he must can eat sum gud puzzy cause thats the only thing that wud keep me wiff him. the minute that mofo git mad and call me a nigga. i would hafta personally whoop his azz lolo cause cracker is a beautiful word to specially wiff white so i guess i will stay inside my race lolo

That is the craziest wacked out comment I’ve read yet on this Board!

Who the hell started this IR dating phenom. it sure wasn’t black women. And how many black women do you see lusting after white men. Not to many I can tell you that. Cause it ain’t hard getting a white man.The black women who date white men are with them because they are tired of black men’s BS. It has nothing to do with self hate.

And, the SUCESS (not necessarily power) that black women have achieved is because we worked and fought for it. NO ONE has GIVEN US ANYTHING!

Black men need to take a lesson or two from black women and stop being jealous and stop looking for women to be submissive- perhaps they will be better off. It takes HARD WORK and BRAINPOWER guys to make it in this world. The white man will not GIVE you anything.

C’mon sis, who do you think you tryin’ to sell that bullshit to? Please. The black women that date interracially hate themselves just as much, if not more, than black men. For you to make it something other than that makes you look bitter and vindicative. Spare me, please. The reality of it is that many of ya’ll sisters want a black man that you can control because the white man has given you much of the power that ya’ll lust after. Now you just need a trophy negro to make your life complete. You have to humble yourself just like the black man does.

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I say date who you wanna date and date who makes you happy. If it was meant for us not to date & procreate with each other we wouldn’t be put on the same planet for thousands and thousands of years.

Whites would be on the “white planet”
Blacks would be on the “Black Planet”
etc…

If it is against some law of nature for us procreate with other races..the children would be deformed or something.

My nieces are half African American and half Greek and they are the smartest cutest little girls.

People on this blog has said some real ignorant sh!t, and that comes from doubting themselves or being insecure within themselves. If you are that concerned about what goes on in another person’s bed.

Be in love for love…
Not for color and think that you have something to gain from it.

#152,

1. I regards to “who started this IR dating phenom”? Ans: White men (a long time ago)

2. Black women who date white men are “tired of black men’s BS”? Thats asinine! So, I assume that ALL of Asian women who date white men are tired of Asian men’s BS (and hate themselves); White women who date black men are tired of white men’s BS (and hate themselves).

3. As for ‘black womens success’. Black women do not have a monopoly on hard work and brain power. Don’t believe everything you read and hear in the media, particularly when the folks telling you the depressing stats/info you are spouting have no interest in telling you anything positive about your race, or in giving you proper context for the info.

4. In regards to black men wanting ’submissive women’. You are off base here as well. MOST men (regardless of race) usually want a woman who serves in a ’somewhat’ submissive role. Hence, one of the primary reasons white men LOVE Asian women. Just ask one..its a fact. Many WHITE men think modern WHITE American women are too domineering and controlling as well (another reason why American white men are increasingly looking for foreign brides in Eastern Europe and Asia).

Cute couple.

There seems like there are some very insecure people on this site.

@154

1. That’s called RAPE not dating.

2. We are talking about Black/white Relationships. But if you want to bring the other races in this arguement then yes. Alot of the IR dating/marriage taking place has little to do with love but everything to do with stereotypes, presumptions, atributes of a particular race etc.

Asian woman, similary to black men have issues with self hate and think marrying white men gives them more of an “IN” in society.

Alot of everyday White women that date/marry everyday Black men do it because they are easier to get than white men. Can’t tell you how many single White women I’ve come across that are desparate to get married but can’t seem to find a white husband because, alot of white men are into asian women. So, they go for Black men because they want to have somebody.

3. I am very aware of media propaganda, but I’ve been in the work force for 10 years and have had several jobs. And in those 10 years I haven’t seen one black male working at any of the companies I worked for. I do see them delivering packages from time to time.

4. Your statement is true. But at least white and asian men have something to bring to the table. So, they may want a submissive woman but they usually can support a family.

#152,

1. I regards to “who started this IR dating phenom”? Ans: White men (a long time ago)

2. Black women who date white men are “tired of black men’s BS”? Thats asinine! So, I assume that ALL of Asian women who date white men are tired of Asian men’s BS (and hate themselves); White women who date black men are tired of white men’s BS (and hate themselves).

