GAWWWDDAMMM EDDIE FUCCED UP…

mel sure got her body back in a hurry…that’s a gud look

Wow Mel b looks gud 4 her age

awwww dey look like dey havin a nice tyme

cute!

mel b, u’d beta drop dat fag!!!

I am glad for her… and her man sure does look good.

Mel B iz lookin so fab!!! Eddie must feel stupid as a motha fucka!!! ha ha ha. Her n her boo looks so pretty together. Home girl iz on top of the world dese dayz

she looks good !

Well kudos to Mel B….they make a good looking couple.

Pay your child support Eddie!

she was sexy until I saw that “cancer stick” - urgh

Mel B and Eddie both move hella fast how they both engaged already Damn.

Mel B has a nige figure. I wish her luck with her new man.

nice**

OOOooh. Mel is a brickhouse. She looks great. I still think she is kind of shady though. Somethings not quite right about her.

WTF is going on all with these people jumping into marriages after these short courtships.First Eddie Murphy ,now her! What are they doing competing on wh can make it to the alter first?lol Marriage is a great thing, when you go into correctly,but its never good to jump into something so fast!

I sure am glad Mel B upgraded… cuz Eddie and those nasty yellow baby teeth..lol

mel b is really pretty… i wish that she didn’t smoke.

also, is it just me really glad that as a celebrity she is demanding child support from Murphy. I get so irked when successful women go “no, I don’t need support… i can take care of my child by myself.” she’s definitely sending the right message.

damnnnnn mel b look kinda thick go head girl, brits can do it too!

lol @ jumpin into marriages afta gettin out of one. i dont undastand eitha prolly neva will.

yea she’s a pretty woman

Damn, I really care about my baby Angel. Look at how much trouble I went through just to bring her to the United States. Look at how much I cherish my baby. I even set up a meeting between my baby and her future step brothers and sisters at the most popular spot. See, Eddie, you are no good. You are so lame. How can you deny our baby? You know dam well, that even if we were dating for 2 months, we agreed to have a baby and we agreed we were going to get married. I got my tubes untied Eddie, because I wanted a baby by a rich black man. See, Eddie, all of this ass could have been yours.

Now, I am going to give it to Belafonte. Eddie, eat your heart out. I will make you pay for everything you put me through. Oh I forgot, you did pay. No, I want you to pay some more. I am going to humiliate you through the media. I am going to keep you away from your daughter and make you seem like the jerk that you are. You see Eddie; hell has no fury like a woman scorn.

By, the way…where is my baby Angel? Damn, I left her in the care of a complete stranger. Damn, I still love you angel. I am the greatest mother in the world. Wow…I am a strong black woman. I will not take shit from any man.

Damn she looks good and her body looking right for just having a baby
mad props mel

Dang!!! I just saw the rest of the photos…Goodas fi dem!!

lol @ #15

Damn…Mel B look good..not everybody can lose their baby fat that fast….

Eddie….probably cry himself to sleep at night

DAMN she got a great figure for a woman with 2 kids!

Damnn!! she looks real good fo a person that had a baby

lol@ 19 you are pathetic ! She look great . She needs to stop hopping from bed to bed also its not a good look . Its not cool to get married after a few months of dating Mel ..Tighten up !

Oh by the way Eddie….Belafonte got a bigger weewee than you. He is much better in bed. Although he is not as rich as you, your child support check will be plenty and more than enough. Don’t I look fly Eddie. Look how thick I am. I even got the black women sweating my ass. See, Eddie, Tracy got nothing on me. I am over you. I hope you beg at my feet just to see you baby girl. I am going to make you beg. Oh by the way Eddie, I got your phone calls, but I didn’t feel like returning your call. I heard that you wanted to set up a meeting. Hmmm…well, I am sort of busy. Can’t you see I am in the pool getting a tan. You just might have to wait, until I get back from my vacation, and then we can probably talk Eddie.

MEL B SURE IS FABULOUS IN HER POSTPARTUM PERIOD!!

Dayum! Mel B sure moves fast.

I am going to write a book. This book is going to show black women how to marry a rich man and hit’em up for big money. It’s hard out here for a black girl. We need all the money we can. Girl, let me tell you how it’s done.

You hang out at all the rich spot where them ballers and millionaires hang out. The night before, you go get you hair done, get a facial, manicure and pedicure. You go the finest boutique and buy the flyest outfit. Make sure you don’t throw away the receipt…you might have to return it back.

Now that you looking your best, you go to the spot where these millionaires hang out and wait. Once you spot a rich black man, smile at his ass and even buy him a drink. Girl, you got to make the first move, these women are sharks at these spots. Once he sees you, move to his table. Start talking. Make sure you laugh at his entire jokes. Just listen, and nod your head, pretend you are deeply interested in what he has to say. Girl, you have to play the part. If he is looking for a wife, make sure you play that part. If he is looking for a slut, make sure you play that part.

Anyways, once you’ve hit it off, get that number and ask him to call you at a certain date. On the day of this date, continue to impress him. Show him your good side and make sure he knows you are down for him. Girl, after 2 weeks of dating him, give him a piece of that ass. Make sure, if he plans on using a condom, tell him you are on birth control, or tell him you are allergic to the condom. Girl, MAKE SURE HE DOESN’T PULL OUT. In fact, I suggest you ride him. Ridding him will give you more control. DO NOT…I REPEAT, DO NOT LET HIM PULL OUT. And girl, just pray…pray that his semen fertilized your eggs. Girl, it’s a 50 / 50 chance, but it’s better than playing the lottery.

Once you find out you pregnant, make sure the world knows he is the baby father. That way he will have to pay just to keep your mouth shut.

WHERE THE HELL IS THE STRETCH MARKS ???? TELL ME YOUR SECRET, MEL !!!

Man it must be nice to be able to afford a Plastic Surgeon ~

Why do I get the feeling poster # 29 is a bitter black man . Its will be alright go get some help !

EWWWW…me a black man? Didn’t i tell you how much i hate black men. All black men are sperm donors and a paycheck. Yuck…i hate black men.

I am women, here me roar!!!!!!!! the queen has left the building…goodnight.

UR WEIRD @ 33!!!!!!!!

Lol Tammy I was thinkin the same thing. #29 must of got played and his ass is bitter.

mel b looks hot! and her new boo sholl do look better than NORBIT!!!!!

awww. They’re cute together. Mel B looks good!

I can’t wait for the spice girl reunion tour! =D

MEL B IS LOOKING HEL-LA FINE FOR A MAMA OF 2. HER MAN IS YUMMY. FROM THE LOOKS OF THE LAST PIC I SEE HE IS PACKING TOO .WHOI……
MEL DEFINITLY STEPPED HER GAME UP!

She looks good after having a baby!! Go Mel!!

I hate it when people say stuff like she looks great for having 2 kids, like she’s suppose to gain 200 lbs and not care about how she looks anymore. Anywho, she looks great, Eddie is an idiot, and her man is fine.

