is it tah of swv who married what’s his name?

Okay I am straight lost on this one…

The only prettyboy professional athletes I can think of are:

1.Allen Iverson (and he ain’t really a pretty boy)
2.Kobe (not him though)
3.Jayson Williams
4.Reggie Bush (and it can’t be my baby!!!)
5.Derek Jeter
6.Camelo Anthony (can’t be him)
7.Rick Fox (he look like a punk can’t be him)
8.Santana Moss

I’m all outta ideas…

Lawrence Taylor

Hollywood Henderson

I think it is Kelly Rowland, your just tryna throw us off but if you think about it one day she’s happily engaged, the next minute the wedding is off and you havent heard anything else about it since.

Litte Richard
* With this Blind Item post, you can pretty much say whatever you want….

#2
You’re killing me because I’ve been sitting here for half an hour thinking and I have nothing.

Left-Eye and Andre Rison?

yeah kookie, it is kinda weird how they were all in love…and then just disappeared right off the map.

i have no idea who it is tho.

Eddie George

#5 and 10 Kelly spoke about the break-up in the Vibe vixen magazine a couple of months ago.

My bad it’s not Eddie George they are still married.

it’s not reggie bush he really dont keep a low profile i think it is roy williams he keeps a low profile and he , kelly was together for a sec

This is a good one…I have no idea who it is. It does sound like Kelly though.

That Micheal Vick Character..the one going around giving everyone herpes…

Michael Vick or Jason Kidd, cause I can’t stand people infecting others with STD

Don Cornelius…DA SOOOOOUUUUUL TRAIN!

I’m going with Ike Turner on this one!

definately not Kelly, Roy is a wonderful person.

Jim Brown

Terrell Davis
Deborah Cox
I can’t think of the other female

Michael Jackson!

Why do you torment us with these blind items…I have yet to guess a single one…can we get some more clues, like a NAME or something..I can’t handle this…someone please tell me who is the woman beater!

Curtis Martin! He dated Toni Braxton for a while (Item says she needed the money, this was around the time she went Bankrupt) then he dated Michele Williams (Destiny’s Child - that’s why the Kelly Rowland’s name was thrown in there) for a quick minute, if you blinked you missed it. I guess he is considered a pretty boy.

derek jeter???

I don’t consider his physique especially imposing, but could it be “Pretty Boy” Floyd Mayweather?

This may be the only blind Item I have a good chance of getting right. I think the abuser may be Curtis Martin from the New York Jets. He was once linked to Toni Braxton, (the first singer) and was recently linked to (Michelle Williams) from Destiny’s Child. He may be abusive since his carreer is now over because of injury.

#23 beat me to it…because I knew the lead singer had to be Toni Braxton because I knew once upon a time that she had cancelled performances earlier in her career for unknown reasons, and basically that guy was the subject for a lot of her sadder songs on her sophomore LP right before she hooked up with her husband in 1997. I remember too that he was also linked to DC-member Michelle Williams.

Maybe Quentin Richardson

QUENTIN RICHARDSON???

This is OBVIOUS….much needed money = Toni Braxton. All those who were close to her knows that Curtis Martin used to whoop on her. His momma was also a mess, thus the reason why she penned Just Be A Man About It….he also started hitting on Michelle from DC too…this was the easiest blind item ever…LOL

Everyone who complains about the blind items is going to be mad when CL takes them away. So either play the game or sit on the sidelines.

Oh yeah, I have no idea who the blind item is.

Curtis Martin
It states that he first met the second woman backstage. He met Michelle backstage when she was starring in Aida.

Myra’s obsessed with wife beaters and homosexuals.

I have no clue.

Sounds like Curtis Martin is the one. I must admit that I had absolutely NO clue.

i love blind items but i dont know this one

maybe derek jeter cuz wasn’t he linked to mariah carey? i don’t know about the part of the much needed money, but she was down n out a couple of years ago, but i don’t think that bad.

IT IS, IN FACT, CURTIS MARTIN. WOW!!!

