Im glad he took a break and he seems much happier

i hope he dont have to confess again lol

his girl look kinda like a man but im with bonnie da rest

He sure do like em’ old and funny lookin huh? (Except for Chilli) this is a downgrade, but congrats to him anyway.

*blinking feverishly* Ummmm…..she is what the guys say….. a MILF. (That seems to be the theme Ursher…all his long-term women are up in age. His jump offs are the PYT’s) Anyways….homegirl does look a lil strong around the jaw area…..(like a dude) *giggles*

ugggh, he could do soo much better, but i guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. (I couldv’e had a chance!!!)

The Prince of publicity! Michael Jackson holds the King of publicity!

Usher is the Prince of publicity! Michael Jackson holds the King of publicity!

He is probably doing this for the sake of his cd, you know he always have a damn publicity stunt up his sleeve. I wouldn’t be surprised.

He wanna marry her…I say hold it down. No one knows what’s goin on behind closed doors…u only know what’s broadcasted or revealed by a “source”. U damn sure ain’t goin make your mama happy with everything u do!

I am no expert on relationships, but they don’t seem to match up right, something seems off, she look like his aunt. I mean if u a grown ass man and the woman u with makes u look like u still going through puberty, leave it alone, she ain’t da one, at least in my opinion. Is there nobody in Hollywood Usher’s age, Momma Raymond gon have to step in, grown or not, shit my momma would, my momma don’t give a damn how old i am, if it ain’t gon work she gonna say something and maybe even do something… yea my momma crazy.

What happened to her kids from the marriage she was in when this whole thing started??? I bet that heifer bounced on the hubby and kids. Something is just not right about these two marrying. I pray my son (16) does not come home with one of these.

Usher likes them older…I guess.

The mother is just mad because she is looking at things from a managers perspective and not from a mothers.

She thinks it’s going to mess up with his career and fans, like he won’t be attainable anymore. Get over it. She should be happy he’s settling down and not hoing!

Opposites attract….

I’ll believe they’ll be husband and wife the day of the wedding! Until it happens, I believe it’s a publicity stunt. Mr Strategies always has something to announce or confess when he comes back.

What is so wrong or funny about the woman looks? If anything, Usher is the funny looking one. I always thought SHE complimented him.

She looks old enough to be his mother.

And??????

IF HE’S HAPPY I GUESS..
LMAO AT # 12..”ONE OF THESE”

She looks like more of a man than he does LMBAO!!!!

Usher need to quit it with this mess. I mean he took another man’s wife, and think that that is okay..and that they will live happily ever after…ish…what goes around comes around. Usher rethink this one Please???!!! If she cheated on her husband she’ll do it to you.

I say if it isn’t a publicity stunt and he really loves her and they are happy, good for them! It’s so hard to find that special someone these days. She isn’t a bad looking lady. Besides, sometimes it’s about more than just looks or age.

ugh this one is truly showing her age but thats cool, I’m really not that big of a fan of usher he makes me sick big nose ass!

Well ya’ll know those older women do know how to treat a man better than younger women…they know the ropes…Like I know how to bette keep a man now, then I did back then. I get up in there and cook, keep the house clean, keep my nails and hair done…and keep him not even thinking about another woman…That’s why Usher like them older women..young ones just like to look cute, dress cute, club, etc. etc.

She looks like his mama. And a man.

Oh lord, why Usher why?!!

The new album won’t be half as good as Confessions. No one wants to hear Usher singing about how “in love” he is…yeah, I’m a lil jealous, sooo.

Move over Ray J and Whitney! This looks wrong in soooooo many ways….um…yeah,ok Usher?

Why not Halle Berry or something? She older just like he like it and she has her OWN money

DAMN SHAME, Thats all i have to say…

USH#1FAN_MEL

Im a still a little disturbed by the news but who knows what she may have to b dealing with.

how old is she? he took somone elses woman.what does he thin will happen to him,or her.

DOES ANYONE KNOW WHAT WAS ACTUALLY GOING ON WHEN THEY GOT TOGETHER? WAS SHE STILL WITH HER HUSBAND OR WERE THEY SEPARATED GETTING READY TO GET A DIVORCE?

