I just want to applaud the women on this blog (She-ra,Grlnva, etc) who don’t condone the “baby mamma” business. At the end of the day when he goes and marries “the one” and you are alone with that “paycheck” will that make you feel better? I’m not even gonna sit here and say that I wouldn’t mind having a man with money, but I’m not about to sell my soul or eggs for it! I am fiercely independent and I won’t let a man or his money determine how I live my life (thanks to my momma). And I ain’t no holy roller, more like a certified sinner(lol) but I am in my 20s, have no child(ren) nor will I have any unless I am with a man that loves and respects me, and is also responsible. Black women ARE beautiful and exquisite! As a celebrity figure however, whether you believe it or not, our black children look up to them! When they see their role models having a child out of wedlock they think it is ok. This isn’t the way it is supposed to be. If you ain’t ready to be married you shouldn’t be having kids EITHER! Yes shit happens, but mofo’s know what birth control and condoms are, USE THEM! If you really believe that Lala is the end and all for Carmelo, think again. For you dummies holding the price tag above your nasty crotches, I feel for the future of your offspring!

“Engaged”… uummmm, what is that meaning
Busy, Occupied, Unavailable… How can I used that in a sentence or thought???

There ARE several women on the CL I would LOVE to “Get Busy” with

I could definitely enjoy being “occupied” with some of these Sexy-Ass CL Women

It would be Such A JOY to have @mika… “Unavailable” from everything else BUT Myself for around Three Whole Days/Nights !!!

I’m telling you now CL is a wondeful excape from work, or in my case at work… BUT alot of you Sexy-Ass, Fine-Ass and Beautiful Women of the CL is driving a Brutha CRAZY!!! And I LOVE IT

I’m from the Virgin Islands. I guess I’m not black either. I’m a Virgin Islander. LOL.

MYSHELL, I’ll bet it says that on your drivers
license too. LOL. and Birth Certificate.

And don’t give me that “well if you had the chance you’d do it too” crap. I can say without a doubt in my heart that I want that wedding first. I don’t want my kids walking down the isle with me! I told my mom that cycle will stop with me, her first born. My grandfather is so happy that I haven’t become a black statistic, he tells me everytime he sees me. Even if I was to get married, I still will prefer my husband and I to wait until we have children. Blacki couples need to enjoy each other first because once child(ren) come into the picture, things can fall apart. I’ve seen friends of mine attached at the hip and as soon as the baby comes, they break and hate each other. That’s because they thought they knew each other in and out. Granted you may never truly know someone in and out, but for Pete’s sake, put some time into each other and make it official. Baby mamma’s call themselves “wifey,” I hope to say WIFE!

^^^LMAO Hell, I’m mixed. My black mother is from Dominica and my black father is from St Lucia.

By the way, GRNVLA I’m glad you changed your hair because you short cut made me miss my short do. I almost cut me shit off because of your ass.;-)

He (Carmelo) was delaying on that wedding date so she said “Okay,…you bull shittin on marrying me so how about I get preggers to speed up the date”.

@MYSHELL= I’m going back short for the weekend, but I won’t change the picture. That same thing happens to me, when I see a cute short style, I yern to change my hair, or cut it more, thats why I try not to watch to much TV. I just watch the rap videos, eeerbody in there has a weave or long hair. LOL

HEY BILL

on Thursday, November 9, 2006 @ 1:47 pm

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@MYSHELL= I’m going back short for the weekend, but I won’t change the picture. That same thing happens to me, when I see a cute short style, I yern to change my hair, or cut it more, thats why I try not to watch to much TV. I just watch the rap videos, eeerbody in there has a weave or long hair. LOL

Bill Said:

Miss grlnva,
I usually don’t compliment another man’s wife, but I MUST tell you how attractive you are.

I really couldn’t appreciate your beauty with your OTHER Photo…

This Photo is SO much better. I can REALLY apreciate your beauty eyes, your sensual mouth, and your LOVELY HAIR !!!

If your husband is anything like me, if you come home with your hair cut, HE WILL LOSE HIS MIND…

Man, I HATE when my wife decide “she needs a change” and up & cut her hair….

