REFUNDS!

Hot dam. Another one bites the dust. I tell ya. When will we learn that Uncle Sam don’t f–k around? Might not get you today, might not even get you tomorrow…Hell, he even gets you when your ass in the grave with estate taxes!!

You can run but you can’t hide.

damn so many men beat up on halle
we going back and forth on who made her ass deaf

Ok black women, let’s take the high road; let’s not try to take to much joy out of his suffering. Despite the fact that he doesn’t think that black woman are worthy of anything. Some may have given him a hard time about his complextion, he still shouldn’t make a generalization about black women like he did in that Ebony article. As hard as it is, I wish this black skeezer (I had to go there) the best!!!

I was thinkin the same thing #22, he’s probably hiding in China.

Steve…I have heard alot of dark-skin men say that about black women.

But isn’t it the same thing when Black guys say shit like I only date light-skin girls or latin chicks…blah…blah…blah you get the point.

I just want to know why is it ok for men to have their preferences but as soon as a girl says I don’t want no dark-skin man, no light-skin man, or whatever then its a problem…

I just want to know…I mean sure some women didn’t want to be with Wesley before the money but does he really think those Asian and White girls wanted his ass before those riches?

We’ll see if they want his ass now…I hate when people have color complexes they just sound ignorant as hell.

@Sizzle - great point, I’m sure he was tortured unmercifully…

#25 I’m trying but Wesley is the prime example of the “Sorry Ass Excuse For A Black Men” club…

Other Members…
1. Tigger Woods
2. Kobe Bryant (I know Vanessa ain’t white but do ya’ll really think he woulda married a black chick?)

Serves his dumb a%% right!!!! Who tries to claim a $7 million dollar refund?? I haven’t been able to stand Ashy Larry since after he made the first Blade movie!! The other 2 sucked! Not to mention that comment he made about all Black women being golddiggers!! Guess he won’t have to worry about that after the IRS takes all his money!! He’ll be more concerned about not dropping the soap in Federal prison!!

Good for him, wesley i hope they throw your ashy, black woman beating, sexual harassing behind under the jail. I hope you do the time now that you should have done for beating your first wife, halle berry, heck even andy dick, and that other women who you have mishandled i hope they mishandle you in jail.

good riddance and bad luck homey

#29, don’t get me wrong, I can’t stand a shuckin’ and jivin’ koon either, but we shouldn’t take joy in a person’s down fall. I hope when he’s sitting in prison he reflects on his life and some of the things that he’s said…ain’t karma a bitch?

dats a muh fuggin shame!….and why when stuff get hot they runnin 2 africa now???

He’ll fit right in, Soda, he’ll fit right in…

Hey #33, what is a koon? Back on masa’s plantation are we?

Anyway, I’ll bet he’ll be wishin for a black woman in prison.

that nigga done fucked up!

on Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 3:02 pm

Sizzle said:
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#29, don’t get me wrong, I can’t stand a shuckin’ and jivin’ koon either, but we shouldn’t take joy in a person’s down fall. I hope when he’s sitting in prison he reflects on his life and some of the things that he’s said…ain’t karma a bitch?

Bill Said:

Thank You Sizzle for saying what YOU said.
All that Hate isn’t healthy….

Got dam Nino Brown..can’t pay your taxes. Just because u make big money don’t mean u cant pay your taxes.

Yo Angel.La your comments are mad funny, but I say let the man live, its only alleged that he did that to Halle, I dont really think she ever cam out and said he did all that to her.

i could care less about him now, but back in the day, i use to love to stare at his pictures.

But now i can give less than f*&% about him! He think he’s too good for black women, old mugly ass! I really don’t know what i was thinking back in the day, i think it was his smile, old “having a black- as- hell complex, “hating my color” nigga! Don’t mess with black women cause we are the reasons his black ass was getting a gd check! Alot of men weren’t feeling his fake ass, but women, mostly black women, put him where he is or should i say where he was; old snake! That ought to teach him to bite the hand that feeds him.

When celebrities go loco.

what an idiot.
why would you do such a thing?

LOL @ Bill about hate…I’m trying but they just really irk the hell outta me. Now I don’t lose any sleep over them but I just call it like I see it…hopefully I didn’t offend anyone I was just stating my opinion thats all.

#32 I’m not saying I’m happy about his downfall b.cuz truthfully he hasn’t been hot for years now…he’s just a loser and a nasty man (anytime you can sexually offend a pornstar you really know u nasty as hell- I’m talking about Jenna Jameson for those that don’t know).

LMAO @ JScene…lets not get you started! Man I better make sure I stay on your good-side!

Got d@mn it my black people! Haven’t we learned? Like Chris Tucker said, there is 3 people you don’t mess with…its the I R S!!!!!!!

I know my comments may upset a few folks on here…and that isn’t my aim but like I said before thats my opinion on him.

I just feel so sad for people that are bitter b.cuz of color complexes…it really is sad as hell. To not accept who you are or to shun another person b.cuz of the color of their skin is just horrible.

Its really sad some people feel that way…and maybe the whole “Sorry Excuse Thing” was over-the-top but I was literally caught in the moment there.

Bill and Sizzle notes have been taken…thanks for the insight.

on Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 3:52 pm

Such Magnificence said:
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LOL @ Bill about hate…I’m trying but they just really irk the hell outta me. Now I don’t lose any sleep over them but I just call it like I see it…hopefully I didn’t offend anyone I was just stating my opinion thats all.

#32 I’m not saying I’m happy about his downfall b.cuz truthfully he hasn’t been hot for years now…he’s just a loser and a nasty man (anytime you can sexually offend a pornstar you really know u nasty as hell- I’m talking about Jenna Jameson for those that don’t know).

Bill Said:

What’s Up Boo !

I’m not trying to ruin your fun….

I don’t know enough about Mr. Wesley Snipes to form an opinion either way.
Actually, I’m learning some new information by reading some of the comments.

I just know this: Jail is a HORRIBLE place to be.
I wouldn’t wish it on my worst ENEMY.

Do you know Brothers are up in jail getting RAPED, every day ???

For anyone to have to do 16 years in Jail is cruel & unusal punishment.

If this was a Caucasian man, they would just fine him and be on their way.

But because it’s a BLACK Man, they are going to probably make him do the maximum time.

I’m a perculiar person: I look at the way the media perceives us, and I analyze things from that perpective.

Now: Do you REALLY want to see ANOTHER Black man go to Jail ???

