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RUMOR: USHER ENGAGED TO LONG TIME GIRLFRIEND TAMEKA FOSTER?

Thursday, February 22, 2007

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Usher and Tameka last month at the Trumpet Awards

Word is, on Valentine’s Day, Usher asked his longtime girlfriend Tameka Foster for her hand in marriage. The mother of 3, was given a 10 carat diamond ring and is said to be already planning the wedding.

The two who have been popular on black gossip blogs, first were outed back in December of ‘05 after pictures of them on vacationing in St. Barts hit the net. I’m sure you all remember, she was married and Usher’s mama didn’t like her…etc…etc.

usherforever.com has a snippet of Jawn Murray talking about the rumor on the Tom Joyner morning show. Click here to listen..

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1.

blk dds

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

She’ll take his money and leave him.

He should know better than to mess with an older woman.

2.

Wisdom Body

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

he likes them old and w/kids

3.

honeylove86

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

damn 10kt, but she ought to shame of herself for leaving her husbands and children like that. that’s messed up. i wish them the best of luck, but good things don’t come from relationships like that

4.

honeylove86

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

ought to be shame and husband(not husbands) i meant.

5.

Queen Nefertiti

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

number 5 yeaaaa

6.

Queen Nefertiti

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

HoneyLove, where can i get that picture? i so luv it

7.

FLORIDA ORANGE

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

If she’ll leave her husbband and babies for a man, he should already know that she has no morals.

8.

Natural Mystic

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

My oh My, what is it about this woman?
Anyone got a pic of her w/ a ring?

9.

honeylove86

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

go to this website http://www.itsablackthang.com and go to artwork, it’s by WAK

10.

FLORIDA ORANGE

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

^^^^ My mistake husband

11.

Melissa

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

not a good look for usher

12.

RnB LIFEFAN

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I don’t know… let’s find more info about this.

13.

Queen Nefertiti

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Older woman with 3kids: at least they are from the same daddy.
10 CARAT RING : ching, ching!!
Not having to worry bout child support and living the life: PRICELESS!! LOL

congrats to them. I really dont think she’s that old, cuse Usher is what, 28 and she’s 37? 3 kids though? to each his own.

Usher looks like he’s gained some weight. u what they say, the luving must be good.

14.

Queen Nefertiti

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

@#9 thanks.

15.

hatetheoverrated

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

has any1 else noticed that usher looks like a slightly slimmer version of Ruben Studdard

good luck to usher and his miss/mrs, they’ll need luck. lol no one knows tamekas situation for all we know her husband could have been unfaithful/or abusive. i still think usher could do better tho (i.e. chilli from TLC)

16.

moehoney

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

nooooooooo!

17.

Nycol

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

ill I hope not she is an old Hag

18.

Jamyra

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I think Usher can do much better. Is just me do she look like a man? A whole mess she is!!!

19.

Cher

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I don’t know. Normally when your momma tells you NO about a certain person she is right. Playas recognize playas. And Usher momma thinks Tamika is looking a little familiar!

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING! THAT’S THE PROBLEM NOW! TOO MANY PEOPLE HAVE LOST THEIR MORALS OVER MONEY! THE FUTURE IS STARTING TO LOOK SAD AND THE WORST IS YET TO COME.

20.

1finedyme

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I THINK THEY LOOK GENUINELY HAPPY! IT’S NORMALLY THE COUPLES THAT EVRYONE THINKS SHOULDN’T BE TOGETHER THAT END UP TOGETHER FOR ALONG TIME! WE NEED TO LEARN NOT TO BE SO JUDGEMENTAL UNTIL WE KNOW THE WHOLE STORY ABOUT HER AND HER EX AND IF THEY WERE EVEN STILL TOGETHER WHEN SHE GOT WITH USHER. I KNOW ALOT OF COUPLES THAT WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED BUT ON THE VERGE OF GETTIG A DIVORCE AND BOTH WERE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE. IT JUST PUT HER IN THE SPOTLIGHT BECAUSE OF WHO USHER WAS.

21.

LOVE

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

What makes me think she wont cheat on him like she did her husband? Once a cheater, always a cheater!

22.

Coko

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

LMAO@take the money and leave…PRE-NUP BOO BOO! He cheated before…she cheated…so…what’s your point? LMAO

23.

txsupercutie

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

They obviously make eachother happy so… more power to them!

24.

BashyBoo

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I DONT CARE FOR USHER SO THATS HIS PROBLEM AND SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN BABY A MAAAAANNN…

25.

TeTe

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

congrats to them but they dont make a cute couple.he could’ve stayed with chili….i dont know as long as they’re happy..

26.

Quietstorm

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I didn’t realize two guys could marry each other..LOL. Just playing. She seems to make him really happy so i’m happy for him but I have a question. How does everyone know she left her husband for Ursh. Maybe the marriage was already in trouble. Maybe she was already thinking of leaving. It could only be an upgrade on her part.

27.

keisheloca

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Bashyboo your not so hot either big mama…….. moving on………. I dont understand the attraction to her but if he likes it then good for him. Even tho that mess wont last.

28.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

So Usher can marry this manly looking heffa…but he couldn’t marry Chilli!! WTF??????? Chilli need to pull a Britney Spears on his ass and fuck his porsche up.

29.

get even

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

CODE RED! CODE RED! RED ALERT!
President speaking: Fans of Usher world this is a state of emergency! There is a threat to our world, Tameka. We as fans can’t allow this to happen. So therefore we have to pull all stops on this threat. We cannot afford to lose Usher. So therefore we have a plan.

Troops/Soldiers: James aka little brother, Keith aka bestfriend, Elijah aka bodygaurd, Diddy aka Keep it real, Jermaine Dupri aka longtime producer and friend, Ryan Glover aka Tameka’s husband don’t sign the papers.

Assignment: Knock some sense into Usher. Go get him. Bring him safe soldiers have a safe journey.

Secret Weapons/Atomic Bomb: J-Pat aka mother/manager don’t approve of Tameka, Fans of the World aka Fans of Usher we hate this bitch. If that doesn’t work than hand to hand combat going all out: Chilli aka true love Come GET YOUR MAN TAKE THIS BITCH OUT!

President: Good Luck soldiers and may God be with you. Bring our target back home. HOO HA!

(HA! HA!)

30.

Tam

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

*cracking up @ #2* lol

But WAIT…I’m confused:

1. I thought that Usher’s girlfriend was the tall light skinned model…When did that relationship end?

2. I’ve never seen or heard of this chick before. I saw 1 pic of her before and thought that she was his assistant or stylest or something.

3. CONGRATS to them. Usher is setting the stage for the 25 & older black male population to get thier “grown” man on.

31.

DAMNIT GINA...

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

DAMN Not another one….first my Nelly now Usher. I don’t even know why I’m so jealous about Usher cause he looks like a Troll but the way he carries himself makes me love him so.

32.

An

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I want to say congratulations but just can’t. She left her husband for another man. What makes him think she ain’t going to dog him? Dummy. They deserve each other.

33.

ms_mac

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

At least he didn’t knock her up first.

34.

DD

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Is that Chilli in the back ground? (lol)

35.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

no, for real, LET THE HATERATION begin in the ring (ding, ding, ding) cuz I am truly hatin!!! Usher still look like a troll but I feel for my girl, Chilli. Chilli aka Rozonda Thomas has not been the same since Usher put her through that shit, and now he gonna marry a tranny heffa with THREE KIDS..did you hear me..3 KIDS! Hell to the NAW. I’m revoking my membership at the Usher fan club.