Boy that pisses me off..I think it pisses most men off…

Men LOVE long hair..We like to run our fingers through it…All will I’m driving I’m stroking my wife’s hair, then her leg, then her thigh….

You get my point (I hope)..we like to STROKE things…

PLEASE reconsider cutting your hair…Your SO preety NOW….MEN HATE SUDDEN CHANGE..

Your Boy,
Bill

ROFLMBAO!!! Preach girl, let ‘em know! People crack me up thinking that just because people come from Spanish-speaking decent they are not black. The slave trade stretched across North America and the Carribbean. LOL Black folks just didn’t sprout from coconuts on those islands! LOL

Don’t forget South America. Brazil and Colombia have the largest black populations outside of Africa. Latino people…get your minds right! That ain’t no tan, it’s your DNA!!!!

@Bill, sorry to break it to you, but this isn’t my real hair. The other picture is my real hair. I am growing it out and its going through an ugly faze, so I just put some extensions in it until I can get it exactly the lenghth shown. It won’t be much longer. Thank you for the compliment, you made me smile. My husband would appreciate it also. When I ask him how he likes my hair, he says it doesn’t matter to him, as long as its done. He will compliment if it looks nice though. I like to change my hair because its my look. I am a hairstylist, thats my side hustle aside from working here at Radiation/Oncology, a Cancer center.

on Thursday, November 9, 2006 @ 2:31 pm

quick question said:
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HEY BILL

Bill Said:
Quick Question:
My First True Love here on CL…

Hey Boo…
What’s Really good !!

RE: Lala thinking she’s not black

Isn’t it funny how these heffas don’t wanna be black but are quick to spread their legs for a negro. If that’s the case, holla at A-Rod then, Lala.

Oh wait a minute, he’s over 21. He’s peeped too much game to get caught up with the likes of you.

What is she gonna teach that baby? ‘Tell everybody you’re 1/4 spanish on your maternal grandma’s side.’ Nigga please.

Seems like I’m fussin’ about this everyday…

Whenever I see La La Im reminded of muppets…

#139 777-9311 said: “…But I must say I’m pretty new and I did not get orientation, I’m jealous.”

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I told them to send you a basket of fruit, wine and cheese! Didn’t you get it? Darnit Angel! Okay, belated welcome Beachwood 4-5789 or whatever your phone number is! hehe!

on Thursday, November 9, 2006 @ 2:46 pm

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@Bill, sorry to break it to you, but this isn’t my real hair. The other picture is my real hair. I am growing it out and its going through an ugly faze, so I just put some extensions in it until I can get it exactly the lenghth shown. It won’t be much longer. Thank you for the compliment, you made me smile. My husband would appreciate it also. When I ask him how he likes my hair, he says it doesn’t matter to him, as long as its done. He will compliment if it looks nice though. I like to change my hair because its my look. I am a hairstylist, thats my side hustle aside from working here at Radiation/Oncology, a Cancer center.

Bill Said:

Do You have the Receipt ????
THEN…It’s Your hair !!!!

I don’t care if it’s a Weave, Wig or a Hat, you look good….
Make SURE you tell your husband you got this brother from new jersey lusting after you on the computer !!!*It’s ALWAYS a good ideal to let the husband or boyfriend know that you STILL can cause heads to turn !!!.

You look GOOD miss..I LOVE your new Photo !!

You do you….I appreciate your beauty !!

Love ya like a play cousin
your boy
bill

TRUE, TRUE.its mine. Thank you! If I tell him that, he’ll say something like, “OOOOhhh lawd! Ain’t yo damn head big enough” LOL

TooThru said:

@20 You’re right. As Lala stated in S2S, she’s Puerto Rican and not black.

FOR THE LAST DAMN TIME: PUERTO RICAN IS NOT A RACE!!!!!!! DAMMIT BLACK PEOPLE. DAMN! Y’ALL HAVE BEEN MIS-EDUCATED LIKE A MUTHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well, i’m gone for the day. love yall cl’ers. Be Back @ about 6:30am tomorrow!

@ #154 # seabreeze said:

…Baby mamma’s call themselves “wifey,” I hope to say WIFE!