Why everybody keep saying Eddie messed up??? He had her..and now hes done with her and hes moved on…yeah her body is serious and everything, but ya’ll dont know her, she might be crazy as hell….Eddie Hold ya Head!!!..Hey, ..”HALF!!!”..LOOLLLOOLLOLLOOLL

dang… her body is sick (no homo)

I want a boyfriend now!

she sure has moved on!

Mel B looks hot her body is fab.

DAMN Mel I Aint Mad LOL

Yeah, she is looking good. Didn’t she learn anything from messing with Eddie, stop moving sooo quick with these dudes. She’s only been with him for a couple of months and she’s already talking marriage? She must be a JLo, can’t be without a man. Good luck, Mel.

some of yall talkin about mel b like she wasnt an international superstar. she may not have made the papers everyday over here in the US, but the UK was still keepin tabs on her.

yea, 19 sounds like one of those weak niggas in the earlier posts about mel b & eddie. if that’s what black women are to you, sad. it sounds like you got some personal issues with your mother, ex-gf, whatever so deal with that and good luck to you.

#14, i agree with ya. and what’s up with everyone being knocked up 2 seconds into the relationship? nicole richie, mel, damn. i guess it’s another one of those hollywood things. babies must be the new accessory..

She’s looks good, Celebrities work very hard for their bodies..well most of them. My son is 13 months and I still have “baby” fat lol..I’m not even gonna front i was squinting my eyes to see if she had stretch marks on her stomach..lmao. She needs to slow down in the relationship area though, she has 2 daughters that are gonna be learning this type of behavior from her!

Damn, I am a queen; I can ever do no wrong. I hate these bitter ass black men on here complaining that black woman should be held responsible for their actions. What kind of bitch ass nigga does that? Damn, we all know that women can’t do any wrong. It is all Eddie’s fault. When will these niggas realize that? They keep bitching and complaining like a woman. Damn, only women are allowed to voice their opinions. You black men should just sit your ass down and listen. Stop whining. We are never wrong and will never be wrong. It was all EDDIES FAULT! Melb is an angel and a queen. Kneel down to Melb. Again, black women are never wrong. I hate these trifffling bitch ass niggas. They about to get my weave all out of place!

Damn…isn’t about time for my child support check? Shit, I got 3 more weeks. Let me call LouLou see if he can lend me 20 dollars. Lawd, my babies need diapers.
Why am i on the internet…i got lil’ jojo, lil’ momo and lil soso to feed. Damn, where is loulou with my 20 dollars.

Dude finer that a MF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Man F*** Eddie he fine ass hell. What happened was Eddie caught that Azz cheating with him, and was like f*** her. Now she mad.

F*ck Mel B!!!! Gold digger. Stop siding with her. She was looking for a payday and got it. No different with any other person, man or woman, that looks for a financial gain by screwing with someone’s emotions or having a kid for a monthly cut!

she looks great to have just had a baby.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=3GVTGNcGNeY

WOW @ Mel’s body…she’s gorgeous.

Damn, don’t you see how fine my new K-fraud is? Girl, this man is mix with nice hazel eyes. Damn, what did I see in that coon name Eddie? Eddie is so dark, with small bitty teeth. I couldn’t stand to be with him. Damn, but I certainly did upgrade in the looks department. But, that’s my boy toy. Shoot, I like’em young and active. I am trying to get married real quickly before Eddie does…so I can upstage him. Girl, I just love the camera. I missed being Spice Girls. Don’t I look good? I hope the camera gets my best feature. Lawd, I paid a fortune in liposuction and breast implants. That child support check sure will come in handy. I need a botox, a but lift and a thigh reduction soon. But, I look damn good for my age. Eddie Murphy, eat your heart out…bitch!!!!!!!!!

the queen has spoken…bye. Stay strong black women. And never let any black men tell you that you are wrong. We are never wrong and never should be made to be responsible. We are Queen. The black man should kneel before us. We must unite and defeat our enemy…the black man. They hate all black women.

goodnight.

Get outta here. You mean she’s getting married? I had no idea that she was the type to get attached overly quick and possibly be delusional. Based on the charade with Eddie Murphy, she struck me as the type of woman that would take her time and not rush into things. I’m still flabbergasted, damn. I’m not that familiar with her but I thought she was the perfect mother based on the media coverage, at the very least an upstanding woman who had no business with that piece of garbage Eddie Murphy. I’d really be shocked if she announces another planned pregnancy in the next month or so…..

Lmao @ “Poor Victimize Black Woman”……brother you crazy

what the hell? Her body is……

hush!!!!!!!!! judah

you are speaking blashemy. Do you know it is a sin to accuse the black woman of any wrong? Some of these women will lynch you. How dare you! There is a large population of black women victims on this site. But, trutfully, i have met a handful of strong, responsible black women as well. But, i sense that these women are in the minority on here. But, Judah, don’t you dare accuse the black woman of anything. ok…

i have to go…goodnight…but to my real strong sistas, i do respect and love you. I am just tired of these poor victimize black women.

#53

I agreed with you until you made that ignored comments about Eddie Murphy being “so dark.” So what are trying to say? Her current fiance is much better look than Eddie because he has light skinned with hazel eyes? It really pisses me off when I hear black people discriminate against their own race because of their complexion.

Oops, I meant ignorant.

I KNOW THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS POST BUT
THIS IS A JOKE THAT SOMEONE POSTED ON ANOTHER SITE AND THEN THEY MADE THE COMMENT OF “THIS IS A TYPICAL BLACK WOMAN’S STORY” SMH

A woman walks into the downtown welfare office, trailed by 15 kids.

“WOW,” the social worker exclaims, “are they all yours?”

“Yep they are all mine,” the flustered momma sighs, having heard that
question a thousand times before.

She says, “Sit down Leroy.”

All the children rush to find seats.

“Well,” says the social worker, “then you must be here to sign up. I’ll
need all your children’s names.”

‘This one’s my oldest; he is Leroy” “OK, and who’s next?” “Well, this
one, he is Leroy, also.” The social worker raises an eyebrow but
continues.

One by one, through the oldest four, all boys, all named Leroy. Then
she is introduced to the eldest girl, named Leighroy!

“All right,” says the caseworker. “I’m seeing a pattern here. Are they
ALL named Leroy?”

Their momma replied, “Well, yes-it makes it easier. When it’s time to
get them out of bed and ready for school, I yell, ‘Leroy!’ An’ when it’s
time for dinner, I just yell ‘Leroy!’ an they all comes a runnin. An’ if
I need to stop the kid who’s running into the street, I just yell Leroy’
and all of them stop. It’s the smartest idea I ever had, namin’ them all
Leroy.”

The social worker thinks this over for a bit, then wrinkles her forehead
and says tentatively, “But what if you just want ONE kid to come, and
not the whole bunch?”

“Then I call them by their last names”

PEOPLE WE GOT TO DO BETTER….

#29, is funny as hell. I bet a lot of women a writing that iishh down.

Wow,Mel body is straight fire. Sexy, especially with the heels on.

However, Eddie doesn’t give a f@ck about her. He already, hit it and moved on.

Mel, if you think this is getting Eddie mad…you haven’t learnt a thing about a man.

