I totally agree with Denise about “some” things black women need to change about themselves so we won’t be called bitter. It is hard for us though because most black women are the HEAD of their households & you have to be in charge because alot of men don’t know how to be men. I’m 24 & my husband is 28 & I run things. I make more money than him and I take care of our kids and the household & make most of the decisions. He pretty much accepts that. However, he has told me that once he starts making more money, things are going to change. He said he needs to be the man & for know he’s just waiting until he gets his finances together. This is why I think “Rich” Black men flock to white women and Asians. They don’t have the experiences that black women have of having to be “tough” for their families. They are more submissive. A rich black man does not want to wait for a black woman to mold herself into that role of not having to be angry from dealing with racism on a daily basis and worrying about how her kids are going to be fed. Most white women do not grow up with the hardships & fights that black women have to face while rasiing that basketball player or actor to be the man he is. That’s why they can be more submissive and “appear” to have a softer interior.

Thanks Buck #325 for your response…I’m glad you found your soulmate whatever race she may be, I was more so asking about what were the characteristics you liked with the white women vs the black women that made you want to date them exclusively and not any other race.

#375…girl I thought I was the only one that Taye was Sexy chocolate! And if he won’t marry you dont let him make you a baby mama!!!!lol

It’s nice to see mixed couples. It let’s me know that some people are changing. I’ll be honest and say that when I first see a blk man and a white woman together, for like a quick second i get annoyed by it. I cant help it. but then I feel bad that i had that feeling. What bothers me is when blk men just flat out say that they dont date blk women.

I love Laila, and we all know, she should’ve won.
She always loks pretty. Keep up the good work Laila.

Liza - Thanks girl but don’t waste your typing skills. You can’t reason with ignorance. Some people would rather stay stuck on stupid…

All I can say is… Thank God I don’t have to deal with people like this in real life… Whoezzz me…

HAHAHA @ telling me to “shut up” on a blog site…

xoxo,
Bitch

Post #334, scared the shit outta me! lol!

hummingbird, I too make more money than my husband,However,I AM NOT THE HEAD OF MY HOUSEHOLD! HE IS! And not because he is a black man or that I am weak. BUT THAT IS THE WAY IT IS! I am not the man nor do I desire to be. I dont want to “run things”! It’s easier if he does it. Less stress for me. I am sorry that your husband thinks your income makes you the head. WOW! PLEASE don’t think I am being judgemental. I am just saying our income doesnt make us the head when the husband is in the home.

@ #282 Bi-polar,

Dayum bi-polar! Your a$$ is really bi-polar. LOL! J/K I respect your opinion though. It’s cool. I don’t mind disagreeing with someone but I do mind someone coming at me the wrong way (which mushroom head did). I don’t go around f^king with people so I don’t expect people to f^k with me. That’s just the way I am. I am a cool, calm, collective person until someone pisses me off then I get bucked.

But you mention alot of black women have nasty attitudes. Wake up call: There are alot of white women that have them too. Oh my gosh! Isn’t that shocking? lol Trust me I know. I have worked with plenty in my life time.

You also stated “some of these ladies expect so much but offer so little, its like the worse they treat you, the more you want them”.

Now that part I can’t comment on because that doesn’t apply to me and I don’t know anyone who falls in that category. Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong.

But you don’t need to play us from a far distance because THEY ARE STILL SOME GOOD BLACK WOMEN AROUND. I mean I have had my share of men that I thought didn’t live up to my expectations but that didn’t make me leave my brothers alone. I still have hope that they are some good African American males around. All are not abusers, cheaters, locked up, dating outside our race or gay. I refuse to belive that all brothers are no good. I still have faith in my men. You should try having a little faith in us as well.

