CONFIRMED: DIDDY & KIM PORTER SPLIT!
Tuesday, July 10, 2007

People.com has confirmed the Diddy & Kim Porter break-up rumor.
It’s over between Sean “Diddy” Combs and his girlfriend of 10 years, Kim Porter, a rep for Combs confirms to PEOPLE.
A source close to Porter says she has moved out of the apartment she shared with Combs, and into a new home in Los Angeles with her children.
A rep for Diddy denied the Post’s report that the mogul’s relationship with actress Sienna Miller caused a rift with Porter.
“There is literally nothing between them,” the rep told PEOPLE last week. A rep for Miller also said that “reports of Sienna being linked with P. Diddy are categorically untrue.” [ READ MORE ]
The article also goes on to mention the Essence Magazine comment that Diddy made about his plans not to marry Kim.








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151.
LIGHT SKINNED BEAUTY
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
fuck u #142,,,,,,,,VANILLA ICE CREAM ALWAYS TASTE BETTER THAN CHOCALATE!…LOL! DON’T BE MAD BECAUSE MY PARENTS HAVE BETTER CREDIT SCORES THAT URS…..UR DADDY IS PROBABLY JUST LIKE CAFF AND BILL…..JUST UNEMPLOYED PLAYING ON THE COMPUTER….MY PARENTS ARE AT WORK!…AND THEY BOTH ARE PROFESSIONALS WITH DEGREES FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF NEW ORLEANS….AND UR PARENTS WORK AT POPEYES’S….UR MAMA BETTER STOP MESSING UP OUR ORDERS…OLD DARK MAMIE! U AND UGLY GET ME BODIED!…IF I WERE TO GO TO A CLUB WITH U OR GET ME BODIED OR ANY OTHER DARKIE….ALTHOUGH I AM ONLY 16……ALL OF THE MEN WOULD BE TRYING TO HOLLA AT ME…AND JUST IGNORE YA’LL UGLY ASSES..!,,,,,,STEP OFF CELIE!
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Ione
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@56 Bill you crazy, about time she left his tail.
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sssssss
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
THATS RIGHT KIM GET THAT MONEY GIRL .. THESE NIGGAS DUMB ENOUGH TO LAY UP WITH YOU AND KEEP MAKING BABIES THEY DESERVE TO BE TAKEN FOR EVERYTHING .. MAYBE THEY WILL PUT ON A RUBBER NEXT TIME BEFORE THEY LAY UP … AND HALF OF YOU SINGLE ASS BITCHES ON HERE WITH A THOUSAND FUCKING KIDS WAITING ON A 200 DOLLAR A MONTH CHILD SUPPORT CHECK SHOULD TAKE NOTES .. IF YOU’RE GONNA DO IT DO IT BIG …. STOP FUCKING RANDOM ASS 9 TO 5 NIGGAS CAUSE THEY AINT GOT SHIT …STEP YALL GAME UP …. LOL @ ALL THE BROKE PUSSY DEPRIVED NIGGAS ON HERE WOMAN BASHING …STFU BROKE NIGGAS AND GET MONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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MusikMan
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Bet u 10-1 Light Skinned Beauty is a confused gay white boy with a woman’s mind.
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Dothepocketknife
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
#149 ok, now I have to address you too. Not that I have to prove anything to you, but I am actually a grad student at Florida State University, I currently have no children , and was recently engaged to the love of my life this past weekend. Again, I can understand that it’s hard to comprehend sarcasm over the internet so I don’t worry I’m not upset.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
CANDY…THATS WHAT I AM SAYIN…..U GOT THIS!
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ms_mac
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 149 — more like bottomfeeders. lol
Some women need to get their own sh!t. It’s too much paper out there for women to be trying to stack someone else’s chips. That’s just pathetic. It’s 2007, not 1807. And it’s even sadder when a women believes her crotch and the kids she pours out of it should be a fricking meal ticket. What will her babies grow up to be like? What lesson is she teaching them?
I pray for this next generation because if some of these comments on this board are any indication of what’s to come for black families, we will NEVER get ahead of the game.
