#76 Lol pretty much…all this teen club shyt is unnecessary.

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 3:33 pm

71. Such Magnificence said:
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Lol @ Bill…you ain’t lying! Kids do emulate these videos and these damn songs…

I understand you cannot be around your child 24/7 but damn allowing your kid to go to a “teen” club when they are NOT even a teen…thats a hot ass mess.

Sorry but while kids are going to be kids…some things parents should have common sense about. Ain’t no way in hell my parents would let me go to that crap at no damn 12 years old!

Sorry but there is no excuse…as a matter of fact there should be no teen clubs. What the hell do they need a nightclub for? Thats why kid’s are grown as hell now…they experiencing shyt too soon. Clubs should be exclusively for 18+…give kids something to look forward to.

Bill Said:

I would LOVE for my 13 year old daughter or my 17 year old son to stay home with ME, and READ THE BIBLE on a Friday night….

The truth of the matter is Young People are YOUNG.

They have a certain amount of “friskyness” in them…

When my daughter(s) think I’m not looking or paying attention, I hear their concersations, see their movements (dance) and watch ALL of their friends….

Despite the fact that ALL OF MY CHILDREN grew up in a Christian enviroment, with TWO God fearing parents, despite MY BEST intentions, they will HAVE TO MAKE A CHOICE one day whether to do good or evil..

My CHILDREN will CHOOSE one day (whn I’m no where around) whether to be good or bad.

On THAT day, I hope that they remember everything I taught them……All the long conversations we had BEFOREHAND about not letting boys feel on you, how you should always be a lady, and not give the boy (no matter how cute he is) a lapdance & how smoking weed kills EVENTUALLY KILL YOUR brain cells..

…and on THAT DAY, I HOPE (and PRAY) that my children will make the right CHOICE.

All we can do is teach our children, PRAY, and alow them to make their OWN Choices…
And
If they make the wrong choice, Pray some more, scold them, HEAL THEM and FORGIVE THEM.

Isn’t that what YOUR parents did ?

Love Your Children
TALK to YOUR children
Peace

WHY is everybody clowning Puffy… He doesn’t live with him, He lives with Misa… So she is the ONLY one to blame for this incident and that BITCH needs to have her ass beat for letting that shit happen!!!
Letting security be responsible for your child is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard for an issue… Dunb-Ass BITCH

She’s lucky I’m not Puffy because I would be STILL Beating her ass for that shit !!!

And I agree with the people who say WTF is a Teen party/club needed for anyway

@such magnificence… You look So Tasty & So Yummy
Can I HAVE SOME, PLEASE !!!!!

To @bill
Whats up my brother… been a long time

I heard that Nishauna. I be on my lil sister and neices the same way. I don’t play either. I make them sit they fast butts down and pick up a book. They can’t stand me but in the future they will.

When I was 12, FREAKING was all they did at teen parties. So it doesn’t suprise me at all, that picture only shows HALF of what they do at “teen” parties. Also, look at that girl, THATS HOW 14 && 15YROLDS look nowadays. Shit, she probably like 16 and got more ass THAN ME.

Lol @ #79…you can look but no touching is allowed:-)

@ Bill:

I understand what you are saying…and yes that is what my parents did BUT even letting them get dropped off to a teen club in my eyes is a no no.

I feel like there shouldn’t even be teen clubs (as I stated in a previous post) in the first place.

I know kids have “friskyness” in them…its only human but damn you shouldn’t feed into it. I mean when I hear people say I’m dropping lil whoever to club whateva…that shyt doesn’t even sound right to me.

School dances are one thing (shyt ends by like 11pm) and house parties (where you actually know the parents) are fine…but a teen club. Hell to the no…sorry call me old fashioned but it just doesn’t sit right with me.

Five reasons why for Teen Clubs
For my sister “Such Magnificance”" and my Brother “Fierce”

1) An ounce of prevention is a pound of cure
meaning: it better to KNOW what the kids are doing than NOT to know

2) If there wasn’t any teen clubs, what would the kids do with all of their youth exuberance, energy & friskyness ?

3) If we didn’t have teen clubs, the kids would be having “house parties” at SOMEONE house, and someone would be getting shot/stabbed/High or gregnant

4) When you have “Teen Clubs” you have “Trained Professionals” chaperoning the party, a REAL DJ playing Club music on DAT (no scratched records)
You will have at a “teen club” Bouncers, Bodyguards and most importanly you will have a Police Presence.

5) As much as we THINK children should be home studying or reading the bible, most young people have a desire to go out ad DANCE, listen to music, and be with their friends…..

* Your child, loves you
YOU love your child…
BUT,
at some point they need to know how to RELATE & COMMUNICATE with their peers…

Young People really need to hang with other young people, when they are you..I see so many girls that lived a sheltered life, then WENT OFF TO COLLEGE, and became BUCK WILD.

