Everyone that’s surprised at this publicity stunt please raise your hand?

*crickets*

Yah I didn’t think so…….. So he’ll be making millions on his next Cd. I detect a platinum album is in the works. Now that his fans are satisfied.

yall are too fucking stupid and i aint talking about usher and the woman im talking bout yall comments.

“when your feeling ain’t the same and your body don’t want to
But you know gotta let it go cuz the party ain’t jumpin’ like it used to
Even though this might bruise you
Let it burn
Let it burn
Gotta let it burn”
……..Let it burn, Usher……Let it burn

Who gives a damn?!?!

I just checked on this very accurate website that I use that tells where people live, who their relatives are, their age,etc. It lists Tameka Johnelle Foster(her full name) as 40 years old! She currently resides in Atlanta and it had that she formerly resided in Oakland,CA(check out her arrest record out of Oakland) So, concrete loop! ya’ll need to start listing Tameka as her true age. 40!

She is trying to hold tight on his money, I do not like how she acts when other people wants to be around him (FEMALES)… She so inscure.
Im sorry I wish the best for him, and hopes he finds a real Queen.

izzy that was funny lolololol.

@62 Jscene
I follow the other scenario. Usher ain’t foolin nobody. Well actually he fooled alot of people but I wasn’t convinced.

Like i said another platinum selling cd will come out. Now THAT is genius!!!!! He learns well from paris, lindsay, and any other media whore that can keep paparazzi running around in circles with their heads cut off.

Usher better hope his eyes, Love does blind you
I hope he doesn’t have any regrets in the end.
If shes really pregnant Much Love 2 both of them

WOW! Either this is a publicity stunt, or he realized what a shady bitch he was about to marry. I bet his mom had some type of influence on the decision to call the wedding off.

I always knew there was something grimy about her…she just looks like a sneaky chick up to no good. Her intentions were probably bad from day one, back when she was hired as his stylist. I believe she planned to cheat on her husband with Usher and get pregnant with his child…IF it’s his child or IF she’s even pregnant. Women will go to great lengths to trap a man into marrying them, and her plan ALMOST worked.

she looks 40, i dont care what anyone says usher can do much better than her. HE,S USHER he should’ve just hit that and kept it moving shes busted how the hell did she bag him anyway.

Actually Angel, she will be in his life for the next 18 years. “forever” would be stretching it a bit…

P.S. I love your new pic!

Hahahaha Hahaha *sigh* …I know I know I’m being a hater right.

u know what i find sad and disturbing, the hateful comments that people have been making towards this BLACK WOMAN. he didnt pull a taye diggs, he didnt go for the nearest thing to white that he could find, AND he fell for a woman who already had kids. she is a REAL NORMAL PERSON, not some video ho. and we ALL dont tell our men things, and we ALL have men or have dated men who have MOMMY DRAMA and wish the woman would DISAPPEAR. and if your sister will sell you out for a buck, well then you KNOW HER FAMILY IS MESSED UP and who knows what her life has been like. Usher was messin with KARRINE STEFFANS for goodness sake so you know he aint no angel. my goodness people get a grip!

Ya know, Usher aint the cutest guy in the world. Seems like a DL candidate to me. And so what she a little/lot older. I have two kids and don’t like the fact some men are so shallow they don’t want a commited relationship with a “baby mama”. Fuck them and anyone else who objects to single moms finding someone. Everyone has a good/bad past, so don’t be so judgemenatl on everyelse.

Well I was just happy he was with a black woman, hopefully he doesnt use this as an excuse to go find a non black woman. n e way, it does sound like a publicity stunt, wonder what chili thinkin?

COME ON Y’ALL!!! THIS WAS THE GREATEST PUBLICITY STUNT SINCE…I DON’T KNOW BUT HE WILL CONVENIENTLY HAVE MATERIAL ALREADY RECORDED FOR HIS UPCOMING ALBUM ABOUT THIS SHIZ. I GOTTA GIVE IT TO HIM. DRAMA ALWAYS SURROUNDS HIM PRIOR TO AN UPCOMING ALBUM RELEASE.

I know I am so wrong for this (I love Usher), but …

YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But keep in mind this could be temporary. I just think this is too much drama to be around a couple meant to be married. Let it burn Tameka!!!!!!!!!! (SAYS AVANTI)

Believe that and you will believe everytbing - it’s a decoy people, just to create a diversion.

