VIDEOS: DIDDY FT/ MARIO WINANS: “THROUGH THE PAIN: SHE TOLD ME (DEAR KIM)”
Friday, July 20, 2007
Is he serious?
Diddy premiered this on 106 & Park and all I can say is…is he serious? We all know Diddy is the master of publicity stunts, but must he put out a breakup song after every woman that dumps him? We know this song ain’t sincere! I mean damn - he wasn’t even trying to marry ole girl!
And what the hell is Mario Winans slurring? Ok, I’m done - just watch the video and make what you want out of it.








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1.
MixteriousJay
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
soooo stupid that he didnt release after love.. its the best song on the album.
this shit stank!
2.
chyrelle
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
ooh! don’t like this song. i can’t hear a thing with the volume up. am i first!!
3.
OG_Sweetz
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I stopped it after the 1st minute. Tired of the same ole video concepts.
4.
gdlywoman
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
First!!!!
Puffy, PUH-LEEEEEZE. Go and find one of those actresses that you were “swimming” in, and cut Kim her checks. Whatever. Played out since Biggie dayz.
5.
gdlywoman
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
OK, not first, but ONE of the first…..I can live with that! LOL
6.
stacy Holt
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Alrighty then! this is a little too suspect. the breakup is announced this week and all of a sudden there is a video dedicated to the situation. it reeks of publicity stunt to me!
7.
guccigirl
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
(in the voice of Damon Wayans and David Alan Grier)………HATED IT!!!!
8.
DeeLicious
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i am so puffy diddy daddy sean! he needs to be a man about his and cut this childishness out! if he put as much time into kim as he does with making the damn band then kim would still be around. ugh. and wth is mario saying???
9.
cocacola72284
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Diddy is a joke. Everyone knows he was playin Kim so this lil thing he’s doing now is retarded.
And what the hell is Mario Winans saying? He’s mumbling the whole song
10.
AaliyahsBabyDaddy
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
this looks exactly like that danity kane video they shot on the MTB3, except it’s p.diddly featuring Mumbles Winans.
11.
MW
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I cannot stand Diddy. He is the most annoying, arrogant perosn, though I did love “Last Night” and “Come to Me”. I hope Kim doesn’t come back to him. He was just using her when no one else wanted to date him! O and the song was horrible I wanted to cut my ears off! LOL
12.
dreamingbeauty
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i know claudia jordan is happy bout their breakup….lol jk
this song is a mess
13.
Tammy
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
wow what a hot ass mess
14.
KiwiKemi
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
THIS IS PURE CRAP!!! …… The ridiclousness that is diddy and mario is sssooo freaking unreal… i mean
- I can’t hear what either of them r saying ….don’t know y they r mumbling sweet nothings to each other.
- They both must be tone deaf because i got a migraine listing to just a minute of this crap
NOW Mario, please grow some balls and leave bad boy, i don’t like you but i’m quite sure some other production team can falsify/cook up better lyrics, music and probably REALLY give u a career!!!!
Now that i’m done venting …..TGIF!!!!!!!
15.
Kenyanpebbles
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i hate this dude even more and i thought that was impossible
16.
Chanté
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I can’t watch another video full of ass shaking, I swear!! This is some pure “hot ghetto mess”. I was too through after the first 10 seconds and stopped watching. The biggest attention whore is obviously pimping that break up judging from the comments.
17.
R.K.J.ville3000
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I thought the song was dumb when I heard it on the CD. And this video….”Dear Kim” give me a damn break. Like you give a damn about that girl. You will when she takin a cool Mil out your pocket every year. And when the chick in Atlanta has her kid you’ll be paying for her too.
18.
Kenyanpebbles
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i dont understand a word either
19.
What you know about that
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
This song is sooooo blah! Diddy, did your album even go platinum??? Why are you still releasing singles??? Let it go and let Kim Porter go live her life. I pray that she finds a real man that will love her and give her the attention that every woman deserves. That girl put her name on the line for you in ESSENCE MAG….talking down on JLO. And this is how YOU show her how much you love her??? You’re a coward!!!
20.
lilmaria1212
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
YO WTF IS MARIO SAYIN? i’ll give sumbody 5 dollas if they can give me the correct lyrics to the first verse.
21.
StarChild
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Video and song: boring, boring, boring!!!
Diddy sending out an SOS- same old shi#%
22.
ThinkAboutIt
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Well that was pitiful.
23.
AaliyahsBabyDaddy
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
My career is sooooooo dead….
Some-bo-dy put a bull-et in my head….
I live with moms and my pockets are broke….
Trus-ting p.diddy, what a fuuuuuckin joke….
…..or at least thats what it sounds like
24.
mena
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
His ass is just trying to keep from paying child support..
People.com reported that his ass was cuddled up some blonde chick..