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wifey replied:

Hey! Hey! Hooooold up there one minute! Ain’t nuttin’ wrong with my username! I am legitimately, happily married and have been for 10 years!!! LOL

(But on the real, I know what you’re saying)

PPL kill me acting like being a baby mamma is a profession talking about ’she doing her thing’ ..lala cool because she’s working and taking care of herself but as for some broad half assing through life tryna get knocked up - you ain’t doin shyt - don’t be a ho.
child support ain’t shit. What about everything else??
lol @ myshell.. you done messed around and told the truth !!
still ol’ boy don’t seem offended by her acting like black is a virus. in fact black men rarely appear offended when their sistas come off color struck. the red bones w/ long hair get love even when they praying they babies don’t come out looking like yo black ass or w/ yo mamma’s hair. fu*k it Ima get a sew in and change my name to pocahantas.

on Thursday, November 9, 2006 @ 3:07 pm

DEO said:
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PPL kill me acting like being a baby mamma is a profession talking about ’she doing her thing’ ..lala cool because she’s working and taking care of herself but as for some broad half assing through life tryna get knocked up - you ain’t doin shyt - don’t be a ho.
child support ain’t shit. What about everything else??
lol @ myshell.. you done messed around and told the truth !!
still ol’ boy don’t seem offended by her acting like black is a virus. in fact black men rarely appear offended when their sistas come off color struck. the red bones w/ long hair get love even when they praying they babies don’t come out looking like yo black ass or w/ yo mamma’s hair. fu*k it Ima get a sew in and change my name to pocahantas.

bill said:
preach…
you ain’t never lied !!

Lala looks cute pregnantm, now she needs to get Carmello to marry her soon.

@ DEO

Say that! Co-sign to the nth degree.

When I got married, people actually came up to me and said, ‘Your babies gonna have good hair.’ Like that was some fantastic bonus prize or something. The fact that people actually brought that up out of the blue burned me up.

Black people is crazy. I love my people, but we crazy.

I hate how people act so holier than thou. I seriously do… always bringing a negative point of view to a situation when all you have to do is say congrats on your baby and we wish you well. None of you know these two people yet ya’ll spread your hate all on their relationship..not an opinion on the relationship but the HATE. I’m tired of this baby momma shit blah blah blah blah why can’t people get married first..blahblahblah oh shut up..I’d rather for a person to be happy single taking care of their children than hitting up the abortion clinic like it’s having a 2 for 1 sale.

Congrats on the baby LaLa.

TO EVEYONE SAYING CHILDSUPPORT DOESN’T LAST FOREVER:

True, child support doesn’t last forever, the child does eventually turn 18 and it’s over……BUT, THERE IS ALWAYS A BUT…….

The type of child support that LALA could get if properly invested could last her for the rest of her life.

I know of a professional football player in TN, who will remain nameless, that is paying over 30,000 dollars per month in child support and had to buy the chick a house.

If the woman invests at least half of that money properly she should be set.

SO, I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY LALA WOULD BYPASS MARRIAGE AND GO AHEAD AND GET PREGNANT NOW.

SHE IS PROBABLY JUST LOOKING AT IT AS A GOOD INVESTMENT.

Who’s to say that he wasn’t about to leave her when it happened. He can go at any minute, but her lifestype won’t change.

And trust MTV VJing could not be paying that much compared to the standard of living that she shares with Carmelo Anthony.

@she-ra. that’s crazy! but not altogether surprising. what can you say to something like that.

@bobbito - not all the comments are directed at lala and carmelo that’s just where the convo STARTED.
you’re right we shouldn’t hate on anyone but we certainly shouldn’t be patting women (in general) on the back JUST for getting pregnant by a man w/ money.

