@ 149 Black females are at the highest point for aid b/c of black men fucking other men . It not only the females responsibility to take care of themselves, but if you are in a monogamous relationship, your mate should have enough respect for you to put on protection if he’s fucking other ppl. I hate when women want to take all the blame for men and their sorry ass behavior! Yes, a lot of women dont handle thier business when it comes to protection but there are alot of women with HIV and AIDS who got it from ppl they were in monogamous relationships with. I take it you dont have a child ? If you do your rant holds no merit. lol

@ 151 smh… Do your research. If you want links or more information I can glady post them for you.

@ 151 and what will you be posting?? lol that black women are at the highest rate of aids ? We have agreed on that much.lol .. I think you need to research WHY black women are 1#?? Fuck outta her. Where the hell have you been, living under a rock?

TAAAAMMMY PREACH PREACH PREAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACH!

I agree Tammy, a lot of black women catch aids from their long time lover or husbands having affairs with unprotected sex.

SMH..you are too funny.
I didnt disagree with you about the men fucking men statistic. Thats only part of the problem.

I AM JUST SAYING WOMEN NEED TO TELL THEIR PARTNERS TO USE A CONDOM. PERIOD POINT FUCKING BLANK! MEN CANT STICK HIS DICK IN RAW IF YOU WE DONT LET THEM.

Since you are aware of the reason why black women are affected I hope you are taking proper measures to protect yourself.

@ 156 You are funny also .what about those stats? lmao

Peace

Talk about a one track mind and a chick that is a female chauvinist.
TAMMY don’t even bother responding. You gonna get carpal tunnel doing so.

Tammy,
u r so Fucking right. Women stop fucking letting men make u take the blame 4 shit. These men (studies have been done)have relations with men while be locked up in jail(get HIV). Think bout it there in jail 4 a long ass time, they come out of jail being gay, get into relationships with women to hide the fact tht they r gay.

@158 Im done with that it like talking to a brick wall. I’ll leave her with this though “KNOWLEDGE IS POWER”

TO POETIC AND JEWEL - first of all i don’t know why yall trippin hard. i was just stating if theres anybody on this website that should be passing judgements on jay . that person should be me. cause sum of yall don’t know him enough to clown him the way yall do. i got easy access to every one he grew up with.and i asked every question there was to be asked about his street cred. and so on .and he’s good. i was just saying so many people bash him when in reality you just don’t even like him. nore pay any attention to him. or anything he says or does you get me. that’s all was saying . i don’t know him but i know him better than the people that bash on him. get it and did yall by any chance read the rest. iam not a clown i make good points iam factual and intelegent also so don’t doubt . it’s these females that only view him as beyonce’s boy friend. and laugh and call him names when he slips up. hell even when does something good .erks me soo much. they just talk about him so badly .and iam sick of it. always saying they know him. and what he so called said and shit .and that bullshit is just as wack as that lame ass camel joke.

SMH

Ya’ll keep on expecting “YOUR LONG TERM” boyfriends to be responsible, and expect them tell you they are fucking ray ray under the bridge in thursdays when you get your hair done.
The facts prove that MEN ARENT GONNA TELL US SHIT THATS WHY WE ARE MORE AT RISK THAN ANY OTHER RACE.
You have to be sick or something to believe that I am a female chauvinist. Ignorance invites infection long term relationship or not. Ignorance in what you are talking about means that many Black women don’t realize there are aspects of our lifestyles that we are unaware of, or take for granted which put us at risk for HIV/AIDS. SO SINCE YOU ALL ARE VERY AWARE WHY BLACK WOMEN ARE AFFECTED. Then those of you that are in a long term or monogamous relationship means you are more at risk and need to PROTECT YOURSELVES.