36.

UB

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

It obvious she is his “beard”. She is old w/ 3 kids. If that isnt a coverup I dont know what is. Congrats anyway.

37.

mai03

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Whatever.

38.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

This woman looks like RuPaul. He went from Chilli to RuPaul????????? Downgrade

39.

AreYouSerious?

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

That’s cute…the dude finally is settling down….

Ew, everyone is getting old…

Beyonce is going to be half way to thirty this year…Is that why Jay made that song? (30 is the new 20)

40.

Genesisbaby

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Ummm and why can’t an older women with 3 kids date someone who is younger than her and who has dough…PUHLEEEEAZE if it were the other way around nobody would think anything of it….I say gone girl work that shit on him cause he is lovin it whateva it is.

41.

alicia freeze

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

her new name for 07- ZZ-TOP….she must be brainin him right or somem cuz he coulda picked any babymama wit status and good head game to wife up real quick. but not just anybody wanna be danglin on his arm fakin like “Gal” Reynolds.

42.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Genesisbaby, are you 42 or something? It’s my opinion that’s all.

Chilli was also older; she was 9 years older than Usher. But she didn’t leave a “husband” for him and she certainly wasn’t putting three kids through that “Stella gettin her groove back” nonsense. Chilli had one babyson, remember. And she was single. Chilli was class–this woman is TRASH.

43.

Genesisbaby

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

No baby I am 25 and by the way no one stays the same age forever!

44.

Coko

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Who feel bad for Chilli? She ain’t thinkin about this nigga! LOL They clownin this chick for bein married with 3 kids, but shyt, for everyone that is clownin, some broad is mad because she can’t have Usher. If it was Reggie Bush and the chick was ugly or even fly..there would STILL b hate..and i don’t think he that damn fine!

45.

SlimKim

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Poor Usher! Always with these old women. What does he want with some old, already married mother of 3 children?? She’s up there cheating on her husband with him…What makes Usher think she won’t do that do him too?? Plus, she is not attractive!!

46.

get even

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

@44 i Co- Sign to that Chilli could care less about this bull shit(it’s been three years anyway since they broke up)plus doesn’t she date sexy ass Hill Harper..And As For as Usher situation he needs to “LET IT BURN” cuz i know if they do make it to the altar it might “BURN” LOL

47.

Chanté

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

1. She’s older than Usher, and? Demi Moore is older than Ashton and they are perfect for each other.

2. She has three kids, and? Demi Moore has kids and her marriage works.

3. “Usher shouldn’t have left Chilli, Chilli looks better”, and? IS USHER A “10″? Is he a Blair Underwood or a Boris Kodjoe? That’s what I was thinking. I guess she’s the one who compliments him, so don’t get it twisted. AND for the information, He didn’t left Chilli, Chilli broke up with him because he cheated.

4. When he dated Chilli everyone was saying “Oh she’s too old and with a child, and she’s a HAS BEEN”, when he was with the Model “OH SHE’S TOO TALL FOR HIM”, now that he’s with this woman “Oh he left Chilli for this?” People STILL FIND SOMETHING TO SAY. Had he been engaged to a white chick all hell would have broken loose, talking about “sellout this sellout that”.

Usher is GROWN ENOUGH to date who he wants, this woman is GROWN ENOUGH to date who she wants. If he doesn’t have a problem with her having 3 children, then I DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT EITHER!

48.

Stank

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

He just wants to run around here smelling like that Wolf Puss*. Ha Ha Ha….

49.

Slim

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I wish them the best but I always hoped he would get back with Chili. I don’t want to hate, but they are a rather odd looking couple and I am always skeptical about relationships that start out with someone cheating. You all see what happened to Britney. Karma is a bitch.

50.

nette & eZ

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

…like i care. his not good looking anymore to me. the meats gone off.

51.

ATL

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Okay yall are talking like you know ALL the circumstances. First of all her husband was cheating on her (well known fact in the ATL). Also maybe they are happy! So what if she isn’t Hollywood’s vision of beauty. Not everyone wants to be with a size 0 chick that looks white. Let them enjoy their relationship. Chili was older than him as well and obviously he wasn’t that in love with her otherwise they would still be together.

52.

jmsimmsdjd

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I SAW USHER AND HIS GIRLFRIND @ SAKS IN VEGAS, AND SHE LOOKS HELLA UGLY. SHE LOOKS LIKE SHE COULD BE RELATED TO NEW YORK’S MOM; I REALLY HOPE THAT THEY ARE NOT ENGAGED.

53.

KinaKina

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

hahahahah @ 48

She must have some bomb ass p…..

54.

Reality Check

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

He wants to be a father of three kids. Ok! If that is what he wants.

55.

Reality Check

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Wait a minute does he realize that now his money is gone. He has to spend it on her and 3 children.

56.

Chanté

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

51. ATL said:

Okay yall are talking like you know ALL the circumstances. First of all her husband was cheating on her (well known fact in the ATL).

^^^^ interesting. so they were probably seperated when sha and Usher hooked up. i think it’s better to wait until the divorce is final but hey whatever floats their boat.

57.

HBIC

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

why are ppl comparing this girl to chili? chili’s pretty but that’s about it nothing special. same with this chick. guess he’s not into getting beautiful women. and 4 all u know this chick’s body could be hotter than chili’s. u don’t know but usher knows so let him decide what he likes

58.

lynn

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

How dumb is Usher. Chili had only one child.

This chick left her husband and 3 kids for him! He should have stayed with Chili!…

This is doomed!

59.

Queen Nefertiti

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

HoneyLove, the artwork on the site is greattttttt! I love it, love it, love it! As if my credit card isn’t maxed out…oh well.

thanks for recommending the site, it’s great.

60.

Tam

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Ouuu,

I know his ex girl friend, that model chick, is steaming right now. I just read that THEY broke up because she was pressuring him to marry her! Now he goes and gets enaged to this ol heffah. Hahah

61.

get even

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I know your not suppose to fight fire with fire but..If i was Ryan Glover i’ll get full custody and make her ass pay child support…he has enough evidence to win(world wide evidence)lol..USh needs to get his shit together..this is going to be on “Black Celebrities Dumbest Moments” LMAO

62.

ATL

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I agree you should wait until the divorce is final to start dating but sometimes a contested divorce can take years so should you be alone in the meantime? They seem happy so I’m happy for them. Also its not always about a pretty face…as you get older you will learn that. What looks good isn’t always good for you.

63.

Pisces82

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Uhh…NO COMMENT.

That Tameka looks like an upgraded version of DMX’x wife, though.

64.

Chanté

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

@ “ATL” I see what you’re saying.

WHY are people talking about Tameka’s “average beauty”? Once again, is USHER A “10″?? And once again, SHE compliments Usher like all of his girlfriends did, not the other way around.

65.

Joy B

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

BASHYBOO youre fat and are banned from Krispy Kreme per the surgeon general…. Im so HAPPY for these two! Shes hot forget any pictures, I have followed her career and I ABSOLUTELY love this girl. Face it they are real friends not some fake Hollywood romance. Good for him. and bout those MAN comments, shes got the littlest facial features and pretty hair, teeth and skin you guys are really hating. Let them be together and celebrate this. Now Billy (i mean Chili) was the man body, no chest (well only chest), small and a boy look with hair. Nice skin and hair, but you guys like her for her group and are fans, So what if she’s also 6 years older, thats his speed. I liked Tameka on tv and Im okay as long as my baby Usher is happy. The 10 CARATS shows he is and I saw those so cute sons of hers, he gotta love them too. go yall forget these haters. They are never loyal fans at all. Im loving the real couples not the staged fake ones.

