YEP DYME I THINK he LIKES HONDAS TOO

@ #16

I know ALL about that traffic. I visit my fam there all the time. Yep. Been trapped a few times.

That’s beautiful GetmeBodied. Good Luck & well wishes. Sometimes older men aren’t the easiest to date. Glad it’s working for you.

Be patient, Ciara. If you need a shoulder to cry on, I AM HERE!

I am so happy that at least ONE person on this blog had issue with previous comments regarding the acceptability of using the word “faggot.” The word has an extreme negative connotation assosiated with it and Role Models should consider that before repeating said word multiple times.
I don’t understand why everyone is so surprised by the PSA. THIS BLOG reported that Washington hired a PR firm to do damage control. No one realized that this would be exactly the sort of thing his PR agency would have him do?

Finally, I just wanted to comment on the Simmon’s possible intent regarding their lawsuit. Generally lawsuits against magazines are for defamation, slander, etc. and the Plaintiff’a ultimate purpose is for the magazine to retract the defamatory remark and print an appology. It is probable more of a principal thing than a monetary issue.

Damn girl I hear that! Gotta be particular when picking a man, especially when you’re a celeb! Shoot don’t want no crazy dirty laundry being aired! lol.
As for my girl Kimora, LOVE HER! She looks great the girls looks adorable!! And Russell looked happy as hell then!! lol. Can’t wait for her reality tv show to come on.

That is so beautiful GetMeBodied (and I love that song pat yo weave, pat pat, pat yo weave ladies watch me while he check up on it)! I love these stories! Keep em coming!!

Definately agree that he has to be a Christian man. A man does not know true love until he knows the love of God!

Hey Candi, email me foxxy380@hotmail.com

CiCi, girl take this time out to get to know yourself and work on the things you need to improve on. Then you work on getting into a relationship.

@Such Magnificence, I feel you. The last two guys I met all moved to fast for me. I don’t know if I move too slow or they move to fast. After a week of knowing them, the first guy wanted to give me back rubs and hug and hold hands and I was like WTF? No, boo I barely even know you. Then the second guy, I met 2 weeks ago and already he talking about me spending the night at his house. HELL TO THA NAW!!! When a guy moves too fast that just turns me completely off. *singing Max Minelli song…Oh Nooooo! My momma ain’t raise no hoooo! Got my nerves bad*

I feel Ciara on that. Its been a little over a year since I’ve been single myself and I HATE it. I love being in relationships and being in love. I also understand what she is saying about dating to marry. What’s the use of spending years on someone you know you can’t see yourself marrying? Waste of my time and yours.

@ Caff: You can be single and still get sex. You don’t need a relationship for that.

The only reason Ciara aint finding a man because every one she gets finds a strange growth coming out of her pelvic region when they undress her!

She needs to be learning how to sing instead of trying to find a man…TRANNY!

@36-

*waving my creflo dollar handkerchief in the air*

Amen!!!! Lol

OKAY, I KNOW I DUN TALKED UP A STORM BUT I AM SICK OF WOMEN SELLING THEMSELVES SHORT FOR LOVE! U WILL BURN URSELF OUT IF U KEEP RUNNIN INTO DA WRONG NI99AZ!!! AND IF THE RIGHT ONE DO COME ALONG, U WONT EVEN KNOW!!IF IT HIT U IN DA FACE AND BOUNCED OFF YO HEAD! U ARE WORTH MOREEEEEEEEEEEE THAN SOMEONE U HAVE “FUN” WITH!2 MANY OF US HAVE BEEN DONE WRONG! SO WHY NOT CHILL OUT AND BE WITH SOMEONE WHO U KNOW IS REAL! LOOKAHERE FOXXY ….CANDINO4SHO@YAHOO.COM, I BET NOT GET NO JUNK MAIL EITHA!HEHEHEHEHEHE

@16 you aint lying traffic here is a b**ch, not to mention how high gas is now, wasting gas because you have to sit in traffic for what seems like forever. Uuhh

@52 lol

go ahead cici date to marry not just to date she has the right idea more people should think that way

Go Ciara!

I’m only 22 and when I tell people I date to marry, people look at me stupid. Are generation dudes only want to lay up and…

yes ciara

@Candi, nah! I don’t do junk emails. YOU’VE GOT MAIL!

i am ciaras mr right. trust. give it time. we will bump into one another. im 6′5 and shes tall too… a perfect match!! lol… as in the words of paul wall and dj khaled.. HOLLA AT ME BAYBEH!

