Wateva, congrats to them, next…..

Poor Usher, Poor Chilli
the funniest thing Jawn Murray said was Chilli might show up and poor a bucket of chilli on them LMAO

Damn Usher loves the older ladies she’s like 38 or so!!! They don’t look like they match well. Something is VERY OFF WITH THEM.

President speaking: (Aaliyah song I MISS YOU playing in the background) Civilians, mothers, fathers, kids, soldiers of the world. We watch Usher grow from boy to man through the years. We saw the struggles of him fighting to get notice and onto to being one of our greatest entertainers of our generation. Watch how he and mother manage that beautiful relationship that they had. Watch how he and Chilli fell in love. But in the end had some casualties with his mistakes, we lost Chilli. But we forgave him when he laid his heart on that stage letting it burn. We’ve watched all of this happen, the ups and the down. But now you’re telling me to witness Usher making the biggest mistake in his life by marrying this broad? No ladies and gentlemen we refused to have another casualty in our hands. Dammit we lost Chilli I refused to lose Usher. Now dammit as president I’m putting my foot down on this one! If ya with me than yell HELL TO THE FU**ING NAW HOO RAH! ARE YOU WITH ME SOLDIERS?!!! HOO RAH! HOO RAH! HOO RAH! Spread the word let it be known that we don’t like this bitch! We ain’t going down without a fight! HOO RAH!

(laughing)

LMFAO, ^ that is a good one lol…

Are we really believing this to be true. Did anyone get official word from Usher’s camp? I seriously doubt that they will get married even if they are engaged. If he loves her so much, why did he let Pam Anderson bite him on the ear last month? Constant disrespect is what he’s shown her according sources close to Tameka. This doesn’t add up.

I wish he and Chilli could have made it work…as for this chick lets just say I’m not feelin it.

whatever.

i’m just in denial right now..but he’s promoting (tameka) i mean his album kind of early…Usher & beyounce do have something in common they both want all the spot light…this is suppose to Chill’s come back with her new album..I can just see how her interviews are going to be(poor Chilli)just don’t keep it real this time..Chilli just say your happy for them..then USher is gonna really feel sick.. He then put her back in a “CIRCLE”

You know what’s really sad? Most of the people on the blog don’t even know these people. I understand opinions are like ass holes… everyone has one. But black people please! Can we just be happy for them, or is that too much to ask?

I have had the pleasure of being in the company of both these fabulous people, and I can say without certainty that this is the real thing. Usher looks at Tameka with the kind of attentiveness that all men should look at the one they love with. I am glad he his being true to himself, and going for what he likes, and not adapting to the “Hollywood/Celebrity Way”… I’ll sleep with you, but I won’t marry you. At least this woman had respect enough for herself not to settle for that kind of relationship.

People tend to speak on things that they don’t anything about, and this blog is full of, I’m sure some intelligent sista’s and brothers, and some not so intelligent sista’s and brothers who have chosen to speak on something they know nothing about. How about taking the time to look at things objectively; Give this woman a chance. Have you ever considered that Ms. Foster’s marriage was not the best or healthiest situation for both her and her children, and did not provide them with a sense of well being? Have you ever considered that in order to save herself she had to leave the marriage? Have you ever considered that maybe, just maybe the man she is divorcing, the father of her children just might be an asshole, adulterer, abusive, or maybe he wanted out of the marriage. I don’t know for certain, but have you ever stopped to consider. Have you ever consider that even a woman with three kids is deserving of love, even from Usher. I have three too, and I am not married to my children’s father, but I am married to man who loves and respects me. Have you ever considered that Usher pursued used her because that’s his personal flavor? Have you ever considered there are much more serious things to worry about as opposed to whom Usher loves? Did you know that we are in the midst of a historical presidential campaign? We may have the first woman, or first black as president… That’s if we take the time to vote “BARACK OBAMA in 2008!” How about that, now that’s what we should be lightening up these blog pages with. Something positive… encouraging our sista’s and brother’s to “stand for something or die for nothing”. This whole thing with Ms Foster and Usher we are spending way too much time on it. For once black people prove the ney sayers wrong, and show them that we really do support our own. Does any of this matter? I’m just saying people, stop the madness.

What I know for sure is this… Tameka Foster is not ugly or manly looking. I’ve looked at the same pictures you have. Sometime the photographer catches her at a bad angle, but at least her poses are natural, and unrehearsed. I’ve seen a whole lot of celebs/women that we can call manly looking, and she is not one. Have you noticed in pictures her makeup is the bare minimum? I know because I am a make up artist, and I can tell she has great skin. Her complexion is pretty flawless, and she has a great smile. And so what if she is not Bey… who really gives a shit. Let’s give it a rest already.