3. As for ‘black womens success’. Black women do not have a monopoly on hard work and brain power. Don’t believe everything you read and hear in the media, particularly when the folks telling you the depressing stats/info you are spouting have no interest in telling you anything positive about your race, or in giving you proper context for the info.

4. In regards to black men wanting ’submissive women’. You are off base here as well. MOST men (regardless of race) usually want a woman who serves in a ’somewhat’ submissive role. Hence, one of the primary reasons white men LOVE Asian women. Just ask one..its a fact. Many WHITE men think modern WHITE American women are too domineering and controlling as well (another reason why American white men are increasingly looking for foreign brides in Eastern Europe and Asia).

i hate that black and white shit.let people be happy with who they want.people on here are so ignorant and close-minded its just sad….whats the big deal about interracial dating?these comments people are leaving are JUST PURE RACIST

#82 said: He is really not that bad, what are all you looking at?
But Ohhh, yes!! Wentworth Miller!! He is MY white guy!! I don’t know though, he does seem mixed with something…

Yep. Wentworth Miller’s father IS BLACK and his mother is white. So yes he is biracial. He did a film where he was a very fair complected black man passing for white. Anthony Hopkins played Wentworth’s character as an old man.

I can’t recall the name of the film but it dealt with the struggles for those people who chose to passant blanc (pass for white). It is worth a view.

He actually used to be cute, i think age just caught up with him.

For real y’all, why is it that everytime pics of an IR couple get posted on this site it’s always gotta turn into an argument? Can’t we just accept the fact that IR dating happens whether we like it or not?

And I’m SOOOOO sick of folks using the Bible to justify their close-minded beliefs. God did not put us on this earth to separate ourselves by race. It is 2007 and some here are talkin like it’s 1952. Damn.

@ 120 I love me some James Franco to girl! That white boy could get it.

Bottom line is LOVE IS NEVER SIMPLE. I have fallen for people who are “NOT MY TYPE”. The greatest love of my life so far is this dark-skin black woman. We were friends and it just happened. If I were using my head I would have chosen a light-skin girl since I dated them almost exclusively. The heart doesn’t need the brain.

Love is not logical it is felt from the heart so all your rationalizations are just that.

Most people don’t choose who they love. Most of the times it just happens when it is real. And often it happens when we aren’t looking for it or least expect it.

Y’all need to grow the fuck up. Limit yourselves if you want but you only run your own life not anyone elses…

Lol.. all this over a picture.. geeze..

*too

Kerry Washington is pretty and they do look like they are in love.

I guess this is the day to love white boys so keep posting them up won’t you?!!!

The posters that stated how sistas on here would react if the shoe was on the other foot are right on the MONEY!!! All this true love SHIT only applies for bros if they’re with sistas and licking their asses! If he’s with a white woman then she’s a whore and he’s a SELLOUT and/or gay!!! You’re full of shyt…live & let live only not for brothas!!!

#156,

1. About RAPE vs. dating, I think we may both be missing the point on this one.

2. Yes, some IR dating / marriage as much about love as it is about social status, self-hate, and perceived racial superiority (or, inferiority). OK, I agree. I am just saying that lets not assume that all IRs are that way. More importantly do not assume that a brother with a white chick hates his mother and has had fantasies of white women since he was a child. He may just simply dig that white chick.

3. About scores of white women settling for black men because they can’t get a white man, I am not buying it. Maybe so for some of those ‘pasty ugly-chubbies’ we see once in a while on a brothers arm, but that is far from the norm, nor should it ever be the assumption (I hate to see handsome brothers with left-over white chicks as well, but thats more about self-respect and a man setting his standards higher — another post, another day).

4. As for why you hardly see any brothers working in your places of work. That may be as much a story of the companies you work for, and the preferences of the hiring managers — NOT simply because ‘brothers werent qualified’ to join you in the ivory tower. Why do I say this? I have worked in and around recruiting for some major institutions (finance and law), and have had family members and friends who have worked in recruiting positions in business and academia. Like I said before, do not believe the hype. That delivery guy may have better degrees and a stronger work ethic than you!

5. More on that brother ‘delivering packages’. I am sure that if he had a better job and more money he would warrant more respect from you and maybe some other sisters.