66.

queshia

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Good for them being in Love is a wonderful thing everyone should experiance it.

67.

get even

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

@65 Chilli is a natural beauty..plus stop hating on women with little breast at least it’s hers..unlike most people who get breast implants..Chilli’s all natural so stop hatin.tameka & usher are companions becuz they are both well known cheater’s..they deserve each other…congrats

68.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Why are yall criticizing Bashy Boo–whom, by the way, is very attractive (referring to what I see on her avatar). Bashy Boo is right..the Tameka Foster chick look like a man, baby, a maaaan. She has a pretty chocolate complexion but she got Jay Leno’s chin. Thus, she looks like a man. In the words of Austin Powers: “I thought she was a man, baby!!!”

69.

SJUGGER

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

She has a career. I thought that she was his stylist or something minor like that. Anyhow, this little arrangement opps meant to say engagement will not last because if he’ll cheat to be with you he’ll cheat on you to be with someone else. All I can say is that you reap what you sow.

70.

H-Town Chic***

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I think they’re a cute a couple and like someone else said we don’t know the whole story.

71.

bmoreserious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I cosign with #67..Chilli is gorgeous, and not because of her hair..it’s due to her facial bone structure, her high cheekbones, among others. Breast size does not define beauty, in my opinion. Chilli won’t have titties saggin to the ground like this chick will

72.

Jolie

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

this is really interesting…

73.

Mel

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I’m sorry i’m one of the biggest Ush’s fans there is and this is not a good look at all ush…In my book, if he was going to choose a chick with 3 kids, and married, over chilli, he was better of choosing and ordinary girl someone that he can help…Not someone with kids…NOT A GOOD LOOK USH!

PS:An OFFICIAL DOWNGRADE…

USH#1Fan_Mel

74.

neyoDiCwasNICE

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

HAAAAAAAAAAAA ACCIDENT LOL

75.

QUINCY

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Damn it looks like that girl got hit with a ugly stick. What is he thinking? I saw some pictures (perezhilton.com) of him and girl in the ocean, it looked like usher put on some weight. He must be drunk and have a bad case of BEER GOGGLES.

76.

devilicious

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Wateva, congrats to them, next…..

77.

get even

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Poor Usher, Poor Chilli
the funniest thing Jawn Murray said was Chilli might show up and poor a bucket of chilli on them LMAO

78.

MS. GOTTABODY

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Damn Usher loves the older ladies she’s like 38 or so!!! They don’t look like they match well. Something is VERY OFF WITH THEM.

79.

somebody's post

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

President speaking: (Aaliyah song I MISS YOU playing in the background) Civilians, mothers, fathers, kids, soldiers of the world. We watch Usher grow from boy to man through the years. We saw the struggles of him fighting to get notice and onto to being one of our greatest entertainers of our generation. Watch how he and mother manage that beautiful relationship that they had. Watch how he and Chilli fell in love. But in the end had some casualties with his mistakes, we lost Chilli. But we forgave him when he laid his heart on that stage letting it burn. We’ve watched all of this happen, the ups and the down. But now you’re telling me to witness Usher making the biggest mistake in his life by marrying this broad? No ladies and gentlemen we refused to have another casualty in our hands. Dammit we lost Chilli I refused to lose Usher. Now dammit as president I’m putting my foot down on this one! If ya with me than yell HELL TO THE FU**ING NAW HOO RAH! ARE YOU WITH ME SOLDIERS?!!! HOO RAH! HOO RAH! HOO RAH! Spread the word let it be known that we don’t like this bitch! We ain’t going down without a fight! HOO RAH!

(laughing)

80.

Mel

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

LMFAO, ^ that is a good one lol…

81.

keenu

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Are we really believing this to be true. Did anyone get official word from Usher’s camp? I seriously doubt that they will get married even if they are engaged. If he loves her so much, why did he let Pam Anderson bite him on the ear last month? Constant disrespect is what he’s shown her according sources close to Tameka. This doesn’t add up.

82.

Such Magnificence

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

I wish he and Chilli could have made it work…as for this chick lets just say I’m not feelin it.

83.

sloane

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

whatever.

84.

Da Truth

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

i’m just in denial right now..but he’s promoting (tameka) i mean his album kind of early…Usher & beyounce do have something in common they both want all the spot light…this is suppose to Chill’s come back with her new album..I can just see how her interviews are going to be(poor Chilli)just don’t keep it real this time..Chilli just say your happy for them..then USher is gonna really feel sick.. He then put her back in a “CIRCLE”

85.

ms white from the OAK

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

You know what’s really sad? Most of the people on the blog don’t even know these people. I understand opinions are like ass holes… everyone has one. But black people please! Can we just be happy for them, or is that too much to ask?

I have had the pleasure of being in the company of both these fabulous people, and I can say without certainty that this is the real thing. Usher looks at Tameka with the kind of attentiveness that all men should look at the one they love with. I am glad he his being true to himself, and going for what he likes, and not adapting to the “Hollywood/Celebrity Way”… I’ll sleep with you, but I won’t marry you. At least this woman had respect enough for herself not to settle for that kind of relationship.

People tend to speak on things that they don’t anything about, and this blog is full of, I’m sure some intelligent sista’s and brothers, and some not so intelligent sista’s and brothers who have chosen to speak on something they know nothing about. How about taking the time to look at things objectively; Give this woman a chance. Have you ever considered that Ms. Foster’s marriage was not the best or healthiest situation for both her and her children, and did not provide them with a sense of well being? Have you ever considered that in order to save herself she had to leave the marriage? Have you ever considered that maybe, just maybe the man she is divorcing, the father of her children just might be an asshole, adulterer, abusive, or maybe he wanted out of the marriage. I don’t know for certain, but have you ever stopped to consider. Have you ever consider that even a woman with three kids is deserving of love, even from Usher. I have three too, and I am not married to my children’s father, but I am married to man who loves and respects me. Have you ever considered that Usher pursued used her because that’s his personal flavor? Have you ever considered there are much more serious things to worry about as opposed to whom Usher loves? Did you know that we are in the midst of a historical presidential campaign? We may have the first woman, or first black as president… That’s if we take the time to vote “BARACK OBAMA in 2008!” How about that, now that’s what we should be lightening up these blog pages with. Something positive… encouraging our sista’s and brother’s to “stand for something or die for nothing”. This whole thing with Ms Foster and Usher we are spending way too much time on it. For once black people prove the ney sayers wrong, and show them that we really do support our own. Does any of this matter? I’m just saying people, stop the madness.

What I know for sure is this… Tameka Foster is not ugly or manly looking. I’ve looked at the same pictures you have. Sometime the photographer catches her at a bad angle, but at least her poses are natural, and unrehearsed. I’ve seen a whole lot of celebs/women that we can call manly looking, and she is not one. Have you noticed in pictures her makeup is the bare minimum? I know because I am a make up artist, and I can tell she has great skin. Her complexion is pretty flawless, and she has a great smile. And so what if she is not Bey… who really gives a shit. Let’s give it a rest already.

Here’s something to ponder…(i know its a little deep but try if you can to get the point)

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.

We’re all meant to shine and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Nelson Mandel-Inauguration Speech

Lastly, You may write me down i history with your bitter, twisted lies. You may trod me in the very dirt, but still like dust, I’ll rise. Mayo Angelou

I say all of the above to say this. Life is so short, live yours to the fullest; encourage and allow others to do the same.

