A few years ago, a source told me she grew up with this renowned black male celebrity. It was so much drama is his childhood, he often stayed at her family’s house. They fed and clothed him. His family was so dysfunctional, they only came looking for him once.
After he became famous, they lost touch but when he returned to their hometown for an engagement, her whole family went to welcome him home with open arms.
The reunion didn’t go as expected, he snubbed them and told them he didn’t want to remember anything or anyone from his past. He left them standing there with their mouths open as he got into his limo and took off.
Fast Forward:
Rumors have always circulated that this man has ordered up male escorts on occasion but he continues to deny gay rumors regarding his lifestyle.We were recently informed that this man is now having a very discreet and secretive relationship with a professional athlete. They both are very careful because they both have a lot to lose.
Our celebrity has dated famous women and he uses them as “beards,” while his athlete stands in the shadows.
Whenever you see one of them, the other is not far behind, regardless of city.
Hints: He’s not a actor, singer, rapper, model or athlete. And, he’s extremely popular and well known in the black community.
NOTE: All blind items are written by Myra Panache or her staff. No, I do not know what the answer is – after all it is called a ‘Blind Item’. These items are posted for entertainment purposes. Please don’t email me asking for the answer because your email will be promptly deleted.


This was too easy for me. Tyler Perry is the blind item, Barry Bonds is the athelete and Tyra Banks is the beard.
TIMBERLAND……… that’s who it is they reported that him and Missy were beefing some.
TYLER PERRY!! No Doubt!
After reading the other comments, I’m changing the athelete guess to L. Coles. What’s so funny is I went to middle school with Laverneous (Ribault Middle in Jacksonville, FL) and never knew that about him. Damn, it just goes to show you, you never know. This is still Tyler all the way. You have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to see the sugar in Tyler’s tank.
???? Tavis Smiley???
L. Coles is not Gay. I gay friend of mine tried to push up on him and got knocked the F*** out!!! It’s Dr. Ian Smith or Tavis Smiley.
I can’t figure why everyone thinks it’s Tyler Perry. What famous female beards has he dated?
TYLER PERRY IS AN ACTOR IN CASE MANY OF YOU HAVE NOT SEEN HIS MOVIES OR PLAYS…HE JUST WEARS A COSTUME! so that is a stupid suggestion to make!
GET_ME_BODIED whats so yuck about homosexual people. So what if he has an entourage of gay people, maybe he feels he can trust them. I am not gay but I know that your Yuck comment is offensive. Open your mind. Half the men you like probably like men
PRODUCER
SONG WRITER
COMEDIAN
RADIO DJ
POLITICIAN
SOCIALITE
TV PERSONALITY
Could be a lot of people
@#68, ITS FOUL AND ITS NASTY! AND AN ABOMINTATION TO THE LORD! I HAVE GAY PPL IN MY FAMILY, BUT I WILL STILL TELL THEM TO THEY FACE, THEY STILL WRONG! AND I WILL NEVA OPEN MY MIND ABOUT GAYS. I DONT UNDERSTAND IT, NOR I NEVA WANT TO UNDERSTAND IT. AND KEEP WONDERING ABOUT THE MEN I DATE, WHICH IS NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BIZNESS!
@ 70 I agree ! Ppl always want to get upset about homosexuals ,that shit is not normal !!
I don’t recall Coles saying or even implying that he was sexually confused on Oprah. Maybe i missed that part? I just recall him being really traumatized by what he’d been thru as a kid-the sexual abuse.
THANK U #71, ALL I SAID WAS YUCK AND THAT LAME BYTCH LET ME GET TO HIM/HER, THEN HE/SHE HAD TO STATE HER HOMOSEXUALITY LIKE HE/SHE/ HAD TO CONVINCE HIM/HERSELF, LIKE I GIVE A FUCK IF U RUBBIN COOCHIES OR RUBBIN AZZ HOLES. SHYT, I EVEN GOT SOME GAY FRIENDS AND THEY COOL AS HELL!!! THE LOSER NEEDS BE OFFENDED BY MY AZZ AND KISS IT, CUZ QUITE FRANKLY, I DONT REALLY GIVE A SHYT IF U WERE OFFENDED OR NOT.