Maybe I need to type this in spanish so that you all can understand

i believe that’s eddie’s baby
that whole jay-z kid
i don’t believe no one has proof
just cause he use to mess with her people going to assume that’s he’s kid

whatever she just wants some money and shine
chris don’t know cause know the lady saying she don’t know if chris is the father so sad

Okay I said I was gonna let this go but its too funny. What are you talking about?? lmao . Do you know god love man and wife to create ? So why wouldnt I trust my husband with my body? Why get married If I cant trust the man with my life? Lets be realistic most couples who have been together for awhile live by the same terms. What are we suppose to understand?? lol That women are responsible for themselves? So I guess you will never have a child? You will marry a man that you wont trust with your body enough to procreate with him ? What happens if the condom breaks? You still need to have enough trust in him that he’s a decent man right and wont give you shit ? GET IT NOW !!!!!! YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO CARE ABOUT YOUR BODY AS MUCH AS YOU DO !!! ITS A TWO WAY STREET !!!!!!!!!! ITS NOT ALL ON THE WOMEN …

@NE

I would love to see these stats you’re quoting. Black women have higher rates of infection because of having multiple unprotected partners. This is a fact, just look at the rate of black babies born out of wedlock in comparison to other races. We even outpace the Hispanic community in out of wedlock births, it’s a well know fact that Hispanic females become sexually active very early, but the difference is they also marry young.

I’m sorry, alot of the blame belongs to black women.

Ya’ll keep on expecting “YOUR LONG TERM” boyfriends to be responsible

>>>>>> I’m talking about living and building up something with someone for about 10 years, y’all are a family and have kids, that’s serious, the difference between a long time boyfriend and a husband is the wedding, but it doesnt change the fact that two people are supposed to be in a serious monogamous relationship. Some people don’t believe in marriage, some do, but in a serious relationship you’re supposed to be faithful, that’s the difference between a jumpoff and a girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife. Of course we’re all in charge and in control of our destiny, but women make mistakes and poor choices just like men cause they’re humans. If we’re going to blame let’s blame at least the two people who TANGO and not ONE same ol party for everything wrong in this world all the damn time.

@ woode29 http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/to...sources/factsheets/aa.htm

Read the risk factors honey!!! nuff said

http://www.avert.org/statsum.htm
http://www.unaids.org/en/HIV_data/default.asp
http://www.omhrc.gov/hiva...ances/fs/05-1221AfAms.pdf

woode29
ALL I AM SAYING IS, that black women need to make sure their men strap up If you dont tell your dude to strap up guess what? He won’t!
———NOT ALL MEN BUT SOME———–
The women who got hiv in marriage…long term relationships etc…USE TO feel the same way you NOW feel tammy.(They trusted their husbands/mates with their bodies)

Blk DDS what does smh mean i can’t figure it out

JAY-Z SORRY ASS HE KNO THATS HIS BABY

LMBAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WHOOPI GOT SERVED SOMETHING SERIOUS DAMN YOU TAMMY HEHEHE

This is what pisses me off about those damn paternity tests shows Maury does! No matter how many times these promiscuous hos are wrong about who they are 200% the daddy is, the audience (studio and TV)are always on the “women”’s sides! How many times does a slut have to run backstage and fall flat on her face before we STOP siding with these chickenheads?! I guarantee Maury has said “You are NOT the father!” more than he’s said the other thing!

*Newsflash* Eddie,Chris, and Jay just might NOT be the daddies!

@54 Wow Bill that was an interesting piece of information, boy you learn something new everyday.

I wonder to what extent kelly and michelle know of this.

And another thing! Why is it always called being a “real man” when a dude decides to take care of someone else’s mistake?! I mean it’s a nice thing to do, but I would not blame a mofo for walking out after finding out he is NOT the father!

ok I don’t know any of these people but bey don’t seem like a women who would be nasty to a child if it’s true they been together long enough for her to GET OVER IT.(me if I love him I would want to know) It seem so fake a DNA is only $500 carenote money for some of us if that boy is five then somebody is not on there J. Anyway on to Eiddie damn i never knew he would do it like that, and for my sister 2 sister readers How about Eiddie done dickwhipped Tracy head all up u would think eiddie never meet mel. Eiddie GOT TO BE PUTTING IN Work must be nice…

TAMMY & NE

I went to those sites and the statistics appear to paint a dreary picture. I do have this theory, though, the general consensus of all the studies say that black women are at a higher risk of infection because black men have a higher likelihood of gay intercourse. I’m not a statistician by any means, but this reasoning seems to suggest that black men have a higher tendency of homosexual behavior simply because of skin color? Am I missing something?