Mel is triffling as hell….first, she gets knocked up by a man she hardly knows, gets mad because he doesn’t marry her, but she’s the victim?? Come on now..she needs to go home and get her mind right, not marry a man who doesn’t know her for what she really is..I bet Harry Belafonte is mad as hell because his son is making a big mistake.

@60 that was funny.
dayuum but it is a damn shame to see how women and men carry themselves these days. just making children for no good reason. what happend to the days when children were conceive by a fiery passion by both parents?
ppl we really got to do better!

For some reason i think that eddie did tell her he wanted a baby with her. I mean as someone stated before he is not a high school teenager! Give me a break the man has 5, count em 5 kids!!! and newly divorced. So it leads me to believe that he was dealing with her on some rebound type time, all depressed and snit. So she was there to hold his hand, talk, have fun with (you know the type of situation) and one night under clouded judgement (drunk) talked about having a baby. But i have news for you Mel B- a drunk man who says i wants you to have his baby cuz he’s too lazy to pull out cuz it feels extra good….. does not add up to PLANNING TO HAVE A BABY!!! When he woke up and she told him what happened the night prior, he was probably hoping and praying that she wasn’t pregnant. Probably didnt have the heart to tell her that he had a lapse of good judgement and that she was not the woman that he was really checking for; at least not for a long term relationship. So he got on my bad side when he went on tv and said he didn’t know who the father of the baby was. Dumb Azz

@54 Judah - You are so right. She needs to slow her roll. She’s already done enough damage to herself and those children.

She looks incredible to have just had a baby.

Oh, and Mel B has money so i dont think she is as pressed as some of us would like to believe. I mean why now? I am pretty sure with a body like that and her superstarism (spice girls) she’s had plenty of ppl checkin on it

mel is naturally beautiful…i just hope shes not REALLY getting married THAT soon…but her boytoy is kinda hot

that man is delicious

i want to suck his toes and then milk his peepee.

I agree @ # 9

I see she wants baby number 3.

By teh way, that guy is a movie producer, not music producer. He produced the movie Thank You For Smoking. It’s a powerful movie, you should check it out.

all i got to say to this dude thats fucking mel b………..wrap that shit up before she take ur ass to the cleaners too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LMAO @ “Poor Victimize Black woman”

LMAO @ # 60

It’s amazing that the females that are sweating this confused-ass, psychotic, random baby shitting mess are the same ones that don’t get #29’s sarcasm.

As a dude, I think she needs to put her clothes back on… Eddie’s current jumpoff makes her look like a pirate.

she is fab i love her way dressin and she looks so great after the baby. anybody els would have worn flats she wore heels

Awww, poor wittle Angel!! She got some really sad parents. A father who showed the world he didn’t want her and an imature mother whose now only hell bent on trying to ‘upstage’ daddy. I trully hope Mel comes to her senses. Eddie has said he’ll pay.Let it go.

Y’all are some bitter ass folks though. Very anti-black woman huh? Very few men here acknowledged eddie’s grave error— the sole instigator of this entire media circus, all y’all wanted and waited and hoped for was for Mel’s own mistakes to shine thru…well..my my christmas came early..

lmao@ lala milk his peepeee wtf?

Damn she looks good. Eddie was a fool dude caused his own problems by calling her a slut on TV.
She doesn’t really need his money but take it, man’s an arse!

Mel does look in good shape, but she better be careful jumping in this new relationship so soon, after the Eddie mess.

MEL HAS A NICE FIGURE..HER BOO IS NOT CUTE..TO PLAIN LOOKING & CREAMY….

Wow @ Mel B’s body after just poppin out a kid…….

Mel looks good. Her man is handsome. I’m sorry, but he’s an improvement to Eddie Murphy.

Everyone is saying good for Mel B… But not thinking she just had a baby a couple of months ago.. and now talking about marriage with another man… I would assume they are sexually involved and her older daughter is watching these men come in and out her mothers life she needs to set an example for her girls…. she should know out of all people jumping in a relationship so quick and making a decisions like a “Baby” and “Marriage” in just a couple of months of dating is not being responsible.. I wish her all the luck but she needs to take some responsibility in this as well…

LMAOOO@ SOME OF DEZE COMMENTS, BUT MEL B DOES LOOK GOOD, HER BODY IS BANANAS! I JUST HOPE THIS REALATIONSHIP WORKS! IT IS NOT GOOD TO BE SEEN GOING FROM MAN TO MAN IN SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME EVEN IF YOU ARE SINGLE…….

If I ever have a youngun, I hope I look that good after having it! Her body is ridiculous!

Mel B looks good for her age. And her boyfriend is kind of cute.. Good for her and Eddie should eat his heart out! haha

@74 SETIAN:

Pray do tell what Eddie’s grave error is. The man made a clear, logical, and mature statement. He said he didn’t know who the father was. No more, no less. He did not volunteer this information; the question was asked because the wanton groupie took it upon herself to launch a PR campaign. He submitted to a paternity test, and is doing his part to take care of the kid. Again, if you’re gonna call Eddie out, say precisely what he did wrong.

victimize black woman and dats (??not sure if it you??) you stayed in character for the most part until you told Judah to “hush”, I don’t think I’ve ever heard a man say “hush”.

Anyways, I think think Mel B is shady, I don’t see her as a martyr for all single mothers or for all mothers. If it was me, I would not make my business known to the world, I would take his ass to court and get what I need to get for the baby. She makes enough or has enough money that she doesn’t need his money, but if he played her like she said then I would take him to court and make sure that he supports the baby like he should. Don’t blast him at every chance you get, don’t you want to look back and be like “yeah, I handled that the right way and protected my baby”. Baby Angel, does not need to read all that crap about how she was planned but her daddy didn’t want her, her daddy denied her, her mom and dad were only together for a couple of months, etc. Even if it was true, some things your child just doesn’t need to know.

so fierce with them heels on in that bathing suit!

they make an interesting couple good luck on their wedding.

“LOL” if you cannot see that him implying her being a whore on national TV is not a grave error, then i’ll try to explain.

Eddie and Mel B were dating. It was public knowledge.Whatever Mel did to him, he should have delt with his suspicions in private. He could have thanked that person who asked and asked for privacy. He could have said nothing on it as well (no thank you’s) and stated that he prefered not to talk about his personal life at this time and smiled that cheeky smile of his. Eddie is a pro with the media–he knows how to grin, how to deliver that joke that smoothly changes the subject–he is no naive innocent dude ‘who just wanted to be honest’. He knew what his reply would imply. Mel b having been a huge star in the US and europe, he knew his ‘lil comment’ would start a war. He got it.

Mel B has a daughter old enough to understand gossip…yet eddie, still insinuted phoenix mum was a whore on Tv.Why did he not stop to think how this could impact the child? A child he knew and had come into contact with! How cold is that?

Mel b is British and erbody knows the British press are ruthless. She could have miscarriged (his kid btw!!) due to the stress of them hounding her, let alone the shock of finding out how he went about it.

Now his new baby (mind you this dude knew that there was a decent chance that he could be the daddy) is thrown into this thing as well.

