Everyone is saying that Akon was wrong. People need to grow up and stop with the “I am holier than thou” attitude. The club should be punished for allowing under 18 in the club. Akon was doing his performance. What do you mean he shouldn’t be treating any woman like that? A woman will only be treated how a woman wants to be treated. The women who got up on that stage couldn’t have walked off, pushed him off of them, anything. We never blame those we should. Not only that0 but when are we as blacks gonna realize that white people stick together: look at Imus- they were making excuses for him. but, what do we as blacks do? Get to the front of the line to tear another black down. One day we’ll see- until then we will always be divided- the worse ones out of all the races.

Akon is one ugly brotha and that girl needs to b*tch slap for being in that club, i honestly think they are both to blame, Akon was thinking he’s all that humping this girl and she thought the same cos she’s humping some celebrity, they both wanted the fame and for it to be seen and now it’s biting them both in the ass, he lost he’s sponsorship and most people think she’s a nasty ho, so there you have it.

And wtf is up with her parents, i’m sure correct me if i’m wrong but her daddy is a preacher and said he’s proud of his daughter, lay of the crack paster, she shouldn’t have even been there, how did she get in the club? cos she had her bits outta door (but she can wear what she wants, hell i do but i wouldn’t wear that top cos it can’t support the girls, anyway) there’s bouncers that see what’s she’s got on and are like yeah come in baby, i figure that’s what happened. And Akon come on now your in the business you should be watching out for scandalous hoes and she got him too and if he wasn’t trying look hot adn show off he should have thought about what he was doing,

so in a nut shell it’s both of their faults and i have no sympathy for Akon anyway, isn’t he the same dude who said he didn’t want dark skin girls in his video cos it won’t sell (belly dancer i think) as a dark skin woman i take offense to that, him grinning on that girl proves both of them are dumb asses

@ Betty Boop

No it’s not weird…I just have that effect sometimes LOL

I don’t think Akon should be punished in any way. Because a 14 yr. old should have no damn business at the club…Especially dressed half naked…She is just HOT in the a**!

***What was Akon suppose to do?****
(Stop the show and ask for I.D.)
***I don’t think so***

Just a Mess!

Man, I don’t feel sorry for that girl. She knew what she was doing from the word “go”. She just tryin’ to cover her ass since it got out in the open like it did. I’m pretty sure Akon didn’t know her age. Shit, in the picture she look like she’s 18 or 20!

ok, how come no one answered my question?

OFF THE SUBJECT HER BUT, COULD SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO GET AN AVATAR FOR MY SCREEN NAME PLEASE????

How is he a “pervert” and “gross” and “disgusting”???
WTF are yall talking about? How is he mistreating women? You see dancing like that in the club all the time. If you can call it dancing-more like grinding to me,but hey, to each his own. The woman at the club has the right to pull away, but she doesn’t because she’s enjoying herself. The same way this lil young chick was enjoying a grown man’s pelvis.

AKON IS NOT AT FAULT!! Ok here’s the scenerio: The placed is packed. Everybody hyped, sweating, adrenaline pumping. Akon (or one of his hypemen see a hot chick in the audience and decide to pull her onstage for a good time, knowing full well there should not have even been anyone under 18 there.
The chick WILLINGLY comes on stage TO DANCE WITH A GROWN MAN. He looks at her-she’s hot and looks like a college student.

All of a sudden, he stops the band and shushes the crowd and asks her: Lemme see your ID?
GTFOH!!!!!!!!!!

Though, I am not a fan of his ideas on polygamy I stand behind him 100% on this.

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@ Betty Boop you are correct IMO means in my opinion.

Do you know what SMH means?

SMH= Shaking My Head
IMO= In My Opinion
LMAO= Laughing My Ass Off
ROFL= Rolling On the F*cking Floor
JIP= Jamare Is a Pimp

They could have used T-pain for Akon’s part

He wouldn’t have said jcak if he didn’t get caught!

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

His apology is a kind gesture but I still don’t feel Akon is to blame. I can see if he was performing at a high school and started to pull females on stage for this act. He was in a club where there was supposesd to be an age restriction.

Akon’s fault –> NO
Clubs fault –> YES
Hot a$$, preacher’s girl fault –> HELL TO DA YES

@Betty Boop

You are correct IMO means in my opinion.

Do you know what SMH means, cause I have been trying to figure that out.

He apologized because it was the “politically correct” thing to do. Even if he wasn’t in the wrong, had to put his pride aside and say sorry

@ Betty Boop

You are correct IMO means in my opinion.

