CANDIDS: KEENAN, BRIAN, TAYE, & LAILA

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Keenan Ivory Wayans was spotted in West Hollywood with his now girlfriend Brittany Daniel (you may have seen her in “White Chicks” and T.V show “The Game”). If you are late like me, you would’ve never guessed the two were dating. No wonder why she’s in all his movies….


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Meanwhile Brian McKnight was spotted with his lady friend in LA leaving Mr. Chow restaurant. You don’t see too many guys holding the door for ladies these days, that’s right Brian…

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Also spotted leaving the popular hotspot in California was Taye Diggs. He was alone…

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Laila Ali has had a busy week with the finale of “Dancing Of The Stars” wrapping up. Although she didn’t win, she was still the best on the show

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542 Responses to CANDIDS: KEENAN, BRIAN, TAYE, & LAILA

  1. JAZZ

    THE WHITE BROAD WITH KEENAN HAS A DEMEANOR LIKE SHE COULD GO TOE TO TOE WITH A SISTA IF NECESSARY. BUT LET THAT H*E SAY SOMETHIN TO ME AND I’D DO LAILA ON HER PASTY LOOKIN A@S!!!!!

  2. MICHELLE

    I THINK THE OLD “HASBEENS” BRIAN MCKNIGHT AND KEENAN ARE TRYIN THEIR BEST TO PISS THEIR BLACK EX-WIVES OFF. THOSE MONEYGRUBBERS CAN HAVE THEM CAUSE THEY’RE PROBABLY BROKE FROM GIVING HALF THEIR DOUGH TO THEIR EX-WIVES AND CHILDREN!!!

  3. Kandace

    THOSE HASBEEN’S ARE DOIN US SISTAS A FAVOR BY DATING NON-BLACK WOMEN. WE NEED TO SEND THEM “THANK YOU” CARDS!

  4. Dayna

    Black men are THE biggest hypocrites. The ones who are on here tellin sistas to let it go are the same ones I see on the streets grimming us when y’all see us with a puerto rican, white,or chinese man.

  5. Dayna

    BLACK MEN HATE ON ROBIN THICKE ALL THE TIME BECAUSE HE’S MARRIED TO A SISTA AND SINGS WITH SOUL. Y’ALL ARE A BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES!!

  6. Dayna

    THE WHITE CHICK WITH KEENAN LOOKS LIKE YOUR TYPICAL SLOPPY LOOKIN WHITE WOMAN DATIN A BROTHA.

  7. BROWN SUGA

    WHITE WOMEN ARE THE BIGGEST GOLD DIGGERS OUT OF EVERYBODY. TO A LOT OF WHITE PEOPLE, MONEY IS THEIR GOD. THE ONLY REASON THE WHITE WOMEN SLIP UNDER THE RADAR IS BECAUSE THEY’RE MORE SNEAKY AND UNDERHANDED ABOUT IT. THEY USE THIS TACTIC BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT THE BLACK MAN THEY’RE DATING IS TOO DUMB TO PICK UP ON THIS. BLACK WOMEN ARE MORE UP FRONT AND REAL. I’D RATHER BE WITH SOMEBODY WHO’S REAL AS OPPOSED TO A PHONY!!

  8. Nikki

    Laila is so beautiful.

  9. Amber

    can for once black women [ and yes im a black woman..well partially]…stop actin so insecure about black men dating other races. it makes us look unconfident and annoying!!!! let it go!

  10. Cash Girl

    It is all about the money game. They want all the girls to like them so all the girls will come see their flicks. They don’t stay with those girls no longer than anyone else. They don’t want to be seen with just black girls because to make a whole lot of money everyone has to like you. You have to be accessible. Its a publicity thing. Thats how they keep working. At least thats what a black man told me once. Its seem to be clear that is a motive.

  11. CityGirl

    It is all about the money game. They want all the girls to like them so all the girls will come see their flicks. They don’t stay with those girls no longer than anyone else. They don’t want to be seen with just black girls because to make a whole lot of money everyone has to like you. You have to be accessible. Its a publicity thing. Thats how they keep working. At least thats what a black man told me once. Its seem to be clear that is a motive.

