BLIND ITEM: SHE SHOULD HAVE LISTENED TO HER HEART
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Rewind: Last year, we featured a blind item about a non-black/non-white actress who’s “currently on a TV series.” She was once discreetly involved with a rapper/actor. Her representatives asked her to break off the relationship fearing a backlash from fans and Hollywood bigwigs. She took their advice, but now, she regrets it.
Fast Forward: She still has strong feelings for her former boyfriend and she’s not over him. Her heart continues to ache, and she is heartbroken that he is in a serious relationship with a new girlfriend.
She tells friends, “I should have followed my heart and told my agent to fuck off but I didn’t because I wanted success so bad.”
When they broke up, she told the rapper that she needed her space but he would soon find out-the real reason for the breakup. He was devastated that she left him because of his race, and he vowed-he would never forgive her.
The actress misses him so much, she is contemplating on whether she should contact him.
She’s secretly hoping for a reconciliation, because she really doesn’t want to lose him forever to this other woman.
NOTE: All blind items are written by Myra Panache or her staff. No, I do not know what the answer is - after all it is called a ‘Blind Item’. These items are posted for entertainment purposes. Please don’t email me asking for the answer because your email will be promptly deleted.






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76.
Grownazzwoman
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Fancyface,
What TV series was J-Lo in?
77.
LICIOUS40218
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
ITS BRIDGETTE NELSON HOWEVER YOU SPELL HER NAME AND FLAV.SHE GOT OUT OF REHAB EARLY JUST TO PREMIER ON HIS T.V. SERIES HE GOT COMING UP. IF YOU ALL DONT REMEBER SHE TOLD FLAV A WHILE BACK THAT SHE HAD SOME OTHER RACE IN HER BESIDE WHITE. AND SHE IS CRAZY ABOUT HIM FOREAL FOREAL.(FOOFY)
78.
Trinity
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
The clues are in quotation
79.
sexijuliana
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
christina milan
80.
coop1974a
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
J-Lo
81.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Real women make up there minds on the own. It is clear whomever this person is she is not a strong woman such as myself. These are a few things a man must do if he wants to be with me. I told these things to my man. He must not be sleeping with one of my fake friends behind my back while trying to get with me or while were are in a relationship. I say fake friend because real friends have a code you don’t sleep with your friend’s man or husband. You don’t sleep with men who have previously been in relationship with any family members or friends, that is disrespectful and breaking the code. It’s ok to speak, but you speak and walk on by, if a female catches your man by himself, friendship goes out the window. Some people don’t have morales or know right from wrong. In other words I told my man if you want to be with me don’t ever let me find out you have been with any of my friends or relatives or it is over.
82.
sexijuliana
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
if u ever took a latina american class in college a latina is considered a non-black/non-white nationality ..and cuban is considered being latina
83.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Hypothetically speaking example of disrespect, something that will make me no
longer have anything to do with a man.
Let’s say from the first day said man saw me, he started trying to pull me, get me for his woman. One day I see him with a woman who is supposed to be my friend, they don’t know I’m watching, I find out the whole time he’s been trying to get with me, he’s been sleeping with my friend. I no longer have anything to do with the man out of respect for my long time friend who I think he is sleeping with. I say she can have him. The man continues to persue me. That’s an example of disrespect he should not be trying to get with 2 friends. I realize he’s no damn good, she has yet to realize it. Example of breaking the code. The code says any man trying to pull you, should not also sleep with your family members or close friends you consider family, even if he didn’t know you were friends, this will cause me to not have anything to do with that man, because he is trashy.
84.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Guys, I’m not leaving you out on the subject of breaking the respect code, of morals and values and hometraining, and courtesy. Men if a woman does you that way. Sleep with your relatives and friends and is trying to pull you, then that female is no
damn good. Run over to a good woman.
85.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
I’m a good woman, this guy who was trying to pull me once I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I saw them they didn’t see me. Once I realized they were
sneaking around, I made the choice for him, I no longer associate with him or speak.
