CL EXCLUSIVE: ASK MAN & WIFE!
Friday, August 24, 2007

Hey guys, I’m not sure if y’all are familiar with “Man & Wife” the video podcasts featuring Fatman Scoop and his wife Shanda. Basically the show features the couple giving candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life.
Sccop & Shanda’s Goals With Man and Wife
We want to be able to share our feelings, thoughts, and personal experiences with our audience. To offer open and candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life. No subject is taboo! We’d like to offer a platform for people to discuss love and sexual experiences in a fun and unabashed way to nurture and build emotional and physical intimacy with their partners. And we hope to learn from you too! [SOURCE]
Well Concrete Loop is bringing you yet another exclusive! Here is the deal: Submit your relationship questions in the comment area and I will select a few of them to ask Scoop & Shanda. They will answer the questions in an interview sometime next week. So make sure they’re good. In the meantime, check out their official site and peep a couple of their earlier podcasts after the cut.








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honeylove86
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
i love their podcast
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BEAUTY Q.T.
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I’ve never heard of them! Might have to submit a questin to see how good their advice really is…
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Lanai
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
LOVE THIS SITE!!!!!! Been a fan since the beginning and i’m really happy that they’re blowing up to do bigger things
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mrmuzik562
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
i dont need no love advice cause i ainr in it… but wouldnt mind.. holla at me ladies!! lol.. haha but nah they are one hell of a couple!!! FAT MAN SCOOP JUMP THE CLAN… TIMBALAND!!! TIMBALAND!! LOL.. THAT MY NIGGA!!
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mrmuzik562
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
damn i sounded ignorant 4 a sec… *aint….*thats.. okay corrected.
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foxxy380
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Relationship advice from these two? This ought to be interesting.
Question: What would she do if she was in Ms. Bynum’s situation?
7.
Shaniqua Rochelle Antoinette Evans
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
When is it okay to fart in front of my boyfriend (no seriously)?
How do I tell my man to stop asking me whether I like it like this or like that and if he should put it in now. How can I get him to just take control of our lovemaking?
What should I do when I find skid marks in his boxers? (I don’t have a problem washing them but I would rather he didn’t)
Where can I learn how to talk dirty to my man? I know you ask each other what we’re wearing but we don’t know what to say from then on.
Would taking part in a thressome improve our relationship and sex life?
Thanx guys. We need more open forums like these.
8.
over it
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I’m glad Angel removes these ignorant comments, because most of these fools don’t know how to read. Submit a question, not a statement or a diss!
My question is:
If my girl initiates a blowjob, why should I HAVE to eat her pussy in return. (pardon my french). I didn’t tell her to give me head, so she shouldn’t expect me to go down on her just because she did.
9.
Beyonce's lacefront wig glue
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@ OVER IT
If I were your girl, I would also stop giving. That is if she would like one in return. You like to receive, but you dont like to give?
10.
Show Me Some Love
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
WHY DONT YOU ANSWER YALL QUESTIONS IN THE SITE
11.
Show Me Some Love
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
ANSWER = *aSK
12.
Fatman Scoop
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
WHY LORD WHY….
This is Fatman Scoop. Since u dont know me, ill introduce my self
im the guy that when u go in a club and hear yelling over a remix of a song, its usually me
did some joints with missy,mariah carey, timbaland,janet jackson,etc
caught 2 grammy awards for that (shameless promotion!)
Decided to do a sex and relationship show with my wife for fun!!!!
MTV saw it, liked it, and signed us….
just do me a favor, go check out the site
www.manandwife.tv (shameless plug)
youll see why…..
Im not a sex expert but i am sexually enthusiastic!!!!!
and i been through a bunch of shit in terms of relationships (done some-seen some)
and i got a lot of common sense and i dont hold my tongue!!!!!!
Suggested Watching List…..
Episodes 39,34,31,29,27(u can laugh at me) 23,22,19 and #2 (our live episode)
tell me what u think…..
scoop@manandwife.tv
13.