6. As for white and Asian men “bringing more to the table”. Brothers must be bringing ’something’ to the table, because given what I have read on this post, women of other races seem to think so — even despite a 24hr / 365 day negative media war against black men.

DAYUM GOOD POST WINDWALKER!!! THANK YOU!!!

the dude is ugly, sorry! but if thats who she loves then go for it!

awww they’re cute together

The man on her left looks like he stank. I don’t care if he is wealthy enough to afford court side seats.

I don’t think her boo is cute. But, what choice does she have. A lot of black men in her league…naw I’m not going to go there. I am a Christian, God fearing woman. I refuse to let the devil take control of my fingers and type how ugly Taye Diggs is, and Mekhi P.

JUDAH,

DOES EVERYONE REALY WANNA BE BLACK OR DO THEY JUST WANNA DANCE TO AND LISTEN 2 BLACK MUSIC AND GET THE BLACK DOLLAR.

SERIOUSLY, I DONT THINK EVERYONE WANTS TO BE BLACK.
NOT EVEN MOST BLACK PEOPLE.

BLACK PEOPLE HATE ON EACH OTHER THE MOST.

I’VE EXPERIENCED MORE HATRED FROM BLACK PEOPLE THAN NON BLACK PEOPLE.

WHY WOULD THAT BE THE CASE IF BLACKS REALLY LOVED BEING BLACK.

WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TRY SO DAMN HARD TO FUCK EACH OTHER UP?

OTHER RACES MAY LIKE CERTAIN THINGS ABOUT US BUT IF YOU REALLY CANDIDLY ASKED THEM IF THEY WANTED TO BE BLACK- THEY WOULD SAY HELLS NO.

BEING BLACK IN AMERICA IS HARD. BEING BLACK ANYWHERE IS HARD. YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH SHIT THAT EVERYBODY DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH.

BLACK PEOPLE SOMETIMES TAKE PRIDE TOO FAR.
IF YOU REALLY THINK THAT WHITE PEOLE ACTUALLY WANT TO BE BLACK, YOUR LYING TO YOURSELF.

I THINK WE CONFUSE OTHER RACES “IDOLATION” OF BLACK ENTERTAINMENT WITH THEM ACTUALLY WANTING TO BE US.

THEY ARE FASCINATED BY US BC WE CAN DO VERY GREAT THINGS IN THE ARTS, SPORTS AND ENTERTAINMENT.

BUT I REALLY THINK THE BUCK STOPS THERE.

YOUR TAKING IT TOO FAR.

AND I GUESS THAT’S OK IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD.

#156,

2. No one is saying all IR’s are one way and all Black men are this or all Black women are that.
But there is not doubt that what’s going on nowadays for the most part is due to propaganda and experimentation.

3. It’s interesting that the media talks about the scores of black women unmarried but they never touch on the scores of white women unmarried. Someone needs to do a survey on that. And you will see that there are ALOT of white women out there that are unwed and choosing to either go black or have babies without husbands. Perhaps you shouldn’t believe all the hype you hear either.

4. Well thanks for making my point. LOL! We’re talking about racism here and the reason why black men aren’t in these companies is because they are not wanted there. I was not trying to disparage black male deliver people - no one is saying they aren’t hard working or not smart, but the fact of the matter is they are delivering mail and not in the board room. Black women face the same obstacles but somehow we still make it.

5. Again, not disparaging brothers who deliver mail. I don’t desrepect anyone not matter who they are what walk of life they are from. People are people and I treat them like I want to be treated.

6. Women of other races buy into the mandingo myth when it comes to black men. For alot of women that’s the end all for a man, and they will take ANY and EVERYTHING if a man is “supposedly” good in bed!
Some women cherish their self respect more than a penis!

#62…I saw Zoe in a recent comercial and I thought the same thing. She had no shape. Her hair was boring and the plain jane dress she had on.

For those who don’t know, Zoe played in the movie, “Guess who’s coming to dinner”, the modern day version with a twist. She married a white guy in the film. And Bernie Mac played her father.

kerry and david are both extremely talented. when i was in new york summer 06 i saw them both and they signed autographs and took pictures with me. i don’t see the problem because they are so much in love. i guess i don’t have a problem with it because i see it everyday in my mom and dad.

