NOTE: ODEO IS ACTING A FOOL RIGHT ABOUT NOW, PLEASE CHECK BACK FOR BRIAN’S RESPONSES..
QUESTION #1 from Dee Dee
Why is it that black men don’t want to marry anymore? How do we get our young black men to understand that the right woman is worth marrying and not having babies by?
QUESTION #2 FROM Lil Momma 1214
ME AND MY BOY FRIEND HAVE BEEN KNOWING EACHOTHER FOR 4 YEARS BEFORE WE START DATEIN.EVEN THO WE HAVE KNOW EACH OTHER THAT LONG I KNOW HIS WAYS AND THE WAY HE TREATS A GIRL (HES A PLAYA) BUT HE WANTS ME TO TELL HIM EVERYTHING AND TELL HIM HOW I FELL AND ITS HARD BEACUS I KNO HOW HIS RELATIONSHIPS ARE THEY ARE USUALLY SHORT AND HE FINDS ANOTHER CHICK….I WANT TO KNO IF I SHOULD TELL HIM EVERYTHING NOW OR WAIT UNTIL WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A MIN AND THEN OPEN UP TO HIM?
QUESTION #3 from Maxine
Hey Brian, I was just wondering if it possible to date and be in a successful relationship if you work with some one who everyone at your place of employment are crushin on ? Is it worth the drama ?
QUESTION #4 from Miss Envied
Brian, I’d love for you to interpret this message I recieved from my significant other (separated but still together per his request) after I asked him about a young lady. “oh her, she’s just gassed it’s not even that serious so whats up with you”. It screams BS to me but maybe I’m wrong…
QUESTION #5 FROM Melissa
I’m 21 and have been dating the same man who is 23 years old for five years now. We’ve broken up and gotten back together several times mainly due to his lying and cheating, but also for problems I caused by being controlling. Currently we are not together, but have been seeing each other about once or twice a month for about 6 months. He tells me that he loves me and misses me, but doesn’t know how to be a better man. I still am in love with him and I’ve tried to move on, but can’t. What should I do?
BRIAN’S MOST MEMORABLE VALENTINE’S DAY
BRIAN’S Romantic playlist:
Prince- Adore
Luther Vandross-Always and Forever
Joe-All the Things Your Man Won’t Do
Mint condition-Pretty Brown Eyes
Sting-Windmills of Your Mind
Thanx for checking out the Valentine’s Day feature, and make sure you go out and get Brian’s new album “Ten” which is in stores now. OFFICIAL WEBSITE
good questions got picked for the interview! and i like his romantic playlist *sighs*
I love the Playlist! Wish he could’ve song my FAV song, “Find myself in YOU!” OMG! (screaming like a teenage school girl!)
i love me some brian mcknight and if you want to get in the mood and be romantic his cd is definately the one to put on
U know more than likely he wouldn’t have one of his own songs in his playlist…but Pretty Brown Eyes is one of my fav’s…I save All The Things for another playlist!
he gave some good advice!…but why did he have to say period after everything? lol
He gave good advice.
this was the best!
I love “Find Myself In You” and “U Should Be My Girl” I be blasting that song when it come on. Wish I could’ve asked him some questions but I know my man has a account on here and I don’t want him to know
Good responses wish they were more questions, love to get a male point of view on relationships and his new CD 10 is the bomb especially “used to be my girl”
Good responses to the questions…Don’t yall be making no babies tonight of this bomb playlist..Happy Valentine’s Day to all….
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY EVERYONE!!!!!
I was shocked that BM still answered the questions, cuz y’ll killed him that day with the comments.
HAPPY VDAY Brian.
THESE QUESTIONS WERE RIDICULOUS. Its sad that women are putting up with bull from men. You know someone is a playa or cheated on you and you STILL ALLOW it. WHY ARE YOU SETTLING? ARE YOU THAT INSECURE WITH YOURSELF….Thats some dumb shit..black women stand up..you are strong and beautiful and dont need to have to deal with a man leading you ON!!!