@383 wow you are anti-feminist aren’t you! it is very possible for a woman to be the head of the hosuehold. that doesn’t make you less feminine. times have changed sweety. women are not as powerless as they were before. so you’re whole “i am not the man nor do i desire to be” demonstrates your own inabilties. i’m sorry that YOU can’t see yourself as being on the same level to your own husband. i don’t feel sorry for that other woman. if she runs the household let her run it

@pablo you’re too ignorant to answer

And that has nothing to do with color. I to am a black woman that has had some crazy experiences. Have been abused. Have been broke. Have been “just a baby mama”.have been Homeless. Have had to catch the bus to do laundry. The list could go on. And I am too tired to carry the load. Yes, I am a good wife and mother. But I do not want to be husband and daddy. I cant be! I cant walk around acting all hard! What message does that send to my son. When he is ready to search for his wife he will more than likely look for someone like his momma. And I want him to find a wife that understands her role. My role is to be a wife and mother and allow my husband to lead us. I think we (women) take the lead when the man doesnt have a vision for his family. But if the husband has a vision for his wife and children sit in the passenger seat ladies. If you dont know what your husband’s vision is for your family ASK HIM! tell him to write it out and make it plain. If he does not have one tell him to get one! Just my opinion.

And that has nothing to do with color. I to am a black woman that has had some crazy experiences. Have been abused. Have been broke. Have been “just a baby mama”.have been Homeless. Have had to catch the bus to do laundry. The list could go on. And I am too tired to carry the load. Yes, I am a good wife and mother. But I do not want to be husband and daddy. I cant be! I cant walk around acting all hard! What message does that send to my son. When he is ready to search for his wife he will more than likely look for someone like his momma. And I want him to find wife that understands her role. My role is to be a wife and mother and allow my husband to lead us. I think we (women) take the lead when the man doesnt have a vision for his family. But if the husband has a vision for his wife and children sit in the passenger seat ladies. If you dont know what your husband’s vision is for your family ASK HIM! tell him to write it out and make it plain. If he does not have one tell him to get one! Just my opinion.

I think she is pregnant. can anyone confirm???

@ 378 jada you welcome the characteristics that i was looking for was nothing diff. between black girls and white girls….i was in love with with my black girlfriends it just didnt never work out something would always happen….i moved away alot(i was in the army) so i would move every 3yrs…..one girl cheated on me…..i cheated on another it was always something….so i started to expand my choices of women dated one white girl it was more or less just a fling dated another and been in love every since…..iam 29 now so iam alot older then i was when i was playingaround…and my wife just makes me whole….i just now stared living….but if my soulmate was a sista i would feel the same way i dont have nothing against blk women…i was rasied by blk women….i just feel in love with a white women….

****MY Opinion****

1. Laila Ali is a great example of a strong beautiful black woman. (no homo)

2. Taye “Tight T” Diggs - Uhhh, Is it me or did we like him better when he acted in African American movies like the Best Man and Brown Sugar?

3. Brian and Keenan- Enjoy you women because you get what you pay for.

Nah I am straight; we do need to step up are game and stop wanting and dating only black men. Shoot, white men are always after black bootie. Black woman are caught up in the black men. We need to just move on it clear they have.

MAN ALL I KNOW IS BLACK WOMEN NEEDA STOP STAYING W. BLACK MEN

BECAUSE SOOOOOO MANY OF THEM ARE QUICK TO RUN TO OTHER RACES

JEEZ I WOULD LUV 2 SEE

SOMEONE LIKE

BEYONCE

GO W. A WHITE MAN

JUST SO BLACK MEN ( NOT ALL ) BUT A LOT REALIZE THAT THER NOT THE ONLY ONES WHO CAN DO IT

NAHHHHHHHHHHH WERE SOOOOOOOO SINGLE

BECAUSE 33.3% OF YOU GUYS ARE IN JAIL

OK THEN LIKE 66% LIKE 1/2 OF YOU WANT TO DATE OTHER PEOPLE RACE WISE TRUST ME IVE COME ACROSS TO MANY BLACK MEN SAYING I DONT DATE BLACK WOMEN

SO THATS LIK 30% OF YOU GUYS

ONLY ABOUT 10% OF THAT 30% ARE REASONABLE

SO THAT GIVES US LIKE 20% SEMI OK BLACK MEN

WHEN THEIRS A WHOLLLLLLLE LOT OF OK BLACK WOMEN

AND ITS EASIER FOR BLACK MEN TO DO THAT

DATE OUTSIDE. ITS MORE ACCEPTABLE FOR THEM

BUT 4 US ITS. NOT

hahaha thats one of the sweet valley high girls!