?? Has anyone said that stop to consider that if he did leave her and she got child support that she would still be heart broken because she actually LOVES him. what kind of concession prize is money for a broken heart? crap.

i am so happy for lala and melo, they make such a cute couple, and melo is also one of my top five players so i’m glad to see him happy. i truly hope their relationship works out. imo, lala looks nice in the pics.

aww damnit im missing all the CL action lol

Meatloaf: i’d rather not discuss the causes of my unholiness. let’s keep it PG 13 in here lol =)

LaLa looks beautiful. What is the big deal about her being pregnant? She is an adult. Why not be upset when you see a 13 year old girl pushing a stroller!!! Her and Carmelo have been together for 3 years and are engaged. Stop being bitter because some of yall were probably pregant at 12. SHUT THE FUCK UP!!

@ms. t… WOW, You bring “Paying For The Pussy” to a Whole Different level. These NBA, NFL and Highly paid entertainers NEEDS To Be More Careful!!!

@deo … So YOU REALLY think she’s “In Love”
I heard she dumped the last Dude She was So In Love with faster than a Hot Potato when SHE thought she could get with Carmelo !!!

She maybe BROKE compared to what she could’ve got if they do get married… But Broken-Hearted ???
I DOUBT that Very Seriously !!!

Hey Bill, the new company that I work for made me the Music Editor for its magazine that is coming out really soon! Im SOOO HAPPY!

@wifey #142

You are “dignifying” my response because you posses an inherent sense of right and wrong. And on principle you can not let a statement like the one I made slide without challenging its moral integrity even though you know the remark was made in jest.

It’s not your fault, your heighten ethical decency is a common side effect of heighten intellect (this is especially true/irritating with women). Unfortunately your “sense of humor” seems to have suffered slightly as a result (you’re probably great in bed though). I do however respect your opinion.

Back on the topic:
As a producer of sperm I can only say Lala’s decision to let the gooey “milk of life” we men so generously give to you women to flow freely and unhindered by moral and prophylactic boundaries is a decision she will have to live with for the rest of her life.

Make love not war!!!

I WANT MY MTV!!!!!!!!

R.I.P Ed….

Commnet #182… Congrats, There is NOTHING like getting paid for something that you Enjoy doing

Uh, @mizzlizz… I just wnat to keep you near me Ms. Too Sexxy-N-Hott for PG-13 !!!
That way you can whisper THOSE things to for my ears and thoughts only Honey Baby

I’m Gone People and see you tomorrow morning (Bright and Eary)

FIERCE,
I don’t know if she’s in love or not I’m just saying let’s not ASSUME she isn’t. Or that he isn’t for that matter. Maybe - maybe not.

but to call a baby a business decison?? that’s cold

@182 CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!!!!!!!!!

@deo… This Is TRUE !!!

Awww…she’s showin now…she looks Great!!!

LOL @ 183 . . crazy way to put it but yeah.
they both will have to live w/ it for ever. and so will baby.

I think she looks very pretty. She looks very nice in all those pictures. Classy and not tacky like some other celebs I’ve seen pictures of while they were pregnant.

I totally agree with #138 WHOUWANNAB and #151 SEABREEZE!

But you know what, you are preaching to the fuckin deaf! There’s some ignorant immoral ass people on this site, with no fuckin values at all - you can tell by their posts. Certainly NOT EVERYONE (the ones who will respond negatively to this post are the ones i’m referring to!), but there are alot of people who will accept and go for anything. They probably have no convictions in which to stand for, or any type of value and/or moral system, cause if they did, they would not be trying to dog people out who are simply saying, “hey, why not try marriage first, or why be somebody’s baby mama, even if you’re PAID WELL for it. There’s too much contraception out today for all the “SO-CALLED MISTAKES” these women/MEN are claiming their having! No wonder AIDS is rampant! But whatever, the world has gone to shit and this post proves it by the responses of acceptance of this type of situation! That’s why we can’t tell young girls nothing, grown ass women out acting as irresponsible as children. No wonder it’s hard to raise kids today, the world as a whole says all types of (once thought of as unacceptable) behavior is okay; there’s nothing wrong with it. All these dumb women setting themselves up, some deliberately allowing themselves to become pregnant by someone THEY KNOW is questionable whether or not he’ll be there next year (if your ass aint married, it’s fuckin questionable!) It’s questionable enough if he’s gonna be around anyway cause relationships are hard, but then when he tells you he’s not marrying you right now, he’s outright telling you straight up “i don’t know if we have a future.” And with that said, he can leave at any moment, and believe it or not, the stupid ass woman got the damn nerve and audacity to be upset! Married people break up too after having children, but at least they gave it a real shot, they committed to each other, but the shit didn’t work out. At least they can explain that to their kids. What do single women and men say to their kids, umm, me and your daddy/mama, were playing around and we got you! LMAO, but seriously it’s sad. I’m sorry, but it’s digusting to see all these celebrities (and average folk) out with big pregnant bellies, smiling from ear to fuckin ear, with no damn ring on their finger, and no promise of a ring or commitment! And some have a ring, but it’s not a commitment ring, it’s a (okay, okay, here, put this ring on) type of ring, cause it’s just the shut you up, no intent of commitment. Uhhhhhhh, disgusting! God, please grant me the wisdom, discernment, self-love, and contentment to never allow this crap! I’m not being self-righteous, but if we don’t admit where we are going wrong, how can we ever expect to bring about any change? This is not cool, and i don’t give a fuck who disagrees!

