IM GLAD SHE ADDRESSED THIS ISSUE…HE NEEDS TO BE SCOLDED FOR HIS BEHAVIOR

another thing…I would be beating the shit out of the person taking the fliccs as well…and all those that I knew standing around grinnin

she looks like my sister in that pic

Misa don’t play. Like that she is a mom first and then a celeb next. Her child needed to be put in his place (a child). the staff needed to be fired for their lack of taking care of this child when he was in their car.

Go Misa!! beat that ass!!

He definately needs to go find a switch so he can get his ass whipped!

I’m glad she spoke up, because I thought bad things about her parenting

ok, so is she saying that the girl featured in the pic is a teen? because she surely looks like a grown woman to me!

And what is Mr Puff daddy saying about this shit?

They say the same Kids that make you laugh gone make you cry Good Job Misa Put your foot down and perhaps you and Diddy will shed a few less tears in the future.

Like I said before, “don’t nobody know nothing.”
This type of shyt happens on a daily basis in the ghetto. Nobody knows what the f8ck their kids are up to.
Both parents shoulda been there, but they were prob. too busy out getting wasted or shopping for diamonds, huh?

Good for her cuz these kids are out of control now. Im almost scared for my sons future.

U can tell that they are not grown. What grown woman you know walks around the club with .99 cent lipgloss in there pocket. They will have a clutch purse. Duh!!! U can tell that this was a teen party. These girls are growing up fast.

I wanna hear from the lil girls mother that is freaking him hard.

Its good that she addressed this now. I hope Diddy at least said something to him, I doubt it though. I can just see Diddy giving him a pound and smiling.

Shoot…the security team probably got a lap dance next lmao!!

Whatever, Misa. If everyone hadn’t been complaining and that pic wasn’t plastered all over the web, how much “scolding” would she have done? Probably none. And why wasn’t she or Diddy at the party? She’s only trying to save face. Next!

She “don’t play that” but a secruity team was in charge of watching her son? Yeah. OK. I don’t want to sound judgemental but that’s a little hard for me to swallow. Parents can’t watch their kids 24-7 but when your child is left without proper supervision (and secutiry teams are not considered proper for a 12 year old) I question the parent’s priorities.

And who cares if the girls were 17 or 27. He’s 12 for crying out loud!! No one needs to be on his damn lap. Now he’s ruined! lol

On one hand, I’m glad she’s taking a stand and admitting that she sees a problem here….On the other hand, doesn’t look like Justin even knows what’s going on. Is it just me or is he just dazed by the ass?

naw sweety wrong answer your ass should have been there to supervise your 12 year olds party your self you can’t blame no damm staff. are you that busy you can’t raise your own child? I don’t think so you ain’t doing sh–. but collecting child support. hell didnt you pay for this shit i blame YOU.

Mystic, I am wit u on dat, dis kids be doing everything, my question is who is dat little girls mama, teen girls shouldn’t act like dat.

Thank you, Mystic (#10)….why weren’t either of the parents there? You “fired the staff who was supposed to be watching him”…so?! Why the eff was “staff” watching him in the first place, “MOM”?!?!

And “dad” is conspicuously silent….

#15 took the words right out my mouth. If these picture’s were not so publi, then she would of not said a damn thing….whatever! AND why is a 12 year old at a party like that, I don’t care how much $$$ you have…12 is to yung to be a damn club alone without a parent. I bet you won’t see Will Smith’s kids, bumping and grinding, it’s all about parenting skills and setting limits, and the combs family doesn’t have any of that!!! POINT BLANK…cha ching!

that bitch need to shut the fuck up. us niggas like that shit

She had a security team watching her son. mmmmkay

What is he doing going out to parties at 12 years old anyway. He should be doing little boy things not partying the night away with strippers.

wat eva bitch, keep an eye on yo brat his azz wud be on punishment until he 18. she prolly only sed sumptin cus the public sees it. like i sed wateva bitch

WOW, IT MUST BE GREAT TO BE ABLE TO AFFORD “A SECURITY TEAM” TO RAISE YOUR CHILD.

