He’s so annoying just like his male partna

Heard that on the news this morning about hima and Maneka. He’s defending his girly man and the life of his future child and I can completely respect him for that………………..

………….but why her?

…….I know the cooch aint tight after poppin out them grown ass kids……..

…………what the hell is it cause I missed the train on this one……….

whatever, she still a man

I agree with him 100% it is no one’s business who he decides to marry or date. Some people need to get a life and stop worrying about other’s plus I see nothing wrong with him dating a woman w/ kids because men w/ kids get childless women all the time.

HAHA LOL. WELL THAT MAN (TAMEKA) HAS IT MADE. DAMN USHER IS WROTH ALOT OF MONEY.

He seems to be set on following through with his decisions. Well, I gotta respect him for that.

However, I cannot imagine marrying a woman with 3 kids already by other man/men. I mean, I find it difficult even going out with a woman who has just one kid by another man. Especially since i don’t have any kid of my own yet. But hey, I guess people are different and have different standards they set for themselves.

I just can’t believe that this is the chick is the one. When you compare her and Chilli it’s like night and day. Chilli still looks pretty, but I guess he didn’t want to marry anybody prettier than him. SMH

His personal business is his business. HOWEVER, he knows by him being in the entertainment industry he doesn’t have personal business. All his personal business is everybody business… LOL!!!

I understand he want his marriage and pregnancy to be private but I don’t think that will happen.

I agree with #4 and I completely understand Usher. Plus there’s no evidence that the pics of the club were really him, not to mention that there has been so many rumors that he can’t adress them all. People have been so harsh on those two, it seems unreal. As for him marrying a woman with 3 kids, a lot of people have high standards, and there is nothing wrong with that, Usher probably had high standards too, but when love hits you those preferences don’t count. You might wanna be with a size 4 or 6 woman and end up with a girl bigger than Missy. You might be allergic to men who are shorter than you and one day it happens, you fall for a guy as tall as JD and shorter than you. And like #4 said, men with kids get childless women all the time. At the end of the day, you don’t choose love, love chooses you.

CO SIGN #4, ESPECIALLY BLACK FOLKS, MIND YA DAMN BIZNESS! I DO HAVE A NEW RESPECT FOR USHER, EVEN THOUGH I FEEL THAT HE CAN DO BETTER, HE IS STILL DEFENDING HIS FIANCE, WHICH IS WHAT A HUSBAND IS SUPPOSED TO DO….

Ugh is all I can say I just don’t understand Usher and that thing…but hey to each his own…and dude you can have any chic in the world why Marlon Wayans???

Who cares anymore? Usher is dead to me. Go Justin! J/K. But you all know he’s not pulling the same numbers that he pulled with the “Confessions” album. Should be interesting to see what his album is like. As far as his relationship I don’t think it will help him sell many records like it did last time with the whole Chilli thing. But I can’t blame him for trying.

Why bother responding? You’re a man, you dont have to answer to anyone. Not even you’re fans. Just do what you do.

Usher needs to sit down. People say what they want and it comes with his line of business. That woman really has him whipped! Dog Usher calm down!

I guess Ursher told us now didn’t he lol

I have to admit in that above pic she does truly look like a MAN!!! (bring it on Usher lol)

Just stupid.

Brother need to go about his life and if it works out great.

If its doesn’t that just means Mama was right and he’ll look like a damn fool.

Take up for your woman then!

I think that whatever he wants is his business. He is a grown man and she is a grown woman. But no matter what he says people are still going to talk and say dumb shit. But who cares…I just want my new Usher CD - all that other shit don’t even matter to me!

MAN MAN MAN MAN…OH YEAH…..MAN!!!

and i believe tom joyner…he did threaten that man!!! people use to clown usher all the time and he never responsed…and he wants to response to every little thing….looks real shady and i’m assume most things are TRUE!

karma is a BIATCH!

all i can say usher i still love ya but he definiteley need to go some where.
1. don’t nobody care bout yo chic gon be happy wit her old ass.
2.he got some nerve talkin bout i want my business private knowin it gone be exposed.
3.man-eka we don’t care about.

usher should of used CONCRETELOOP trust me it would have had more impact than People……

If he did threaten Tom Joyner, so what? If someone kept talking negative about someone that you really loved (either your mother, father, husband, wife) wouldn’t you get very mad and say some things that shouldn’t have been said? Tom Joyner need to shut up and stop talking about people because he is unattractive himself, but you don’t see no one talking shit about him. Tom Joyner is not attractive AT ALL so he does not have the right to talk about anyone!