on Thursday, November 9, 2006 @ 3:54 pm

quick question said:
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Hey Bill, the new company that I work for made me the Music Editor for its magazine that is coming out really soon! Im SOOO HAPPY!

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Bill Said:
That’s GREAT news !!!
I’m Happy & Excited for you !!!!

La La definately has that glo that only a mother can have….or the glo the woman carrying Carmlo Athony’s baby can have. She looks so pretty, good for her.

awwww,dat pic wit Fat Joe is soo cute1

(dat white lady got a HUGE nose. and she looks just a funny as can be

LaLa is a staight up B. I. I am from Denver and she makes me sick. I been to his shoe release parties and seen her and him at some events. She is not friendly and her attitude stinks. I seen the chick in action. She looks like she got a bout of down symdrome anyway. Its amazing what weave and makeup can do to a person.

lol mizzlizz: You know confession is good for the soul! Anyhow, you go gurl! You know what time it is! Just be safe and never leave home without clean underwear! hehe!

You actually look like big baller material! Pro athelets and entertainers like light-skinned women with good hair and teeth! You could get at someone like John Paul or Mike Bibby! lol

@ MARCUSMAX

You speak the unadulterated truth.

Somebody needs to make people understand.

And another thing. Why is it when a guy is rich, the birth control never works? Like wealth gives you super sperm. Then people want to explain it away like people make mistakes, they got caught up, etc.

Hell to the no. These women get pregnant on purpose. Damn near every young wealthy black man has a baby mama(s) running around. It’s 2006 and these dudes still haven’t learned BYOC=Bring your own condom. SMH at dumb negroes and the scheming broads they lay with!!

Thanks Bill. But I have pages worth of messages, with people asking me to check out their music. lol So all day long, Im reading that kind of stuff. lol But Im happy though.

Disgree with the “baby mamma” being happy without benefit of being “wifey.” You aint gone see Vanessa Manilos preggers w/Nick Lachey’s baby even tho his money dont compare w/Melo’s). Lets do better as Black/Puerto Rican/minorities for out future generations. She gone end up like Kim Porter.

1st off @ Mika, girl you would turn a straight girl gay. Good lawd! Satan, I rebuke you! LOL!! I want to put my pic up but my ole man says not to. He says I just wanna show myself off to people so guys can flirt with me all day. But it’s okay…I guess I can survive without my pic up.

NE Way, I noticed Lala glowing on the FOL reunion show. And her boobs has definitely sprouted. She looks really nice.

@199 say word!!

Still engaged?wow..well she looks pretty

LaLa looked really cute on the FOL reunion show…the best I’ve ever seen.

Thanks @ Foxxy…I have been known to do that to a few women…lol.

ooooh they will be divorced in 6months and lala will still be loaded. Thats right girls have that baby, marry that man, divorce that man and get rich off that man!!!!!