Here’s something to ponder…(i know its a little deep but try if you can to get the point)

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.

We’re all meant to shine and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Nelson Mandel-Inauguration Speech

Lastly, You may write me down i history with your bitter, twisted lies. You may trod me in the very dirt, but still like dust, I’ll rise. Mayo Angelou

I say all of the above to say this. Life is so short, live yours to the fullest; encourage and allow others to do the same.

Health and Happiness always,
M from OAK

#1 shut the fugg up, did u say that shyt when JayZ old azz started messin with Beyonce? hell naw, to many of ur dumbazzes think that is okay. Look how older Russell Simmons is than Kimora. For all u simple azz females who making comments, how many men date or marry much younger females? you don’t here men sayin that fool should be ashamed and u want hear a man say it.

It aint always about money. Yall should be happy for him. She’s pretty! I just hope he aint gay or “bisexual” for real.

As long as its real and theyre both happy.

Rumor is that Usher has a STD anyways….Maybe that;s wht he’s Settlng for less..

Not a good look? You people are tuly haters and jealous of her. You say shes so ugly then why do you lonely bored celeb obsessed folk care? Let me give you a heads up, that man is so in love and happy right now theres nothing you can say.. also his mother is TOTALLY cool with them being engaged. You guys are believing each others rumors, this is comedy. He don’t like Chilli’s corny, 80’s dated ass and she probably stopped liking him NOW. The bottomline is he gave her 10 carats she didnt ask for them. He is clear and not being lead. Live that man alone, who cares what you miserable, lonely bloggers think?? You think he gives two shi@s?? I doubt it, and to all you hatas on her. Im sure she’s throwing up the finger… the ring finger that is. I’m proud of him and if he was faking he could fake with any younger, single, starlet, singer, actress, groupie, i’m sure, but this is real and yall are at home typing your hearts out and tearing your Usher posters down, while she’s balllllllllllin and in love. p.s they both have money so there’s no gold digging sorry.

Like someone said before…they deserve each other cause their both liars. Let Usher be that manly lookin heffa. Relationships that break ups other relationships never work. I have seen it for myself. Usher is the dumbest mofo I ever seen. When she get finished wipin’ him out for every got damn dime he has, it won’t be such a “fairytale” anymore. I hope that junk blows right back up in his face!

Chilli outdated?!!! Did ya hear what this di** riding Tameka camp said? Oh HELL TO THE NAW I GOTTA TAKE YOU OUT!
First of all Tameka she look like man that could break u in half if u touch her. What the hell is going on with the eyebrows,look fake. I suspect that their permanent paint, painted on her plastic forhead. Speaking of forehead is that why she has her hair over the eye all the time. That forehead is so big and shiny Usher betta watch out she might blind you and give u a headbut.
Second of all Usher is in love with his mother or dyke? She so old and crusty Usher betta watch out judging from the way they kissed her fake teeth might fall into Usher’s mouth.
Third Davinar and Tameka must have came from the same prison camp cause thats big dyke Usher messing with. What the hell she be feeding Usher prison food? Usher face look bloated if you put a needle to his head it might pop. When he was with Chilli he was in shape. Now he’s with her he let himself go so she could feel better about her manly features.
Don’t mess with Chilli dyke. She may not be curvy but she more than make up for it with personality. And she a beautiful women. I’m done ya any body else have anything to say to this dyke say it. Cause I wanna hear. Usher playing himself. Chilli was right to leave your retarded ass Dumb Dumb Ditty!

If it’s true..that’s nice, good for them.

Anon? I mean Chilli is that you? talking about her personality? what do you know about her? You’re just a blogger that needs therapy you poor angry soul. Unless you’re really her in disguise. Chilli is outdated sorry, have you heard that new wack ass music? Honey get a life! I’m no Tameka lover but I don’t know none of these people, but its obvious you’re some “queen” or obsessed fan. Tameka don’t have to float your boat, but she must reallllllllly be floating his. I guess Ms Chilli didn’t. Usher does look a little heavy as he does always between albums, so it means he’s eating good and happy. He was 24 when dated Chilli thats been loooong over. he’s happy . Let them be. Youre so angry about what he’s doing and he does even know you exist dog that should make you think of how unimportant you are in the grand scheme of things he cares about. get some business Anon and other jealous folks.