I’m happy for her…hey sometimes a black women just has to step out to get real and true good lovin! White men are the new in!…lol

p.s. black men stop slippin!

And what exactly has “HE” been doing since the movie “HONEY” anyways???

Because I have seen her star in a number of things on TELEVISION & THE BIG SCREEN.

awwwwwwwwww they both look cute together!

I don’t like she always puckers her lips.

Sorry guys, but the ‘one drop rule’ ain’t going nowhere. I guarantee you that if a biracial person say that they are not black (laughing to myself), they are biracial or whatever…a white person in one way or another is going to let them KNOW that you are NOT one of ‘us’.

Halle Berry’s mom put Halle in front of a mirror when she was a little girl and told her…when ppl see you they are going to see a black girl. Period. Halle does not say she is biracial…she says she is AA.

Tiger Woods DUMB father should have told his BLACK ass the same thing.

SARAH JANE! SARAH JANE! The older CLs know what I am referring to.

If you have an interacial child (white/black),(or black mixed with anything for that matter)you need to tell them they are BLACK. If you don’t………the white ppl will.

#173

2. As for today’s IR relationships being the result of “experimentation and propoganda”. IR relationships would be more popular if it were not for years of BS myths, propoganda, and lies about each other. Just a fact about human population shifts, proxity, and familiarity (familiarity usually leads to affinity).

3. About the increasing number of disappointed single white women. Over the past 3 years, there have been a number of articles and essays written on the subject. Newsweek wrote a huge piece on it about a year ago. White women’s complaints were that, men were: (a) too intimidated with their education; (b) too intimidated by their income; (c) wanted subservient women; (d) wanted younger women; (e) playing the field longer and were satified with sex until they built their careers, and (f) woman were graduating at a higher rate (so fewer men in their classes), among other stuff. Sound familiar? About them opting for Black men, that was not stated in any article I read (even though some may do this, mainstream media would never present it).

4. No, you missed my point. My point was that you DO NOT face the same obstacles as that brother. Although that is no excuse for brothers (and sisters) to not still strive for excellence.

5. Cool.

6. I have a hard time believing that any sane woman (above the age of 21) would marry a man in 2007 because of some ‘big dick, mandingo myth’. Big money? Yes. Big dick? Hell no!

Guess what, as far as I am concerned, thats ONE myth that I don’t mind the women of the world believing in.

Damn i agree with #55, its like watever. So yeah i am sure its whoever she loves its no matter what race to her. Love shouldnt play the race card in the first place but thats how we think in this country, we still on some hundreds of years ish.

I’m sorry but Kerry’s man looks like somebody smashed his face in. Even if she is corny, I know she could do a loootttt better than that. She is a pretty chick, and a talented actress. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if she is happy, then I can’t hate too much.

It’s funny how so many ppl are commenting on his looks when I bet that 99.9 % of you are not super models. People spew out so much negativity when they should rather be celebrating a happy couple. ALSO, Halle Berry is NOT black, she is bi-racial and it irritates me when people say she is black. Her mother is WHITE and so Halle should not serve as a representation of a BLACK actress. So all those people who love Halle but are not down with interracial relationships are just making themself look foolish and hipocritical

#173

2.
I hear that but I don’t really accept that. Can you give me some examples?

3. Mainstream media is not out to present the whole truth. Just bits and pieces of it! To skew and point. I can assure you the rate that white men are marrying asian and east asian women would definitely have an impact on the marriage rate of white women if they did not have black men to fall back on. The only white women I know that are single and unmarried are the ones that don’t want black men.

4.
The struggle black women face is just as hard as what black men face. Granted the struggle is different. I can assure you that I would not want to be a black man in this society. Yes, we are allowed to have that office job before a black man, but then comes a whole ‘nother set of problems with trying to deal with the “Man”. What I’m saying is that life isn’t easier for black women just be we are allowed in Corp America. On some setting, being black woman can actually work against you when dealing with status quo.

6. OOOOOOOHHHH!!! You don’t know women my friend!

>>>>Guess what, as far as I am concerned, thats ONE myth that I don’t mind the women of the world believing in. >>>>

Of course not! but it is a myth.