Miss Erin
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Question: My ex and I broke up on bad terms, however, he continues to call me until he and I get into a huge argument, then communication stops for awhile, and once again he will call me again. What is a good way to tell him that I do not wish to speak to him anymore since we are continually on a roller coaster ride?
14.
lil mixed one
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
My question is what should i do about my boyfridnd thats always hanging with his homies and out riding and never got time for me, and dont see nothing wrong with it. but claims if i did the same thing he wouldnt mind.
15.
atuck
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Why do guys break up with you when the relationship is going good?
16.
DaiNtii
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Question: Does a TV in the bedroom cause distraction?
17.
Shay43
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
advice on keeping the excitement to a relationship ( not sexual wise) ?
18.
LIHARA
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Is arguing HEALTHY in a relationship & if it is when does it become unhealty
19.
Mrs.Jay From Sin City
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
ANYONE CAN ANWSER THIS FOR ME.
I was talking to this guy he was coming at me with his game but i kept shutting him down, telling him i just wanted to be friends, in order to guard my own feelings, but we kept kicking , hanging out, and making out. Well I guess he got tired of my fronting b/c towards the end of the r/l he stopped calling, and when i called him he would always make promises he wouldnt keep such as ” Im going to call u later” or ” Ima come scoop u up” and he’d never call or show. So id call him. He’d always anwser but he was always distant. The last straw was when he invited me out and then cancelled last minute. My question is if im still feeling him, and want him to come back around whats my best course of action, cause apparently me calling him ain’t doing it. Do you think there is still a chance?
20.
noeatingheretonight
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@14–do the same. he’ll mind. it’ll give me a taste of his own medicine.
My question: Do girls really like anal sex? I know it’s gross to some but you always hear people saying how much they enjoy it in porns and on real sex, but is it really that much fun?
21.
noeatingheretonight
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
*him not me.
22.
sonya
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@19
23.
NISHAWN
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Question: Is once a cheat always a cheat?
Question: Me and my baby daddy have great relationship, but he has cheated with his other baby mama. Do you think the relationship can work when I have already forgiven him and it has been 6 months since the episode?
24.
sonya
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@19, this means you are about to cross over into “JUMPOFF” status. Put on the JC cape, (that stands for Jumpoff Chick), hold on tight, and enjoy the ride.
25.
Miss Erin
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Question: Does age really matter (if two of the parties are both of legal age) when beginning a relationship with someone?
26.
NISHAWN
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
TV IN THE BEDROOM>>I WOULD SAY NO, BECAUSE I ENJOY SEX TAPES WITH OR WITHOUT MY MATE
27.
JANE DOE
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
How did Fatman get Shanda’s fine ass! You know he has game.
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sonya
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@23, You forgive, but you will never get over it. Its gonna come up in every arguement. Then the trust issues will start. Just do it back to him, and call it even.
29.
TAEBO
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I don’t need advice from this fat dude and his wife, who are they?!
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Miss Erin
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Damn I have a lot of questions lol…but anyway…
Question: My former boyfriend and I never had sex with each other, however, he told me that he had sex with other girls when he was in the relationship with me, so I told him that I had sex another guy when I was with him, so would that be described as cheating since we never actually had sex with each other?
31.
heven
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I love this podcast! Watch a couple of episodes and you will too! The episode when Scoop is cleaning Shonda’s sex toys, Chris Brown giving real advice, Scoop taking a bath……….LOL funny, seriously.
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MARY_B
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
OH SHIT! I love their podcasts!!
Anyway, my question involves masturbation. How much is too much, because I think I need some help.
33.
LICIOUS40218
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
i have been dating this man for about 4 years now. he is the best thing that has ever happen to me so far . we kick it like best friends. the days we dont see each other we talk on the phone. we on the adult level on a whole lot of things. he don’t bring me drama and i don’t bring him drama. lately we be talking about moving in with each other. we never lived together before , and it makes me wonder if our relationship will stay the same still be good friends like we were when we wasn’t living together. I really want to make this work with him. could you please tell me what i should do in this type of situation.
34.