I AGREE WITH ASENTHA,,,IF THE PICS HADN’T MADE IT TO THE NET, SHE PROBABLY WOULDN’T HAVE SAID ANYTHING.

I’m glad she addressed the issue. Too bad Diddy didn’t.

@#15 I can understand why she wasn’t at the party. Parents only stay at party’s that for elementary kids or younger.Once kids get into that pre-teen stage parents usually don’t stay at the party. They have other adults watching the kids.

@8. You read my mind. I was thinking the same thing. He is probably still cheesin’ that his son is getting a lap dance. I highly doubt she fired her security team, she is just saying that to act like she handled business.

who here had their mom with them when they went to a party? not me. misa didn’t throw the party and the girls were not strippers just fast ass teenagers.

he probably has security because he’s a celebrity kid and she wants to make sure he has protection

misa has other kids to care for, the security is not there to raise him

why is everyone saying misa or diddy should have been there? i mean who would bring their PARENTS to a party? face it. this is what teens do at parties & theres basically nothing parents can do, except just not let the child go.

o and another thing. if misa or diddy was there, there would still be some freak dancing going on. kids dont give a fu*& ive seen it before. as long as it aint ur mom or dad. they not gonna care.

I’m confused did she ever say that this was her son’s b-day party? If not it makes a difference because if it were her son’s party then she should have been there supervising. If it was not her son’s b-day party then I can see why neither of the parents were there. Who would want their mother supervising them at another kid’s teenage b-day party? But then I’d want to know where was the parents of the b-day kid?

Diddy might have staged this $#!T to get some pictures and prove to the courts that Misa is an unfit mother! lol You know Diddy and Kanye be scheming and stuntin all the time!

Most 12 year olds would be looking around and laughing, but young Justin was grittin his teeth and checkin out that ass!!! The fruit don’t fall to far from the tree! I know he’s seen Diddy get high and hang with the video hoes!

Hell, Misa’s got on a low cut showing all her sexiness too! You know the freakiness runs in the family! Just a bunch of rich freaks!

Up next……Keep an eye on little Ms. Bobbi Mae Huston-Brown!

this grown ass little girls be in the club bent over shaking their little asses. i caught my little cousin bent over shaking her ass one day and i kicked her sqaure the fuck in it.

Yeah, last time I checked…I never saw parents at a teen party. His ass is a PRE teen…shouldn’t even have been there.

Shes doing what any rich celeb mother should, its about all she can do. Regular boys who arent famous unfortunately do the same thing and their moms aren’t there either. Thats life!

Question for the CL Family: Do any of you have children (boys or girls) older than 13 ?

Do they go to “teen parties” ?

Do YOU go with them to the teen parties ?

What do you THINK is happening at these “teen parties” ????

Well….I’m not saying that ALL the little girls are giving little boys lap dances, but they ARE dancing (listening to Pretty Ricky) and VERY suggestivly I might add….

Just LIKE they see their parents do.
Just LIKE they see the GROWN UP’s dancing on BET.

I’m just saying…
This is LEARNED behaviour.

Don’t be so quick to blame those Little girls
(those ARE teen age girls in those pictures),
Don’t be so quick to blame Little Justin (he JUST doing what a little boy is going to do)
Don’t be so quick to blame Justin’s Parents…9 times out of 10, the parents just drop their kids off, and then pick them up afterwards.

Don’t be so quick to Judge a situation by a PICTURE.
Misa Hylton explanation sounds VERY feasible.