Of course he still tries, but I don’t want him. I have a man, not to mention that guy is no good. She will find out on her own, now I just walk by him like he’s not there. You
can’t have your cake and eat it too. Somebody’s got to have class, might as well be me.
86.
Angel_Minded
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Yeah but didn’t Nick break up w/ Christina…not the other way around…lol…
I think it was P.diddy & JLO…as much publicity that surrounded that relationship…Diddy just probably thought it was because of his cheating…but it was really about him being a dark skinned black man….and the serious relationship that the post is referencing could have been when Diddy & Kim were on the cover of Essence magazine holding their twins and talking bout how great and secure their relationsip was. Cause everybody knows JLO wants kids…things that make you hmmm….lol
87.
Angel_Minded
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Greenlea - Let’s stay on subject. No one wants to hear about your love life…k? LOL
88.
bklyn-bella
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
OK…J-lo did not leave diddy because of race it was because he couldn’t keep his stuff in his pants….cristina did not leave nick cannon because her “representatives” told her to he was a cheat as well, besides why would someone tell her to leave nick cannon he’s corny he has nothing to possibly ruin her career even more than it already is, if anything he helped it…you guys aren’t thinking hard enough
AND IF IT WAS CRISTINA CL WOULD NOT CALL HER AN ACTRESS BEFORE A SINGER
89.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
He broke the code. I wanted to walk up to my friend and say girl is that your man?
If he is, he been trying to pull me since the first day he saw me. I should have given her the paper with his number on it you see he’ s been trying to get me. However I decided another way to let her know he’s no good. Believe it if you want to.
90.
too tot
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Christina Milian is considered BLACK and she has said it before….. Just because a person is Cuban or European or Spanish if they are of African Decent they are black…Slavery displaced Africans everywhere, but just because people were placed in various countries doesnt take away from their ROOTS
Bridgette Nielson - Her and Flav had to call it quits for the new TV shows
Christina Milian is BLACK and not that big of an actress to have to change her lifestyle…
Its probably an Asian or Hispanic actress on a popular show. I also was thinking of the Indian actress on ER but she was dating someone else. You have to think outside the box on this one. Yall call out the same names on every blind item. There are thousands of actresses on daytime TV it could be anyone!
91.
too tot
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
SEXYJULIANA
CUBAN IS LATINA IF YOU HAVE LATINO BLOOd. IF YOU WERE AN AFRICAN SLAVE BROUGHT TO CUBA…YOU ARE AFRICAN SWEETY…….
PEOPLE NEED TO STUDY BOUT THE DIASPORA
92.
Jo_An
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
@ 83 84 85 89 Greenlea,
Please seek counseling
93.
star
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
i have know $ucking clue!!
94.
1finedyme
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
@GREENLEA
WTF!!!! DID U JUST HAVE A BREAK DOWN ON THE LOOP????
95.
tAE tAE
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Tracey Ellis Ross and the guy is Ludacris
96.
$$$
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
why are black people so quick to say or make others say that they are black or have black in them. It’s stupid. for all you know you have a great great white granddad out there yet i dont see any of them saying their white.
this is what get me mad about black people. oh he’s black his mom is black. yet u have a white grandfather you dont hear anybody saying oh he’s white. its just stupid
97.
GREENLEA
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
If a man is trying to be with me, or if we are already in a relationship he must not
sleep with any of my friends or relatives, if he does, I won’t want him. I consider that to be disrespectful. That is why I chose a man who has not been with any of my friends or relatives he only shows interest in me. I respect him vice versus I would never get with any of his friends or relatives. Why? I was raised with morals and values, I am not a tramp, I’m what’s called a good woman, so if I learn that he has been with any of my friends or relatives I would no longer associate with him.
98.
BelleFemme27
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Greenlea I think it’s your nap time boo!
99.
shebaclaire1
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Actor/rapper: Nick Canon
Nonwhite/nonbalack actress: Roslyn Sanchez
100.
