@143 SSSSSSSSS

I’m glad u don’t care what people think, I don’t either. I don’t think u are a hoe or anything else (I don’t judge people I don’t know). Maybe it’s my own lack of sexual experiences the reason why I was so curious. Thank u for showing me the other side and being honest!

@#146, that’s your opinion and your entitled to it. I can respect anyone who’s prejudice of blks and hispanics as long as they respect me-then I’ll do the same. However, magila gorrilla starting going crazy and using unnecessary language.

@#150 you have a point to what you wrote however. I’m 24 yrs old and I’m letting you know if you don’t let a guy know you don’t respect yourself, he’s not going to respect you eithe- With holding sex is a part of it, not everything. Most guys I know will have sex, just to have sex- kill time- or to experience something new. Guys only commit to those, they feel have morals, some sort of class. Guys think- Hey. you gave it up to me fast, you probably do it with every other guy.

@#4 MZ JUICEE U SEW PURRR T will you ____(blank)ME(*_*)XOXOXO(head over heels).

@#3 JENNY PREACH ON he’s a BUTT-MAN,YES-MAN or SUMTIN-MAN
TOP-MAN,BOTTOM-MANall hell A HOMO

People want to get married so young!!!! This dude at my gym is 19 and married, and says he loves it…that’s cuz he hasnt lived yet and doesn’t even know the deal is foreal. But more power to him. I think your 20’s should be spent living and enjoying life, and not trying to find a husband or a wife. It also cuts down the years you have to be married to someone.. but anyone Ciara, keep dancing and poppin that booty cuz u too young to be looking to get married.

Wanting to get married tells alot about a person phycologically but I’m not about to get into that right now…

When your 21, date and have fun! Now, if Ciara was in her mid 30s, then I could definitely understand the date to marry comment.

As for Russell & Kimora and Isaiah Washington..don’t care.

NetworKing said: Wanting to get married tells alot about a person phycologically but I’m not about to get into that right now…

Okay… can the same be said about someone who doesn’t want to get married?

Is ciara still a virgin because she didn’t sleep with Bow wow, I’m sure of. I think she is a little too young to be wanting marriage or to be even getiing this serious but atleast she wants to marry. I wish one day, my child would act and talk and even look like this gurl. She is an angel on earth. Her parents did one hell of a job raising her. Beauty AND brains. It’s very rare to find young women like her anymore. And she’s wise beyond her years.

@#150 you have a point to what you wrote however. I’m 24 yrs old and I’m letting you know if you don’t let a guy know you don’t respect yourself, he’s not going to respect you eithe- With holding sex is a part of it, not everything. Most guys I know will have sex, just to have sex- kill time- or to experience something new. Guys only commit to those, they feel have morals, some sort of class. Guys think- Hey. you gave it up to me fast, you probably do it with every other guy.

>>>>>>>>>> Well some girls have the same mindset and use men just for “the dick”. Do you know I have a relative who attempted to commit suicide cause he was in love with a woman who used him for 2 years for “the dick”, and got some on the side, and he found out? He was serious, she couldn’t care less and used him cause “he was good”. I don’t have double standards, I personally believe male hoes are just as bad as female hoes. And I let the man I’m with know that I wanted to wait but he also knows that I’m not doing it “cause I fear his judgement”. I’m worrying about GOD’s judgement, not my man’s. Like I said, I do it for God, not for validation of “human beings” who are just as human as me.

NetworKing said: Wanting to get married tells alot about a person phycologically but I’m not about to get into that right now…

Okay… can the same be said about someone who doesn’t want to get married?

^^^lMAO. yes it can. But Networking I am Curious to know what you are talking about, please go into detail.

Important tip: Never Search For Love let It find you CI CI.
I give Isaiah a pat on the back for trying to dress up that foot he stuck in his mouth a couple of months back (lol)

I have to say this. I relate to Ciara because I respect myself ALOT in a relationship and I make that be KNOWN. I’m a virgin as well as ciara. We both respect ourselves and we do not give our selves to men just like that. And trust me, men may act like they don’t want to be around you if you hold youself up high in a respectable manner, but nothing would make any man happier than knowing that his bride-to be is a virgin. Cici, I know it may be hard sometimes but don’t give it up, please don’t. That is going to be one lucky guy marrying you on your wedding day. A very lucky man.