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I don’t blame Kerry…

That man must treat her ass like black gold…

I read people call her bubble lip, but guess what? He man love them and apparently Bubble lips are in cause Hollywood is paying big dollars for them!!

F*ck the haters!! GO KERRY!!

#180, i understand what you are saying because my mom is black and dad white and from a very early age they always told me that even though dad is white, you are black. im 16 years old now and people are still giving me crap about what i am. i consider myself black because i look and i am black and society isn’t going to tell me otherwise.

no offense to anyone who calls themselves biracial.

That’s Jay Mohr on the left of them and Ethan Hawke on the right of them.

YOSAY SAID: “Asian woman, similary to black men have issues with self hate and think marrying white men gives them more of an “IN” in society.”

Ok I think you’re right about Asian females, but black males? Are you kidding me?

1) First, a man is as faithful as his options. Black men just exercise their options. Most black men that date interracially are just “dating,” aka “hittin’ p*ssy.” Most men would “date” interracially if they could. Don’t get mad at black men just because women of all races keep throwing them coochie. Believe me, in this day and age, most black men that sex white chicks won’t even dream of marrying one, unless they’re using them at some level. The self-hating dudes out there are marginal: Tiger Woods, Kobe, MJ, etc, who marry white chicks way below their level. But many are obviously not - like Seal.

2) There’s a huge difference between dating IR and marrying IR. A black woman marrying a white man given the history of rape and abuse they’ve suffered in their hands is simply beyond me, and bothers on self-hatred. But to each his own.

3) You say black men have issues with self-hate? Are you serious? Black men have the most masculine image in modern media. If you really had “brain power,” or are “aware of the media,” you would know this. You will be hard-pressed to find a black dude emulating non-black attributes. On the other hand, ask yourself why black american women stay weaved up with fake contacts and the nine.

4) Lonely white women just have to “settle” for black men? Maybe in the 60’s. I know at least one ENGAGED, attractive white female attorney who won’t leave me alone. And I know I’m far from an outlier.

5) They are tons of black men in corporate America who don’t deliver packages. A couple are even CEOs. I think you’re just mad they are not checking for you. I bet the non-black dudes ain’t checking for you either.

As much as I’m into black women, there’s no bigger turn off to me than a bitter black chick

Damn ya’ll done took her relationship to a whole nother level on this post!

#189, Thats REAL TALK. Well said.

@152

Is it a crazy comment? Lol. Who started the interracial dating sis? Do you know, because I don’t, lol. You must have a time machine or you just lump all black men together and say “they did it!!!…”. Lol. I knew that if I dug into your spirit that hate for black men would come out. No disrespect to you but this is a mental and spiritual battle, not a financial one. You, and many other black people (especially black women) are not going to realize that until it’s too late. That’s also why, no disrespect, but the white man would much rather exalt a Condoleeza Rice or an Oprah because he knows the woman’s nature. It’s been done for population control in hopes that we would stop procreating like we do. That’s why you have so many 35 year old “business-savvy” black women hot in their pants with no children that are desperate to marry any man, lol.
It’s up to the men to diagnose what’s going on and mobilize. That’s why I make my comments about the white man because he’s convinced black women that they’re superior to black men. We’re not equal, we’re not the same, we’re not wired the same way. Get over it. You’ll run and be a concubine for the white man and he’ll beat and cheat on you just like black men and when the relationship doesn’t work, you’ll be forced to blame yourself because you’re too good a slave to blame the white man, lol. Just be an adult and say that you respect power and the white man has the power right now.

@172

No disrespect but what makes you feel good? To rant about how ignorant and self-hateful black people are (your comments being a prime example of that), lol? Unfortunately certain black people can only wallow in self-hate and self-pity without giving any solutions or causes for the problems. When I say that these people wish that they were “black”, I’m talking about in every way. Of course they don’t literally want to be us right now because they don’t want the curses. In a way they do want to be us when you examine the skin tanning industry and the plastic surgery to enlarge their asses and lips, etc. etc. You said I was taking it too far but you didn’t give me any alternatives to consider.