So the punishment for homophobia is to do a public service announcement? that’s out of control, people have a right to feel how they feel about homosexuals. You don’t have the right to abuse them, but you have the right not to support them.

Does anyone really care for Isaiah?

When and Why in THEE Hell did Ciara win a damn Grammmy?! ( I don’t even want one anymore)

I realized after all these years, I need boobs in my life. But Ci promises to dance like that till death do us part. I can over-look ‘em.

#61 - 1finedyme - Very Well Said…

Ciara look like she has some real wack pussy. Tall chicks always have wack pussy.

I think we are acting too grown these days. She should be dating to have fun and to gain experiance, not for her soulmate. Dont get me wrong, my mom married at 21 so I now it can happen……but why waste your youth on searching? I say go for what you are attracted to and you may even find that mr right. Besides soulmates dont happen at first site, you need to be with said man for awhile in order to truly know.
Anyone else weirded out by her boobs (or lack therof). I knew she was flat chested but DAMN my baby needs to NEVA stand sideways with them small ass titayballs! She needs to stop losing weight cause even tho her stomach looks sick, her boobs deflate even more. She should have just stuck with her goodies body….and just toned the tummy a lil bit.

fyreStarrter, suchmagnificence, 1finedyme, getmebodied
and the rest of you woman on her sharing knowledge and showing some sisterly love

Thank you for your comments, all too often people will try to make you think that there are no good people left on this earth and to be weary of everyone; but you ladies today proved differently-

God Bless

God is amazing, I know how he has changed my life I won’t go into specifics but I use to be a firecracker in many ways my mouth primarily (cussing folks out daily) but since I’ve accepted God in my life-many people can’t believe I’m the same person. The same people I used to cuss out (for good reasons) I hug and say hello to today-

Girl Power enough said

Awww Ciara LOL. Ciara is my gurl. I hope to meet her in person one day. I kinda know how she feels though. I’m so much younger than her and want a man right now! But I like how she’s a classy and respectable women and wants a man who will really respect her and treat her right. I hate all these dudes who just wanna fuck right away and if you aint giving it up quick or at all, he’ll leave. That’s exactly what Ciara is saying, in her own way. She’s a good religious women who does the right things and good things will swing her way.

More power to Kimora and Russell

@Foxxy380 and Prettygirl86…ya’ll ladies KNOW exactly what I’m talkin about, us single gyrls gotta watch out lol!

GetMeBodied…your story is fabulous and I agree 110% with everything you wrote:-)!

I heart you Chante’

The Simmons kids are sooo cute!

CAFF Why do you always have to be damn gross…..Nigga you are NAAASTY!

sorry I had to say the N word, caff made me do it.

And just to clarify Ciara is not that tall. The girl is only 5′7, if you think that is tall, you must be a super short nigga. Short dudes will never be in style; why do you think she left bow wow?

p.s.

ladies men want us to say no and to set limits-they expect it and enjoy the challenge-it’s divide and conquer. No real man really appreciates anything given to him that he didn’t earn or work hard for-

not preachin, just piggy backing off of everyone elses comments-if more women said no, in my personal opinion men would settle down much quicker-we’ve created a monster by giving a man sex w/o commitment all while he is playing the field-why in the world would he want to commit when he is in a win/win situation.

Women stand to lose so much more-not saying I aint never swerved w/o a commitment, just not a good idea to make a habit of it-men began to expect and that’s why society is the way it is now-nobody wants to wait or work hard for nothing and everybody expects instant gratification

@ 84 The One

Casual sex is never a good idea.

I had hot passoniate sex with a guy I.ve known for three weeks lastnight . It was amazing! Damn!!! Aint nothing wrong with getting yours. Shit All I want is some dick and Im good

@SSSSSSSSS

Are u 4real? lol

Kerry Washington and her date look good together.MMM

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well i just move on to the isaiah thing
seeing as how i can’t help ciara, im too dam broke for her
and KLS and RS lawsuit is well…

Anyhoo he don’t get to keep his job.
i just saw on the news that he is only gonna make guest apperances
on that show…
so i think he should stop being all sorry
otherwise he’s just sorry
you know this would blow over if he just
kiss a man…
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yes 110 and it was fiyahhhhh!!! Tore my back completely out . And we went shoppinh this morning.