#392- Alysa that so true. You know that mad at Halle right now and she’s mixed. Yet she always considered and wanted a brother first. We need to get over the brothers and get some of that others, too.

new yorker I assume yor were speaking to me. NOPE i am not anti feminist. But I try my best to follow the bible. Although I fall down in many areas. (excuse the dust I am still under construction) I believe that when the husband is present there is no reason for the woman to be in charge. Knowing my role as wife and mother doesnt mean I sit in a corner and he just walks around like king watchmacalllit! It just means he leads the family! Why should I! That is his role! Call it what you will but that’s how we roll on Azalea Circle!

No disrespected intended! If you do things differently and ya’ll cool wit it then make it do what it do baby!

BUCK…

maybe you’re not sharp enough to catch the point I was making…

I love all races, and I think Britany and Keenan are great! BUT…
The mental and physical abuse of the Black woman has been going on for hundreds of years… dating back to slavery and now all the way to TV, RADIO, MAGAZINES, and now Black men, the ones we have always stood next to. Im simply trying to open your simple mind to the complex realities of the Black woman. I suggest you read the writings of Angela Davis and look over the Moynihan report about Black men feeling emasculated because we are too strong. (a government theory as to why Black men run to White women.)

Then maybe you’ll see all this is some psychological mess that is a result of slavery and continues today. Have you heard of the Willie Lynch writings? Obviously not!

BTW… I am a product of biracial ties and identify with the Black woman because I choose to open my mind! You need to expand your horizons and step YOUR game up!
Also just so you know i’ll date a White man anyday, and I do know Black men who would be MAD about it.

Britt, I printed part of Willie Lynch’s letter here yesterday. And alot of people did not get it. When I read it for the first time my baby was 2 or 3. Thank God I read it when he was that young! It changed my views on alot of things! I now interact with my son differently!

newyorker, And in no way am I beneath my husband! As you refer to me being not on his level. I stand beside him and do not try to stand in his shoes. Dont be mad at me boo cause I am ok with not wanting to be the head of household. I dont need to be my husband is man enough to do that. See that’s with wrong with alot of women(regardless of color). Want a man and want to be a man! All I can say to you is what I say to the girls on the basketball team when they whine about my girl being a ball hog…”know your roll and play it”.

nikki,

that is so good, its so important to read those documents. Its really eye opening.

THE BREAKING PROCESS
OF THE AFRICAN WOMAN
BY WILLIE LYNCH

Take the female and run a series of tests on her to see if she will submit to your
desires willingly. Test her in every way, because she is the most important factor for good economics. If she shows any sign of resistance in submitting completely to your will, do not hesitate to use the bull whip on her to extract that last bit of b-word out of her. Take care not to kill her, for in doing so, you spoil good economic. When in complete submission, she will train her off springs in the early years to submit to labor when the become of age. Understanding is the best thing. Therefore, we shall go deeper into this area of the subject matter concerning what we have produced here in this breaking process of the female n-word. We have reversed the relationship in her natural uncivilized state she would have a strong dependency on the uncivilized n-word male, and she would have a limited protective tendency toward her independent male offspring and would raise male off springs to be dependent like her. Nature had provided for this type of balance. We reversed nature by burning and pulling a civilized n-word apart and bull whipping the other to the point of death, all in her presence. By her being left alone, unprotected, with the MALE IMAGE DESTROYED, the ordeal caused her to move from her psychological dependent state to a frozen independent state. In this frozen psychological state of independence, she will raise her MALE and female offspring in reversed roles. For FEAR of the young males life she will psychologically train him to be MENTALLY WEAK and DEPENDENT, but PHYSICALLY STRONG. Because she has become psychologically independent, she will train her FEMALE off springs to be psychological independent. What have you got? You’ve got the N-WORD WOMAN OUT FRONT AND THE N-WORD MAN BEHIND AND SCARED. This is a perfect situation of sound sleep and economic. Before the breaking process, we had to be alertly on guard at all times. Now we can sleep soundly, for out of frozen fear his woman stands guard for us. He cannot get past her early slave molding process. He is a good tool, now ready to be tied to the horse at a tender age. By the time a n-word boy reaches the age of sixteen, he is soundly broken in and ready for a long life of sound and efficient work and the reproduction of a unit of good labor force. Continually through the breaking of uncivilized savage n-word, by throwing the n-word female savage into a frozen psychological state of independence, by killing of the protective male image, and by creating a submissive dependent mind of the n-word male slave, we have created an orbiting cycle that turns on its own axis forever, unless a phenomenon occurs and re shifts the position of the male and female slaves. We show what we mean by example. Take the case of the two economic slave units and examine them close

nikki thank you so much for posting that! I think everyone needs to read it.