Ok ladies; follow my logic for a minute. If I where a white supremacist government, with the ability to influence things such as CDC reports, US Census reports, drug usage statistics etc. My goal as a supremacist would be the eventual extinction of non white races. Would it not make perfect sense, for me to publish statistics that say because you are a black man, you’re 40% more likely to have unprotected sex with men?

The power of suggestion is a real science! Our government puts it in practice on a daily bases! I believe some of the HIV stats concerning blacks are the next phase in that practice. The goal I believe is to have black women eventually turn completely against black men! You may ask yourself for what reason? Well that’s obvious, you’re being psychologically conditioned to stop having black babies!

I truly believe, the majority of black HIV infections come from two things, multiple unprotected heterosexual activity, “blacks high illegitimate birth rates backs this up” and secondly IV drug use. If you follow the CDC’s and other health agencies logic, then if you’re a white male you’re more likely to just be straight up gay, and if you’re a black male you’re more likely to be bi-sexual and dipping in the vagina as well as Tyrone! I don’t know if I’m losing yall, but don’t you see this is all based on skin color?

One of the CDC reports even went so far as to say “Black men are more likely to be MORE homophobic then other races of men” Are you fucking kidding me CDC. Men, regardless of race are homophobic! Again, do you ladies see what I’m driving at? Now if you’re a sister, and you want kids and a family and the whole nine, looking at these statistics what are you going to do? To be absolutely blunt, according to the US government mighty whitey has the cleanest dick in on the planet! So that’s who black women are going to go to for procreation!

It’s psychological warfare in every sense of the word! In closing, do not misunderstand what I’m suggesting. I am suggesting that if you are sexually active that you get tested and use protection! It is up to each couple who are committed to decide on protection or not. Personally, if I am married I fully expect to have relations with my wife in a natural state, Whats the point of being married? I am also suggesting that our HIV infection rates are from brothers and sisters screwing everybody without protection as well as brothers and sisters getting high! We need to get off the dope! I am suggesting that the US is waging psychological warfare against us.

By continually asserting that black men are more apt to “down low” homosexual behavior will cause a certain percentage of black men to behave in such a fashion! You may ask, “Well Woode, why does it matter how sisters are being infected with HIV?” It matters because, if you believe the government 100 percent, you will stop having black children completely, and chose to have babies by any race but black! I alluded to this earlier; in essence our government is using black women, the giver of life, and the backbone of her race to kill it! This particular issue is just one example of the warfare that this government has used to divide black men from black women! I eagerly await your response.

@ woode29 I find it really funny that you were anticipating those statistics, until they didnt tell you what you wanted to read my brotha! I dont think for a minute that those stats are false! I can believe that numerous black men are sleeping with other men. Because a women has a child out of wedlock she is at risk for HIV ?Is that what you’re saying? For eveytime a women gets pregnant, a mans semen has to get her pregnant so that means there are an equal amount of men spreading it as women . Dont try to miscontrue the stats because you dont agree! I honestly believe that some stats are falsafied dont get it twisted but this one ,no way I know too many gay ass men fucking straight guys! But,whatever you choose to believe is on you.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NOW LET ME TYPE MY PEACE AND BE OUT. FOR EVERYONE WHO KEEPS SPEAKING ON THESE MEN NEED TO USE CONDOMS. SHANELLE SAID THAT WHEN HER AND JAY HAD THEIR “SITUATION” THEY ALWAYS USED PROTECTION! IF I WERE GOING TO BELIEVE ANYONE’S STORY IT WOULD BE MEL B, HER STORY IS NOT PUBLISHED ONLY IN THE TABLOID GOSSIP MAGAZINES BUT REPUTABLE MAGAZINES AND NEWSPAPERS! SHANELLE ON THE OTHER HAND STORY IS LIMITED TO HIP HOP WEEKLY AND THE GOSSIP BLOGS! DO YOU NOT FIND IT KINDA OF SUSPECT, WHY SHE WOULDN’T GIVE PEOPLE,TIME, VIBE, EBONY, ESSENCE OR ANY OTHER REPUTABLE NEWSPAPER OR MAGAZINE AN INTERVIEW. ON TOP OF ALL THAT IT DOESN’T SAY SHANELLE SAID ANYTHING,IT’S A CLOSE SOURCE TO SHANELLE! I AM SORRY, THE PICTURE POSTED ON SANDRA ROSE WEBSITE BLOG AT THIS MOMENT LOOKS NOTHING LIKE SHAWN CARTER, HIS LIPS ARE THIN AND HIS NOSE IS NOT BIG AT ALL! FOR THOSE WHO HAVEN’T SEEN IT, GO TAKE A LOOK FOR YOURSELF!
IN A WAY I REALLY HOPE EDDIE IS MEL B’S BABY FATHER. MEL ISN’T LETTING ANYONE TELL HER STORY SHE IS BEING A WOMAN ABOUT HERS, SHE IS LETTING IT BE KNOWN THAT SHE BELIEVE EDDIE IS HER CHILD’S FATHER. IF SHANELLE HAD DONE THIS I MIGHT HAVE CONSIDERED THE IDEA, I DON’T BELIEVE THAT IS HIS CHILD. WHY HASN’T SHE WENT AND OPENED A CHILD SUPPORT CASE ON JAY? HER CHILD WAS BORN IN CALIFORNIA, HE’S AMERICAN, SO PEOPLE CAN STOP ALL THAT NONSENSE ABOUT TRINIDAD AND DEPORTATION AND WHAT NOT. CHRIS WELL I AM KINDA IFFY ABOUT HIS, WHY DID SHE WAIT SO LONG? SHOW ME SOME COURT APPOINTED DNA TESTS THAT IS THE ONLY WAY I WILL BELIEVE ANY OF THESE GUYS ARE THE FATHERS!

