That white man off of “The Wire” is too fine!

race shouldn’t matter when it comes to love but race is everything nowadays so i hope they can handle criticism*….can we all find some common ground somewhere?!?!?!?!! plus there are alot of fine white men…if i had a chance ill date Wentworth miller from prison break, now thats a fine white boy( but aint he mixed?) o well. they look cute

PLEEZE…Agreed. She isn’t all that.

I think that as long as she is happy go for yours why should you turn down love just because it may not be what society thinks is right. a lot more people would be happy and would have found love if they would let go of their bigoted ideas. so would you rather she be with a man that cheats and mistreats her as long as he is black? love and happiness shouldn’t have limits

oh and “She Hate Me” was great anthony makie and kerry washington did a wonderful job!!!!!

yea thats jay mohr and ethan hawke on both sides of them.
angel la you’re right, they definitely appear to be in love, she’s getting all the limelight and he’s with her ALL the time on the red carpet, supporting his woman. color shouldnt matter when you’re proud of who you’re with and they appear to be.

and yes he is the boy from BIG, which i can’t recall seeing him in much since then!

This is my first time commenting but because of #14 Mike, I can not hold my tongue.
Are you serious? Because she is dating a white man, she is downgrating? Oh so now, people have a choice of their skin color at birth? And so you can only limit your love to a skin color as oppose to the content of their mind, their morals, etc..Thanks for setting me straight, Thank God my parents were not as shallow as to let their skin color come in the way of 30 years of marriage and 3 beautiful children!

He is really not that bad, what are all you looking at?
But Ohhh, yes!! Wentworth Miller!! He is MY white guy!! I don’t know though, he does seem mixed with something…

She’s gorgeous.

Hey, if Paula, Halle, and Kerry can do it, I want me one too.

Ethan Hawke is Fine….even though is rumored that he doesnt shower and that his breath stinks….but he’s still fine….

Ethan Wtf? Kerry looks very happy Color does not matter its written all over her face.

They look cute there’s nothing wrong with dating the opposite race as long as ur happy!

I THINK ITS GREAT TO SEE A SISTER HAPPY..NO MATTER WHAT COLOR THEIR MAN IS…WE NEED TO BE HAPPY AND TO BE WITH GOOD MEN THAT MAKES US HAPPY BECAUSE ITS VERY RARE WE FIND ONE..SO YOU GO KERRY GET YOUR HAPPINESS ON:)

@72HOTMOMMA001 said:
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To each his/her own! Kerry, do you! Same thing I said about ole Taye Diggs and anyother African American that wants to to the IR dating.

It does not offend me to say the least becuase I have a man so it doesn’t take away from what I have. Nor do I have time to sit up and worry about such things.

The other day, I was in line at the grocery store, an IR couple came behind me, it was a brotha and a so-so looking white chic….tell me why she immediately started loving all ova him once she looked at me. I was like, “Heffa, whateva!” I ain’t tripping. Now THAT, is what trips me out!

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They love to do that because they want a reaction from black women. They want to see us get all upset and bent out of shape. Not happening here! Don’t care!

But God help you if a black woman is with one of their men! WHEW! Those women can get VIOLEMT!

I don’t agree with IR dating. Most of the time, however, I mind my own business. I can’t control what people on the street do. My question, though, is it 2007 or 1907. I am getting the idea that some, well a lot, of black people still feel that white people are special or something. Theres some serious self hatred going on. I have heard black men call black women black bitches and other nasty names while they praise white women. And now, its black women acting like its something so damn special about a black woman and a white man. Even acting like they would jump in a hot second if one were to pay them some attention. So sad. The same women who would get all upset if it was a black man and a white women. This shit ain’t right. I’m shocked and disgusted. There is nothing so cute and special about the two of them. And he does look like he doesn’t even like her. We need to get it together. I believe in black love. I still have enough sense to know that people can and will date whoever they want to date. Still, black people seem to do it for all the wrong damn reasons. Why can’t we stick together. We are the only race of people who hate ourselves and love every damn body else. I know this is a little long but I am annoyed.

oh man. people annoy the hell out of me when they get rude with IR. people have their opinions ad that’s fine, it’s just when peple get out of hand with them… i’m from massachusetts and IR is NO thing at all. people can get with whoever they want. i’ve only had one instance where some girl yelled out that our relationship bullshit. funny thing i didn’t hear her but my bf did… do i care? absolutely not. if you’re happy, then you’re happy. i don’t give a damn if i see a black dude with a white girl…i just feel awkward when i pass by because i feel like they’re thinking about what i might be thinking (like if they think i’m jealous or something), if that makes any sense.