This would all be 2 funny if were not so predictable.
Funny. I never saw pics of Brian holding the door open for his Wife.

kind.

All this shit is debatable ! I’m a average blackman and I’ve always loved blackwomen . But I learned a long time ago that most women wan’t the alpha dog . 90% of men don’t fall into that catergory . So we go ignored . I go out and meet women and I usual feel like I’m on a job enterview . My vital statistic R taken and I might recieve afew … but most women R looking for something spectacular to come out your mouth to even peek their interest . That why so many simp dudes resort to lying . Stop being so material driven and claim U can’t find a goodman . Being good is a discription of character not wealth or status . They R plenty of blackmen who adore blackwomen . But they might don’t measure up to the wealth of these actors,atheletes ya’ll reverence . 90% of the earths wealth is in the possesion of ten percent of the pop . The competention for these men is steep solely because women as independant and strong as they might be still covent wealthy men ….. being a goodman …has nothing to do with character and everything to do with money . I mean be honest … the only reason ya’ll tripping is these men status and wealth . Afew weeks ago these men was all being lable gay by the female cl members … now U hurt cause the with non-black women ! POAHF

Ummm Complexho, I mean Complexdope if you think I am going to spend any more time on your ugly a$$, you’re DEAD wrong. I am not about to waste my time copying and pasting comments that I know you have made where you are going back and forth, e-fighting with people. I don’t like wasting my precious time on people who are not even on my level. And trust I won’t be clicking on your myspace page because 1) you don’t interest me at all and 2) your no neck a$$ look like you should be in a horror movie b/c your avatar is horrid to say the least.

#384. Still at it huh? You are TOO pitiful. No one came at you disrespectfully, no one called you out your name. I disagreed and did so when referring to your post. Don’t try to justify your ignorant rants & behavoir. I hate when people (in general) act a fool & don’t know how to debate civiliy…then when they get called out, come up with some bullshit justification. You’re a grown ass woman, if you don’t think your initial comment (to Anika) was ignorant; you need a good dose of home training & people skills. I’m probably younger than you & know how to articulate my thoughts & interact with people properly.

@405 ….. godbless U sista …good read !!!!!

britt, I know they are going to lay me out but I am responsible to share what I know. I am not perfect and dont proclaim to be. But I will voice my opinion and some people will say I am anti female. Which if they knew me they would NOT say that! I started an group for girls that struggle with body image. We exercise together. We talk about good eating habits. I teach them not to be a receptacle for trash! Wheather physical or spiritual. I have 3 daughters( 1 I gave birth to and the others are a bonus from my marriage). But I believe what I believe. People are hear to post their comments. I wont be disrespectful nor will I be disrespected. I am ’bout to be out have a nail and hair appointment. Yep, I get my nails and hair done bi-weekly. And all our bills are paid and our kids are well fed and dressed. (Cause you know somebody gone be like why you spend your money on hair and nails) My nail tech and stylist are both sistahs

LOL @ post #406.

You just proved my point.

Reggie’s Girl….I started using that name first..But it’s all good we both can be Reggie’s girl but I’ll his #1 girl……..

I always find it interesting when the subject of IR dating comes up. So many people are still against it. Why? Yes, we could go on about history and how the effects of slavery are still present in black society. I don’t really see that stopping black men from experiencing what life has to offer…at least in termas of dating women of another race. As blacks/whites/asians/hispanics live together people will begin to have access to others they may not have noticed before. Interests will spark and conversations will begin and attractions will ignite. We cannot live a separatist life. We cannot segregate ourselves from other races to prevent cultures from blending together. Instead of viewing it as the black culture dying out due to mixed race relationships, why not look at it as a coming together of two different cultures? If these two people decide to procreate it is the child that benefits because the child is blessed with the black culture, whatever nationality the white parent might claim, or asian culture (depending on the mix that gets together). These two people are responsible for ensuring that their offspring are duly aware of their heritage from both sides. How is that the black culture dying out? That is a child carrying on the traditions of more than one culture.