Whatever, the album will be about all this BS. Nice plublicity stunt….

I dunno… I’m thinking this is more a postponement or diversion than cancellation…

Now that is some ghetto shyt, still doesn’t matter, if she’s pregnant, ole gurl still gonna get paid big time………………lmao.

@ GBS - THANK YOU!

I think it’s a damn shame that for the first time in a long time, a huge black male celebrity is wanting to marry and settle down with a woman that somewhat resembles him and there’s all this drama and negativity (media included). Now dont get me wrong I dont for one minute think Tameka is as innocent as she wants people to believe but I also dont think she deserves all this bs she’s recieving comments like ’she’s a man’ and ‘Maneka.’ Who knows what goes on between them two but I do know Usher is a grown ass man so let him be. Whatever has happened at that so called ‘wedding’ i just hope both parties are ok.

WENDY WILLIAMS…OMG I CANT WAIT TO HEAR WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY ABOUT THIS!!!!!!!

Bout time i knew this shit was commin lol fake ass relationship from the get go Usher came to his senses but on a real note i still can’t believe that he let that Man come inbetween him and his Mom they was madd close and stuff but forrealz bout damn time cuz i was juss tired about this shit lol

i think this has to be all a hoax…sounds all planned n scripted to me….and is this tameka chick really dat bad??? yall dog her so bad, im not understanding what she has done?

I DON’T THINK IT WAS A PUBLICITY STUNT. I JUST THINK HE CAME TO HIS SENSES, AND I’M GLAD HE DID.

i aint saying shes a gold digger but she aint messing with no broke broke broke….

usher needs to ditch this tranny and make a successful comeback, and find a woman who actually gives a flying f*** about him.

i would hve recomended him to go bak to chilli but chill’s man is sooooo damn fine that she clearly got an upgrade.

KINDA SAD, IF SHE MADE HIM HAPPY WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE? USH AND MEEK DO UR THANG. DON’T LET NO ONE STOP UR SHINE. BUT . . . .

IF THAT STORY WAS TRUE, TAMEKA NEED HER BEHIND WHIPPED FOR DOING HER MAMA LIKE THAT AND I’M GLAD USHER CALLED OFF THE WEDDING B4 HER UNGRATEFUL BEHIND GOT TO HIS MONEY!

I never thought they were gwtting married in the first place.

how pathetic !!!!!!!!! She’s ugly anyway Usher could do better !!

@#66 We do not know that she came between him and his mother! While possible, its still hearsay ,unless someone who actually works for Usher or someone who is close friends with the family knows this to be true and states that it is true you cant assume.On sites like this we all give our 2 cent and base our opinion of a situation &certain individuals on our own perspective of whats going on.Truthfully most of us dont know,but its still fun to discuss, thats why this is a gossip site. Usher and Tameka have already given as much of a statement as they were willing to reveal about the relationship that they have! For the media and fans,its never enough!
A woman can only cause a problem in the a mans relationship with his mother if HE allows her to. People naturally assume that because Usher is almost 10 years younger than Tameka, that she is manipulating and controlling him .Usher is a grown man. If he did not want to be with this much older woman ,than he would not have been with her! As a much sought after celebrity I’m certain that he has his choice &pick of a large assortment of women.Its not like he had to select her, yet he did. There are going to be people who will speculate but never understand why he chose her ,. Thats cool.Some things arent meant to be understood by YOU! Im not stating that shes a saint.She probably does have some past /present issues,dont most of us? However as black people some of us are a lil too critical of others and quick to rush to judgement about people we dont know. ( I myself have done it before ) For example many criticize her for NOT being as young as Usher , not being as beautiful as other women he has dated, not being famous and rich enough , not being on his level. Who the f*ck are we to decide whats best for a man that we dont even know? If he selects a super model to marry peopel will still talk shyt ,and speculate about why he couldnt just pick a regular around the way female? You cant win for losing! I say do whatever makes you happy, even if it upsets others! If you have real fans who enjoy your music they will continue to be fans and support your music regardless of who you date or marry! Alot of peopel on this board are taking this too serious , and getting upset like they want Usher for themselves or their daughter or something,lol!