This fuckin’ dude is ugly as fuckkk! This just proves my theory that a white man can do anything and a nigga cant have shit! In the streets, a nigguh woulda’ had to be a fuckin’ football star to get a bitch like Kerry. Thats my word God! But this ugly-ass washed-up actor white boy can be just “a great guy” and run away with one of our best. Thats o.k. though, cheer up my African brothers. . . atleast we knocked Heidi Klum off!

i dont think most black people have a problem w/ interracial dating. the problem comes when black folks date EXCLUSIVELY out of their race and never dates anyone OF their race–& we’ve all seen that. at least thats the problem i have with it. the other problem is: why u tend to see cute black girl w/ average to ugly white guy or goodlooking black man w/ hurtin (oftentimes obese) white chick. i’d love to see an equally attractive hot mixed couple. that would be cool.

@193…look at the way your talking and you wonder why a WOMAN like Kerry would never get with a guy like you. The words bitch and nigga flow through your fingers and on to the computer screen so easily that you shouldn’t be suprised that a woman like that would’nt want you. Picking a partner in life has nothin to do with color but rather its about how you carry yourself and from the few sentences you wrote its obvious why someone like Kerry wouldn’t choose some like you as a partner.

What if she or her man or their family comes across this? Do you all care how mean-spirited you sound and are? Damn! You are vicious!

By the way…Kerry is half-White and half-Black. Her mother is Black.

I’m not commenting on her relationship because it is not my place. Second I love LOVE. I am happy she has someone that loves her. Maybe is those here that were being so mean would consider how hard it is to find love, they would not be so damn mean and hateful.

So many Sistahs are out here holding out for that Brotha’ to holla and make life together but it is not that story for most Black Women. So when you find one in a healthy relationship, just be happy for her and mankind. Kerry Washington is a real dedicated Sistah and civic-minded citizen. You all need to recognize who you are tearing apart.

#192, I was going to comment about what you wrote (specifically regarding your comments to #152), then …..I realized I could not find words to better articulate the points you raised. So very well stated! You hit the nail on the head.

Aint that dude from that movie Honey?

She is a gorgeous woman and a wonderful actress! I hope she finds happiness with this guy, even though he is not that attractive. He must be treating her right!

You can see Nikki cox from’Las vegas’ beside them with her husband. But I think, Kerry and David look very cute together. I think they should have been on the list.
I can’t wait to see her in The Last King Of Scotland.

Black Men abandoned us long ago and now they are paying the piper…all this shit about history is just a smoke screen BM try to use to make us feel ashamed of dating or marrying other races…trust and believe, when BM are boning and lusting after non-Black Women…history isn’t on their minds!Black men are true hypocrites and want the game to be one sideded in the ir field …as long as they do it it’s cool but when we do it, we gotta start talking history. In my opinion any Black Woman that’s fool enough to wait around on a Black man deserves to be alone. Kerry and Halle are wonderful role models for today’s Black Women especially the younger ones to show you don’t have to be with a BlackMan to be happy and that this false sense of racial loyalty is dead…killed by the Black Man long ago. big ups to all my sisters that have found love with non-Black men and that hold their heads up high like sister Kerry. peace

IM NOT EVEN ATTRACTED TO BLACK GUYS ANYMORE. THEIR ATTITUDES AND MEAN SPIRITS ARE A TURN-OFF. I DATE WHITE AND LATINO GUYS AND I DON’T THINK I’LL EVER BE WITH ANOTHER BLACK MAN AS LONG AS I LIVE. MOST BLACK FEMALES THAT MESS WITH OTHER CULTURES ALWAYS SAY HOW MUCH NICER THEY ARE.

OK, FOLKS, IT’S 2007…NOT 1907. WAKE THE HELL UP AND STOP BEING SO BITTER. IF PEOPLE WANT TO DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE, SO BE IT. I BET THE MAJORITY OF YA’LL IR HATERS ARE SINGLE AND LONELY!! GO STEP OUTSIDE OF YOUR LITTLE BOX AND REALIZE THAT IR ARE HERE TO STAY. BY THE YEAR 2010, WHITES WILL BE THE MINORITY. SO WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU? IT TELLS YOU THAT YOU CAN BITCH AND MOAN ALL YOU WANT ABOUT IR, BUT THEY WILL ONLY INCREASE. WHETHER YOUR LIKE IT OR NOT, YOU WILL HAVE TO ADAPT EVENTUALLY. GEEEZ, WHY DO I FEEL LIKE I’M TALKING TO A BUNCH OF BACKWOODS, RED NECK 80 YEAR OLD WHITE PEOPLE??? GO READ A BOOK!