People on here talking about how it looks like he doesn’t look like he’s that in to her. Maybe he’s not a big fan of PDA? I know when I’m out, I don’t want my man all over me. You wanna hold my hand? That’s fine but don’t be all over me. You can save that for inside the house. I don’t need people to see how we do when we’re alone.

People also want to talk about how she can do so much better. Ummm, don’t you think that people might be thinking the same thing of your man/woman when they see you? There’s nothing special about them…they’re just a couple in love. Leave them be.

I’ve got no problem with interracial dating…i’ve dated black, white, and asian. Haven’t found the right man for me yet but you can be sure that the color of his skin will not be a deciding factor.

There’s a difference btw not being a fan of PDA and just being totally not interested! A couple doesn’t have to be all over each other to give off the vibe that they are into one another. It’s just a look they give one another - that let’s everyone know. This is my man - this is my woman.

And in all the pics I’ve seen of the two - She looks like she’s totally inlove and he looks like he wants to click his heels and disappear.

#88 - you are so right.

Also, I don’t think many people here have a problem with the IR thing. It’s just frustrating when you see a gorgeous woman inlove with someone who is obviously not inlove with her.

In that regard, I think she could do alot better. She could get a white, black, asian, indian guy who looks like something - got something going on and would adore her!

#72>>HOTMOMMA001 I see that all the time in my hometown where black men overwhelmingly date/marry white women and I’m like pleez. They play that shit all the time. I just laugh and move on. I could care less.

and what’s with all this “self-hate” nonsense? do you know kerry personally? how do you know she has not dated other races in the past. i hate when people come to conclusions. honestly, it’s sickening to me how closeminded some people are.

I get very irritated with interracial relationships I must admit with regarding Black men (I’m straight and don’t care about who Black women date so it doesn’t bother me). I prayed though about it because I get really angry seeing that. Probably because of what I hear Black men say about why they do it? So ignorant sometimes and I think that all Black men in IR relationships think like the ignorant ones.

But Black love all the way. We need to unite ourselves before we start being “we are the world”. We can be the world if we ain’t got our own community together.

#97, I am glad you prayed about it. At least you recognize that your feelings are not right, and set about correcting them.

If I understand you correctly, you (a) hate when black men date other women, BUT (b) don’t mind when black women date other men. Seems selfish, but at least you are trying to get it right. Very cool.

Im not a fan of interracial relationships…they create mutts as babies..not cute. Lets stop destroying our race okay!!!!

@Shannon #73, I agree with you. I think the issue with black women when it comes to black men dating other women is that they have diarrhea of the freakin mouth. They make countless excuses as to why they date outside their race or they always say “black women are this and black women are that”. Then its like whoa you dont know every black woman in the world. Most of us could care less its just a small percentage of you anyway who date outside your race.

Now tell me this, when was the last time you heard a black female celebrity dogg out black men because she is dating a white man? Please enlighten me because you really dont. You got some CL posters on here that come on here and be like black men are this and that and you got sistahs that will come down hard on them for having certain opinions because not all black men are the same.

Anyway who in the heck cares. I like black men and give me the light ones to the black midnight ones as long as they are nice on my eyes.

98. I wouldn’t necessarily say what I feel isn’t right but I don’t wanna care about it.

But Black Women who date interracially doesn’t bother me because I don’t date Black women so why would who they date bother me.

Also, Black women have had to keep up with White women and “other” women and when brothers feel that they are more attractive then it touches on a lot of our insecurities. If you don’t think Black women are trying to keep up just look at our beauty regime over the years.

So if I see a other men dating us, I do feel a “dang we are wanted.” And when I see a Black couple I get really overjoyed cause I just love seeing us loving each other. And that’s just being real.

