Give the guy a break. He’s trying. He’s successful in everything else that he does but when it comes to relationships…he just does not have a clue. He needs one good woman that understands him that’s all. And it’s obvious that he hasn’t found anyone yet besides his momma.

On another note, Kim is just as bad as him. If she was a self-respecting woman, she wouldn’t have had another child by him out of wedlock. She would’ve waited until AFTER they went down the aisle. She purposely got pregnant because she thought that Sean and her was going to marry. She left when she found out that wasn’t so…she’s embarrased now.

Kim…don’t fall fo that B.S. because in the song he is not really even making a point. He is not saying anything, but some jibberish. So peace out to Diddy with that lame ass song. He even had a better song for J.Lo, who didn’t even have his children.

Diddy’s Whack….Get that Money Kim. I can’t stand diddy’s sunken faced ass.

I was hoping he would have released “After Love ” w/ Keri Hilson. This song was always just ok to me. I hope Kim Porter doesn’t accept this as some lame ass type of apology.

This is really weak and tired…and I’m through.

This is soo blah.
He is blah.

OMFG..he is so lame…he would be nothing without all those people he collabs with..and what a pussy to go make this song…and i mean wtf is he tryna do sing or rap…gawd, he is such a lame-ass.

Mario Winans is a NON-singing mofo….I can’t stand that dude.

wack song, did the strippers not favor cassie and meagan goode a little. i hate diddy and mario and bad boy. fuck them all

This song is a H.A.M. SMH He told on his self during one of his first lines when he started rapping talking about, “I got bills to pay.” Yeah, that’s right mufuh…you gone have to PAY for knocking up all these broads and not treating them right. You and Kim both get what ya’ll deserve.

Diddy is going to meet someone soon that will break his heart by not returning his love…….money fame won’t be able to save him.

lol, i’m scared of watching this shit.

damn he made a video QUICK

hell he had to put out something for them million dollar per year child support payments!

how u gonna have a song about kim with strippers all over? that doesn’t make ANY sense. diddy needs to sit his no talent, no dancing, tactless butt down.

This song is ridiculously OLD! I was listening to it LAST summer…he is desparate right now. Maybe if he treated Kim right we wouldn’t have to hear one of Bad Boys sloppy a** love songs!

How can you feel sorry for Kim she sat around like a old puppy waiting for him to break up with Jlo. So she can have any kind of piece of him hell Pdiddy is the only thing she got going for her they say she’s a model, I never saw her on any catwalks she just wants to live the life she is just happy crawling behind him hell maybe now she can do something with herelf show her daughter what a REAL WOMEN can do because laying up with stars just won’t get it. Damn don’t she has Another kid by al b sure but yet never everbody wanted to get on scary for having a baby with E. Murphy hell he’s a has been if it wasn’t for sherk that baby wouldn’t have pampers

wtf???

WACK SONG, WACK VIDEO . DIDDY JUST SUCKS BIG TIME.

They Shoulda Never Gave That N*&&a Money :-|`

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…..well the song was …ok…the question is will kim take him back again??????

OMG - I am still crackin up at the person that called Mario “Mumbles Winans.” That shit cracked my ribs. Anyway, I must agree with others - Kim is just as responsible as Diddy. Anytime you allow a man or a woman to walk over you and you believe you can change him with guilt, having their babies or waiting around while they play in the streets, then at some point the rubber meets the road and you learn the hard way. That doesn’t mean I justify Diddy’s actions and I certainly feel very bad for Kim. But most importantly I feel bad for the kids. That is too much back and forth, fighting and drama and that mess is uncool.

About this video - wow…cars, bling, ass-shaking, money in the air, liquor - who would have thought an R&B/Rap video could be so…innovative?

About this song - the only Diddy songs that I have liked have a strong vocalist 0 Nicol, Keisha, Xtina…he just can’t cut it on his own.

Oh yeah.
Diddy: My granddad wants his Members Only jacket back. Thanks!

Umm yeah….what was dude sayin. The song is G-A-R-B-A-G-E and thats all I have to say. Oh I do have sumthin else so is the video.

i always tell my best friend that puffy, puff daddy, p.diddy, diddy or whatever he calls himself on any given day is just played out he wouldn’t be nothing if it wasn’t for Biggie, Total, 112! it just seems like he’s descending instead of ascending year by year……i mean damn get a kit kat bar and take a break forever!!!!!

why the fuck was the money flying around in da club room??

wack n boring video Diddy, go sit yo ass down 4 a moment.

diddy is nonsense

DIDDY AND ERRBODY AT BAD BOY IS WACK AS F^&K (ACCEPT FOR D.DOT)! HE’S A CHILD SUPPORT CHECK AWAY FROM GOING BROKE ANYWAY!! NO WONDER HE’S RESORTED TO THROWING 40$ WHITE PARTIES WHEN THEY USED TO BE “EXCLUSIVE INVITE ONLY”!!