@FACE#130:COULD YOU BE ONE OF THE TRIFLING MOFOS WHO CREATED CHILDREN THAT YOU DONT SUPPORT~ talking about child support is for suckers! No Suckers are men who dont support their children financially and emotionally.
#146 CHRISTIAN- you dont sound too christian like , placing all the blame on women when it takes two to tango and these women who got pregnant obviously werent sleeping alone. How about shared responsibility? Dont try to make every situation a bliblical one,because the bible also says let he who is without sin cast the first stone,and I know that you arent perfect.The bible lists a number of things we shouldnt do (other than sex outside marriage) but people are still doing them.
If these men are the fathers of these children they need to step up to the plate like real men and handle their business.

cherylinmiami good points I gree 100% WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO QUICK TO BELIEVE JAY-Z STORY? EVERYTHING ABOUT JAY KID IS LIES DON’T BELIEVE THAT MUSCLE FACE MEN WENDY-WILLIAMS SHE JUST WANTS YOU ALL TO BUY THE MAGAZINE BECAUSE SHE’S PART OF THAT JUST LIVE JAY-Z ALONE

CHERYLINE MIAMI GOOD POINT IGREE 100% WHY ARE YOU SO QUICK TO BELIEVE JAY-Z STORY? everything about jay kid is lie don’t believe that muscle face men wendy-williams she just wants you all to buy the magazine because she’s part of that please just live jay-z alone

#177 Tammy

“Because a woman has a child out of wedlock, she’s at risk of HIV?”

Absolutely! How do you not see the corrolation there? What I’m about to say is not to be offensive, just straight up grown folk talk. How many of us know black women with children by more than one father? Personally I know more than I can even begin to count! The main contributing factor of our rate of HIV is unprotected sex! All of a sudden according to the white man, In the least ten years, 80 percent of black men just lost their damn minds and just started uncontrollably fucking men..And you sisters really believe this! I mean really black women, open your eyes! Sometimes y’all sisters can be so quick to believe what the white man says you are, instead of looking at the hard truth!

Now that’s not to say black men have no part in this! Of course we do, but why can’t you see that this is another tactic to further drive us apart? I swear sometimes sisters can be dense. Again the CDC reports say in plain non coded English, “White men who engage in homosexual activity are more likely to be just plain gay! But black men who engage in homesexual activity are bi-sexual and therfore puts our black women at greater risk” Pleas read the last sentence carefully! It’s clearly propaganda! Scare tactics! If a man is gay, how does his color determine this??? Why can’t you see through the bs? A gay man is a gay man period.