I hope all the folks out there who objected to their relationship can have a restful, pleasant sleep now and live happily ever after! The big bad wolf known as Tameka is history, huh?
I myself never really cared about their controversial pairing (Usher’s choice of partner is his damn business), but I’ve always defended the “man” jokes some here have continuously played out.
Unfortunately there will be 2 babies that’ll now be born illegitimately and maybe, just maybe Usher will be turned off from Black women all together.
Then y’all can go bitchin about him being with some plain white chick.
*signs the f-ck off*

OOOOOOH MYYYY GOODNESS. What a blessing? I think he finally realized that if soooooooooooooooooooo many people are against HER, maybe something is wrong with her. People weren’t being mean, just didn’t see that going anywhere positive. Ursh, u need to get a paternity test on the kid too. DONT PLAY!! U might end up like Puffy.

Correction–I’ve always defended Tameka b/c of the “man jokes”.
*signs the f-ck off for real*

AND if she does get some of his money the good news is its “HIS MONEY” not yours and certainly not mine, so howevert it turns out Im cool.Thats on him!lmao These celebrities make choices , and some of them arent good choices and many of them are costly choices. He can afford it.

Usher… i love u like a brotha but… LEAVE HER ASS, and u kno wat… YO DUMB ASS SHOULD’VE TREATED CHILLI RIGHT… SHE SHOULDA BEEN YO WIFE ANYWAY!!!…. call Chilli back…. get her back…. for your own good!

hmmm… i’m late didn’t know she was prego… It might be R. Kelly’s… Same Girl… Same Girl… maybe thats why the wedding was called off…

If he were marrying a non black chick yall would really be talking big shyt! “Why couldnt he find a black woman”? blah blah blah.”Why he have to pick a skinny chick”? “Why he couldnt pick someone else “? which Im smart enough to know really means “Why couldnt he pick my azz?”
Usher better DO HIM and give yall his azz to kiss, because you cant live your entire life just for your fans. You will become a miserable man. As the saying goes “Its better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved at all. Deep down inside alot of these celbrities want someone to love, that they can trust, and feel comfortable sharing their world with. That doesnt always come in the form of a supermodel or celebrity .Sometimes you find it in the most unlikely way ,with the most unlikely person. If he has legitimate proof from his own sources that she wasnt really down for him ,than by all means putting a stop to the wedding(if there really even was a wedding planned and this wasnt a hoax) was in his best interest.However if hes being influenced by what his fans think than he better reevaluate his own needs and wants .
This just seems fishy that 1 day prior to this so called wedding ,he had a sudden change of heart! Oh well !NEXT I have already said to much on this topic for 1 day!

Why are people making dumb comments about “this might make usher date white women”. So fuckin what if he does, and how the hell can him dating one unattractive old hard lookin black women drive him to white women! I’m just wondering how people made that leap…if he does that, then so be it, good for him, but he certainly can’t use ugly ass tameka as an excuse for that because he was with a beautiful black woman right before her (Chili). So that makes no sense at all, and i wish people stop making stupid comments that got nothing to do with this post. DAMN! Stop using this post to vent about other issues that are obviously of YOUR OWN PERSONAL concern.

AND BY THE WAY, THOUGH I KNOW THIS IS SUBJECTIVE, BUT USHER IS NOT CUTE ANYWAY, HE’S NOT ATTRACTIVE, HE’S JUST CHARISMATIC WITH NICE ABS.

IF USHER WAS A ‘NOBODY” AVERAGE JOE ON THE STREET, NO ONE WOULD CARE IF HE WAS DATING TAMEKA’S HAGGARD LOOKIN ASS CAUSE HE’S NOT CUTE HIMSELF. HE’S NO HENRY SIMMONS, BORIS KODJOE, BLAIR UNDERWOOD, OR NO ONE REMOTELY FINE.

WHY IS EVERYONE SO DAMN APMED ABOUT THIS…WHERE DOES IT SAY THEY “BROKE UP”…NOWHERE…CALLING OFF A WEDDING AND BREAKING UP ARE 2 DIFFERENT THINGS…ALSO USHER IS GROWN AND APPEARS TO BE HAPPY AND SO DOES SHE SO WHY ALL THE NEGATIVITY?…THE CHILLI AND USHER RELATIONSHIP IS OVER AND HAS BEEN FOR QUITE SOMETIME…GET OVER IT…LIFE GOES ON…THEY HAVE BOTH MOVED ON AND SO SHOULD SOME OF YOU…USHER AND TAMEKA ARE HUMAN BEINGS AND IF THEY WANNA BE TOGETHER OR NOT THAT’S THEIR BUSINESS….IT SHOULD BE “ENTERTAINMENT” TO ANYONE ELSE NOT INVOLVED!