Health and Happiness always,
M from OAK

86.

littlemamajtb

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

#1 shut the fugg up, did u say that shyt when JayZ old azz started messin with Beyonce? hell naw, to many of ur dumbazzes think that is okay. Look how older Russell Simmons is than Kimora. For all u simple azz females who making comments, how many men date or marry much younger females? you don’t here men sayin that fool should be ashamed and u want hear a man say it.

87.

Britt

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

It aint always about money. Yall should be happy for him. She’s pretty! I just hope he aint gay or “bisexual” for real.

As long as its real and theyre both happy.

88.

Ayanna

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Rumor is that Usher has a STD anyways….Maybe that;s wht he’s Settlng for less..

89.

DavinaR

Thursday, February 22, 2007 /

Not a good look? You people are tuly haters and jealous of her. You say shes so ugly then why do you lonely bored celeb obsessed folk care? Let me give you a heads up, that man is so in love and happy right now theres nothing you can say.. also his mother is TOTALLY cool with them being engaged. You guys are believing each others rumors, this is comedy. He don’t like Chilli’s corny, 80’s dated ass and she probably stopped liking him NOW. The bottomline is he gave her 10 carats she didnt ask for them. He is clear and not being lead. Live that man alone, who cares what you miserable, lonely bloggers think?? You think he gives two shi@s?? I doubt it, and to all you hatas on her. Im sure she’s throwing up the finger… the ring finger that is. I’m proud of him and if he was faking he could fake with any younger, single, starlet, singer, actress, groupie, i’m sure, but this is real and yall are at home typing your hearts out and tearing your Usher posters down, while she’s balllllllllllin and in love. p.s they both have money so there’s no gold digging sorry.

90.

Keke

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Like someone said before…they deserve each other cause their both liars. Let Usher be that manly lookin heffa. Relationships that break ups other relationships never work. I have seen it for myself. Usher is the dumbest mofo I ever seen. When she get finished wipin’ him out for every got damn dime he has, it won’t be such a “fairytale” anymore. I hope that junk blows right back up in his face!

91.

anon

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Chilli outdated?!!! Did ya hear what this di** riding Tameka camp said? Oh HELL TO THE NAW I GOTTA TAKE YOU OUT!
First of all Tameka she look like man that could break u in half if u touch her. What the hell is going on with the eyebrows,look fake. I suspect that their permanent paint, painted on her plastic forhead. Speaking of forehead is that why she has her hair over the eye all the time. That forehead is so big and shiny Usher betta watch out she might blind you and give u a headbut.
Second of all Usher is in love with his mother or dyke? She so old and crusty Usher betta watch out judging from the way they kissed her fake teeth might fall into Usher’s mouth.
Third Davinar and Tameka must have came from the same prison camp cause thats big dyke Usher messing with. What the hell she be feeding Usher prison food? Usher face look bloated if you put a needle to his head it might pop. When he was with Chilli he was in shape. Now he’s with her he let himself go so she could feel better about her manly features.
Don’t mess with Chilli dyke. She may not be curvy but she more than make up for it with personality. And she a beautiful women. I’m done ya any body else have anything to say to this dyke say it. Cause I wanna hear. Usher playing himself. Chilli was right to leave your retarded ass Dumb Dumb Ditty!

92.

Nikki

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

If it’s true..that’s nice, good for them.

93.

DavinaR

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Anon? I mean Chilli is that you? talking about her personality? what do you know about her? You’re just a blogger that needs therapy you poor angry soul. Unless you’re really her in disguise. Chilli is outdated sorry, have you heard that new wack ass music? Honey get a life! I’m no Tameka lover but I don’t know none of these people, but its obvious you’re some “queen” or obsessed fan. Tameka don’t have to float your boat, but she must reallllllllly be floating his. I guess Ms Chilli didn’t. Usher does look a little heavy as he does always between albums, so it means he’s eating good and happy. He was 24 when dated Chilli thats been loooong over. he’s happy . Let them be. Youre so angry about what he’s doing and he does even know you exist dog that should make you think of how unimportant you are in the grand scheme of things he cares about. get some business Anon and other jealous folks.

94.

melisus

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Sorry but she looks like a man and I hope this is a rumor Usher can do much better.

95.

seabreeze

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

If you happy Usher, do you. I don’t like the double standards in life when it comes to age differences in dating. I have a brother, and I admit, I wouldn’t approve of him coming home with a ready made family, but when love steps in there is nothing you can do about it.
People are always going to find a reason to complain. I think we look at celebrities as “gods(ess)” at times and forget that they have experts making them look so fabulous (+surgery). So when we see what we consider an average looking chick (tameka), we clown her. Knowing damn well she could be (or look like) your sister, cousin, mom, homegirl, etc. What because she doesn’t fit the standard of “hollywood” black woman? Like I said, age, whatever, kids, Usher do you. It’s his life, his money, and his woman.

96.

Bubbles

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

good for them

97.

Ti

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Good for them like I said about Nick and Selita if they like it then I love it!

98.

Coko

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

She got 3 kids..so what?!!! Nicole Murphy got 5 of them MF’s and still gettin men. I don’t think she’s the flyest thing walkin but someone does, obviously…

99.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

@93 Don’t come on here blasting on Chilli..She will never be out dated..and i’m pretty sure Chilli doesn’t give a fuck if Usher is getting married…WE Don’t either it’s all jokes so you stop taking this personal..i’m not Chilli but i’m a fan..plus she’s dating sexy ass Hill Harper..She don’t want Usher Swollen, Worn Out Dick, Tired Ass..Trust if she wanted him she can get him back..Never Outdated..Tameka is..but anyway Straight Jack is not her first single..you saying her music suck now but you probably will be the man one bumping her music when the real single comes out..i’m out this bitch peace

100.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

@93 Chilli will neva be outdated..i’m pretty sure she can care less if usher getting married cuz i don’t(it’s about damn time)..Chilli’s dating Hill harper sexy ass. She could care less about Usher Swollen,Worn out Groupies D***,Tired Ass..Usher & tameka are companions(they both are not loyal)..plus that Straight Jack song from chilli is hot and that’s not her first single..stop hatin..I don’t know why everybody’s bringing her name back in Circus anyway…It’s been three years already who thinks about the ex’s(by that time your can’t even remember their damn name) just becuz their are Star’s she is back in this Circle(poor Chilli)

101.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

may bad i thought my comment didn’t go through but i think you need to read it twice so you can UNDERSTAND

102.

GLAMDIVA

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

WHAT IS SHE 45? I CANT STAND URRRSHER, SO I HOPE THIS MARRIAGE ENDS LIKE ALL THE OTHER HOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES END. IN COURT

103.

TheMastermind

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

What is there to say about this…

104.

LaQuandra

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

He will cheat on her too lol :)
Dang I actually had a chance because she is not goodlooking.
He definitely likes them old lol.

105.

Im_bossy601

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

I am happy for Usher. If Tameka is what he likes than that is fine. I have never been a real big fan of Usher anyway. But I hope he is shappy and I hope she is in this for the long run. Because once a cheater always a cheater. If she left her husband for him than I dont know what makes him think she wont doo him like that ans if he cheated on Chilli I dont know what makes her think that he wont do it again. but anyway if Usher likes her than there is nothing that we can say or do to change the way he feels. And why are ppl getting on Bashyboo. She is a pretty girl. I saw that someone made a comment about her being big. What does that have to do with it? God made everyone of us different. Just because you may wear a size 2 doesnt mean that someone else should wear it also.