How many times have you just dropped YOUR kid off at a party, then picked them up afterwards…You have NO ideal what happening at that party

My two cents
Peace

pft.ya’ll talkin about scolding the lil boy..he’s just a lil boy….this is an adult issue…ya’ll must be some parents or something cause ur directing way too much fault at the kid..its the adults around him..and the LACK of parenting

and THANK YOU BILL…as a 20 year old guy…im young enough to be able to say…

..ya’ll “parents” have no idea..no..i..dea…

you dont have to be a “spoiled” celeb child to get something like this

If not for that pic all over the net, I doubt if Misa would have ever known what went on at the party. It’s not like when he came home, he would have said, I got a lap dance, and girls were kissing me, we were taking pictures etc…

Sometimes the parents aren’t always the ones to blame. I know my sister and I were raised in the same household with the same rules and I was totally the opposite from her, she NEVER did anything she wasn’t supposed to. I on the other hand well I was hella sneaky.

@ #26- H-Town Chic- No, I CAN’T understand why one of his parents weren’t there. And this is why-
When I was growing up, I was ALWAYS with one or both of my parents! I never spent a night away from home without one or both parents until I was 15! Not even with a relative. That was possible because I had a stay at home mom, and my dad was self-employed. I doubt Misa has a “real” job. And Diddy is a self-made man. So ONE of them should have been at the damn party!

So I STILL say, if Misa wasn’t getting flack about her son getting a lap dance and this pica wasn’t all over the web, she wouldn’t be saying JACK!

He needs to get his lil’ behind spanked. Misa, pull out your belt.

I’m not sure of who’s party it was. There isn’t anything that would suggest that it was Justin’s party. Anyhow, he doesn’t need to be getting a lap dance or lap anything for that matter. A lot of people have said that his mother wouldn’t be doing anything if it hadn’t been posted on the net, as for that I can’t really say if she would have or not. I don’t know her well enough to make that kind of jugdement but I’m sure his little behind got in some trouble when she found out about.

Oops- I meant pic.

no problem shaft…

I had the opportunity to host & chaperone a party at the high school a few weeks ago…

Kids will be kids…

See…Young Teen age kids emulate adults, They are just be trying to act like the adults they see on the videos…

I saw teen age boys “making it rain” (throwing dollar bills at girls)
I saw teen age girls grinding like they had to work it for the money…

Really, It’s all LEARNED behaviour.

They are doing EXACTLY what they seen either their parents do, or what they view on TV.

We, as a Community, have a lot of work to do.

It’s unfortunate, but it is what it is.
All you can do is talk to YOUR kids, talk to them about sex, drugs, and the CHOICES they make in their lives…

HIV is claiming a very large amount of our young teenage children…

I read somewhere that Black Girls & Black Woman are the largest population of those acquiring the HIV Disease.

Talk to your kids.
Peace

How you gonna fire security? Misa and Diddy were the absentee parents, my daughters never go to an event without me or my husband and we are both usually there. We have three daughters and I would hate to go to a website and see one of them on the lap of a little boy, which is what he is. Yeah, everybody involved should known better but they probably never imagined that the pictures would end up all over the net either. I don’t care what kind of party it is, they understand that if they are going, we will be there.

Well, At least he won’t be a DL brother…. He takes after Misa and her masculinity… He is a handsome kid…. He was very nervous and it is obvious that the other kids were taunting the progression of this whole hooker fiasco… Misa teach your child not to be a follower or let someone instigate any chick giving him a lap dance.. Better yet she looks like a girl that old enough to be his mother. She could have been better looking and more age appropriate for that behavior she is displaying.. tell him to pick his own chick. That girl is not a teen and I would file charges against her and the party coordinator

Oh thank the Lord Jesus that I don’t have any kids. If this is the norm, it’s scary.

I think what’s even more frightening and that it’s accepted. So clue me in. Pre-teens/teens go to a party/have a party and there is absolutely no adult supervision? No wonder kids are out of control. Granted I grew up in a totally different generation, but I remember when we had parties, there was ALWAYS an adult around to make sure things didn’t get out of hand.

Like Bill said, kids are being fed all these images and they are just imitating what the see.