Why everybody acting like your life is over when you get married? Talkin bout ‘enjoy life then get married.’ Does life suddenly become non-enjoyable when you get married? If you choose the RIGHT person then it should be all good.

What’s ‘fun’ about sleeping around? Dick is dick and pussy is pussy lol. Yall gon be the same ones complaining that ain’t no good men/women around when you in your 30’s cuz you passed them all up in your 20’s…too busy ‘having fun’ I guess.

@158 Chante

I cosign so many people think they are entitled to live into their 80’s and 90’s. We never know when are time is up, some of us can die tomorrow and would be in a world of trouble. I don’t wan’t to tell the lord I was having fun, I planned on getting it together in my 30’s. You are just not promised those extra days or years.

D0N`T W0RRY CiARA UU`LL FiND S0ME0NE RiGHT 4 U..AS L0NG AS B0W W0W D0N`T C0ME BACK CUS HE DEFENITELY WASN`T RITE 4 U

iam lovin Ciara’s hair, dats a cute look on her instead of all the weave.

Kimora is lookin a bit old in this pic, n is dat gray hair i see?

i understand where cici is coming from, cuz a lot of folks just be datin just to say they wit someone with no intentions to grow together or nothing, the ultimate goal in dating, i would think would be marriage(thats like ppl having sex and get surprised when the woman gets pregnant…thats how sex works), i dont think shes sayin she wants to get married now, but she also aint gonna waste her time with anyone, like she said u make friends first

I looking 4 a soul mate as well just like Ciara

Ciara is much more sensible than the other hoochies in the game!

To chante>That is not the case with every man!!! Don’t feel like you have all of us figured out just because most of us like to have sex or are somewhat more aggressive about it than most women are. There are far too many variables involved when it comes to relationships!

I hear The Simmons are suing because InTouch printed so bs about their divorcing getting “ugly”, supposedly because Kimora is asking for a bigger place and she wants Russell to pay for it. When asked to do a retraction, InTouch denied. The $250,000 just a principle figure. It’s to show that the lawsuit isn’t for financial gain. But the magazine would have had to pay that much to do a retraction and whatever else.

yeah what the hell is up w/ciara wanting to get married at such a young age? dont worry about that now, just enjoy your youth, body, and success, and it will come when you least expect it. shit if i had her body, marriage would be the last thing on my mind lol.

as for isaiah washington, him trying to say sorry 1000x is making the situation worse than it is. he needs to just leave it be and find another hit show to go on (hint….HEROES on NBC!!)

There is definitly an abundance of sisters here. I think yall are very misguided and confused.

people are saying 21 is too young?

If people were raised properly nowadays 21 would be fine, but noone spends the time raising the babies right.

MY second and third wives are in their 20s

OMG how the views of marriage have changed over the yars. Decades ago people got married in the late teens & spent 60 years together without too much fuss. Nowadays if you say or allude to the possibility of marriage before 30 both men & women seem to cross you like you are the devil & run in the bloody opposite direction!!! Dayum times have changed & not for the better. Please & remember that the TRUE idea of marriage is NOT the end of your life but an extension of your life. Love is motivating, rejuvenating, & positive, & just being in love GREATLY improves your quality of life & your longevity. IT”s not the GOD awful thing that the media, videos, songs, & celebrity divorces make it out to be.

Isiah you big whimp! I don’t care for him anymore….

NetworKing said: Wanting to get married tells alot about a person phycologically but I’m not about to get into that right now…

Okay… can the same be said about someone who doesn’t want to get married?

yes.. when I say pycologically, I’m not saying you’re crazy. Just what’s going on in your mind…let me explain.