  12. GRACE

    @485, @487, 489, ya’ll are so right.

  13. UptownGirl

    I’ve already broadened my horizons. Why wait to meet a Black man? Black men are not the end all be all. Also practice what you preach because I noticed a lot of Black, White and Asian women and Black men looking at me funny cause I’m dating someone White or Asian. If it’s good for you then don’t get upset if I as a Black woman am dating outside of my race. I don’t like that at all and I get tired of some mixed couples who are on the opposite end ex. Black man White woman giving attitude to me when they are dating outside their race as well. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. It makes no sense.

  14. Anika – why so sensitive about this topic? You must be one of those white chicks that only dates black men. Breathe sweety, it’s not that serious!!

  15. it is a little disappointing 2 see these two black men with “TROPHIES” but i’m over it whatever floats ur boat i say but real talk brians lady friend is cute.

  16. BRONZED QUEEN

    KEENAN’S WHITE ACTRESS CHICK IS CLEARLY AN OPPORTUNIST USING HIM FOR HIS HOLLYWOOD CONNECTIONS. ONCE SHE NO LONGER HAS A NEED FOR HIS BAMBOOZLED ASS, SHE’S GONNA DO A “J.LO” ON HIM, CROSSOVER TO MAINSTREAM (WHITE AMERICA), FIND HER A BEN AFFLECK, AND FORGET ABOUT HIM AND THE FACT THAT HE HELPED HER!! JIM CARREY DID THE SAME THING TO HIM.

  17. BRONZED QUEEN

    KEENAN’S WHITE ACTRESS CHICK IS CLEARLY AN OPPORTUNIST USING HIM FOR HIS HOLLYWOOD CONNECTIONS. ONCE SHE NO LONGER HAS A NEED FOR HIS BAMBOOZLED ASS, SHE’S GONNA DO A “J.LO” ON HIM, CROSSOVER TO MAINSTREAM (WHITE AMERICA), FIND HER A BEN AFFLECK, AND FORGET ABOUT HIM AND THE FACT THAT HE HELPED HER!! JIM CARREY DID THE SAME THING TO HIM. WHAT AN IDIOT.

  18. JADA

    BRIAN MCKNIGHT AIN’T HAD A HIT IN A MINUTE. HE’S PROBABLY USING THAT CHINESE CHICK FOR HER MONEY!!!!

  19. D-One

    The average blackwomen think she is better than the average blackman …. therefore a need to find the IBM is your biggest struggle . Your materialistic ways have U believing someone with great wealth is automatically better suited as a mate . So when U see these wealthy brothas with non-black … u get this all a good one got away vibe . Fuck these celebs ! Judge a man for his character and not his wallet …the pickin’ wont seem so slim . But if U insist on finding a IBM …. U have to compete for these men . INMSHO

  20. JACKIE

    D-ONE,

    BLACK MEN ARE WAAAAAAAAAY MORE MATERIALISTIC THAN BLACK WOMEN. I OWN A HONDA AND HARDLY NO BROTHERS LOOK AT ME WHILE I’M IN IT. BUT, WHEN I DRIVE MY MOTHER’S BMW, BLACK MEN STARE AND TRY TO GET MY NUMBER ALL THE TIME!!! A LOT OF THEM WILL EVEN ASK ME IF IT’S MY CAR BEFORE GETTING MY NUMBER.BLACK POLICE OFFICERS,FIREFIGHTERS YOU NAME IT, HAVE ASKED ME THIS!!!!!I HAVE NEVER ASKED A MAN IF THE CAR HE WAS DRIVING BELONGED TO HIM, THAT’S JUST TACKY!! SO DON’T GIVE ME THAT B.S ABOUT BLACK WOMEN BEING MATERIALISTIC!!!

