BLIND ITEM DELUXE

Wednesday, November 1, 2006

Myra Panache’s Blind Item Deluxe:

The following two women have two things in common. They are both singers and they were both battered by the same man, a professional athlete. One of the women is a solo singer, the other woman sings in a group. At her peak, the solo singer was attracted to this “pretty boy” sports star who has a awesome physique.

She had no idea that he was abusive, he had never been in trouble with the law and his few endorsements were in tact. They began dating, the abuse started midway into the relationship and it was always unprovoked. He started off with pushes, slaps and then punches.

She had to back out of a several shows, because her bruises hadn’t healed up. She lost out on-much needed money. They would eventually breakup and he would hunt for his next victim.

He found her, she sung in a group and he met her backstage. They began dating, the first time he pushed her into the wall and punched her in the face, she bolted and he hasn’t seen her since.

Hint #1: The woman who sings in the group is ‘NOT’ Kelly Rowland. Hint #2: The abuser keeps a low profile but is well known among sports fans.

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ulala

Thursday, November 2, 2006 /

Curtis Martin! He dated Toni Braxton for a while (Item says she needed the money, this was around the time she went Bankrupt) then he dated Michele Williams (Destiny’s Child - that’s why the Kelly Rowland’s name was thrown in there) for a quick minute, if you blinked you missed it. I guess he is considered a pretty boy.

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angels222288

Friday, November 3, 2006 /

WOWWW, READING THROUGH THAT, THE ANSWER IS CURTIS MARTIN ………….BOI POOORRR POOOOR POOOOORRR Michele Williams … WAIT DONT SHE KNW THIS INFO

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Ginger

Wednesday, November 29, 2006 /

Hooray, we finally got one!! Good work, team (as if I had anything to do with it, haha)!!!

Khinte:

Baby girl, I agree with you!! But you called it when you mentioned that you grew up with parents who taught you to love and respect yourself. Everyone doesn’t get that growing up.

It’s pretty common knowledge that the cycle of abuse functions thusly:

1) Abuser woos abusee by lavishing gifts and attention upon them, instilling them with a sense of self-worth (which is inevitably something they lack; abusive people can pick up on things like that).

2) Abuser surprises abusee with an unprovoked attack, causing fear and confusion.

3) Then, faster than she can pick her teeth up off the floor, abuser apologizes profusely and lavishes gifts and attention on abusee again. . . until the next attack.

You see, the abuser’s satisfaction is derived more from his ability to manipulate her thoughts and behavior, more so than the actual physical pain that he’s causing.