And I appreciate B Micky sharing his opinions, but a man who makes a stand to NOT date women the color of his owwn mama has issues and shouldnt be advising nothing…
I do love his voice and some of his music tho
NEXT!!!
OMG OMG MY QUESTION MUST HAVE BEEN GOOD OMG~OH YEAH ME AND MY BOO WORKED IT OUT~
^^^^^oops I meant “Used To Be My Girl”
that playlist is on point…
#10….everybody gonna have some tonight…lmao single or taken
hvd!
LOL, the responses when they announced he was doing this valentine gig was FUNNY AS HELL!!! but i see mr mcknight has real balls or he didn’t see all the responses.
#12 said: “THESE QUESTIONS WERE RIDICULOUS.”
THANK YOU!!!!!
I bet Brian is thinking we ain’t nothing but a bunch of ignorant a$$ females. But that’s ok because I feel the same way about him. And to think about it, we didn’t give him any serious questions to answer because this was nothing but a big joke to us. LOL!
“Period”
i think swangin is a better choice for the holiday than pretty brown eyes
#3 sounds like me, i wouldnt completely rule out getting involved with coworkers, that person just may be the one for you, you just gotta be careful
I think the one question about getting with some1 who is at your job..I did and if you both know you got each other then its okay…its been 3 year and we are still 2gether… I guess cause we both and ppl crushing on us…I dont work there anymore he does but alot of ppl left but new coworkers came and crushing on him now..if you are in LOVE TRULT IN LOVE then okay but if its just a thing then leave it alone…
Umm where did he answer the questions@?!!!…All I see is questions that got picked….and yes thatplaylist was mos def tha 1!!!
I guess he can give us some relationship advice about how to keep your marriage together.
Considering her cheated on his wife several times, yeah he knows all about making a woman happy.
And the last question I dont like how he says at her age she shouldnt be in love…no one can tell you what age you should fall in love bc there are no say for what age to fall in love..i know ppl who have been 2gether since 17 and married with children and still till this day are in love and I know those who love young and divorce…Love come to those who want it so if you believe you are in love true love then you should be able to work anything out (well except for cheating and lies) One thing I did agree in is if you know who you are and your goals in life and share it with your mate then ur companion will be there for support and there will be no need to feel as though you will separate
I’m so excited he picked Adore by Prince as one of his favorite romantic songs because let me tell you, that is my all time favorite songs!
**shivering just thinking about it**
#12 & #18 I am so glad we are on the same page. I thought the questions were stupid. I really thought there were going to be more thoughful questions asked. As for his answers, I wasn’t that impressed. It wasn’t very enlightning at all.
I thought he would have answered tougher questions than that but still good advice.
Yep, he sounded sexy as hell too. I thought he answered them fairly. Good questions.
Damn Brian…You better tell em! I don’t know why but that made him kinda hott to me….PERIOD!
Lol at him saying period in every sound clip…
I’m definitely feeling that playlist.
Wow. I’m so happy that my question was picked to be answered.
Mr B.Mc Knight, your divorce benefited from your woman more because :
1. You CHEATED on her many times (and BEAT her ass!!).
2. She still has to keep on raising the kids by herself full time, while you’re out partying at different clubs, with different dates, living la vida loca.
3. After the mental (and physical in your ex-wife’s case) damaged YOUR TRIFLING ASS caused, and with kids that she still has to raise, “in my opinion”, it’s not unfair.
“Period”.
The questions were stupid and already answered in the first entry about B McKnight.
In response to my question (Dee Dee) “Marriage most of the time ends up only benefitting the woman?” I knew this fool had no idea what the hell he was talking about. This is a good indication of the type of husband he was/ man he is. “if more women would be willing to sign prenuptual agreements….” What the F*** does that mean? So you want me to be your wife (maybe), wash your clothes, cook your food, open my legs, get on my knees, have your babies, keep your house clean, take care of you when you are sick and all of that BUT FIRST you want me to sign a piece of paper saying that when it’s over, I’ll leave with my face, ass and hands? Nigga please! I thought this man was intellegent. He’s an idiot and any woman willing to sign away her worth is an idiot also.