What are the White People on YOUR Job saying about BLACK People at THIS VERY MOMMENT !!!

I’m not trying to ruin YOUR fun…
Some things JUST ain’t FUNNY to me….

I got to many friends in jail to laugh…
Peace

ALL THESE COMMENTS ARE FUNNY AS HELL!

OH AND YEAH IN THE ILLUSTRIOUS WORDS OF MY GIRL DEELISHIS…

PAYBACK IS A BITCH WESLEYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!

Wesley need to be hitting the gym, so he can be ready for those yardbirds

bill you seem well versed on the topics that touch our community and society as a whole. maybe you should help me educate the people over at amren.com. prison rape is very serious, i think if more young men knew the real deal they would make different life choices. Women you aren’t safe either, not to get to graphic but in the female prisons they violate with brooms

Forgive me…Didn’t mean to take it THERE
Refer to cooment # 45 for recap…

I guess that comes from visiting friends & clients in Jail, EVERY WEEK, twice a Week (sometimes even more).

I guess that comes from when I leave a jail cell, hearing the jail door close.

I guess that comes from having to leave commissary (money) in my homie’s account every week.

I guess that comes from me having to mail my homie dvd’s, magazines & letters to keep his spirit up

I guess that comes from me having to go by his house to check on HIS kids and HIS wife.

I guess that comes from him telling me stories about how some ROOKIE came on the set and got raped by five other inmates…

Jail ain’t NOTHING to laugh at.
I’m just saying….

who gives a fuck if he don’t like black women . to each his muthafucking own. same oges for kobe, tiger there’s no rule that says that cuz u ”make it” u gotta stick with a black chick. an OG told me back in the 80’s black girls only mess with u if u was light skin or u were getting money. so i don’t see why y’all madd at wesley for what he said in that ebony article.

#10 I love that movie…but Wesley should never play a woman….hes ugly enough as a man!

I hope this story isnt true bc Wesley is supposed to do a movie this winter with Don Cheadle and Angela Bassett about the Haitian Revolution!!! Damn I want to see Angie in a bomb ass film again…dont screw it up Wesley.

The film is called “Toussaint” and Danny Glover is directing! Look out for it, Support Angela B!

on Tuesday, October 17, 2006 @ 4:31 pm

Coffy said:
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bill you seem well versed on the topics that touch our community and society as a whole. maybe you should help me educate the people over at amren.com. prison rape is very serious, i think if more young men knew the real deal they would make different life choices. Women you aren’t safe either, not to get to graphic but in the female prisons they violate with brooms

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Bill Said:

Sure you right…

I’m from Newark…

I know brothers from Newark who were the biggest & baddest drug dealers on the block who got arrested and went to either Easter State (Rahway Prison), Northern State (Newark) or Trenton State and got RAPED in their behind’s, was forced to eat another man’s behind out, or suck another man’s penis.

That Sh_t ain’t funny to me…
Why would YOU laugh at something like THAT ???

The “Men” doing this is the ones doing a “hard bid” which is 20 years plus….

everybody running round talking about we should build more jails or this one or that one should go to jail…

Do you REALLY know what goes on in Jail ??

You would NOT wish jail on your worse ennemies…
AND, once they get out the are scarred for life, turning tricks as gay hoe’s….

Be careful what you wish on people..
That all I’m saying…

Peace.

Y wesley gotta b all that?! Hell, I can’t take black women either!! the reason Wesley & lot of black men with money don’t want a black woman is they r 2 much of a friggin headache!!

12 MILLION. huh? I’m glad he nolonger go for sisters! Have his self-hating-Sorry-no-tax-paying-ass.
And I echo the sentiments from above, It was Wes black ass who busted Halle’s ear drum.

I thought he was married to a black woman before he got famous. He dropped her as soon as he started making money. Oh well! That’s what he gets for thinking he is above the law. He knew what he was doing.

WESLEY is so played out! Arrogant MF…that’s what karma will do to ya, come back and bite ya AZZ off

I wouldnt be surprised that if he does go to jail, that when he comes out he will begin seraching for black women again…

searching*

WESLEY is so played out! Arrogant MF…that’s what karma will do to ya, come back and bite ya AZZ

SOO UGLY!! Damn Wes, another Ron Isley!!

Awwwww no! Not another tax fraud brotha! Damn why can’t our people keep their financial matters on point? I will pray he gets vindicated and placed ona payment plan…poor wesley-he a sexy sumetin!

If they sent ron isleys old behind to the slamma then wesley is certainly next like wendy williams just said on the radio ” on the strength of halle berry’s ear drum your behind should be goin to jail wesley” No one in the industry reallly likes this dude there is a reason for that. Also for those who think we are being hard on wesley why dont yall talk to his grown black son who he hasnt had any contact with in years. Karmas a mother you jerk

u guys r so fucking ignorant why 90%of the comments here have to be about him being extra dark skin?and y’all get madd when whitey talk down on the black race.as a i grow up i’m really seing why white people hate us so much, man.u guys keep saying shit like black ass wesley but on the flipside its i’m prud of being black. negroes make me sick ewwwwwwww.

let us not even bring up the constant race wars going on, you gotta watch your ass in prison. maybe he will go to a “club fed” type of place. hey i’m just sending good wishes. i don’t personally care for him but prison is a young mans game, and Wesley aint young

I can only speak for self, but I think it’s not so much that he’s with the Asian (I could care less). It’s the fact that he had derogatory things to say about black females.

The article came out a long time ago. I was young and naive when I read it. I remember trying to figure out why he would say something like that about another black person? I guess to a certain extent I still don’t know why he’d say something so dumb.

Damn Nino…damn

Not surprised that’s what his tail gets.

@18
His complexion may have NOTHING to do with it. Its too many women out here lovin’ the chocolate bros. He has no excuse. We all have been rejected. Let’s see which one of his Asian Persuasion will bail his ass outta trouble. LOSER!

Wesley Snipes nor Christopher beat Halle til she was deaf, it was David Justice, he’s (or was) a basball player. I don’t like Wesley black ass no way, hell he don’t like me cuz I’m a black woman. So fuck him, lock his ass up.

Ladies try not to be too bitter, just remember that for every brother that’s with a non black woman, there are several of us who are with black queens just like you.

To tell you the truth I see more sisters with men who aren’t black than I see brothers with women who aren’t black (I live in the Bay, where it’s very culturally diverse) and more power to them, no hate on this end.