106.

babyboss

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

shit, he should of married chili, this woman look someones dentures ran out of someones mouth…

107.

sharonda

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

why is it so hard for black people to be happy for one another…i guess some shit never changes

108.

Anon

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

President speaking: Looks like the battle has just begun ladies and gentlemen. The first secret weapon has just been launched Jhonnetta Patton. As indicated in the news Young Black and Fabolous.com. Let the War begin. I’m counting on you Jhonnetta bring out target back home safely if possible. Godspeed.

(laughing)

109.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

LMAO…ANON

110.

Bernie

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

i think the woman looks good for age. we don’t know how she makes him feel for him to get engaged to her. anyway, I am happy she is a full blown black woman. home is where the heart is! LOL

111.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

@bernie.. that’s racist you don’t choose to be mixed..majority of the whole world is so what..i don’t care if tameka is full blown black women it doesn’t matter..people are so color struck in america..you just don’t leave your husband (unless for a good reason) & Kids for a well-known Cheater

112.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

marriage comes with a lot of responsibilty..hollywood marriages don’t last why?cuz they always rush to get with someone just to say they are married…plus i don’t get when they say one year is a long term relationship in hollywood..you might as well say 3 weeks is too.cuz dumb ass Nick Cannon eloped without a pre-nup..anyways i hope they lived together first cuz that’s when u see the real person..trust me i know…i’m engaged i’ve been with him for 5 years we just started living together for about 8 months..trust me if it wasn’t for my sense of humor..we would kill each other..just playing about the kill each other part(I THINK)..but we you live together you see the reality of some shit..

113.

Tght

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

She must have some good puss

114.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Let us pray..Father i don’t know what usher has done…but let it be known that if he marry’s this broad..There will be another Hurricane Diaster..So Father i’m begging you ‘Knock Some Sense” in this “Fool’ before the Wedding comes or better yet the Divorce.Amen..LMAO

115.

Aria

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Goodness! Some folks on here are getting so worked up over the lives of people they will never actually meet.

116.

Cherie

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

I don’t think she is ugly. It takes more then just good looks to get a man and keep a man. “Charm and Beauty are Fleeting”. After all of this have left you have to have Substance the main ingredient that is going to keep you on the top of his list and always on his mind and always in his heart.

It’s nice to be pretty and all but you have to have more then just looks, a nice car, a nice house, and a job to make a man Fall Deeply and Madly in Love With You! You can have a man Love you so Deeply that it makes him sick!

117.

tyla

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

they should be ashamed 4 this she no good she just want that money and usher want a mother 4 a wife because she just to old. what kind of person would leave 3 lovly kids and an husband that not right and women are suppose to be the smart one dont get me wrong im a ladie 2 but she should no better it just a point were u HAVE! to stop and usher needs 2 cover up his face 4 this outrageous mess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

118.

locus

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

she must have some good sex, must be from all her experience because she is UGLY! i know he’s probably heard it several times-what type of job does she have, looks like groupie material to me. she know he has no love for her that’s just rebound from Chili-he needs to go back and get his real love.

119.

Da Truth

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

President speaking:It’s time to put our votes in.

1. Will usher make it to the Altar

2. What color wedding dress Ol Pigeon I mean Tameka should wear (i vote for black or navy blue)

3. How long will it be before the Divorce comes

I’m just cracking some jokes..Congrats to them(I think)

120.

Don Scan

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

IMPORTANT MESSAGE TO YOU SO-CALLED FANS:
This is comment from a friend of both Usher and Tameka. Please leave them alone, they are happy and in complete bliss. Tameka is not competing with anyone and know one knows what the future may hold, tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Usher is more mature than all of you give him credit for and he is in love with her. Im sorry that you are all disappointed in his choice, but thats who he wants to be with. You guys all have wrong stories in your heads about them and are thinking way off base. His ex women are nice girls but not for him and I’m sure theyre happy in their lives too. If not they should work on it. He is a smart man and knows what he wants. Usher’s fans should be happy that he’s happy and has found and filled the void he had. If his simple minded fans wanna go then “poof kick rocks” and the real Usher fans will stand up and have more room to enjoy him. Little girls grow up and know that there wasn’t a chance anyway. You were NEVA an option and big girls applaud his growth. I’m a man and have to commend him on making such a big step. He’s welcoming new blessings. Fans dont believe the souped up press stories about beef with his mom and girl- not true at all. Sells papers though. She’s a super woman, great mom, friend and sorry ladies she’s his and he is hers. Follow his music not his love life and be the real fans you claim to be. I wish the brother luck. The news stories are false and you haven’t heard anything from him or his mom, don’t believe the lies. She does not have to fit your standards, and never would because there’s so many of you all with different opinions of what he should be doing or who with. This is silly, let that man be in love and not have to hear this disappointing feedback from his so-called fans.
This is so mean spirited and ridiculous, he is a human and so is she, why would you all be so cold and disrespectful. Think of him when you are making these comments. Usher live your life and you don’t owe your life to everyone and can’t please everybody. Love is beautiful and hard to find. Live

121.

Marcusiane

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

Does anyone know her ex husband, this is retarded. He mighta been the worst guy ever. How can you all say shes bad for leaving, knowing how many guys are, he could have been awful. I doubt Ursher was the reason. you are just making stories up from old news. They all had her name wrong too, her ex husband was prolly a big ho or mean. There mighta been tons of reason to bounce. I dont believe the left the kids part thats extra juice for the hype.

122.

Tata

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

isn’t this is stylist from the Yeah video. If so it’s more than likely a case of her working with him closely for so long that they fell for each other. And if her husband was already in her ear accusing her of cheating, she probably decided to go for it. We don’t know what their deal is. I just hope that something positive can come out of this relationship. It’s not all Usher’s fault that he has been so romantically challenged. His first sexual experience was forced on him by some stripper Diddy set up for him at age 16. He probably has so emotional damage or something.

123.

tianni

Friday, February 23, 2007 /

OH LORD.

I TRULY HOPE this is just a RUMOR.

124.

ThisIsWhyImHott

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

OMG she looks like a man!!!!!!

125.

roodles

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

I agree with someone above. If this girl was light skinned there wouldn’t be so much drama about her being older or having a kid. I’m glad that an entertainer is trying to settle down and not be playas in their damn 30s and 40s like P.Diddy. Is he ever gonna stop talking about J.Ho and marry Kim? I will say that it is FOUL that she left her husband with three kids to be with someone else.

126.

Da Truth

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

YEAH..Usher & Tameka

LET BURN…Haters

Confessions…He’s getting Married (So What)

His Boo…Tameka

Ending it as..”Lovers & Friends”

LOL

127.

ANGELLA

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

WELL FOR ALL OF YOU THAT ARE UPSET, DON’T BE CAUSE I DON’T BELIEVE ITS GONNA LAST. USHER IS CONFIDENT BUT HE ALSO INSECURE AND I BELIEVE THATS PART REASON WHY HE ALWAYS IN A RELATIONSHIP. HE HAS TO HAVE SOMEONE ON HIS ARM AND TAMEKA WAS THERE SO HE TOOK LIKING TO HER. AS SOON AS SOMEONE BETTER COMES ALONG, HE GONNA DROP HER AND SHE’LL BE YESTERDAYS NEWS, SO I HOPE SHE ENJOYS HER 10 MINUTES OF FAME.

128.

deiz

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

@Da Truth..here is my vote

1. She gon ride his @ss down the Aisle.

2. Black ain’t good enough; Navy blue!

3. She’s in her prime, so I say… 3-4 years.

Look at how long Whitney had Bobby, or did Bobby have Whitney?

LOL!!!