Not tryna be funny but i was wondering where her stomach was…..she must be carrying in her breasts…i’ve seen it happen before

Cha-ching!!!! You can stop working now La-La…you’ve surpassed you MRS degree (w/a minor in prenup) to get your 18 year guaranteed check! She looks really happy though. I hope everything goes well with her pregnancy. Babies are a blessing;)

#27 having a child is not a reason to get married. He had no intentions on marry you, because if he had he would have married you and then became pregnant. Black women can be really naive, and desperate for companionship at times. You will do anything for a man, just to say you have one. I will NEVER settle It is not in my character. You have a long miserable life ahead of you, because you married out of lust.

AWWWWWW!!!!! LALA Looks soooooooo Beautiful!!!! She really is glowing. Congradulations!!!! HATERS QUIT IT!!!!! SO WHAT SHE AND CARMELO DIDN’T GET MARRIED YET. IT TAKES TRUE LOVE AND TRUST ALONG WITH OTHER THINGS TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP GOING, YOU DON’T ALWAYS HAVE TO GET MARRIED RIGHT AWAY. AND WHOS TO SAY THAT ITS NOT THE DECISION OF BOTH OF THEM TO NOT GET MARRIED YET, WE DON’T KNOW. WE’VE SEEN PPL GET MARRIED AFTER DATING 2 MONTHS AND GETTING A DIVORCE A COUPLE WEEKS LATER. ANYWAY I’M SOOOO HAPPY FOR BOTH OF THEM. I WISH THEM A LOT LUCK AND HAPPINES.

ALL THE ONES THAT SAID THAT THEY SHOULD BE MARRIED,

I RESENT A LOT OF THE SHIT YOU SAID, MY MOM HAD ME AS A SINGLE PARENT AND IT WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO, MY DAD IS A LOSER ALWAYS HAS BEEN…SO WHAT I SHOULD NOT EXIST BECAUSE SHE GOT PREGNANT-PLEASE..DON’T WORRY THOUGH A LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE ARE JUST AS IGNORANT AS YOU…STASTICALLY SPEAKING KIDS ARE LIKELY TO BE MORE DAMAGED IN A DIVORCE AS OPPOSED TO BEING RAISED BY A SINGLE PARENT. I HAD MY SON FIRST AND GOT MARRIED WHILE I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY DAUGHTER-IT WORKED FOR US, AND THERE ARE TIMES THAT WE THINK WE SHOULD HAVE WAITED. EVERYONE THAT MAKES A GOOD PARENT WON’T MAKE A GOOD WIFE, VICE VERSA, PEOPLE KILL ME THROWING OUT THEIR BELIEFS LIKE IT IS GOSPEL-MARY AND GOD WASN’T MARRIED, I DON’T CARE IF HE IS A SUPREME BEING ENTITY OR WHATEVER-THEY HAD JESUS. THE POINT IS SHOULDN’T NO ONE BE ON HERE TALKING BOUT WHAT SHE SHOULD DO-YOU AREN’T HER AND YOU DON’T KNOW HER SITUATION, SO KEEP YOUR COMMENT TO HER LOOKS, NOT HER MORALS.
WITH THAT OUT THE WAY, LALA IS BEAUTIFUL,I AM HOPING THE BEST FOR HER AND MELO.

ATTENTION KINGS WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #208

WHOA!!!!! You really took that to heart. THE TRUTH IS A BIT** ISN’T IT? LMAO!!!!You’re so stupid there’s not too much I can say to you, because you may not comprehend it. “I had my son first and then got pregnant with my daughter while I got married.” You fu***** up twice. Regardless of how popular having kids out of wedlock is, it does not make it right. You don’t respect yourself. You have iniquity in your family, that needs to be broken. That’s why so many black women have “BABY DADDIES” instead of “HUSBANDS” Some of us are always settling for the first man that shows us some attention. You are ridiculous. Your children are going to turn out just like you. What a waste.

@144 that comment was funny but I know the person u said that to is MAD. do the person even say goodmorning, goodafternoon, or goodnight?

She looks cute pregnant - i agree she does have that GLOW. I hope they have a healthy happy baby….this is the first child for both of them, I know they must be soo excited.