Once that child was born, like all men,Eddie had the right to ask for a paternity test…IN PRIVATE. If mel b had refused, then and only then, could this thing have blown out into the media because she would have forced his hand to take the legal route.

He did this thing out of spite and not once did he bother to think about how anybody else would be impacted by it. So long as he showed ‘that bitch’.

And then, like the upstanding father of the year that y’all see him as, ol eddie was nowhere to be seen to take that test.

I think Mel B was irresposible for agreeing to have his kid outside wedlock. They both were but her being the woman, she’s left with the kid. I think she’s mad as hell he’s moved on and does not seem to understand that nothing she does will bring him back. I think they are both pathetic for these new ‘engagements’ but esp Mel because she should be concentrating on her kid. Plus i don’t even think she’s in love with this dude.

But y’all don’t see anything wrong with what Eddie did. It conflicts with your belief that black women are bad out to get black men.

#88, oh I didn’t know that he was talking about her too in the media. shame on both of them and their pride because in the end they are grown and will move on but the baby will always be affected by this fiasco.

#89 He didn’t talk anymore about her since that question and now his recent comments.

http://www.eonline.com/ne...87-4975-bb46-dc053f830665

Murphy first hinted that he was unsure of the baby’s paternity during a promotional appearance for Dreamgirls on a Dutch TV show.

When asked about Brown and her pregnancy, Murphy told the interviewer not to “jump to conclusions.”

“You’re being presumptuous, because we’re not together anymore, and we don’t know whose child that is until it comes out and has a blood test,” Murphy said.

Before the TV appearance aired, Brown was unaware either that her relationship had ended, or that Murphy was questioning his role in her pregnancy, a source close to her told People magazine.

@setian…

Thank you for those direct quotes. I see people of has a fascination with twisting words. First, they said Eddie denied outright he was the father. But, read his fucking quote. Any logical man would have said the very same thing. He has been out of a relationship. Mel claims she is pregnant. How is he to know that MelB hasn’t shack up with some other dude after the break up? How is he to know that he is the real father? Eddie did the most logical thing. And he appeared very diplomatic in his response. Again, I see that many of you are looking for ways to vindicated Mel B’s action.

By the way, I see another pic of MelB out partying. Isn’t Mel’s baby 3 months old? Do women normally leave their babies in the care of someone else at 3 months old?

@ noeatingheretonight

victimize black woman and dats (??not sure if it you??) you stayed in character for the most part until you told Judah to “hush”, I don’t think I’ve ever heard a man say “hush”.

I am assuming since you have never heard a man say hush, you are saying that “hush” is a woman’s dialect. Again, so I am guessing, you are either calling me a woman or gay.
Now, I know you black women has a sick twisted fascination in trying to emasculate black men. Perhaps that is why many of you hate the appearance of a strong black man. But, listen…if you haven’t learn anything about me, learn this…You would have a better chance eating pussy or turning gay, before I even consider thinking about sleeping with another dude. And next time you even hint at these assertions…I will break your fucking spirit. Again, you sound like a poor victimize black woman.

Did some black dude you were dating slept with your brother? Is that why you fucks quick to call a black man gay. Fuck outta here….

Let’s see, what did Eddie do wrong? He got a women pregnant (unprotected sex), tried to deny the baby in public, said that he will take a DNA test when the baby is born, after the baby was born dodged her calls, she had to get a court order for the DNA test, after he found out the baby was his did not see the baby or have seen or plan to see the baby. Then makes a week ass statement : “He acknowledges paternity of the child Angel, and has paid child support to Ms. Brown as well as covering the expenses of her pregnancy.” Note: “The Child Angel”, WTF is that. He should have said “My child” sounds to me like he does not intend to be a father to HIS child. Like I stated before, the actions to which may have occured that led this child into the world is unimportant, the child is here now, there are always three sides to every story, His, Her’s and the truth. The most important thing now and I think we all can agree on this,” Males and Females” is the treatment of this child now, and I think Eddie’s treatment sucks! A check is not taking care and raising a child.

Those heels with the bathing suit are so extra. She is trying TOOOO hard

@ julies dime…

I agree with you. He got a woman pregnant…absolutely. And for that he is responsible. And he will pay. I have no doubt he will pay and play some role in this baby’s life. But, the role that he plays will ultimately be determined by MelB. If Melb hates Eddie, she will make it damn near impossible for Eddie to play any significant role in this child’s life. That’s my whole point. As a woman, you have custody of the baby. It is in the best interest of the child that you and the father are at peace. So, far, I haven’t heard Eddie blasting Melb in the NEWS.

Eddie has every right to ask for DNA test. And truthfully, this should be law. I don’t see why you women are getting mad. 1 out of every 4 babies born in the US is born from a different man.

You know what; I am beating a dead horse. I see that many of you women are to narrow minded and too scorned to think otherwise. Many of you are trying to fit what may have happen in your life to this situation. And truthfully…one more time, you sound like poor victimize black women…

So, I am done…it was once said, never argue with fools. I will leave you fools to your dinner…have fun…

I got more important things to take care off.

@dats..I wasn’t calling you gay…I said I’m not sure it’s you posting as the victimize woman, but based on what you said I’m guessing it’s you. Anyways, I said that you were doing really good as the woman until you slipped when you told Judah to “hush”, that you fell out of character. If you use the word “hush” then so be it, I just don’t normally hear men say “hush”. But I didn’t call you gay nor did I imply that you were gay, if that’s what you took out of my comment then I apologize. You owe me an apologize too for jumping to conclusion.

also, what’s the deal with the attack? “some black man that I’m sleeping with slept with my brother”—was that necessary? why don’t you ask for clarification first before you come at me like that…that’s how you lost the arguements with the girls in the other post, your 1st post made sense from 1 man’s perspective but instead of explaining yourself when the girls started questioning you, you came back with “slut”. YOU need to learn that you will always come across as the loser once once you start calling people names. Don’t come at me like that you don’t know me.

*apology

FOR ALL YOU HATERS THAT SAID SHE MAD CAUSE EDDIE DON’T WANT HER-EAT CROW LOOKS TO ME THAT SHE HAS MOVED ON

EDDIE JUST PISSED OFF THE WRONG BITCH-SOME WOMEN TAKE GREAT OFFENSE TO A MAN DISRESPECTING HER AND WILL STOP AT NOTHING TO CLEAR HER NAME AND SEEK REVENGE

HEY-I THINK THAT’S MORE OF WHAT’S GOING ON THAN ANYTHING ELSE-HE PLAYED HER AND SHE’S NOT STANDING FOR IT

SAY WHAT YOU WANT BUT I BET A MAN WILL THINK LONG & HARD B4 HE TRIES TO SLEEP WITH MEL B AND WALK AWAY-

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED-EVERY WOMAN IS NOT GOING TO STAND FOR A DUDE TRYING TO PLAY HER FOR A TRICK-WHISPERING SWEET NOTHINGS IN A WOMEN’S EAR AND KNOWING YOU DON’T MEAN THAT SHIT WILL CAUSE YOU A LIFETIME OF STRESS & HEADACHE