  21. FEFE

    BLACK MEN TRIP ME OUT TALKIN ABOUT BLACK WOMEN BEING GOLD DIGGERS. THE CURRENT TREND NOW FOR BROTHERS IS DATING AND PROSTITUTING WITH OLDER RICH WOMEN. BLACK MEN HAVE BECOME WORSE THAN WOMEN AS FAR AS GOLD DIGGIN IS CONSIDERED!! THIS ONE BLACK GUY TOLD MY MOTHER THAT HE WOULDN’T DATE A WOMAN THAT COULDN’T HELP HIM FINANCIALLY!!!

  22. NATALIE

    I AGREE WITH JACKIE AND FEFE, BLACK MEN ARE THE MOST MATERIALISTIC BEINGS ON THE PLANET!!!!I’VE NOTICED THAT I GET A LOT MORE PLAY FROM BROTHAS WHILE DRIVING MY BOYFRIENDS BENZ. BLACK MEN ALREADY KNOW HOW MATERIALISTIC THEY ARE. THIS LEADS ME TO BELIEVE THAT THEY’RE LOOKING FOR ANY EXCUSE TO SELL OUT.

  23. DEEDRA

    D-ONE,

    YOU SOUND REALLY IGNORANT CALLING BLACK WOMEN GOLD DIGGERZ. BLACK MEN ARE WORSE. YOU PUT A HIGHER VALUE ON A WOMAN IF SHE HAS A WELL PAYING JOB AND A NICE CAR. MOST BLACK MEN ARE LOOKIN FOR A SUGAR MOMMA TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR DOGGISH, LAZY AND UNDERACHIEVING ASSES!!! I HAVE TOO MANY SUCCESSFUL BLACK FEMALE FRIENDS WITH JOBLESS BLACK BOYFRIENDS LEECHING OFF OF THEM WHILE THEY’RE BUSTING THEIR BUTTS. THEN, THEY BORROW THE WOMEN’S CAR (SINCE THEY DON’T OWN ONE) TO GO BANG ANOTHER GIRL!!

  24. BLACK BEAUTY

    D-ONE

    STATISTICS PROVE THAT THERE ARE FAR MORE BLACK WOMEN COLLEGE GRADUATES THAN BLACK MEN, WHICH LEADS TO US HAVING HIGHER PAYING JOBS THAN BLACK MEN.IT LOOKS TO ME LIKE BROTHERS ARE THE ONE’S THAT NEED TO STEP THEIR GAME UP, NOT US!!

  25. Pinki

    I don’t see what the big deal is anymore….black men still are not respected by white men…so date the white girls…who cares! And sister’s the white man been checking for us…and we are the ones who benefit from inter-racial dating….so f brother’s and go white!

  26. D-One

    To all U women who responded …I respect your opinion ! Unlike U I can respond without all this emotional venom spitted your way . U all have valid points and it does accure , but to be honest . Where R men learning there golddigging behavior . When most R raised in single women dominated households . Most men R taught early …. U ain’t shit unless U paid . It was only a matter of time before men began to say the same thing about women . Ya’ll want to change your role …come out youre lane . And fuck the natural balance of shit . Then complain about all the side effects ! But this argument is gettig tired . One minute men R dogs and all they want is pussy … now we golddiggers and more materialistic than women . Which one is it ! Typical ….as usual women inability to see …let alone admit they shit stank is your greastest flaw . Can’t find a goodman cause they ain’t none ….. can’t find a goodman cause they all married ….. can’y find a goodman cause they’re being taken by whitewomen . I’m starting to think ya’ll got a addiction to bitching and negative views. I’ve been on here many of days … praising sistas . Saying I love my women …. no response or thank U brotha …. soon as I complain alittle …. do alittle generalizing . I get forty rebutals !!!!! LMAO

  27. D-One

    And ladies what is this need to have all your statement in CAP . Is that expressing emotion or screaming at me as u type . Does it make what u r saying anymore valid or truthful than what Im saying ! Or it’s just a chick thing …. just wondering . Please answer without all the venom if possible !!!!!

  28. tt

    kudos to joi 58 for speaking some truth!

  29. bucky

    I love it!!! Look at Brian and his fine-ass girl and then Keenan with thickalicious honey……..Go ahead brothas and get yours.