Of course, I got ahead of myself and had these people having kids. I just wish that we could let go of race as the predominant factor and realize that we are moving forward in time. Let’s not say/do things that drag us backwards. And when I say us, I mean everyone, not just black people. The American history is an ugly one…let’s not hold that against a group of people (Keenan Waynes/Brittany Daniel, etc) who had absolutely nothing to do with it.

like i said earlier, i predicted racial drama.

why complain about black men with white men? you don’t know if they truly love each other or not. you don’t know what they have gone through… no need to throw a fit if you walk by a couple. but complaining makes black women in general look even worse.

there are plenty of men out there for you.

black women are money hungry bitches , y’all weren’t giving these brothers no play when they were in the hood, but now they rich and date white and all of a sudden they’re sellouts, get the fuck outtaa here.

Damn #334 (YUSEF) you are on another level of ignorance with that comment. I don’t even know where to start with you.

To the topic of interracial dating, I keep hearing the excuse of preserving the black family, etc as to why you feel people should date within their own race. I can’t believe some of y’all, you want to be outraged and pissed about something? How about the education system, something that is REALLY holding black people back. Get involved with that, get mad about that and DO SOMETHING. Instead of sitting up here on an internet blog and getting upset about who a black celebrity (who you don’t even know) is dating. SMH

Whoa @ 320! You see this is why I stay away from blogging. You read things how you want to read them. Trust me when I say I’m not bitter. I love men. I have no reason to be bitter. No I haven’t had anything negative happen to me in the past to be upset about. I’m not upset but it does irk to see how some successful black men seem to feel like a white woman validates their status. It’s the way that homegirl came at me that made me get upset. If you read my first post you’d have saw how laid back it was. I’m a combative person tho so if someone comesx I me I go hard back. As for you name, come on, there you go, part of what I was describing. If you wanted to ask me a question why couldn’t you just ask it? No you have to find a way to try and degrade me first. Perfect example of my point. I have a man and am quite happy with him. I have nothing against black men or white women or biracial couples. It just kills me that so many celebs don’t feel validated unless they’ve been seen with a white woman. Why is everyone picking what they want to focus on out of what I said and nothing else? Maybe I hit a sore spot?

Lashonda don’t come on here tryna preach to me. Like I said I have no issues with myself or white women. You’re acting like you don’t see how black women are disrespected. you can come on here and sugar coat stuff to get brownie points on the forum if you want but that’s soceity. Just like everyone’s saying, it’s soceity that races mix, it’s obvious in soceity that not only blakc men, but men period disrespect women, especially black women because of the sterotypes that fly around about us, the ones ya’ll are supporting right now with all this bitter talk. There goes that stereotype of your typical black bitter female. Because I have a view I’m bitter. Lets wake up guys. LIKE I SAID BIRACIAL COUPLES DON’T BOTHER ME!! BIRACIAL PEOPLE DON’T BOTHER ME. I have a biracial niece that I love to death, her and her parents so don’t give me that!!

OH DAMN!!! I just saw this…

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So in closing Anika, your man is with you because your a$$ is weak. LOL!
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Had to go back after reading the latest from #407 (Complex).

Regardless of my color… I’m far from weak. For you, Tupac Lover, to generalize the weakness of a woman based off the color of her skin is IGNORANCE… I know MANY weak BLACK women… I know MANY weak WHITE women…

Why in the hell am I trying to get this fool to see the light?!?!? I’m over it.

How Sad…

xoxo,
Strong **Insert Color** Woman…

Note to Black Women: Please stop behaving as if Black men have the answer for cancer….if more of you would look “outside the box” and try dating men of other races, you just might be suprised! And the marriage rate will decrease for you as a whole. Black women are some of the BEST women on this earth!

One other thing….you always see your “brothers” with a white chick on his arm when HE has money. How many RICH WHITE CHICKS do you see sporting a brother around….(*crickets chirping) don’t worry I’ll wait… Heidi Klum? Because you don’t see it! Pamela Anderson Lee will never marry a Black man, Angelina Jolie, Jennifer Anniston, the list goes on…hell, Jennifer Lopez wouldn’t even marry Puffy. She married a damned dancer instead!!! Hahaha.