Kim needs to ignore his stupid ass..
25.
NayBoo
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Wat a hot ass mess. and he is so right he got to many bills to be paying seeing how he finna pay child support. and da hell is dat guy sayin..he aint makin no type of sense at all. Diddy u kno is gettin too old for dis mess.please have a seat.
26.
ThinkAboutIt
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
AaliyahsBabyDaddy
Friday, July 20, 2007
My career is sooooooo dead….
Some-bo-dy put a bull-et in my head….
I live with moms and my pockets are broke….
Trus-ting p.diddy, what a fuuuuuckin joke….
…..or at least thats what it sounds like
________________
LOL -
That probably why he was mumbling that shit.
He was singing like he had Diddy’s teeth in his mouth.
27.
guccigirl
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
#23…..you are stooooooppiddd…….HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
28.
mena
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Too bad he can’t promote his other acts like he promotes himself.. As my grandma used to say..
SAT DOWN!! YOU DONE RAN OUT!!
29.
Obama
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
There seems to be quite a bit of angry (black) women on this site. I thought black women want well-to-do, successful, rich, relatively handsome black men? All I’ve read thus far is the typical angry (black) woman’s comments pertaining to Puffy. There are a lot worse black men in the world. Certainly Puffy isn’t one of them, despite his public shortcomings regarding the women in his life. Some of you women need to really relax and stop being so damn hard on (black) men. I bet a majority of the posters are involved with losers themselves and yet they portray some faux-wisdom about life and relationships. Give me a break.
Go, Puffy.
30.
MissJamaica
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Diddy needs to go somewhere!He’s been making a fool outta Kim for too damn long and when she finally leaves him for good,he’s all strung out?Please!!!I can’t imagine being her, especially after that JLo fiasco!The song sucks, I thought I heard,”She hurt me,” which don’t make no sense because while she was poppin’ out babies, he was running around with chicks!I hope she’s over his bs and ready to hit him where it hurts: in his bank account!!!He shoulda just married her!!
31.
jusme
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i dont care for diddy…but i like winans just not in this song.
32.
guccigirl
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
#29 obama…..go play on the highway
33.
it's ftg u bicthes
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i can officially say i hate diddy
34.
Jaime
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i don’t think the song is all that bad, but i do agree that he isn’t sincere. it’s ironic he’s releasing this a week after the breakup.
35.
cbreezie007
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
aha..anutha one of diddy’s schemes!!! he jst luvs all tha attention. he’s startin’ to get on mi last nerve!!..lol
36.
del
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
um…WTF
37.
AaliyahsBabyDaddy
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
diddy, michael jackson called….he wants his outfit from Beat It back…and mario, homey, stop buyin clothes from the bodega on your corner, i mean come on, your jacket looks like if it get wet, itll fall apart and melt…not a good look, pimpin.
38.
atreyou82
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I hate this song and really hate the video. If he was smart he would have released the track with Big Boi and CIara. I’ll give him props for his publicity stunts he has going on lately. Your A&R team are brillant.
39.
simone
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
LMAO @ 29 VERY RUDE BUT YET SO TRUE. MAYBE THATS WHY HALF OF THEM STAY ON HERE DAY IN AND DAY OUT. GETTING TO THE TOPIC AT HAND. THE SONG REALLY SUCKS
40.
D-One
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Typical simp R&B right now … man bad guy …. female victim … please forgive me or I’m sorry ! Most songs on the radio sang by male artist follow this formula . Most women play perpectual victims in daily life and make other women victims by reflex …. ala Kim Porter ! Even thou women dictate speed,seriousness,perameters of most relationship . Puffy and men of his stature (wealthy) go against that grain … so he’s hated for his inability to conform or lack of desire to do so . But conveted for his stature (wealth) . IMHO
41.
ladyloza
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
#29 what u fail to realise is that this song SUCKS and diddy is a DAWG, u are just hating on us coz it’s the truth!!
42.
Who In Da Hell Left Da Gate Open?
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Look on the bright side….
At least he didn’t lip sync. Oh wait a minute….
He did.
43.
jscene
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Diddy, puffy, puff daddy, what the fuck ever he’s calling himself this week is pathetic! He needs to seriously go somewhere and stop doing stupid shit. He needs psychiatric help REAL TALK. He’s so indecisive and non-committal, not to his girlfriends or his music groups. Basically he’s all about himself and full of shit.
The song is weak and so is the video. No props due here.
44.
crys
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
publicity stunt anyone?
45.
whytry?
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Here he goes again. What a waste of a video. He should have released “After Love.”
46.
LeevMyNameOut
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I don’t get what everybody is hating on…the beat is chill…Mario Winans sounds dope on it…and the dude put it out because he wants his girl back. Ya’ll must want to hear A Bay Bay…
47.