“In earlier years, he was linked romantically to singer Toni Braxton, an outdated fact he later asked the Jets to remove from his media-guide biography (along with a child to whom he was a godfather, not father). He has been linked recently with Destiny’s Child member Michelle Williams, a fellow devout Christian” Wikipedia

1) Toni Braxton also dated Jason Kidd, and we all know he is an abuser and a wife beater. Jason Kidd is a pretty boy, although I’m not attracted to him. I don’t know if he dated any other singers or how long he and Toni were togeher, but I know it wasn’t long.

2) Then there is Derek Jeter who dated Mariah Carey during the height of her career before she came crashing down. He fits the pretty boy profile, and yes he does have a nice body. He’s also been linked to almost every other bi-racial, mulatto woman in the industry.

Domestic Violence is something else…

It’s a touchy thing to get involved with, because outsiders try to respect a person’s marriage, and if the wife won’t leave the man that is beating her, then there not to much you can do….

My brother in law was knocking my sister around and one point, and I wanted to cut him real bad..My father told me not to get invloved cause that was married people business, and she would end up forgiving him and getting mad at me…

Well Dad (RIP) was right…
I gave my brother in law a beating, my sister got mad at me, and ended up tending to his bruises….

In my line of work I seen woman get prety jacked up from domestic violence..
I had a one client who lost her baby (She was pregnant at the time) as a result of getting beat up on everyday…
They charged homeboy with manslaughter of the unborn child…

I have no idea but I just wanted to say I love the blind items and especially you guys for trying to find answers and back up your guesses. I’m leaving always wiser . Thanks

lol @ Ike Turner

…and What type of Man would raise his hands to a woman !!

That is all so dumb.

A brother’s game should be so tight, that you shouldn’t even have to raise your voice to your woman..

If you are CONSTANLY fighting with someone EVERYDAY, then you really should consider breaking up with that person, because they are NOT FOR YOU !!, and your really not happy….Your just afraid of being lonely..

But, that’s my opinion
Peace

mochagirl said:
Curtis Martin! He dated Toni Braxton for a while (Item says she needed the money, this was around the time she went Bankrupt) then he dated Michele Williams (Destiny’s Child - that’s why the Kelly Rowland’s name was thrown in there) for a quick minute, if you blinked you missed it. I guess he is considered a pretty boy.

GOOD GOOD ANSWER IM GONNA CO-SIGN… BUT ILL INSERT JOKES LATER

This may be a silly question but why is this called a blind item DELUXE? What’s “deluxe” about it? Just thinking out loud.

Curtis Martin is a good guess. So is Andre Rison but who would the other woman be if it’s Andre?

WHO CARES?

Wowwwwwww Bill you are the dude!

It’s Toni Braxton. I remember her going on a talk show and she talked about him abusing her.

CURTIS MARTIN

CURTIS MARTIN

CURTIS “DAMN” MARTIN

the singers are toni braxton and michelle williams. the guys name i don’t know. but he plays for an eastcoast team, i think!! keep them coming cl

O.J. SIMPSON!

LMAO @ Asbury…I was lost as hell just throwing names out there!!!

And who in thee hell is Curtis Martin?…Man these blind items always are talking about some off-brand people. Ain’t nobody thinking about his ass…

If it is Curtis Martin, I just read on another website that he may have to retire because of some kind of injury. Watch out sistas! He’s really going to be opening up a can of whoop ass!

Curtis Martin does sound like a good answer. He do got money (he’s Bow Wow’s godfather - the one that gave ol’ boy that Black card), and he did both Toni and Michelle.

DONNIE SIMPSON!

James Brown

It’ so sad that domestic violence exists but it does, I actually have a friend who is with this guy that pushes her around, a lot. He has never punched her
(not to my knowledge) but he has been known to beat his baby’s moms and hit his mother and assault a girl with a beer bottle, but she is addicted to him and refuses to leave, and i don’t want to have to see her in a body bag, and you know what sucks she is 6 months pregnant with his child!

But about this BLIND item:
Yeah it is Curtis Martin, because I remember reading that He and Michelle were dating, but that was a minute ago. At least both women were smart enough to leave before things got really ugly. what a stupid a** motherf***ker.

Yeah—it is Curtis Martin. Poor thing. . . He must be undergoing some type of mental illness, to love physical abuse as much as he does. As if, getting body slammed on the football field is not enough abuse!