TheThirteenthJuror
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
It’s Rosalyn Sanchez from, “Without a Trace”. It was said awhile back in another article that she was discouraged from dating another black celebrity. This is not uncommon in Hollywood. If you want to appeal to the masses, than your agents/managers want you to appear to be “all american”. Unfortunately, a negative connotation is put on “non black” actors/actresses/singers, when they date a black male. On the other hand; Bill Maher and Robert Deniro are the exceptions it seems.
101.
Jo_An
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
I bet that if he was dating a sister and she betrayed him like that,he would have sworn never to date a sister again.
But because she was non black - non white he just swore never to forgive her.
I bet you that his current girlfriend is non white - non black again.
102.
Tammy
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
That chick that was on the Parkers?
103.
oatsuzn
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
@82
Latino/latina is an ethnic group or distinction, not a nationality. Nationality is considered either your country or nation of origin or in some cases where your parents are born. Latino doesn’t specify race either. There are native, white, black, and mixtures. Afro cubans are just as black as lets say-Jamaicans(which is like 30 minutes away).
104.
Anonymous
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
If it was Rosalyn Sanchez, who is probably like upper 30s-what-the-hell-was-she-doing-with-nick-cannon-if-that’s-true, why was she in Fabolous video? I’m sure her agents would have told her not to do that too, and I hope she doesn’t think appearing in that video is gonna make her cool with this rapper guy again or black people in general….
105.
EBZ01
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
I dunno who it is seeing as though if the person isn’t black or white (black american or white-non hispanic american) I automatically assumed it’s not a black-hispanic or white-hispanic either so with that the person must be oriental asian/indian asian/pacific islander/native american or something in that area………..I mean what’s left? lol *shrugs*
106.
THe hell?
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
jennifer lopez
107.
DCTRINI
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
@ 82 YOU MIGHT ONE TO GO BACK TO THAT LATIN AMERICAN CLASS BECAUSE WHAT YOU SAID WAS WRONG….LATIN PEOPLE ARE EITHER BLACK OR WHITE. SOME MIGHT HAVE A MIXTURE OR MIGHT JUST BE ONE.
108.
stephanie
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
I think it’s Jessica Alba
109.
sunshine
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
christina milian is BLACK. so not her. read then think people. otherwise dont embarrass yourself by commenting.
110.
BJB
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
you guys are forgetting that it says “rapper/actor”. That narrows it down a lot.
111.
mswing
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
ROTFLMFAO @ #7:
Truly you need to go to Blind item College
that was rude but funny! i have no idea WHATSOEVER. these blind items are crap coz they dont give any real clues just vague discriptions that could apply to so many diffeferent black celebs
112.
LADII ZOE
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Actor/rapper: Nick Canon
Nonwhite/nonbalack actress: Roslyn Sanchez
DIS SHIT IS SO FUNNY HALF OF YA’LL PPL ON IT DON’T READ WTF BRIGIETTE NIELSEN DAT HOE IS WHITE NO MATTA WHAT ELSE SHE’S MIXED WITH
YEAH CHRISTINA IS CUBAN BUT I JUST CAN’T BE HERE AND IT’S NOT DA GURL FROM THAT EVE SHE ‘S MARRIED N JUST HAD A BABY GURL
MY COCNCLUSION ON DIS SHIT IS ROSELYN SANCHEZ IS THE ACTRESS ON A T.V SHOW WITHOUT A TRACE(LUV IT!) AND THE RAPPER/ACTOR IS TYRESE WHO IS APPERENATELY ENGAGED N EXPECTING WIT HIS BABY MOMMA…………DIS SHIT WAS EASY BECUZ TYRESE STAR IN MORE MOVIES DEN LUDA.FIDDY,FLAV N EVRYBODY ELSE YA’LL NAMED
113.
layla
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Let me ut everyone out of thir misey, it’s Jessica Alba.