What the bloody hell! Puffy needs to stop with all this “I need a girl” type ish.

I vomited in my mouth a little bit.

Yall hatin azz people, if all of you hate him sooo much why is he the richest man in hip hop?

HEY EVERYBODY, AT LEAST THIS SONG WASNT A REMAKE, CAUSE WE KNOW HE REMAKES SONGS AND CHANGES THE BEAT AND THEN JUST SAYS “BAD BOY” UH, UH UH, “BAD BOY”

Let me tell you why Diddy, Puffy, Puff Daddy, Diddy pop, is weak. He is weak because when J-Whore left him, he made a song about her, about how he basically missed her when she left, crying on his album with Usher. Then he had a baby by kim, she hit that negro up in court for a whole lotta cash. Then he PROCEEDS to make TWINS with this chick, she is leaving him again and about to hit up his POCKETS again.!! What does he do? He makes a song “Dear Kim”. WHAT A LAME!!

This song is weak, it looks like it was made over the weekend, you cant hear anything winans is saying, you basically cant hear anything Diddy is saying. I REALLY cant believe he came on 106th and Park to Debut this Garbage song!!!

I dont Think this is a publicity Stunt, Diddy makes a song after EVERY women leave him, then he tries to act like he all cool about it. Marry the girl Diddy, then again I wouldnt marry him if I was kim, when I can still get into the pockets!! Hec, Diddy and I can have quads thats fine by me. I will take 4 million each child a week!!

This is worse than his performance on the BET Awards. I thought he couldnt get any lower than he did on that awards show, That was HORRIBLE!!

DIDDY IS SO DAMN WACK WITH HIS LIL SCRAWNY AZZ! GOOD FOR U KIM!
WHY ARE PPL SLEEPING ON THOUGHT U SAID WITH HIM AND BRANDY? DAMN I WISH THEY CAN MAKE A VIDEO FOR THAT, BRAN’S VOICE SENDS CHILLS THROUGH MY BODY, SHE PUT HER FOOT ALL UP IN DAT SONG!

Lame!

@73, Diddy WAS going to release “wanna move”, but I guess he wanted to act like a fool instead. Again, LAME!

@55 obama

Whether you consider me articulate or not on my last post, I THINK YOU GOT THE POINT BITCH, cause you sure as hell responded back; couldn’t have been that inarticulate. I mean i used simple words so you could keep up like (dumb, stupid), you know, things you probably heard slung your way before.

You seem pathetic, and no you don’t seem angry, you seem like one of those defeated women who just lay down and take a lot of shit; just sad. Telling people they should calm down, but who’s really up in arms here. I think it has affected you more sense you have taken it upon yourself to be diddy’s defender. Something about people’s comments about him must have some relevance in your own pathetic life, cause the comments here sure touched a nerve with you.

And one more time for the record for the stupid slow fucks:

Please stop asking dumb questions like why people are saying harsh things, and/or what does puffy’s life have to do with ours: ITS A BLOG BITCHES, WE ARE SUPPOSE TO RESPOND! We are suppose to comment on the things posted here. And if you don’t like anything that i write, i’ve said it before, you can kiss my entire ass.

Na wa o!!!!!!!! Nothing wrong with the song, it is one of the songs in his last album and he chose to do a video for it, in fact, this is one of my favorites and i’m glad he finally did a video for it.
I don’t see any commentor here making millions like P. Diddy, but people all want to criticize. Why not make ur own video or even develop an album lets see how good you are.

Diddy had the nerve to kick Chris off making the band because he cant sing…….at least he would have been in a group….Mario can’t sing by himself..this sucks and so does Diddy from what I heard…….lol

And by the way, who are we to judge his personal life? with all the deadbeat black dads out there, or in jail and the numerous hoodrat black girls that get pregnant in their teen years, you’re here criticizing.
Maury will never go out of business with all the black girls that show up with different baby daddies.
Black Americans give me a break and show some regard for the man.
So what if he does not marry Kim? That’s their business and they know why.
Infact this concreteloop is so lame, with blacks hating on other blacks, then when white folks hate on you, you scream racism.
Ef you all.