129.

lisa

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

The marriage will never happen. I’d just like to calm everyone down because I know it’s quite disturbing to his fans. The truth is, he’s looking for a way out of all of this madness as we speak. He’s not happy and is going to break it off before it goes any further.

Signed
A credible Inside source

130.

pissedoffmotha

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

congrats usher do your thing…i iwsh him the best and his new bride to be…yall need to stop judging and get yall’s acts togehter…jealousy is a killer. i am glad i am loved!!!!

131.

deiz

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

I was just wondering is that the same 10 karat ring he proposed with that he was going to give Chill a while back?

132.

cutelilplaya16

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

can i say PRENUP anyone

133.

Shag

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

I heard this dumb dj on Hot92Jams, in L.A. say, that Usher is dumb for marrying a woman with three children. Boy, when you are in love, it don’t matter. And who knows, Usher could be impotent, to the point he can’t make babies.
Let the man be with whom he wants. Just talked to a partner at the gym the other day whose been happily married to a lady with two children for tweleve years, and he raised them as if they were his own.

134.

deiz

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

@Shag.. I agree it doesn’t matter about the kids..but the situation is just ugly

135.

keke

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

Usher gave up Chilli for that, is you serious, why? What was wrong with Chilli. Beautiful, successful, faithful, down to earth, single not married only one kid. Chilli was beautiful inside and out. Ever since they broke up Usher has not been the same humble man that I’ve seen of him. To cheat on Chilli with the very same woman and propose to her seems ludicrous. I could understand why his mother isn’t too happy with their so called relationship. Not to mention he cheated on other women with the very same one, what happiness is there in that? What makes Tameka sure that Usher is going to stay faithful with her if their whole relationship was based on a lie and hurting other people in the process. No Usher I’m gonna keep it real even though I’m a fan. This is not a beautiful couple this is a sad couple. Mmm Mmm Mmm. To me Usher lost his swagger I not feeling these two at all. One more question before I go. Where is Usher’s mother what does she have to say about this mockery of an engagement. The lady in question has yet to finalize her divorce? WTF!

136.

Kim

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

Usher and Tameka are both milking the media. She is trying to launch a clothing line. And Usher needs attention away from his gayness and towards his new album. Its that simple. Welcome to hollywood

137.

Kammy

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

Well if they make eachother happy that’s all that matters.

138.

kneegrow

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

ha @ “long time” girlfriend.
I heard they were only together for
3 weeks. then they went to get married in Vegas.
lmao…get married after 3 weeks on knowing a person
you know damn well in 3 weeks we gon hear about the divorce. just wait.

139.

kneegrow

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

oops wrong story, i thought this was about Nick Cannon. rofl

140.

Marc B

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

I am a designer and have known Tameka for 6 years, she is indeed creating a line of clothes, but does not need b.s to help promote DRAMA to succeed that is so far fetched what Kim said. I do not like the things that are being said about this exceptional person. I hate the minds of the people who are this negative, especially without knowing her or her great personality. I clearly see why Usher would love such a woman, beautiful features, not typical style, outstanding personality, there’s no one like her. He’s a great guy and the totally complement each other. I wish them the very best in life. They both are so extremely talented and no further introduction. Be positive people the World is bad enough.

141.

bout_dat

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

Ursh is crazy…that chick ain’t gonna give him no kids…LMBAO

Although I guess she’s the only woman to tolorate his down low ways….

142.

Ebo

Saturday, February 24, 2007 /

Ok, I was reading everyone’s post and I couldn’t help but rush through (which I did not get to read all the posts) to post something myself. First of all, you guys need to stop saying he should’ve married Chilli or stayed with Chilli. You guys don’t know how their relationship was. How dare you try to tell someone else who they should be with and to base it on looks is just down right ignorant.

Also, there seems like a lot of hate in the posts. Why hate, congratulate!!! Once again like I have said, this is their life. You all need to stop it with the predictions, assumptions and bashing. MIND YOUR LIFE!!!!!

143.

USP 4 Life PHILLY

Sunday, February 25, 2007 /

they are a good looking couple.

144.

me2

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

I like him and chilli much better

145.

MS GEE/ From the Big OAK

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

Shout out to my girl ms white way to put these pwnb people in their place. just in case a lot of you are stuck on those letters i’ll break it down for you.It means people with no business,Its to many loose mouth people out here in this world with mouth running like a bad case of diarrhea. Now it time to grab a bottle of shut the fuck up and let these two people go on with their lives. I mean like my girl says these are two wonderful people who happen to have found love do they really need anybody to say it’s okay as to what the hell they choose to do with their life. I also have know Tameka aka (Ms Raymond if you are nosey) and had the chance to meet usher they are two wonderful people who happen to have fallen in love. why should anyone care when,how,why it happen so leave it alone. I just want to know why someone would think that she look like a man and usher is ugly. Tameka for the person that think you look like a man my friend be happy for her/him because now you know by them looking at your picture you can send that person to sleep with a smile on their face because obviously they want their mate to look like you. And for Her/him that think usher is fat are ugly either they want to look like him are want someone in their life like him. treat these unknow virus with two glasses of hater aid. or two scoops of kiss are ass what ever make them happy. Ms white you just gave great advice to a group of GED people wait before you speak. GED stands for GETTO EDUCATED DUMMIES. because anybody that spend their life on the internet tracking down someone else life got to be someone with too much time on thier hands.Warning This Can Be A Hazard To Your Life you can a bad case of slap yourself in the face. Tameka and Usher good luck from the big oakland. Just follow your hearts and not they way people think of you two.

146.

anon

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

I can’t resist commenting I just came from watching the E news Post Oscars shouts out to J-Hud. Is Tameka’s Publicist gonna kill us all now? 12:00 in the morning and still typing away. Damn looks we got to you. (on the floor dying of laughter)

147.

anon

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

I can’t resist commenting I just came from watching the E news Post Oscars shouts out to J-Hud. Is Tameka’s Publicist gonna kill us all now? 12:00 in the morning and still typing away. Damn looks like we got to you. (on the floor dying of laughter)

148.

UpSeT

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

When I heard the news that Usher is engaged to Tameka, it broke my heart Im like this cannot be but I guess it is for real..
Ohhh he better be happy with this because Im sure not!!
I am as well really upset he definately does not have no taste in women! And shes older Usher should be getting with women that are younger not older, thats the way it has bin for centuries.
She looks like a car wreck.. and as well if I dont mind saying, she looks like she has gotten numerous of plastic surgery. Probably to hide the fact that she looks so much like a man!!
That is what I got to say.. and I saw the pictures of him in the water with her… And he seriously has gained weight and now he just disgusts me.

149.

MS GEE/ From the Big OAK

Monday, February 26, 2007 /

Upset, you really need to seek therapy. You comments are so elementry. Your family should be embarrased by you. Its ridiculous to think that you can not recognize natural beauty. I guess Lil Kim, and Vivica look real good to you. Thats what a face looks like that has had numerous plastic surgery. I just hope that you are taking care of yourself, so when you get to be 30+ you will look better than you did at 20. Its ok to be upset (disgusted) becuz maybe you had plans to be with Usher yourself, but its not ok to bash Ms. Foster becuz she is the object of Usher’s desire. Get a grip. Breath a little. You too will find love, and hopefully that person will love you for you, flaws and all.

Its really very sad that many can/will condemn Usher for who he chooses to love as opposed to his talents that made us love him in the first place.