Stop bashing the brothers so tough ladies, you don’t here us complaining about Serena & Venus with their white dudes, what about Halle and her dude, anything bad to say about that ladies?

But this just isn’t about tax evasion. Its also about FRAUD. He filed an ammended return claming a 7million dolllar refund payment on 0 income.

I wish I could offer more sympathy for Mr. Snipes, but I can’t. He is one of many, they find SUCCESS and they forget who supported them along the way.. and I guarantee you it wasn’t some white woman. But, to the rich BLACK man they all seem to have one thing in common, they desperately want to forget their BLACKNESS and anything that reminds them of it.. Unless they hit rock bottom! Let’s face it, they do their best to show hatred toward their female counterparts…don’t get sucked up into all of their excuses.. It’s easier for them to share their wealth and life with some white woman, that way they make it painfully obvious for ALL TO SEE that BLACK woman ARE not worthy of their attention and respect. Unless, their some leg spreading whores, who are happy with the left over table scraps and a few trinkets for their “services.” I just wish that the BLACK woman would wake up and smell the coffee, and let go of our undying devotion toward BLACK man who are only interested in FUCKING you. Try loving yourself and forgetting about anyone who is not interested in MARRIAGE and/or COMMITTMENT.. Unless you prefer to end up with some undercover FAG, who is going to leave with his bastard children, a few bucks and most importantly either HERPES, AIDS or HIV (Preliminary Death Sentence).

P.S. No disrespect intended toward the faithful BLACK man. So, don’t waste your time fustrating yourself, because we all know that it the shoe doesn’t fit; YOU MUST ACQUIT!!!

To quote Luther from Set It Off - “There are three people I don’t mess wit - The I, the R-ra and the S”. Also, Halle lost her hearing before David Justice. Never been a fan of his Mr. Justice’s either. Saw him out at a club in Atlanta and my girlfriend just went up to say hi. He actually looked over her head and kept looking around the club as if she was not even standing directly in front of him! As far as his taxes are concerned, doesn’t matter the amount, eventually, someone will notice something is wrong and drop you a letter or call. Death and taxes - the only things in life that are GUARANTEED.

people are crazy in trying to mess with the government. and i find this situation very sad it really did not have to be this way. wesely got greedy. and you know greed is the root of all evil.

Halle was deaf in one ear before David Justice

whyblkpeepalwhy said:

I wish I could offer more sympathy for Mr. Snipes, but I can’t. He is one of many, they find SUCCESS and they forget who supported them along the way.. and I guarantee you it wasn’t some white woman. But, to the rich BLACK man they all seem to have one thing in common, they desperately want to forget their BLACKNESS and anything that reminds them of it.. Unless they hit rock bottom! Let’s face it, they do their best to show hatred toward their female counterparts…don’t get sucked up into all of their excuses.. It’s easier for them to share their wealth and life with some white woman, that way they make it painfully obvious for ALL TO SEE that BLACK woman ARE not worthy of their attention and respect. Unless, their some leg spreading whores, who are happy with the left over table scraps and a few trinkets for their “services.” I just wish that the BLACK woman would wake up and smell the coffee, and let go of our undying devotion toward BLACK man who are only interested in FUCKING you. Try loving yourself and forgetting about anyone who is not interested in MARRIAGE and/or COMMITTMENT.. Unless you prefer to end up with some undercover FAG, who is going to leave with his bastard children, a few bucks and most importantly either HERPES, AIDS or HIV (Preliminary Death Sentence).

P.S. No disrespect intended toward the faithful BLACK man. So, don’t waste your time fustrating yourself, because we all know that it the shoe doesn’t fit; YOU MUST ACQUIT!!!
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Thank you! I have been saying for the LONGEST time that most black men have NO RESPECT for black women. Sistahs worship the ground that these fools walk on.

I have heard this dude praising his mother in law, but he never says anything about his own mom. SO sad.

it’s amazing how so many BLACK STARS end up broke and OWEING THE (I) TO THE (RS)?PICK any old star and they ALL died broke or are broke oweing the I.R.S.
it’s an conspiracy?
they say you owe $12 million you owe $12 million

WHEN SOMEBODY LOVES YOU…

I’LL NEVER FORGET A RECENT MEETING I HAD WITH THIS GIRL WHOM I HAD FLIRTED WITH IN PASSING AT A CLOTHING STORE YEARS EARLIER. SHE SEEMED LIKE MY DREAM GIRL. UPWARDLY MOBILE, A LITTLE HIGH-MAINTENANCE, A CREAMY BROWN COMPLEXION AND A NICE ROUND BOOTY. SHE HAD A SHORT CURLY BLACK BETTY BOO TYPE HAIR-DO AND DRESSED TO KILL ON THE DAILY. SHE WAS STUDYING TO BE A HEAD-SHRINK. SHE WAS NO PLATO YET, BUT WHO AMONG US REALLY IS. SHE WAS INTELLECTUAL ENOUGH FOR MY TASTES. ANYWAY I WENT TO SEE HER JUST AS SHE WAS GETTING OFF WORK SO THAT I COULD WALK HER TO HER CAR AND DO A LITTLE MORE FLIRTING. WE DISCUSSED GETTING TOGETHER IN THE COMING DAYS. SHE WAS MORE THAN RECEPTIVE TO MY ADVANCES, EVEN ASKING ME AT ONE POINT DURING OUR CONVERSATION WHERE I HAD BEEN ALL HER LIFE. WE HUGGED AND SHE DROVE AWAY. I WALKED BACK INTO THE MALL FOR SOME REASON I CAN’T REMEMBER. I WAS ON CLOUD NINE. MEETING HER MADE ME REALIZE HOW MUCH TIME I HAD BEEN WASTING DATING STRAIGHT-UP HOOCHIES. I FELT MY LUCK WAS TURNING. INSIDE THE MALL I TOOK ABOUT 30 MINUTES OR SO. AS I WAS APPROACHING MY CAR OUT IN THE PARKING LOT I REALIZED THAT SHE WAS CONVENIENTLY DRIVING BY ON THE NEARBY SERVICE ROAD. I CAUGHT HER PURPOSELY LOOKING MY WAY, ALMOST RUNNING INTO THE CAR IN FRONT OF HER. A LUMP SUDDENLY SWELLED IN MY THROAT. I FELT AN UNEASY FEALING IN THE PIT OF MY STOMACH. IS THIS GIRL TRYING TO SEE WHAT KIND OF CAR I DRIVE? DID SHE GO TO ALL OF THIS TROUBLE TO FIND OUT? IT WAS BEGINNING TO BE TYPICAL BEHAVIOR FROM THE SISTAS I KNEW. IT WAS TRULY SAD AND DISTURBING.