Sorry but she looks like a man and I hope this is a rumor Usher can do much better.

If you happy Usher, do you. I don’t like the double standards in life when it comes to age differences in dating. I have a brother, and I admit, I wouldn’t approve of him coming home with a ready made family, but when love steps in there is nothing you can do about it.
People are always going to find a reason to complain. I think we look at celebrities as “gods(ess)” at times and forget that they have experts making them look so fabulous (+surgery). So when we see what we consider an average looking chick (tameka), we clown her. Knowing damn well she could be (or look like) your sister, cousin, mom, homegirl, etc. What because she doesn’t fit the standard of “hollywood” black woman? Like I said, age, whatever, kids, Usher do you. It’s his life, his money, and his woman.

good for them

Good for them like I said about Nick and Selita if they like it then I love it!

She got 3 kids..so what?!!! Nicole Murphy got 5 of them MF’s and still gettin men. I don’t think she’s the flyest thing walkin but someone does, obviously…

@93 Don’t come on here blasting on Chilli..She will never be out dated..and i’m pretty sure Chilli doesn’t give a fuck if Usher is getting married…WE Don’t either it’s all jokes so you stop taking this personal..i’m not Chilli but i’m a fan..plus she’s dating sexy ass Hill Harper..She don’t want Usher Swollen, Worn Out Dick, Tired Ass..Trust if she wanted him she can get him back..Never Outdated..Tameka is..but anyway Straight Jack is not her first single..you saying her music suck now but you probably will be the man one bumping her music when the real single comes out..i’m out this bitch peace

@93 Chilli will neva be outdated..i’m pretty sure she can care less if usher getting married cuz i don’t(it’s about damn time)..Chilli’s dating Hill harper sexy ass. She could care less about Usher Swollen,Worn out Groupies D***,Tired Ass..Usher & tameka are companions(they both are not loyal)..plus that Straight Jack song from chilli is hot and that’s not her first single..stop hatin..I don’t know why everybody’s bringing her name back in Circus anyway…It’s been three years already who thinks about the ex’s(by that time your can’t even remember their damn name) just becuz their are Star’s she is back in this Circle(poor Chilli)

may bad i thought my comment didn’t go through but i think you need to read it twice so you can UNDERSTAND

WHAT IS SHE 45? I CANT STAND URRRSHER, SO I HOPE THIS MARRIAGE ENDS LIKE ALL THE OTHER HOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES END. IN COURT

What is there to say about this…

He will cheat on her too lol
Dang I actually had a chance because she is not goodlooking.
He definitely likes them old lol.

I am happy for Usher. If Tameka is what he likes than that is fine. I have never been a real big fan of Usher anyway. But I hope he is shappy and I hope she is in this for the long run. Because once a cheater always a cheater. If she left her husband for him than I dont know what makes him think she wont doo him like that ans if he cheated on Chilli I dont know what makes her think that he wont do it again. but anyway if Usher likes her than there is nothing that we can say or do to change the way he feels. And why are ppl getting on Bashyboo. She is a pretty girl. I saw that someone made a comment about her being big. What does that have to do with it? God made everyone of us different. Just because you may wear a size 2 doesnt mean that someone else should wear it also.

shit, he should of married chili, this woman look someones dentures ran out of someones mouth…

why is it so hard for black people to be happy for one another…i guess some shit never changes

President speaking: Looks like the battle has just begun ladies and gentlemen. The first secret weapon has just been launched Jhonnetta Patton. As indicated in the news Young Black and Fabolous.com. Let the War begin. I’m counting on you Jhonnetta bring out target back home safely if possible. Godspeed.

(laughing)

LMAO…ANON

i think the woman looks good for age. we don’t know how she makes him feel for him to get engaged to her. anyway, I am happy she is a full blown black woman. home is where the heart is! LOL

@bernie.. that’s racist you don’t choose to be mixed..majority of the whole world is so what..i don’t care if tameka is full blown black women it doesn’t matter..people are so color struck in america..you just don’t leave your husband (unless for a good reason) & Kids for a well-known Cheater

marriage comes with a lot of responsibilty..hollywood marriages don’t last why?cuz they always rush to get with someone just to say they are married…plus i don’t get when they say one year is a long term relationship in hollywood..you might as well say 3 weeks is too.cuz dumb ass Nick Cannon eloped without a pre-nup..anyways i hope they lived together first cuz that’s when u see the real person..trust me i know…i’m engaged i’ve been with him for 5 years we just started living together for about 8 months..trust me if it wasn’t for my sense of humor..we would kill each other..just playing about the kill each other part(I THINK)..but we you live together you see the reality of some shit..