99. Actually, if everyone got with a Black person and had a baby…more Black people and we will rule the world!!!!!

@102 - only if you believe in that one-drop rule. more and more bi-racial people are identifying with their entire racial make up…not just the black one.

i know this chinese girl who was involved with a black guy. girl got pregnant and guy took off. guess who’s providing free daycare? girl’s grandmother (baby’s great-grandmother). the child looks mixed and speaks fluent chinese. is it fair for that child to completely disregard that side of her heritage when she fills out some stupid consensus form?

Nice pics. Nikki Cox has really gone overboard with her lip enhancement

103.

I believe in the one-drop rule. I know a lot of biracial people don’t identify as just Black, but in my eyes they Black. Hell most of us in this country ain’t 100% African.

She’s way too beautiful for him. But I guess she’s in love. She talked about him every chance she got on The View.

@Megan

Sis, there’s nothing wrong with you getting annoyed or angry when you see black men with white women. It’s bad when you don’t get annoyed when you see black women with white men. If we want to be about something, then we have to do it the whole way. If we don’t, it looks selfish and contrived. The fact of the matter is that interracial dating does weaken our people and most of the time these other races are like parasites that want to suck our spirit.

@107

I agree with you but. IR marriage does weaken our race that is why it’s being pushed so much.

But, on the same token, I understand why black women are going white. We want to get married and have children too.

107.

Let me clarify that I don’t date interracially.

I just don’t get irritated seeing a Black woman as much as seeing Black man with a white woman for the above reasons I stated before.

That’s fine sis. I understand that the sisters want to have children but you have to understand the situation that we’re in as black people. Discord is being pushed on black people purposefully to cause confusion so that our relationship structure gets broken down. I’m not going to go into it but black women are going to be pushed to the point where they will either have to share a good black man, try to deal with the men of the other races, or become lesbians.

110. Want to have children? What you mean?

@110

I hear ya! I choose to date IR…Cause I’m not sharing a man or turning gay.

I’m very aware of the situation that black women are in. But, it’s black men that need to wake up and smell the coffee.

If black men weren’t rabit about other races of women I too would be 100% against IR marriage.

But Black women are in a tough spot. And I say to them, learn how to deal with other races of men. YOu don’t have to necessarily go white, there are lots of hispanic and asian men out there that are attracted to us but are apprehensive abut approaching us.

Go Kerry do ur thang gurl, don’t blame u for going that route,lol. At least u know if he go broke he still can get credit, luv me some white men, they so dayum fioneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee……

@ 111

She was referring to by post #108.

@Megan

When I was talking about children, I was responding to Yosay sis.

@Yosay

Sis if you choose to deal with the men of the other races, that is your prerogative but you’re going to lose out because this society is at a tipping point right now. Soon we’re going to have to stand together, simple as that.

112. I agree.

Also, there’s a saying that you never knew what you had until it was gone. A lot of brothers need a serious wake up call.

I ain’t sharing another man and damn sure ain’t turning to no woman either, however there are a lot of Black men out there who still truly love and appreciate Black women and don’t feel the need to compare me to a woman of another race, which is straight up “lynched”.

And for these folks talking about, “it ain’t about color and race”; then just ignore me. I’m talking to the realist out there. If you are someone who truly, never thinks about color or race then God bless you.

#110 lot of black women r stupid as hell, black men have been dating outside of race for years and years, more so now than ever. Yet u still hear black women saying who they want date, yet they have all these dayum children out of wedlock with no daddy around, give me a dayum break. I rather have a good azz white man then a cheating azz black one, man is a dayum man as long as he treats u right. Myth about that penis thang anyway, because I have seen some black men with some little azz penises and white ones with some big ones, so folks need to drop that line.

This is dedicated to MEGAN
* Keep your Head Up my Sister, Megan

Your Black King is out there looking for you Megan,
You are going to be sucha BLESSING to some Man, because you are Extreamly Beautiful, Smart & Funny…What I like most about you is your Wisdom & Understanding about Perfecting Our Black Heritage….

Your Latter WILL be Greater than you past, Beloved.
I Promise you That !!

The Reason(s) why Black Men PREFER Black Woman, By Bill

Peace Black Woman has a more DEVELOPED body…
A Black Woman Lips, Hips, Fingertips, Thighs, Buttock & Breast are more full, supple, larger and firmer than a white woman’s attributes….