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LIGHT SKINNED BEAUTY
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
HEY JAY Z ,,,DIDDY ..OR BETTER YET R KELLY…..IF YA’LL WANT A PRETTY BABY….COME ON DOWN TO ARKANSAS OR LOUISIANA AN HOLLA AT A PRETTY YELLOWBONE WITH GOOD HAIR SUCH AS MYSELF…..I DON’T MIND THAT U ALL HAVE WOMEN…ALL I WANT IS TO GET KNOCKED OFF BY SOMEONE LIKE YA’LL….SO MY CHILD SUPPORT CHECK CAN BE FIYAH!….SHIT IM TIRED OF DRIVING A SOLARA….I WANT A BMW 750! SO HOLLA AT UR GIRL! AND OH..BEST THING IS IM 16….SO MY NOOKIE AINT ALL WORN OUT LIKE THE OTHER HOES OVER 21! LOL
BROKE DARK SKINNED GUYS NEED NOT APPLY!
LMAO!
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bill
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
sssssss said:
THATS RIGHT KIM GET THAT MONEY GIRL .. THESE NIGGAS DUMB ENOUGH TO LAY UP WITH YOU AND KEEP MAKING BABIES THEY DESERVE TO BE TAKEN FOR EVERYTHING .. MAYBE THEY WILL PUT ON A RUBBER NEXT TIME BEFORE THEY LAY UP … AND HALF OF YOU SINGLE ASS BITCHES ON HERE WITH A THOUSAND FUCKING KIDS WAITING ON A 200 DOLLAR A MONTH CHILD SUPPORT CHECK SHOULD TAKE NOTES .. IF YOU’RE GONNA DO IT DO IT BIG …. STOP FUCKING RANDOM ASS 9 TO 5 NIGGAS CAUSE THEY AINT GOT SHIT …STEP YALL GAME UP …. LOL @ ALL THE BROKE PUSSY DEPRIVED NIGGAS ON HERE WOMAN BASHING …STFU BROKE NIGGAS AND GET MONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bill Said:
I think that when SOME young sisters see BMW’s (Black Men Working)
the cash register goes off in their minds…”Ca- Ching”
I wonder if they have turnstiles at their bedroom doors, and a marquee above their room saying “Thousands Served”.
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Dothepocketknife
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
And as far as that comment about my mother being a “proud, victimized but yet still strong black woman” (which was kinda harsh). She’s actually a reverend of a church in Miami and has married to my father (the man she lost her virginity to) since 1980.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
mS MAC, honey….here I am trying to raise respectable kids….I teach my daughter that she is more precious than any worldly possession and my son that he is a strong boy that will grow into a strong man. I teach him about being a good husband and a good provider. I teach them to demand and give respect….to change the environment and not let the environment change them….I pray for their mates and the parents that are raising my future son and daughter in law…….BUT Lord what kinda mates will they find…Imma just keep praying and teaching!!
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oatsuzn
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@141 nikkiluvbug
yeah I feel mommys should be with daddys. They both deal with the same issues.
I could understand why a woman without children wouldn’t want to date a single father but why would a single mom have any problems with it? His kids are with their mother more than half of the time anyway so what’s the big deal? I have one friend who has custody of his daughter and that is RARE.
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Ione
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@159 Bill you cuttin up in here lol!
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
candy,,,,see girl I told ya…so ignorance just cant be contained!!!!
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sssssss
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
BILL SIT YOUR PAY CHECK TO PAY CHECK LIVING ASS DOWN ….DONT HATE I CANT MAKE A NIGGA GIVE ME ANYTHING ,THEY CHOOSE TOO … BLACK MEN ARE THE DUMBEST OF ALL MANKIND I SWEAR … AINT NO DENYING THAT SO STFU BILL AND KEEP WORKING ON THE SLAVE SHIP AND KEEP HAVING FANTASIES OF YOUNG PUSSY YOU WILL NEVER HAVE BECAUSE YOU ARE BROKE AS HELL ….LOL
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setian
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
nikkiluvbug no need to worry. Since you are teaching them well, they most likely will grow up to seek like minded partners.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@162, for the same reason a guy doesnt want a woman with kids…..I want all my kids to be ur kids and all ur kids to be my kids.Thats what men and women, who chose to date people without kids, are feeling…….Women have the same choice…why should she have to deal with his kids,child support payments, weekend visits and such…….