She must have some good puss

Let us pray..Father i don’t know what usher has done…but let it be known that if he marry’s this broad..There will be another Hurricane Diaster..So Father i’m begging you ‘Knock Some Sense” in this “Fool’ before the Wedding comes or better yet the Divorce.Amen..LMAO

Goodness! Some folks on here are getting so worked up over the lives of people they will never actually meet.

I don’t think she is ugly. It takes more then just good looks to get a man and keep a man. “Charm and Beauty are Fleeting”. After all of this have left you have to have Substance the main ingredient that is going to keep you on the top of his list and always on his mind and always in his heart.

It’s nice to be pretty and all but you have to have more then just looks, a nice car, a nice house, and a job to make a man Fall Deeply and Madly in Love With You! You can have a man Love you so Deeply that it makes him sick!

they should be ashamed 4 this she no good she just want that money and usher want a mother 4 a wife because she just to old. what kind of person would leave 3 lovly kids and an husband that not right and women are suppose to be the smart one dont get me wrong im a ladie 2 but she should no better it just a point were u HAVE! to stop and usher needs 2 cover up his face 4 this outrageous mess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

she must have some good sex, must be from all her experience because she is UGLY! i know he’s probably heard it several times-what type of job does she have, looks like groupie material to me. she know he has no love for her that’s just rebound from Chili-he needs to go back and get his real love.

President speaking:It’s time to put our votes in.

1. Will usher make it to the Altar

2. What color wedding dress Ol Pigeon I mean Tameka should wear (i vote for black or navy blue)

3. How long will it be before the Divorce comes

I’m just cracking some jokes..Congrats to them(I think)

IMPORTANT MESSAGE TO YOU SO-CALLED FANS:
This is comment from a friend of both Usher and Tameka. Please leave them alone, they are happy and in complete bliss. Tameka is not competing with anyone and know one knows what the future may hold, tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Usher is more mature than all of you give him credit for and he is in love with her. Im sorry that you are all disappointed in his choice, but thats who he wants to be with. You guys all have wrong stories in your heads about them and are thinking way off base. His ex women are nice girls but not for him and I’m sure theyre happy in their lives too. If not they should work on it. He is a smart man and knows what he wants. Usher’s fans should be happy that he’s happy and has found and filled the void he had. If his simple minded fans wanna go then “poof kick rocks” and the real Usher fans will stand up and have more room to enjoy him. Little girls grow up and know that there wasn’t a chance anyway. You were NEVA an option and big girls applaud his growth. I’m a man and have to commend him on making such a big step. He’s welcoming new blessings. Fans dont believe the souped up press stories about beef with his mom and girl- not true at all. Sells papers though. She’s a super woman, great mom, friend and sorry ladies she’s his and he is hers. Follow his music not his love life and be the real fans you claim to be. I wish the brother luck. The news stories are false and you haven’t heard anything from him or his mom, don’t believe the lies. She does not have to fit your standards, and never would because there’s so many of you all with different opinions of what he should be doing or who with. This is silly, let that man be in love and not have to hear this disappointing feedback from his so-called fans.
This is so mean spirited and ridiculous, he is a human and so is she, why would you all be so cold and disrespectful. Think of him when you are making these comments. Usher live your life and you don’t owe your life to everyone and can’t please everybody. Love is beautiful and hard to find. Live

Does anyone know her ex husband, this is retarded. He mighta been the worst guy ever. How can you all say shes bad for leaving, knowing how many guys are, he could have been awful. I doubt Ursher was the reason. you are just making stories up from old news. They all had her name wrong too, her ex husband was prolly a big ho or mean. There mighta been tons of reason to bounce. I dont believe the left the kids part thats extra juice for the hype.

isn’t this is stylist from the Yeah video. If so it’s more than likely a case of her working with him closely for so long that they fell for each other. And if her husband was already in her ear accusing her of cheating, she probably decided to go for it. We don’t know what their deal is. I just hope that something positive can come out of this relationship. It’s not all Usher’s fault that he has been so romantically challenged. His first sexual experience was forced on him by some stripper Diddy set up for him at age 16. He probably has so emotional damage or something.

OH LORD.

I TRULY HOPE this is just a RUMOR.

OMG she looks like a man!!!!!!