@obama puffy is successful, rich, well-to-do but relatively handsome, he is not therefore that paragraph you write doesn’t pertain to him

like the beat, hate the song. i’ll just download the instrumental. and oh yeah, it’s a publicity stunt. i knew kim would never leave him. the woman’s too stupid

SERIOUSLY I CANT EVEN WATCH THIS VIDEO,I KNOW NOW THAT HE’S KRAAAAAAZY, WHY DUDES COME OUT WITH THESE WOE IS ME SONGS AFTER “THEY ” DO SUMTHIN WRONG, FOOL THA REASON SHE LEFT WAS BCUZ OF U, THAT FOOL NEED TO DO LIKE ERYKAH SAY AND CALL TYRONE OR BETTA YET CALL SIENNA SINCE HE ALWAYS WITH THAT STANK HOE!!!! YEA I SAID IT!! LOL!!

@113

Your response is laughable at best. You are a pathetic being online and I imagine the same in person. It’s so funny how losers like yourself can get so worked up over absolutely nothing! LOL! You’re analyzing someone else’s life as if they are actually going to take your misguided, hateful words as truth. How pathetic and uneventful is your life? And I’m not a female. Only lonely, underachieving women like yourself choose to occupy their meaningless life with gossip such as this. To me, this is just a video to watch. To you, this is a way to fill the empty void in your life. Get off your lazy ass and do something such as lose a few pounds which I imagine you are carrying around lately. LOL!

I actually like the song and new immediately when the CD came outlast year who he was singing it to. Hoever, releasing it now I do believe is in response to what I hope will be the last time Kim leaves his arse!

excuse the typos,please LOL!!!

TO TANISHA/106, YOU SOUND LIKE A DELUSIONAL IMBECILE/GROUPIE. I HIGHLY DOUBT IF DIDDY IS THE RICHEST MAN IN HIP HOP. HE HAS WAAAAAAAAAAAAY TOO MANY BABY MAMAS AND MOUTHS TO FEED. HE’S DAMN NEAR BROKE I BET.

1. DIDDY IS THE RICHEST MAN IN HIP HOP ACCORDING TO FORBES. HE BEAT RUSSELL SIMMONS AND JAY Z FOR THE FIRST TIME, THANKS IN PART TO THE HUGE SUCCESS OF HIS COLOGNE.

2. DIDDY ALLOWED HIS FANS TO HELP HIM DECIDE HIS NEXT SINGLE. THERE WAS A POLL ON HIS MYSPACE PAGE MONTHS AGO. THE CHOICES WERE:

AFTER LOVE- FEATURING KERI HILSON

THROUGH THE PAIN- FEATURING MARIO WINANS

Oro #116 - You are right, it is their business if they marry or not, but the fact is they are public figures and so, yes, there are blogs, websites and news programs created specifically to report on them. Fans are fickle and this is just another way for fans to express their pleasure or disdain about them. As I am sure you know, there are hundreds of web sites and several Web sites dedicated to other celebrities (mostly white) in which white people talk bad about them, too. It is not about tearing down a race or about building one up. It’s purely entertainment and the same as there is a BET or MTV3 (Hispanic/Latino music and news) there will be sites and programs dedicated to certain audiences. CL has been around for a minute, allowing people to read and respond about black celebrities because this is what is of interest to us. I think it’s a bit over the top to say that because we comment one way or the other about the latest celebrity news that is of interest to us means that racism isn’t alive and well. When black celebs are highlighted on E or Entertainment tonight and the negative is discussed, I don’t think anyone thinks it’s racism, it’s just entertainment news and info. Just as it is here.

Also keep in mind that there are now the same if not more white single mothers than there are black. The media’s portrayal to the contrary is the racism.

dangggg i couldn’t understand nothin mario was sayin…smh.
diddy just can’t commit. glad Kim moved on.

@ #11 Please don’t cut your ears off! LOL Crackin’ me up. The song is bad…okay, maybe it is that bad. LOL

Mario is TRULY slurring… as you said. He sounds a HOT one.

Tanisha oh stfu ….. no hatin’ here…… that n-gga is just plain trifling…….and havin’ money don’t mean you have to like him or make him a better person………. k thanks.

What a dumbass

puff deadbeatbabydaddy needs to sit down somewhere with this ish. i feel truly sorry for his twin girls who will never know what it is like to grow up with a father in the home. i hope he thinks about how he wronged them and kim every day for the rest of his life. but, he won’t. because he is already in england or somewhere laid up with a blonde h0.

Diddy should have saved that money for his child support payments that will begin real soon……….I thought it was joke in the title about “Dear Kim”…..He is crazy..LOL…..Dont fall 4 it kim…..its just like a battered woman who keeps getting flowers..the cheating will never end

I’m sorry, i’m not feeling this song…It’s wack!