Congrats to them. However, time will tell if they really walk down the aisle. This may just be for publicity.

this is a publicity stunt…especially since they are getting married right around the time the album drops! not a good look mr raymond…now if he really wanted drama he should have stayed with naomi campbell lmao

Best wishes to the happy couple!

People kill me with that he/she could do better shit, if they’ve agreed to get married, let’s give them a chance before we start saying its not real.

I see Usher likes to play chest! Nice rack!!!

How many children does Tameka have???

Congratulations Brother and Sister Usher!

I really like his music, I ‘ve never met him so I can’t say I like him. But one of the most eligible bachlors is off the market….never a good thing. I wonder what Chili’s feeling?

my near crippling jealousy aside, i think it is very important to consider how you enter a relationship b/c it often indicates how you will leave it. i did hear that she was married during the time they were dating. i agree with the other bloggers in that if she did it to her husband, whose children she bore, she most definitely could do it to you.

Hmm, I guess she’s a lady in the streets, and a freak in the bed. Because she damn sure doesn’t have anything else. My thoughts….

she look mad old in the face…

i wish he’d sit and have a long talk about beyonce about releasing the album of the freaking year and then dissappearing for some years so people miss you then come back when they feenin’ for more…

usher i can’t wait…

This is how this whole thing is gonna go(for shits and giggles):

Let’s see Tameka and Usher get married and their wedding day will coincide with the dropping of his new album.

He’ll take a year or 2 off get tamkea knocked up and start working on his next album. Tameka will decide to have a c-section so that his album drop date will coincide with the birth of the baby.

Then they will hit a rocky patch and end up in a divorce. He will work on a new album and this album with coincide with the day his divorce is finalized

This is how ursher operates. Pure publicity slut. But I cannot wait for his new album!

Love is a wonderful thing good for him

“FREE SHAQUANDA COTTON THE SAGA CONTINUES UNTIL SHE IS FREE”

I am happy for him. I love to see black love. We really don’t know the real details about their situation or how it came about so all we can speculate. I am happy that they are happy and shole glad he has an ethnic looking “brownskin’ sista on his arm. No hate to my light-skin sistas( truly love ya’ll cause my mama and nana are light-skin), but we need to see more representation of us brownies on brothas arms for a while.

U GUYS, THIS IS A PUBLICITY STUNT, Just think about it, he said he had a baby before he did his last CD. Everyone RAN out to buy his CD because we were HOPING that there was going to be some JUCIEY gossip on there about HIm and Chilli. We alll thought he had a kid. Then he does an interveiw later on and then he was like “you all are reading too much into it”. This is another one, “Im getting married!”. Whatever, then we all JET out to buy his CD, No marriage, More money in that Polish Sausage Nose Pocket!!

Like someone said earlier, I will believe when I see the Inquirer Pictures of the wedding in the Grocery Store while Im standing in line!!

Usher has been out of the game for a while, there is now Chris Brown, Omarian, etc.. Alot of people doing their thang and he has to compete with Confessions!. So HE will do or say anything to get us to run out and buy his CD.

Usher is on the low low, he doesnt talk about his relationships or what he is going to do, so why now all of a sudden?

Most celebrities are media sluts to some degree if you ask me, not just ol Ursher. To be honest, real media sluts are Madonna, Michael Jackson,P-Diddy jennifer Lopez and newly inducted to the group, Beyonce. Ursher hardly fits the bill of this elite group of hungry media sluts.

Anyway, why can’t two black people just love each other without us making it seem like they must have an ulterior motive??
Some ya’ll must have come from some phucked up homes if any declaration of love from ANYone means they want attention.

Oh this is just another fake stunt, I do think they are dating but I DOUBT he is getting married. That is what hollywood does, they have been doing since the beginning of time, everyone says or does something stupid, or silly to get their name in the paper before something big is about to come out. Usher has been doing it alot. Confessions was HOT!!. I hope he can out do it.

#44. I seriously doubt that us folk in here say we are going to get married just to get our name in the paper!! SYSD!!