If memory serves me correctly, she used to date 50 years ago unknown to the general public. Her “people” told her she needed to distance herself from him because her career was on fire and his image would do nothing but drag her down. She listened, but unfortunately that didn’t stop her from loving him. She’s wanted him back all these years and looks like she finally got him because she didn’t want to see him settle down with Ciara
114.
bklyn-bella
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
TYRESE IS NOT A RAPPER!!! HE CLEARLY SINGS… THAT IS IT WITH THE TYRESE.. CASE CLOSE.
again I ask why would they call him a rapper if he’s not?
115.
bklyn-bella
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
how is that possible 50 and ciara just started “dating”
116.
bklyn-bella
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
and what t.v. series was she on or is on, its not jessica alba
117.
CW
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
This is easy
Jessica Biel
and
Queen Latifa
118.
why do I have to log in
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
JESSICA ALBA!
119.
Tiffany
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Okay, how about most of you posting mesages sound really stupid! Victoria Rowell? Jennifer Lopez? Cristina Milian? Victoria is black, Cristina is hispanic, but not on a tv series, and neither is Jennifer Lopez! It could be a hispanic, asian, who the hell knows?
120.
Leila
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
victoria rowell, she was dating 50.
And 50 has a history of leaving grown ass women sprung.
121.
leesa
Wednesday, July 25, 2007 /
Its That chick from Ugly Betty..her name is America Ferrera(sp?)
122.
sexijuliana
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
well i thought christiana was fully latina thats y i said my comment but by goin what other people are sayin clearly shes not
123.
sexijuliana
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
@91 and 103
124.
Shootingstar
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
Greenlea get a fucking diary! Stop messing up the flow.
125.
ThinkAboutIt
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
Jessica Alba
126.
Noah_Bennett
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
******DING! DING! DING!
The answer is very obvious…
…The actress is: Jessica Alba
…The “Rapper/Actor” is: 50 Cent (”Get Rich or Die Trying”)
…The Rapper’s new relationship: Ciara
Although Alba was pressured to end her relationship with Curtis Jackson (aka “Fiddy”) because of his race/culture, what many people may not know is that Alba’s just-dumped “beau” Cash Warren isn’t white or latino-although he looks it. He is actually the bi-racial son of actor Michael Warren (from “Hill Street Blues” and who has a recurring role on “Girlfriends” as Joan’s father).
What do I win?
127.
~g
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
FACTUALLY with the release of tyrese’s last album (a double cd) where the first disk was r&b and the second disk was hip hop-yes he rapped the full cd under the moniker black ty he IS and CAN BE considered a rapper
so there it is roselyn sanchez and tyrese.
128.
bklyn-bella
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
WRONG! he is not a rapper…you have to be kidding me, he puts out one “rap” CD and now he considered a rapper no boo that makes no sense
129.
~G
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
well just how many albums does one have to release to be considered a rapper?
just becuase you dont consider him one doesnt change the FACT that he released a full rap album lol
130.
bklyn-bella
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
well tyrese isn’t known as a rapper so it obviously cancels him out anyway I know who it is
131.
mzjones904
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
It that damn Kim Hoedassian. She was dating Ray J and she does have a reality tv show coming out????
132.
Umm seriously
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
Ok, pay attention. J.Lo has never been on a TV series. So she is out of the question. Maybe Rosalyn Sanchez but her career aint really going nowhere, but Tyrese beats his women so why would you still be missing him? And for the last damn time, Victoria Rowell is very successful and a beautiful black woman so she doesnt even qualify. Christina Milian was DUMPEd by Nick Canon but as others have noted, she is Afro Cuban, black for you simpletons. So she doesnt qualify. I have no clue but she deserves to be alone and sad if she was so desperate for success that she didnt date someone because of their color. Wow. Thats some bulls….
133.
Umm seriously
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
And Kim K is dating anyone and everyone with a penis so i doubt that she is picky. And if she dropped someone for success, um, she needs a refund.
134.
blue calibur
Thursday, July 26, 2007 /
J HO bc she had that dance show on mtv
135.
ANDUKNOWTHISMAN
Friday, July 27, 2007 /
ROSARIO DAWSON USED TO DATE JAYZ
136.