@ 113

How did u come to the conclusion that after three weeks it was time to have sex? Was it based on a number of dates, something that was said what? I’m curious. How long did ya’ll know eachother?

Awwww Ci Ci… We are both waiting on the man God has for us.

Kimora & Russel have a beautiful family!

Isaiah…They are strategically just beginning to air this PSA to coincide with the rumors around his firing.

SSSSSSSS - You only let a nigga fuck so he would take you shopping. Women ain’t worth shit, I tell ya.

@ Salty - What’s gross about what I typed?

@ SSSSSSS….your worst than caff.

Cosigns with everyone who says casual sex is not a good idea….There is aids/herpes/genital warts/hepatitis/ect. And

@ 107 Bailey, what you said is on point. I think it also has to do with the fact that a majority of people seldom have any morals. Most likely if you have morals you are gonna wait; but sometimes even your morals and values can’t hold you back because of temptations. Most of the time, when people have sex it is not really planned, it just happens. Some peole end up giving into lust; but not me lol.

“we’ve created a monster by giving a man sex w/o commitment all while he is playing the field-why in the world would he want to commit when he is in a win/win situation.”

^^^It’s like for them, Why buy the cow when the milk is free.

I RESPECT WHAT CIARA IS DOING. I’M DOING THE SAME THING(BUT I’M LITTLE OLDER). YOU SHOULD BUILD A FRIENDSHIP FIRST THEN EVERYTHING ELSE SHOULD FALL INTO PLACE. ANYWAY GOOD FOR HER!!!!

@ caff not gross as in gross, but gross as in vulgar. Some of ya’ll are very blunt on here……shocking.

WHo has sex with someone they have only known for 3 weeks???

@ bailey u see….Who ever thought it could be that easy lol.

I agree with #53. If this guy apologized to the guy himself, why is he apologizing to the whole world. I’m not exactly sure what everything was about, but if the issue was resolved between the two of them, he should have left it alone.

Have Not Thought Of A New User Name said:

@ 84 The One
Casual sex is never a good idea.

I know that but it’s better than leading someone on thinking they’re in a serious relationship and you’re only there for sex.

What are you, a soccer mom? Vulgarity is encouraged on CL. Get used to it…especially from me.

Kerry seems to be very friendly with the ladies .

Is she really dating Bai-Ling?

Why thank you Caff ! I will be that but Im not fucking for free I know that much ..equal exchange !

@114 I wanted to feel all that 9 inches inside me ,thats why.

Salty Im being real. Its not a whole lot to that . You can fuck a man today or a yr from now If he aint shit he aint shit. I dont know why you women tend to believe holding the pussy will make a brotha act better. Please remeber they are who they are !

Thanks Bailey, we all appreciate the love & acknowledgment since many of us get shot down especially by the trifling ones who shall not be named lol.

SSSSSSSS luv you did your thing & in your mind it paid off but did you ever think about the true consequences of your actions? What you allowed to happen does NOT just affect you. It has lasting ramifications for the women that dude will disrespect behind you as well as silent influence on the women of your generation & the generations behind you (Not to even MENTION–OK I will mention– the chances of STD infections unwanted pregnancies, etc). Precedent & expectations set behaviour. We have all made mistakes, maybe next time you can do something a little bit different & just see what positive things that change will bring.

P.S. Sista I KNOW it was the bomb when it happened but when you see that dude again, if indeed you do what MYSTERY do you have left to yourself now?

@ 125 who said we had unprotected sex? Im not a fool. Ya’ll cant stand the fact when folks be honest ,damn!

LOL @ #122 Caff!

And I know I shouldn’t be laughing but LMAO @

SSSSSSS said: “@114 I wanted to feel all that 9 inches inside me ,thats why.”

Some people have no problem with being hoes. They don’t care. One of my cousin was a hoe back in the day and I used to tell her that all the time but she knew she was and she didn’t care so it didn’t bother her. But now she is married with one kid and she has turned her life over to Christ. You can’t even get the girl to go to a club now. Not even once a year. NEVER!!!!

SSSSSSSSSSS Said

@ 125 who said we had unprotected sex? Im not a fool. Ya’ll cant stand the fact when folks be honest ,damn!