Someone who is 19, 20, 22… it’s different degrees of it. the most extreme is young people all they can think about is getting married. Every boyfriend or girlfriend they’re with mysteriously becomes their fiance in like 3 months! Relationships require compromise and basically giving up a part of who you are if you’re gonna be with someone else. You have to make yourself vulnerable to make another human being control your emotions of anger, frustration, hopelessness, and fufillment. All the things that make up a relationship. As a person individually, I’m not seeing this person as really secure, or goal oriented. They’re pretty simple for the most part. They don’t really get too deep, they’re not really mean, they’re not really anything. These types of individuals tend to be more insecure and wanting to fit in with the crowd. Not quite having their own mind, and their ok with it. Not saying it’s bad thing, it’s just how they are. Everyone can’t be strong minded…

On the other end, a strong minded person is gonna see few relationships in their life. And if they do, theirs alot of turmoil..arguing. They want the last word. They want the other person to do everything without them having to change anything about themselves. These people tend to be very successful in business. But their love life suffers. Alot of times these people stay single for along time. They are selfish, to say the least. They arnt willing to let someone else dominate their emotions and become needy to a particular person. You need both of these types of people in the world….

I’ll just stop there. cuz it breaks down even more than that, and I dont feel like typin that much. I just gave you the extremes of both sides. People vary in those two types but, I think ya’ll get the idea.

…alot of young people are insecure, it’s not till you get older that become more strong willed. If you notice parents who were married when they’re young it’s harder for them to find someone as they get older, cuz they’ve been there and done that, and they arn’t gonna go through the same crap again.

but on the other hand, if someone has been abused, they’re more subjected to being that way their whole life, not just physically but verbally and emotionally. These types are always getting those insecurities they felt or didnt they think they had until someone re-enforced that in them over and over again. Whether it’s calling someone “stupid” all the time or beating them because they didn’t do anything right. Over time you believe it and it becomes hard to overcome it. Someone who isn’t strong willed is more likely to be abused than a strong willed person. A stong willed person, will be damned if someone talks to them or even touches them let alone once…

like it said… it gets deep!

I’m surprised no one has commented on Ciara’s real hear being exposed in the picture.

To all my ladies, I want you to know that your self respect and dignity is worth soooooo much more than clothes, cars, money, or jewlery! Remember that at the end of the day, the material things dont mean nothin’!! Your body is something to be treasured! Dont take advantage of that. Keep your head up Ladies!!

If u a virgin…good for u…if u ain’t, good for u cause men don’t care. That doesn’t determine who u are…please…

Everytime I see Ming she reminds me of chick from Eve’s Bayou…ad…y are’t they divorced yet? That’s how they do..play the separated role for awhile I guess

You know just because the images in the media & news tell you that everyone is morally decrepit lacks self control & prone to sudden displays of violence & is dishonest DOES NOT MEAN that that is indeed the case! There are some of us who value who we are & value our bodies & our spirit & are NOT willing to compromise those things for the “satisfaction” associated erroneously by some people with casual sex. And contrary to popular belief not every woman looks as a dude & within 5 minutes knows if she plans on f*cking him or not. Some of us really want to know more about what is going on in the head we can see first LONG before we ever lay eyes on the one we cannot! SMDH!!!

Carlton and Jackie Harris great job. Ciara is an only child,whose father care enough not to let anyone take advantage of his princess. Ciara has been in the music indutry since age 14 ,she has seen so many girl fall short to predator promising them too make them a star. Carlton spent all his time being a real father,by never letting Ciara go at it alone. Ciara parent had high hope for her at the very begining. jackie original name for her daughter was Princess Ciara but switch it so her daughter would’nt be teased. Ciara parent I saluate You. Ciara you are chosen by God. You are bless with so many wonderful talent. Sex before marriage is wrong and when you make love for the first time it will be your Wedding Night. Don’t settle

#152… U ARE SO RIGHT MY DUDE.. HERES THE REAL…
Most guys I know will have sex, just to have sex- kill time- or to experience something new. Guys only commit to those, they feel have morals, some sort of class. Guys think- Hey. you gave it up to me fast, you probably do it with every other guy.
EXACTLY MY POINT. THERES BEEN TIMES WHERE A FEMALE I WAS INTERESTED IN PERSUING IN A RELATIONSHIP GAVE IT UP IN A MATTER OF DAYS I DIDNT EVEN WANT IT NO MORE… WHY BUY THE COW WHEN THE MILK IS FREE? AND ON ANOTHER SUBJECT MOST WOMEN SAY THEY ARE LOOKIN 4 THAT MR. RIGHT SOMEONE SWEET AND THAT WOULD CARE FOR THEM AND TREAT THEM LIKE A QUEEN. BUT WHY IS IT THAT THEY END UP LIKING THE THUGS AND THE NIGGAS THAT JUST WANNA SMASH N TREAT THEM LIKE SHIT..AND THEY FALL IN LOVE… YALL WOMEN ARE SOOO CONFUSED NOW-A-DAYS. MR RIGHT COULD BE IN UR DAMN FACE BUT YALL WOULD SAY HE’S TOO NICE… WHATS WITH THAT? MOST.. NOT ALL OF YALL WANT WHATS BAD FOR YOU IT SEEMS TO ME…. BE SMART IS ALL IM SAYIN.