IN MY MORE CYNICAL MOMENTS I FEEL AS THOUGH…’IF IT’S ALL ABOUT MONEY WITH WOMEN…AND I’M PAYING FOR THE PERCIEVED QUALITY OF THE WOMAN BY MY SIDE…THEN WHY SHOULD’NT I JUST GET A WHITE BITCH’. IF IT’S ALL ABOUT WHAT THE FUCK I’M DRIVING, WHERE I WORK, AND LIVE, WHY THEN SHOULD I PUT UP WITH THE ‘BABY-DADDIES’, THE BACKWARDS IGNORANT FAMILY, THE CONSTANT DRAMA OF IT ALL, AND THE ONGOING SEXUAL, MENTAL AND HEAD-OF-HOUSEHOLD, COMPETITION. I KNOW TOO MANY BROTHA’S WHO JUST GO TO WORK AND COME HOME. THEY LET THE WIFE MAKE THE HOUSE RULES, RAISE THE KIDS, AND PAY THE BILLS…RENDERING THE BLACK MAN N0THING MORE THAN A WORK-HORE AND BREEDING STALLION. SO WHEN YOU BLACK WOMEN WANT TO KNOW WHY SOME BROTHAS FEEL THAT WAY I HAVE JUST GIVEN YOU ONE OF MANY ANSWERS.

ASAD ALLAH ADWIN.

women let’s get this straight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MEN ARE COLOR BLIND. WE DON’T GIVE A DAMN (what race)WHAT YOU ARE AS LONG AS THEY FINE…………..ALL OF YA’LL WILL GET PUT ON PEDISTAL till we nut and DROP YOU OFF

all ya’ll some BUSTERS taking (routing) the GuVMENTS side.they been rippin US a new asshole from jump but look who UNCLE TOMMIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YAASAH MASSSAAAH ASSES.

“Yeah, fuck Wesley, that dark-skinned nigger. Didn’t he smack Halle Berry and pull out both of Janet’s titties and get Star Jones fired. I hope they lock that nigger up and put him in jail with all the other black men where all these black men belong. But I love Robin Thicke and Justin Timberlake.”

Right, LMAO.

The only reason why they’re coming for Wesley is because he was affiliated with and was training the Nuwaubians down in Atlanta. He is heavily into black history and is a strong-minded black man so that automatically alienates him from the majority of the black community. It has cost him his career in Hollywood and it will probably soon cost him his freedom. Notice that all his movies have gone straight to DVD in the last few years with the exception of Blade Trinity because they had to bank off of the franchise. They tried to ruin his good name with that fake paternity suit and now all of a sudden they “realize” that he hasn’t paid his taxes the last 6 years. Right. Ya’ll really believe that the U.S. Federal Govt. let a 12 million dollar tab accrue? They probably paid his accountant to fuck up his accounts over the years. God forbid the black community wait and hear Wesley’s side of the story before grabbing the rope from the media to hang the negro themselves. Then, GOD FORBID the negro didn’t split his millions with a black woman that probably told him to drop dead when he was a dark-skinned, ashy brother from the Bronx. It’s alright though when Halle Berry and these Hollywood chics crossover because they’re “fed up” with black men, lol. See through.

uuuh, I think that was Chris Williams who made Halle deaf. He was jailed for rape, beat Stacey Dash when they were married and in Wendy William’s book, it is him that she hints at as having raped her.

Wesley Snipes gets what he deserves, all that money he made off of those white action flicks. He acted like black people never accepted him, but that’s how he got his start.

If he does go to jail I wonder if it’ll be like a “real prison” or some pussy type shit. I doubt they’d put him in with “real criminals” even though he is one and deserves it.

@ #78

First of all your comments are foreign to me because it never went like that in my household…..my dad CLEARLY wore the pants, but he also RESPECTED my moms and she helped balance him out. They never argued in front of us, he never laid a hand on her and my dad lives by the rule, put your wife first then your kids, not vice versa. Men these day I seen, dealt with, or my friends had the privlegde of running into, seem to only want baby mamma’s, wannabe thugs, no class, anti-faithful and think they can get away with anything in relationship. There is no respect for the mother of their children and value sex before relationship I know you probably expect your comment to get a lot of response and it will, but you need to recoginize that respect begets resepect. Maybe you sending out the wrong vibes…..and all the things you mentioned above “IT’S ALL ABOUT WHAT THE FUCK I’M DRIVING, WHERE I WORK, AND LIVE, WHY THEN SHOULD I PUT UP WITH THE ‘BABY-DADDIES’, THE BACKWARDS IGNORANT FAMILY, THE CONSTANT DRAMA OF IT ALL, AND THE ONGOING SEXUAL, MENTAL AND HEAD-OF-HOUSEHOLD, COMPETITION” can be applied to white women too…..so if you gonna date a white girl, that’s you……but don’t give this lame ass generalization about black women. Naturally women are going to look for providers and security so many of us do want to know

1. DO YOU HAVE A CAR
2. A HOUSE/APT
3. GOOD JOB
4. HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDERS

Sorry but many of us sistas have those things and if their like me than they want a man who can bring the same or more to the table. Men are supposed to be our providers, and I’m sure we would stop wearing the pants, especially the single moms out there if black woman had men in their lives that can hold the household down and respect us and treat us like the queens we are. My dad is a rare jewel in this world and he came from a single-parent household and vowed to be the father he never had. And he has been. The problem is that level of class and dedication to black family and respect for black woman is even more unlikey today then when my moms and dads was coming up. I myself am tired of waiting for my night and shinning armor or partial clone of my dad to show up b/c sadly I don’t think it’s out there, maybe a few of ya’l claim to be good men and you probably are, but for every good one there are 10,000 ones that just ain’t striving to do shit with their lives and it’s pathetic. A whole culture of black men are being wiped right from under us b/c men before them didn’t take the time to school little shorty so he finding love out in the streets. Moms is working 2 or 3 jobs to make ends work, aghhh….the scenario I see WAYYY to much. And yes there are no-good women out there too so I ain’t saying it’s one way. But I meet way to many black women like myself who have jobs, no kids and refuse to settle, but are fed-up and would rather be alone than end up another baby mamma or settling for the standards you claim black woman are about in your post. I wish I could say the same for the men, maybe one day I’ll be proven wrong.