FREE & AJ?? LMAOOO

date*^^

@Mochagirl
Good job on being the first one with the best guess, i agree with you

@Bill
You are so right about abusive relationships

BILL IM IN COMPETITION WITH YOU TO COME UP WITH THE MOST REDICULOUS NAME LOL

Mason Reese

Urkiel

Cartmen from South Park

The Mario Brothers

Neyo

Sisqo

Ms. Peaches

Fry that chicken
watch this video
Fry That Chicken
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=65rXddb3oag

FIRST…I wanna shout out to Bill…you is a fool..lol

SECOND. For those of you who think it’s Roy Williams, that boy is no where near fine, and he bet not put hands on nobody

THIRD…I agree with Ms Johnson #38 on your anaylsis of our Hollywood Domestic Violence Couples… Could be either of them… :

FOURTH…Ya’ll be Blessed and Have a Good One!!

Willie Ninja

a gay guy that inventing vogue
Willi Ninja
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ivs_d8LlO6s

I was wondering if it was Rick Fox and Vanessa Williams but that would just be a bad guess on my part!

THESE BLIND ITEMS ARE SO WACK!! IT”S ALWAYS ABOUT A MAN WHO GET’S OVER ON A WOAMN!!! CAN WE SWITCH IT UP PLEASE!
NEXT SUBJECT!!!

This sounds like Toni Braxton and Michelle Williams. Both dated Curtis Martin.

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 1:36 pm

stormydai99 said:
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For those of you who think it’s Roy Williams, that boy is no where near fine, and he bet not put hands on nobody

Bill said:

If I even THOUGHT Roy williams had laid a hand on Kelly Rowland, I would track him down and cut him real bad….

And the answer is…..He is often spotted courtside at New York Knicks games and attends shows at New York movie premieres. He made Esquire Magazine’s best-dressed list in 2004. In earlier years, he was linked romantically to singer Toni Braxton, an outdated fact he later asked the Jets to remove from his media-guide biography (along with a child to whom he was a godfather, not father). He has been linked recently with Destiny’s Child member Michelle Williams, a fellow devout Christian

Curtis Martin

DAMN BILL U GETTIN ME

OK HERE GOES!

KING KOOPA?

CLARENCE THOMAS

If these blind items weren’t always NEGATIVE AS HELL, I might be able to play along.

Does Myra ever hear any positive secrets or chat with females who don’t gossip about their love interests????

FLAVOR FLAV?

HOW ABOUT BIG RICK FROM FLAVOR OF LOVE…TEEHEE

Osama Bin Laden

Yosamity Sam

Idi Amin

Black Betty

deer singing ‘black betty’
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wab7iB3s6cY

Didn’t Michelle from Destiny’s Child just start dating a football player? What’s his name?

The hint maybe have been a bigger clue than we think. Not Kelly Rowland. Could be Michelle Williams. She dated some football player for a hot second. And she was looking busted for a while but now it looks like she’s getting her groove back. The dude she was dating isn’t well known outside the sports world. In fact I can’t think of his name now…

I say Michelle Williams is the second victim.

Bubba Sparxx

Ms. New Booty
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Exf7hajbTYk

For those of YOU who say Derek Jeter… He’s not an abusive man when it comes to the women. He JUST lays down the dick and then leaves them because he’s BORED !!!
And Jason Kidd ONLY slapped around his wife for minute… And from what I’ve heard about her SHE deserves it (Just like Warren Moon’s did WHEN she got popped!!!)
Comment #30 got it right… I think it’s Curtis Martin
He definitely keeps a LOW PROFILE outside of this sports — NFL
And I’m w/ @bill when it comes to smacking around women… SO FELLAS, Get your Game Tight OR Drop that Trick and move on to something else

Ying Yang Twins

Wait-Ying Yang Twins
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDcAvBaLOuE

Oh, I see the answers now. Curtis Martin. Toni Braxton and Michelle Williams. Yeah, that’s the ticket.

Y’all better than Scooby Doo!