So according to the CDC, I should be a bisexual male, with several illegitimate children, an IV drug user, and most likely infected with HIV! At 37 years old, I have no children. I’ve never had ANY sexually transmited desease, and I’ve had plenty of women! And damn sure ain’t thinking about sliding in up in another niggas ass! Obviously I practice safe sex. The lack of safe sex practices in our race is what’s killing us! But our sisters are so programmed by whitey you can’t hear the brothers anymore..Looks like their plan is working.
Goodnight

@ TO THE INTELEGENT PEOPLE

I don’t know where to start. How can you say you don’t know Jay but do in the same breath. The ppl you are probably reffering to our homies in his old neighborhood. Who probably haven’t talked to him in years. Jay hasn’t been on the block since reasonable double 14 yrs ago. Basically you have no cred. You sound like a groupie….who is still a little sprung if you ask me. This is a gossip site…respect that! We will have opinions..don’t get mad because we aren’t wet behind the ears like you and Beyonce. Ish like this is what kills me in society Women see mr wrong as Mr right…Oback obama is Mr right not Jay or Cmaron or even Kanye….uncle Tom…You and Beyonce need to get a life!

wood29
I think its safe to say that those statistics are just based on the men that have offered information. Studies are done on people who PARTICIPATE. To me it means that,those numbers are based on the black men who offered to say:
“hey I was doing some fudge packing all while fucking my girl of 10 years” is why to me It doesnt necessarily include all the men WHO ARE IN FACT heterosexual and have contracted the virus by straight sex. Better yet it doesnt include ALL of the people who have HIV/AIDS. A lot of people in ALL races who arent in those studies DONT SPEAK UP because of embarrassment or whatever, so you are only going to get an estimated figure based on the PEOPLE WHO PARTICIPATE. Its all a STUDY so no you cant look at those numbers and point fingers. You can however be more careful and look at WHY black women are at risk and take the CONTROL of your life.

Ladies Next time you open your legs tell that man to put on a condom unless you are 200% sure he is disease free cause it isnt worth it. Same with the men Start stepping up and put condoms on, IT CANT BE THAT BAD, considering its helping your chances.

You know that Music choice station on direct tv i believe. Well, they stated beyonce was romantically involved with Marques Houston and Pharell Williams. How does music choice know these things?! I sure hope she’s not a f* for tracks type of broad, and I saw this a long time ago, in 2003!

They also said something pertaining to Chico DeBarge. That’s when I lost respect for her. I respect her gift, but not her persona.

Furthermore, why is Shenelle the golddigger. allegely when she went to Jay, HE paid her silence. After seeing what Puffy’s Baby momma’s get I would be trying to pocket him out too. You are Jay’s son. If he would have claimed you, you would have been getting more than 4000 a month. I bet 4000 isn’t even Jay’s tab at the club. I bet his roadies recieve more. Jay gave that child chump change and that’s not right, if this is all true.

Wood29

I appreciate that you took the time to articulate your Point Of View.

It’s rare that something said on this board would make me RECONSIDER my position on a topic.

What you stated about “considering the source” of the so called “statistics” of HIV Rates Of Black Males, Well..What you stated my brother is really causing me from THIS POINT ON to view those “statistics” with a grain of salt.

And..

I ALSO agree with you Ne’ !!!

I feel the same way you do: That we may NEVER know the real numbers, because there are so many people living with HIV who won’t come forth and provide that information to CDC!!!

I was just reading an article the other day concerning the Black Market Demand for HIV Medicine/Pills..It alarmed me, and alerted me to the amount of people suffering with HIV, without proper medical care or even Insurance to pay for the vaccine.

Wood29 & Ne’:
I would like to give both of you a sincere “THANK YOU”.

It makes me feel so proud to see that OTHERS on this board show a interest in what affects our Black Community.

Thank You My Brother & Sister for sharing YOUR Intellect & YOUR Knowledge

Peace

Bill

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I will admit, usually my interaction on the board leans to negative things, but in no way am I one dimensional. In reference to CDC stats, Im glad that you got the gist of what I said. No one is denying that blacks are being infected. I question the authenticity of so called “scientific” studies based on race.