See this is what’s wrong with us. One second we want love and commitment from a man. We want to be loved for our minds and not our bodies (Lawd, knows after having kids you can say goodbye to the six pick). Now here Usher is standing up for his women LIKE A MAN should and you ass wipes are still complaining.

All you single girls out there need to get on your knees and pray for a man that will love you and have your back. Saggy titties, stretch marks and all because at the end of the day love is about what’s on the inside.

Thats right protect your woMAN!!! lol j/k protect whats yours!

I like Ursh but as a fan not just a blogger (i.e. Ursher’s comment) I feel that like his song he’s caught up but if it’s true love I wish him the best.

I believe Vivica said it best…once your a celebrity you have no private life…just embrace it, I mean really Ursh it’s not a big deal, you SHOULD be happy people are still talking about you !?!

Why don’t people leave Usher and his business alone… I’ve always thought he was an arrogant, vain little shit… but I actually admire him more for his choice of woman, instead of going for one of those little model types, who would be so in awe of him, he’s chosen a grown woman, who if she was anybody else or with anybody else, would be considered a fairly attractive woman …….. don’t get me wrong she’s not a beauty but she ain’t busted… he could’ve stuck with those little things that wouldn’t tell him shit.. but no he picked someone mature enough and who has seen enough of life to pull him up when he’s wrong… and getting out of hand…

And so what if she has kids, look at the amount of men that leave women with their kids, and go and set up like free and single men that don’t have any responsibilities when in the mean time the woman is being mum and dad to his kids…

With this relationship Usher goes up in my estimation… So leave them alone and get a life, I’d like to see what some of your partners look like

whatev. i hope he sign a prenup

yeah i understand when he says he wants privacy but it is hard now and days for celebs such as A,B,C, AND THE LIST GOES ON OF CELEBS. CAUSE u got the media who is in ya biz 24/7 tryin to dig up dirt and make stories up. so yeah a little privacy wouldn’t hurt. good luck bein happy with MAN-eka i meant tameka lol!

Tameka is lucky to have him take up for her like that. I know it must get tiring for him to have to do that all the time.

#23 i agree with you wholeheartedly, and what some of the women on here need to realise is there’s no guarantee that they’ll find a man before it all hits south for them, but in their minds its like they’re saying Tameka dont deserve love cause she’s older has a “normal if not good” for her age body and has children, so they best find a man before they’re in the same category or they won’t deserve one either by their own reckoning…… makes no sense

Concrete Loop readers are sooo hipocritical, its the same women who pull down Tameka, that will then talk about how much they LOVE Jill Scott in all her bigness

Who cares. I just wish him and that thing go live in the forest. They are both unattractive people, so therefore, i could careless about their private life. Yuke.

I wish them well

And while everybody keeps talking about, “why don’t people just leave usher and his woman alone.” Well, if he would shut the fuck up about the shit, and stop trying to make people accept her, this would have been long squashed. For the fact that he gets so upset about other people’s reaction of his decision to be with who he wants is why this wagon is still rolling. People are getting a kick out of his reactions to negative feedback of his man-dude of a girlfriend. He should have just shook the dust off his shoulder and kept it moving, instead, he has created a firestorm of media backlash. And why? It’s not because she’s so to speak older, it just that she’s not cute, and no one can understand the attraction, granted it’s not for no one else to understand. But it’s a natural fuckin reaction that people are having, and they both should have anticipated that people would have their mouths open over a much younger well known entertainer who dates and potentially marries a older, much less attractive woman who was formerly married, with a bunch of kids. So give me a break, what kind of reaction were they expecting?

I don’t care what he say. She’s still a womanly man. I like Usher, but -250 cool points for knocking her up.

Amen JSCENE

Exactly the words I would’ve used.

gross…

Ok enough of the already.