If that same young lady was allowed to go to “teen clubs” she would have had the opportunity to mature & grow UP at a normal rate…

REMEMBER how YOU Felt when YOU WERE YOUNG.
Peace

WTF…Some of yall judgmental folks need to fall back. I don’t think that anyone agrees that his actions were ok but damn don’t let the age fool you. 12 is young but he is NOT a baby. By the time I hit 12/13 my mother no longer went felt the need to be around me all the time. At some point you have to trust your kids.

Yall keep saying “hes only 12, why is he at a teen party.” Ok would it make yall feel better if we saw these pics next year when hes 13. NO yall would still be gettin pissy. Bottom line is…kids cut up. WE all cut up in some way has children. No matter how well people think they are raising their kids, children always make their own choices.

Yall wanna say how his mother needs her ass beat and how she is such a bad parent. There is no one right way to raise a kid. That shit is very much trial & error. Yall just don’t want to like these people. Hell why not curse the parents of all the kids and not just Misa?

Oh yea and the point of all that I wrote was just to say. Don’t judge people so hard if you haven’t been where they are. We all want the world to be a better place for our young people but tearing them and their parents down when they make mistakes isn’t helping the cause.

Forgive me..I type so fast, and I don’t have time to spell check

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 4:19 pm

84. bill said:
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Five reasons why for Teen Clubs
For my sister “Such Magnificance”” and my Brother “Fierce”

1) An ounce of prevention is a pound of cure
meaning: it better to KNOW what the kids are doing than NOT to know

2) If there wasn’t any teen clubs, what would the kids do with all of their youthFUL exuberance, energy & friskyness ?

3) If we didn’t have teen clubs, the kids would be having “house parties” at SOMEONE house, and someone would be getting shot/stabbed/High or PREGNANT

4) When you have “Teen Clubs” you have “Trained Professionals” chaperoning the party, a REAL DJ playing Club music on DAT (no scratched records)
You will have at a “teen club” Bouncers, Bodyguards and most importanly you will have a Police Presence.

5) As much as we THINK children should be home studying or reading the bible, most young people have a desire to go out AND DANCE, listen to music, and be with their friends…..

* Your child, loves you
YOU love your child…
BUT,
at some point they need to know how to RELATE & COMMUNICATE with their peers…

Young People really need to hang with other young people, when they are YOUNG..\

I see so many girls that lived a sheltered life, then WENT OFF TO COLLEGE, and THEN became BUCK WILD.

If that SAME young lady was allowed to go to “teen clubs” she would have had the opportunity to mature & grow UP at a normal rate…

REMEMBER how YOU Felt when YOU WERE YOUNG.
Peace

* TEEN CLUBS are the same as the party at the HIGH SCHOOLS…The ONLY Difference is instead of dancing in YOUR BORING HIGH SCHOOL Cafeteria or Gym, you are dancing at a REAL CLUB with REAL PEOPLE (not just the same old boring kids at your school), REAL MUSIC, and you acting all grown and sexy UNDER PROPER SUPERVISION.

The kids really like TEEN CLUBS, and it’s a nice way for your young teen age child to EXPRESS THEMSELVES.

SOME KIDS are going to lapdance.
SOME KIDS are going to make it rain..
SOME KIDS are going to grope girls or “Freak” on them (whatever the term is these days).

That why you have to instal GOOD VALUES in YOUR KIDS while they are YOUNG

Peace

Uhhh, sorry Bill, I disagree with the teen club idea.
Though I have 6 more years before dealing w/ a preteen child, I cannot see any good in sending her off to bump and gring against no pimply faced greasy hormone-ridden boys.
Then, there’s the question of the type of music being played. Most likely it would be the type of music we see on BET about bitches n’ hoes and “smack that” and all that shyt…
And already I’m not convinced about the “trained professionals”, having seen what many utterly unprofessional “trained” public school teachers do and say in their classrooms.
I think these so called clubs are the breeding ground for early sex. There are soooo many other things a teen could do for “fun”. Clubbin’s not one of em.

ooohhhh pleeeaassse!!!

Kids are going to be kids
AND I’LL BE DAMN IF THEY HAVE TO GO TO HIS PARTIES OR ANY PARTY HE’S INVITED TOO, HIS PARENTS ARE FAMOUS!!!!!
THAT ALONE WILL CAUSE A COMMOTION!!!

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 4:32 pm

88. Natural Mystic said:
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Uhhh, sorry Bill, I disagree with the teen club idea.
Though I have 6 more years before dealing w/ a preteen child, I cannot see any good in sending her off to bump and gring against no pimply faced greasy hormone-ridden boys.
Then, there’s the question of the type of music being played. Most likely it would be the type of music we see on BET about bitches n’ hoes and “smack that” and all that shyt…
And already I’m not convinced about the “trained professionals”, having seen what many utterly unprofessional “trained” public school teachers do and say in their classrooms.
I think these so called clubs are the breeding ground for early sex. There are soooo many other things a teen could do for “fun”. Clubbin’s not one of em.