@#76 Archuletachick

Didn’t you say that your father was white and that you’ve only been out with white men or something like that. Why are you always speaking on black men as if you’re an authority on them. Where is this experience that you must have for you to say that most black men don’t respect black women, lol. Unless you’re hiding something, LMAO. The only thing that you can’t hide is the hatred for black men that your daddy and mommy taught you. So pathetic and transparent. “Sistahs worship the ground that these fools walk on.” That’s a good one. All you have to do is flip through the newspaper or the archives of this blog to see the black men are the recipients of many things, adulation very rarely being one of them. What is the overall goal of your crusade? To get all black women to crossover so they can isolate the black man and those wicked male niggers can rot in prison and die out? LMAO. Or maybe you just want them to get with the white man and have a bunch of confused, negro-hating mongrels like yourself? No disrespect to you, but you’re not even a black woman for you to speak as if you understand something about the dynamics of the black community. Your father’s a caucasian, which makes you a caucasian, which explains this relentless hatred that you have for black men. That’s why the Bible says not to racially mix….you get mixed nuts like you, lol.
Wesley probably got with the Asian chic because he let his admiration of Asian culture go too damn far. He should’ve just held out for a black woman that understands him, but, that’s in the past. Hopefully the brother can rebound and a small segment of the black community (black men in particular) can rally around him. I know for a fact that black women would rally around Halle Berry, Kerry Washington, Oprah, and all the other Hollywood chics that have crossed over to get a better role. Ya’ll have the nerve to speak on disrespect when Sanaa Lathan went on Oprah and said that black men have to “get on black women’s level”. This broad is only in Hollywood because her father Stan Lathan is a bigwig negro. Funny as hell and ass-backwards at that. Normal bullshit.

but i’ll tell you what, some sista’s are tred of waiting and are dating outside of their race too……so if you want a white woman that’s on you, but don’t generalize us or get mad when that sista you disregarded for presumptions has a white prince on her arm that is treating her right.

WOW, a whole page dedicated to ME Judah?? I’m touched.

or asian or latino prince…..this is for #78

WOW JUDAH, you just spit a lot of hate……I am confused about the having a caucasion father/mother and being mixed not making you black. Last time I checked, that made you black, yup mixed with african blood and black features dominate thus you are still seen as a NEGRO and will be treated as such….so you are black in my book. I’mma call you WILLIE LYNCH’s black offspring….lol….because you quick to divide black folks along the lines of “mixed” race when most black folks in America have mixed lineage.

Mr. Lynch was famous for that shit….divide and conquer and you still implementing it. Damn shame. What is it that you have against mixed peole? Baby who hurt your feelings down the road to make you bitter? I am not offended by your comments b/c they rooted in some lie or past emotional distress I’m sure, I’m just trying to understand why you got something against mixed-race blacks?

LMAO@that scene from Don’t Be A Menace!!! “I hate the back of Forrest Whitaker’s neck! I hate my gums cause they black!” LOL…I’m so crazy!

Your “hate” is my truth, lol. I don’t have anything against “mixed people”, whatever the hell that means. You are of the seed of your father. There’s alot of confusion, caused by the white man, to the point where negroes try to divide themselves up like fractions. “I’m 1/4 this, 1/8 that, a mulatto, quadroon, etc.” That’s BS. It’s also equally BS that all black people are the same because they’re black or the one-drop rule. That’s also a caucasian concoction. Negroes run with that shit. The bible clears it all up by telling you that you are of the seed of your father. Nations are naturally divided by culture, language, and history. Blacks here have none of that so they try to make up their own shit like kwanzaa and if any part of you is black, then you’re black, lol. It’s nothing personal, lol. Please don’t speak on Willie Lynch, because negroes quote this man as if they’re dropping knowledge and they’re not. What he and many other slave masters did would have had no effect if we knew who we are. I’m not even sure that he was a historical person but what he laid out definitely was implemented by many others. Next time you have a chance, look at a census. It goes down the list of the different nations of people and there’s no half white, quarter native american bullshit. Lastly sis, you can only be bitter if you aren’t aware of what’s happening arond you. You just probably didn’t expect someone to be able to come back with counterpoints to what these chics are complaining about, lol. But you know it’s the truth.

^^^^LOL Forrest is onstage right now at that hip hop honors thing! LMAO!

Fuck Wesley Snipes! Maybe that old face chinese broad he loved trotting out to black events will pay that shit off for him. He has made some really ignorant comments about black woman and black people in general so FUCK HIM!!!!!!!!!!

12 million dollars?!…Wes knew good’n hell well his ass was wrong when he was doing the shit. I don’t feel sorry for him in the least bit. If his ass wasn’t tryin to get over in the 1st place he wouldn’t be facin jail time…lock his ass up.

# 27
BOY YOU ARE PREACHING THE TRUTH. BLACK PEOPLE GENERALLY HAVE THIS COLOR COMPLEX, JUST GOING TO COLLEGE, AND BEING A THIRD YEAR, IT’S FEELING LIKE THAT SPIKE LEE FILM WERE THE DARKER GIRLS AND LIGHTER GIRLS HAVE BEEF. I HAVE TO AGREE IT IS VERY IGNORANT, NO ONE SHOULD CARE ABOUT WHAT COMPLEXTION THE PERSON IS BUT WHATS IN THEIR HEART. AND ANOTHER THING WESLEY BLACKY DESERVES WHAT EVER COMES TO HIS ASS. I AINT LIKED HIM ANYWAY AFTER HE DISS BLACK WOMEN. HE CAN HAVE A ASIAN OR WHITE CUZ QUITE FRANKLY THATZ THE ONLY THING THAT WOULD HAVE HIM. PEACE AND MUCH LOVE Y’ALL.

Damn 12 Million know he should have paid that while his career was in full swing maybe he can share a cell with Mr Big. DO NOT MESS WITH THE I R S.

@ 70 K Dubb, I feel you but, I think a lot of black women have started to explore other races because some black men treat us so bad. I’m not sayin’ that all black men dog out the sisters but a lot of them do. Now for Halle Berry, I don’t blame her for being with a white man. She has been through so much with these niggas (hell a nigga is the reason she’s deaf in her left ear). So I guess she just had enough and decided to explore her option. I actually disagree with you bcuz I see more black men w/white women than black women w/white men and I honestly do believe that’s the reason why a lot of black women has decided to date outside the race; bcuz there’s no good black men left and if there is, hell you probably don’t live no where near each other, so be it.