FUCK WITH WOMEN YOU ARE ONLY SINCERELY INTERESTED IN DATING PUBLICLY AND FOR THE LONG HAUL

MEN WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET PUSSY AND WHEN HE GETS IT-HE FORGETS ABOUT ALL THOSE LIES HE TOLD TO GET IT AND HAS THE AUDACITY TO GET MAD AT THE WOMEN FOR NOT KNOWING THAT HE WAS LYING ALL THE TIME

SAME REACTION MEN GIVE WHEN A WOMAN STRINGS THEM ALONG AND MAKES THEM THINK THEY ARE GOING TO GET SOME SEX ALL THE WHILE HE WINING AND DINING HER ASS-AND SHE MOVES ON TO THE NEXT MEAL TICKET AND HE GETS MAD CAUSE SHE PLAYED HIM

IT WORKS BOTH WAYS FOLKS-MEN AND WOMEN CAN BE GULLY AND GET PLAYED AND MEN AND WOMEN CAN BOTH BE PLAYERS

IN THIS CASE EDDIE WAS THE PLAYER-PLAIN & SIMPLE AND MEL B JUST SHOWED US SHE’S THE ULTIMATE PLAYER

GOT THE BABY, THE CHECK, AND A NEW MAN-(LACK OF GOOD JUDGEMENT-MAYBE) BUT IT’S DEFINITELY A GOOD LOOK FOR HER AFTER HOW HE TRIED TO PLAY HER-SHE REVERSED THE TABLES ON HIS ASS-HE USED THE MEDIA FIRST MEL B TOOK THE SHIT TO A WHOLE NOTHER LEVEL AND USED THE SAME MEDIA TO MAKE HIM LOOK LIKE AN ASSHOLE

I AINT MAD AT HER THE BEST WAY TO BEAT A PLAYER IS TO BEAT THEM AT THEIR OWN GAME-

All I hear is a bunch of excuses, that’s all I ever hear you come up with. You don’t know what you are talking about. You don’t know anyone on here. I have never made any statement excusing anyone’s behavior, it’s very clear to me that many men on this post has dealt with a bunch of hoe’s and and scanky women, but sorry to tell you that not all black women are like this, maybe if you stop picking the one with the biggest ass and the prettiest and maybe get to know them first you would not have had the experiences that you have had. In all of my posts I have made it very clear that the baby is most important and i have failed to see any Man on here agree with that, all you are wprried about is Eddie’s money and who Melb is fucking and why she is not home taking care of her baby. Stop worrying about the unimportant things and making excuses for Eddie’s behavior and acknowledge the fact that they Both made mistakes and Eddie shouldn’t just throw money at his and thinks that he is in the clear.

@dats_da_truth

I don’t think were are on the same page on this. How do you make plans to have a baby with someone, break up with them without informing them of the breakup, then go on TV singing that you may not be the father (thus obviously insinuating she is a whore who doesn’t know who the baby daddy is), then run from the DNA folks, get hunted down, give it, find out you’re the daddy,refuse to see your child, get engaged and finally find yourself being publicly forced by her lawyer, to acknowledge the kid and pay child support. Is this really the action of a man who has any sort of logic let alone maturity? Diplomatic answer? Like i said, Eddie knows the media, he knows what image is all about seeing how (prior to this) well he controlled his own and he knew his spiteful ‘diplomatic answer’ would cause distress to Mel B.

I do agree with you though that Mel has no business with a new man. She should be at home with the baby.

#95 He is gay, that’s why he is so defensive, and he hates women because he is not one. Just ignore him. I do.

@JULIAISADIME

THANK YOU-IT SEEMS TO ME THAT SOME MEN ONLY HEAR WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR

I DON’T THINK ALL WOMEN ARE SIDING WITH MEL B-SOME OF US QUESTION HER JUDGEMENT AS WELL

BUT WE ALL SEEM TO AGREE ON IS THE FACT THAT EDDIE DOESN’T SEEM LIKE HE WANTS TO BE APART OF THE CHILD’S LIFE AFTER HE WAS PROVEN TO BE THE FATHER AND THAT’S THE ISSUE MANY OF US HAVE WITH EDDIE

SO WHAT HE DOESN’T WANT TO B WITH HER ANYMORE-JUST MAN UP AND SEE YOUR CHILD ANYTHING LESS IS IMMORAL

@SETIAN

EXCELLENT RE-CAP

Well said #99 and I feel what you are saying once again Bailey. Personally, I’m not for the games but if you are going to play them, play to win!

Melanie sure did bounce back after that baby! WOW! I think I would’ ve been rocking flip flops, but hey that’s just me.

Juliesadime..

if noone knows what’s going on here…how am i to believe what you are saying is true. If my statements seems illogical, why is your statements plausible. if i am making excuses for Eddies, what are you doing for MelB.

If i appear scorn from bad women…what does your statements indicate? Go back and read the statements from your womankind. Read them, tell me how is my statement different from theirs.

and @ setian…

whatever your objective was in posting your comments, it served my purposed. Again, you may read this statement and formulate a different opinion from mines. I am ok with that. But, to say that your opinon is better than mines, now you are bullshiting. Because, as so many of you have said on here, we don’t really know what happened between Melb and Eddie. If you really believe that, then why are you so quick to bash this man, based on the statements of one woman.

@noeatingheretonight

If that was your intent…then I will apologize. But all too often, majority of you black women love to denigrate black men by calling him gay. Why is that?

And secondly, this is not a game for me. So, I don’t ever think I am losing points or winning an argument. The point of all this is to instruct the ignorance. And if I am proved to be ignorant in a discussion and someone instructs me, then ultimately I win. I win because I am no longer ignorant on a subject. You see, I don’t judge winning by who agrees with my statements or who shares my same beliefs. I win and we all win when we can admit we were wrong.

I understand that there are both male and female perspectives. But ultimately, I believe in the truth. There’s only one perspective when it comes to the absolute truth. And if someone tells you that my truth may be different from your truth, then it can’t be the absolute truth. To have multiple truths is an oxymoron. There’s only one absolute truth.

@ bailey…

You should read your statements….and julie is a dime…go read baliey’s statement. Now, go ahead and type a response to her statements. Because, if i am being attack for my supposition…why isn’t bailey? Let’s be fair. You women seem to think that blame is a one way street…it all points to men..

Again, i see poor vicimize black women.

i need to go…like i said, don’t type my name and post a bunch of tired rhetoric…you don’t have to post them…i already know what many are going to say…please…spare me the bullshit…you don’t have to convince me…you need to convince yourselves…

i am out..

