The gorgeous Kerry Washington got a bit cuddley with her man David Moscow at the Knicks game last night. Yep she’s got jungle fever and ain’t scared to hide it.
Who cares anyway, they’re in love and it look great together…
hopefully they’ll still be together by the end of the year
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#173
2. As for today’s IR relationships being the result of “experimentation and propoganda”. IR relationships would be more popular if it were not for years of BS myths, propoganda, and lies about each other. Just a fact about human population shifts, proxity, and familiarity (familiarity usually leads to affinity).
3. About the increasing number of disappointed single white women. Over the past 3 years, there have been a number of articles and essays written on the subject. Newsweek wrote a huge piece on it about a year ago. White women’s complaints were that, men were: (a) too intimidated with their education; (b) too intimidated by their income; (c) wanted subservient women; (d) wanted younger women; (e) playing the field longer and were satified with sex until they built their careers, and (f) woman were graduating at a higher rate (so fewer men in their classes), among other stuff. Sound familiar? About them opting for Black men, that was not stated in any article I read (even though some may do this, mainstream media would never present it).
4. No, you missed my point. My point was that you DO NOT face the same obstacles as that brother. Although that is no excuse for brothers (and sisters) to not still strive for excellence.
5. Cool.
6. I have a hard time believing that any sane woman (above the age of 21) would marry a man in 2007 because of some ‘big dick, mandingo myth’. Big money? Yes. Big dick? Hell no!
Guess what, as far as I am concerned, thats ONE myth that I don’t mind the women of the world believing in.
Damn i agree with #55, its like watever. So yeah i am sure its whoever she loves its no matter what race to her. Love shouldnt play the race card in the first place but thats how we think in this country, we still on some hundreds of years ish.
I’m sorry but Kerry’s man looks like somebody smashed his face in. Even if she is corny, I know she could do a loootttt better than that. She is a pretty chick, and a talented actress. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if she is happy, then I can’t hate too much.
It’s funny how so many ppl are commenting on his looks when I bet that 99.9 % of you are not super models. People spew out so much negativity when they should rather be celebrating a happy couple. ALSO, Halle Berry is NOT black, she is bi-racial and it irritates me when people say she is black. Her mother is WHITE and so Halle should not serve as a representation of a BLACK actress. So all those people who love Halle but are not down with interracial relationships are just making themself look foolish and hipocritical
#173
2.
I hear that but I don’t really accept that. Can you give me some examples?
3. Mainstream media is not out to present the whole truth. Just bits and pieces of it! To skew and point. I can assure you the rate that white men are marrying asian and east asian women would definitely have an impact on the marriage rate of white women if they did not have black men to fall back on. The only white women I know that are single and unmarried are the ones that don’t want black men.
4.
The struggle black women face is just as hard as what black men face. Granted the struggle is different. I can assure you that I would not want to be a black man in this society. Yes, we are allowed to have that office job before a black man, but then comes a whole ‘nother set of problems with trying to deal with the “Man”. What I’m saying is that life isn’t easier for black women just be we are allowed in Corp America. On some setting, being black woman can actually work against you when dealing with status quo.
6. OOOOOOOHHHH!!! You don’t know women my friend!
>>>>Guess what, as far as I am concerned, thats ONE myth that I don’t mind the women of the world believing in.
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Of course not! but it is a myth.
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I don’t blame Kerry…
That man must treat her ass like black gold…
I read people call her bubble lip, but guess what? He man love them and apparently Bubble lips are in cause Hollywood is paying big dollars for them!!
F*ck the haters!! GO KERRY!!
#180, i understand what you are saying because my mom is black and dad white and from a very early age they always told me that even though dad is white, you are black. im 16 years old now and people are still giving me crap about what i am. i consider myself black because i look and i am black and society isn’t going to tell me otherwise.
no offense to anyone who calls themselves biracial.
That’s Jay Mohr on the left of them and Ethan Hawke on the right of them.
YOSAY SAID: “Asian woman, similary to black men have issues with self hate and think marrying white men gives them more of an “IN” in society.”
Ok I think you’re right about Asian females, but black males? Are you kidding me?