With the internet and bloggers and entertainment news dominating everything, celebrities don’t have a single moment to themselves. Then you have everybody wanting to get paid and have fame, so even the people in their camps start leaking stories and riding their celebrity coattails.

Paparazzi have taken things to a whole new low, and we forget that the celebrities are just regular people who happen to have a JOB in the public eye -

They have faults, feelings and flaws, and they don’t get a break because everybody and their momma can comment on EVERYTHING that they do and mostly on what they don’t.

The unfortunate part is though the celebrities understand the business that they are in, their families may not, especially children. They are being hurt by the things they hear and see.

Talk about a Hot Mess. This shit is steaming.

Live your life Usher

I understand his need to address some things. With all the negative things being said it may be stressing Tameka out which is not good while she’s pregnant but then again people can say what they want and Usher will just need to accept that. If I were him I wouldn’t care.

Friggin Man-Eka, I guess he likes older women and if that is the case he should have stayed wit Chili…..

Chili = 8.5
Man-Eka = 2.5314563622222222222

KDub®

Did EVERYONE seem to forget sometime ago Usher fathered a kid with some groupie (which in turn led to his break up with Chilli?) Everybody is walking around like this is his FIRST….Tameka better keep any future groupies at bay…..

COME ON NOW USHER….DO U REALLY THINK DAT PEOPLE ARE GOIN TO RESPECT YOUR PRIVACY??? U ARE A CELEBRITY! HAVE PEOPLE EVER SAID “OK IM GONNA RESPECT HIS PRIVACY AND NOT PUT ON MY ‘GOSSIP’ SITE THAT HE IS MARRYING A MAN”…PLZ!! NICE TRY THO USHER AND I AGREE W/ HAVIN PRIVACY BUT BLOGGERS AND GOSSIPERS ARE GONNA KEEP DOIN THE SAME DAMN THING…..AND IMA KEEP READIN THEM!! LOL

Awwwwwwwww, how nice of a man to defend his man’s oops I mean woman’s honor.

Some women wish that had a man that at the least would wipe his ass good b4 getting off the toilet.

I’m just sayin’.

LOL @#41 K-Dubb (brother)

Your figures are way off. LOL

Definitely too low and extremely too high. LOL

Wassup CL fam.

Come on in, the waters fine…..*\o/*

Best wishes……

Usher, man STFU. It is what it is. If you happy w/him/her just ride with it.

iF WE TALK ABOUT HER THEN WHAT IS HE GOING TO DO? NOT A DAYUM THING.

ALSO, IF HIS RELATIONSHIP WAS PRIVATE THEN MOST OF WHAT IS SAID SHOULD BE UNTRUE. THE ONLY WAY ANY OF IT IS TRUE IS IF SOMEONE IS RUNNING THEIR MOUTH. SINCE IT AINT HIM IT MUST BE TAMEKA’S UGLY RAGEDY WEAVE TOO TALL FOR USHER’S AZZ.

Cosign at JSCENE , maybe if he stop talking about the shit every second and acting like he got to defend it people would let it go. And a grown man (or woman for that matter) don’t have to defend his decisions. You just do you and say fuck what everybody else think.

OKAY… UHMMM… WHO CARES ABOUT USHER & TAMANN ?

I’M TIRED OF SEEING THEM ON CL. I’M VERY UN-CONCERNED WITH WHERE THEY WERE SPOTTED 2GETHER. OR HOW BLOOGERS AND THE MEDIA MAKE THEM FEEL … AGAIN , WHO CARES ?

Next some of you will say, tameka was holding a gun to his head and made him write this

accept the fact that as triflling & ugly some of you claim that the women is - usher doesn’t care and he wants to be with her irregardless

some of you are having a hard time accepting this because it defies your logic-usher questionably handsome, rich, entertainer loves and wants to marry a woman that looks like “tameka” ( I won’t dare to elaborate on this-you already know what I am referring to)

Hell if tameka had such a hold on this man, his behind would not have been at that club allegedly holdings hand-you can’t have it both ways either she’s controlling him or not-in this case not! Usher apparently is in love with this woman and that is guiding his decisions.