  30. Bleu

    It’s sad that blk women think that blk men are disrespecting them like they have some ownership to them especially ownership that falls back on a ficitious and unreal SOCIAL CONSTRUCTION like race. STF up!! Please grow up! Their are TOO many men in this world for anyone to complain as if thier relationships effect you. Your azz will be alone and disappointed, bitter, childish, and vulnerable to criticism because of your ignorance and closed mindedness. And yeah to thos females that talk about how they won’t do the race-mixing thing, chick EVERBODY is mixed with something whether they know it or believe it or not so pleez grow up and get some perspective!!! I’m a woman of color and I am ashamed to associate myself with some of you women because you embarass me and leave EVERY woman of color to be judged because of the way SOME of YOU feel about this b.s. !! I NEVER hear about any other women speaking such bull Sh**!!! Insecurity is not cute and if you think you ugly and that other men aren’t attracted to you..well I’m sorry you got dealt that hand or if you just maintain a slave menatlity about shi* I still feel sorry for you! Just because I look like someone does not mean we are allies and I’m 25 years old realizing shit that really isn’t diffiuclt to figure out!! Fcuk what people say! Be with whomever makes you happy and broaden your identity as a WOMAN FIRST before you tag alone superficial bullshit like race! Anything anyone has to say about this post has already been said at one point or another and IT”S the same BULLSHit unless its positive then THANkS.
    Grwthefckup!!

  31. I’m going to let ya’ll sistahs in on a little secret that has been plaguing the black man for years. Now I know ya’ll heard of jungle fever but most don’t know that there is another level of call FULL BLOWN JUNGLE FEVER. I was diagnosed back in 95′ right before the Million Man March. You think I wanna be this way cause I don’t, but I can’t control it until they find a cure. A sistah walked up to me last week and was like what do you see in that white girl that you done see in a black girl. I looked her in her eyes and told her life isn’t fair, you cant even take toothpaste into an airport anymore. Then I walked away!

  32. I think sisters are more bitter when they see a black man dating another race. I personally don’t care. If you find love in another race then more power to you. I just hate when someone discriminates against their own race and only decides to date a certain race. I think you’re selling yourself short when you do that. But as long there are black people the black race will continue to exist. I mean am I missing something? Are we becoming extinct?

  33. Pretty Ebony

    J.LEWIS,

    WE SEE YOUR PICTURE. YOU’RE UGLY AS HELL AND MORE THAN LIKELY A LAME. YOU’RE NOT DESIRABLE AT ALL. YOU HAVE PROVEN MY THEORY THAT MOST OF THE BLACK MEN THAT DATE INTERRACIALLY ARE THE “LEFTOVERS” THAT NO BLACK WOMEN THAT HAS IT GOIN ON WOULD EVEN GIVE THE TIME OF DAY TO.

  34. Heaven Sent

    Keenan and Brian have always appeared to be on the nerdy/lame side to me. Seeing them with non-black women isn’t a surprise at all. I’ve never really considered them “Real” black men.

  35. Kim

    Heaven sent, you are soooo right. I’ve noticed that most of the black men that date interracially are the rejects of society. They’re usually defective in some way (jobless, ugly, nerdy, fat etc.). This theory hasn’t failed me yet. I think sistas are being done a HUGE favor by them removing themselves from our dating pool.

  36. Kim

    J.LEWIS,

    WE’RE TALKING ABOUT BLACK “MEN” DATING INTERRACIALLY, NOT BLACK LESBIANS!! YOU LOOK LIKE A WOMAN IN THE FACE.

  37. JULIANE

    J. LEWIS does look really feminine in the face. He looks like a female impersonator without his drag make up on! What’s REALLY goin on??!! LMAO!!

  38. Sensational

    J. Lewis does look kinda queer/fruity… and what is that object in front of his chin?? I don’t even wanna say what it looks like…hhhhhmmmmmm

  39. Cookie Girl

    When’s the last time Brian had a hit record or Keenan made a box office smash?? I guess this is what they resort to when they fall off!! Sooooo sad.