1) First, a man is as faithful as his options. Black men just exercise their options. Most black men that date interracially are just “dating,” aka “hittin’ p*ssy.” Most men would “date” interracially if they could. Don’t get mad at black men just because women of all races keep throwing them coochie. Believe me, in this day and age, most black men that sex white chicks won’t even dream of marrying one, unless they’re using them at some level. The self-hating dudes out there are marginal: Tiger Woods, Kobe, MJ, etc, who marry white chicks way below their level. But many are obviously not – like Seal.
2) There’s a huge difference between dating IR and marrying IR. A black woman marrying a white man given the history of rape and abuse they’ve suffered in their hands is simply beyond me, and bothers on self-hatred. But to each his own.
3) You say black men have issues with self-hate? Are you serious? Black men have the most masculine image in modern media. If you really had “brain power,” or are “aware of the media,” you would know this. You will be hard-pressed to find a black dude emulating non-black attributes. On the other hand, ask yourself why black american women stay weaved up with fake contacts and the nine.
4) Lonely white women just have to “settle” for black men? Maybe in the 60′s. I know at least one ENGAGED, attractive white female attorney who won’t leave me alone. And I know I’m far from an outlier.
5) They are tons of black men in corporate America who don’t deliver packages. A couple are even CEOs. I think you’re just mad they are not checking for you. I bet the non-black dudes ain’t checking for you either.
As much as I’m into black women, there’s no bigger turn off to me than a bitter black chick
Damn ya’ll done took her relationship to a whole nother level on this post!
#189, Thats REAL TALK. Well said.
@152
Is it a crazy comment? Lol. Who started the interracial dating sis? Do you know, because I don’t, lol. You must have a time machine or you just lump all black men together and say “they did it!!!…”. Lol. I knew that if I dug into your spirit that hate for black men would come out. No disrespect to you but this is a mental and spiritual battle, not a financial one. You, and many other black people (especially black women) are not going to realize that until it’s too late. That’s also why, no disrespect, but the white man would much rather exalt a Condoleeza Rice or an Oprah because he knows the woman’s nature. It’s been done for population control in hopes that we would stop procreating like we do. That’s why you have so many 35 year old “business-savvy” black women hot in their pants with no children that are desperate to marry any man, lol.
It’s up to the men to diagnose what’s going on and mobilize. That’s why I make my comments about the white man because he’s convinced black women that they’re superior to black men. We’re not equal, we’re not the same, we’re not wired the same way. Get over it. You’ll run and be a concubine for the white man and he’ll beat and cheat on you just like black men and when the relationship doesn’t work, you’ll be forced to blame yourself because you’re too good a slave to blame the white man, lol. Just be an adult and say that you respect power and the white man has the power right now.
@172
No disrespect but what makes you feel good? To rant about how ignorant and self-hateful black people are (your comments being a prime example of that), lol? Unfortunately certain black people can only wallow in self-hate and self-pity without giving any solutions or causes for the problems. When I say that these people wish that they were “black”, I’m talking about in every way. Of course they don’t literally want to be us right now because they don’t want the curses. In a way they do want to be us when you examine the skin tanning industry and the plastic surgery to enlarge their asses and lips, etc. etc. You said I was taking it too far but you didn’t give me any alternatives to consider.
This fuckin’ dude is ugly as fuckkk! This just proves my theory that a white man can do anything and a nigga cant have shit! In the streets, a nigguh woulda’ had to be a fuckin’ football star to get a bitch like Kerry. Thats my word God! But this ugly-ass washed-up actor white boy can be just “a great guy” and run away with one of our best. Thats o.k. though, cheer up my African brothers. . . atleast we knocked Heidi Klum off!
i dont think most black people have a problem w/ interracial dating. the problem comes when black folks date EXCLUSIVELY out of their race and never dates anyone OF their race–& we’ve all seen that. at least thats the problem i have with it. the other problem is: why u tend to see cute black girl w/ average to ugly white guy or goodlooking black man w/ hurtin (oftentimes obese) white chick. i’d love to see an equally attractive hot mixed couple. that would be cool.