BEYONCE'S BAND-AID AFTER THE ORLANDO PERFORMANCE
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@#9
LUV YOUR NAME!!!!
MY MAN IS GAY . HE IS SO FINE! I WANT HIM TO MY SELF, THOUGH. SO CAN I MAKE HIM STRAIGHT OR SHOULD I JUST KEEP TAKIN IT IN THE ASS? I REALLY LOVE HIM!
35.
Lula Pear
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I’m going to ask this, and I hope it won’t be offensive…
How is this going to be a gossip site, I mean REALLY a gossip site, if you have to endorse so many people? Don’t you feel beholden to them? Doesn’t that prevent you from saying/posting negative things? Wouldn’t you start telling half-truths? Or lies of omission? Or is that old adage true: no publicity is bad publicity?
And, I don’t want to ask them anything.
36.
noeatingheretonight
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@34–if you’re being serious…doesnt it hurt?
37.
Angel
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@ 35. No. A lot of celebrities read this site and we still post our opinions. We try to do it in a tasteful manner though unlike other blogs. I don’t care who you are, if some shit goes down we are going to post on it. Just in case you forgot, I pay the bills around these parts so I can endorse, promote and post about anything I want to.
Oh and stay on topic, those questions could have been asked on the F.A.Q. page or in an email.
38.
Lula Pear
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@19
Why was calling you back a promise he couldn’t keep??? Listen, he doesn’t want you. Women like to believe that guys live on another plane, one where their actions are rife with all this subsurface meaning (that subsurface meaning, by the way, is: I know he luvvvvv me!) Well THEY DON’T. They need and feel exactly what you do, IF THEY WANT TO. Would you ignore him? Obviously not. You want him, don’t you??? Well, he doesn’t want you. Case Closed. Anybody who tells you different is either patronizing you or rationalizing because your situation is their own.
39.
Mrs.Jay From Sin City
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Hold up, # 24 whatcha mean jump off, is that what u think hes on, cause Im not for that, i at least want to be platonic friends,
40.
Mrs.Jay From Sin City
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
And by the way 34 WHAT???????? Kill yo self? Aint nooooooooo dude worth that.
41.
beynjaychild
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@30, you’re a whore, and so is he.
42.
MARY_B
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Another question:
I noticed that Omibod sex toy link on the Man and Wife homepage, does that think actually work?
43.
Mrs.Jay From Sin City
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
38 you know waht that shit hurt but if thats what it is thats what it is but i would at least like to be friends, cause i dont want to go down in history as a jump off
44.
beynjaychild
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@34, you’re kidding right! FYI: The dookey chute picks up a lot of particles and germs. Hate to get serious, but you need to read up on the virus thats killing many african american men and women. But I know you’re not serious.
45.
sonya
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@Mrs.Jay From Sin City, I was just pokin fun.
46.
Miss Erin
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@ #41 you don’t know my sexual history well enough for you to call me a whore…
47.
sonya
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@ Mrs.Jay From Sin City, sounds like the chase is over, and thats what excited him. You no longer giving him “the chase”, and some men like a challenge.
48.
beynjaychild
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@46, if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it must be a whore. LOL
49.
halo
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
How can you break it to your girl that she is horrible in bed. I like her personality, but she is not a good lay. Should I try to help her out or let her go?
50.
beynjaychild
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@49, just ask your dad how he broke it down to your mom, it was more than likely the old school safe way.
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noeatingheretonight
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Miss Erin- think about what you were doing when he was chasing you? I would say move on with your life and go on your own dates and make plans. maybe you’ll see a different response from him, he’ll start wondering if you don’t call him as much. If you still get nothing then it’s just tim to move on for good.
Halo- think about how many partners she’s had. I can honestly say I was horrible at the beginning, didn’t know what I was doing and was so shy. I’ve only been with my hubby, he had been with other women. But now I have to say I’m pretty damn awesome. hahhaa. It’s all about wanting to please your partner.
ok-this is interesting I love how candid everyone is.
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NIX
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
lol that was funny 48
sex advice? from these two?