  40. MeLoveULongTyme

    Bleu and others who are under the delusion that other women don’t get their panties in a bunch when they see “other” women with “their” men. White women hate on Asian girls sometime fierce but they just not in your face with it. And Hispanic women try to throw salt in the game when Black women date “their” men. Every race is closed minded in that regard, I think Black women under the spot light and are conflating a lot of issues (social historical racial polictical) into one. Mind you these are ISSUES THAT BLACK WOMEN DID NOT CREATE.

  41. TRULY THE SHIZZ

    THAT’S WHY ROBIN THICKE IS CRACKIN PLAYED OUT BRIAN MCKNIGHT IN THE HEAD ON THE MUSIC TIP! BOTH KEENAN AND BRIAN AREN’T DOING SO WELL CAREER WISE SINCE THEIR BLACK WIVES DIVORCED THEM!!!LOL

  42. Danielle

    520, I agree 100% with you. Black women and black people as a race are more vocal and up front about issues. Women of ALL colors feel the same when they see a man of their race dating interracially.

  43. D-One

    I,VE COME TO THE REALIZATION ….. THAT THE MAN DID A NUMBER ON US ! OBVIOUSLY NO ONE THINK LESSER OF BLACKS THAN BLACKS . WE GOT OVER 500 RESPONSES TO 3 MEN THAT 99% OF U WOMEN WOULDN’T FUCK WITH BY CHOICE . WHO CARE WHO THEY WITH ? WE ALL HAVE PREFERENCES BASED ON NUMEROUS THINGS …. SOME LOGICAL … SOME EMOTIONAL ! I A BROTHA … LOVE ME SOME SISTAS … DO I HAVE A PROBLEM OR TWO WITH U YES ….. STILL LOVE U . AM I PERFECT …… NO ! HAIRLINE RECEDING , FAR FROM ATHELETIC …. AND MY MONEY IS TIED UP IN CAR NOTE AND A MORTGAGE . I CAN’T SPEAK FOR ALL BROTHAS …BUT I BELIEVE I CAN SPEAK FOR MOST . BLACKMEN LOVE OUR BLACKWOMEN ! THE ONES THAT SEEK PURPOSELY TO FIND COMPANIONSHIP IN OTHER RACES … THAT THERE CHOICE . CONCERN YOURSELF IN THE ONES WHO DO WANT TO BUILD WITH U …. IT’S MORE THAN U WOULD TO ADMIT TOO ! RESPECT !!!!

  44. windwalker1313

    So much confusion, ignorance, and ‘misinformation’. What a sad state of affairs for Black America. Truly gives me headache.

    IMHO, marry or date whomever you want. If you are lucky, you may actually find someone who loves and supports you!

    On another note: Judah and Bill, you two brothers (clearly intelligent, to be fair) really need to stop with the Biblical ‘scriptures and references’ for the comments you routinely make on this forum.

    Your efforts to apply Biblical interpretations and analysis are simple-minded at best, and recklessly mis-informed and ‘misapplied’ at worst.

    Your tricks and manipulations will mislead and confuse people from the purer nature of God.

  45. MeLoveULongTyme

    It’s a cop out on the part of a Black man to blame Black women for his choices. If they have a preference, that’s one thing. But then to downgrade your whole race of women is the most ridiculous thing on the face of the earth. I don’t think these men have a problem with Black women. I think they have problem with being Black themselves and they take it out on Black women.

  46. Sharonda

    Hmmm 7 pages of this shit?Yall getting worked up basically for nothing.Ok first of all who fucking cares who he is dating.If he is dating white because he doesn’t like black women (like suprisingly “some” successful black men do)then he has issues, point blank who cares, well I don’t.But some of yall comments are just sooooooooo dumb to me.Just because you don’t find a certain main attractive don’t mean they rejects-men or women.Blacks people need to grow.

    I wouldn’t take Brian McKnight, he cheated on his wife so thats why they got a divorce.But I love his music.Never was a fan of Keenan,I think the Waynans are talented though.Some of you need to get out that “thugged out t.i” model brother he isn’t going to do anything for you.where are my real brothers at that are role models?

    p.s.
    the black race has a lot of work to do.

