BLIND ITEM: HIP-HOP WIFE ACCEPTS INFIDELITY

August 28th, 2007

A lot of hip-hop wives and girlfriends tolerate infidelity from their famous spouses but this young lady takes tolerance to a whole new level.

I don’t know if her tolerance is her philosophy or comes from her upbringing or a combination of both.

Last year, we were informed that she accepts her husband’s constant cheating and she tells female friends, ‘ignore what your man does, because men have different needs compared to women. A woman is content with one man throughout her life span but a man needs to be with several different women throughout his span to feel complete and I accept that.” “Keep your family together, no matter what he does.”

Sadly, this same woman helped her straying spouse pick out names for the two children he has outside their marriage.

If that’s not enough, rumors are circulating that she critiques sex tapes he has with other women, giving him tips on how to become a better lover to these women.

He loves the situation of having his cake and eating it too. His buddies, jokingly, want to clone his wife.

No wonder, he’s often quoted as saying, “I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY WIFE.”

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  1. 1.
    Rihanna_so_Fugly

    could be anyone

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  2. 2.
    Trendjunky

    Who the hell is this fool???

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  3. i have no idea who this could be…anybody kjnows???

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  4. 4.
    lala

    ummm….denzel?

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  5. 5.
    lala

    oh nevermind…its a hip hop person…ummm i dont know

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  6. 6.
    Ms.Nyla

    FIRST!

    Ja-Rule

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  7. 7.
    Ms.Nyla

    I thought I was first. I really need to wear my contacts.

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  8. 8.
    JANEE

    Ummmm…. is it LL COOL J? I don’t know, because his wife look like she’ll CHOKE a BATCH up if you get to close to LL though!

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  9. I’m confused…I thought of a rapper, but is rap hip hop though?

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  10. 11.
    Jasmine

    This blind item is to vague. It could be Fat Joe, , Nas, DMX, Ja Rule, Irv Gotti, LL Cool J, etc (i.e. any married hip-hop male artist that is male and still flirts with the ladies).

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  11. 12.
    flatbush

    I think ICE-T because his wife looks freaky and dumb as hell

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  12. 13.
    Nickey

    i really think this is dmx. I remember reading an interview they did with sister 2 sister. and he said he said he has other kids outside his marriage. and his wife says she knows he has cheated.

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  13. 14.
    Shay

    I think its will smith

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  14. 15.
    Mz.B

    yea i think its DMX too
    he always cheatin
    and his wife look like she aint got a problem with it

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  15. 16.
    I get it from my mama

    DMX!!!!
    NEXT

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  16. 17.
    fattygirlnyc

    I think it’s Ja but Snoop wife acts like she is kind of slow too but the first thought that came to mind was KIM PORTER because you know in her words some relationships don’t count they fuck together long enough to be married

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  17. 18.
    2JCURIOUS

    This sh*t is outrageous! She better hope that he’s wearing protection when he’s sleeping around. HE CAN BRING HOME ANYTHING BACK TO HER!

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  18. 19.
    Nickey

    but this sounds like polow da dons kind of girl!!

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  19. 20.
    Rihanna_so_Fugly

    Does ICE T have children with her?? it says the woman said keep the famly together .ive heard someone who was interviewed say this but it was the wife of an athlete.

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  20. 22.
    Sexy

    im mean whats the big deal..if she accepts it then why should we have an opinion…and i dont see anything wrong with that as long as that person can handle it. but you got women out there the same way. but hay…we live in America, and Americas want to be married to one person but the as individualizes we have “options” lol. Thats why u make the rules first.

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  21. 23.
    Naw Son

    Sounds like 90 percent of entertainer wives…Any Star Wife will do for this one

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  22. 24.
    thehustle

    It’s snoop’s wife. no doubt. If you check out his sex tape he even says those exact words. He been sayin that for years. His wife did that show on vh1 about hip wives and said no matter what keep your house together.

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  23. 25.
    tina

    It’s Shante….Snoops wife….she said something to that effect on that E! special hip hop wives…. and listen to that song by Mike Jones (My six-four) the remix with Snoop and other Snoop songs and you will always here him say blah…blah….blah, or something hoeish….and back it up with saying “I love my wife.”