GARY COLEMAN

WILE E. COYOTE

Wait a minute, @bill I just read some of your guess(s)
Sisqo and The Mario Brothers (Hell Naw !!!)
Do you know how Hard it is for a midget to beat up a full-grown woman (Sisqo is a tiny, tiny man)

I just looked up a picture of Curtis Martin and he is not pretty AT ALL

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 2:41 pm

Something Fierce said:
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Wait a minute, @bill I just read some of your guess(s)
Sisqo and The Mario Brothers (Hell Naw !!!)
Do you know how Hard it is for a midget to beat up a full-grown woman (Sisqo is a tiny, tiny man)

Bill Said:
Come over to the “Who rocked it better Beyonce or Kimora Post” and scroll down to the bottom around comment # 300..
We are having a BALL over there !!!

bill said:
That Micheal Vick Character..the one going around giving everyone herpes…

Michael Vick or Jason Kidd, cause I can’t stand people infecting others with STD

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Hey Bill! We think so much alike! My friend just told me that this guy gave her herpes, and he didnt even tell her he had it. THAT IS GROSS! That is EXACTLY why Im not having sex until I get married! So for the rest of her life, she will have that. That is soo messed up!

Curtis Who????????????

Never heard of him.

Who was the dude that “roundhouse” kicked Halle in her right ear?

Or it could have easily been any of the following:

Ray Charles (RIP)
Stevie Wonder
Ms. Jay
Isiah Washington
Jib (featuring Jib)
William Hung
Sherman Hemsley
Bobby Brown
Dennis Rodman
Charles Barkley
Gnarls Barkley

Hell, I’m tired.

Next….lol

I think the answer is CURTIS MARTIN from the New York Jets…even though he’s not playing football anymore.

I remember when he was dating Toni Braxton..and I remember hearing that he abused her. And he met Michelle Williams and dated her for a very short period of time.

And I also noticed the little “hint” that was thrown out saying that the answer is not Kelly Rowland. That was just a way to throw us off.

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 2:59 pm

quick question said:
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bill said:
That Micheal Vick Character..the one going around giving everyone herpes…

Michael Vick or Jason Kidd, cause I can’t stand people infecting others with STD

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Hey Bill! We think so much alike! My friend just told me that this guy gave her herpes, and he didnt even tell her he had it. THAT IS GROSS! That is EXACTLY why Im not having sex until I get married! So for the rest of her life, she will have that. That is soo messed up!

Bill Said:
Hey Sis !
Yeah…Herpes ain’t no joke..You’ll have it for LIFE !!

It’s a good ideal to abstain from Sex until you get married…

Once your married you’ll be able to have crazy off the hook sex 24/7, from the bed to the floor, from the kitchen to the door…..

The marriage bed is Honorable and undefiled
**that means you can get your freak on once your married !!
Peace

@Something Fierce…is that Mariah in your icon? Along with this Blind Item I too I am just as blind. I know that has to be…not real…but what does it say on the censor? If that’s really Mary Cary I’m going to feel bad…. :/

^^^^^^^
Media Takeout logo to hide the nipples…
But YES it’s Mariah herself !!!

I’m riding the Curtis Martin train on this one and I remember hearing about him with Toni Braxton and later on Michelle Willaims. I can say alot about Michelle, but staying with some dude who likes to throw punches is not one of them. She’s a bolter, fo’ sho!

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 3:42 pm

Tammy said:
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@Something Fierce…is that Mariah in your icon? Along with this Blind Item I too I am just as blind. I know that has to be…not real…but what does it say on the censor? If that’s really Mary Cary I’m going to feel bad…. :/

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on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 3:52 pm

Something Fierce said:
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^^^^^^^
Media Takeout logo to hide the nipples…
But YES it’s Mariah herself !!!

Bill Said:

Mariah Carey just doesn’t give a damm anymore, huh ???

lol I guess not Bill! But…do you care that she doesn’t care anymore? It seems to REALLLY benefit you…unless you don’t like Mariah Boobies…

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 4:06 pm

Tammy said:
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lol I guess not Bill! But…do you care that she doesn’t care anymore? It seems to REALLLY benefit you…unless you don’t like Mariah Boobies…

Bill Said:
Oh, Please don’t misunderstand…
I am NOT mad…I’m a HUGE Mariah Carey Fan !!!
Mariah carey LOVES to cater to men’s fantasy..
I would imagine that she is phenominal in bed…

I’m trying to google “Mariah Carey’s Titty’s” as we speak !!!