Mel B is banging lol

MEN WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET PUSSY AND WHEN HE GETS IT-HE FORGETS ABOUT ALL THOSE LIES HE TOLD TO GET IT AND HAS THE AUDACITY TO GET MAD AT THE WOMEN FOR NOT KNOWING THAT HE WAS LYING ALL THE TIME

SAME REACTION MEN GIVE WHEN A WOMAN STRINGS THEM ALONG AND MAKES THEM THINK THEY ARE GOING TO GET SOME SEX ALL THE WHILE HE WINING AND DINING HER ASS-AND SHE MOVES ON TO THE NEXT MEAL TICKET AND HE GETS MAD CAUSE SHE PLAYED HIM

IT WORKS BOTH WAYS FOLKS-MEN AND WOMEN CAN BE GULLY AND GET PLAYED AND MEN AND WOMEN CAN BOTH BE PLAYERS

IN THIS CASE EDDIE WAS THE PLAYER-PLAIN & SIMPLE AND MEL B JUST SHOWED US SHE’S THE ULTIMATE PLAYER
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Preach!

oh Dats, I’m not black but I am woman so it goes to show you that you have a lot to learn about a woman in general. I’m not on MelB-go get him girl side because she’s done a lot of wrong too and so has Eddie, like I said they are grown and they will move on with their lives. THAT BABY THOUGH WILL FOREVER HAVE THIS FIASCO AS A VEIL OVER HER LIFE. Hopefully her parents will eventually grow the fuck up and stop attacking each other either directly or by implying it and be good parents to her.

A bunch of rambling again. The word “rhetoric” must have been on somebody’s Junior High School vocabulary list this summer, they seem to use it quite often when they are trying to make a point but always fail. NEXT!

touche Dat..you are correct if you learn from the comments then you do win in that you can see and understand that’s person’s perspective. You don’t have to agree with it but you can get where they are coming from. And you are right the truth is the truth, we don’t know the truth so we can only give our opinions on the actions what we’ve seen and what we know from the different blogs/media outlets.

@dats_da_truth

My opinion is not better than yours and that was not my intention. All i wanted to state was that many of the males here did/do not seem to think that Eddie did anything wrong yet Mel B has been called all kinds of goldigger, media whore etc without anybody knowing what really happened too.

Many women (including myself) from the get go did not approve of some of Mel’s actions. Frankly, i hope she STOPS REACTING now because i think her ass is very wild and might decide to take this thing even further all because she refuses to accept that he doesn’t want her anymore. He attacked her and shes already made her move, she’s bitch slapped him right back.If she is really over him, now let her show it by moving on and letting go. Both of them. i feel sorry for the kid coz Eddie is still throwing silly antagonistic statements and Mel b still wants more blood. I think she wants him to come back to her or die LMAO!!!

Fact still remains though, despite how y’all wanna slice it, Eddie was wrong as fuck! And he started this shit. Shit that had no other way to go but get vicious.

I see what Eddie is talking about she moves quick this girl wants to be married so baaaaaaddd!! desperate!! engaged but trying to make Eddie look bad but everyone is not looking at the fact that she is engaged again 4 mons later she took pictures kissing a women come on ppl WHO IS WORST?

Who cares! Let’s talk about the care of the baby. They both are acting like teenagers!

I’m sure she’s happy but I think she should’ve took her time and shouldn’t have jumped into another relationship that quick. I mean she wasn’t even completely healed after giving birth and she had another boyfriend already. I know one things for sure though, that nigga sure do have a big ass head on him. Mel holding on to him, but he need to be holding on to her cuz I know he was about to sink with that head on his shoulders, lol!!! Anyway they look cute though

THATS WHY YOU SHOULD BE MARRIED WHEN YOU HAVE A BABY AND YOU WONT HAVE THIS PROBLEMS!! SHE DIDNT USE ANY PROTECTION EITHER I CANT BELIEVE HOW BLIND PPL ARE BEING WHEN IT GOES TO THIS WOMAN. WOMAN ARE WORST THEN MEN JUST LIKE A SNAKE IN THE GRASS AND TRYING TO ACT LIKE WE DONT DO ANYTHING WRONG. I NEVER HAD THAT PROBLEM BECAUSE IM MARRIED TO MY KIDS FATHER.

dats the truth.
Please stop wastin you time. For all of the valid points you make. There are still many here who miss the point. It is not really about who is more at fault for the pregnancy. That is water under the bridge. Whatever the fuck is up it shouldn’t be made publice fodder. Mel is 100% responsible for that. Here in lies the point that she is a bitter Thang that needs a real girlfriend to call her and advise her to sit the hell down somewhere. Where I am from your real friends have your back!

Be careful Justice the haters wil soon come out and tell you that you think you are better than them.

Poor Victimize Black Woman (you forgot the “d” on victimize honey) is very funny to me because as educated as you try to sound, your ignorance still leaks through. I’m still unsure of what point you’re trying to make, but whatever it is, please remember to consider your own faults when passing judgment on others. If you think there’s a problem with the behavior of black women, then next time try and post an intelligent comment that you think will actually help “poor victimized black women”. And also, please remember to do a spelling and grammar check before you send in paragraphs someone else wrote for you:

“you might have to return it back.”

“ridding him gives you more control.”

Everyone has the right to their opinion, but we are not discussing you, so don’t be so holier than thou! I don’t think anyone is 100% at fault, I didn’t even know they were dating until Eddie made that statement on TV so I beg to differ.

@justice

I guess you’ve never heard of divorce sweetie-he’s there today and can be gone tomorrow

another poster stated she was married to her husband as well and when they got a divorce he stopped doing for his kids

humble yourself sweetie and thank god you have a husband and a father for your children the glory is to God and not you!

you never know you may have to eat a slice of humble pie-in no way i’m I wishing that anything bad becomes of your marriage but don’t be so self-righteous

Amen!

@justice

and were you married b4 or after the children were conceived

if so good 4 u-if not that meant the shit could have turned out differently and you could have been a baby mama as well

i’m certain you were a virgin as well b4 you got married and of course b4 your children were conceived as well

if not-you are aware that anytime you have sex and that no protection is 100% that you again could have ended up with a different situation

get married first-yes of course but it doesn’t always work out that way-but it definitely doesn’t make you any better than someone who has children and is not married-

seems to me somebody needs to be taken to the ladies room for a little talk-every one’s situation isn’t the same you can’t assume to know the story-basically judge another person due to them being single-you never know how that came about every real woman wants to be married to their children’s father but sometimes it just doesn’t work out that way

I’M SO OVER THIS CHICK !

DAM IT GO AWAY PLEASE !

SHE HAD THIS DUDE ALL THE WHILE HE TOOK THE TEST FIRST YOU ARE NOT THE DADDY

SO NOW LETS GET EDDIE YOU ARE THE FATHER

GOOD SETUP MEL BUT KARMA IS A B@TCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wonder if her husband was a virgin when they got married and if he has other kids other than the children they have together. Yes, women can do wrong, but in this particular situation, she is the one being a parent to the child, not Eddie.

Mel B “Got stacks like the international house of Pancakes the man makes motion in bed watch it stand straight” Her body makes me want to quote that old’ WU TANG JOINT- Freakin U remix!

mel b wrapped her drama up quick!!!!
1. 1 minute relationship
2. baby in the carriage
3. $$$$$$ 4 child
4. next… new lover surfaces
5. Marriage in the making!

gotta luv her 4 her swag!!!!