Your whole post is so idiotic that I feel shame for even responding. As I said when I opened this post… seek thereapy. Here is the number of a good psychiatry (510)339-1081. Dr. Chan… Doctor of:
Genaral Psychiatry
Psychotherapy
Self Healing
I know that he has room for new patients. All you have to do is take that first step.

Health and Happiness always,
Ms Gee from the Big OAK

150.

anon

Tuesday, February 27, 2007 /

You still talking about this Usher. Sweetie let tell you a secret. (Whispering) I don’t think anybody cares anymore. (laughing) You still commenting, so it lets me know you’re still pissed. (on the floor dying of laughter) That’s makes me very happy. Now remember if you comment again you gonna be ashamed of yourself for responding. And that makes me happy again. And what would that make you idiotic for responding to me. I’ll be waiting.

151.

LOLO

Saturday, March 3, 2007 /

He’s betta off with Chilli…definitely not a good look.

152.

whatever

Sunday, March 11, 2007 /

if he wants to be with her then he can, they are in love, that is all that matters. She is pretty, and god knows that he is fiinne. so whatever, i like him being with a normal woman, rather than these super perfect women. It makes him seem more normal.

153.

Blah

Tuesday, March 20, 2007 /

Naw i think the reason he choose her is not completely cuz of her looks.. I bet he found that shes one of those women who aint after hez money n prolly :/ thats the only thing i can think of.. the other women he been wit prolly jus gold diggers.. anyways jus my opinon im outz

154.

BlessedQT

Friday, March 30, 2007 /

Oh my goodness. Why is the world stuck on looks? As people mature, they realize that there’s more to a person than their looks. Evidently, that’s what Usher did. People are making comments as if they know this woman personally. No one knows what her marital situation was when she met Usher. All they know is what tabloids wrote and the gossipers spoke. Non-celebrities do the same thing everyday and nobody judges them. Kids are a blessing from God and there’s somebody out there for everybody no matter how many children you have. And for all those who are thinking “She’s probably saying this because she’s ugly with a lot of kids.” You are WRONG. I am beautiful and wonderfully made and I have one son.

155.

Leslie Augustine

Friday, March 30, 2007 /

I think that she’s another mother figure for Usher — and his mother sees it and that’s why she’s so angry!
He’s just marrying his mother!!

156.

kkANDY sHEEN

Friday, March 30, 2007 /

Poor usher has made a horrible mistakea. It is not about this ladies looks. It is about the fact that lies and deceit brought them together. Another thing is that Usher is still young. Men should get married when they are in their 30’s. So, she thinks she is trapping him because he is still young and she can manipulate him and the situation, but what is going to happen is that he is going to mature one day. When this happens he will not want the marriage or her because his needs will change. Look at Whitney and Bobby. You see when one partner discovers how the other is using them then they will leave. Usher should have listen to mommy who knows this woman is using her kids and failed marriage as a sympathy ploy to milk the hell out Usher concerning his money. Too bad Usher will have to learn the hard way. This lady is a pro who is taking away a innocent young man’s life and she will have to pay for this one day. This relationship is doomed I hate to say. Nothing good comes out of lies. I give them 3 to 4 years to both see that they made a huge mistake!

157.

Tiffany

Friday, March 30, 2007 /

WELL-AT LEAST SHE IS BLACK! HE COULD HAVE WENT OUT AND GOT A WHITE GIRL!

158.

D2

Friday, March 30, 2007 /

BlessedQT, I feel you…

The majority of you base your opinion of this man and woman’s public relationship on LOOKS and looks alone. Is EVERYONE that superficial these days. Maybe that is the problem with marriages (60-70% of marriages end in divorce). Too many couples base their relationships on superficial things (money, looks, materials) rather than getting to know that person. How do any of you know if these two stimulate each other intellectually? Open your minds folks. everything is not and should not be based on looks and looks alone.

159.

Valarie A. C- Kansas City Kansas

Saturday, March 31, 2007 /

Look all I can say is protect your heartand fiances, trust your heart and pray.
Let Usher be himself. If he was born in 78′ he aint no baby. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And be happy for him, because no matter what he does, he will need his fans support.
So If you are a true fan, then say YEAH! otherwise leave that man alone. He has made his fans happy for years. Let him be happy.
I am a single black woman and I believe that all things can happen and I just 6 years older than Usher.

Usher if you get to read this please take care of your heart and finances so that you wont be devistated by the cons of your decisions.
GOD BLESS YOU U and keep being real.
And continue to laugh, love and live.

160.

MsT08

Sunday, April 1, 2007 /

They are a BEAUTIFUL BLACK couple!! I wish them well. As for chili: He cheated on her, she left him, and he has moved on. If she hasn’t then she should because it has been a couple of years now. It is amazing the response that he is receiving. I wonder how people would have responded if she would have been either white, or mexican, or from wives-r-us. I guess since she doesn’t have “the look” that is currently being pushed on Blacks then she is ugly. Now a days you have to be either non-black or mixed to be beautiful. If people have a problem with either her character or personality,etc. then that’s understandable. You see it in the videos all the time. Whenever my Nubian King and I scan through videos, we often wonder where have all the Black women gone? Even in the so called black magazines their “beauty of the week” are no longer Black. I guess the new message is: If you aren’t “light skinned” then you are ugly. Well I guess I shouldn’t say new message because it has been around for awhile now. You can’t be a Nubian Queen and beautiful. A lot of the NBA players, rappers, entertainers, etc. have falling for the propaganda. It’s now a crime to have a Black woman on your arm. Once you come up you got to make sure you have a non-black woman on your arm. It’s a sad state of affair. Well I am glad that Usher has a Beautiful Black woman on his arm!! More power to you usher!!!

161.

Spanish

Sunday, April 1, 2007 /

well my momma always says: what doesnt start right, dont end right.. and yeh she looks like a man, lil rough, she goes down hard..and black as tar .. Usher does look a lil chubby, u needa lay off them chitlinz!

162.

blusky100

Tuesday, April 3, 2007 /

Usher is just a young boy that got it laid on him by a pro and now he wants to marry it. As soon as he gets used to it he`ll come to his senses and a divorce will follow soon after

163.

Black Falcon

Tuesday, April 3, 2007 /

3 kids oh shit usher you have stepped in a piled of shit.This woman can not bring anything to the table.this marriage will not work.she is used goods. A MAN SHOULD RAISE HIS OWN KIDS.I DON’T GIVE A DAM WHAT ANYBODY SEZ.BAD MOVE USHER BAD MOVE.GET READY FOR BABY DADDY DRAMA

164.

Disappointed

Thursday, April 5, 2007 /

What Is This Foolishness. I Understand He’s In “LOVE” But I Mean Seriously If I Knew Usher Was Gonna Throw Away All His Beauty On Some Ugly, Old, Saggin-In-2-Years, Mom To 3 Then I Wouldn’t Have Wasted My Time Becoming A Loyal Fan.

165.

Disappointed

Thursday, April 5, 2007 /

Next Leading Story : Tameka Foster Pregnant With Usher Raymonds Baby. =[ What Is This World Coming To. He Better Make Sure He Dont Do That Because Then He Is Tied To Her For Life =[

166.

candice

Sunday, April 8, 2007 /

usher you need your ass whipped by ya mama.. Yo fiance look like she got a lot of baggage…. What are you tryin’ to do, replace ya mama????? She look like she tuck you and her damn kids in at night, and read all of ya’ll a bed time story………….

167.

Victoria

Monday, April 30, 2007 /

Im happy for him. After being such a playboy its good hes settling down. But I must say it is sad to think that such a fine piece of man is gonna be off the market lol

168.

dee dee boop

Tuesday, May 8, 2007 /

What kind of woman leaves her kids behind? damn money that important and yo marriage was that messed up to were you had to leave them!!