Bill Said:

Sure:
There are LOTS of thing for you people (Ages 13 -21) to do !!

There is The Skating Ring, The Bowling alley, the Mall, The Movies, Borders (the Book store), StarBuck (the Coffee Shoppe) The Internet Cafe, etc, etc

They can play Laser Tag (A LOT of fun..I take my kids and we have a blast), they can go to “Def Jam Poetry” ….

My Kids grew up in the church, so they attend the various youth nights that we sponser @ the church on Friday Night (Everything I mentioned above).

I’m just saying..A lot of kids are NOT interested in church or doing things that don’t involve Rap Music or loose living….

I’m just saying that teen clubs are a good SAFE enviorment for teens that don’t feel compelled to live like a good christian should…

It is what it is…
Everyone ain’t going to read the bible.
SOMEBODY is going to want to shake their booty..
Young People are young & frisky…

How were YOU when YOU were young ??????

I don’t know about you guys but my parents had me on lock when I younger. If a friend was having a sleepover, please trust that one of my parents would call the parent in charge and confirm what all was going to happen at the sleepover. My mother and my father never did the following:

1. If I was being picked up from the house by someone’s parent, my parent(s) would always greet the person driving and know exactly who they were and where they lived.
2. I never went to any parties where my parents had not talked to the guardian in charge beforehand.

Parents today just don’t care. Anything to get rid of their kid(s) I guess.

I suppose my parents were lucky. They were never overprotective, and I only had like 3 close friends, never was wild or careless.
I hung out with my brother often–we were very close, I never became a follower cuz both mom and dad preached about how following certain behavior or people was a pure weakness, which is one of the best things they taught me.

I’ve been to plenty of teen clubs during my teen years. Freak dancing and all. It was just a place to hang out, have fun, and dance. I’m 22 now (since Feb 25th) and I dont have any crumb snatchers, STD’s or anything else to be ashamed of as a result of my partying.

Bill, you forgot another positive for teen clubs vs house parties. At the club, you can alomst be sure that no alcohol will be involved at this setting. At a house party, anyone can walk in with alcohol, smoke weed, shoot up the place, or a whole slew of other things.

Yep, #91 I agree, hence my post #10.
This Justin shyt is just on a different scale b/c Puff and Misa are wealthy.
Instead of Shananay from down the block taking him to this party, it was Security.
And instead of mommy holed up in the apartment watching reruns of Flavor of Love or daddy stickin it to the super’s wife, Puff and Misa were most likely doing them– shopping or partying with Paris and Ray J.lol
The bottom line is THEY were negligent for not being around. Times have changed. You gotta watch your damn kids.

ANYONE remember that announcement? :
It’s 10:OO. Do you know where your kids are?

thats right momma! REGULATE!

Teen clubs are safe? I don’t know what teen clubs you’ll attended but the teen clubs I went to when I was younger was FULL OF VIOLENCE. Maybe it was just down here in the south but ALL the teen clubs that were open had shootings outside the club and inside the club. Yeah they had police in the parking lot but that didn’t stop anyone from gettting their head knocked off, please believe. And one of the teen clubs was managed by a police officer who quit the force and became a security guard. His club had the most shootings. And quess what? Most of them are still open till this day…10 years later. SMH I wish I would catch my children doing anything remotely close to this. Trust…I will be in jail the same day.

Um Diddy is to blame for this also and IMO more. Justin is a preteen/teenage(?) male. Diddy always claims he is a hands on parent, they both should take part in teaching him what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.

Misa is a woman, and I don’t care how good of a woman a mother is to her son, she can never take the place of a father. That is not saying that a woman is not capable of taking care of her son alone, just that there are things that males experience that we don’t.

Sure we can talk to our sons about things from second hand experiences from relatives, friends, books etc… but women are not fathers and therefore men need to talk to their sons about these type of things. *with the mother reiterating the talk of course* And the same thing goes for women and their daughters.

Unfortuntely Bill is right, this is the type of thing that goes on these days. For some of us remember when they had clubs were you slow danced? I know a lot of us would be grinding and carrying on. (myself included) Now adays this just happens to be what is our there. Yes teens imitate what they see in person and/or in videos; it is up to the parents to teach their children reality vs media.

I feel that parents are responsible for their childrens behavior. You teach your children, just because you see something on T.V. in videos or a movie or wherever that doesn’t mean you need to be doing it. Parents should monitor what children are watching and listening to. Because alot of the music out there are for young adults and are not for children to be listening to because all they talk about is sex.

Don’t get me wrong, I do feel the music industry is out of control. But when it boils down to it the parents have to take responsibility.

C’mom y’all, stop being so God damn judgemental!! Damn like e’rrrry party u went to,BOTH ur parents were in attendence..right,u act like that’s your son,or relative.