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@166 I will do that! praying and teaching them…I cant leave it to chance…
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judah
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@154
LMAO. Thank you. I was trying to ignore it. That’s obviously the white man trying to cause confusion…again.
170.
Lrhmoy2
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Do you think that the split is a publicity stunt for the two of them?
For his show “Making The Band 4″ and her impending acting career?
Anyway, I wish the two of them much success in their lives collectively and individually.
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Chanté
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
And the same people talking shit on men or women, are the same ones who are either single or can’t find real love. If you talk shit on someone, won’t you drive them away? It’s the same with love. Ain’t tryna start no philosophy thing, but “luck” is unreal, universal laws are real. You can’t attract love with anger and blame. So guys, make peace with yourselves and the opposite sex, everybody ain’t a Puffy or a Kim. People live by what they see and hear, and this causes men to only use women for sex, this causes women to only use men for money, cause everybody”d rather “be the user than being used and ending up brokenhearted”. We can blame others all we want but we are all part of this reality that we created, you’re probably becoming a player or a golddigger out of anger or pain and blaming everyone else but yourself for this, but if you ain’t part of the solution then you’re part of the problem.
But y’all don’t wanna hear that, so keep fighting.
Love is real though, guys.
Peace.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
chante, i think for alot of us, well for me, that is what i saw as a teenager..i mean the grandparents were strong but momma and daddy, auntie, and the rest of them..doin their thing! And ur right at some point u have to raise the bar and get free! AND SET A BETTER EXAMPLE FOR THE KIDS….WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR COMMUNITY…….
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Fake Janice Combs
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Yes and watch my reaction to this joyous news at The Secret Diaries of Fake Janice Combs http://fakejanicecombs.blogspot.com.
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covergirl
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
KIM for PRESIDENT!!!
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Dothepocketknife
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Oatsuzn, Wonder Women,What no response? I figured as much.
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oatsuzn
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@167
Yeah u right. I just thought that since most women have a motherly instinct and most women enjoy being around a kid for a day or two out of the week that it can’t be that big of a problem. Women would rarely hear the “no I cant find a babysitter, no I kid is sick” excuses that single moms use on men whenever it’s convenient lol. But what do I know, I dont know nothing about kids.
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ThinkAboutIt
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
#171 -
You’re right, Love is very real… and real love does not hurt, or seek to hurt .
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oatsuzn
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@175
My apologies if I have offended you. It’s very hard to tell decent women apart from chicken heads like “get me bodied” on the internet. Word of advise, this is the internet and I don’t, nor does anyone on here know the actual you. So this should be taken very very lightly. You shouldn’t have a need to validate yourself and your circumstances to people on here.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
oats..thats why u dont do women with kids…cant take rejection and u dont know what to do if a kid gets sick!!!LOLOLOL! Sike I am playing! Yea, women naturally have a thing for kids but usually its their own kids….I have steps and believe me, i love them and all but could certainly live with the “extra”.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
meant to say without the extra…
181.
caff
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Lmao…
What makes you think I am unemployed #151?
182.
MusikMan
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@169
De ol’ divide and conquer - you know it!
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souljagir
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
You know what usually i speak really openly about things like this but because I really feel Kim as a person as I know her only through her appearences, articles, and gossip, “let the girl greive and grow”. I don’t know what her situation calls for but I respect her though no way you look at it, raising children, maintaining yourself and intergrity in the midst of a relationship may cause you to lose yourself and puts a ton of emotional bagage on a woman. To Kim Much love and support to you in whatever truth your life may need!
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caff
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 178
CL is chicken head central.
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Chanté
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ NIKKILUVBUG, yeah girl that is so true, I completely understand that.
I just hope they will realize that the road to their happiness starts with them.
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Trini-Callalloo
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
10 years makes KIM a common Law wife!!!
I hate P-Diddy..
I know Kim shouldn’t have stayed with him, but really.. Would he like for a man to do that shit to his daughters?
When will black men become responsible? Yes there are a few trying, but there are too many Diddies out there just having kids and talking shit about “HE IS NOT READY * HE IS TRYING TO BE A GOOD BOYFRIEND!”
WTF is he talking about?
He left her once and went running like a Pussy behind J-LO, talking about he was in love and wanted to marry her.. But he has three kids with Kim, isn’t she good enough to marry??