*Do something different to get different results.*

Wow…so the moral of this post is that black women have become a faux paus…how sad. We gave birth to mankind and still we get no love from successful black men??? Black love is dwindling away and that is unfortunate. Black children grow up believing that the way to equality is to date outside of their race, but they aren’t taught to love themselves and honor themselves as African Americans in the process. In my opinion, to love self is to love what you come from. I truly feel sad about this, especially since I just found out my nephew is dating a YT girl.

See now I’m sorry guys, me and homegirl have had our differences but I gotta admit I agree with 419. We may not be on the same page with views but to be SO NASTY ain’t necessary ladies. I was just going back reading thses and damn! I thought I was getting dumped on? All this stereotyping ain’t necessary. damn. lmao, @ 420, kinda funny.

Divalish Foxx - I won’t get into my opinion but wanted you to know I do see your point…

Also - Blogging isn’t a very good way to express feels and emotions… People will always misconstrue our typed words.

** express FEELINGS…

Ooppsss

To 415..So you think ww are not money hungry bitch..Do you honestly believe a broke brotha in the hood can pull a ww well maybe the trailer park trash ones the ones that the wm don’t want.Please be real before you type stupid shit….

415. phillydon said:
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black women are money hungry bitches , y’all weren’t giving these brothers no play when they were in the hood, but now they rich and date white and all of a sudden they’re sellouts, get the fuck outtaa here.
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Well you don’t need to worry about the sisters checking for your broke, illiterate ass.

# 352 It looks like u got a little Tiger Woods in the making. YOU’RE SON IS NOT: “ITALIAN, IRISH, INDIAN AND BLACK”, YOUR SON IS BLACK. DONT SEND HIM OUT IN THE REAL WORLD WITH THAT MESS YOU IDIOT!

PS. IM NOT AGAINST INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES BUT GET IT STRAIGHT WITH THE FALSE LABELING, HO.

Damn… I think Tiger just got dissed…

Po’ Tiger…

@ Anika, fine by me. I’m aware you’ll never except my views, they’ll always look like the ignorant statement of a bitter black woman, that’s not really me nor is it how I wanted to come across but that’s what it will look like, I go thru this all the time even while texting friends. It’s just the way I write. But also, ppl should be aware of the way they read things also, if you’re gonna read it with an attitude it’s gonna sound like I have an attitude.

O.K. I came back to read some of the comments and I am LMAO!
I get so sick of some of you women up here getting mad because ANOTHER black man is with a WHITE woman.
SO WHAT!?
I look at men as men no matter what, and if some of you women out there can take the time to look past color and stereotypes you’d be surprised at how many men of different races are checkin’ you out (and not in just a sexual way).

BLACK MEN are not the ULTIMATE PRIZE. They are not our Savalation but neither are they our Damnation. They are just men free to do what they want to do.

Women of every other race seem not to have a problem with dating IR except black women. Why is that?
Perhaps if black women would give other men a chance-mabye over a lunch date or a movie-with good intelligent conversation YOU could be the one that can eliminate these myths about ALL black women being trifling hos and uneducated.

While you’re sittin’ at home on a Friday/Saturday night, ranting on Concreteloop about the next BM/WW couple and being “loyal” to some fantasy dream “black man”, I’ll be out having fun with my Italian/Hispanic
husband who treats me like a queen.

#420, how would JLO marry Puffy when he never wants to get married?? I would’ve dodged that bullet too, now he’s with a black women who is poppin out babies for him and is NEVER (from his very own mouth) gonna marry her. I dunno if you meant that as a joke but just thought I’d point that out…

Divalish Foxx - It’s not about accepting your views… I’ve read things you’ve wrote and found an understanding in your words. I still don’t agree but I am able to find an understanding. Me stating that I wasn’t going to give an opinion is simply because - I didn’t feel like writing a whole bunch of words in hopes that someone would get what I also was trying to say.

Regardless of skin color… People are people…

Have a wonderful Memorial Weekend…

xoxo

I think some black women don’t have a problem with black men dating outside their race. They have a problem for the reasons BEHIND it. I have a group of male black friends, not ONE of them talks to black girls. Why? The DRAMA they say. To me, watching how they treat these white girls, it looks like a whole lotta men don’t like getting called on their bullsh*t and they know a sistah is NOT about to stand for it. As far as I’m concerned - that’s their loss. Because if they weren’t so busy being scrubs and messing around they could get a quality black women if they wanted to instead of scraping the barrel. I, myself, and dating their much more sensible white friend.