I agree with someone above. If this girl was light skinned there wouldn’t be so much drama about her being older or having a kid. I’m glad that an entertainer is trying to settle down and not be playas in their damn 30s and 40s like P.Diddy. Is he ever gonna stop talking about J.Ho and marry Kim? I will say that it is FOUL that she left her husband with three kids to be with someone else.

YEAH..Usher & Tameka

LET BURN…Haters

Confessions…He’s getting Married (So What)

His Boo…Tameka

Ending it as..”Lovers & Friends”

LOL

WELL FOR ALL OF YOU THAT ARE UPSET, DON’T BE CAUSE I DON’T BELIEVE ITS GONNA LAST. USHER IS CONFIDENT BUT HE ALSO INSECURE AND I BELIEVE THATS PART REASON WHY HE ALWAYS IN A RELATIONSHIP. HE HAS TO HAVE SOMEONE ON HIS ARM AND TAMEKA WAS THERE SO HE TOOK LIKING TO HER. AS SOON AS SOMEONE BETTER COMES ALONG, HE GONNA DROP HER AND SHE’LL BE YESTERDAYS NEWS, SO I HOPE SHE ENJOYS HER 10 MINUTES OF FAME.

@Da Truth..here is my vote

1. She gon ride his @ss down the Aisle.

2. Black ain’t good enough; Navy blue!

3. She’s in her prime, so I say… 3-4 years.

Look at how long Whitney had Bobby, or did Bobby have Whitney?

LOL!!!

The marriage will never happen. I’d just like to calm everyone down because I know it’s quite disturbing to his fans. The truth is, he’s looking for a way out of all of this madness as we speak. He’s not happy and is going to break it off before it goes any further.

Signed
A credible Inside source

congrats usher do your thing…i iwsh him the best and his new bride to be…yall need to stop judging and get yall’s acts togehter…jealousy is a killer. i am glad i am loved!!!!

I was just wondering is that the same 10 karat ring he proposed with that he was going to give Chill a while back?

can i say PRENUP anyone

I heard this dumb dj on Hot92Jams, in L.A. say, that Usher is dumb for marrying a woman with three children. Boy, when you are in love, it don’t matter. And who knows, Usher could be impotent, to the point he can’t make babies.
Let the man be with whom he wants. Just talked to a partner at the gym the other day whose been happily married to a lady with two children for tweleve years, and he raised them as if they were his own.

@Shag.. I agree it doesn’t matter about the kids..but the situation is just ugly

Usher gave up Chilli for that, is you serious, why? What was wrong with Chilli. Beautiful, successful, faithful, down to earth, single not married only one kid. Chilli was beautiful inside and out. Ever since they broke up Usher has not been the same humble man that I’ve seen of him. To cheat on Chilli with the very same woman and propose to her seems ludicrous. I could understand why his mother isn’t too happy with their so called relationship. Not to mention he cheated on other women with the very same one, what happiness is there in that? What makes Tameka sure that Usher is going to stay faithful with her if their whole relationship was based on a lie and hurting other people in the process. No Usher I’m gonna keep it real even though I’m a fan. This is not a beautiful couple this is a sad couple. Mmm Mmm Mmm. To me Usher lost his swagger I not feeling these two at all. One more question before I go. Where is Usher’s mother what does she have to say about this mockery of an engagement. The lady in question has yet to finalize her divorce? WTF!

Usher and Tameka are both milking the media. She is trying to launch a clothing line. And Usher needs attention away from his gayness and towards his new album. Its that simple. Welcome to hollywood

Well if they make eachother happy that’s all that matters.

ha @ “long time” girlfriend.
I heard they were only together for
3 weeks. then they went to get married in Vegas.
lmao…get married after 3 weeks on knowing a person
you know damn well in 3 weeks we gon hear about the divorce. just wait.

oops wrong story, i thought this was about Nick Cannon. rofl

I am a designer and have known Tameka for 6 years, she is indeed creating a line of clothes, but does not need b.s to help promote DRAMA to succeed that is so far fetched what Kim said. I do not like the things that are being said about this exceptional person. I hate the minds of the people who are this negative, especially without knowing her or her great personality. I clearly see why Usher would love such a woman, beautiful features, not typical style, outstanding personality, there’s no one like her. He’s a great guy and the totally complement each other. I wish them the very best in life. They both are so extremely talented and no further introduction. Be positive people the World is bad enough.

Ursh is crazy…that chick ain’t gonna give him no kids…LMBAO

Although I guess she’s the only woman to tolorate his down low ways….