169.

jazz

Wednesday, May 16, 2007 /

dAMN CAN UShER hANdEl All hER dAMN kIDZ? SHiT BiTCH NEEdA GET hER TUbES TiDE.. bUT THATS NiCE hE f0UNd AN0THA 0lD hEAD SiNCE CHiLLie dUMPEd THAT ASS lMfA0

170.

Jimmyra

Wednesday, May 16, 2007 /

I hope Usher aint engaged to that man look b***h!! He to fine for that duck lookin’ 304 plus she have 3 kidz 304 set down!! Nasty 304!! Usher do better you to DAMN FINE!!

171.

keautti

Monday, May 21, 2007 /

u fine ass hell but not 2 say it in a mean jeoulse way ur 2 good 4 her j/k/ lol i still luv u 4 eva no matter wat so wich means no matter wat stupid shit u do i will always luv u

172.

DARK N LOVELY

Monday, May 28, 2007 /

BLACK LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THANG! HAPPY TO SEE HE CHOSE A SISTA!!!

173.

LEAH

Monday, May 28, 2007 /

SPANISH,
You sound really ignorant and jealous saying Usher’s fiancee is black as “tar”. So what if she’s dark skinned, Usher obviously loves it,as well as a lot of other men.

174.

Chelsea Pierz

Monday, May 28, 2007 /

Usher has never looked happier. They make a beautiful couple!!!!May God bless their marriage!!!

175.

SMURFETTE

Monday, May 28, 2007 /

Y’ALL NEED TO QUIT HATIN AND JUST BE HAPPY HE’S ENGAGED TO A BLACK WOMAN!! SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST NEVER SATISFIED!!!

176.

JUNIE

Monday, May 28, 2007 /

IN THE WORDS OF MY GIRL JADA PINKETT, “BLACK LOVE!”

177.

GREENLEA

Thursday, June 21, 2007 /

I get where #160 is coming from and I am a very light, fair-skinned beautiful black woman.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I see a beautiful black couple. I don’t know what other people see, but when in a relationship the only opinions that count are the man or woman in the relationship. The way Black men have become about women of different races it’s nice to see Usher with a pretty black woman. As a black woman I think we have to date anyone any man of any race whom treats us the way we like to be treated. That’s with love and respect, because the reality of the situation is that there is a shortage of black men, if they are not in jail, gay, or with women of different races who are we supposed to date. So, for me as a fair skinned beautiful black woman I get approached by men of all races, however it is nice to see that Usher is gorgeous black and marrying a beautiful black woman. They make a very attractive couple. That is the truth frankly speaking.

178.

Santana

Tuesday, June 26, 2007 /

I think usher should be wit me. He kno ilove em n care 4 em. But i guess her beauty is skin deep. Cuz i sure dnt see it on da outside 1 dats al ihave 2 say

179.

looks

Saturday, June 30, 2007 /

Chilli is average looking, so is this woman so what’s the problem? Comparing a midget with no boobs and big cheeked face with this manly chin woman is not fair. lol

180.

Tricey T

Monday, July 2, 2007 /

Never let a woman, tear you from your Mama, Ush!!!!!!

181.

BUBBLES

Thursday, July 19, 2007 /

To be honest I think usher should have stayed with chilli I think he just got caught and chilli found out so he just said hey, well she won’t take me back and she’’s pregnant guess I will settle, he know that’s a bad look for him but he have no choice. I’m sorry but she looks like a drag queen, chilli might be old but she look better than some 21 yr olds. Now she’s dating that fine brother on CNN NEWS early in the morning I say go for it.

182.

Jiana WIlliams

Tuesday, July 24, 2007 /

OMG! WOW USHER! Is she older than him because he looks a little to young for her! But it doesn’t matter of what is on the outside but on the inside! At least he’s smiling!

183.

ANGEL

Thursday, July 26, 2007 /

SHE LOOKS 2 OLD FOR HIM. SHE LOOKS LIKE A GOLD DIGGER AND I JUST HEARD THIS MORNING THAT HER X BOYFRIEND GOT SHOT DOWN AND SHE DID SOME TIME. USHER, WAKE UP AND DO BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!

184.

Ra-Ra

Thursday, July 26, 2007 /

What’s wrong with everybody? Why do people become so emotional about celebs they don’t even know? If Usher is happy, then what does it matter to everybody else. She’s just a regular looking woman, like probably half the women commenting on this, saying she’s not cute enough, looks like a man, and that they wanna date Usher. Half the women dissing her, probably aren’t that hot themselves. As, black women, let’s stop insulting and demeaning each other, please.

185.

Ra-Ra

Thursday, July 26, 2007 /

I think alot of the women on this site are actually lonely, without a man in their life, and very sad…and that’s why they care so much about who Usher is with. Because if you have your own man, who’s loving you good, you won’t have time to care about other people’s relationships.

186.

JUST

Tuesday, August 7, 2007 /

I swear she looks like M.J…

187.

JUST

Tuesday, August 7, 2007 /

And man… Usher is my favourite, but you know what they say - Attraction/love is not a choice.

188.

ushers numba wun fan

Friday, October 12, 2007 /

she’s ugly….old ..and i dont think its his baby!!!!! i hope wen da baby come he get a DNA test and da results come back hes not the father……he shouldnt be with her!!!!!!!!!……..

189.

TIESHA

Saturday, December 8, 2007 /

she look a hot MESS usher you should have stayed with CHILI

190.

Renita37

Sunday, February 3, 2008 /

Black people are their own worst enemy. Usher is a man and knows what he wants if he likes chocolate good for him, it is sweet! Ignorance is taught and black is beautiful in every shade. She looks like a black barbie, stop hating! So what she is 36 and has three kids, many couples have kids from previous relationships, she looks good for her age, if she was very light skinned she would be beautiful, dont be so shallow ! Black people need to be happy for one another. We’re the only race that downs one another, grow up!

191.

jesse

Tuesday, February 5, 2008 /

THAT AINT HIS BABY SHE KNOWS IT AND SO DOES HE…THE TRUTH WILL SOON HIT THE FAN AND SHE WILL HAVE ANOTHER FRAUD CASE AND HE WILL BE FREE FOR HIS REAL PRINCESS…STAY TUNED….OLD GIRL GOTS TO GO….

192.

MAC

Monday, April 7, 2008 /

This chick is not cute! Usher can have any women in the world and he picks that! Come on naw come on naw!

193.

brt

Tuesday, April 29, 2008 /

uuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh,she looks like a dood

194.

Brittny Sutton

Thursday, May 22, 2008 /

HEY USHER I JUST LOVE YOUR MUSIC AND YOUR BODY.. YOU ARE SO HOTT

195.

Brittny Sutton

Thursday, May 22, 2008 /

HEY YOU IS HOT AND SEXY USHER WHEN YOU COMEINF\G OUT WITH A NEW SONG THAT I CAN LISTEN TO HIT ME YUP AY MY YAHOO OK

196.

BOO

Thursday, May 22, 2008 /

HEY BOO WHAT UP. ALSO BOO WHAT IT D0

197.

bud

Thursday, May 29, 2008 /

Have you looked at yourself in the mirror bashboo ha ha ha you are an uglier version of Tamika hahahaha fat bitch hahahhaha

198.

betty

Wednesday, November 26, 2008 /

Well i wish them good luck, anyway it seems that usher loves older woman. He just can’t get enough of it. Anyway …….