Truthiz

I’m kinda understand your comment just by some of MY OWN EXPERIENCES. Take this one for example:

Yesterday I’m out grocery shopping with my husband(he’s Puerto Rican but is always mistaken for a white guy) in a grocery store that most of us black people and PR shop. We go in and soon see two more IR couples(both black men and white women). Me and my man are going about our business but BOTH of the black guys are looking at my man like they’re ready to beat him down. They following us around the store and their girlfriends are acting the same way with me. We ignore them, finish our shopping and are in line. Then the security guard(black man) looks over at me and shakes his head as if I’m a disgrace or something. The white female cashier (that was talking with the security guard before she painstakenly returned to checkout to attend to us) began forcefully throwing our things into the bags to the point were my husband had to ask her to be careful.

My questions are:
What made us so different from the other two couples that the security guard and the cashier paid special attention to us?
Why would the other two IR couples act this way towards us?

I can’t figure it out. Somebody explain this to me.

Shannon, I can only give what I think was the reason why you and your husband were being looked at and followed. Because they were JEALOUS! If people can’t label it, cage it, examine it, break it down to it’s tiniest parts, they have to try to destroy it out of fear, jealously, self-hatred, etc. That’s what I have noticed when I would go out with my ex-boyfriend who’s white. It’s “human nature” I guess, what we don’t know/understand we destory.
Plus, the guard, cashier, and 2 other IR couplse didn’t like that you and hubby were stealing their thunder! Cause baby…I’m sure you are fly and your hubby is too fine! So don’t let stuff like that get you down…follow your bliss!

I am a black woman dating a white man. I do not have a “thing” for white men nor do I hate black men. I just fell in love with a man who happens to be white. I do not think that white people are superior and I love the fact that I am a beautiful Black woman.Love is where you find it.

You have no idea how hard it is to maintain such relationships, just look at the responses we have here. I have felt like giving up several times but it is the love we share that has kept me going.

Whoa take it easy people. No one said shit about anything until angry females like YOSAY starting talking down on black men. What did you all say when she was talking smack?? Talk about hypocricy. Man black bitches are some really bitter creatures. There’s a reason why most of you are alone

Shannon75, I admire your wild imagination, really. Any man jealous of your relationship is a straight up punk. Unless you’re drop dead fine, which I HIGHLY doubt, judging by your level of esteem.

Monica415 is a perfect example of what I said above - Alone, deluded and dumb as a rock.

Thank You Monica145. I really appreciate your insight.

As for WHOA all I have to say is that for one, I don’t see your picture up here for you to assume anything about me and for another I am a good looking girl (not a super model but not ugly) and so is my man.

How do you know what my self-esteem level is based on what I posted? I don’t have to make up stuff like this, IT DID HAPPEN. We shop at that store alot and the people I mentioned before weren’t the only people in the store, they are just the ones that gave us grief.

Based on your post, you just the type of jealous person that Monica145 is speaking about.

Pathetic.

Shannon…

I have had the same experiences with my boyfriend from Black Men… and it only makes them look like jealous, insecure fools. It’s that old double standard that we are supposed to just live with as far as most of them are concerned…and it’s coming apart right in their faces as more and more Black Women choose non-Black Men for partners. Girl..I have been in clubs where the hostility was so thick from Black Men you could cut it like a knife…

It really doesn’t matter though…the Black Man deep in his heart knows he’s the one that opened this door as far as color- blind love goes and the whole world knows it…and now Black women are picking up on it. all their eye-rolling, cursing, and name calling won’t stop Black Women from being with who they want to be with and will only make a solid case for impressionable teen sisters why they should always explore their options. Actually, it’s kinda fun to see people get brought down like this, and to watch them seeth with jealousy…

im not a real religous person but I know that there’s a scripture that says you shall reap what you sow and it looks like the sowing time is starting for the Black Man…..I go in to the malls and different places and i always see at one or two Black Women with non-Black mates…it’s becoming more common and regardless who doesn’t like it. As far as White women go…they’re now watching all their men go to Asian Women…White men and Asian women are the fastest growing Ir couples in this country right now…in 2000 it was found that Black Women’s ir dating and marrying rate had tripled since the 90’s..i don’t know the exact figures but it was a shock since Black Women typically don’t go out of their race…but it just goes to show how quickly things can change and how just when certain groups think they got another one in the palm of their hand…that hand turns into a fist and retaliates…

keep your head up sister and walk proudly with your man! They can’t stop progress!