Now if she’s guilty of anything,it’s being naive…this kinda shit happens everday in these type of ‘parties’,sometimes worse,w/o parents knowing about it.But she said she is handling the problem,and atleast attempting to correct the situation.I for one believe her…bet she gettin’ up in that ass ol’ school style wit’ a racing car track! Now it’s one thing to be critical…but damn I bet half these broads on here with negative, overly critical things to say,messed around wit’a boy at 12, and even lost their virginity by 16.Some of y’all got some nerve!!

66. Meatloaf’s obsession said:

Okay, so this is the 2nd consecutive post that meatloaf mentions gayness- first the Jen Hud post now this. Meatloaf, do you dream and/or fantasize of getting that 1 big stiff one? Damn!

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Go back and read post #46 Propa-Ganda is the one who started the talk about little Justin being straight after this experience! I just agree with Propa ten post later on post #56!

Now, if you would just come on out of the closet and stop using my name, man! I believe its true that many of you gay dudes end up that way because you’re afraid of women!

The conquest of the vagina is just too overwhelming! A lap dance might have saved you from defeat! Puberty is a very critical time for boys 14 and girls 12! I don’t agree with young Justin gettin all that booty at age 12, but he needs to know that the woman’s ass and vagina are his friends!

Can you imagine a young boy 13 or 14 going through puberty, fighting erections every morning and terrified of what people would think if they knew what he was thinking every 45 seconds!

The lap dance experience could be the thing that gets him over the hump! She just walked up and put her booty right on his little jimmie and gave it a whirl! This is more proof that human sexuality is a learned behavior rather than one you were born with!

And, the Jen Hudson post was about more than just Jen! It was about an old fat gay ass fool who should have been working on cars or in a factory, rather than specializing in women’s fashions and screwing up Jennifer’s biggest night! He’s a mess and Jen looked a Star Sars mess following his advice!

Don’t get me wrong, there are some great men fashion designers, but this big gapped tooth bitch probably insisted that Jennifer wear his $#!T! Nobody gave Andre Leon Talley a lap dance he was 14, so he turned to Elton John and Boy George for assurance! He got the “ass”, but not the “surance”! hehe!

I don’t believe you’re born gay, but just in case you were, I’ll tell you like the carpenter’s Son told the Jewish leader…”You must be born again!” If it ain’t right, hell, get it fixed!

Some fathers take their sons out and buy a hooker for them, so they can provide some supervision over the first experience! I don’t avocate doing that, but hey, young Justin looked like he came on his self and he’ll be just fine now! His algebra and science grades will plummet, probably below a “D”, but I bet he won’t miss many days of school from here on! lol

Need I say anymore???

Oops I forgot to add unless rappers put a gun to your teenager(s) head and force them to watch their videos and listen to their vulgar music, the fault is on you. If your child happens to reenact the videos or the lyrics, blame yourself for allowing them to watch the videos and listen to the music. And if someone says they have no control over that, then you are in the same position as Misa and Diddy and shouldn’t be judging. *Not all rappers use vulgar language*

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 5:25 pm

98. whateva1 said:
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… some of us remember when they had clubs were you slow danced? I know a lot of us would be grinding and carrying on. (myself included) .

Bill Said:

Sure you right.

We were trying to get girls pregnant slow dancing.

We would grind, then take it down to the floor.

My hand caressing her bit fat soft booty all the while, with my tongue all down her throat….

Things haven’t changed (not really)…

What we did when we were kids, our children MAY repeat.

Don’t judge or turn your nose up at people for things THEIR children did…

That same situation that you laughed at could happen to you !!

Just raise YOURS kids up “The right way”

TALK to your kids
LOVE your kids
LISTEN when your kids talk..They may be trying to tell you something….

Peace

The woman giving him a lapdance is a pedophile and should be charged. This is disgusting. If it was a man he would be in jail by now….more action needs to be taken.

on Tuesday, February 27, 2007 @ 5:37 pm

101. Meatloaf said:
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Some fathers take their sons out and buy a hooker for them, so they can provide some supervision over the first experience! I don’t avocate doing that, but hey, young Justin looked like he came on his self and he’ll be just fine now! His algebra and science grades will plummet, probably below a “D”, but I bet he won’t miss many days of school from here on! lol

Need I say anymore???

Bill Said:

When I turned 13, My father gave me a box of CONDOMS for my Birthday.

My OLDER brother then took me over to this girls house (a friend of his girlfriend) who then proceeded to let me love on her…

So, when I was 13, I made love to a 21 year old woman.

That’s what MEN do….

Bill, and thanks to those experiences, you now have one of the World’s Greatest Appreaciations for the opposite sex! Teen grinding has its merits! Hopefully, a child can hold out until 14, but hey, you were a quick study! hehe!

How were you grades after that 21 year old?

LOL what is she bitchin about….??? At least her boy was gettin some!!!