Jus like they say…never miss sumin till its gone but i think Kim should leave his cheating behind, puttin out silly love songs ain’t gone make it better. once her get her back he gon b doin the same shit again, he ain’t even trynna marry her anywayzz! wats up wit dat, diddy jus needa b the baby daddy he was destined 2 be! and stick wit da chicken heads cuz if he ain’t gone treat ole gurL rite he should jus let her live her life without anymore heartbreak!!

sean p. diddy combs has reached all-time new level of stupidity….what the hell was he thinking releasing this song???…he is an ass for this one. he seriously needs to get his shit together, all he had to do was marry, the damn girl and all of this foolishness wouldn’t have even been necessary. laying up, having all these damn babies, fucking whomever he pleases and then not having the respect to publicly declare their union, a la marriage….diddy go bitch slap yourself….he’s such a narcassistic bitch!!!!

****questions???****

1. what the hell is mario winans mumbling???
2. what the hell is up with the video not having a kim-look-a-like at least???
3. what the fuck does diddy use, because its obviously more than “patron”, as indicated in the song???

I AGREE WITH EVERYONE TO A CERTAIN DEGREE. MAJORITY OF Y’ALL HOES CLOWNING PUFFY PUT OF WITH THEM DRUG ADDICT GOOD FOR NOTHING NIGGAS. BUT TO OL GIRL SAYING THAT WE SHOULD STOP DISSING BLACK MEN. nO HONEY STOP DISSING GOOD BLACK MEN TAKING CARE OF THEIR KIDS GOT A GOOD JOB. NOT SELLING DOPE OR ON DRUGS. i HAVE A DEAR FRIEND WHO HAS A DRUG PROBLEM WENT TO A BABECUE SPONSORED BY A TREATMENT CENTER THERE WERE SO MANY WOMEN AND KIDS AND BABIES THERE SUPPORTING THESE DRUG ADDICTS WHAT A SHAME. ITS ONE THING TO BE FRIENDS WITH THEM BUT THESE BITCHES WANTED THEM TO COME LIKE THEY WERE REGULAR DUDES…WTF

MEANT TO SAY WHY YALL CLOWNING PUFFY LOOK AT YO OWN MAN HE PROBABLY AINT NO BETTER. BECAUSE OF PPL LIKE TINY, BEYONCE AND CIARA GLAMOURIZING THE DOPE MAN REG WOMEN WANT TO COPY. WHAT A SHAME

well on myspace he had a vote to release eitehr this GARBAGE or AFTER LOVE wit KERI HILSON so its not like he released this because of his breakup but still this shit is wack either way

MARIO WINANS CANT SING TO SAVE HIS LIFE! AND DIDDY GETS NO SYMPATHY

#14 your hilarious thanks for making me laugh

ughhhhhhhhhhhh Mario shut up Whining all the damn song. He is like a emo r&b singer. always droopy and sad. Damn he so sad I couldn’t make out nuthin he said. Diddy you W A C K. wiggidity wiggidity wack wack wack. The keyshia cole song was hot than you came out with this. you should be ashamed. lol hell yeah im mad.

ISN’T THIS SONG OLD??? i don’t get it?? i heard it a long time ago, maybe the video’s new or something, but this song is old.

The actual song is old…it’s on a mixed tape that I got from NY months & months ago. We all know that Puffy’s the biggest media whore there is so…that explains the video.

I don’t know anything nor do I really of Puffy’s personal life….I like the songwriting, it defiinitely conveys the right feeling, nice idea musically….just need to take it back thru the studio a couple times when Mario’s sober …

I don’t know anything about, nor do I really care of Puffy’s personal life….I like the songwriting, it defiinitely conveys the right feeling, nice idea musically….just need to take it back thru the studio a couple times when Mario’s sober …

omg i love this song i went n downloaded it n everything. i don’t even wanna support diddy but i downloaded it anyway. diddy is a very arrogant person who can’t rap 4 shyt but always expects everyone else 2 be perfect (*making the band*). wat the hell is mario sayin? ionno but im not even listenin 2 it i jus like the beat or wateva. uh worst break up song try sean kingston’s beautiful girls. bein 17 rocks

I can understand wat he’s sayin it’s a gd song and he might ave loved kim u all just jealous brokedown bitches

I agree the Puffy has made some mistake’s but he does have feeling’s…We all know that when Diddy’s going threw something be it good or bad he has to make a song about it. Personally I like the song if you listen he is actually saying some real shit….When you’ve been with someone for years threw everything from children to money to other woman and back again. Your feeling are all fucked up and he’s asking everyone if they could deal with it. I feel you Diddy