I had a chance to get with user, man that thing is hideous. She got four kids, her stuff is stretched already.

Well its his life,so whatever if he wants to marry.He gone sell regardless.

U GUYS, THIS IS A PUBLICITY STUNT, Just think about it, he said he had a baby before he did his last CD

When did this knee grow say this?Some of you all be making shit up out the ass!Thats a shame!You sound about 16 so I let you sly,well no.That was in the song,suckers.

Whatever Usher.

#46 ….How can you assume that someone is announcing a marriage NOW for attention when the damn album doesn’t drop until November. Like we are going to remember his business for that long with all the celebrity foolish that comes out on a daily basis. Maybe he is just excited and in love and wants to tell the world?! You know people do actually fall in love and if you have money you have real access to make it wide-publicly known if you choose.
Hell, I am not even an Ursher fan and I can see that all of this really doesn’t relate.

She looks a pickle! But Love is Blind, Old and has 3 kids!!

I agree with Chante. I don’t believe anything is wrong with her but Usher does look a little on the weird side.

I wish them the best. They seem to be happy and none of us know what goes on inside of their relationship. We are all on the outside looking in. Love isn’t always about how pretty someone is or just the physical appearance. Anyone mature and who has been in a real relationship understands that. I doubt if this is a publicity stunt. I think its real. The rumor in Atlanta (i did say rumor) is that they have been seeing each other for years. She and her husband have been separated for a while and he is rumored to have been abusive. Again I don’t know how true this is but its very well known in certain circles. I don’t by any means condone dating while someone else is married. But we all do things that we shouldn’t and none of us should be so quick to judge.

Best Wishes I always prefed Chilli Tho

She looks like a man cuz Usher likes boys….

Wow this blog runs really the gamut. I dont even think there is anything else to add. But I will say this, hopefully this is legit because if it isnt then people will get bored with him and he’ll never sell another album. Besides when was the last time you heard Usher admit to something as big as a marriage? He didnt even compeletely admit to being with Chili until they broke up. Maybe Ursh is really in love. I wish I could have a conversationwith jonetta (Usher’s mother/manager) and get her drunk! Then we’llreally get to the bottom of things! lol

I aint going to believe to I see it.

Translation, If it comes on ET or Access Hollywood or in the magazine. Just hope that fool don’t have another confession.

She look like she has a stank attutide anyway.

I’m just happy that he seems to be attracted to the darker brown sistas. Big ups.

CONGRATULATIONS TO URSHER FOR HIS ENGAGEMENT!!

A BOY MARRIES HIS BEST FRIEND, HIS DOG!!

So usher is going to tye the knot and he is going to be a stepdad. His fiance looks old enough to be his mother and she needs to go back to her husband before usher throws her ass out in da cold just like chilli, naomi and all the other rest.

Yes whatever, who gives a $hit.

Maybe Im wrong but uh if he’s doing this for publicity to sell his album I dont think he shouldve said he was engaged his fan based is of course mostly female and they dont want to see someone they desire marry an old hag, such a turn off

n e ways congrats to them both! whateva…NEXT

Well I think that you guys who say that his finace”girlfriend” looks old enough to be his mother are exxagerating a bit.Usher has dated an older woman before “Chili” ! This woman is probably the same age as Chili,maybe a lil younger or even alil older but certainly not old enough to be his mom.
They both need to watch out for karma though,considering that she was a married woman when he got with her! They took what was supposed to be a professional relationship and transformed into something elsel I wish them well though.

We’ll she aint cute, she looks like his aunt.

“Darker Brown” or Light Skin it don’t matter anyway.

#39- Speak the truth!!!!!!!

If this would’ve happened about … two years ago, I would’ve been CRUSHED lol. I had been obsessing over URsher since ‘97, 8th grade. However, the URsher crush has been put to rest. I’m almost 23. All good things must come to an end. I digress lol.

I’m really happy for them … he looks really content with her. Say what you want about her, but she must be doing SOMETHING right. She’s probably puttin it on him something SERIOUS. She’s at her sexual peak right now … let me stop.

… but in the back of my mind … something about her is just …. I don’t know.