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  24. 26.
    megan

    rachel roy and dame dash…. rachel frew up in a 7 day methodist strict family….

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  25. 27.
    MrsDurham6

    It’s the Big Dog himself (Snoop Doggy Dog)… I saw his wife on a MTV special about How the wife(s) of rappers handle groupies and video hoes! But hey it’s not me if she loves it, then I like.

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  26. 28.
    Buy Kanye's album so 50 cent can shut the fuck up

    this is Ja Rule’s wife…..or it could be DMX’s wife

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  27. 29.
    Buy Kanye's album so 50 cent can shut the fuck up

    now I’m going to with DMX’S wife for 500, Alex. I looked at pictures of both women…and Ja Rule’s wife looks like she don’t put up with that shit. DMX’s wife always got a dumb ass look on her face. She needs to wake up

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  28. 30.
    CoffeeBrown

    MC Hammer

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  29. 31.
    Buy Kanye's album so 50 cent can shut the fuck up

    MC Hammer is POP HOP/Church Hop not Hip hop….lol…. and…mc hammer is not a woman, last time i checked.

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  30. it cant be aisha, she dont put up with that bullshit she’ll kill ja.

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  31. plus ja dont have outside kids.

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  32. 35.
    AJBoogie

    It’s Beyonce!!!!

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  33. I think it’s Snoop’s Wife. She young and dumb. I guess it’s hard for some women to give up the posh life, so they put down their self respect and put up with extra outside women, kids, diseases, embarrasment, whatever.

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  34. 37.
    southernmello

    I was finna say Snoop, but do Snoop have kids outside the marriage…….so I’m going to say DMX

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  35. 38.
    davis

    Ice T, please! Ice melted long ago. He can’t even get at Coco let alone a bunch of other women.
    http://youtube.com/watch?v=3GVTGNcGNeY

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  36. 39.
    Kiyaz

    This may sound stupid, but I agree with her. I would have the same relationship, if I was married to a star. Most famous men cheat and like she said they are going to. Once you get notice that your husband is constantly cheating on you the marriage is no longer about love, at least mines wouldn’t be. It would be about friendship and money. I would be there as a friend and an employee. It’s like being hired to appear as the happy family and accepting wife.
    SORRY IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT!!!!

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  37. 40.
    Amber

    This might be DMX’s wife, I think I remember her saying this in an interview, and DMX does have outside kids. Or it could be Snoop’s wife. But it’s gotta be between them two.

    And I don’t give a damn how famous a man or woman is, CHEATING CAN NEVER EVER BE JUSTIFIED, PERIOD. Men don’t have “different needs” than women, they just don’t know how to keep it in their pants because of what they were taught. It’s a generational thing that gets passed down more and more, and we start believing that crap. It’s very possible for a man to be content with one woman, he just needs to get to that level of maturity in his life. Sadly, a lot of men haven’t gotten there yet.

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  38. 41.
    i-DRIVE

    DMX
    DMX
    DMX

    he claims that he was raped by the women he had a child with not so long ago

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  39. 42.
    TGS

    This is an example of a sorry ass woman AND man. Why stay married if he wants to hoe around?? Then her dumb ass just accepts..Why??? Makes no damn sense to me…

    Oh I get it. Sacrifice your dignity and self respect for the money. Smh.

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  40. 43.
    karma

    Has to be Shaunte Brotis aka. Snoop’s Wife! She’s just that dumb. But then again, Snoop DID leave his wife at some point only to beg her to take him back. Oh yeah I got it! Its Ice T’s wife CoCo!!!!!

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    ms. fatt

    This is DEFINETLY WILL SMITH!!!!!

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  42. 45.

    Does Myra get paid to do this shit?

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  43. 46.
    Novill

    will smith for sure.