I respond: actually sista I appreciate ALL your honesty because the more dialogue that we have the better off we will be as women.

AND I want to hug you for making sure that dude wrapped it up. That’s one less issue that we have to worry about. Trust me I have been where you were. I took a vow of celibacy that last over 3 years. It was a reflection on me myself, my willpower, & my desire for something better. When I finally did agree to share my body with someone again I was better able to make the decision about whom, what their intentions were, & ultimately if I wanted to have more than a protected sexual relationship with him. I am actually not trying to preach to you, just asking you to think the next time you consider hooking up. Sex is a BEAUTIFUL YET POWERFUL thing. It’s like I always tell my gyrls we have the P*ssy Power if only we understood just what that means!!!

Thanks 128 I really appreciate that. Maybe I will take that into consideration in the future.

I don’t have anything to say about the post itself, (please don’t kick me out Angel), lol… I just wanted to say thank you for the encouraging stories that some of you ladies chose to share! Being a single black woman can be, at times, a very difficult thing in today’s society, but I take comfort in knowing that God has placed me in this position for a reason.

It’s so hard to live by the Lord’s time line instead of your own, but I’ve learned that if you just wait on Him, He’s always right on time! I had to give it over to God a long time ago because picking a good man isn’t something I’m good at, lol. Learning to have patience has been difficult but I’m hopeful that the reward far outweighs the struggle :-)!

lmao @ soccer mom. Caff ur crazy

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Why thank you Caff ! I will be that but Im not fucking for free I know that much ..equal exchange !

I dont know why you women tend to believe holding the pussy will make a brotha act better. Please remeber they are who they are !
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Pussy for clothes. Yea, that’s an equal exchange.

But um, I’m glad a woman finally sees the stupidity in making a dude wait to smash, like it going to change something. No matter if its 5 days or 5 months, a dude can still fuck you and not call the next day.

104. Tammy said:

I heart you Chante’

The Simmons kids are sooo cute!

>>>>>>> Hey Tammy, I heart ya too!

Ciara is so cute.

The simmons kids are some real cuties. Got nothing to say about their crazy assed parente, but that they know how to make that cheddar, but dat about it.

@129. sssssssss said:

Thanks 128 I really appreciate that. Maybe I will take that into consideration in the future.

I respond: You are welcome sweetie anytime, I am always here when you or anyone else needs me.

Caff do me a favour & take your sexual predator a$$ to castration camp ok hun? Remember if you are not part of the solution then when the revolution happens you’ll be first on the kill list. But it’s ok brother I know you don’t really have a mind of your own & your easily influenced by the other predators out there. Break free Drone Break Free. –Ok I’m cutting up lol. For real bruh do you & ladies remember to stay the hell away lol.

114. Have Not Thought Of A New User Name said:

@ 113

How did u come to the conclusion that after three weeks it was time to have sex? Was it based on a number of dates, something that was said what? I’m curious. How long did ya’ll know eachother?

>>>>>>> Some chicks do it just because they’re extra tempted. That’s why you shouldn’t go too fast cause we all have hormones and THERE IS a point of no return, when the two people are just too freaking horny to stop…

136 at Chante’ Gyrl that is the TRUTH. (Fyre gives a soul clap snap….) Gotta keep the temptation at bay. As Adults we know our limits & we know what makes us past them lol.

Lmao.

I’m hungrier than a pregnant hostage. I could really go for a BK whopper right about now.

THERE ARE SO MANY DISEASES OUT THERE.MANY YOUNG MEN OF COLOR ARE BEING KILLED IN THE WAR, ON THE STREETS, LOCKED UP, OR WITH WHITE WOMEN,OR WITH OLDER WOMEN. I LOVE MY YOUNG BLACK AND LATINO BROTHERS, BUT THE PICKINGS ARE LIKE SLIM FOR US YOUNG BLACK AND LATINO WOMEN.
YES,THERE ARE A LOT OF BROTHERS WHO ARE IN COLLEGE AND ARE HOLDING CAREERS, BUT THEY DO NOT WANT TO COMMITTED AND TIME SOON,and if they settle down, the majority of them are going after a light-skinned sistas or a bi-racial sista, my heart goes out to the chocolate sistas. Even though I am a caramel complected sista, I think that all black and Latino sistas deserve an African or Latin king.