Do you know what SMH means, I can’t figure that out.

#90 look at #86

She allowed herself to be treated that way,for those saying the show was too provacative. So I don’t know what he apologizing for.There are women out there with class & they are also hoes! & in her case that’s exactly what she is 14 or not. When I was in middle school there was girls getting trained ran on them, just cause they young don’t mean they don’t know what’s going on.She shouldn’t be in the club for one & secondly that bitch didn’t have a gun put to her head to ride on Akon’s dick the way she did.

I cannot believe the responses…lol, That girl did not look 14, and yes he was dancing raunchy with her, but it takes two…i mean they were dancing and he was putting on a show for the crowd. he is an entertainer, I don’t think he is a pervert. and You can’t compare him and r.kelly, cuz chick in r.kelly video LOOKED like a little girl….just my 2 cents

Sure, it was distasteful. But to blame him fully is not the solution. He was putting on a show and obviously now one had any objections because the crowd was eating it up. She SHOULD NOT have been there, her fault. She’s only sorry because she got caught. Although they tried to take the right precautions, underaged kids get into clubs all the time.. everywhere.

To say that ‘he shouldn’t treat any woman like that’ is true. But no REAL woman should let herself be treated like that either.

Oh well motherfucker!

Oh well muther*%$#er!

OKAY THANKS #84 BAM BAM. I APPRECIATE IT CAUSE I BEEN TRYIN TO FIGURE THIS CRAP OUT…..LOL

MICHELLE ……. just a quick correction, i take you have never been to Africa let alone Senegal. Just like America has it’s poor areas, so does Africa. People don’t live in the bush in Africa (not even the even poorest ones) and for the houses, don’t get me started… let’s just say they are bigger and nicer that what you have ever seen in your life…..

You said:

“no excuse he shouldn’t do that to any woman he is not in the bush in africa anymore”

You also said both of your parent were born in Ghana, so does that mean they were born or did they live in the bush? or do you have reletives who actually live in a bush at present?

And for Akon’s case. I don’t think he is to blame, after all people can’t expect him to start asking every woman in his concert for their birth certificate. He just didn’t know she was underage, it can happen to ant body, EVEN THE CRAZY ASS “VIRIZON PEOPLE” . So you all need to stop crucifying him and let him be. What about the “LOOSE” girl in question?. Going to a concert dressed like that, it is obvious that she is an expert when it comes to grinding men. A decent girl wouldn’t be in a place like that, wearing what she was wearing!!! HER PARENTS ARE TO BLAME

Akon needs to keep his head up, he doesn’t need VERIZON to be rich or sucessful…….

It is his damn fault..no one made his monkey ass dry hump someone on stage. Who gives a shit about his apology? NEXT…can’t wait til his sorry ass falls off the map…

She’s no saint, apparently she is a professional. Don’t know how many of you have seen this local video on you tube:
http://www.youtube.com/wa...ch?v=gluGripgGmM&NR=1

Yo, I agree with about 70% of the CL peeps on here about Akon’s overall behavior. I find it absolutely sick and wrong that this bastard is now only issuing a statment only because he is losing money from his sponsorship and tour with Gwen Stephani, not for any other reason, else he would had come out immediately and did real damage control and show real honest. Furthermore, he should had stressed in his statement he should had included that he would “never” treat women/fans like this again! Which means that his sorry azz is not really sorry from the jump off….throw his azz under the train with R. Kelly’s rank azz the rass clots!

BOTTOM LINE IS THAT CHILD SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN IN A PLACE THAT STATES BY LAW YOU MUST BE 18 YEARS OLD TO GET IN. SO THE CLUB OWNERS SHOULD BE IN JUST AS MUCH TROUBLE. NOW HER PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE LET OFF THE HOOK SO EZ. WHY IS YOUR DAUGHTER IN A LOCATION WHERE BY LAW YOU ARE REQUIRED TO BE 18????? NOW FOR THE WHOLE AKON SHOULD NOT TREAT WOMEN LIKE THAT. WOMEN SHOULD NOT TREAT THEMSELVES LIKE THAT. I FOR ONE WOULD NOT PUT MYSELF OUT THERE TO BE GRINDING ON ANY MAN AND THINK THAT NOTHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN. HELLO PEOPLE THINK ABOUT IT!!!! IT IS 2007!!! MY GOODNESS LETS USE OUR BRIANS.

i understand that the verizon money and all else is bigger than the issue, so he apologized but i wish i was his publicist - he would not be apologizing, he’d be suing…

was this some grand scheme of entrapment…

where do the club owners reponsibility kick in…

can this child explain why she got up on stage to dance and wine on this grown ass man, knowing it could get him in trouble - i know she didn’t think he was 14 too…

akon, we love you - u will rise, and that lil bitch will slip up again and we will see that she her for the tramp she really is… celebrity is a bitch, she better not even spit too hard in trinidad, someone will squeel!!