White woman have bodies like an Iron Board.
A Black Woman’s Body is like a coke bottle…

When a white woman turns around, it sad & pathetic.
When a Black woman turns around it is a joyous & historic moment…I’m convinced that God is a Black Man, because he made the Black Woman for Black Men on Earth to enjoy…

A Black Woman’s Body is absolutely positively perfect.
A white woman’s body will crack, fade and sag once she hits her 30’s…

This just the simple truth…It’s not a racist statement at all. If you can’t see the distinct differences between a Black Woman’s Body & A white woman’s body, then you are Blind & Really dumb.

*I have been studying the physiology of women for years, and I consider myself an expert in this field

All Races are NOT created equal.

The Black Race is One of Excellance & Quality.

This is why Blacks are so hated..Because the other races FEAR us..

Why a Black Man or Woman would WANT to date/marry outside of our race is BEYOND me….IR Dating always confused me..

I won’t allow it to irritate me, because MY house is in order (I have a Black Woman in my Bed), and I try not to worry about other persons lives…

We need to strengthen our race, not dilute it !!

Black Women are the Queens of this Civilization.

Is there ANY wonder why men the world over desire the sweet nectar of a Black Woman ??

Peace

I have no problem with interracial dating @ all but I’m also not opposed to dating black men either.I believe beauty is in the eye of the beholder and when I date a man it has nothing to do with race what so ever.I pick a man just like every other woman (intelligence,maturity,good looks etc)I ignore the color lines.

I just hate when black men or women date out of their race b/c they feel they do not like black men or women or their too good or just strictly have a preference for other cultures. I HATE THAT WITH A PASSION! b/c I love being black and feel we are the most beautiful humans on this earth! so when I hear a black man say “I only date white women” or black woman say “I only date white men” that hurts.

Interracial dating is okay in my book just don’t be opposed to dating within and vice versa.

Cause I know I have jungle fever also,love me some James Franco!

Look folks, IR dating / marriage is going to happen. It would have happened a LOOOONG time ago in American history EXCEPT…white men knew that they already had free access to black females if they so desired. On the other hand, these men were not about to let black (and Native American) men have access to THEIR women.

In all honesty, if America had put the race bullshit aside a long time ago, the average American would look more like a Brazilian but probably a bit more ‘exotic’ (for lack of a better term), because unlike Brazil, the US has had a large representation of Asians and other Europeans for a long time.

The only reason the ‘one drop rule’ and ‘anti-IR marriage’ laws were put in place was to keep non-white men from pro-creating with white women. To use the language and ideas put forth by dead racist white men as justification to perpetuate their sexual / cultural insecurities is misplaced.

@115 Judah,

Yes, I’m aware of that too. But, marrying IR doesn’t change my race or my loyality to my race.

I can still stand with my own even being married to someone else.

OMG that IS the little boy from big. You have good eyes Megan! And to think, I always thought he was cute and would cry when he went back home…wow…he changed a lot.

Me as a black man, I can’t see myself with anything else. First off, it’s against the laws of the Most High and secondly it’s against common sense. This is an age when all the other races are trying to be black, so why the hell would you run to the another race for satisfaction. It’s ridiculous to me.

Who cares how long they been engaged? Their engagement has lasted way longer than these fly by night hollywood marriages. Who cares if his ass isn’t our type or that he’s white as long as he makes her happy. I’m glad that she’s happy everyone deserves some happiness in they life.

OH MY GOD!
on the second pic

IS THAT THE GIRL FROM LAS VEGAS?…SHE WITH AN UGLY GUUY,gooooooooooooooooooooooosh!!!!

@124

You need to ask other black men that question.

123. I stay on IMDB.com, so I knew that it was him. That was the movie back in the day!

124. I don’t know about that “Most High” comment but I agree with you otherwise. I really can’t stand seeing a Black man with one of those. I know people are a product of their enviroment, but no matter how hard they try they will never know what it’s like to be in our skin.

@117

Are you even a black woman, you damn serpent? Everytime I see your comments, you’re trying to cause dissension between black men and black women. Do you know who started the black male penis “myth”? The white man, because he used to marvel at our physiques when we stood there nude on the auction blocks. So get your shit straight.

@121

What world is this mythical world you live in where everyone looks Brazilian, lol. I love these melting pot negroes, lol. Just say you wish you were caucasian because they control the world and stop burdening blacks that do pay attention with your utopic bullshit.