I had more respect for the brother when he stuck to his guns concerning himself and his lady. There’s nothing he could have found out now that he shouldn’t have already had people researching months prior. If you’re going to project a certain image in the entertainment industry, especially a “sex symbol” image, it would behoove him to maintain that image and not let his fans into his personal life in the first place. As a world famous figure, he had enough cards stacked in his favor that he can maintain a healthy, distant relationship with his fans and his women if he used proper discretion. Now he has to clean up this mess because he was overly honest and emotional. He either has poor advisors or no prudence. Maybe this whole charade is a ruse to get the simpletons out of their business.

So, here we go, another unwed pregnancy. I’m glad that people are thinking more and more before jumping into marriage because its not to be taken lightly. I just wish these young people would think before reproducing. If they gave as much thought to reproducing as they did marriage, you would see out of wed lock birth rates plummit. I don’t know what broke them up, but I hope they seriously work their issues out.

All I have to say is thank the holy heavens!! I dont know what Usher was thinking. I hope is is ready to apologize to everyone that tried to say I told you so becuase I am sure there were alot of friendships lost over she-devil manakey. let it burn! let burn! let it burn!

OMG I cant believe that!! All this hype about the wedding and him wanting ppl to stop hating on his ex-fiance, now he dont even wanna go through wiv it! Damn what is happenin wiv Usher he dont know what he want smh…

usher you should have a look alike contest like kelly roland plllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllz have one

This aint gonna last!
Smh at this relationship in the first place.
It shouldnt have happened.

This marriage wont last.
its just “off”

Thank God, this probably was a publicity stunt tho, i just hope it ends with their relationship being over, cuz the junk makes me sick

Oh well. Now lets all move on with the rest of our lives…

will she now go back to being his stylist?

This shyt ain’t even cool…same thing happened to someone I know 2 weeks ago….Saturday weddings in July after 07-07-07 seem to be bad luck and destined not to happen.

maybe ursha feels that his fans r more important than this man eating bia bia biacth, that sister aint lyn yall,,,,,,,lolo i hope this is true………. he needs to keep his mother as a friend and not let a bitch come in between ………….. i dont like when mothers git invovled in a mans relationship.. but his mother has been there threw thick and thin and its not fair. ….now let this hoe buy her mammy sum teefis and git ta steppin ….lololololo

lmaoooooooooooooooo! i wonder what went wrong lack of love hahahaha

Though I don’t really understand his decision to marry ole girl, it makes me sad to think that he is probably hurting. And just think of the embarassment! But I guess its better this way than to go through with it when your not %100. Thanks for the update Angel. I have been just itching for more info all day!

Stop the damn press!!!!! This is getting to be some real live drama. I say Usher needs to just go ahead and make a reality show out of this ish with Tameka. This is getting a lil to weird 4 me.

Its making Usher look very irrational for not doing the background check in the first place.

I just hope that Usher has seen the light…cause that chick ain’t no good….

y do they keep sayin they hope their privacy will be respected, quit tellin ya business!

Ok, let me make a prediction. I bet the next move is that Usher reunites back with Chilli.

The recent visit she made to Ushers mom and Tameka wasnt happy at all. I bet Chilli still has feelings for Usher. Maybe even vice versa.

WOW!! That story would have did it for me as well. If he sticks around longer with her I am sure a CLOSET FULL OF HER SKELETONS, will bury his ass alive.

We all got a strange feeling about this chick (I know I did when I first got wind of this new lady friend, soon to be baby momma). His mother did the right thing when she just, humbled herself, respect his decision, took her pink slip gracefully (so to speak) after being his manager since he dropped his first single as a teenager & let him be the man, I am sure he stressed to her that he is. Eventhough he is a “grown assed man”, it is still a wise idea to listen to the woman that brought you into the world. She is only looking out for his best interest. It is clear as crystal —that this TAMEKA woman is in this simply for the $ money $. One thing is for sure, she has his nose WIDE OPEN! (I knew USHER lost his damn mind when he made plans to SUE his FANS website, for comments made about his “JAIL BIRD” fiance). WTF?