As far as the marraige thing is concerned…no one was getting on Angelina Jolie for adopting and having children out of wedlock? Heck she adopted children as a single parent. At the end of the day I’ve seen “family” look a lot of different ways for a lot of people and although a traditional married mom and dad is probobly what’s ideal, there are plenty of people who raise happy children and live happy lives and have loving relationships w/out walking down the isle. From what I know La La and Melo are engaged, so i’m assuming there will be a walk down the isle, but if for some reason they don’t I’m sure they’ll make great parents and be happy together. They seem very much in luv. i wish them best!

Did anyone ever stop and think that maybe it’s LALA who doesn’t want to get married?? It’s so funny that people talk about unwed mothers like they should be ashamed. Lots of women today don’t even want to get married, and if they do it’s a very far thought from their minds today. But just because a woman doesn’t want to get married, should she not be able to walk around pregnant and smiling because she has been blessed with a gift from God. Everyone was saying that Jay-Z doesn’t want to marry Beyonce, but clearly in that new song of his we see that it’s Beyonce who is wanting to put career first. Come one people, it’s not 1950 anymore. Women got their own “ish” going on. Because of that, marriage might not seem as great as it used to when women were just complacent housewives.

i haven’t read any of the other posts yet but..am i the only1 who remembers LaLa being pregnant about a year or 2 ago???? i am not trippin’..she was on TRL and her stomach was just as big as can be..i’m not sure who she was interviewing this particular day that i was watching but they even made a comment about it!!! real talk…so what happened to that baby?? PLEASE some1 help me out with this 1 cause i know i’m not crazy!!! but she look cute anyway(smile)

the kids are not alright.

check your morals. real talk.

that is all.

#212..i could not have said it better!!!

can’t get him to marry you? settle for baby mama instead! people are so careful who they marry but don’t think twice about sharing their sperm/eggs with somebody.

lala isn’t bad looking and some of yall act like carmelo is good looking or something. and just because she’s “not a beyonce” doesn’t mean that she doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship. people are crazy!

NOW CARMELO AND HER OMG DATS GONNA BE PRETTY I HOPE AND THEY ARE A CUT COUPLE AND I LIKE DEM AND SHE IS PRETTY AND SHE LOOK CUTE PREGNANT

Congratulations to Lala!

@ 21 I cosign all the way.If you are not a virgin or wasnt until you got married your mouth shouldnt even be opened on this topic because it could have happened to you. nothing is 100% pregnancy proof but no sex at all. Even If they were married that still dont meant they will always be together that means she will still be a single mom… what is really the issue?? And as far as being a role model kids biggest role models are thier parent… if you are a well rounded person with good morals and you handling your business no matter what they see on television the wil always remember what mom and dad instilled in them.This shit has been going on for yrs, some of you are a product of a single parent home this isn’t new so why everybody trippin.. Oh we are on a blog we all must agree to disagree LOL

@ 211 I agree 100%…white ppl dont tear each other down though thats why nobody said anything about brad & agelina..But the colored ppl every chance they get the gone bring each other down…Alway has been and it always will… be thats why we are stuck 100 yrs behind now.

I like LaLa, she seems to be a real cool chick.

I send many well-wishes her way.

^^^@220 I cant speak for anyone else but I don’t speak on Angelina and Brad because I am not white and I do not care about what white people do. It’s that simple.
@219 That whole if you were not a virgin until you got married shut up shit is for the damn birds. Dont get me wrong now, I am not the average chick. My husband is the only man I have ever had sex with but that is not the reason I can speak on this topic. I can, and will speak on this topic because I damn well want to.
You talk about parents being the real role model for their kids.Do you honestly think la la and carmelo are great role models for their unborn? Do you honestly think that any single mother no matter how strong and great she is wants that life for her kids? I doubt it,and not because I think she should be ashamed of her life but because I think she would want something better for her kids. I know my mother did.
And how is it tearing ppl down when we want black women to aspire to be a wife and not a baby momma? I’m sorry but I thought that was a good thing.

You people are a trip. LaLa looks cute. And why she gotta take a paternity test? I’m sure Carmelo is doing whoring down Denver!

soo imma leave it short and simple.
paternity test.
and when carmelo finds out its not his.
tell him to holla at me :]