LMAO
can she even find his dyck?
53.
????
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I just met a guy this summer and the pipe game is mad serious but, we kind of lack in the conversation department. Then I met this other guy this summer and conversation is great but the pipe game is wack (penis is kind of small for my taste) but everything else is great. At the end i find my self going back to the good dick (for sex) and the other guy for dates and good conversation. what should I do????
54.
????
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
And no it is not only about the penis size, but sexually he does not please me and atleast for me the sex game has to be on point and I’m not in the mood to show a brother how. help!!!!!!
55.
MELINA
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Dear Man and Wife
I have a question, In relationships Do you believe a man really loves his wife or girlfriend if he cheats? Because I don’t think a man really loves you if he cheats on you.
56.
SEXYLADYRAY
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I LOVE THIS SHOW I HAVE BEEN WATCHING SINCE THE BEGINNING!!
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Mrs.Jay From Sin City
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Ok fin,fine, im going to get over it, but HOW, cause listening to Keyisha Cole Let It Go on repeat is not helping the situation,lol.
58.
Just_Wanna_Know
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
How does a female learn how to be better in bed without screwing every guy she knows?
59.
AIJUSWANNASAY
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
MAYBE I GOTTA CHECK OUT THE SHOW BUT WHY ARE THEY GIVING MARRIAGE ADVICE I DON’T GET IT??? IT SOUNDS VERY RANDOM IN A MONIQUE HOSTING CHARM SCHOOL SORTA WAY…
60.
foxxy380
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
LOL @ #57. Natually, it takes time to truly “get over” someone. When you accept the fact that you deserve better, it gets a lil easier.
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K.
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
35.
Lula Pear
Friday, August 24, 2007
I’m going to ask this, and I hope it won’t be offensive…
How is this going to be a gossip site, I mean REALLY a gossip site, if you have to endorse so many people? Don’t you feel beholden to them? Doesn’t that prevent you from saying/posting negative things? Wouldn’t you start telling half-truths? Or lies of omission? Or is that old adage true: no publicity is bad publicity?
And, I don’t want to ask them anything.
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37.
Angel
Friday, August 24, 2007
@ 35. No. A lot of celebrities read this site and we still post our opinions. We try to do it in a tasteful manner though unlike other blogs. I don’t care who you are, if some shit goes down we are going to post on it. Just in case you forgot, I pay the bills around these parts so I can endorse, promote and post about anything I want to.
Oh and stay on topic, those questions could have been asked on the F.A.Q. page or in an email.
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Not to be offensive either, but if celebrities really cared about this site they would know the hateful bashing that used to go on here, \”tasteful manner\”? You got to be kidding me.
You called Kelly Rowland a \”Ho,\” then turned around and interviewed her.
This is the same GOSSIP site that posted those vague images of Ne-Yo receiving oral sex. Then interviewed him the following year.
And wasn\’t this the same GOSSIP site that hated so much on Rihanna, until her management contacted you, now you post noting but positive news on her end — sometimes frequent.
Ain\’t no shame in your game…This, of course, was all for publicity and money (i.e. hits). This GOSSIP site was built on nothing but negativity, so I think you kind of contradict yourself a little Angel, with some of your statements and claims.
And \”unlike other blogs,\” you don\’t pay their bills either, so I believe they can have an opinion too, correct? Please, no one, patronize me for having an opinion. This is not to be offensive in anyway!
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Justmakingitclear
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
# 61, if you have a problem with what goes on with this website, stop viewing it!! If Angel, Brian and Tiana have talked bad about anyone and turned around and interviewed the person, its the individuals fault for allowing it. You are on here for the same reason as everybody else–to get the scoop. If they weren’t telling it like it is you would have a complaint. If you don’t like it, move on…plain and simple.
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K.
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
62.
Justmakingitclear
Friday, August 24, 2007
# 61, if you have a problem with what goes on with this website, stop viewing it!! If Angel, Brian and Tiana have talked bad about anyone and turned around and interviewed the person, its the individuals fault for allowing it. You are on here for the same reason as everybody else–to get the scoop. If they weren’t telling it like it is you would have a complaint. If you don’t like it, move on…plain and simple.