If we truly knew the dark secrets in many of our beloved Black celebrities lives, we would faint from the shock. Truth is stranger than fiction. Although he is passed on now, isn’t it something how Luther Vandross stayed out of the spotlight with what many saw as the obvious? We have to applaud his style because at least the Brother was so full of class that no one DARE go there with him.
TYPO*, HIS/HER SEXUALITY, NOT HOMSEXUALITY, MY BAD!
hell its okay to not understand gays…gays dont understand shit either put a bisexual chick around some lesbians….they will try to bash her in some kinda way!
I say its Tyler Perry. Even though he acted in Madea, he’s primarily a writer/producer than an actor.
*Plus sometimes he looks so gay it hurts…like on the cover of essence. Ewww.
Damn, EZElmo, part muppet/part investigative reporter! Get it!
just wondering…
homosexuality is against God’s Laws but hatred and ignorance are cool in His book?!
Ok, I confess – I have absolutely no idea who it is At ALL..
BUT!! I am sick and tired of the damned Tyler Perry crap! C’mon, now for those of who are so for sure it is Tyler Perry, just say your asses don’t know either, because it clearly says that the person IS NOT an Actor, ok?? That means IF THE PERSON ACTS – THEN THAT’S NOT THE PERSON!!!! Dayum!!!
Tyler Perry ACTS! He ACTS people, okay?? Yes he does alot of other shit too, (write, produce, direct, etc.) But clearly Madea is not real – it is Tyler Perry ACTING!!!!!!!!!!! So please stop annoying me with the dumb ass, “I’m so for sure it’s Tyler Perry” crap and figure out who it is so I can know. Dayum!!
LOL. Okay, sorry – but I’m just saying, yo, it is NOT Tyler Perry.
This screams Tigger
Thank you GROWNAZZWOMAN..I swear some people on here have down syndrome or something..it clearly states NON ACTOR…which mean this person does not acts..helloo retards TYLER PERRY ACTS!
Whoo had to get that off my chest..moving along..Imma have to go with KIRK FRANKLIN…he does not sing he only conducts music..and nobody can tell me he is not the fairyella of them all..he’s has sugar and howudoin on lock! I don’t know what athlete he’s linked to..but I’d be damned if he’s not a fudge packer!
I think this is Dr Ian Smith and Michael Strahan. Michael’s wife cited their “alternative realtionship” in the divorce papers.
Al Sharpton you know that perm drives them wild.
#83-I heard his M Strahan ex-wife retracted that statement in her divorce proceedings.
# 70.
“@#68, ITS FOUL AND ITS NASTY! AND AN ABOMINTATION TO THE LORD!”
You are an *ABOMINATION* (this is a biblical fact) … since you want to play the game; in the Bible it states that we (all of humanity) have fallen short of God’s glory and we (all of humanity) are an ABOMINATION.
” I HAVE GAY PPL IN MY FAMILY, BUT I WILL STILL TELL THEM TO THEY FACE, THEY STILL WRONG!”
Well, I think you may have missed something; in the Bible it clearly states gossiping as a SIN and that we are born into SIN and shaped into iniquity. But, ha ha, I’m sure you don’t require me telling you that in your face 24/ 7
“I WILL NEVA OPEN MY MIND ABOUT GAYS. I DONT UNDERSTAND IT, NOR I NEVA WANT TO UNDERSTAND IT.”
Maybe THAT is your problem my dear, where is your ethic in that statement? … try reading more than one third of the Bible. “He who is WITHOUT (you are gossiping, are you not?) sin cast the first stone” … I know you have a right to your opinion, but you just sound like an uneducated bigot and I will not quote the rest of what you have stated for that fact.
For the record, ah, you enjoy music I suppose? You love and RAVE the music reviews, do you not? Well, I believe Brian (the music reviewer) is an openly gay young man – shock, shock, surprise, surprise! So, without him you would not have all the lovely free music he uploads himself and distributes here for you. Am I wrong? No. Am I attacking you personally? Not really. Am I judging you? Of course not! I, personally, do not know you.