*Voices screamin, DON’T DO ITTT!* — Jay-Z

This is a transvestite..!!! trust me on this..lts a man hes marrying..!!!

kudos to the couple

Don’t do it usher!!!! listen to genuwine and take heed! What’s so different……

http://youtube.com/watch?v=_Ny0uQQq3bw

Here we go again! This all seems suspect to me. If she did cheat w/ Usher.. what goes around ALWAYS comes around.. I think she is too old for him personally, naw I aint hatin’ however, she does have a broad masculine jawline and I hope she can deal w/ his female fans… She is not the right woman for him and I don’t blame his moma… It seems like he wants a woman to dominate the relationships anyway…. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!

She fuckin looks old..

I agree such a downgrade, but he’s happy thats what counts.

Usher is a fraud.

She does look a bit older and they might not look like a match but hey…its whatever.

Tig’O'Bitties though…

I wish him the best, but I’m sick of him tying his relationships into his albums. Just bring the heat! All your perosnal business I could care less about.

usher is a mama’s boy and he’s found his mama/wife and that’s why momanager don’t like her. it’s a power struggle between Tamika and Usher’s mama and that’s why there’s beef. you can look at Tamika and tell she’s determined to get her man.

I’m engaged to John Cena we getting married after wrestlemania I love him so much and he love me so yall dont hate!!!!

I thought that was his mom

I’m the biggest Usher fan and all I have to say is he doesn’t need a publicity stunt to sell records. Regarding his engagement I just wish she didn’t have any kids: imagine calling your idol/crush “Dad” kinda weird. And no Usher’s nose does not look like a penis.

from what i herd its all a stunt but if he really is engaged im happy for you usher

Why would Usher need publicity ?? We know he makes great music.. Even if he wouldn’t have claimed to be engaged I would still purchase his album b/c he alway make great music ..I dont know if he’s with her or not I really dont care but you never know sometimes you find yourself attracted or compatiable with ppl you least expect !

70. Angela said:

Here we go again! This all seems suspect to me. If she did cheat w/ Usher.. what goes around ALWAYS comes around.. I think she is too old for him personally, naw I aint hatin’ however, she does have a broad masculine jawline and I hope she can deal w/ his female fans… She is not the right woman for him and I don’t blame his moma… It seems like he wants a woman to dominate the relationships anyway…. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!

^^^^ I don’t want to sound cold, but Usher deserve a cheater. Didn’t he cheat on Chilli? Maybe they deserve each other! lol. As for her wanting to dominate, Usher loves bossy women. Chilli is a boss, Naomi is a boss and Tameka seems to love to dominate like you said. That’s how he like them, bossy and older.

Not only does she look like a man but she has absolutely nothing to offer usher.Maybe it really is a publicity stunt.

what i thought usher was gay when he told it on the radio so how is he finda get married with a girl.

@79, 81

I’m just being real. You have to admit part of the success of his last cd was because of his previous relationship with Chilli. At the time they were a power couple and he’d just seperated from her, admitted cheating and titled his album CONFESSIONS. Come on now….

It’s ironic that now he’s announcing his supposed engagement a few months before his return. It’s peaking people’s intrest what he has to say about this relationship. You are correct…he doesn’t need a stunt…but it helps!

I aint going to believe to I see it

U can believe this mess if you want to is she pregnant or is he really GAY and she will keep his secret? Well who cares anyway and I mean who cares IF he’s getting married good luck married is not a game to see what I did, its a lifetime thing so I hope this is real and not for the media… big C talking to Usher and his wife to be but she looks a little hard dont you think? But dont listen to me I dont have to wake up next to her U DO USHER…….

Good luck!!!!!!!! when do the album drop? Now thats the question not this make believe marriage.. Usher I read the Vido vixen book and you had a part in it out side of you having a nice body your not good looking at all. Your nose is toooooo flat. and you are sort of funny looking. But I’m really not hating your just not my type but my children are very attractive girls and I cant say that they listen to you I think my little girls might not my older ones..