One thing I have noticed usually about IR relationships (well, actually I don’t know of one celebrity or everyday-joe situation where this is not the case):

1. Black man / white woman: Black Man dominates relationship

2. White man / black woman: Black Woman dominates relationship

3. Black man / asian woman: Black Man dominates relationships

4. White man / asian woman: White Man dominates relationship

Most of the white dudes who venture into IR relationships with black women tend to like the ‘domineering, strong black female thing’ (’usually’ softer Type-B personality men). When white dudes want a guanantee to be the lead-dog their relationships, they usually go for Asian women.

I say the Most High because that’s what he said sis.
Deut 7:1-7
Ezra 9:12
Jos 23:11
I Kings 11:1-4
etc.

For you Bible hatin’ negroes, don’t bother with the “not another sermon” stuff either. I’m just answering the sister’s question, lol.

No disrespect to you Megan or Yosay or any other black woman but you sisters will have to share black men whether you want to or not, lol. Simple as that.
Isaiah 4:1-4 tells you that.

@132

Well, I don’t have to share cause I don’t date them.

#129, Judah, I am not going to disrespect you (”melting pot negroes”, c’mon dude). I am lost as to the reason for your venom. However, I will respond to what I believe is the gist of your statement.

Fact: America looks the way that it does because laws, policies, practices (economic, political) were intentionally put in place to keep races separate. The notions of ‘race mixing’ and ‘inter-breeding’, were put forth by white men to protect white men (even though white men routinely pro-created with black women — light skinned black folks were NOT shipped in from Africa).

If these laws were NOT put in place, people would naturally gravitate to whomever they were around and were attracted to. Poor whites, poor blacks, and some Native Americans lived in very close proximity to one another and ofter worked alongside one another.

My comment regarding the ‘physical characteristics’ of what a ‘modern American’ would look like is pretty clear. Brazilians looks the way they do because they are a combination of three blood lines (African, Southern European, and Indigenous). A modern American would likely be a combination of African, Northern and Southern European, Native American, and Asian.

Thats all.

I agree with many of the sentiments expressed already: I have no problem with interracial dating as long as the people involved aren’t attempting to denigrate the men/women of their own race in order to explain their decision

I don’t think that anyone needs to justify their dating decisions in the first place.

It’s also important not to conflate interracial dating with interracial marriage. According to the U.S. census bureau the vast majority (something like 93%) of married Black men in the U.S. are married to Black women and the fastest growing demographic in interracial marriage is White men and Asian women.

Wentworth Miller is not white well…maybe halfway but its still considered black just cuz his mother was white dont mean nothin

To Megan and Other’s who believe in the one-drop rule. No disrespect but do you know where the one drop rule came from? From racist whites after the Civil war to identify anyone with even “one drop” of african blood so they could mistreat them. so do we really want to uphold this rule today. Also, if you are biracial you should be able to identify with all all of your heritage not just one side regardless of what society identifies you as. JMO

GRL IF U GON GO WHITE, MAKE SURE THAT MOFO IS AT LEAST SXY AND CUTE!!! THAT FOOL UGLY AS HELL!!!! FUNNY SHAPED FACE AND HEAD!!!WTF KERRY????

NXT TIME GET U A :
COLIN FARRELL
GEORGE CLOONEY
RUSSELL CROWE
“NICHOLAS” FRM “Y&R”…. or summin like em…. shit !!!

Yeah, I’m not feeling that one drop rule either. I look at Wentworth Miller and I see racially mixed man. I don’t see a black man.

These mixed race people the media is trying to sport as black is not flying with me.

Don’t put a Thandie Newton on the big screen and tell me she is black. I want to Gabrielle Union up there getting paid.

Um the “Most High” comment was a little weird,the bible speaks of equality and treating people as people no matter what race/nationality.You make it sound as if interracial dating is a sin.That really bothered me.

anyways…….

I would never be opposed to interracial dating b/c without it,I wouldn’t be here and neither would some of you, so to be against it is probably going against some of your friends/family etc.

the only thing that irks me is that Moscow is always playin a shady guy in movies. so its in my head that hes shady but hes probably not like that in real life. but in all the pictures when they’re together they look at each other like theyre in love. i hope it lasts too.