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@ 62, I never said I had a problem with this site. At times, it can be very informative and entertaining, however, I have a problem with individuals who are are particularly bias on one thing — and does everything half-ass. That\’s the problem, they don\’t, \”tell it like it is\” — that\’s why I\’m complaining! Yes, I come here to indeed, \”get the scoop,\” but I realize that too much of a good thing can be deadly. But I do respect your opinion and I apologize. I did go a little overboard. But if I don\’t stand for something, I\’ll fall for anything. Peace in the middle East.
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dee dee
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
please help-I am unhappily married and I do not enjoy sex with my husband. We broke up at one point and I began an affair with my boss. My husband and I got back together basically for the sake of family. I am still seeing my boss at least once a week. How do I tell my husband it is over between the two of us, ending everything amicably?
65.
Fatman Scoop
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Damn….why is everybody so goddamn angry on here!!!!
it aint that serious folks!!!!!
if you are a celeb, u should be able to give out the heat and take it too….
so if i did some janky ass shit, i would expect concrete loop or any blog to report it
thats what u signed on for being a public figure……
scoop@manandwife.tv
66.
yes
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Basically the show features the couple giving candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life.
you forgot SEX, the main thing they talk about
love the show, its free on itunes too
67.
yes
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
oh and they are raw/funny/crazy and soon to be on mtv
68.
I AM LIGHT SKIN (JUMPS FOR JOY) CAN U PASS THE PAPER BAG TEST? 2007. IF NOT WHEN U SEE ME TELL ME HI FIRST, IF U DON'T I WILL NOT ACKNOWLEDGE U
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
I HAVE A QUESTION, MY AUNT IS LIGHT SKIN. AND HER HUSBAND IS LIGHT SKIN AS WELL, HOWEVER THEY HAD A BABY LAST WINTER AND THE BABY CAME OUT BROWN SKIN, HOW COULD DAT BE POSSIBLE?
69.
Angel
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
@ 61. You are all over the place. So basically I can’t report on topics and interview the celebrities either? If you listened to the Ne-Yo interview he knew about the post. I didn’t diss him or bash him when I posted the pictures. At times we do say our opinions, whether they are positive or negative. We post on what’s hot and what needs to be brought to attention. Am I not allowed to learn, grow, and change my damn mind at times? I guess not. Don’t like our style, you don’t need to be here.
Also, this could have been addressed on the F.A.Q. page or in a private email (both of them are available for you easily on the blog). So if you have a problem next time, hit me up via the ways I just stated above and not in the comment area. WE DO have commenting rules that some of you need to read up on ASAP.
Back on topic.
70.
smoothchoc
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
This guy i dated back in the day for 3 years has a 1 year old daughter now, but wants us to get serious again. He makes the situation very uncomfortable because he doesnt let me kow when the baby is even at his house (LOL).He leaves his baby in the room with his mom..WHAT IS THE REASON BEHIND THIS? I ACCEPT HIS DAUGHTER, SHE WAS CONCEIVED WHILE HE AND I WERE SEPARATED. IS IT ME OR IS HE JUST BEING IMMATURE?
71.
Mz Coko
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
LOL@Angel…
Damn I was trying to think of a random question but these posts r too hilarious…I’m at a loss for words
72.
Mz Coko
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Ok, Ok…I thought of something (I got my sex and relationship issues on lock)
Life Question: Have you ever had to deal with a lot of the drama most celebrities seem to get lost in? I.E. Groupies, etc. and how do u deal with the negative energy and influences?
73.
CoffeeBrown
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
Y’all are Nasty.
74.
TGS
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
LMBAOOOOOO @ some of these questions and comments.
Ok. I have one.
Why is it so hard for most guys to turn down random coochie? In other words, why must they be so fucking weak?
75.
Sade-Cherish the day
Friday, August 24, 2007 /
These questions are so hilarious. God, I hope this post hits to atleast 200. Now this is a very interesting.
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