NOW TELL ME IM WRONG!!!!

There is definitly an abundance of sisters here. I think yall are very misguided and confused.

Real Talk, I will agree with you that many of us women today are confused about who we really are but most of that is because of the images the media portrays & the misconception that is more often that not associated with those images. Many of the ladies here are attempting to CLEAR UP those misconceptions. We will persevere if we just keep fighting. You are right that the thug image has been boosted up & that some women do idolize that image & seem to allow that image exclusive presence in their lives. Again that is based on the misconception that the traits these so-called thugs possess are the desirable ones when for the majority of women they are not. But as well all know the more you see it the more you start to believe it.

well, fisrt of all. Ciara dnt look that pressed for no “boo” she looks nice.. and at her age, i know she’s fine… being connected and in a strong relationship w/ somebody is not her first priority… I’m speaking from “that age” experience… and russell and kimora and the kids look “nice” as well… that one lil grl is probably goin thru that “lil ugly” phase a life which we all went thru… we came out pretty and beautiful, but went thru that “well known uglu stage” of life.. but its no panic…we all went thru thatpoint in our life… it happens and its not a big deal.. because we still are “precious” and cute to our fam and peeps.. and i’m still happy to see them as a cute “normal” non-ignorant everyday “babymama and babaydaddy” type of life… i’d rather build them up than tear them down… ..

now, dnt gt me wrng, i still have my opinion, but its all about what is MORE important.. so, ill just rather compliment them and say i felt a breath of fresh air more than some of the othr “mofos” i’ve seen lately… peace and soul…LOLOL… xoxo holla!!!

fisrt of all. Ciara dnt look that pressed for no “boo” she looks nice.. andwell, at her age, i know she’s fine… being connected and in a strong relationship w/ somebody is not her first priority… I’m speaking from “that age” experience… and russell and kimora and the kids look “nice” as well… that one lil grl is probably goin thru that “lil ugly” phase a life which we all went thru… we came out pretty and beautiful, but went thru that “well known uglu stage” of life.. but its no panic…we all went thru thatpoint in our life… it happens and its not a big deal.. because we still are “precious” and cute to our fam and peeps.. and i’m still happy to see them as a cute “normal” non-ignorant everyday “babymama and babaydaddy” type of life… i’d rather build them up than tear them down… ..

now, dnt gt me wrng, i still have my opinion, but its all about what is MORE important.. so, ill just rather compliment them and say i felt a breath of fresh air more than some of the othr “mofos” i’ve seen lately… peace and soul…LOLOL… xoxo holla!!!

180. FyreStarrter™, PREACH girl!! Also I think the same can be said for good men sticking with no-good-women and even marrying them (Lord why??), I think people in general are confused.

175. NetworKing said:

Relationships require compromise and basically giving up a part of who you are if you’re gonna be with someone else.

>>>>>>>>> My parents been married for almost 30 years, still loving each other like teens, and one thing they always taught me was that someone who truly loves you WILL NOT expect you to compromise yourself, not even partly. Real love is about finding someone that you can be more YOURSELF with. My grand parents (54 years of marriage and counting) told me the same thing basically. People are supposed to be complete and complement one another. The man I’m with makes me feel free specifically because I’m not compromising who I am. Relationships that last require communication, sharing the same values, partnership, respect, and it does require effort too (from BOTH people) but never compromising yourself. If you give up a part of who you are, then you’ll always be incomplete and as a result you’re BOUND to be unhappy as an individual and in couple. Find someone you can be yourself with. As for being cynical about marriage, my own father told me this is one of the most amazing experiences of love but when done for the right reasons, and with the right person. And quite frankly, he didn’t have to tell me cause when I see my parents I have no doubt in my mind. All the cynical people about relationships (most people), sometimes quick to play the “blame game” (y’all women this, y’all men that), I guarantee you that 100% of them unless they work on themselves will never be able to build ANYTHING with ANYONE (and blame errthing but themselves for it). Networking, brother, I shared what I’ve been taught from wise people who live it, maybe you’re sceptical cause you’re from a broken home, but I hope one day you’ll re-evaluate your concept of relationship.