I will never support anything this clown is involved with…
And his mother is a disgrace to women.. She needs to take off those BEAT ASS Blond floormat wigs and talk to her son about RESPONSIBILITIES and leaving those Goldigging no talent skanks like Sienna Miller alone.. I see what a great ROLE MODEL his sons will have… How lovely..
Kim, keep your head up and take care of your kids and leave that garbage out of your life!
187.
The human race is doomed
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
People, please ignore the dummy with the rabies and syphilis-infested brain.
He/ she is too far gone to even comprehend the dogshit flowing from her filthy mouth.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
the state of newyork doesnot recognize “commonlaw”
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sssssss
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
CL IS ALSO BITTER MAN CENTRAL ….ITS DAMN SURE A LOT OF YALL ASSES ROAMING THIS BOARD
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oatsuzn
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@184
Yeah I peeped that a long time ago. LOL they funny as hell tho. I get to validate all my preconceived notions about women by reading what they say everyday at work lol.
and “light skinned beauty” is probably a little white girl that wanna be down LOL.
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Trini-Callalloo
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ #158
Kim is dark and she made many pretty babies…
You sound like oyu have a mean complex!
Ignorant comments by black people always seems to amaze me. I don’t know why, it just does…
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
AWWWW OAT AND CAFF….ALTHOUGH IM TAKEN AND Y’ALL TOO YOUNG…DONT BE HARD ON THE LADIES…THERE ARE SOME REAL SISTAS LEFT…BE NICE BOYS!!!!!!
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MusikMan
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 170
Hmmmm interesting…This IS Hollywood, y’all. KimDiddy might be black, and aside from a lack of proper home training, hence the geto-ishness of their sityation, they are far removed from the “everyday black pro’lems” of us regular folk.
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MusikMan
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
…and most everything celebrities do has a “spin” on it.
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nikkiluvbug
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
IF IT IS A STUNT SHAME ON BOTH OF THEM!!!! BUT I WOULDNT PUT IT PAST THEM….
196.
BrittanyBeauty
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
she needs a new man she aint ugly
197.
tammy
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
It make no sense how black men/women degrade each other when topics like this are posted on this blog! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion ,but some of the shit I’ve read is just plain ignorant ! Damn ,take time to understand each other rather than arguing all the time about who’s wrong or right . All men are not the same nor all women . smh
Anyway The kids are gonna suffer ,another broken family . Damn shame !
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Chanté
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
TAMMY, preach woman!!!
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My 2c
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Golly we going at each other too hard on these posts. Calm down and don’t let opinions hurt so much. Men hate what women have become (fiercely independent and critical and money orientated and overtly ambitious) we understand that many bad experiences nd the state alot of black men are in have caused that. But some of us try and stay married to one woman and ignore the blatant mentally and visually degradation of the black women. Women hate that some men get away with bullshit and cheat so much, are not romantic and treating their women like queens or staying stable to marry. Yes yes yes this is all true, the representation on the television and in society is not good. But when I hear women on this blog actually commend women for havng babies and getting a cheque out of it, that is crazy that you are willing to let your money be used as a cash cow, that is called prostituion but a baby was thrown in to the mix. Ignorance begets ignorance.
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Chanté
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 177. ThinkAboutIt
#171 -
You’re right, Love is very real… and real love does not hurt, or seek to hurt .
>>>>>>>>> AAAAAAAAAAMENNNNNN!!!!!!!
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LIGHT SKINNED BEAUTY
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
#196 (BRITTANY BEAUTY)….U STATED THAT KIM NEEDS A MAN AND SHE AIN’T UGLY…….U SHO IS UGLY….WHY DON’T U REMOVE THE WEAVE, THE CONTACTS….AND LOSE ABOUT 30 POUNDS! MAYBE U CAN BE HER NEW MAN….U IS UGLY AS FUCK…SO U NEED NOT PUT “BEAUTY” ANYWHERE NEAR UR NAME…LMAO!