Wood29,

Yes, I must admit, that you shocked me with this particular Point Of View, because you are usually known for saying some pretty off the wall stuff.

That’s Cool though…It good to hear/read people being honest about how they feel….
If we all were the same, the world would be boring

This just goes to show me that we ALL can have our good & bad days.

I just wanted to put it out there, that YOU taught me something this day with your postings on this subject/topic

Keep Up The Good Work !!!
Peace, My Brother

Eddie is the father.
I bet you any money.

I surely hope that Jay-Z isn’t the father. You know why, I want that lady to suffer her deficient consequences
having sex before marrige. IF everyone would have listened to Jesus Christ and follow his rules half the things that go on now wouldn’t happen. If you get married you wouldn’t have to think about if your man will leave you or if he wont take care of the child. Having knowlegde about the lord could actually help your whole life. Your probably reading this sayin shutup and things but I’m very serious. I know 13 years old girls getting preagnant 14, 15 and I know some 12 ones. If you dont want a kid why try the situation in the first place. If you think it’s cool it’s really not, having a child at a young age can kill you or rewin your whole life. Half of yall think I’m crazy but im dead serious I went through bad stages but I’m over them I now know how to keep myself grounded. And if you ladies think that it’s fun running around a having sex with all these men, then thats how they will soon take advantage of you without you noticing so dont get offended when someone calls you a hor or a tramp, sometimes it could be the truth.

Woode29 I used that line to make a point read they two lines after that one! If you want to talk about tatics to drive us apart, then tell your homeboys stop fucking men! The nerve of you to say “unwed mothers are the problem” Dont you know , for every unwed mother there is an unwed father with her that help create that seed. So what would be your point? They are both at risk not just the women . Wow, black men kill me with this shit ! Its ok to say a black women is this that and another ,but time a sista speak some truth about black men we are accused of being “Down with the tactics” ..fuck outta here !!!!!!

Uhm excuse ME BUT LAST I CHECKED CONDOMS WERE AVAILABLE FOR MEN . SO ARE VASECTOMIES IF YOU WANT TO REALLY BREAK IT DOWN. DONT LAY DOWN WITH A WOMAN UNPROTECTED IF YOU DONT WANT TO FATHER A CHILD BY HER! HELLO COMMON SENSE IS FREE IN CASE YA A*Z DIDNT GET THE MEMO,LOL TRY USING IT:) AS I SAID ALREADY IT TAKES 2 ,THAT MEANS ITS A SHARED RESPONSIBILITY! SOEM OF THESE MEN LUV TO GO SKINNY DIPPING IN THE P*SSY BUT WONT CONSIDER TAKING AN XTRA MINUET TO WRAP THEIR BANANA UP.

WEN I HEARD DAT BABY WAS BORN ON EDDIE’S BDAY I JUS AD 2 LAFF..HOW DUZ HE FEEL? HE NOS DAS HIS KID Y HE LYIN 4?!?! MEL B KNOWS N HE KNOWS.HE TRYNA MAKE HER LOOK LYK SUM OBSESSED WOMAN N TELLIN LIES BOUT SHE WANTS HE’S MONEY OR WATEVA BUT IN DE END HE GNA LOOK LYK A FOOL.BET THE BABY EVEN LOOKS LYK HIM

daaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!
Beyonce and Chico??????
ok,so now I know she dated Mos,Marques and Chico…damn u Chico!I had a crush on you for years…just damn!

@ TAMMY

I stand by my statement.

Don’t get me wrong I don’t agree with “deadbeat dads” and yes I do read the gossip mags, etc for the fun of it, I think that it is really crazy how wrapped up we get into other peoples personal lives while knowing if someone was all into our business like this we would be fighting mad! So in saying this I am going to side with Shennelle because why in the world does ANYONE need to know what her baby looks like and who his daddy is?? Do you know how many potential people would be trying to kidnap or harm this baby just to extort $$$$ from HOV? Adults hey put them out there but the babies leave them alone…I feel bad, really I do….

Bill,

If Chico was messing around with Beyounce when she was with Destiny’s Child and got her pregnant, then where is the baby? Wasn’t Beyounce under age at that time? What year did this secret affair take place?