Preach Preach # 38 and Bill thats the truth mayne i was throwin parties since i was 13 and the lap dance was just the icing on the cake it used to go down and i aint saying its a good thing but i didnt see no but naked kids running around humping all i saw in the pic was kids having a good ol time and enjoying the time they had with out mommy and daddy ya dig o yeah and for yall that are saying where was her momma at ask yourself where was ya momma during ya first kiss
ya first u know and the rest of it she damn sure wasnt sittin right next to you and if she was yall nasty

Sorry #40…I thank GOD my parents weren’t EVERYWHERE with me.
LOL…I been dropped off at a school talent show…and umm…not been there but showed up at home b4 curfew. I regret nothing! Parents won’t always know everything…

I’m glad she is taking some sort of responsibility and not just sweeping this mess under the carpet… I bet Diddy could care less though

What Misa has done by speaking on this issue and taking action is a breath of fresh air. As many of you have said, she is a mom first.

This is only the beginning of hearing about Justin. The older he gets, the more we’ll hear about him.

His not her Momma my bad

If his parents didn’t have money we wouldn’t even be hearin this…there would have been no “press conference”. So sad…the constant spotlight…when he gets older it’s gonna be a bitch.

IM HAPPY THATS CLEARED UP CUS JUSTIN LOOKS SERIOUSLY FRIEGHTENED IN THAT PIC… I WANNA HERE WHAT PUFFY GOTTA SAY…

why the hell is a 12 yr old at a teen party?

@7 alot of teenagers look grown now. with they hot in the pants fast a****. itchin to be grown, then when they get grown and have grown up responsbilities, they’ll be wishing they were a kid again…

Bill, you are the voice of wisdom! Times are changing! It just looks like she’s workin his little ass like a veteran! Someone made a good point that, at least he won’t grow up gay! Maybe this type of “teen-mimicking” is necessary, so the little boys won’t grow up scared of girls!

Atlanta Georgia = Lap Dance Capitol of the World!

oh, this was justin’s party? well, diddy or misha still should have been there. and i agree 100%, security is not good supervision for your child.

people just freaking out because its diddy son…we had partys like that at 12…lol ya’ll know ya’ll remember find and grind. lol

#49- No, I never said I WANTED my parents to go everywhere with me. They just did! LOL!!

No, I did my share of dirt. I was just old enough to understand how much to do before getting in some serious trouble. Most of my other friends wound up with babies, got in some trouble, etc. So I’m thankful I didn’t.

Lots of my friends ended up with kids too…not to mention my cousins, the difference with me was…I was havin too much fun for all that responsibility.

diddy probably thinks his son is just preserving his sexy… puhleeze!

#61- I hear ya, Coko! That’s how I feel now!! I don’t need the repsonsibility of a baby, and I just turned 36. LOL!!

and btw, when the hell did teenage girls start looking 27?? i only graduated high school in 2002 and we did NOT look like that!

I meant #61 Coko. Sorry.

I can’t understand why people would be blaming her son. He was allowed to attend a teen party even though he is only 12. I’m sure his Mom and Dad are aware of what goes on or may go on at a teen party. Justin doesn’t look like he is the one acting inappropriate it is the girl.

Okay, so this is the 2nd consecutive post that meatloaf mentions gayness- first the Jen Hud post now this. Meatloaf, do you dream and/or fantasize of getting that 1 big stiff one? Damn!

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 2:49 pm

47. SassyTeri said:
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Oh thank the Lord Jesus that I don’t have any kids. If this is the norm, it’s scary.

I think what’s even more frightening and that it’s accepted. So clue me in. Pre-teens/teens go to a party/have a party and there is absolutely no adult supervision? No wonder kids are out of control. Granted I grew up in a totally different generation, but I remember when we had parties, there was ALWAYS an adult around to make sure things didn’t get out of hand.

Like Bill said, kids are being fed all these images and they are just imitating what the see.