ALL U LOSERS ESPECIALLY CAFF, BILL, NIVILBUG, AND OLD UGLY SLUTBAG GET ME BODIED
YA’LL ALL NEED TO GET A JOB….UNEDUCATED DUMBASSES…I HEAR THAT CHURCH’S FRIED CHICKEN IS HIRING! LOL
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del
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
That means I have a chance lol jp
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setian
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
wow. sooooo, i wonder what would happen if puff moved on and had other babies
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LIGHT SKINNED BEAUTY
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
CAFF AND BILL YA’LL BOTH NEED TO LICK MY TWAT…LOL!..MOST DARK SKINNED PEOPLE HAVE A BODY ODOR…..MUST BE DUE TO ALL THE SWEAT MIXED WITH THE HAIR GREASE…MIXED WITH NOT WASHING THEIR ASSES!
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Peacekeeper00
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
So ironically how they breakup after the birth of the twins.
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coco_fiere
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
61>> You hit the nail on the head. I noticed a lot of ppl thought Diddy cheated on J. Lo with Kim. J.Lo was the reason behind he and Kim splitting because he was the hottest hip hop producer in the game then and she needed to trick us into thinking she could sing (you need a decent producer for that–lol). He just welcomed being used and getting free nana. Plus, any seemingly mis-matched couple (all that “he’s a gangsta & she’s a precious innocent actress” crap) creates tons of free publicity. Diddy would be better off being a public manwhore like Colin Farrell and the others who make no apologies for being all out there (and in everything). Faking the funk like he respects Kim and the kids was unnecessary. If you’re a dog, just be one and don’t apologize for it. Back it up and don’t roll with nobody that’s not with your program. Easy breezy
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nigerienne
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
About 9 years late, but better late than never
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kindanice
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@Caff and Bill too since you are co-signing his rant,
“men don’t change”…….No, men don’t GROW. Tell us something We don’t know.
A woman that stays with a man because of what he has in his pants is a mentally challanged socially underdeveloped bonehead. If your into women that you can control like that, you got a good hustle, keep it. For most of my Sisters, the sex is NEVER THAT good.
Clue: If a woman stays with you mainly because you are making her financially secure, she is a Golddigger and you are being hustled. I thought you knew.
Additonally, a woman who seeks “child” support does not a golddigger make.
I’m tired of hearing men whine like they are ALLERGIC to Latex!
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D-One
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
It saddening to read some of the comment and to see the complete lack of love,trust,respect we have for each other . They did a number on us as a people . Willie Lynch and Satan are in hell right now toasting with two flutes full of Moet right now !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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silly_rabbit
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
go kim!!!
it’s seriously about time…geez!
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judah
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@197
I don’t see this topic as men and women going back and forth at each other. I think it’s just people honestly expressing themselves and the fact of the matter is that there can be no resolution without conflict. I think it’s a mistake to tell people how they “should feel” and that is exactly what is happening in this society. Constant lying back and forth to spare hurt feelings and it’s all nonsense. The way this society is going, the black man and woman will only continue to grow further apart because of pride and outside forces which wish to see the division. Honestly speaking, there are very few black men nowadays that can have a serious conversation or debate with the average black woman because black men have forsook knowledge for the quick buck. Within 5 minutes of a serious conversation, the black man will lose his temper with his woman and he’ll be in handcuffs. This phenomena makes black women feel superior or more intelligent than all black men.
@208
Men mature, change, grow…whatever phrase one wishes to use. It’s a matter of do they grow into what a lady wants them to grow into, lol. Sis, no disrespect to you or any other lady, but many women are very intimidated by a man they feel might be more intelligent than them. It represents a black man having potential power and decision-making abilities over her and many sisters can’t have that. Some black women have been seduced into this semi-lesbian mentality where they either want a man to be telepathic and fulfill the woman’s wishes before she has them, or she’ll live a monastic/solitary lifestyle and immerse herself in her career. The solitary black woman is either always frowning and quick to elaborate on all her failed relationships with black men and “what they did wrong”. Notice that when a relationship with a man of another race disintegrates though, “It was no one’s fault, it just didn’t work out” or she’ll never mention it. Whatever. After awhile, she’ll either venture into outright lesbianism or interracial dating. She’ll lower her standards for another woman or a man of a different race, but never a negro. That’s why the white man bankrolls movies like “Something New”. He knows that there’s an audience of dissatisfied (malcontent) “successful” black women that feel like they’ve been let down by their men. Many black women don’t grasp that “Something New” was the white man’s mockery of the black woman. That’s why he had Sanaa Lathan turn down the “successful black man” that sisters allege to want. He hopes that a movie like that will either put thoughts in her mind that she never considered, or makes her think longer and harder about a thought she already had. As long as it’s divisive, he’s all for it.