Ok let me say something now I love Black women too, I mean who wouldn’t. 90% of Black Men are married too Black women or have Black girlfriends. All ya’ll going buy is what they show on the media and what this site shows.

But I’ve been reading this site for the past week and ya’ll are some Fake ass ppl. Why I say that is because even if these men did have a black women on their arm ya’ll still be dogging her out. Ya’ll would be saying she’s not pretty enough, she too Dark-skin or Light-skin. Ya’ll never satisfied.

Example look how ya’ll hate on Usher’s fiance calling her ugly and comparing her to Chilli, saying she’s not right for usher but everytime you see Usher he seems more happier than he’s ever been with Chilli.

Another Example look how last week ya’ll talked about Serena Williams and her man. Calling her ugly and man-ish looking nad saying her man can do better. Ya’ll dog her out if she was with a white guy and ya’ll still dog her out now that’s she with a black guy. WTF!

Look how some of ya’ll complain about these light-skin women shining such as Mya, Beyonce, Halle, and whoever else. That’s very ignorant and might be envious becasue they’re just as Black as ya’ll. See what I’m saying ya’ll really need to shut the hell up and go out and get yourself and education and stop wasting time bitching about two indivisuals ya’ll know not a shitting thing about. Why don’t ya’ll go out and find a man or women to love/lust to calm ya’lls asses down.

431 post about this crap what a shame. That’s why some of all aint where ya’ll want to be now. I’m Out.

Yeah I hear that. It feels like screaming at the top of your lungs and having no words come out. I hate that feeling.
I feel the same way, regardless of skin color people are people.
You enjoy your memorial day too hun.

And for the people that are saying Black men never have anything to say when they see a black women w/ a man of another race you’ve either never been in an interacial couple or you’re plain ignorant of the situation. Trust this: if you’re a young attractive black woman and a black man tries to get at you and you say : I have a boyfriend as soon as they see he’s white they say something stupid i.e ‘he don’t know what to do with that.”he’s not hittin it right’ ‘ you think you’re too good for black men’ blah blah blah. We have been walking down the street and been SHOUTED at. Personally, I’ve never seen a group of black women hassle a black man walking down the street with his white/other gf. They might grumble under their breath or whatever, but they’re not straight calling you out in the middle of a public street, then again — I haven’t seen everything. Either way it’s wrong but don’t think Black Men aren’t guilty of it too.

@ #428 nawiri who are u to tell her what race her child is if she wants to raise her son irish native american and blk that her bis. just because that baby has 1/3 blk in him doesnt mean that he has 2 be raise like he is 100% blk

#431 it was satire…he’s just not the marrying type with Kim hanging on him like a vulture. Whether he wanted to marry her or not, the point is when the “brothers” have money, they sport the white girl. You won’t see a white chick with money pulling up a random brother. And your “brothers” know this also. And p.s Puffy would have married Jennifer. FACT. She didn’t want him after he boosted her career…

ROTF LMAO! Damn Puffy’s getting DOGGED OUT…..poor Diddy, used to run the city but on here he’s just a pity!! lol.

I THINK TAYE’S ASS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!
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@434 Shawn hell yeah you are so right.

“Chow Yun Wack ” –this shit is racist
“oriental” - this shit is just wrong to use for a person/people.

non-blk women who date/marry blk men. We aren’t gold diggers, we don’t hate our own race, we don’t hate ourselves. A FINE ASS MAN is just that A FINE ASS MAN. I don’t care what anyone says, if Morris Chestnut wants me, I will go whereever he goes.

Mix-Kids, they can identify themselves however they damn well please. My son is mix and you must have bumped you head if you think that I’m going to tell him that he’s Black and that’s it. So what, am I going to take my culture out of the picture? I know that he will face some discrimination from both Blacks and Asian, and I will do my damndest to prepare him to handle those situations. He will grow up to be a strong great man.

PHILLYDON…you get the Fuck outta here. Don’t generalize Black women like that. I am a very successful, accomplished Black woman. I don’t ask any man for money, unless I’m at a bank getting a loan for business, mortgage or car. So think before you type next time…..

@272

First off, let me say that you seem like a decent person. You didn’t try to attack me to coverup your own worship of Satan. You just asked a question to have me clarify my point.