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  44. 47.
    Miss Vickie

    I saw this and immediately thought Snoops wife. This is my reason why: on “E” True Hollywood Story; I’m a Hip Hop Star’s Wife (or whatever) she said, and I quote “I tell the groupies like this: He’s mine, you may have had him once, but I got him all the time.” So with that said I’m going to have to say Snoops wife. PLUS she acted like groupies and hip hop go together like syrup and waffles so………………

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  45. 48.
    sxcighanamamii

    rather its Ja Rule;s wife or DMX’s wife. they were the first 2 to
    pop in my head, i remember when Superhead came out
    with that dumb ass book, Ja Rule’s wife said she’s gonna stand by her
    man no matter what because they were high school sweethearts and
    all that Garbage. I think i remember DMX’s wife in that crazy show sayin nonsense
    like that too. ridiculous. Divorce & alimony. thats all i got to say. dont allow yourself to be walked all over.

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  46. 49.
    CoffeeBrown

    Ja Rule DOES have kids. I meant mc hammers wife, but whatever.

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  47. 50.
    gaydar

    snoop

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  48. 51.
    yes

    13.Nickey
    Wednesday, August 29, 2007
    i really think this is dmx. I remember reading an interview they did with sister 2 sister. and he said he said he has other kids outside his marriage. and his wife says she knows he has cheated.

    yep and her family was real religious, so thats probably where she gets that men will be men type of thinking and u spose to stick with him for the sake of the family

    i dont think its snoop, they said HE said he will never leave his wife, not SHE and they did breakup for a second, rap and groupies do go hand in hand, whether or not u participate is another story

    i’ll be damned if i’m namin some other bitch kids she got with my damn husband

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  49. 52.
    Anon

    This woman must have low self esteem to think that way. I wonder what advice she would give to her daughters if she has one.

    “No matter how many Aids or STDs he has sweetie stand by your man. Show him how to be safe and how to properly love a woman (Karine Stefans aka Superhead). If he raised his hands on you it’s cuz you weren’t submissive to him (Polow Da Don and Mr. Bunnyam). Ignore what your man does cuz men have different needs then women (Snoop Dogg). Man needs several different women to feel complete (Akon Polygamy). Keep your family together (Sanaa Lathan, Denzel and wifey). A woman must be involve in the birthing process of a child even if it is not yours. Love them like they were your own no matter how much he stray outside of your marriage (DMX’s ride or die chick). His buddies will also grow to love you sweetie if you let your man have his cake and eat it too. They will be envious of him when he says I WILL NEVER LEAVE MY WIFE (Ice T’s plastic barbie for a wife)!”

    Ladies I don’t know about yall but I’m truly scared for my future. Is this what women (in general) do to reduce themselves like slaves to keep a man happy? I’m confused is this what LOVE is? In the end when a woman dies would she not want to die knowing that there is man out there who gave a good god damn worth as to what made you happy as a strong, loving, fierce, beautiful independent woman? Is there no MAN with balls and values in this society anymore that a woman would let a man walk all over you and say YOU ARE WEAK?

    In my opinion I’LL BE DAMNED IF DIE IN THIS WORLD WITHOUT KNOWING MY SELF WORTH AS A WOMAN!!!

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  50. 53.
    Hete me If you want I don't care

    No. 39 be for real! You think it’s okay

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  51. 54.
    Hate me If you want I don't care

    No. 39 be for real! You think it’s okay

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  52. 55.
    RAE

    I AGREE with #44. First person that came to my head was WILL MOTHA EFFN SMITH!!! Jada just seems like the type to be critiquing sex tapes…I’m sorry!

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  53. 56.
    TAISH4U

    Don’t know who it is but I do know that the female has low self esteem and is probably scared to be alone.. Hay I guess it is what it is beter them than me!

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  54. 57.
    TAISH4U

    *better

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  55. 58.
    DYoung

    It sounds like R.Kelly because I remember he had a song on “Chocolate Factory” saying he would never leave.

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  56. 59.
    Sizzla

    T.i. and Tiny (sort of married by common law)

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  57. 60.
    LikeThatYall

    It could be anyone. Whoever it is needs their ass beat for treating their wife like that. Sad the wife is living that kind of life.

    It’s not Polow Da Don, cuz he’s not married, but if he was married, I could imagine him doing just that–with his whole pathetic sexist beliefs.

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