To bad…so sad…for Usher ~

Meant TOO…bad

lol 74 u shot out omg i almost fainted enough said

U GUYS I THINK USHER AINT GON BE THE ONLY ONE STATIN CONFESSIONS…THAT SO CALLED WOMAN OF A FIANCE` IS GON BE LIKE…”USHER..THIS IS GONNA BURN…BUT THIS IS MY CONFESSION…JUS WEN I THOUGHT ALL THE EVIDENCE WAS GON…WE TRIED TO HAVE SEX N FOUND I WAS A MAN..THAT IS MY CONFESSION!!” IM TELLIN U THATS A MAN IN DISGUSE!!!!!

IF SHE’S THE ONE THAT MAKES USHER HAPPY SO BE IT!!KARMA

if mama don’t like wifey? somethin must be wrong wit her

DAYUMMMMM, WTF? dat bi….broad looks like a man. now Usher couldn’t do any betta than that? he coulnd’t reconnect wit one of tha ladies off of one of his video’s? man, it seems like she’s tha type that be bossin ha man’s around and don’t take no shit wit otha women are lookin at her man. will she go have to get used to it if she playin on bein Usher’s wife.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HE CAN’T GET MARRIED…HE SAID HE WAS WAITING ON ME!….

Its not always about looks folks damn if that was the case every fine chick in the world would never get dogged out !! open your lil minds dammit!!

all i gots ta say is that biitch look like she a tranny.. he could dO so much better but i guess he likes them muscular, chilli was a butch too. it wont last long.
.xOo katelyn

she got a strong ass manly jawbone/face

What else is there to say, but congratulations!

black love….i love it!!!!!!!!!!!! UPGRADE!

Can you all stop saying that she is man? The woman has more than 1 child that she gave birth to.Now unless Im missing something ,men arent able to carry and give birth to babies, so STOP IT! You dont think she looks good enough for Usher ? Guess what? Usher obviously doesnt gove a f*ck what any of you think,because right about now hes doing him and whether you like it or not this is the woman that he chose. AND who would be a better choice for him YOU?lmao! I read all these comments about how some of you think hes dating beneath himself. Why is that ,because shes an older woman with children from a previous relationship? Or is it that you dont feel that shes pretty ,famous, or rich enough? The same could be said about these women who while the may have good looks, track down & hook up with wealthy men, when they themselves bring lil or nothing to the table but their good looks. If the woman is pretty no matter how broke her a*z is prior to meetign that man, shes viewed as the “ideal woman”! Perhaps Usher isattracted to her reasons beyond just the physical. We can talk shyt on a blog all day every day but reality is we are on outside looking in, and you dont really KNOW HIM OR HER! Stay in ya place.Being a fan or supporter does NOT give you the right to choose who someone LOVES or DATES! If you liek his music support him as an entertainer, if not DONT!

Ha Congrats to Ush…Yeah like they say the blacker the berry the sweeter the jucie. Looks like he traded Miss Lightskin in ha shit on u hoes!!!

The Blacker the berry the sweeter the jucie. Yes that’s right he trade that Elisha ms arm candy for a real sista.lol HA I’ll never get over this if until he ever gets a divorce. Now what Bewonce stans!
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
GO ush!

I wonder how long this one is going to last.

If he was going to end up ENGAGED to this CHICK right here, he may as well stayed with CHILLI & put up with her shit load of issues (sure she is older than USHER as well, but she has WAAAY “YOUNGER features” than this woman).

Why does she look like prophetess Juanita bynum?

I agree with # 102 COMPLETELY! People on this blog are OBVIOUSLY ignorant and immature. How can you say that this woman is not good enough for Usher? EVERYONE with negative comments is simply making these absurd statements because of how she looks. There is nothing wrong with how she looks and she certainly does not look like a man! So what if she isn’t a 23 year old light skinned girl with long hair! Those “gorgeous” young women are fast and are nothing but a headache! I’m sure Usher knows that from being in the industry. Maybe that’s why he chose to be with this lady. She’s solid and has her priorities together and he’s known her for a long time. Perhaps, we should ask why does Usher deserve her?? You all give these comments as if you KNOW Usher personally!?! None of us know Usher and we certainly cannot attest to his feelings for her. Beauty is how one perceives it.