AFTER 2 KIDS I DON’T LOOK HALF BAD BUT I’M HATIN ON MEL B…LOOK AT HER 6PK TRY’NA POP OUT ALREADY! U GO GIRL…EDDIES A FOOL!!!

MEL B SHOWING EDDIE WHAT HE MISSED!!! HER “NEW MAN” LOOKS MORE ATTENTIVE TO HER NEEDS………FU@K EDDIE!!! LOL

Eddie Murphy concedes fathering Spice Girl baby August 3, 2007, 6:29 pm PDT

Reuters

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) -

Actor-comedian Eddie Murphy publicly acknowledged on Friday having fathered a child out of wedlock with Spice Girls singer Melanie Brown, who brought a paternity suit against him earlier this week.

A brief statement issued by Murphy’s publicist said the 46-year-old star of “Dreamgirls” and the “Beverly Hills Cop” movies “always has and will continue to honor his responsibilities as a father.”

“Mr. Murphy and Ms. Brown dated very briefly and never made any plans of ANY sort,” the statement said. “He acknowledges paternity of the child Angel, and has paid child support to Ms. Brown as well as covering the expenses of her pregnancy.”

The statement concluded by saying Murphy “views this as a private matter, and as such, will not be making any further comments about it.”

Murphy had never publicly acknowledged paternity before.

Brown filed suit against Murphy in Los Angeles Superior Court on Wednesday, seeking to legally establish his paternity and seeking unspecified child support for the 3-month-old girl.

A DNA test in June confirmed that Murphy is the father of Brown’s baby, Angel Iris Murphy Brown, who was born in April. The couple dated last year and Brown, 32, known as Scary Spice as a member of the British pop phenomenon, listed Murphy as the father on the child’s birth certificate.

Celebrity magazines reported this week that Murphy had become engaged to his girlfriend of 10 months, Tracey Edmonds. Murphy has five children from his first marriage to Nicole Mitchell, which ended in divorce in April 2006.

The Spice Girls announced in June they would be reuniting for a world tour starting in December.

So now, Hopefully Mel B can get on with her life, with her new boyfriend………

Eddie will cut her a check every month for the next 18 years, so hopefully she will feel vindicated…..

Unfortunatly, no one can MAKE Eddie Murphy love his daughter.
Hopefully his feelings will change once he gets over his hatred and Anger of Scary Spice.

* And, don’t fool yourselves.
That’s what it all about.
The reason why it SEEMS like Eddie Murphy is rejecting his daughter is PROBABLY because he pissed @ Scary Spice…

Oh, that explains it. He is such a man for doing so. Praise him.

I think that Mel B needs to slow down. She just had a child a couple of months ago and she’s just coming off of the whole Eddie Murphy fiasco. Now she’s with a new man saying she’s engaged. She’s not setting a good example for her children by being with these different men. If what Melanie is saying is true about eddie not paying child support or seeing his daughter then eddie needs to take full responsibility and be a man because she didn’t make that child on her own. I’m reading a lot of posts and people keep blaming eddie for his actions but what about Melanie’s? She only knew Eddie for a few months then got pregnant by him. That wasn’t very responsible of her.

Like I have said many times before Mel B. was the attractive one in the Mel B. and Eddie Murphy relationship. She should have been the one to deny the relationship, instead his stuck up bi-sexual self tried to play her stupid. Mel B. good luck your new man Mr. Belafonte looks good. I say marry him in a hurry, and you have good genes, she has gotten her body back after child birth. Good Luck, Tracey Edmonds you are stupid, Eddie may be rich, he’s not all that, and what’s worst is that he is a liar.

all of you Johnny come latelys if you have not been here for the entire blog you need to sit your ass down, most agree that they both acted poorly, the problem here is that the majority of the men feel that Eddie did nothing and still is doing nothing wrong (not seeing the baby). That is what most have issue with.

Mel B sure passes through men fast, but she should do her thing just protect urself from STDs. Every time u look up shes with a new man…damn!

Everytime you see a woman in a picture with a man or holding a conversation with a man doesn’t mean they have been intimate. She sure told the truth about Eddie being the father, if she was passing through men fast she would have been wrong about Eddie being the father. In order to find your Mr. half right one must date or get to know different men until she finds the right one, it doesn’t mean you are having sex with all these men. Men date don’t they, but mostly a man sleeps with anyone who will allow him to. Women we are different. I could say the same about Eddie boy he sure does date alot of women trying to cover up his secret being on the down-low. He could have 30 kids it don’t mean nothing. He had those kids and got married to cover up his secret. Mel B. is not old, she is still young and when you ain’t dead yet and you aren’t married or in a serious relationship you will keep trying to find your Mr. Right. Men will keep trying to find Mrs. Right. It is human nature to want to be loved.

Well said #136

LOL@ 134 JULIE - you are crazy..Johnny come latelys. That shit is hilarious and true. Yeah we have all said the same thing from jump that the adults were wrong as hell in this and the baby is the only real victim. The fact that we say that and the hardheaded men (read:woman wannabe Dats) hasn’t understood that yet says a lot. It’s so ridiculous that there is even a question about “emasculating the man” when in essence, when a man does not take care of his child, abandons his family, disrespects women on daily basis, that emasculates more than any mudslinging ever could.

@130 BILL - I agree with this statement. It is all about anger between the two of them. The disrespect on both parts. and it’s ridiculous the pain that this baby will suffer.

Majority of you women are full of shit. I would like for you go to the original Eddie and Melb post. Before I got to this post there were 32 posts from women saying Eddies is an asshole…Eddie is a deabeat…Eddie is ugly….Eddie is gay. I came on and shift the blame. I noticed something about some of you women on blogs. No matter how fucked up your logics are you all stick together. So, the saying is true, birds of a feather flock together.

JuiliesDime…go read statement 133 from your womankind. She has just said point blank she believes Melb over Eddie. I am curious. What makes Melb more credible than Eddie? I can list many things in Melb’s pas that would make her appear psychotic and I am sure you can in Eddie’s past. So, why is this woman quick to jump on MelB’s side? If I had said the same thing, you and your womankind would furiously come in with an uproar, claiming I am bashing women.

See, that’s the problem you want to dish out blame and make denigrating remarks towards a man, but when he reciprocated you get upset. Do some of you black women really believe you are above reproach? Do some of you black women really believe you are above blame? Many of you are saying that both Eddie and MelB are wrong, but you always offer some sidebar comments about Eddie. If Eddie is that ugly or gay, why does it concern this argument? It is statements like these that make me believe many of you women love the victim role.

But, like I said, I am glad to see that not all women think the way you do. I have seen some amazing comments from strong black women, women who will not tolerate excuses, both from people and themselves. To these women I say, you will never fall prey to bullshit.

@ Bill…

If Eddie’s action indicates he is angry at Mel…What does Mel’s action indicates? Eddie hasn’t said a thing in the press until he was being blackballed. But, even then, he just released a statement read by his PR. Do you see Eddie posturing to the media? Do you see Eddie smooching at the beach? Do you see Eddie with an attorney out for blood? Again, it amazes me how people can look at the same picture and see 2 totally different things.