Ok, I was reading everyone’s post and I couldn’t help but rush through (which I did not get to read all the posts) to post something myself. First of all, you guys need to stop saying he should’ve married Chilli or stayed with Chilli. You guys don’t know how their relationship was. How dare you try to tell someone else who they should be with and to base it on looks is just down right ignorant.

Also, there seems like a lot of hate in the posts. Why hate, congratulate!!! Once again like I have said, this is their life. You all need to stop it with the predictions, assumptions and bashing. MIND YOUR LIFE!!!!!

they are a good looking couple.

I like him and chilli much better

Shout out to my girl ms white way to put these pwnb people in their place. just in case a lot of you are stuck on those letters i’ll break it down for you.It means people with no business,Its to many loose mouth people out here in this world with mouth running like a bad case of diarrhea. Now it time to grab a bottle of shut the fuck up and let these two people go on with their lives. I mean like my girl says these are two wonderful people who happen to have found love do they really need anybody to say it’s okay as to what the hell they choose to do with their life. I also have know Tameka aka (Ms Raymond if you are nosey) and had the chance to meet usher they are two wonderful people who happen to have fallen in love. why should anyone care when,how,why it happen so leave it alone. I just want to know why someone would think that she look like a man and usher is ugly. Tameka for the person that think you look like a man my friend be happy for her/him because now you know by them looking at your picture you can send that person to sleep with a smile on their face because obviously they want their mate to look like you. And for Her/him that think usher is fat are ugly either they want to look like him are want someone in their life like him. treat these unknow virus with two glasses of hater aid. or two scoops of kiss are ass what ever make them happy. Ms white you just gave great advice to a group of GED people wait before you speak. GED stands for GETTO EDUCATED DUMMIES. because anybody that spend their life on the internet tracking down someone else life got to be someone with too much time on thier hands.Warning This Can Be A Hazard To Your Life you can a bad case of slap yourself in the face. Tameka and Usher good luck from the big oakland. Just follow your hearts and not they way people think of you two.

I can’t resist commenting I just came from watching the E news Post Oscars shouts out to J-Hud. Is Tameka’s Publicist gonna kill us all now? 12:00 in the morning and still typing away. Damn looks we got to you. (on the floor dying of laughter)

I can’t resist commenting I just came from watching the E news Post Oscars shouts out to J-Hud. Is Tameka’s Publicist gonna kill us all now? 12:00 in the morning and still typing away. Damn looks like we got to you. (on the floor dying of laughter)

When I heard the news that Usher is engaged to Tameka, it broke my heart Im like this cannot be but I guess it is for real..
Ohhh he better be happy with this because Im sure not!!
I am as well really upset he definately does not have no taste in women! And shes older Usher should be getting with women that are younger not older, thats the way it has bin for centuries.
She looks like a car wreck.. and as well if I dont mind saying, she looks like she has gotten numerous of plastic surgery. Probably to hide the fact that she looks so much like a man!!
That is what I got to say.. and I saw the pictures of him in the water with her… And he seriously has gained weight and now he just disgusts me.

Upset, you really need to seek therapy. You comments are so elementry. Your family should be embarrased by you. Its ridiculous to think that you can not recognize natural beauty. I guess Lil Kim, and Vivica look real good to you. Thats what a face looks like that has had numerous plastic surgery. I just hope that you are taking care of yourself, so when you get to be 30+ you will look better than you did at 20. Its ok to be upset (disgusted) becuz maybe you had plans to be with Usher yourself, but its not ok to bash Ms. Foster becuz she is the object of Usher’s desire. Get a grip. Breath a little. You too will find love, and hopefully that person will love you for you, flaws and all.

Its really very sad that many can/will condemn Usher for who he chooses to love as opposed to his talents that made us love him in the first place.

Your whole post is so idiotic that I feel shame for even responding. As I said when I opened this post… seek thereapy. Here is the number of a good psychiatry (510)339-1081. Dr. Chan… Doctor of:
Genaral Psychiatry
Psychotherapy
Self Healing
I know that he has room for new patients. All you have to do is take that first step.

Health and Happiness always,
Ms Gee from the Big OAK

You still talking about this Usher. Sweetie let tell you a secret. (Whispering) I don’t think anybody cares anymore. (laughing) You still commenting, so it lets me know you’re still pissed. (on the floor dying of laughter) That’s makes me very happy. Now remember if you comment again you gonna be ashamed of yourself for responding. And that makes me happy again. And what would that make you idiotic for responding to me. I’ll be waiting.