  47. We had this discussion before plenty of times on this board, why again?

  48. 513, 516, 517, 518

    I find it funny how none of ya’ll have any pics. But I’m glad to see black sisters sticking together at least.

    And the comment I made in #511 was a joke but I really feel no need to explain myself.

    And if I didn’t hear I was ugly almost everyday I might have actually been hurt by ya’ll lame comments but I find it funny as hell…I LOVE THE HATE, keep it up

  49. LuvlyEmpress

    Sorry folks…. read Ezra chapter 10

  50. WHYNN

    POST 525,

    YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! BLACK MEN LOOOVE TO TAKE THEIR SOCIETAL FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE WE’RE THE CLOSEST TO THEM.

  51. Nikki

    Reply to #10 & #11 – I’m w/ you, but ya’ll late cause I’ve been disgusted by these brothers. #12 you need to get a clue, sista’s ain’t got to step up our game – cause if you think that tacky britney chick and Ching Chong Ming Long got game then you are as tacky as Keenen and Brian.

    Secondly, no one is hating on these women – brothers will run w/ anything as long as it aint a sistah or as light as they can find – because most of you dont have any self-worth and self-esteem. You let this society tell you that you’re woman aint shit and run after everything but, you only depleteing your own race, so keep on. The legeacy of a race lies w/ the men, and if you want your legacy to die or get mixed in w/ every other race then fine. But maybe you all should set up your game, if you going to dip at least dip w/ the best. Maybe you brothers can take some tips from Eve, Vensus Williams, Iman, Halle and Co. – they all found attractive non-black men.

  52. keesha

    There’s another pic of Brian and his girlfriend on thehollywoodscoop.com Is she mixed??

  53. yaknowasayin?

    MOS I love you boy! Let those fucking sell outs know! There is nothing with interracial dating but when these very sill negroes do it to the level that they are doing it, it is more a matter of these black men feelng like shit about themselves and needing Snow White to make him feel better about themselves! My sisters, i say fuck those white hoes, they will learn soon enough just why some blakc men ain’t shit..let them inherit our old problems….and not to mention, in about 36 months when being black is no longer cool, those same niggas will try to come back home….tell them at that time to fuck off and get another white girl ( like they give a shit about their assess)….Good job, Black Hollywood!!!!!NOT!!

  54. yaknowasayin?

    NIKKI speak on it girlie ! i couldn’t have said it better ..true that there is nothing on this planet to me that is more magnificent that the Black man, but he needs to lose that slave, nigga mentality that has the white man telling them what beauty and acceptable is and their simple assess are falling for it. Part of the reason why black women don’t appreciate the way some of these men act is because Black men are acting like WE are the enemy when we have been there from day one…good job, black man, nice way to repay us for our centuries of loyalty and support. Thanks! way to represent!!

  55. yaknowasayin?

    Bleu and J Lewis BOTH need to STFU!!!! J Lewis I know that u know that u are fucking monkey ugly so ur opinion means nothing! Bleu u are an out of touch 25 year old if u think that you even have the beginnings of understanding the big picture of what this life experience is. As a 34 year old black woman myself, I am not arrogant and silly enough to think that I have this whole thing figured out, but i DO know that black women have every right to feel the way we do about niggas selling out ( and u can live in Neverland if u want to thinking that there is not some sort of phenomenon happening with black men ). And YOU should be embarrassed of YOU by showing how ignorant u are in front of all these people..You are a disgrace and please try never stating u are a black woman..u sound like an ill informed white woman. And try this on for size: I am post college educated, I have no children ( by choice since I am not married ) and I have a house and car that are mine. I am a great cook and i love football…so what the Fuck are u saying? These are attributes that are not desirable by black men? Surely, you do not think that this is some sort of mass hallucination….seems to me the only one that is “seeing things” is YOU. get a clue, youngsta.

  56. Drea

    OMG I did not know Keenan was dating the chick from White Chicks…You know what that means…No really do you know?