VegasHoney
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I swear Puffy just keeps pulling these songs out of his ass.
48.
Beyonce_Stan_Bee
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Im not feeling this song AT ALL
49.
Disiny2003
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Ay Bay Bay and this song are crap. JMO! The beat overpowered the song. Diddy stop promoting yourself and promote other people on you record label. Help them make strong singles because Bad Boy is pathetic.
50.
Dame
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I was surprised he put this song out Mario whinny ass don’t make the song no better.
51.
jscene
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
@29 OBAMA
YOU SOUND STUPID ON SO MANY LEVELS….YOU MAY HAVE PUT THAT PARAGRAPH TOGETHER SEEMINGLY WELL, BUT I CAN READ THROUGH THAT….YOU ARE A WEAK SUM-OF-A-BITCH, MASQUERADING WITH THAT “FAUX” LOGIC. IT’S DUMB PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO CAN’T SEE THE FOREST FOR THE TREES!
52.
bklyn-bella
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
WOOOOWWW! isn’t diddy the little recycler…is it me or does this song sound like “I don’t wanna know” by this same Mario?
53.
dee
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
i cant hear it
54.
sexynerd
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
of all people to sing the hook, he speaks Mario Winans non-singing a**. Ugh!
55.
Obama
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
@51
Anyone who responds with an ad hominem laced reply is the one who is stupid. Perhaps your limited vocabulary prevents you from articulating your thoughts well? Could be…anyway..my original point remains. This song is no better or worse than any other R&B song we hear today. As if any of you have a good ear for music , anyway. LOL!
They way you angry women rant on this site tells me you will be hateful, single, and lonely for a very long time.
Go, Puffy! You employ a lot of people. Namely, black women.
56.
what you know about that
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
@ Obama,
You can’t be serious. Give up on the devil’s advocate routine because you know Puffy is one man that has refused a serious relationship with the mother of his children. If she’s not “good enough” for him, he shouldn’t have impregnated her a second time. If you call, telling the truth, the angry black woman syndrome, then I’ll be that.
57.
aaaawwww
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
boy puhleeeezzzz! should of thought about her showing, holding, hurting, and loving you when you were out and taking pics and flicks with 35 different women every other night—CHILD BYE….GIRL BOOM!!!!!!
58.
Obama
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
@56
And what does his life have to do with yours? Please tell us all? Only people who have very little going on in their own lives would ponder such trivial BS. It’s his life. He’s free to do what he pleases. I can’t believe some of you have such a strong opinion about someone who you don’t know.
Grow up and live your own life. It’s short…
59.
bklyn-bella
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
wow..you all are getting really passionate about diddy..diddy’s causing problems even when he isn’t around lol
60.
simone
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
LMAO @ 58 YOU ARE ON A ROLL.. I LIKES .I LIKES
61.
KELLIE CARES
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
no no no the concept of the song is very wack, but i must say when i hear it the club ill move to it .
62.
:)
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Wow..Mario sounds 3 sheets to the wind. I cant understand shit he says…lol
A week later…wow….he is off the chain for this one
Dear Kim,
Diddy still dont give a fuck about you, but he has to raise money for that $1.2 mil child support payment.
Take Care,
Diddy’s lawyers.
63.
mrs sands
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Diddy has some balls dont he? Mario can’t sing worth a damn Hell Diddy could have did the singing and the rapping on this peice of shit production. Put me on the track I yall producing any damn thing.
64.
lee-lee
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
sr8 garbage
65.
diamond in the rough
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
after love was meant for JLO
66.
MixteriousJay
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
well its on diddys album now, so screw jlo (that bitch cant sang anyway).
maybe you mean keri hilsons song called “wrong when your gone” wich ended up being jlos ridicolous song
67.
Ro
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
What kind of foolishness is this? I think it’s really pathetic that he has to resort to calling out the mother of his children in order for a bit of publicity. And what is Mario Winans doing? Why did all his lyrics just sound like one whole long drawn out word?
68.
MeetMeOrExceedME
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I’ve Had IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…*slams door*
69.
Zaria
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
What in God’s name is Mario singing? Can’t understand a damn word.
LMAO @ people here defending Diddy. Crazy.
70.
hood_shit
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
I swear there are at least three other songs on the album he could have released esp. the Brandy or Keri Hilson tracks
71.
Lea
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
obama ur a funny dude. your either on diddy’s payroll or just really dillusional.
72.
luxury
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
DID HE REALLY SAY THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME HOW TO LOVE?
THIS FOOL.
73.
Lea
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
If diddy was smart he would have released “Don’t you wanna move” with big boi and ciara but nooooo.
74.
thomian
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
Nigga please. You sound and look like an ass.
75.
r0kkStaRR sTatUSz
Friday, July 20, 2007 /
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