Whats next for USHER?

DNA tests on the MAURY SHOW? LOL (I would if I was him)

Take it as a sign Usher RUN lol. I wish them well what ever the case maybe.

Who did he think that he was marrying?
The Virgin Mary!

If he was really going to do it:
That would not have been enough to stop it!

I thought that maybe he really loved her, but Now I’m not sure.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> The PERFECT Woman, is for the Perfect Man!

Everybody has a past, he just needs to decide the future:
because there is absolutely NOTHING he can do about it.

What’s done is ALREADY Done!!!!!!!!!

It’s not over yet. She’s going to fucking rape him in child support. You done fucked up, nigga. Fucked up big time.

I read somewhere that the wedding is scheduled for Sunday so for those cheering him on, you may want to wait another day to see what really happens. They may be reporting this to throw everyone off. I can’t see Usher defending this woman constantly to call it off at the last minute. I’m personally not buying it.

probably no one rsvp’ed to the wedding thats why. i mean from the start everything has been goin wrong ..when u put to much effort in defending ur relationship in the public eye it never goes the way you want it, spending to much time trying to convince the whole world that your made for each other is no ones buisness but yours(SHUTING DOWN FANWEBSITES,TAMEKA’S INTERVIEW) so quite giving people a reason to hate ur relationship an plee the f***** FIFTH!

ahahahahahaha

sorry. couldn’t help myself. i just hope ursher finds out the truth and does the right thing.

and i hope the baby ain’t his, so he wont have to owe her ass a DIME

This wedding is still ON SUCKERS.

PRAISE GOD————————————————-

IM SURE USHER’S MILLIONS OF FANS PLUS SOME WILL REJOICE AT THIS REGARDLESS OF THE REASON THE WEDDING HAS BEEN CANCELED I PRAY USHER GETS IT TOGETHER—EVERYONE U WORK WITH IS NOT UR FRIEND OR IN HIS CASE SOUL MATE/LOVE and on the flip side everyone WHO IS UR FRIEND U CAN NOT WORK WIT…..IF HE LOOKS PASS THE OBVIOUS WHICH IM SURE TAMEKA KNOWS OW TO THROW THAT @$$ BACK WHICH IT SEEMS GOT USHER MIND ON BLURRRRR…..SHE’S NO GOOD…..HER RECORD AND ACTIONS HAVE SPOKEN LOUDER THAN ANYWORD OR PICTURE LEAK……PROOFS IN THE PUDDIN….SO BACK TO COLLECIN THEM EBT BENIFITS SHAWDY…..LOL I REALLY PRAY MR. RAYMOND DON’T GOT IT AS BAD AS HE’S LEADING US TO BELIEVE CAUSE SOON OR A LATER f&^&^%&G WIT TAMEKA GONNA HAVE HIM BURNIN….(LITERALLY)

I think he does not need to get married so soon he is too young for her…Just enjoy your life w/out the marrige thing just 4 a while She not he girl for you Usher..

I also read that the IRS is now investigating Maneka.

Here’s a theory as to what happend. Usher saw all his hard earned money flash before his eyes and had a pre-nup drawn. Tameka flipped out and called the whole thing off. If it’s truly over I can see this woman giving him a really hard time. All I can say is run Ni**a, run!

Lol @ all the hype over the wedding being cancelled. I live a cuple hours or so from the Hamptons & I heard it was cancelled due to all the thunder storms our area has been having & that they are still getting married.

LOL @ all the hype over the wedding being cancelled I live a couple hours fromt he hamptons & I heard their wedding was cancelled due to all the thunder storms & rain we’ve been getting.

Just for publicity

hmmm…someone please tell me why I am not suprised?

I hope it is just a publicity stunt. If not, I am sure they are both hurt/angry, etc…All this talk about Chili and she was the girl for you…I don’t know about that either. We don’t know an of these people and you never know what happened in these relationships. Chili coulda had a role in the break up too…Ursher likes to go for the older women and maybe that’s the problem. Who knows? Anyway, best of luck in both their careers and lives.