Agree 100% #16 and 18! Speak sistas!

The fact that she hired a security team to supervise her child speaks volumes of her character. Nothing should take the place of PARENTAL SUPERVISION!!
Stylist or not..being a parent should always be your main concern.

I simply would have cancelled my appointments and supervised my child myself. Or she could have asked a trusted adult family member such as an aunt or uncle to watch out for him at the party to make he behaves as a 12 year old. NOT A SECURITY TEAM. THEY DON’T CARE WHAT HE’S EXPOSED TO? THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT HIM. THEY ARE BEING PAID!!!

Everyone’s asking where’s Diddy? I wouldn’t trust him to supervise my impressionable 12 year old even if he is his father….need I mention Usher?

However..these pics aint shit compared to that Youtube video going around. What does this child know about phone sex, thongs, or “going down”?

PRECIOUS LORD, TAKE MY HAND!

Thanks Pretty Ricky

Meatloaf,
I think if most Father would take the time to assit their sons in getting their first piece, then would have less Problems like STD, etc, etc…

My complexion cleared up, and I became more focused in school..Now that I had FINALLY gotten laid, I was able to concentrate on school work, instead of WONDERING what it felt like…

The sexual experience REALLY have a profound and lasting effect on my life…

It was really cool bonding with my Brother & Father..They helped me, and showed me how to get laid !!!

It’s REALLY important for a young boy to have a MAN (a father, a older brother, a uncle) to look UP TO for guidance & information

I am sorry, but at 12 years old, SOMEBODY’S mama should have been there. Kids are so different now. Yall know that! There are 12 year old girls looking and acting like grown women and they are more likely to pressure boys into sex. Twelve is the age where boys start to experiment with weed too. THEY NEED PROPER SUPERVISION!

I mean come on yall, it 2007 not 1988 when I was 12!!

Bill said:

“My complexion cleared up,” lmao!

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You didn’t even need Propitia! lol
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#110 You’re right KhinJe…the girls are like firecrackers at age 12! They mature eariler! A 14 year old girl knows the business and she is capable of puttin it on someone like Young Justin who was probably overwhelmed, but someone was holding him up and keeping him steady!! lol

@ Bill,

You said to Meatloaf:
“Meatloaf,
I think if most Father would take the time to assit their sons in getting their first piece, then would have less Problems like STD, etc, etc…

My complexion cleared up, and I became more focused in school..Now that I had FINALLY gotten laid, I was able to concentrate on school work, instead of WONDERING what it felt like…

The sexual experience REALLY have a profound and lasting effect on my life…

It was really cool bonding with my Brother & Father..They helped me, and showed me how to get laid !!!

It’s REALLY important for a young boy to have a MAN (a father, a older brother, a uncle) to look UP TO for guidance & information”

That is the most horrible, ridiculous, irrational thing I have ever read. You started off with good ideas and advice then you made the statement about your childhood experience.

No child should be having sex at 13. That doesn’t help him in the long run despite your claim. I am just thrown off from your statement. My God!

Oh, this boy’s daddy is a big ho and his mom used to be in the hoochie vids so what do they expect?

well chacha123

it is what it is….

13 year old boys think about what it would feel like to have sex with girls…

That’s natural, and GOD made men (and young boys) to have sexual urges….

I’m sorry if you you feel people should not have urges, but the reality of it is that young people are very MUCH thinking about sex.

that’s just the way it is…

in the jewish community, a boy is considered a MAN at 12.

I congratulate her on this because some parents don’t give a fuck to address it.

Wait, isn’t Justin the lil arm baby Misa was holding in Biggie’s “Juicy” video?

Wow, how time flies?

Its not that fucking serious, if yall think this shit is bad,then yall clearly dont have a clue about what 12 year olds really do…they b freak dancing, sexing, selling drugs, Shit used 2 live in Baltimore, this shit aint new! jus watch “the wire” thas an accurate depiction of Baltimore!

#10 AND TO ANY ONE ELSE WHO FEELS THAT THIS IS JUST A “GHETTO” THING YOU WRONG RICH KIDS MIDDLE CLASS KIDS LOTS OF KIDS REGARDLESS OF CLASS DO THIS KIND OF THING ITS SO SAD REALLY MORE PARENTS DO NEED TO BE AWARE OF WHATS GOING ON IN THEIR CHILDRENS LIVES I MEAN NOW A DAYS WE LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE CHILDREN HAVE DAILY PLANS AND ARE BUSY OCCUPIED PEOPLE IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN IT IS YOUR JOB TO KNOW WHAT AND WITH WHOM I KNOW YOU CANT BE WITH YOUR CHILD ALL DAY EVERY DAY AND KIDS WILL DO STUPID THINGS WE ALL DID IT IS APART OF LEARNING WHO WE ARE WE JUST GOT TO TEACH THEM BETTER ABOUT RESPECT AND HOW IT MUST FIRST START WITH THEM RESPECTING THEMSELVES

@ 114, if you had a 12 year old son & he got some girl pregnant do you really think he’ll be “man” enough to support a child? I’m glad mama Misa said something. Has Puffy issued a statement? Some may say this is harmless but this is how it starts. Next thing you know Justin’s a father @ 13 and that is NOT A GOOD LOOK. And, where were the adults supervising the party? Parents need to take a more proactive roll. Yeah, parents can’t be everywhere but if you instill good values in children this kind a raunchiness won’t be happening so early in their lives. I bet those kids can’t even spell STD!