I am so sick of hearing news about Usher and Tameka Foster. I hate that they posted that picture of her on every website knowing it was supposed to be photoshoped. People don’t like Tameka for being a average looking back woman dating a rich black man. I guess once you make a lot of money average looking black women aren’t good enough anymore. Black people kill me with that ish. Now if he was dating a white women every black women in America would be heated. I just want people to leave Tameka alone.If that is who he wants to be with then so be it. Nobody ever mentions the fact that she might just make him happy. I hope they stay in love and married for the rest of their lives and have plenty of children

It’s what ever. If Usher is happy with his ugly trannie girlfriend, who are we to judge. I think we need to leave them in peace( until, this front of a relationship is up), and stop disrepecting Tom-eka.

All I have to say is this right here - if ANY of you on here actually believe that marriage is decided, ultimately on “prettiness,” well then you guys just have a whole lot of growing up to do. Marriage is about soooooooo much more!! He would be a damned fool to be with Chili and marry her, even, based on the fact that she is “pretty.” Are you kidding me?? He would also be a bigger fool to let someone who he feels strongly for and feels compatible with to share life struggles and triumphs simply because - according to society’s standards - she’s not pretty enough!

Grow up! I’m reading all of these comments about why her? And she’s a man GTFOH!!! They are happy. That is rare and it is also special, so them give their love a try - even if Tameka has stretchmarks or she’s not as cute as Chili or all of this surface crap you people are coming up with..LOVE and FAMILY deserve a chance!!!

Now take your pretty asses out into the world, go find some more “pretty people” and live a shallowly and emptily ever after!!!!

co-sign #4, #9 and #10…chuuuch!

USHER SAID

There is a difference in stating an opinion versus drawing a conclusion that is incorrect.

opin·ion
Pronunciation: &-’pin-y&n
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Anglo-French, from Latin opinion-, opinio, from opinari
1 a : a view, judgment, or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter b : APPROVAL, ESTEEM
2 a : belief stronger than impression and less strong than positive knowledge b : a generally held view
OPINION implies a conclusion thought out yet open to dispute .

Does he not know what an opinion is!!!!! One’s opinion may/may not be fact but still it is one’s conclussion from where they sit! He is so lame! That is MY OPINION!!

Bullshit!

DON’T UNDERSTAND HOW HE WANTS HIS MARRIAGE AND HER PREGNANCY TO BE PRIVATE WHEN THEY MADE A PUBLIC ANOUNCEMENT ABOUT GETTING MARRIED AND A PUBLIC ANOUNCEMENT ABOUT HER BEING PREGNANT….NOW YOU WANT THINGS TO BE PRIVATE…WHATEVA!!! USHER AND MANEKA HAVE BEEN SHOWCASING IT ALL OUT IN THE MEDIA AND I DONT SEE USHER INSTRUCTING MANEKA TO KEEP HER MOUTH SHUT CAUSE SHES ALL OVER THE MEDIA OUTLETS TALKING BOUT THE HISTORY OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP(ESSENCE)…TO ME THEY ARE THE ONES MAKING IT PUBLIC…IRONCIALLY, THEY ARE MAD BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GETTING THE POSITIVE RESPONSE THAT THEY WANTED.

Damn Usher is real uptight bout his manish lookin fiance/baby mama shit that’s cuz he kno she aint cute n ridiculously whack!!!! see if he was still wit Chilli he wouldn’t have to explain himself cuz when u kno u da shit there’s no explaination needed

Usher knows that when ur a big as a celeberity as he is, there’s no such thing as privacy especially when u pull a stunt like this n hook up wit a dog face person like Tameka so Usher get over it!!!!!!!!!

Who cares! Neither one of them are cute. I just hate to see what the poor baby will look like!

At this point, I dont care about either one of them. Just get married, have your baby, and live your fucking life. Stop wasting your time responding Usher , people are gonna talk regardless, if Tameka was fine, people would still have something to say.

I think that anyone working so hard to make others believe what they already know to be true, must be having trouble convincing themselves. So Ush, if your having second thoughts just say so.

he is sucha and ass, cant he see that man is just using him for what he got!!!!
damn these ignorant black folks!!