  57. keke

    to anika…you have bno clue do you? i agree that love is love, but baby it has to be LOVE!! not oh, im gonna run out and get myself a white woman b/c black are too hard to deal with or they think its “flyy” to have a white chick on their arm. maybe you one of them wanna be black white girls and YO nigga got you believing ur own hype. For the dude that said black women need to step their game up….how dare you, you minimum wage makin ass fool. The number of black women who are the biggest boss that you seen this far is steadily rising. black women are doing it for themselves, black men are too intimidated by a woman like that. How about puttin down the dope and guns and picking up a book? How about takin care of the bastard children that you are out here producing with 3 or 4 women. Black men have FAILED black women and they run to other races (especially white broads) b/c we are a reflection of the black women that raised them and they cant face us. THATS WHAT ITS REALLY ABOUT. for the most part black women dont care if you date outside your race for the right reason, but these men are dating outside for the WRONG reasons. half the time its cuz they think the white girl has money, or it has to do with them feelin ugly as black men…like they need a white women to build themselves up…its so pathetic.

  58. keke

    This article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine a few years back by a WHITE
    woman who requested a response from Black man.
    I’m so glad she got what she asked for (and more)!!! She wrote:

    Dear Jamie

    I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I
    am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and
    loving. I just don’t understand a lot of Black females attitudes about our
    relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black
    women were slim to none. As he said they were too fat, too loud, too mean,
    too argumentative, too> needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess
    baggage.

    Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by
    Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women
    are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at
    themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and
    snide remarks when we’re out in public. I would like to hear from some Black
    men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.

    Bryant Gumbel left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley,
    Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones,
    James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan,
    Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Wesley Snipes…
    I could go on and on. But, right now, I’m a little angry and that is why I
    wrote this so hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us, White women, because so many
    of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may
    lead you to treat your men better. If I’m wrong, Black men, Let me know.

    Thanks
    Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in S A!!!!

    RESPONSE

    Dear Disgusted White Girl:

    I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.

    Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Black man. I graduated from
    one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor
    of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major
    corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be
    among the ranks of successful Black men.

    I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set
    the record straight of why Black men date white women Back in the day, one
    of the biggest reasons why Black men dated white women was
    because they were considered easy. The Black girls in my neighborhood were
    raised in strict homes. They were very strict about when they lost their
    virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait,
    brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much
    hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.

    Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they
    are docile and easy to control. :o A lot of Black men, because of
    insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
    the strength of our Black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more
    successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger
    houses.

    Because of this fear, many Black men look for a more docile woman. Someone
    we can control. I have talked to numerous Black men and they continuously
    comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just
    want to set the record straight.

    I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Black men date
    white women.

    Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
    Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds, Samuel L.
    Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong
    Black women and, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and
    out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Black women over
    white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I
    just don’t want a “Disgusted White girl” to be misinformed, Stop thinking
    that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when
    Indian Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris
    were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves
    of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.

    Read your history!
    * It was the Black woman that taught you how to cook and season
    your food.
    * It was the Black woman that taught you how to raise your
    children.
    * It was Black women who were breast feeding and raising your
    babies during slavery.
    * It is the Black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
    husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.

    Black women were born with two strikes against them, being Black and being
    a woman. And, through all this, still they Rise! It is because of the Black
    women’s strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I
    could never date anyone except my Black Queen. It is not just the outer
    beauty that captivates and draws me to them.

    It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades
    that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about a
    Black woman. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their
    integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to
    stand for what they believe in, and
    their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while
    enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with Black
    women.

    I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy
    more so than snotty looks. [smiley=2thumbsup.gif]If this were not so, then why do you continuously
    go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
    proud to be white, then why don’t you just be happy with your pale skin?
    Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural
    and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think
    that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have What the Black
    woman has…

    BOTTOM LINE:
    If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I
    would give you a call. But,
    unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good
    wife and mother to my
    children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I
    am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
    you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.

  59. keke

    you are so right i noticed that to and i thought i was the only one im really ashamed of Keenan all his brothers married to black won except him its a shame

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