Bill Said:

Because of the type of work I do, I look at my kids myspace.com accounts (I WORK AT A HIGH SCHOOL..Social Worker..)

If you really want to understand what young people DO,
the peer pressure they encounter, you will quickly understand that young people have to ACT GROWN UP and Hypersexual…

We are going through a strange situation at our school now (for instance)
Since there is such a shortage of Black Men, the young black ladies at our high school are FIGHTING over the young men, and these young ladies will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get/attract these young men…

Our Young Black Ladies are increasing becoming Hypersexual in order to GET a boyfriend..

It’s unfortunate, but it is what it is…

When when YOU get a chance just glance at some of the black youth’s myspace.com accounts…

heck, If you REALLY want to be shocked, look at some of the CL Posters myspace accounts….I never realized that the majority of the people who post here are like 25 & younger…..They are Just children……

We have a LOT of work to do here in our Community…

That why (in case you were wondering) you don’t see me around the Loop as much, I guess…

Man,I got kids dying of HIV and drug abuse over here…
I need to be about my father’s business.

Peace

im glad’s thats all sorted out.

My heart honestly goes out to the kids in this generation. I’m no old head but I remember at age 12 thats what 6th/7th grade? We weren’t doing stuff like that maaan. I mean we had school dances but damn wasn’t no lap dances goin on we got down to “Brandy’s I wanna be down” and other things now seeming innocent. I never thought I’d be saying this but u kinda do have to blame the music and videos and Lord knows what’s going on in their homelife. Justin definitely sees his father as a role model I’m sure. We really have kids raising kids now and I’m not putting down all young parents because there are some great ones out there but it’s parents out there who got kids and still find it necessary to go to the club every weekend. Like someone else said thank God I don’t have kids cuz I don’t know about our future…we really need to make some changes.

All of yall crazy as all get out but a kid is going to be a kid if he was going to experience it i would rather it be with older people watching out for him to make sure ther was No Sex N the Champagne Room LOL

Lol @ Bill…you ain’t lying! Kids do emulate these videos and these damn songs…

I understand you cannot be around your child 24/7 but damn allowing your kid to go to a “teen” club when they are NOT even a teen…thats a hot ass mess.

Sorry but while kids are going to be kids…some things parents should have common sense about. Ain’t no way in hell my parents would let me go to that crap at no damn 12 years old!

Sorry but there is no excuse…as a matter of fact there should be no teen clubs. What the hell do they need a nightclub for? Thats why kid’s are grown as hell now…they experiencing shyt too soon. Clubs should be exclusively for 18+…give kids something to look forward to.

I’m not mad at the kid (he’s 12 and a woman wants to dance on him! I wouldn’t blame him), I am REALLY mad at the ho doing the dancing. Stand up, respect yourself, and act like a fucking lady. Stupid ass ho.

I’m with you #69…I’m in my early twenties and I think its a hot ass mess too.

People always talking about how kids should act like children…then they allowing them to go to clubs, buy these lil freak nasty clothes (what the hell does a young girl need with a lil bustier top?)…listen to Pretty Ricky lol. Then they want them to act like children after all that mess…puhleeze!!!

I’m sorry but this is actually why family unity is important…Misa up there all by herself explaining shyt, where the hell is Diddy? Oh my bad I just saw those pics from an Oscar after-party he attended…I guess thats more important huh?

I Have read other post stating this boy was 13, and maybe thats is why he is at a teen party. What he is doing in the picture is normal for a teen party. As being a mentor for high school and middle school student, I always see boy holding each other up will the girl grind on them imitating a lap dance. This is where I usually step in and break that behavior up. Even so, I still too late because it don’t take long to snap a picture. I don’t blame the security for this behavior. To agree with someone else, the blame should be put on the music industry for putting out videos to teach the kids the mess.

lol i know #74 we didnt even have teen clubs back in the day. we had house parties and school dances