I agree with everything Ciara said.

I DONT CARE WHAT ANYBODY SAYS, that ISAIAH IS ONE HOT BITCH. WORD TO YOUR MOTHER

at 188 Chante, GYRL my parents are in the EXACT same situation. They’ve known each other since they were 7, been married since they were 23, & this year that will make 32 YEARS!!! And just like any couple they have their problems but they GENUINELY still love each other & do whatever it takes to work it out. Whenever I get down on the idea of love & down on the idea of finding that special Man who deserves me & truly wants to be with me for me, I look at them as a true example of how great a marriage can be when 2 people are involved that genuinely understand what marriage IS & what is ISN’T. I think alot of the people on here have seen such negative images on marriage everywhere there turn that to hear Ciara even mentioned the word is BLASPHEMY in their minds. It’s almost gotten to a point where marriage, WTF is that?

I AGREE WITH WHOEVER SAID THAT BACK IN DA DAY THEY USE TO MARRY OFF PPL AT 14 AND 15 SOMETIMES EVEN 13! AND THEY STAY MARRIED! FOR A LONGGGGGGGG TIME, REMEMBER CELIE IN DA COLOR PURPLE, SHE WAS 14 WHEN SHE MARRIED ALBERT IN DA MOVIE, AND IN COLEMINER’S DAUGHTER, SISSY MARRIED TOMMY LEE JONES AT LIKE 14 , BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY USED TO DO IN THE EARLIER DAYZ!!!!! SO AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MARRIAGE!

wow

Excuse me why do we have to please them by being the virgins??? I wanna marry a virgin too but that dont stop them from sleeping around. Theres too many women airhead in this world. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If he feels its okay fir him not to marry as a virgin then is sud be okay for his bride to be not to be a virgin. its ladies like u #157 that allow men to walk on us….talk about them havin their cake and eating it!!!

@ 191. FyreStarrter, so very true, so so very true. Yes there are a few problems in every couple but long as there’s respect and willingness to work it out, it will last. See Ciara has positive models her parents, you and I have been blessed to have that but soooo many don’t, somehow I can understand why most don’t question their perception of reality. Not only do they see it around them but it’s promoted on TV, and ultimately chances are you end up becoming the product of your environment cause as you said, the more you see it the more you believe it.

@ 192. getmebodied, people were mostly married by arrangement, for economic reasons. And often it was the girl who was a teen and the man who was a grown (cause he provided for the family), and there were not laws to protect those kids back then. My great grandma got married at age 12, just cause that was the norm back in the day doesn’t mean it was good. Killing women who had a child out of wedlock in many countries was the norm and still is today, but is it fair or good? No.

@182…I’m writing a song around the primise that I was pondering the other day. A family member of mine who has his girl that he disrespects and even jumped on her, but even though he disrespects her, still says she loves him. Crazy, I know… but the lyrics to the song go something like this..

“Women say that we could sleep with anyone,

but they’ll fall in love with anyone…”

I think that says alot right there..

Ciara Sit your Ass Down

188 and 191, that is real good to see that, they are definatly the exception. What I was saying was that it’s not the case for everyone, but for a lot of people. I was just explaining the extremes of both sides. We do need to see more examples of strong love, not just on tv, but in our own families and parents. Cuz tv only shows a portion of these peoples lives, a small portion. If you have parents who love eachother, and you see that on a daily, that creates expectations and brings a strong since of what marriage can be if two people really love eachother.