It amazes how some women can continually bash black men…yet, it is completely tolerable. Yet, when a black man stands up to defend himself, he is seen as being wrong.

Again…go read statement 133….what did you get from that statement? And go read the initial post of the MelB and Eddie saga. I want you woman to show me where you were saying both Mel B and Eddie were at fault. 90 % of you women were blaming Eddie. Now you want to change your tunes.

them titties look hard

dats da truth,
i am with you. as a woman I have come to realize that we have to take responsibility and ownership of our contributions to each relationship and thus take ownership of our mistakes and there consequences. Unfortunately I believe many of us black women are so accustom (sp?) to placing the blame on the absent individual that we ignore our contributions to the problem. We can argue on blogs all day. If one keeps there legs closed this wouldn’t happen. I am speaking from experience on that! (HA HA). The reality is black woman are biting the dust everywhere! I challenge Bailey, Julie and everyone on this blog for that matter to go to cdc.gov and look at the statistics regarding std acquisition and African American women. 70% of new infections are of women like us, the rate of HSV 2 infections is highest in our group. We need to check our behaviors at the door and quit making excuses and pointing the finger at folks after the fact. Who the Hell really cares whose fault it is that you have HIV when your walking around with Kaposi’s Sarcoma and looking like the dude from the fly!?? Damn some dick when it means my life or my integrity! We all know what time it is Mel B needs her ass whooped for setting such a poor example. The world already believes that we as black women are loud mouthed angry hoes that jump from man to man have kids and finger point. This is exactly what this chick is giving and there are women standing behind here talking about some “principle” Gurl Stawp! And we’ve got the nerve to hate on beyonce. She’s a black woman makin real moves! Ya’ll can have these di%k and Pu**y games for real!

^ HIV Infections

Now THAT’s a dissertation on nothing.

Author of POOR VICTIMIZED BLACK WOMEN

do you have a life because you’ve been writing a book on this site. Check yourself and your insinuations because white women do the same. They taking black men to the bank too, ie. STRAYHAND. If it wasn’t for black women, there would be no black men for white women to get with in the first place because half of the time your daddy’s dont care nothing about you whether you live or die and black women still choose to have you instead of abort you and raise you even if its alone. Eddie knows how to make a baby and how not to make one he’s has a house full. He put himself out there like that choosing not to use a condom and then turn around and act like he didn’t do nothing.

JULIEISADIME, BEUTIFUL, & Co… do you by any chance have a child whose father you’re not married to? Just wondering.

Not that it’s any of your business, this post is about Eddie and Melb. but if you must know I was married to my son’s father who died three years ago. Now tell me what your point is.

Andrice, You need to go back and read my posts. Never once did I say melb had no fault in this. I was disputing the fact that Eddie did nothing wrong. Everybody’s situation is different, unfortunately some of us must live and learn, all of us did not have the same upbringing so everyone reacts and do things differently. I am going to say this one more time and this is the point I wanted to get across so you can get off of your high horse. It does not matter what happened between those two, the fact of the matter is the baby is here and the baby is HIS, and I feel (in my opinion) last I checked that’s what this post is for. He has been foul ever since! This is the last I am stating on this subject it’s obvious to me that most of the men on this site either don’t take care of their children or gay or been in prison most of their life and for those women who are very few who feel Eddie did nothing wrong are holier than thou or just plain think that they are better than most women because they THINK that they make better choices.

SHE DROPPED THAT BABY FAT FAST! Thats right let that nigga know one monkey don’t stop no show.

But she was soooooooo in love with Eddie…why she ain’t plan to have baby with this guy since he is going to be hubby? Paycheck ain’t fat enough Crazy Spice…hmmmmmmmm

http://www.cnn.com/2007/L...cial.dating.ap/index.html

Very interesting, this is for dats the truth!

Taken From Rhymes with Snitch website
* Don’t get mad at me, cause I didn’t write it…..

“When Scary met Eddie…She was coasting into the gas station on the last fumes of her music money. She wasn’t broke? Not technically, but she’d had to part with a substantial portion of her fortune when she divorced Jimmy Gulzar and she knew her high-income earning days were long past. At the time she met Murphy, no one was even thinking about a Spice Girls reunion tour, so Scary was on the hunt. Early on it was all good. Problem was, the “relationship” was over before it really had a chance to take off. Scary’s positives: her humor, raunchy sex appeal and British accent were overshadowed by an unfortunate truth: she’s as common as dirt: loud, tacky and two steps up from the ghetto. Murphy’s kids didn’t care for her and after she argued with his mother, Murphy decided Scary was done. No explanation necessary. He simply stopped returning her calls. Within days he began to hear rumors that she was pregnant with his baby. Rumors that Murphy simply couldn’t believe because hadn’t Scary assured him she was on birth control pills before the handful of times they’d had sex? So, when a Dutch reporter questioned him about the baby, Eddie snapped. But deep down he knew. He knew that Mel B had played him like a violin, just as Elizabeth Hurley had likewise played billionaire Stephen Bing.

Months later DNA test results revealed the truth: Eddie was the father of Mel B’s baby and she’d made it clear she had played to win. She stepped up her public relations game by talking to anyone who would listen about how Eddie Murphy had done her wrong; she floated the false rumor that she had decided to name her baby girl Daphne “Fortuna” Bay; and had, incredibly, succeeded in having her labor induced—just minutes after midnight—on Eddie Murphy’s birthday. By now no one could doubt Mel’s seriousness about getting paid. While Murphy had never seriously considered the idea of marrying her—let alone fathering her baby—Mel spun their brief relationship into an engagement gone bad. She demeaned him in public statements every opportunity she could and began laying a groundwork of suspicion about Murphy’s “lifestyle,” in addition to alleging that the size of his manhood was insufficient to meet her needs. Enter Mr. not-the-son-of-Harry Belafonte, aka Stephen Stansbury. If it’s true that like attracts like, then Scary and Stephen are made for each other. Both are street-smart, complicated players with very checkered-pasts. For Mel B, it’s a relationship based as much on her wounded pride as anything else. She’d been very publicly dumped by a movie star, and after she proved capable of tricking him into a serious financial obligation, she was branded used and dangerous goods by anyone noteworthy who otherwise might have considered dating her.

Ironically, Mel’s big Eddie payday comes just at the time her music career seems on the upswing. With a concert tour scheduled for the fall, she may once again find herself with a fat bank account. Even considering that, her wealth is still microscopic when compared to her band-mate Posh, or Eddie, for that matter, but Scary’s expanded purse will prove more than adequate to keep Mr. Bela-whomever in the picture, at least for the moment. Remembering how badly she has been burned by California’s community property laws in the past, it will be interesting to see how she conducts her business and personal affairs in the future. As far as Murphy is concerned, it’s a closed chapter. When push came to shove he was able to demand that Scary take-or-leave a (hefty) lump sum support payment to bring the matter to a quick close. He has no intention of building a relationship with baby Angel at this time, since that would mean dealing with her mother. But it’s probably a safe bet that the public has not yet heard the last of this story, at least from the standpoint of Mel B. Her ways of fighting for what she wants are straight from the gutter and those tactics have served her very well”