A lot of ya’ll condoning Justin’s behavior wouldn’t agree if you saw your child giving or receiving a lapdance. Or better yet what if that was your 12 yr old son or daughter having sex in your house. Would u be ok with that then?

Good for you Ms. Hylton. That’s what a GOOD mom should do. I was scared for a moment. I thought it was going to say she condoned it.

Glad some ppl in hollywood still have morals.

@ 116 yeah there was a baby in the video. I guess he’s be around that kind of lifesytle his whole life. I guess he was just born to be a fast tail lil boy.

Bill Im not sure what era you are from “kids will be kids” This should not be accepted as a normal act of a child. Regardless to what we are surronded by this is not an excuse to behave in this manner. And we as people need to stop making excuses for our actions and set higher standards. When I was a child I knew a childs place regardless to what my surroundings had going on. If we continue to accept this as being the norm for our children we are worse off then I thought we were.

And another thing if my son attended a party at the age of 12, 13 or whatever AND security had to be present …….Yes Hun I would be present!! or I would definitely want a responsible adult present and not some damn security guard WTF. And Guess WHAT I dont give a dayum how un-cool his a$$ will look. Cause Im the BOSS in this MF’er

This child is 12 or 13. Probably a sixth or seventh grader. Why in the world is he allowed to attend parties like this at his age? These kids think they’re so damn grown yet can’t do a thing for themselves.

Im a teenager……and I dont see nothing wrong wit the pic….jus having fun……..ppl be all serious wit everything jus chill…… we be doin it at partys that i go to…..

Ok, so you say it’s not the Moms fault, it’s not the kids fault, it’s not Security’s fault?? I guess that leaves….. NOBODY at fault??! Welcome to the new Generation, where it’s “not my fault”.

That boy need a whole day of a a$$ whopping!

@ Bill…So some of you guys are saying that you probably would have been gay had you not been given a lapdance or sexual experience at an early age?..That’s ridiculously ignorant to say>not all teenage boys have uncontrollable sexual urges!! I hate when people say that because then young boys actually start buying into BS..everyone has different chemistry> FACT!! and not everyone needs a “piece of ass” by the age of 12 to be straight

@ 125 How old are you? When you mature and have kids you will feel quite different. So I guess you tell your parents about what goes on at these parties since there’s nothing wrong?

I KNEW THIS WAS GOING TO HAPPEN I WAS THEIR IT WAS LAST WEEK NOT THIS SUNDAY BUT THE WEEK BEFORE AT CLUB ABYSS IN SAYREVILLE NJ

WE SAW HIM AND HIS BODY GUARDS AND JUST LOOKED AND THEN I SAW WHO THE BODY GUARDS WERE SURROUNDING AND I SEE A LIL BOY WHO LOOKED LIKE HE WAS 10

AND IM 17 SO I WAS LIKE AND WHAT IS HE DOING AT THIS PARTY? IS HE EVEN FULLY GROWN HES STILL PUBERTIZING HE HAD BRACES!

O WELL WHO LETS THEIR KID OUT AT 12 AT NIGHT AND IS A 12 YEAR OLD UNSUPERVISED YOU KNOW HE DIDN’T GET HOME TILL LIKE 1

SMH

Bill,

I want to be very respectful to you while giving you my opinion, but I ask that you not patronize me.
Of course I know that everyone has “urges” as you put it but should one always act on those urges??? You mentioned that God gave us urges but God also set standards of morality and his word always emphasizes SELF-CONTROL!

If everyone were allowed to act on there “urges”, this world would be even more chaotic and depraved than it already is IF that could even be possible.

I just don’t believe allowing kids to experience everything they feel with the (ir)rational theory that it will help them later in life is the right way. We as adults should be more responsible and should transfer that sense of responsibility to our kids.

…and that “is what it is”.

The keywords are TEEN PARTY in here. This boy is only 12 why was he there in the first place.

Yall gone think im crazy but i’ve seen worse. If anybody knows anything about the Chi, you know we juke.People bent over, on the floor, in the air and it be kids too like 9 and up. this pic ain’t shit, but i would slap him in the back of his head.

The mammi is quite ugly, anyways he needs his little ass whipped, but at the same time it doesn’t even faze me, not the first time i’ve seen spoiled celeb brats…

#131 I cosign with you 100%. You are on point. I was just too disgusted to reply to him so thank you for being the mouth of reason.