Unfortunatly alot of people dont see that. Me included…the closest I saw was my grandparents, but my grandmother had went through so much termoil in her life, but the grandfather I grew up knowing was good for the most part. How many men can take on 6 kids? My grandmother had 6 kids and 3 cousins all living in his house. And he had none! I comend him for that…

on another note..

women PLEASE! Stop having kids and not married! Just because your on a pill dont just rely on that! Make us negros wear a condom! You almost got to expect a woman to have kids when you meet them now a days! And I’m still in my early 20’s! Ugly girls even have kids! And you got these knuckle heads that dont do shit with they kids and that really piss me off! Negros if you dumb enough to have sex wit a girl without a condom, just because she told you she was on the b.control, you need to wake up too. and pulling out become cuming is stupid too! There is sperm in pre cum too! Weed may lower your sperm count, but you only need 1 sperm to make a baby…

#158 chante u preach it my girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May I also add that even if u do marry ur husband as a virgin so bloody what???!!! Do u honestly think that that means he wont still be on the prowl for pussy.smhl.
If u are gonna ‘keep’ urself keep urself for God not no bloody man.
Andy by the way I giving it up early to 2 guys b4 and i didnt want them but they were on my case - one still is so giving it up early dont matter and any reasonable guy will know that.

If the guy can call the woman an easy lay well he was an easy lay too he screwed her the same time didnt he???

If only more young, and older, females had the mindset of Ciara. She has it right! She can’t control her feeling. She’s human. Also, she said she is patience. Having fun does not equate having sex or dating - that’s what’s wrong with alot of people now, and the reason why there are so many baby mothers and baby daddies around. People don’t think about who they are giving themselves too, mentally and phyically. Not everyone is in to dating around and giving yourself to just anybody. Some people like being in committed relationships.

^^^ You really said a mouthful! I agree with everything you said. “Having fun” doesn’t mean you just run around and sleep with any and everybody. Ppl have a warped way of thinking it seems.

Everybody’s a damn preacher…

lol Foxxy380 I missed your post. First of all a “hoe” is a garden tools,maybe prostitution was the word you were looking for ! Secondly, I seem to have a hellva lot more sense than you when it comes to giving my body away. If I recalled corretly you have two children, Now you are what I call a fool. Aint no nigga about to nut all in me and leave me high and dry with two babies! I didnt come at anyone disrespectful on this post I just gave another side of the story .But being you felt inclined to go there I will too !

Sniff, Sniff (Fyre with a lil something in her eye)…I really do wish that we had more active dialogues like these. Roundtable discussions like this are the start of plausible solutions to some of the MAJOR issues affecting our communities AND our generations. We all KNOW we have some major issues & that we need solutions but how can we ever come up with solutions if we never realistically talk about the underlying problems?

@Networking you are so right that the imagery we see is not helping us. But it is up to us to change it. You know that as well as anyone here. In our communities the relationships between men & women are so fractured that I fear it will take decades to repair. And that is being highly optimistic. After all, it took us CENTURIES to get here.

Ciara is too young to be thinking about a soulmate and getting married. I think she should just enjoy the her fabulous life before getting tied down. I understand her though about enjoying being in a relationship. I was in one for 3 years, and I’m still trying to get over him, even though it’s been a while since we broke up. I’m young so I’m living it up, and when the time is right, I’ll be able to experience that again.

In like two articles and a video interview I read she said she wanted to have 5 kids at the age of 25. She is very mature and maybe thinking her life out to fast.

I love Intouch. Why Why Why.lol

Okay I really have to change my avatar. I look 12.lol

To comment on what Ciara said, I agree 100%. Eventhough I am 17 years old, I sometimes feel like I will never be able to find the MAN that I will be able to spend the rest of my life with. Just as Ciara said i’m not dating just to have something to do, when I date I’m looking for the man that I want to marry.

Ciara dates to get married …. I date to fuck ! I probably would date to marry ! But spending money in the beganning (courting) . And during a marriage and then breaking bread at the end (alimony,childsupport) . I minus well build a firepit and throw my cheddar in now !FWIW

Ciara said, she would like to have her first child at age 25. Don’t give her 5 at age 25. Life is what you make it. People sex is overrated get to know each other as friends before lover.

don’t compare gays to blacks, it’s just insulting. feel how you want to about the matter, but I don’t think that having sex with someone of the same sex compares to one’s race. I’m sick of all these stupid bullies attempting to attack others because of their opinions.