I don’t care how Usher tries to spin it but it is not right to be with a woman who was barely divorced when they started messing around and has three kids who is probably miserable at the fact that their mother left their father to be with some superstar due to some fantasy she may have had since she was younger. It doesn’t matter, it won’t last AND eventually he will be paying child support through his teeth when that time comes. I would like to hear from her ex husband.

*SMDH* This is so sad. Who are we to decided what is good enough for Usher or compare this woman to Chilli? I really want fans to stop pretending they know anything about this people and their relationships. Chilli could have been a selfish bitch for all u know and Tameka could be the love of this man life and his soul mate or vice versa! You don’t know, but it’s not for you to know, it shouldn’t matter to you. Be happy that someone has found true love or at least thinks he has.

I believe half of ya’ll on here would be more happy if he was going around poking everything walking as long as the girls were acceptable in your eyes.

Who cares, I’m so over him. NEXT

1st of all, if you find yourself always giving an explaination about your relationship then maybe that’s not a relationship you oughta be in.
Hey yall, I aint been here in a minute. I miss yalls berating! What’s the deal peeps!?

…..SHE STILL UGLY AS FU

Unfortunately Usher this is what you sign up for in this business and unlike when you first came out over ten years ago the internet is accesible to almost every person that is over the age of 5 so it will perpetuate the problem but this isn’t anything new. If you fire your mom and get engaged and impregnate someone that has masculine features while people that know who you are, are bored at work. There just gonna rip that poor girl to shreds. Sorry hon. The upside~ your rich babe. Hate to say this but get over it.

Sooner or later Tameka will start tripping. This is a yong man with everything going for himself, when she have that baby she will say, “You don’t spend time with us anymore” or Your baby didn’t see you in 3mos.” She will start stressing him out. I can understand that he like older women but some women that age expect more out of a man and I don’t think he is ready for that yet.As far as a man being with a women with kids, I had 3 when I met my husband and had another one plus to two he already had and we are very happy, the LORD will not give you more than you can’t handle.

Why does he even give a shyt what people think. If you like that man you’re with then fuck what everyone is saying about your shyt. Do you really need to be writing a letter protecting your relationship with MANFACE. Can he stop writing statements and write a new song … and not with Chester

It’s Usher’s life, he has the right to chose who he wants and not be questioned why; It’s kind of hard for some people to mind their business, when his fiancee made their business available to public scrutiny by doing an interview with the magazine Essence; “Essence”, of all magazines and talked about their relationship, upcoming marriage, and hinted around about being pregnant, so she made that public, along with press statements. People don’t have to accept his marriage to her if they don’t want to, why would he care?

If this is the person he wants to be with, she makes him happy then to hell with what everyone else thinks. Surely he didn’t think that everyone was going to be okay with his marriage he’s a celebrity, every single person isn’t going to agree with whom he marries, even if the girl had been his age, some people would have still had a problem with it. (but that’s their problem, not his) People judge and question different celeb relationships every single day, it’s not as if someone is just picking on these two. The judgemental comments may be more harsh for these two but get real, a lot of celebs go through this. Maybe Ashton, Katie H., Reggie B., SWSNBN, T.I., Tiny, Tracey E., Brad P. etc… should do press conferences, since people are constantly questioning their reasoning for being with their significant others.

Why does he feel he always have to validate his relationship with her? usher has been in the game for years & I’m sure worse has been said about him. Why was he sneakin around with another woman? cause Tameka has somethin on him & she’s making him go public & profess his undying love for her but if it’s real who cares what people thinks & say! His constant defense makes him look suspect! U DON’T HAVE TO DEFEND REAL LOVE!

Ummmm…Usher please shut the f^ck up and quit whining like a lil BIATCHHHH!

Co-sign with #58.

Usher is only being so defensive because he knows he’s about to make a big ass mistake.

I think he has some serious “mama” issues. That’s the only way to explain why he is dating someone who could be his mama.

Damn Usher’s ego just get bigger and BIGGER, hes so friggin annoying! Usher just sit in the corner wiv your woman….sorry, man to be pleaseeeeeee smh…