Isn’t it about who you attracted to?
No one will date another person if they dont feel some chemistry and physical attraction.
I think when black males date white women or vice versa, it is because they found someone who completes them. It is in no-way disrespect to their own race.
I happened to fall in love with a white man, but I still love black men and think they are wonderful.
My destiny just took me to my man and he is my soul mate. So why would I give that up?? His skin colour is just not a good enough excuse..

@134
My bad, I apologize if I misconstrued your point. My thing is that it is not man’s laws that make people gravitate to their own kind. It’s just the way of the world. It’s a common history and culture that make you gravitate to your own as much as if not more than color and I notice that many black people that push for this “oneness” with the other races usually don’t know or don’t care to know their own history. On the flipside, notice that you’ll see a Japanese, Chinese, Arabic, or East Indian dude wearin’ Rocawear and timbalands one day and their ancestral garments the next day, like it’s nothing. They respect there history and culture while dabbling with ours. That’s all, but I do apologize.

That sounds nice but I think the reality of the situation is that black men buy into this propaganda regarding IR dating/marriage. Alot of it has to do with self-hate as well.

I am a black woman. My rant and frustation was not about black men and white women vs. black women and white men. Its about black people. I believe that we are still bamboozled. Still think that there is something better about white people. And I say this because of the comments that I read. Ask a white person how they feel about interracial dating and I am certain they will say they don’t support it. Yet most black people do. And we are also the main people talking about one love and melting pots. News flash, white people do not like us. They don’t want to date and marry us and I don’t see why in the hell we would want to date and marry them. And I am not racist.

Seeing black men going crazy over white women, hispanic women, asian women, basically any woman who isn’t black does bother me. Quite frankly, because it is ridiculous. And I know that these men feel that these women are better than black women. It does not speak well for us as a people. And like other people said some black men simply hate black women. And I don’t care what you say, you can’t make that right and its also not natural.

But the thing about black women and white men is that white men are generally more racist than white women. You see black men adoring white women and showing them off like a status symbol. Yet when its a black woman and a white man it doesn’t look right. Maybe I think about the history between black women and white men in this country. And I can’t understand why so many black women would support it. I feel that they didn’t respect us then and they certainly don’t respect us now. It just brings up thoughts of how white men have degraded black women over the centuries and nobody seems to bring that up. Did you ever hear the things that Ted Danson said about Whoopi Goldberg? It embarasses me as a black woman when we present ourselves in this manner. Like we really don’t want to preserve the race and have self love, but are just jealous because black men don’t want us. Then I read most black women saying that they would date a white man if they had the chance. Like the only thing thats stopping them is that white men don’t want them either. It sounds bad and desperate. And I have heard and read this type of thing from black women everywhere. I only wished that we respected ourselves more.
I am a black woman who has never had a problem with finding and keeping a good black man. I am married to one. Just put God first and you will get everything that you deserve.

@140

No disrespect to you, but the Bible says one thing and man says another thing. Do you have scriptures to prove your point. I mean come on now. The Bible deals with order and alot of what black people call their religion is a derivative of what the white man mistaught them to keep them subservient. That’s why the Bible tells you that Christ and the Israelites are black but black people tell you that Christ’s color doesn’t matter. It’s like the 3 directives in “Robocop”. I still see it all the time that black people will not hesitate when it’s time to get at each other but when it comes to the white man it’s like the circuitry goes out, lol.

@144

If you interracially date, that makes you exactly what you despise. I mean HELLO…

Look…Black women dating IR is different from Black men dating IR. Black women have to date IR’ly if they want a man.

I would love to see more Black couples…but it just not the norm anymore.

I personally date outside my race all the time…black, white, hispanic, etc. I see nothing wrong with it. You would think in this day and age it wouldnt even be topic of discussion but sadly it still is. I think they look cute together he’s looks fine to me. To each his own. Kerry is very fab like always. But her teeth look a lil yellow in the third pic….

C’mon sis, who do you think you tryin’ to sell that bullshit to? Please. The black women that date interracially hate themselves just as much, if not more, than black men. For you to make it something other than that makes you look bitter and vindicative. Spare me, please. The reality of it is that many of ya’ll sisters want a black man that you can control because the white man has given you much of the power that ya’ll lust after. Now you just need a trophy negro to make your life complete. You have to humble yourself just like the black man does.