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Reesey Baby
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Dear Judah:
FYI-Something New was written by an African-American woman. From a woman’s perspective the successful black man in that movie was a workaholic who did not know how to have fun because he was chasing the all mighty dollar (i.e. they were chilling in her house on laptops). The premise of that movie is to simply to state that one should open their horizons and step outside of the box. Once you let go and love who you are (i.e. Sanaa cut the weave out, etc) then you will find someone (regardless of race) who will love you back.
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kindanice
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@Judah….
“but many women are very intimidated by a man they feel might be more intelligent than them.”
Oh no Judah, I disagree. A man’s brain is the sexiest thing on him. Because it means they have “potential power and decision-making abilities.” A rare quality indeed. On average, us bougie, educated, “don’t need no man to take care of us” black woman are not afraid to let a man lead. But he has to know where HE is going. Otherwise, what’s the point?
As for the other information you mentioned, I will have to give it some thought.
Off top though, the term “semi-lesbian mentality” struck me curiously. Please elaborate.
Further, “She’ll lower her standards for another woman or a man of a different race, but never a negro.” No Judah. We not trying to go BACKwards. If we won’t tolerate it from a black man, our Princes’, our black Adonisis’, the “cool white boy” has no chance.
I think what some black men can’t deal with is that Black women consider being Alone a viable option over putting up with BS. True, some females go the lesbian route, but many who do, do so out of choice and not simply because of lack of options.
Kind
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dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
I can’t believe that the same asinine argument is being made on this post. After 2 weeks of hearing the same bullshit, I am at the point of an awakening. I realize now, why majority of black women find themselves in fucked positions. I know longer feel sorry or empathy for many of you and your sob stories.
Many of you continue to believe Kim Porter had no control over the situation that she put herself in. Many of you don’t believe that Kim had no intention of staying with Diddy and she used those twin babies as an insurance policy. Many of you still don’t believe that Kim is a manipulative, conniving Whore.
I am now convinced the vast majority of women who believes Kim has no fault in her outcome are fucking imbeciles. I am now awaken…I realize now why so many women are bitter and angry towards man. It’s the old blame game. I can’t blame it myself…so let’s blame on the man syndrome.
Lol..! It must hurt you women to here Diddy never intended to marry Kim. It must hurt because many of you were just like Kim; instead the man that knocked you up wasn’t a millionaire. It must hurt you that you sons and daughters are fucking bastards. It must hurt you that your baby daddy, despite putting him on child support, you still haven’t seen a dime. It must hurt you because, deep in your hearts, you know you had fucked up when you decided to open your legs and let some random asshole dump his worthless seed in you. It must really hurt to realize that you are to blame for the fucked up position that you find yourself in.
It hurt so bad, that many of you are now you are living vicariously through Kim… But you fail to fucking realize. While Kim is receiving her monthly child support check, your ass is one check away from being evicted. You fail to realize that what Kim is eating doesn’t make you shit.
I equate you women to being the lowest rung of human existence. You are like fucking parasites; you suck the life out of everyone you come in contact with. I pray to god that you women on here don’t represent the majority of women outside of here.
Fucking pathetic!
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ISIS
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Judah…that was a strong comment that you made towards@208
but I feel you…the movie ” SOMETHING NEW” was definitely a play on the consciousness of black women. I was wondering why i didnt like that movie….
i have no comments on the story…. but i have truly learned a lot from reading the comments….
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ms_mac
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 161 - nikkiluvbug,
I hear you. And the thing is, if you at least have a hand in raising your child and teaching them morals and values, they will stand a chance. As far as helping them to find the right mates, my belief is that we naturally attract and stay around the people that are most like us and that we most want to be like. This is why all these seemingly dysfunctional couples gravitate towards one another so easily. Like minds think alike.