#89 Leekagyrl, No, you’re only considered black when your father is black. Archuletachick dad is white, which means that technically she’s just a mixed girl. That’s still cool though.

@70
Cuz we ran outta black men to date..lol

I used to be a big fan of wesley’s until I read his comments about black women. So ‘im not too bothered about his situation. But some of these comments about Halle amaze me. It doesnt surprise me that Halle is dating someone white because I think that’s what she wanted to do all along. Everyone is feeling sorry for halle but you dont really know her or the circumstances surrounding the incidence. I have always noticed how all the men she has dated have all been light skinned. so does that mean if one very dark black man does something to you, you start dating someone lighter and lighter? Does she fear very dark black men? And also i’m sick of reading about black women having to date out of their race because black men dont treat them well. so what you are saying is white men are your saviours? What if white men or other races didnt want to date black women? what would happen then. i’m sure we as black people would start looking into things alot deeper and find a way to resolve the problems between us. It’s all about how people are being raised. We are constantly sending out negative messages young children with these comments. It just makes us sound stupid as a race. How many white people are saying that they date outside their race because white women are no good or white men are no good?

i think their are alot od good black men out there, but usually their corny. I’d date a white guy, if he was down. I think Halle’s boyfriend is fine, and she is doin her thang. but being a dog ain’t got nothin to do w/ race b/c I have met some nasty white guys.

I love how these dumb celebs think they are immune to having to pay taxes. Have fun in jail, Blade!!

Wrong is wrong…and “if” he did it…he should have to answer for his crime…but lets NOT forget….they just vacated KEN LAY’S sentence…while he enjoying the high life somewhere over in Europe…or probably laying low on G W Bush’s Texas ranch…

White people always finding away to get away with the ish they do!!!

Dear leekagyrl

If I hear another sob story about a single black mom working three jobs I’m going to puke my guts out. Noone put a gun to her head and made her sleep with the scumbag dealing smack on the corner. I’m tired of all these whores sleeping around, getting pregnant and wanting to blame every man for what has or hasn’t happened to them thus far in thier pathetic little lives. Please stop breeding. I would like to get off work and get to my car safely in the coming years.

I’m w/ @bill, JAIL is NO JOKING MATTER and outside of friends, I HAVE Too Many relatives that are in jail… ALOT for some straight BULLSHIT!!!!!
Keep spreading that knowledge @judah
I Don’t KNOW what’s up with Wesley BUT I doubt very seriously if He’s BROKE… But I hope this comes to some sort of resolution so he can AVOID jail
And for those who don’t KNOW, Wesley as been into the arts (Martial Arts) since his TEEN Years (like myself and several of my closet friends) So by no means is this man a punk or ready to be punked!!!

Some of ya’ll act like you personally know him. You do not know if the artically was misrepresented or what. I can’t believe are happy to see someone at their worse. WOW!

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Some of ya’ll act like you personally know him. You do not know if the artically was misrepresented or what. I can’t believe are happy to see someone at their worse. WOW!

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You are probably right! However, some of us look toward the “celebs” for inspiration and unforunately when we least expect it..they do something careless!
If he HAD not gotten above himself, none of this crap would be happening to him. He like so many others, tend to forget that they are still BLACK/NEGRO (or whatever) in societies eyes. Therefore, you have to be “ten” times better and smarter at everything that you do. Let’s face it, too often success befalls unto people and they forget how to THINK.. so they hire other people to do it for them (usually YT) and then all hell breaks loose..

I don’t wish to offend anyone.. but EDUCATION is our ticket out of a life of bordem, fustration, oppression, and apathy. We have to be able to think and do for ourselves, otherwise we might all end up like “Poor OL’ Mr. Snipes” FYI..snipe-to speak or write against someone in a sly or sneaky way!..COULDN’T RESIST..

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@ BrittanyMo, It doesn’t matter if your father is black or mother is black, you got black in you, YOU ARE BLACK……

You think white folks claim a child that is 1/2 black or have black blood in them….NO, very few do, this society sees them as black…….blacks have also accepted their own & it’s no different today….except for a couple narrow-minded negroes who seem to think black comes in one shade….why do you think we come in so many different shades? We range from high yellow, red bone, to chocolate brown because of our mixed lineage, the common factor, though is we all got african blood running through us.

Saddamnyouall…..

All of what you said are generalizations. You just labeled all single moms “whores.” I guess you know all the single moms in the world. WOW! Ain’t no use of going there with a fool.

@ 98 Brittanymo, Ma, don’t give up on us. You said yourself that “some” black men treat our women bad; so I know you know there are still good brothers out here. I’ll admit good brothers maybe hard to find, but I’ll tell you, the man you’re looking for is probably not going to be at the same club every Ladies Night. The man your looking for is probably right under your nose, he’s probably that brother you keep running into at the grocery store (He probably trying to catch you there) or that brother that gives you that warm friendly hug at church, even your co-worker you swear is a hoe because women are swooning over him (Not his fault; give him a chance!)

I run with a lot hard working blue collar brothers who are single and doing pretty well in life and their biggest grips are that they can’t find a sister that’s confident enough to let them be them. I mean, don’t be mad if a brother spends a little time to bond with his brethren (Especially if it’s sparingly), just think, you could be headed for a lifetime of that mans attention, love and affection.

I think if “some” sisters would loosen the reigns a little; things might be a bit smoother in our relationships. I’m not saying there are no “dogs”, but shit… I know a few female “dogs” myself, women are just smar… I mean… women are more discreet then men and are more likely to get away with cheating; not to mention, we (Men period) don’t pay enough attention to shit.

As far as Halle is concerned, I’m not mad at her, she’s proven that she has nothing against us brothers; she’s dated plenty and even married a black man, some good women catch all kinds of bad breaks, I hope she’s happy.

I don’t know ma, I see a lot of the sisters with non black men here in the Bay, maybe it’s just a Bay thing or maybe there’s just that many more men of different cultures here, whatever the reason, I don’t have a problem with it, I just thought that I would point that out seeing as a lot of sisters were trashing Wesley for dating non black women, but when it’s black women dating white men you guys are hollerin’ “Gon girl”.

@ 100 Trish – Please see above.