I was thinking of Tyler Perry as well. Even though I love him to death, and how he just keeps his people working! For some reason I get the impression that he, though not exactly a DL brotha, is a discreet homosexual.
He does act in his movies, but he’s known more for being the playwright and producer.
And for the record, whatever Tyler’s sexual preference may be, it takes nothing away from the fact that he is an AWESOME, POSITIVE AND POWERFUL BLACK MAN.
the reason no one understands the next is simply because WE WOULD NEVER LEARN NOTHING IN LIFE if i were the same as the next person and so fourth , what would i learn in life? I like the fact that we all are different. Which mean will learn everyday. I myself am bisexual yeah its tough cause gays dont understand (nor do they want to) and straght people never will understand……to some extent. So why cant we get along? because people simply dont want to be different which means they dont want to learn!
@86-MIKE
Very well put, could not have said it better myself, before people say these things, they should speak it out loud to themselves, and realize what fools they sound like
@ GET_ME _BODIED I LOVE UR OUTSPOKENESS. SOME PPL ON THIS BLOG DON’T KNOW HOW TO ACT AND RESPECT OTHER PPL OPINIONS. WTF WE LIVE IN A DEMOCRACY FREEDOM OF SPEECH. SO TO WHO EVER LIKE BASHING OTHER PPL OPINIONS RUN UR ASS.
WOW #86 MIKE ALL THAT FOR ME????, LOL, I RESPECT YOUR OPINION, BUT U DONT KNOW SHYT ABOUT ME AND I AM SORRY, WELL NOT REALLY, LOL, BUT I STAND STRONG IN MY WORDS. BUT THAT PARAGRAPH STILL DIDNT CHANGE MY MIND. SO STOP TRYING TO ANALYZE MY CHARACTER BY A FEW WORDS I SAID. U WILL NEVER KNOW ME. IN OTHER NEWS…… ACTUALLY TYLER STATED ON TV THAT HE WAS TRYING TO SHY AWAY FROM ACTING, AND START PRODUCING MORE, U KNOW THE MAN ON THE SCENE BEHIND THE SCENE, SO I’M NOT SURE IF HE IS STILL CONSIDERED AN ACTOR….
@ 23 Dr. Ian Smith already has a wife and kid
Strahan’s wife probably said that statement bc she is bitter to him and very jealous of the relationship btwn Smith & Strahan.
I don’t think its Tyler Perry bc he did have his mom and grandma oh either Tyra or Oprah (one of those talk shows) talking about that’s where he gets his impression on Madea from…. I just don’t know bc its rules out so many people
Mike must be a homosexual
Okay guys, I’m new to this whole thing. But what I can tell you is that Tyler Perry was raised by his Grandmother and a host of aunts whom helped to make him successful. The Madea character is based on one of his aunts. So as you can see, he is still very much in contact with many people from his past. Therefore, it could not be Tyler Perry. Also, there is the fact that he is an actor.
PS. I know this is a little off topic but #10 can u please cut that shit out about being “sad” about our opinions. That’s y it’s called a blog sweetie. So that people can express their feelings. Isn’t that what we’ve been fighting for???? some1 once said that most Americans are willing to pretend to be offended by almost anything. I think u might be one of those Americans… get off that shit.
Question: What “Anti-Gossip” person joins a BLOG? No disrespect but clealy ur on here for a reason. I don’t think that reason is just to preach. Maybe to get the latest GOSSIP…. I mean news.
what about katt williams
these blind items are fake. ARE THEY TRYING TO SAY ALL THE FREAKS IN HOLLYWOOD ARE BLACK? THATS CRAP.
JAMIE FOXX
Okay….I think it is P Diddy….because he is NOT a singer, actor, especially not a rapper and not a model. He is a producer who I think has always been on the down low…with the live in “baby machine” and how she has always been there through all of the other public relationships. The athlete could be ANYBODY these days!!