Man he didn’t answer my question!
The questions picked were stupid. Who picked them? Come on, Angel. Even if she didint, I know she must have had a say. And he really offernded me with that pre-nup shit. So what about a woman who makes more than the man? And he is a fool for saying that the 21 yr old gilr cant be in love @ 21. He sould stick to making music.
Dee Dee, LMAO @ your response, but when you’re right, you’re right! Chante thanks for exposing Brian for the fraud he is.
Happy V.Day Everyone!
TOOOOOOOOO GAY….NEXT
He should try acting, singing all those damn love songs he knows really nothing about, i agree with Dee Dee and yes, there could have been better questions!
#33 girl you are on point…cause when he said that I was like what the hell, half these dudes dont have nothin to sign a pre-nup for…and hes crazy as hell if he thinks that a women is gonna sign a prenup that easy without makin sure she is financially secure.Cause they say that for better or worse crap now but, when the worse comes yo ass is gone with what you came with. i do however think alot of men in general dont wanna marry because of commitment..they dont want to be tied downand want to be able to leave if they get tired without all the hook ups and hang ups.
i agree women wise up and stop looking for men to make you happy or whole. when the right man comes along he will fit into your life and you will know he is the right one for you. For starters find a man with a job and doing something positive with his life. If your in college date a man in college don’t date someone who doesn’t have a job.
now I ain’t saying i’ma gold digger but I ain’t messing with a broke…..
#39 you’re right worse person to give advice
#40, #35 well said pre-nup’s are for people with money. unless you win the lottery then your messed up lmao
about 21 being too young ” knowledge comes with wisdom not age”
I need to start a advice column anybody would join hehehehe
omg #33 i never laughed so hard in my life
preach girl preach
If yall would have actually asked questions, instead of clowin him there would have been better ones.
Angel, I don’t think most people understood or even realized that Brian was on board to answer! They just took it as another one of our smear attacks! Sorry Brian, but on ConcreteLoop, we shoot first and ask questions later! lol
OMT – Happy Valentine’s Day Boo!
i saw brian’s picture and i didn’t care what he was talking about because i lost respect for him awhile ago he doen’t need to be giving any kind of advice
Im interested in knowing exactly which questions you guys had in mind that werent asked ,that you consider so much better than the ones asked ? lol Remember that answers are often based on an individuals personal opinion about the subject matter,and wotn necessarily mirror what you feel. Stop seeking validation from others about relationships and issues that you already know arent worth shyt! God gave us all brains to think with ,and most of us free will to make our own choices! Brian McKnight is now divorced from a woman that he was with for many years and had two children by.Marriage isnt always perfect,and Im sure that he realizez now more than ever that he played a role in its demise. These celebrities go through many of the same things as us regular folk, but we place them on pedestals because they are who they are in entertainment. Im not making excuses for Mr McKnight but only person he needs to answer to abotu his past deeds his his ex and God not us! he didnt put a ring on my finger, and I dotn profit 1 way or the other from his divorce.He had to give his wife half, and it is what it is:) She was with him before the fame so in my opinion when you decide to creep and do ya thing on the side with a wife at home, ya take that chance! Tahts why they say “Its cheaper to keep her”!
If y’all wanted there to be better questions, then you should have posted better questions. I know I don’t put Brian McKnight on anybody’s pedestal. I thought it was neat that CL had a celebrity answer relationship questions. # 12 and others on here wanna say women are being weak and insecure for being in a relationship where cheating has occurred. I don’t think you should judge women in those types of situations because you don’t know what you would do if it happened to you. Everyone has relationship issues and problems and people need to stop judging others and labeling them one way or another when they really don’t know the situation.
i love you very much