I saw this going on at my age, but it was never cute to me so I didn’t do it…and I didn’t need my momma to tell me not to…I don’t know about these young chicks these days.

I co-sign w/ #91 when i was in middle school there wasn’t any talk of going to a party where parents were not present.
And um some of these teen clubs about as bad as these regular clubs are, so I’m sorry I dont see the benefit in them.

And this “kids will be kids” and “this is normal” talk is ridiculous because that doesn’t change the fact that it’s not ok. That’s why it wont get any better because this is the response of grown ppl. Like somebody said before people don’t care about their kids these days. They so quick to pawn them off on somebody else or in front of the tv or some equally fucked up shit then spend quality time with them and learn about who they’re becoming. I’m not saying shelter your kids or nothing but seriously talk to them not at them but actually talk TO them. Know where they are and the company they keep.

Yeah we all did stuff our parents didnt know about when we were younger, who doesn’t? 1) society is not what it use to be, there are so many ways people who wanna harm your kid can get to your child via the internet especially places like myspace. 2) the stuff your and ur friends considered “fun” when your were younger is like 30x worst today. It’s too much random danger in the world readily accesible to your children to be slackin on ur parenting that’s all i’m sayin.

Also it’s not fair but it’s the reality as a child of a celebrity you gotta think about everything u do because it’s gon come back on ur parents and the media is just going to use that against them in a neg. way. It’s messed up but common sense would say dont let ppl take pictures of you getting a lap dance as a 12 year old, that is if your parents gave your some common sense in the first place.

I totally agree with every thing Bill said.. Man you are the TRUTH! I wish you all the best in your work with our troubled youth. God bless U

Now, I’m happy that Misa handled the situation. Even if she might be ” doing so coz things got Public”, whatever the case, it’s positive. It’s making people think, talk and ask themselves what really goes on when their kids are left alone.

Kids today are influenced by what they see on TV_ and what is that? SEX, DRUGS and Gettin Rich or die TRYIN.
It’s sad that they arent surrounded and supervised like they should be. I mean a child needs boundaries, limits and rules.
Looking back, I’m happy my mom was strict. I used to feel so bad when all my friends could stay out late and go out here and there. But now.. I see what my mom saw. And I guess she knew I was worth more than one nite stands and getting high. Be strict with ur kids, they’ll thank U later and love you even more.

Bill, I dont agree with what ur stating on THIS page though.
Concerning the sexual “urges”.
Jewish people can consider their boys men at 12, good for them.
But in my opinion that’s a little to early to carry on responsibilities of a MAN i.e being sexually active, fathering children,rearing a family, being a role model to your kids etc..
At twelve, you are still a child. Your body isnt fully developped and you arent mentally and spiritually (if I might add) mature to walk in the shoes of an adult.
Especially today.

I understand that teens go through hormonal changes and are prone to sexually urges. However parents should be more present than ever, during this stage in their kid’s life to counteract any promiscuous behavior.
I sure know that if both my parents werent involved in my life, who knows where I would be today.. When you look at these video girls who dont value their bodies or know their worth, you can’t just talk about sexual urges.

I think the issue to be address is Education, because it starts at home…

Ohhh! He’s not getting a lap dance, he’s juking. Manish ass little boy. There’s quite a difference, but nonetheless its still an activity too advanced for a 12 year old. Its a damn shame when you have kids in this world with access to the best in everything, especially education, and still end up like kids from the projects.

First of all why is everyone trippin on Misa #79? Parents can’t be with their kids 24/7 people! I believe you can teach your children how they are suppose to behave and teach them right from wrong but we also have many other influences around like MUSIC and VIDEOS! Videos are terrible these days im so sick of seein the same thing over and over again MONEY,JEWELRY,CARS,and FAKE HALF NAKED WOMEN shakin their asses! Those kinds of things are all around I don’t think that any of us can knock her parenting because her 12 yr old is gettin a lap dance off a girl who obviusly doesn’t have any respect for herself! What 12 yr old boy is gonna say I don’t think you should be dancin on me like that? I don’t care if his mother was mother teresa!Kids are so fast these days we just have to educate them and hope they make the right decisions in life! Im almost 22 I have a son who is 21months people look at me and judge me just because im a young mom I was never a “fast” or “slutty” girl bein 21 doesn’t make any less of a parent then someone who is 41 I know im a wonderful mother! I will teach my son to be a respectful gentleman and not be a follower!

And I need to somebody to drop a bible verse about right now, because the little boy and his hethen father are obviously in need of prayer.

Everyone has a point…kids will be kids.

Parents can’t always be around so it is important that they teach their children values and moral ethics and pray that they remember them when they are out and about in this cruel tainted world.

T.V. is ruining the young minds of the babies out here. Girls are so mislead by these videos. Young men are so brainwashed by these rappers.