“WOW #86 MIKE ALL THAT FOR ME????, LOL, I RESPECT YOUR OPINION, BUT U DONT KNOW SHYT ABOUT ME AND I AM SORRY, WELL NOT REALLY, LOL, BUT I STAND STRONG IN MY WORDS. BUT THAT PARAGRAPH STILL DIDNT CHANGE MY MIND. SO STOP TRYING TO ANALYZE MY CHARACTER BY A FEW WORDS I SAID. U WILL NEVER KNOW ME. IN OTHER NEWS…… ACTUALLY TYLER STATED ON TV THAT HE WAS TRYING TO SHY AWAY FROM ACTING, AND START PRODUCING MORE, U KNOW THE MAN ON THE SCENE BEHIND THE SCENE, SO I’M NOT SURE IF HE IS STILL CONSIDERED AN ACTOR….”
I know your very ignorant and a hypocrite. I still stand strong on my words too, if homosexuals are wrong then your wrong too! I say, take a STRONG look at your actions before doing so on others. You have A LOT of growing to do sweetie
“93. Mike must be a homosexual”
You must not know about me…
I know this post is dead now, but ez elmo–it’s funny how those two(Cole&Perry) will be appearing at ClubParis together this weekend.
Get me bodied is like the dumbest bitch. it’s because of people like her the world will always be full of hypocrites, crackers and other assorted assholes.
by the way, it’s Tavis and Dr .Ian
I initally was gonna jump aboard the Tyler Perry bandwagon,but glad that I didnt.Tyler Perry may or may not be gay ,but I dont want to assume that he and L.Coles are involved simply because they hang out sometimes. Its called friendship. Just because a man has been a victim of sexual abuse in his childhood does not mean that he has an attraction to men.To think otherwise is ignorant in my opinion. I;m Makes no sense! Tyler Perry is an actor.He does not just produce ,he also acts in the movies so YES he would be considered a playwright/producer/actor.He wears a few hats s to speak. Tjos ewho said Dr Ian may be on to something but I’m not 100% sure who it is at this point.
hell no
fonzworth bently, I guessed it!!!!
I don’t think it’s Dr. Ian Smith, because, for one thing, he’s been with the same girl for 14 years, and I’ve never heard of him being with another woman. I don’t think it’s Tyler Perry either because, Tyler Perry isn’t really in the media as much, and just because he dresses up as Madea in his movies, doesn’t that make him sort of an actor. I think the the mystery person is Tavis Smiley, only because, he looks too perfect. I’m not saying it’s him, it’s just my opinion.
Its Tyler Perry & Rick Foxx , Vanessaa williams ex
It’s Dr. Ian Smith. Last year, when Michael Strathan got divorced, he stayed with Dr. Ian in his one bedroom apartment. They explained that they were best friends, nothing more. (Page Six) Why would any straight, WEALTHY man share a one-bedroom apt with another straight wealthy man
Gosh! Please say it ain’t Tavis Smiley!!!
This is my first time leaving a comment,but I believe it is Dr. Ian and Micheal Strahan. I read it in the link below:
http://www.keithboykin.co...006/06/21/football_wife_a
I know that I am extremely late on this comment, but I am familiar with the two people that are mentioned and close to someone in the “CAMP”. The answer is in fact Tyler Perry and Laveranues Coles. Reason being, Tyler is considered a Writer/Director not an Actor. As far as his family being at his plays (you have to be a Tyler fan to know) he is VERY spiritual and believes in forgiveness. He also often speaks of his abuse as a child. This is why he was always with the other family (anyone that is close to their family would have never been homeless, THINK ABOUT IT)
And as far as them always being together. For those of you who knows either of them personally, you can attest to this. They are like Siamese Twins, Joined at the hip! In the offseason you will hardly EVER see one without the other. Tyler is not even a Football fan, but states that he will be making some games this season… Hope this helps
Tyler Perry is an ACTOR or did yall forget.
Can’t be Tyler Perry he hasn’t dated any famous women and Dr. Ian is married so try again people
hmmm….tyler perry and laveranues coles (ny jets football)?