CIARA YOU KNOW YOU’LL STILL BE THE BEST EVEN IF YOU DONT GET A MAN BUT IF YOU DO GET A MAN CONGRATS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AND ALL THE OTHER MEN DAT CHEATED ON U LEAVE DEM BEHIND AND SAY FUCK DEM

No 58 I ma happy for u girl. Its amazing wat God can do. That is why right now, no matter wat anyone tells me, i am living my life right now to go to heaven when i die. I pray for a lot of things and i get most of them. Glory be to God.

I just viewed the comments and ya’ll on here are acting so damn stupid. Easy whores talking bout 3 weeks and gave it up. That really shows how much respect you have for yourself. And some on here say I don’t judge people, shit from a comment like that 3 weeks and even 2 months aint even long enough to find out if somebody on crack. Seriously, so mmmmmm, fuck a man who you know a few things about but not too much. Yea what a classy lady.
knockkey, you right. Damn people can’t even wait to know a person before sleeping with em. This is exactly why black people and even people in general get HIV. I don’t care… it’s ya’ll fault. 45 million in 2010, remember that.

Mizzlizz,

I said I was sorry. I never meant to hurt you. Take me back lol

SMH @ HE IS A FAGGOT SO GET OVER YOURSELF.
NOW THAT IS SOMETHING IGNORANT TO SAY.
CIARA IS SEMI-CUTE WIT HER BANGIN BODY AND YOUNG, SHE’LL FIND THE “RIGHT” ONE. SHE HAS PLENTY OF TIME.
RUSSELL AND KIMORA GOTTA LOVE THEM, MARRIED OR NOT!

#206 I feel u its hard.lol. But shit happens and we have to pick up the pieces and move on. Nice to know im not alone.

@ 216 girl please! Folks get HIV from not using protection where sex is involved simple as that! You can date a person for 20 yrs and still know nothing about them so what is your point??? You can sleep with a man after five months or even a yr and he still can disrespect you ,again whats your point??? If hes a good man hes a good man ,If he is a scumbag hes a scumbag ,I dont care how long you make him wait !!!!

J.Lewis, babe, you are someone elses. Why do you keep coming back? lol =]

Soliana22, it is really hard. It’s even harder when you find out that they’ve moved on and they got someone new and you’re still stuck in the same old place. *sighs* You’re right tho; you just gotta keep it moving.

#MiZZLiZZ Its even worse when they cheat. It’s like how you gonna move on in that way. be honest always… Being honest says alot. He can be a dirt bag, but as long as he’s honest about it, I guess that says something. And even though I dont know ur ex. The grass isn’t always greener on the otherside he may be thinking about u like crazy. I know why doesn’t he let u know right? thats what I ask folks who tell me the same thing.Newayz . Have a good Night and weekend.:)

Ciara teach no sex not safe sex to girl all over the world. Ladies you must love youself before you can love other. Men want a lady as a wife and ho as a bed partner. So which one do you want to be? Monica just broke it down with Sideline ho. Ciara wrote Promise to her Soulmate to be. Looking for somebody I can call Boo The only one I can give my all too Is it You. Ladies support Ciara care about yourself first

I once thought like Ciara … wanted that soulmate ! And I was all for getting to know a women … but after getting label the nice guy . And seeing the scurge (thugs) of my community , sleeping with the same women I was trying to get to know . I came up with the ideal if U can be on my phone talking to me for HR’s on end . U can come over and broaden the experience …. really be lovers&friends . That is what a relationship is …… right ? LMFAO

Lawd knows I totally understand what CICi is feeling. I’m just turned 20 and i have a pretty face (at least in pics) but i have NEVER had a serious boyfriend and i’m a serious christian so marriage is the only way i’ll have a family and i’m worried sick that i’ll end up gathering dust on the shelf when i’m 35 in 15 years time. And be condemned to die a virgin!

But at least i know exactly what i need to do to change all that. Lose 60 lbs cuz at 5′5″ 190 lbs i look like shit and my neck looks like a pack o’ hot dogs and then i’ll do a chemical peel and fat injection to the booty, get some sexy clothes. AND POOF i’ll have a rock on my left hand.

SIGH a girl can dream. CIARA I totally understand gurl! You’re single for 1 year i’m single for 19 years ( excluding age one lol)