What you do around your child today they will do tommorow. It is so sad that being loose is legal on the streets and in school. when I was in school guys didn’t want the hoes and varmits around them. loose behavior wasn’t accepted the way it is now. It’s all “BABYLON”

I know why diddy hasn’t responded bout this go to tmz.com he was too busy hittin on an engaged woman invitin her to a party! When her fiance came up to them to pull her away diddy supposedly punched the man! I don’t know diddy but why ain’t he at home with his new babies why do I always see him partyin with other women? And he won’t marry Kim how many years and kids later? What did he say in that article in essence that he wasn’t ready to get married what would make him ready? I know alot of people don’t feel the need to get married I being one of them but he never sed that he didn’t want to right? He just seems really annoying to me he thinks he’s so great and he’s really not! By the way 131# I agree with you 100%

I hope she beat his little behind!

Let me be clear about a few things.

I don’t condone children having sex or getting lap dances.

I don’t feel that it’s appropriate.

We do need to recognize that young teen agers children are in FACT having sex & getting lapdances.

The pictures above are proof of this.

One can go about saying that these type of activities are bad and wrong, and just stick your head in the sand, and say that it shouldn’t exsist,
OR
One can start to attempt to UNDERSTAND what is going on
and why things occur.

I like to think of myself as a “proactive” person..

One that doesn’t necessarily accept things for being what they are
but
One who understands that certain activities can & will occur between young adults, and also recognizing that young adults go through certain hormonal transitions, and start to develop sexual urges.

Little Justin didn’t look like he was upset,
nor do I think he will be scarred for life.

* I was attempting to be transparent in relating my first time sexual experience at the age of 13 with a 21 year old female.
If that offended anyone, then I apologize for offending you.
But, that doesn’t make that experience go away.
Actually, I’m glad that it happended because
That experience helps me to understand the feelings & urges that teenagers presently go through, and having this information helps me to understand the youth that I presently work with.

So, that said, I don’t condone sexual activity between teenagers, but I do UNDERSTAND why it occurs.

Peace

I don’t think Misa had the security guards/body guards there to babysit, I think they were there because he is Diddy’s son and I remember when she filed for child support she said, “her son needed bodyguards”. So their job was to protect him pursuay not babysit.

It would suck being a teenager who had to have bodyguards and also having to be a bodyguard to a teenager without having him look all crazy with them standing right there if he chose to dance or socialize among his peers.

aye please….stop pretending that everybody is or had perfect parents…

most of you KNOW damn well your parents had the slightest clue about all the freak nasty shit you did as teenagers. it happens, every lil boy has done some shit he has no business doing…felt up on a girl…and so on.

talkin about he’s ruined…aye pelase. shut that shit up,lol.

get over it.

148. Chris Alexander.

you know what time it is!!!

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Celebrities know hot to CYA = Cover Yo Ass! People are praising Misa for making a CYA statement to the media like Tim Hardaway did when he blasted the NBA baller for announcing his gaydumb after he retired!
Jose Conseaco pulled the same $#!T after he retired from Baseball and steriods!

Tim was concerned about losing endorsements and Misa is concerned about how her parenting skills or lack thereof will look in court if she has to go before the judge to get her next Diddy bag.

I didn’t think Tim’s statement was sincere and I don’t think Misa is either! Tim still hates gays and Misa will still let Justin do whatever it takes to win his loyalty over his fathers! Some women play this game and the child ends up spoiled…especially rich kids! Kids love the parent who gives the most freedom!

And, what is the function of a Security Team? To intervene in the event that the east coast, west coast thing breaks out! hehe! Are they there to make sure Justin don’t get druged or kidnapped? Just what is the SA job? If they let him get a lap dance, what do they do if he wants to stop by her hotel room?

In most states, a 12 year old is in violation of curfew after 10, except when he’s with a chaparone! The Security Team was cleary his chaparones…else he couldn’t be out after 10 PM! Security Teams are there to prevent bodily harm; not there to prevent bodily pleasure!

I am glad that she is taking action.

Alas, I am so upset with many of these posts. Whipping/beating/hitting Justin is not the answer. Black people wakeup. Corporal punishment is not a very sustainable way to discipline someone and make them think about their decisions and choices. That is only a temporary, yet painful, solution.

What would be more appropriate is a real adult conversation (about safer sex, about being fast, about STDs/STIs, about little hot gold-digging young women just trying to have his baby and get in on the money) and taking away some of his celebrity and luxury privileges.

I have one caveat, I am well aware that 12yo’s both give and receive lap dances and a whole lot more. They are individuals with their own minds to do what they want to do.

However, that does not mean that they do not need to hear a voice of reason. The face that adult security guards were present indicates how far off their reasoning is. They needed to be fired. If Justin was getting his dance in a room full of people his age and his age only- then that would be a different story. However, his family had paid these baboons to safeguard him– not only from intruders but also from stunts such as this.