@193…look at the way your talking and you wonder why a WOMAN like Kerry would never get with a guy like you. The words bitch and nigga flow through your fingers and on to the computer screen so easily that you shouldn’t be suprised that a woman like that would’nt want you. Picking a partner in life has nothin to do with color but rather its about how you carry yourself and from the few sentences you wrote its obvious why someone like Kerry wouldn’t choose some like you as a partner.
What if she or her man or their family comes across this? Do you all care how mean-spirited you sound and are? Damn! You are vicious!
By the way…Kerry is half-White and half-Black. Her mother is Black.
I’m not commenting on her relationship because it is not my place. Second I love LOVE. I am happy she has someone that loves her. Maybe is those here that were being so mean would consider how hard it is to find love, they would not be so damn mean and hateful.
So many Sistahs are out here holding out for that Brotha’ to holla and make life together but it is not that story for most Black Women. So when you find one in a healthy relationship, just be happy for her and mankind. Kerry Washington is a real dedicated Sistah and civic-minded citizen. You all need to recognize who you are tearing apart.
#192, I was going to comment about what you wrote (specifically regarding your comments to #152), then …..I realized I could not find words to better articulate the points you raised. So very well stated! You hit the nail on the head.
Aint that dude from that movie Honey?
She is a gorgeous woman and a wonderful actress! I hope she finds happiness with this guy, even though he is not that attractive. He must be treating her right!
You can see Nikki cox from’Las vegas’ beside them with her husband. But I think, Kerry and David look very cute together. I think they should have been on the list.
I can’t wait to see her in The Last King Of Scotland.
Black Men abandoned us long ago and now they are paying the piper…all this shit about history is just a smoke screen BM try to use to make us feel ashamed of dating or marrying other races…trust and believe, when BM are boning and lusting after non-Black Women…history isn’t on their minds!Black men are true hypocrites and want the game to be one sideded in the ir field …as long as they do it it’s cool but when we do it, we gotta start talking history. In my opinion any Black Woman that’s fool enough to wait around on a Black man deserves to be alone. Kerry and Halle are wonderful role models for today’s Black Women especially the younger ones to show you don’t have to be with a BlackMan to be happy and that this false sense of racial loyalty is dead…killed by the Black Man long ago. big ups to all my sisters that have found love with non-Black men and that hold their heads up high like sister Kerry. peace
IM NOT EVEN ATTRACTED TO BLACK GUYS ANYMORE. THEIR ATTITUDES AND MEAN SPIRITS ARE A TURN-OFF. I DATE WHITE AND LATINO GUYS AND I DON’T THINK I’LL EVER BE WITH ANOTHER BLACK MAN AS LONG AS I LIVE. MOST BLACK FEMALES THAT MESS WITH OTHER CULTURES ALWAYS SAY HOW MUCH NICER THEY ARE.
OK, FOLKS, IT’S 2007…NOT 1907. WAKE THE HELL UP AND STOP BEING SO BITTER. IF PEOPLE WANT TO DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE, SO BE IT. I BET THE MAJORITY OF YA’LL IR HATERS ARE SINGLE AND LONELY!! GO STEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR LITTLE BOX AND REALIZE THAT IR ARE HERE TO STAY. BY THE YEAR 2010, WHITES WILL BE THE MINORITY. SO WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU? IT TELLS YOU THAT YOU CAN BITCH AND MOAN ALL YOU WANT ABOUT IR, BUT THEY WILL ONLY INCREASE. WHETHER YOUR LIKE IT OR NOT, YOU WILL HAVE TO ADAPT EVENTUALLY. GEEEZ, WHY DO I FEEL LIKE I’M TALKING TO A BUNCH OF BACKWOODS, RED NECK 80 YEAR OLD WHITE PEOPLE??? GO READ A BOOK!