I’m gonna go with Grant Hill on this one.

Tammy,
I love staring at titty’s !!!

If you like to post YOUR pictures, I be more than happy to look them over !!!

Pray my strength in the Lord !

PEEWEE HERMAN

Fruity Pablo

Pittboi

TED KOPPEL
GENE SHALLOT
TED TURNER
BILL GATES
JEB BUSH
RUDY GULIANI
SCOTT STORCH
SONIC THE HEDGEHOG
SKELETOR
STEVE HARVEY?

OK BILL I QUIT DAMMIT TEEHEE

Lazurus, The Gay Hustler @ thugboy.com

Bashyboo

It was a TIE, okay honey ???

Love ya like a play cousin….

You probably would be a cool person to hang out with and have drinks with after work…

LOL you have me dying over here Bill, I’m a big mariah fan too but noooo I don’t wanna post no boobie shots, mimi has enough breasts for me and her all in one lol “Tiffany and Tatiana” gotta stay inside the “penthouse”…my hubby wouldn’t like them being in public very much! lol

Something Fierce said:
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For those of YOU who say Derek Jeter… He’s not an abusive man when it comes to the women. He JUST lays down the dick and then leaves them because he’s BORED !!!
And Jason Kidd ONLY slapped around his wife for minute… And from what I’ve heard about her SHE deserves it (Just like Warren Moon’s did WHEN she got popped!!!)
Comment #30 got it right… I think it’s Curtis Martin
He definitely keeps a LOW PROFILE outside of this sports — NFL
And I’m w/ @bill when it comes to smacking around women… SO FELLAS, Get your Game Tight OR Drop that Trick and move on to something else ;-

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Maybe you meant the above lightheartedly, but statements such as “ONLY slapped around his wife for minute… And from what I’ve heard about her SHE deserves it (Just like Warren Moon’s did WHEN she got popped!!!)” and “Get your Game Tight OR Drop that Trick and move on to something else” sound extremely ignorant.

1. No signifigant other, whether male or female, DESERVES to be physically abused.

2. ONLY slapping your wife or husband around for a MINUTE is still unacceptable. Even a mili-second is too long to slap someone you exchanged vows with.

3. When you refer to women as TRICK’s and just “SOMETHING ELSE,” you sound as if you personally need to reevaluate who you’re dating or just keep your dick in your pants. Obviously the quality you attract is poor.

HEY BILL!!!!!! GIMME SOME HOTSAUCE IOON WANT NO KETCHUP!!!!LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

BOOKER T

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 4:45 pm

Tammy said:
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LOL you have me dying over here Bill, I’m a big mariah fan too but noooo I don’t wanna post no boobie shots, mimi has enough breasts for me and her all in one lol “Tiffany and Tatiana” gotta stay inside the “penthouse”…my hubby wouldn’t like them being in public very much! lol

Titty
Titty
Titty

Bill LOVES him som Titty’s !!!!

on Wednesday, November 1, 2006 @ 5:06 pm

Ohsoluvlee1 said:
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HEY BILL!!!!!! GIMME SOME HOTSAUCE IOON WANT NO KETCHUP!!!!LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

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Bill Said:

Fry that chicken
Fry that chicken
Fry that chicken

Everybody wants a piece of my chicken, southern fried chicken, finger licking….

YOU HEAR ME !!!

Ms. Peaches Fried Chicken Song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rb_XDw51D6c

I don’t know who it could be. I don’t think its Curtis Martin tho. I don’t think he would be classified as a prettyboy and I thought he was a Christian? These Blind Items never give enough hints but it is fun to guess tho.

DEKIMBE MUTOMBO

iTS NOBODY BUT jIM jACKSON he was the one who had a fight with Jason Kidd over Toni Braxton

Im going to guess Al Roker. WTF???

Did anyone say Pretty Boy Floyd (the boxer)

R.kelly

It’s Ray Lewis and the woman that was in a group is Chilli from TLC. He is known for having a strong pimp hand.