Dark sistas keep your head up ,because, GOD IS GOING TO BLESS YOU WITH A MAN, MADE JUST FOR YOU. All sistas;get a man at least 5 years older than you are, because Lord knows men over 30 are like the only ones available for us.

Ciara is soooo damn cute. She is beautiful and seems sweet as pie. She won’t have a prob finding a guy. There is no rush.

Thanx Chante & Foxxy380!

Not trying to say anthing negative about SSSSSSSSS, but three weeks seems such a short time to give someone something so valuable.

I was almost with SSSSSSSSSSSS until she started talking about using sex in exchange for other goods, I don’t care how anybody wants to spin that but there is a word for it don’t get it twisted luv.

But reading a lot of these posts, I really don’t understand why all of a sudden everybody’s pretending that they are all prudish, and have never had casual sex you know sex just for sex sake… I’m sorry I just dont’ buy all the hypocrisy.

Sex is a wonderful and beautiful thing between people that love each other, it can also be a very fun thing amongst two consenting adults who both know what the coup is. And both know to keep their ish safe.

We do nothing as women for ourselves by pretending to be emotional victims, not being real with ourselves and using sex as a something we are giving rather than something you are sharing with somebody.

The end until i think of something more,,, or something else rattles me

@ 141 I dont care what people think ! I just thought I would give the other side of the spectrum .

#85- all of that is unnecessary. CiCi is a beautiful women, though she doesn’t have much on top, what she has suits her.

@sssssssss- at least you admit to what you do, and not on here fronting like a lot of females on here. ppplllleeeaassee.

However, if you want a guy to respect you and committ to you, holding out is your best bet. Guys do like a challenge, and honesty. Even if you us to be a slut and made a change, I guy will respected that if you tell him from the beginning and prove it to him.

Ahhww, CiCi is just beautiful from the inside and out, she just shines!*ProudMomma*

UNLIKE YOU ANGELLL u BIG BLACK TRANNY SPERMWHALE!
MOOOOOO!ITS OBVIOUS UR A HOODRAT DYKE,YOU FATT MORON!

with love,

your sincerest fan

Whatever, Ciara!

Why are Kimora and Russell suing? It’s not like they NEED $250,000.

Isaiah shouldn’t apologize for speaking out against gays! That lifestyle is morally wrong, and I’m tired of people trying to convince everyone that there’s nothing wrong with it! That IS NOT normal!

Im not even madd @ SSSSSSSSSSS~ she happens to be keepin it all the way real~ If I meet a man, I know within the first five minutes If Ima f*kk or not. Sometimes that’s all it’s about. (LADIES QUIT FRONTIN’) Women have the same sexual desires as men, nothin more, nothin less~ If I feel like we have a serious connection and I can see the relationship actually blossoming and goin’ somewhere, I may try to hold out……. but if it’s a f*kk thing, Im wit that 2~

@146

Even if that was what Isiah Washington had done that would’ve been better, then he could’ve stated his views against and we could either agree or disagree. Instead what the idiot did was let his anger get the better of him, and gaybashed, using a derogatory remark, which just made the idiot fall into the stereotypical role of the angry black man who is driven by his aggression and too stupid to realise the “pink dollar or pound” runs hollywood. Really what he did was parade his ignorance in more ways than one…

You need to find a clue….. and your antiquated views on homosexuality… well let me not start

I’m feelin her hair like that!!

I don’t like the idea of “making him wait” because that implies that you act according to him and not because of your own convictions. I like the idea of “waiting cause I want to and know that’s right for me”. I’m an individual with my own mind and opinions. I personally don’t live according to what men think, I live according to my beliefs and what GOD is telling me is right for me. Plus, some girls who had sex after a week are still in long term relationships or even married to THAT SAME MAN they had sex with a week after they met, and you have 45 year old christian virgins who still ain’t got nobody who are committed to them. To me the choice of virginity should be based on your relationship with God rather than “waiting to get the ring”. And real men of God don’t hoe around either, because of that relationship that they have with God.

And by the way, virginity is not easier for women as people claim to be. WE ALL have hormones and women are tempted just as much as men. NOWADAYS they are much more sexually active simply because they’re LESS pressured than back in the day, which naturally led to less psychological blocking leading to less physical blocking. Men never had that “virginity pressure” so most of them never felt the presure of “waiting and not giving it too easy”.