I agree with #45PRETTYYOUNGTHANG That’s some of these poeple don’t understand that most major companies have what they call “Code of Ethics”

@ COMPTON_CHICK23 I agree with you too. I don’t what people see in his music. His voice annoys the hell out of me!!!!

WELLLLLLL……….Im new to this CL thing….

Okay this is my OPINION!

Akon wasn’t in the wrong for this….If you look at all the pictures she was ontop of him dry humping him. If she didnt want to do this she had the option of leaving and telling him to STOP! I know nobody forced her down and said you must hump on Akon.

Her father shouldnt blame Akon….he should blame himself bcuz of how he raised his daughter. Thinking she’s MISS INNOCENT when she’s far from it.

Its not the club fault that she snuck in with a fake I.D. This broad looks 21 yrs old. How was they suppose to know if she was young?

You cant blame Akon for these women. He only can do to them what they let him do to them. Just like the video girls. None of them have to dress like that but they allow themselves to do it thats why everybodys half naked.

Sorry for all the post

@ J.Lewis Thank You

isn’t Akon married to like 3 women? why would Verizon or any artist have anything to do with him? He’s disgusting and ugly. Yucch!!!

BKREPA…I’m from Trinidad. I know a lot of people from Trinidad (myself included) who don’t get down like that. Yes, we like to dance and get on bad but on the floor dry humping is NOT considered dancing in Trinidad. Just wanna make that clear.

I don’t care who gets mad in here. I’m gonna say what I feel. This reminds me so much of the Richard Gere(sp) incident in that North Americans think that they could go to other countries and they are exempt from the law. That ought to teach his ass.

#8 lolololololoooo. to late to apologize the damage is done asshole. r kelly wannabe

Akon doesn’t need to respond. He did his job which was putting on a show. What if she went into tha strip club and a male dancer did that to her? Would he have been wrong for doing his job? And being that mostly ALL clubs are 18 and up and she just so happen to sneak in? He didn’t do anything wrong. He didn’t know her age, she did, along with the people who brought her there. Did they try to stop her? Did she try to stop herself? HELL NO! So therefore he did no wrong.

The world will know what happens in those kind of clubs.
The audience were satanic and participated in raping the girl, no one helped the girl.

So Sad that women are used so badly and abused.

A girl bad mark and memory wil be there for life.

Parents are responsible too.
A girl did well to apologyse and She is forgiven.

Akon is the rapists supporter,how can he be able to stand and protect rape victims, People should hate his music,
Akon need repent and turn fro his evil ways.
So sad he gives bad picture of Africa, What doeas he think Africans will react to that, why Africa is used to such worse action,
what measueres could be taken if the girl could be white girl?
what could happen if Akon could be a white and doing it to the black girl?
Why ????????????????????????????????
why a girl like that is allowed to go out dressing like that??????????????

Do they still have a tape for it the hell with her he can back that thing up this way. Plus it had to be something look how he got these white folks on the run

We all need to wake up. A lady doesnt act this way and A real man will walk away from that before it get to a point of disrespect. ALL THE FEMALE THAT THINK WHAT AKON DID WAS OK, THINK ABOUT THAT THE NEXT TIME A MAN ATTEMPS TO DISREPECT YOU. MAYBE THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT U THAT SAYS DISRESPECT ME. ALL THE MEN THAT THINK THAT A 14 YEAR OLD CAN DECIDE ITS OK TO DO WHAT THEY SEE US (SO CALL GROWN PEOPLE) DO ON TV, STAY AWAY FROM REAL WOMEN. PLEASE KEEP HANGING OUT WITH LITTLE GIRLS THAT THINK ITS OK TO BE CALL BITCH AND WANT TO GROW UP TO BE VIDEO HOES. LEAVE THE REAL WOMEN FOR THE REAL MEN.

@ SEXY REDBONE…

Welcome to the loop..Don’t hesitate to get involved..