YEAH SECRETLY I DIDNT WANT TO STOP EITHER BILL LOL

VERNE TRYOER OR WHAT EVER HIS LAST NAME IS OKAY MINI ME DAMMIT

THE PENGUIN FROM BATMAN

Bill you are a NUT… LMAO

Well I believe it was Toni and M.Williams. Yeah these athletes are off the chain with beating up people. Didn’t anybody watch the “Burning Bed” with Farrah, When a “women is fed” up or when you run into the wrong one ! You might get Hurt..
Roy Williams is fine to me since everybody has been talking about him. But I believe his bossy tail slap somebody before. But anywayz, Call me Roy..

it does sound like Toni n Michelle, but who would consider Curtis Martin a pretty boy????!!! Based on that alone, I doubt it’s him

George Bush,the victim is Condoleeza Rice.

I’ve heard Osama Bin Laden whoop the crap out of 3 Little Bombs(an arabic pop group)

Fred Flinstone?

For some reason, I want to say Eddie George..but he seems like a nice guy….I…I.. I DONT KNOW…!!

DAMN THESE BLIND ITEMS …DAMN THEM TO HELL!!!!

LOL SHAMPOO

ITS BRANDY SHE SAID SHE WAS IN A ABRUSIVE RELATION SHIP BEFORE SHE HAD HER BABY

Curtis Martin…

He was with Toni Braxton and Michelle Williams from Destiny’s Child (Michelle is not Kelly !!).

He is verrrrry low key, but we all know him !

brandy

Toucan Sam

IT’S RAY LEWIS AND THE GIRL IN THE GROUP IS CHILLI FROM TLC

it’s QUENTIN RICHARDSON

@Bill, you are so right! But I cannot fathom that a Black man (your father) did not have a problem with a man laying hands on his daughter. Usually, it’s the mom who says to stay our of it and is more submissive. Damn!

I’m sorry, but I don’t feeling sorry for a woman getting her azz beat. The first time, yeah, it’s unexpected and she’s frightened. But damn, either handle dat shit like a real broad (cut his ass) or handle it the right way (contact authorities , file a restraining order, and FOLLOW THROUGH)

But when you getting punched and slapped on a daily basis, then you must like it. Walking around bruised the fuck up, but it’s okay cuz you can say you have a “man”. Women like this disgust me and should think higher of themselves . They should have a safe plan and resources to leave. There is help out there.

You are right to say some people are so USED to being in a relationship, they are afraid to be alone-even if it means getting used as a freakin punching bag.
This is SO SAD!!!

I am so blessed to have had two strong parents coming up and I was taught that I should demand respect. Disrespect is simply NOT an option.

BTW, the first and last young man that grabbed my wrists in anger ended up with a broken nose…crying…guess he thought I was a weak bitch.

Sorry, I had to vent.

FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT KNOW BECAUSE YOU ARE LUCKY, DO NOT SPEAK FOR OR FROM A BATTERED WOMEN. LOW SELF ESTEEM(NOT EVER) NO RESOURCES( LOTS. hOW DARE YOU TAKE SUCH A GLOBAL CRIME AND TURN IT INTO A CIRCUS ACT. FIRST OF ALL WE DON’T KNOW THEY ARE ABUSERS AND IT HAPPENS OUT OF NO WHERE IT IT NOT A JOKE. IT IS NOTHING TO JUDGE BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW IT COULD BE YOU ONE DAY. NEVER SAY NEVER. ALL I KNOW IS ONE MINUTE I’M GETTING ROSES THE NEXT HE;S TRYIN ME IN SOMEWAY. DON’T GET IT TWISTED AIN’T NO WOMEN (BLACK I MEAN GONNA SIT THERE AND LET SOME MAN GO UPSIDE YOUR HEAD COME ON SILLY OF YOU TO THINK,WHEN HE TRYS I GET SOMETHING HEAVY LIKE CRYSTAL AND BUST HIM IN HIS ARMS WHEN HIS LET’S SAY TENSION IS. BUT WHAT’S RIGHT ABOUT THAT WHO IN THERE RIGHT MIND WANTS TO INFLICT PAIN ON ANOTHER HUMAN BEING BUT A NUT. GET MY DRIUFT. VERY SAD SITUATION. DON’T FOCUS ON HOW DUMB THE WOMEN IS FOCUS ON SOLUTIONS. THERE’S NOTHING INTELLIGENT ABOUT IGNORANCE OR WOMEN BEING ABUSE BY MEN WHO GO OUT IN SOCIETY AND POSE AS THE PERFECT MAN. I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD BE IN THIS SITUATION BUT I AM A LIVING EXPERIENCE AND MY TWO CHILDREN HAVE SEEN SOME SAD EPISODES THAT THEY SHOULD HAVE NEVER SAW. VERY SAD JUST FEELME. DON’T TRY TO REACH ME BECAUSE I KNOW I WON’T BE HERE LONG.