How many of you have dated someone who was not considered “attractive” by other people’s standards? I’m sure EVERYONE has dated someone “ugly”, but it didn’t matter that other people thought our boyfriend or girlfriend was “ugly” because WE loved them! And I use that term ugly very loosely. To me, no one is ugly. Some people just have more aesthetically pleasing features than others.

Jay-Z is how many years older than Beyawnce’- yet no one says anything about their obvious age difference. Russell Simmons and Kimora Lee is another example of a significant difference in age. And we all know that Russell and Jay-z aren’t the best looking pumpkins in a patch, but I guess its okay because they are worth so much money, right? Some of you are so shallow! I bet half of you on this blog are lop-sided and warped pumpkins in the patch! Get a grip people!

Don’t get it I pick Chilli anyday over this Beast. Hot Mess!

Yeah she old and looks like a man… but we all heard that usher was caught in a gay bar, that might be where he found the he/she at…

Yeah she looks old and looks like a man, then again we did her a (rumor)that he was in a gay bar. So maybe where he found the he/she man at.
I love me some usher at time… but damn he need to step up his game… and chill with chili
Love Tea

man what was you thing

I’M ONE OF USHER’S BIGGEST FANS. I REALLY LOVE THAT DUDE, BUT WHY? I’M NOT A HATER BY ANY MEANS, BUT USHER, YOU COULD HAVE DONE WAYYYY BETTER THAN THAT. REAL TALK, HOW ARE YOU GONNA GO FROM SUGAR(CHILLI) TO SHIT(TAMEKA). IM STILL YOUR #1 FAN BECAUSE IT’S YOUR MUSIC I ENJOY NOT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, BUT IN ABOUT A YEAR WHEN IT’S ALL OVER- GET AT ME BOO!

I read all the comments and personally I believe that this is like beating a dead horse to death. At first I had my reservations about their marriage. I am a older woman, and I prefer older men. However, it was refreshing to see 1. A sister getting her props i.e. being held-up as the ultimate trophy (not like what Tony Parker did at his penticle of sucess). 2. A true sister that wasn’t a cheap imitation of a blond blue eye sister. Whatever they have God Bless them and here’s wishing them a wonderfully, joyous life together. Usher appears to be decent because he is taking on not only her but her children too. Do you know the odds of a sister with 3 children finding a successful decent husband? — first of all he would have to accept and love her children too and then be able to offer them first class lives. She is probably more likely to be struck by lightening!!! Therefore, this union tells me that God especially loves her and her children and perhaps Ursher sees something speical in them too. Trust me, when his mom dissapproved I was on her side……but now that God has intervened in this union I am with God. I look at this way Usher is standing-up being the real man - not only is he elevating his wife but four more people that happen to be with her… her children. That is 5 people he has just taken responsibly to totally love and care for and he didn’t have too. There was no welfare so child support court. Apparently he is taking on the responsible for some other brother that fell down on his job. I think he is our ultimate mature male role model and many of you should take a page out of his book and just take care of your own wives and kids. That goes for the women too….take care of your own kids. How many brothers or sisters can make that same claim to fame. Thank you Usher for standing up for your people and your community and liftin-up a black girl and her children out of the ghetto into a fairytale life. Other cultures have the presence of mind and heart to know when they have witnessed an elevation of their people. Our culture on the other hand is mean and calloused toward each other — and can’t stick together and support or be happy for each other no matter what. I didn’t hear any comments being made about Tony Parker. That was just fine because it was another slap in sister’s faces — Our culture loves to see sister’s beat-down and especially other sisters beating each other down. This is shameful! I don’t get it???? Where is the love? have we as a people and a culture totally lost it? But we have to constantly stay up in each other’s business for all the wrong reason. We need to get it together. On most of your comments — even it I thought it and wouldn’t have been so tackless and heartless to say it! It is shameful how we treat and react to even our most successful brother’s and sisters. It doesn’t matter what her age is… she is not old… she is mature…. and she is beautiful. Let’s support our sister and she is our sister… and our brother don’t put them down… let’s celebrate by lifting our people up. No matter what… Amen.