Woode

EVERYONE KEEPS SAYING NO WOMAN SHOULD ACT LIKE HELLO SHE’S NOT A WOMAN SHE IS A LITTLE GIRL. THATS WHY LITTLE GIRLS CANT CONSENT TO SEX OR ACTS RELATED TO IT. AFTER KOBE, ANTHONY ANDERSON AND, R. KELLY HAVENT WE LEARNED OUR LESSON. REGARDLESS IF YOU KNEW OR NOT YOU ARE WRONG.

Whats wrong with you ppl. Did y’all see what she was wearing. What the hell was she doing there? How did she reach on stage? Y’all seem to be naive, this is the same Akon who sings ‘i wanna fuck you’. What would you expect from a concert like that. Frankly she knew what she was going into.

Verzion promotes his ring tones i.e ‘ i waan love/fuck you’ which kids under 16 has on their phones n they only see it fit to pull his ring tones now that this lil girl file a complaint……twisted world we live in man

jacherry it dont matter if she had no clothes on. is’s wrong. Clothes dont make the person or should we say child. We all need to respect ourselves a little bit more. We as adults need to put a stop to this type of behavoir. She wasnt born thinking this was ok. someone told her this was ok. So no its not her fault because she dosent know any better and he does. I wonder if his kids do things like this.

He is african, and if you have ever been to a club in Jamacia or Trini, that is how they get down. It’s way wild. The only reason this is a big deal is because of her fathers position in Trinidad. Far as I know most 14 year old girls are hot as hell nowadays anyway, she shouldn’t have even had that shit on, let alone being in a damn club. She wanted trouble and she sho’ found it!! Now she wanna get all “spiritual” and shit……………BITCH PLEASE!!!!!

Mrs Sands i agree with you completely. How can someone say she doesn’t know better. She’s from a christian home, hell of course she knows better. Like some of you guys said, she is a CHILD…she should have been home sleeping. Those concerts are for adults. I am postive she has been to other concerts, its just now that she is got.

JA, i agree completely that clothes doesn’t make a man, but is sure as hell tells alot about a person. Whats a 14yr old doing in an outfit like that…where did she get it from? I like what u said we all need to respect ourselves. Do u think she respect herself before this happened?

I was looking at her Myspace! The child needs help.
She is a victim! A victim to the Slutty syndrome. Slutty doesn’t have a age. As for Akons butt, that shit needs to stay in the bedroom. And speaking as a Jamaican I dont condone this shyt. We are individuals. I think someone is related to R Kelly and just doesn’t know it.

i don’t think he owes anyone an apology for his action. her hot butt had no business there dressed the way she was at her age. and as for the dancing check out dancehall it is a form of dance being done in their community

I’m really buggin that people are saying that AKon should take NO blame in this,sure he shouldnt take as much blame a the chick,but he IS to blame as well.The way he was tossin her around on the stage she couldnt stop him if she wanted to.Just cuz she was dancin on the nigga dont make it ok for him to throw her around dry humpin her like that.IF any of u girls dance wit a dude @ the club,shakin ya ass up against him and all that,does that give him the right to be grabbin ya ass and ya titties all crazy ??No one’s free of blame in my book

The 14 year old should have had more respect for herself.She must have taken previous sexual abuse to think of herslf so lowly.And how is it Akon’s fault? The club is the problem.They need to be checking I.D.s at the door.How is dancing raunchy or humping on stage any different from the standerds that most women have today?I mean,you would’nt put a diamond out on the street.How come it’s so many women who put themselves out on the street and have meaningless sex? Is a diamond more important than a woman’s self respect? Hell no.Why is it that women who have one night stands always have something to say about ish like this?That’s what I want to know.It’s true that half of you problely aren’t perfect yourselves.While Akon is not the victim, it’s true that people can only do what we let them.She LET akon hump her.She was not complaining.

It’s amazing how no women is never held responsible for their actions regardless of age . Akon did what u do to any hot ass broad that joins u on stage and wants to be seen . 16 yr old boys can be on trial as a adult ….. but some young ass freak does what see obviously wanted to do and it’s everybody fault but hers . And all this so call “disrespecting women” . 1 man and 1 girl …. how a whole gender get hurt . Respect starts with self …… keep that in mind !!!!!!!