Thank you Truthiz:)

^5 Monica….you do speak the truth!

Another tactic used by people that are threatened by BW/WM pairings…they have to make you ugly in their minds because it makes it easier for them to cope with the fact you’re not with a Blackman. So..basically they tell themselves that all Black Women with White/non-Black Men are ugly…but i suppose that myth comes crashing down when they see sisters like Paula Patton…Stacy Dash…Kerry Washington…Garcelle Beauvis…Thandie Newton ..Heather Headley…and especially Halle Berry who are considered attractive by most standards and who all have White Husbands or Boyfriends.

LOL @189, Black men have the most masculine image in America? NEGRO Puleez! I suppose getting on drugs-leaving your kids- killing each other off-being in prison-and being unemployed is ‘masculine’? White Men like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs,and Donald Trump are what most men strive to be like and look at as successful and masculine in America–if you’re going by these silly rap images—come back to earth and remind yourself that that’s all pretend and the women are paid models or actors. Come back to reality dude!!!

@207– if us black b$$$s are bitter and alone, why are you on here complaining? and since you black men are doing so well—can you tell us why there are like 1-2 million of you incarcerated? are you that insecure and pissed off you have to act like a toddler and resort to name calling and insults? you are the poster child for why black women are turning to white men—rude –obnoxious–abusive–fools!

first of all who cares if they are datin and not the same race…if ppl wanna try somethin let them be…all it matters is if that person is happy and if thats what they want…who gives a crap sometimes ppl need to just keep there opinions to themselves..if he’s ugly he’s ugly that shldn’t have ne thing to do with ur race…but yea like i was sayin she can’t do wat she wants and i feel that if ne one is in love with someone whos a different race…go for it..u mite love it…

I can see some people on this post are hating…so what if she’s in love with a white man..Its the love and respect that they have for each other that counts. Yes even in a black household i was taught to find a love that would last forever, but i dont care if they black, white, asian, or whatever race…as long as you love the other person thats what counts. So for everybody knocking the poor woman because her man is white or ugly..leave them be Damn it!!

Oooh…I never realised people took other people dating out of their race until I started to date a black girl. I’m Half Chinese and Half White and as soon as I started dating my girlfriend I got nothing but looks from everyone. Mainly black women and especially black women in relationships with white men. They seem to think it’s OK to date white guys or black guys but that is it!

I didn’t think that typing Kerry Washington into Google would come up with this heated debate and after reading this I don’t get some of you that are into your Interracial dating (where this means solely dating white men). I love all women. When I hear women of one race say they only like another race of men I find this as ignorant as those saying they only stick to their own race.

Anyway i’m getting carried away…. The point is why does it matter who you date? Marry? etc. I mean, i’m facing this in England which is a very multi-cultural place anyway so maybe I can’t relate to a lot of the posts here as you may be from areas which are less racially diverse.

Hope I get some replies because I would like to get a clearer perspective of where you are all coming from.

Marcus

First of all why are people making comments like you don’t know why ahw would date him after the history of rape and abuse that we have suffered years ago from white men. Who said that he was one of them? I mean that’s what’s wrong with some Black people now…you are holding every white man responsible for what their ancestors did. I mean come on like every one else is saying…LOVE has no color!! Why would you stop yourself from falling in love with a person because you think they don’t deserve to be with you because of what the history between black and white. I am currently dating a mexican man and I have to deal with a lot of issues just like these other women with black men hating and staring all the time. It got to the point where I felt insecure about my relationship and I almost ended it because I did not want to go through this all the time. But I had to realize that I can’t help who I love and now I really don’t care what other people think because I’m happy! So for all the people out there who want to judge someone in an interracial relationship and give them ugly stares just think about this…WHY DO YOU CARE IF IT’S NOT YOUR BUSINESS. And not all black women in interracial relationships purposely went out their way to find a man that is not black. I love black men, I just happened to fall in love with a latino.

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