@ Judah, all I got to say is black people take care of their own….we come in all differant shades and most of us are not 100% african blood or black. I accept all my brothas and sisters. It’s unfortuante that with all the issues we are fighting that complexion and light skinned vs. dark skinned, etc is even worth this discussion.

GOD dont like ugly and he aint stuck on beauty either hes the one that cause halle berry to b deaf in one ear u durty bastard justice is finnally being served on a jail suit platter IRS style after they finish dicking him in his ass he will b deaf in both ears

@#105 SADDAMNYOUALL….PREACH, LMAO!!!!

These chics kill me with their “hardships”, how they “know what they want”, and how there are “no good black men”. PLEASE, LOL. These black men face so many hardships and discrimination that they’re so traumatized now. They’ve basically forced themselves to become ignorant so that they can de-sensitize themselves from the affliction. That’s why they go to jail for 20 years for a crime they didn’t commit and come out smiling. They know damn well that there’s no justice for them and nobody cares regardless. If there aren’t any good men, it’s because you don’t want there to be any good men. Alot of ya’ll had what you say you want and then ruined that with your pride. Most of you women are offended by black men that are mentally strong and more intelligent than you, lol. Then got the nerve to go out with the thugs and after they whip ya ass, you want to become a lesbian or run to the white man. Too funny.

@#109, 110 Leekagyrl

Maybe you didn’t understand me before, I deal with the laws of the Bible, not the laws of man. I don’t care what shade of negro you are. If you know anything about negroes, 2 dark-skinned negroes can have a light-skinned child and vice-a-versa. What I said was that you are the seed of your father. If you plant appleseeds in China, America, and India, it’s still going to be an apple tree. It just might sprout a little different, lol. Nobody is pure because the nations have mingled their seeds. If a negro man has a child with a woman of another nation, the child is a negro. If you want to get technical and historical, there were “light-skinned” negroes on the slave ships. Every light-skinned negro is not the offspring of the white man. Moreover, you can claim whover you want but they have to claim you back or you’ll look like a damn fool. Ask these Africans if they’re black and they’ll correct you before you can smell them (see the JAY-Z street in Nigeria post). The ones that try to claim “black” now only do it because of the hip-hop culture so they’re trying to blend in. That’s why I addressed the person that I addressed the way that I addressed them. She’s a caucasian woman who’s mother and father taught her to hate black men and I think its great that she’s honest. Just keep it 100%, that’s all. Don’t try to front like you give a fuck about black women. That’s the same ploy the white man uses when he makes the black woman feel like she’ll be better off without black men (Something New). It’s a spiritual thing and it’s hilarious. I just like to let these clowns know that I see them.

black bitches ain’t shit white women are better word to the biy eminem and don’t gimme that my mamy is black response cuz i don’t fuck with my mama only women i fuck with are bitches.

He’s probably voodooed like all the other fools hanging around in Africa.

Michael Jackson went down down down as soon as he allowed that african woman into his house and let her teach him how to voodoo steven spielberg.

I dont feel sorry for him its probably going to be a blk women that save his sorry ass wesley just started thinking he was better then everyone that was stupid anyway because he was making to much money to try and get away with not paying taxes. by the way I love myself some dark men well I use to now Im married I love one dark man

Really its odvious that all black men are not the same because my husband do not act like wesley the same with all black women are not the same thats what my problem was with wesley saying that about all blk women at the same. If he did what to go out with a blk women he just should have done that and not put all black women down or made an excuse I work hard and if my husband needs something and I can help him I will and he will do the same and before I married him we didnt have anything but the same rules applied if he needed something and I had it its his but I never tried to use him and I never thought I was better then him.

@ 111 K Dubb

LOL @ that last sentence. But you do have a very valid point. I’m from Atlanta, so I guess it might just be a Bay “thing” where black women are really exploring other races…I mean, don’t get me wrong, it’s not niggas galore prancin’ around w/white women all day, but it is more common then a black women w/a white man. I do know that there are some good black men out there and I haven’t given up on all, but I’m damn near close, lol!! I’ve dated black men all my life and I’ve dated 2 caucasian men. To be honest I was treated better by the white men. I’m not sayin’ that black men don’t know how to treat his women, but I do think that a lot of them negros take us for granted bcuz they’ve grown up with black women for their entire lives so they fell they already know the ups and downs w/black women so when another one comes along, its really not a big difference to them. Now on the other the hand, a lot of white men try to understand and appreciate the black woman because they want to know everything about a woman besides what they already know (the white women). That’s why I think a lot of white men tend to treat us better.

However, I still have a general preception that all men are dogs no matter how good they say they are. They might have a women in their life that they truly love and adore, but all men cheat and if they haven’t they will soon. But I love all men, so I’m gonna continue to hold yall scandalous, sneaky asses down. And you make sure you keep your word and maybe if that girl is lucky enough, she’ll get you one day (if you are one of the good guys).

LOL that is goodie for him… It was about time for his nigga wake up card to come in the mail…

12 million = chump change!

@ 120 Brittanymo

There aren’t a hell of a whole lot of sisters dating men of other cultures in the Bay, I was putting the 2 on the 10, but there are enough for me to notice what I perceive as… an increase. But that’s cool, happiness comes in many shades, shapes and forms. I’m glad to see you say you haven’t given up on us, we need ya’ll and to some degree, ya’ll need us too.

Who else is going to keep ya’ll as sharp you are? As black women you guys already know you have to stay a step or two or three ahead of us; and you guys do damn good job of it too. My boys who have stepped out (Notice I said “my boys” and not me. *snickers*) have all been caught, every last one of em, so ladies if you suspect your man is cheatin’, but you haven’t been able to catch him over a course of time, chances are… that nigga probably ain’t cheatin’. You know ya’ll good Murder She Wrote, Magnum PI, Inspector Gadget ass women will find shredded evidence and tape that shit back together and bring it to ya man talking bout “Who is Tanesha? And why was her number torn into a million pieces and in the garbage in my house!”. And then we be like… “huh? Girl I just took that girls # cause she was forcing it on me, and I didn’t want to be rude; look! the shit was in the trash, in a million pieces and you put the shit back together, damn! Lol. Okay, I’m sorry, I’m done being silly.

Some of us do take our women for granted, and I think it’s because we know ya’ll love us unconditionally, you’ve stood by us through the unthinkable; our own forced demoralization, abandonment, mental and physical abuse, etc. It would be so easy to stop dealing with us, but you don’t, because you can’t, your mine (figuratively speaking); beautiful black women you belong to us (Black Men)!