Truthiz
I’m kinda understand your comment just by some of MY OWN EXPERIENCES. Take this one for example:
Yesterday I’m out grocery shopping with my husband(he’s Puerto Rican but is always mistaken for a white guy) in a grocery store that most of us black people and PR shop. We go in and soon see two more IR couples(both black men and white women). Me and my man are going about our business but BOTH of the black guys are looking at my man like they’re ready to beat him down. They following us around the store and their girlfriends are acting the same way with me. We ignore them, finish our shopping and are in line. Then the security guard(black man) looks over at me and shakes his head as if I’m a disgrace or something. The white female cashier (that was talking with the security guard before she painstakenly returned to checkout to attend to us) began forcefully throwing our things into the bags to the point were my husband had to ask her to be careful.
My questions are:
What made us so different from the other two couples that the security guard and the cashier paid special attention to us?
Why would the other two IR couples act this way towards us?
I can’t figure it out. Somebody explain this to me.
Shannon, I can only give what I think was the reason why you and your husband were being looked at and followed. Because they were JEALOUS! If people can’t label it, cage it, examine it, break it down to it’s tiniest parts, they have to try to destroy it out of fear, jealously, self-hatred, etc. That’s what I have noticed when I would go out with my ex-boyfriend who’s white. It’s “human nature” I guess, what we don’t know/understand we destory.
Plus, the guard, cashier, and 2 other IR couplse didn’t like that you and hubby were stealing their thunder! Cause baby…I’m sure you are fly and your hubby is too fine! So don’t let stuff like that get you down…follow your bliss!
I am a black woman dating a white man. I do not have a “thing” for white men nor do I hate black men. I just fell in love with a man who happens to be white. I do not think that white people are superior and I love the fact that I am a beautiful Black woman.Love is where you find it.
You have no idea how hard it is to maintain such relationships, just look at the responses we have here. I have felt like giving up several times but it is the love we share that has kept me going.
Whoa take it easy people. No one said shit about anything until angry females like YOSAY starting talking down on black men. What did you all say when she was talking smack?? Talk about hypocricy. Man black bitches are some really bitter creatures. There’s a reason why most of you are alone
Shannon75, I admire your wild imagination, really. Any man jealous of your relationship is a straight up punk. Unless you’re drop dead fine, which I HIGHLY doubt, judging by your level of esteem.
Monica415 is a perfect example of what I said above – Alone, deluded and dumb as a rock.
Thank You Monica145. I really appreciate your insight.
As for WHOA all I have to say is that for one, I don’t see your picture up here for you to assume anything about me and for another I am a good looking girl (not a super model but not ugly) and so is my man.
How do you know what my self-esteem level is based on what I posted? I don’t have to make up stuff like this, IT DID HAPPEN. We shop at that store alot and the people I mentioned before weren’t the only people in the store, they are just the ones that gave us grief.
Based on your post, you just the type of jealous person that Monica145 is speaking about.
Pathetic.
Shannon…
I have had the same experiences with my boyfriend from Black Men… and it only makes them look like jealous, insecure fools. It’s that old double standard that we are supposed to just live with as far as most of them are concerned…and it’s coming apart right in their faces as more and more Black Women choose non-Black Men for partners. Girl..I have been in clubs where the hostility was so thick from Black Men you could cut it like a knife…
It really doesn’t matter though…the Black Man deep in his heart knows he’s the one that opened this door as far as color- blind love goes and the whole world knows it…and now Black women are picking up on it. all their eye-rolling, cursing, and name calling won’t stop Black Women from being with who they want to be with and will only make a solid case for impressionable teen sisters why they should always explore their options. Actually, it’s kinda fun to see people get brought down like this, and to watch them seeth with jealousy…
im not a real religous person but I know that there’s a scripture that says you shall reap what you sow and it looks like the sowing time is starting for the Black Man…..I go in to the malls and different places and i always see at one or two Black Women with non-Black mates…it’s becoming more common and regardless who doesn’t like it. As far as White women go…they’re now watching all their men go to Asian Women…White men and Asian women are the fastest growing Ir couples in this country right now…in 2000 it was found that Black Women’s ir dating and marrying rate had tripled since the 90′s..i don’t know the exact figures but it was a shock since Black Women typically don’t go out of their race…but it just goes to show how quickly things can change and how just when certain groups think they got another one in the palm of their hand…that hand turns into a fist and retaliates…
keep your head up sister and walk proudly with your man! They can’t stop progress!