Vannessa
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
Its Kimora simmons and she was dating Rev Run brother.I forgot his name,but I believe thats who it is because she got a tv series comming out.Its got to be her because she is non black and white.I think.Yea its Kimora Simmons!
137.
blackmoses
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
its Jessica Alba the rapper is 50 cent
138.
blackmoses
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
its Jessica alba & 50 cent clues non white non black she had a TV series Dark angel
how many other none white none black actress had a lead role in a tv series and i know its not ugly betty
139.
toni
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
wild guess….jessica alba and 50 cent
140.
GoDivaKai
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
Kimora Lee was not dating Rev Runs brother .She was married to Rev Runs brother Russell Simmons , and they have 2 daughters! Who ever it is, oh well. What can you do attempt to break up his new relationship? If you dont have the guts to do what you feel when you feel it, than you cant cry the blues and expect sympathy after the fact .Chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on.
141.
Vannessa
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
Well my bad.It ain’t that serious to be using ! over of.Well it just was a guess.If im wrong im wrong.No big deal.People sho be taking this shyt serious.
142.
sosofly
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
MIGHT B3 CHRISTINA MILLIAN SH3 IS 100 P3RC3NT CUBAN
143.
nicholelibra
Saturday, July 28, 2007 /
Yeah right, Victoria Rowell’s been on Y&R for the past 17 years. She could pull a Lindsay tomorrow and jack someone’s Hummer and ride it up Hollywood and Vine and no one would say word one. Drucilla Winters ain’t going no damn where.
Roselyn seems like a better choice. And technically Tyrese is a rapper, considering he calls himself Black Ty. As he explained to Craig Ferguson (who by the grace of God was able to keep a strait face throughout the interview), he’s black and his name’s Ty. Not too imaginative, but it still counts.
144.
nicholelibra
Sunday, July 29, 2007 /
It’s not Jessica and 50. Dark Angel was several years ago, not last year. That was way before 50 was even a thought in the back of Eminem’s head. Besides, she was with Michael Weatherly back then.
145.
Jade
Sunday, July 29, 2007 /
ok lets see, the only actors i kno hu arent black or white r eva longoria and the computer made monstrers frm horror stories, oh w8 sum oif dem r blck. Ok just eva
the only movie i ave seen christina in is man of the house so i cant reallycall her an actress
146.
Personal Assistant
Sunday, August 5, 2007 /
I happened to be surfing the web, as is my job, and found this posting. I’m only responding to the “assumptions” made concerning Roselyn Sanchez and Tyrese Gibson.
For the record, Miss. Sanchez and Mr. Gibson have never dated. They are merely friends and have been since meeting several years ago at a party where she was introduced to him in order to do a music video upon his request. Miss. Sanchez, as a friend, returned the favor in kind when Mr. Gibson appeared in her music video several years later. That is the extent of their relationship.
In retrospect, Miss. Sanchez has never had a problem announcing her relationship with anyone, and would never “discretely” date someone nor would she allow anyone, including Hollywood bigwigs, to stop her from dating any individual regardless of color or race or reputation. She does not play Hollywood games. She has a mind of her own and uses it often.
I have never known Mr. Gibson to hold a grudge and “vow” to never forgive anyone of anything. He is happily awaiting the birth of his child. Also, for the record, before Mr. Gibson became known as an R&B Singer, he was what is termed an “underground rapper” who went under another assumed name. His new album as Black Ty is actually not so new. Hopefully, this will clear up the battle of the singer, rapper debate.
147.
Jay
Wednesday, August 8, 2007 /
its jessica alba and 50 cent. her managers told her 2 get rid of him cause it doesnt look good 4 her image…and nick cannon is gay with an i cause im not so sure about if he plays 4 1 team or if hes a double agent (both sides if u get my drift).. p.s.usher is gay too 4 marrying a former man…lol
148.
mchoula
Friday, December 14, 2007 /
Easy, this is Kim Kardashian - she fits all the criteria and has the TV show too. She has always loved black guys.
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