I feel so sorry for the lady above. I guess she did not appreciate my former comment.

“Dont focus on the women being dumb, focus on solutions”, ironic isn’t it? You are DUMB if you DON’T find a solution. Tom Joyner recently aired a full morning show discussing this topic. And as early as it was (5am) I was getting so heated listening to these women’s situations. Don’t get me wrong, I am not cold-blood, it also hurt me when they described literally being tortured at the hands of their “man”.

This is your life! More than a push, slap, what happens when he pulls a gun and in his anger, pulls that trigger? What about your kids, your family? These women should think more about the people who TRULY, UNCONDITIONALLY love them instead of the person who claims to love them after administering blows to the head.

What about the women who get abused, call the police, then drop the charges? Why call the police if you are gonna let yourself get manipulated over and over again? You can be scarred for life, emotionally and physically, if you don’t use the good sense God gave you.

Amen!

Lionel Ritchie

I THNK THE GIRL IS T-BOZ ,CHILLI OR LEFT EYE IT HAS 2 BE ONE OF THEM

Oh, my Lord, I actually know the answer to one…it is definitely Toni, Curtis and Michelle from DC. Remember, he was in the vid from her 2nd album, and then they started dating. Then, she went broke and started talking about an abusive relationship. I heard about him and Michelle, and anyone that has DC’s last album can remember the song “Girl”, about friends intervening in another friend’s abusive reltionship (Kelly was the abused girl in the video, but she is also the aspiring actress in the group). Just something to think about…I know i’m right, though.

its Curtis Martin…I looked his pic up…he look like a wife beater 2(lol)…j/k…well,maybe not but just look at him 4real…:-/

Curtis Martin! He dated Toni Braxton for a while (Item says she needed the money, this was around the time she went Bankrupt) then he dated Michele Williams (Destiny’s Child - that’s why the Kelly Rowland’s name was thrown in there) for a quick minute, if you blinked you missed it. I guess he is considered a pretty boy.

WOWWW, READING THROUGH THAT, THE ANSWER IS CURTIS MARTIN ………….BOI POOORRR POOOOR POOOOORRR Michele Williams … WAIT DONT SHE KNW THIS INFO

Hooray, we finally got one!! Good work, team (as if I had anything to do with it, haha)!!!

Khinte:

Baby girl, I agree with you!! But you called it when you mentioned that you grew up with parents who taught you to love and respect yourself. Everyone doesn’t get that growing up.

It’s pretty common knowledge that the cycle of abuse functions thusly:

1) Abuser woos abusee by lavishing gifts and attention upon them, instilling them with a sense of self-worth (which is inevitably something they lack; abusive people can pick up on things like that).

2) Abuser surprises abusee with an unprovoked attack, causing fear and confusion.

3) Then, faster than she can pick her teeth up off the floor, abuser apologizes profusely and lavishes gifts and attention on abusee again. . . until the next attack.

You see, the abuser’s satisfaction is derived more from his ability to manipulate her thoughts and behavior, more so than the actual physical pain that he’s causing.

The answer is Curtis Martin…He dated Michelle Williams from DC and Toni Braxton…didn’t know brotha had issues like that…he needs prayer

Michelle Williams & Gary Baxter, she dated him briefly and by the time the news broke about them dating they weren’t together anymore