“Jos” is just my abbreviation for the Book of Joshua. The way that you know that the scripture is talking about the Israelites as opposed to the other nations (races) is because the law was only given to the Israelites (Lev 1:1,2, Deut 1:1, Psa 103:7, 105:8-10, 147:19,20, Amos 3:1,2, etc.). There were exceptions made to the interracial marriage rule by the Lord, but that was for his purpose (i.e. Boaz and Ruth or Moses and Zipporah). As far as the other races and their fate, that’s a whole other topic and argument. They’re in their salvation now. That’s why they come together to destroy our people (Psa 83:2-9, Zec 1:15, etc.). Much of the bastardization of the Lord’s word and the confusion lies in the fact that books and letters that were written to and for a certain group of people are now being read and misapplied by people who the letters and books were not directed to (Rev 13:5-8)

If the stranger is already amongst a person, like you asked, then it depends to what extent. The Lord said to be at peace with all men so you don’t go around punching people in the face unprovoked because they’re of a different race. You treat them with respect according to the laws of the land (as long as they don’t conflict with the laws of the Most High)(Ecc 8:2-5, Rom 13:1-4, I Pet 2:13-17). As a race, we are whatever our fathers are (Num 1:18, Job 8:8, Prov 17:6). All that half-white, half-black, mixed stuff is purposeful confusion. That’s why the slave masters would give their children by the black woman freedom after he died in many instances. The Lord said to not seek their friendship (Ezra 9:12).

These scriptures apply to black women because the scriptures are speaking directly to, and about, them. There are scriptures that tell you about the black woman’s issues with her hair (Isa 3:17, I Tim 2:9), her surpassing the black man in the corporate world and job market (Jer 31:22), her lust for power in the church (Ezek 13:17-23, I Tim 2:12, Rev 2:20-23) and in the community (Isa 3:12). It’s really up to the black man to see what is going on and set the standards and stop pandering to the black woman and white people (Joshua 1:7,8, I Tim 2:3,4, I Cor 14:34,35). That’s why many black men are so weak, effeminate, and emotional now. They can’t lead (Isa 51:16, Lam 1:6).

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lol @ the blk women who hate on brothers with white women….note to the sistas….STEP YOUR GAME UP AND STOP THROWING THE HATE

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Brotha, brotha, brotha….just because you are dying to taste their forbidden fruit …do not make it a issue with us sistas needing to “step up our game”! What kills me with some black men is that they don’t realize that YT women are born into complete privilege and seen as goddesses from birth. To have “step up your game next to the YT girl” said from our own men is insulting to say the least because if anyone in society should understand our struggle then it should be YOU! Hell, you have the nerve to tell us to step up our game when we are excelling pass your azzes in education, coporate America, etc.

Sounds like you need to step up your game because most sistas work hella hard for everything they get. That is why you are seeing a record number of sistas dating and marrying YT guys and I don’t blame them. Since we have made ourselves become quality women then we only deserve quality men and treatment.

Since YT women are open-minded to your disrespect( and you call it caring) and trifling, cheating, baby-making/walking away ways..then she can certainly have you while we let the YT boys respect our strength and treat us like princesses.

@58 Joi:

Say it again while I listen! I’ve had that happen to me by males that were half black and also black! Its sucks, but it’s reality!

Nevertheless, I’m not gonna knock a brotha that dates interracially because it’s not taking anything away from me personally.

Just our culture as a whole! The day black people stop selling their soul for a jelly roll will be the day Jesus comes back!

#437 I think you missed the point, or you did not read post #352 where the loser posted that she is married to a black man and then proceeds to break down the ethnic line when her child is clearly bi racial=black. So get it straight.

damn white girls….is being seen with/dating a black woman a crime now??

Jesus take the wheel…………….

I’VE FIGURED IT OUT FELLAS

IT’S THAT TIME OF THE MONTH

ALL THESE PSYCHO’S ARE ON THE SAME CYCLE GOING PSYCHO
LIKE A CYCLE W/O WHEELS

EXCEPT #360 I’M IN LUV

NOW THEY HATE ALLLLLLLLLLL BROTHERS

WHAT ASSHOLES

Hahaha D-man I have to remember that you really aren’t that ignorant that’s just a f#cked act that’s isn’t funny now & it wasn’t funny that LAST 10 times you opened your mouth.