darnell IN TEXAS YOU DO A GROWN UP CRIME YOU GET GROWN UP TIME PLEASE BELIEVE. MALE OR FEMALE MANY FEMALE TEACHERS HAVE BEEN/ARE IN JAIL FOR SLEEPING WITH OR TREATING LITTLE BOYS LIKE GROWN MEN. YOUR POINT OF VEIW AND PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE YOU ARE THE REASON WHY AIDS/ HIV, TEEN PREGANENCY, AND STDS ARE RUNING THROUGH OUR COMMUNITIES. NO ONE WANT TO STAND OUT AND DO THE RIGHT THING. bUT WE ALL WANT TO BLAME THE GOVERNMANT WE PEOPLE CANT AFFORD AIDS MEDS OR LITLE GIRLS AND BOYS DROP OUT OF SCHOOL TO TAKE CARE OF BABIES. aND DONT GET ME WRONG DARNELL I DONT KNOW YA WELL ENOUGH TO BE MAD WITH YOU BROTHER BUT MAYBE THIS IS SOMETIHNG YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT BEFORE HELPING A YOUNG GIRL DISRESPECT HER SELP. SIDENOTE: wAKE UP PEOPLE TEACH THESE KID THE RIGHT WAY. STOP TRY TO RASIE BEYONCE AND LIL BOW’S. LETS GROOM LEADERS AND ACHIEVERS.

Thanx for the Welcome “Woode29″

WOMEN MAKE ME SO SICK ALWAYS WANTING TO BE A VICTIM OF THEIR OWN STUPID CHOICES. WHEN WE ARE THE MOST VINDICTIVE CREATURES THAT HAS EVER LIVED!! HE WAS NOT AT CHUCKY CHEESE OR A MIDDLE SCHOOL HE WAS IN A ADULT CLUB FOR A-D-U-L-T-S!!!! AND IF SHE WAS 18 YOA BY LAW SHE IS CONSIDER AND ADULT YOU ALL ACT LIKE HE SAID OK YOUR 14 COME ON ANYWAY!!!

GOODNESS its not about picking a VICTIM, bottom line is Akon and men like him are promoting a image of womenhood that is false. She is 14 growing up thinking this is how I should be treat to get false respect. That is what should make you sick. Forget whos fault it is, what are we doing in our everyday lives that teaches young men to treat women this way, and young women to want to be treated this way. To me she looks 14 but I’m sure if you look at her in that way she can pass for 18-21. We Kids act out you dont act out with her, you get a belt. Hell Grown people should not be doing it. But maybe thats why Buffy the Body makes more than teachers. And yes I do understand that it is some of yall that dont think we should changing and raise a better nation of black childern. Mothers I hope you read this. If you aint got no man around stop worrying about the “babydaddy” and take care of ya biz. Bring your babies up so they understand respect starts and thats how it begains. Treat everybody remeber the golden rule. So the next time Akon ask who wants to go to Africa your kid might be successful enough to have already been

sorry, i would not be apologizing, the club he was at should be apologizing because they did not take care of business. lol personally i like a lil ragdoll tose every once in a while but i’m married

JA I DON’T KNOW U FAM … BUT I LOVE THE CAPE ! NEXT TIME I’M IN THE CLUB AND A CHICK MESSAGES MY DICK THROU MY JEANS WILL DANCING TO “THEM SOME HOES IN THIS HOUSE” …. I’LL STOP HER AND ASK HER DO SHE KNOW THE RAMIFICATIONS OF YOUR ACTIONS ?! DID YOUR FRIENDS TALK U INTO THIS ?! DIDN’T YOUR PARENT TEACH U BETTER ?! CAN I SEE SOME I.D. ?! …… AND IF ALL ELSE FAIL . TELL HER JA WILL BE MADE AT ME FOR LETTING U DO WHAT U WANTED TO DO !!!!!!!! SIKE !!!!!!

anyone that is dressed like that and grinding and shaking their ass for a rap star should be expected to be treated like that…and he really didnt know the girl was underage

Akon ..Akon .. Akon. This man is so naif. Of course the club is 100 percent wrong! The lil girl 75 percent wrong and Akon 25%.
Did u see the new video who just came out (akon is throwing a stupid kid???) what about that!!? lool
Akon .. Akon …This man is so naif.

look dat chick is a lil smut idk y women front so much most of yall women would of done da same leave akon alone da dude speaks da truth….niggaz get fame nd lil smuts nd haters wanna put him down i bet if it was bow wow ya wouldnt be talkin lik dis or jim jones rii??let da senegalese artist shine 4 once he doin it 4 africans..

How was AKON supposed to know, it is not as if she did not want to, and according to his song the club was for 21s and over so why the hell was she in there in he first place. if the club guarantees over 21s the akon should legally be ale to dance wth anyone. It is the fault of the club!