I think white men treated you so well because of their extreme infatuation with you; folks always want what they’ve been deprived of, same goes for the brothers and their white women, so when they get their chance, they go all out to impress you. After about 2 yrs. when Billy comes down off that sugar high (Your sweet black love), he’ll be just as bad as Tariq.

Mama already got me, and I wouldn’t trade her in for a Halle, Beyonce or a Janet. I’m very content and monogamous; and I’m not just saying that. There are black men who don’t cheat and are the head of their household.

P.S. I’ve never dated outside of my race, it’s not that I have a problem with people of different races/cultures, it’s just, why would I do so when to me the most beautiful women in the world are black women (All Shades!). Love ya’ll to death!

@KDubb lol

That was good reading! You should put that on the blog with Halle and Brandy/Serena!

WESLY IS A DUMB ASS NIGGA.I CANT STAND THAT FUCKING SELLOUT.I HOPE HE DOES GO TO RISON.AND HE DROPS THE SOAP.LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

IM SORRY.I MISSPELLED PRISON.

Judah, you can have a white father and black mother and still make black babies. A child can’t be made without woman, womsn are conceivers of life. Your comments come off as men are the givers of life….not true, it takes to to tango, a man AND a WOMAN, that’s how God made it.

two to tango

@ 123, K Dubb

I like the way you broke that down, and I agree with you 100% (you pretty much said the same thing that I said regarding why white men might treat us black women better).

However, you mentioned that all men do not cheat and if you don’t mine me asking, out of the past or current relationship(s) that you have encountered–have you ever been a suspect of cheating? Yes or No. Explain Please

P.S. I love my black men, so please don’t think that I’m just out to badger you all. I’m just speaking on past experiences and some things I’m currently coping with. Other then that, I love y’all.

BACK TO WHO MADE HALLE BERRY DEAF IN ONE EAR IT WAS DAVID JUSTICE………THATS A FACT I KNOW THIS PERSONALLY

@ 129 Brittanymo

Of course I’ve been a suspect of cheating; I’ve also been guilty of it as well.

I’ll start where I feel it began; High School. I had a girlfriend, who I was in love with and we couldn’t get enough of one another, I mean, walking her to class, meeting after school, going to my house, walking her to the bus when she left and once she made it home we talked on the phone half the night. I was sprung, sprung on her and sprung on the pu**y, and she knew it. Her older sister and her sister’s friends made sure she knew it; I’d find this out years later, but they laced her, they told her “get all you can from him, he love you girl, you can do what you want and he’ll still be here”. And she did, she went to work on ya boy, had me doing shit like buying 3 swatch watches so she could make a head band out of em (WTF), we weren’t spending time together anymore and it just wasn’t sweet like it was when it started out. Anyway, after a couple of months of this, of course shit started getting weak to me and we began to argue and fight, we weren’t hangin’ anymore, but more importantly to me; we weren’t fu**kin’ like we were.

One day at lunch, guess who I saw in a car with an older cat? That’s right; my girl. After she got out of that car, I grabbed her by the arm like I was her daddy, talkin’ bout “who the f**k is that”! Of course she told me that he was one of her sister’s friends dropping her off from home; and I bit. To make a long ass story a little shorter, I ended up finding a card in her locker for this nigga with her talking about how she had such a good time and something to the effect of seeing this niggas d**k again! Broke my lil heart! Believe me, I still tried holding on even after finding out what I did, and what she did was continue to play me until I’d had enough. From that point on, I said to myself, “I’ll never get caught naked again”, meaning, I would always have someone to fall back on. This was in my senior year of high school and although I had moved on and started dating other woman, I continued to f**k with this girl, and I know it had everything to do with my new found motto “I’ll never get caught naked again”. Eventually I left my high school love alone, but my motto would stay for years.

I wasn’t trying to hurt the women I was with I was just trying to make sure that I’d have someone to fall back on in case a similar situation ever happened again. It really wasn’t about having sex with as many women as possible either, it’s just that, no one want’s to be alone, I think everyone wants someone to just be with. In my situation, sex was expected from more than one party and I felt that I needed that safety net, so to keep that net in place I had to keep the women I was dealing with satisfied.

My safety net has been down since 97, I met my wife in 96. This woman was the most beautiful, loving and caring woman I had ever met in my life, but the thing that I was most attracted to was her nonchalant approach to our friendship. She knew I had friends and didn’t have a problem with it; she just kindly let me know that I couldn’t have her until I decided I wanted her and her only. I got to know her like I had known no other women and I actually fell in love with her before I had her. Even after we hooked up, it shocked me to find that I didn’t have to explain where I was going, who I was going with and what time I would be home. This woman made me feel comfortable and loved, she not only told me, but she made me feel like she wanted me and only me; that’s when I knew she was going to be my wife.

Ladies, reassure your men that it’s them and only them, be confident, and let him go without asking where he’s going every time (And choke him out when he returns too late! lol). Talk to him; I know it may be like pulling teeth when asking about our past relationships, but if you can get us to open up a little, you may be well on your way to dare I say… matrimony.

P.S. The not giving him some until It’s you and only you part worked really well too

Agh, K DUBB, that was really sweet. I like your honesty and what U said about

1. LADIES NOT GIVING IT UP TOO SOON
2. LADIES BEING CONFIDENT AND NOT STOCKING YOUR MAN

I HAVE Seen those work. I am not married, but I have literally seen the difference men look at us when we just let it flow and not press so hard. You give me hope in finding a good blk man…..god knows that’s what i prefer, but where I live (west coast) it’s odd. by the way, I think every one should have a spare and a pair when they are dating…….IT HELPS YOUR SANITY!

The word ODD, sounds akward….when I mean odd I mean

1. THEY ARE MARRIED/UNAVAILABLE
2. THEY LIKE WHITE/ASIAN CHICKS ( but I don’t want this type of man anyway)
3. THEY AREN’T MENTALLY, SPIRTUALLY where I AM
4. THEY GOT A PRISION RECORD (and I ain’t down for that
5. THEY ON THE DL & U FIND THEY GAY LATER

awkward

@ 132 Leekagyrl

Thank you.

lol @ “I think every one should have a spare and a pair when they are dating…….IT HELPS YOUR SANITY!”

I’m afraid you might be right Leekagyrl!