Thank you Truthiz:)
^5 Monica….you do speak the truth!
Another tactic used by people that are threatened by BW/WM pairings…they have to make you ugly in their minds because it makes it easier for them to cope with the fact you’re not with a Blackman. So..basically they tell themselves that all Black Women with White/non-Black Men are ugly…but i suppose that myth comes crashing down when they see sisters like Paula Patton…Stacy Dash…Kerry Washington…Garcelle Beauvis…Thandie Newton ..Heather Headley…and especially Halle Berry who are considered attractive by most standards and who all have White Husbands or Boyfriends.
LOL @189, Black men have the most masculine image in America? NEGRO Puleez! I suppose getting on drugs-leaving your kids- killing each other off-being in prison-and being unemployed is ‘masculine’? White Men like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs,and Donald Trump are what most men strive to be like and look at as successful and masculine in America–if you’re going by these silly rap images—come back to earth and remind yourself that that’s all pretend and the women are paid models or actors. Come back to reality dude!!!
you sound like a outright obnoutious self hating sellout bitch learn your facts to bitch not all blackmen the same you stuupid hoe
@207– if us black b$$$s are bitter and alone, why are you on here complaining? and since you black men are doing so well—can you tell us why there are like 1-2 million of you incarcerated? are you that insecure and pissed off you have to act like a toddler and resort to name calling and insults? you are the poster child for why black women are turning to white men—rude –obnoxious–abusive–fools!
first of all who cares if they are datin and not the same race…if ppl wanna try somethin let them be…all it matters is if that person is happy and if thats what they want…who gives a crap sometimes ppl need to just keep there opinions to themselves..if he’s ugly he’s ugly that shldn’t have ne thing to do with ur race…but yea like i was sayin she can’t do wat she wants and i feel that if ne one is in love with someone whos a different race…go for it..u mite love it…
I can see some people on this post are hating…so what if she’s in love with a white man..Its the love and respect that they have for each other that counts. Yes even in a black household i was taught to find a love that would last forever, but i dont care if they black, white, asian, or whatever race…as long as you love the other person thats what counts. So for everybody knocking the poor woman because her man is white or ugly..leave them be Damn it!!
Oooh…I never realised people took other people dating out of their race until I started to date a black girl. I’m Half Chinese and Half White and as soon as I started dating my girlfriend I got nothing but looks from everyone. Mainly black women and especially black women in relationships with white men. They seem to think it’s OK to date white guys or black guys but that is it!
I didn’t think that typing Kerry Washington into Google would come up with this heated debate and after reading this I don’t get some of you that are into your Interracial dating (where this means solely dating white men). I love all women. When I hear women of one race say they only like another race of men I find this as ignorant as those saying they only stick to their own race.
Anyway i’m getting carried away…. The point is why does it matter who you date? Marry? etc. I mean, i’m facing this in England which is a very multi-cultural place anyway so maybe I can’t relate to a lot of the posts here as you may be from areas which are less racially diverse.
Hope I get some replies because I would like to get a clearer perspective of where you are all coming from.
Marcus
First of all why are people making comments like you don’t know why ahw would date him after the history of rape and abuse that we have suffered years ago from white men. Who said that he was one of them? I mean that’s what’s wrong with some Black people now…you are holding every white man responsible for what their ancestors did. I mean come on like every one else is saying…LOVE has no color!! Why would you stop yourself from falling in love with a person because you think they don’t deserve to be with you because of what the history between black and white. I am currently dating a mexican man and I have to deal with a lot of issues just like these other women with black men hating and staring all the time. It got to the point where I felt insecure about my relationship and I almost ended it because I did not want to go through this all the time. But I had to realize that I can’t help who I love and now I really don’t care what other people think because I’m happy! So for all the people out there who want to judge someone in an interracial relationship and give them ugly stares just think about this…WHY DO YOU CARE IF IT’S NOT YOUR BUSINESS. And not all black women in interracial relationships purposely went out their way to find a man that is not black. I love black men, I just happened to fall in love with a latino.
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