I think Kim and Puff are made for each other. If she really wanted more than what he’s given her — 10 years of disrespect, embarrassment, and non-commitment — then she would have sought it out long ago. But she hasn’t because her mother probably never taught her to value herself as a young lady and then as a woman. In the same fashion, Janice couldn’t teach her son how to be a real man and what that entails. So either way, they were both screwed from the start. And it’s sad because when I see pics and videos of Justin, Kim’s son and Christian and the way they behave, I see a similar pattern brewing — young boys being raised to value puntang and bling over relationships and respect.
The worst part is, this phenomena is even more prevalent in our own families and communities. Yet we shrug it off when little cousin has her first baby at 12 or when uncle goes upside aunties head with a bottle of Madd Dogg at the family reunion. It’s like we’ve become completely desensitized to the fact that the black family as we know it is becoming an endangered species.
Personally, I put most of it on our Black women because we are supposed to be the foundation. True, nobody’s perfect and we are all flawed. But there has to come a time when as women, we understand that we are responsible for what we bring into this world, how we bring it into this world and what we do with it when it’s here. Caff might have been a little blunt with his statement but I agree 100% that women do it to themselves. I get so tired of women acting like money is justification for selling their souls but then cry and moan when men who are soulless permeate their world. Wake up already.
217.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@judah…i admire your cognitive process.
It is unfortunate it is being wasted on a bunch of fucking parasites.
The black women will never realize she is nothing but a fucking concubine the white male establishment. Playboy owner, Hugh M. Hefner, is a fucking womanizer, no different than P.Diddy. Yet, he is fucking revered by the same black women that is clowning P.Diddy.
fucking pathetic
218.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
The movie “something New” was written and produced by a 3 black women.
This is sad indication of how they percieve the black male. i will tell you these,
i trust very few black women nowadays.
219.
tammy
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Judah , you make good points and I heart you ,but I think you need to understand women more.
@ 214 calm down its not that serious honey . You telling us how you really feel huh ? lol
220.
seductiverose
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
Bout damn time. It kinda seems like such a waste of time for her to have a whole buncha kids with him only to have him not be around. But I guess God is good cuz he blessed her children that she can cherish for the rest of her life…
As for her being wit Diddy for so damn long, she shoulda known that she couldn’t change this dude all the other times he played her. One time is waaaay too many. And in public for the whole world to see is OD *total disrespect and he should have more respect for her than that*. But she finally came to her senses before it was too late (so I gotta give her props)..
Now out of spite, she needs to run that ass for all his doe, like we all know she will. Diddy’s such a fuckin’ idiot..
I’m done..dueces:)
221.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@tammy…you have just wasted two fucking lines and said nothing
you are a fucking imbicile..a fucking parasite.
222.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@seductiverose…you have just repeated what 12 dozen of some women have said…yet you too have wasted entire paragraphs and said nothing.
wow…are there intelligent black women left?
223.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
It is like I am caught up in some sort of recurring nightmare. I hear the same fucking argument being made. It is as if these women went to same school of “bitching.”
It is the same fucking train of thought. Not one seems to stand out from the rest. It is as if these women were dragged from the same pool of shit.
224.
tammy
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
@ 221 and you wasted a whole paragraph telling us nothing ! So what’s your point ?? lol Dont get mad at me b/c you’ve been used and abused by women and you cant man up and keep it moving ! lol You are sitting online venting and ranting your frustrations with women from previous relationships you’ve had . We dont give a damn , or have you not noticed that yet ? See this is the ignorant type of negro I was referring to in my previous post ! You ‘re a grown ass man sitting on the internet foaming from the mouth waiting for someone to argue with ,thats sad ! lol You can continue on with your rants I have other shit to do . BTW stop acting like a female its so not cute …lmao
225.
dats_da_truth
Tuesday, July 10, 2007 /
i will say this and go…and let you parasites wallow in your fucking despair.
You men need to take heed…listen to what the women are saying on here. If your women at home repeat the same thing…leave…don’t stay. You have just mate with a fucking parasites. Like all parasites, they will drain you, slowly drain you. They will break you physically, emotionally and spirituality.
Don’t ever take what women say on here lightly. Trust me, they mean much worst.
If I were you, I would educate myself in these types of women. Learn the signs, and when you spot these signs….run.
This is serious. Women can be your foundation, but they can also be a fucking termite that rots your foundation from the inside out.
That’s one reason that I refuse to tolerate fuckery from any women. I never take what they say lightly. I pay attention and react accordingly.
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