Hey guys, I’m not sure if y’all are familiar with “Man & Wife” the video podcasts featuring Fatman Scoop and his wife Shanda. Basically the show features the couple giving candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life.
Sccop & Shanda’s Goals With Man and Wife
We want to be able to share our feelings, thoughts, and personal experiences with our audience. To offer open and candid advice in love, friendship, family and everyday life. No subject is taboo! We’d like to offer a platform for people to discuss love and sexual experiences in a fun and unabashed way to nurture and build emotional and physical intimacy with their partners. And we hope to learn from you too! [SOURCE]
Well Concrete Loop is bringing you yet another exclusive! Here is the deal: Submit your relationship questions in the comment area and I will select a few of them to ask Scoop & Shanda. They will answer the questions in an interview sometime next week. So make sure they’re good. In the meantime, check out their official site and peep a couple of their earlier podcasts after the cut.
i love their podcast
I’ve never heard of them! Might have to submit a questin to see how good their advice really is…
LOVE THIS SITE!!!!!! Been a fan since the beginning and i’m really happy that they’re blowing up to do bigger things
i dont need no love advice cause i ainr in it… but wouldnt mind.. holla at me ladies!! lol.. haha but nah they are one hell of a couple!!! FAT MAN SCOOP JUMP THE CLAN… TIMBALAND!!! TIMBALAND!! LOL.. THAT MY NIGGA!!
damn i sounded ignorant 4 a sec… *aint….*thats.. okay corrected.
Relationship advice from these two? This ought to be interesting.
Question: What would she do if she was in Ms. Bynum’s situation?
When is it okay to fart in front of my boyfriend (no seriously)?
How do I tell my man to stop asking me whether I like it like this or like that and if he should put it in now. How can I get him to just take control of our lovemaking?
What should I do when I find skid marks in his boxers? (I don’t have a problem washing them but I would rather he didn’t)
Where can I learn how to talk dirty to my man? I know you ask each other what we’re wearing but we don’t know what to say from then on.
Would taking part in a thressome improve our relationship and sex life?
Thanx guys. We need more open forums like these.
I’m glad Angel removes these ignorant comments, because most of these fools don’t know how to read. Submit a question, not a statement or a diss!
My question is:
If my girl initiates a blowjob, why should I HAVE to eat her pussy in return. (pardon my french). I didn’t tell her to give me head, so she shouldn’t expect me to go down on her just because she did.
@ OVER IT
If I were your girl, I would also stop giving. That is if she would like one in return. You like to receive, but you dont like to give?
WHY DONT YOU ANSWER YALL QUESTIONS IN THE SITE
ANSWER = *aSK
WHY LORD WHY….
This is Fatman Scoop. Since u dont know me, ill introduce my self
im the guy that when u go in a club and hear yelling over a remix of a song, its usually me
did some joints with missy,mariah carey, timbaland,janet jackson,etc
caught 2 grammy awards for that (shameless promotion!)
Decided to do a sex and relationship show with my wife for fun!!!!
MTV saw it, liked it, and signed us….
just do me a favor, go check out the site
http://www.manandwife.tv (shameless plug)
youll see why…..
Im not a sex expert but i am sexually enthusiastic!!!!!
and i been through a bunch of shit in terms of relationships (done some-seen some)
and i got a lot of common sense and i dont hold my tongue!!!!!!
Suggested Watching List…..
Episodes 39,34,31,29,27(u can laugh at me) 23,22,19 and #2 (our live episode)
tell me what u think…..
scoop@manandwife.tv
Question: My ex and I broke up on bad terms, however, he continues to call me until he and I get into a huge argument, then communication stops for awhile, and once again he will call me again. What is a good way to tell him that I do not wish to speak to him anymore since we are continually on a roller coaster ride?
My question is what should i do about my boyfridnd thats always hanging with his homies and out riding and never got time for me, and dont see nothing wrong with it. but claims if i did the same thing he wouldnt mind.
Why do guys break up with you when the relationship is going good?
Question: Does a TV in the bedroom cause distraction?
advice on keeping the excitement to a relationship ( not sexual wise) ?
Is arguing HEALTHY in a relationship & if it is when does it become unhealty
ANYONE CAN ANWSER THIS FOR ME.
I was talking to this guy he was coming at me with his game but i kept shutting him down, telling him i just wanted to be friends, in order to guard my own feelings, but we kept kicking , hanging out, and making out. Well I guess he got tired of my fronting b/c towards the end of the r/l he stopped calling, and when i called him he would always make promises he wouldnt keep such as ” Im going to call u later” or ” Ima come scoop u up” and he’d never call or show. So id call him. He’d always anwser but he was always distant. The last straw was when he invited me out and then cancelled last minute. My question is if im still feeling him, and want him to come back around whats my best course of action, cause apparently me calling him ain’t doing it. Do you think there is still a chance?
@14–do the same. he’ll mind. it’ll give me a taste of his own medicine.
My question: Do girls really like anal sex? I know it’s gross to some but you always hear people saying how much they enjoy it in porns and on real sex, but is it really that much fun?
*him not me.
@19
Question: Is once a cheat always a cheat?
Question: Me and my baby daddy have great relationship, but he has cheated with his other baby mama. Do you think the relationship can work when I have already forgiven him and it has been 6 months since the episode?
@19, this means you are about to cross over into “JUMPOFF” status. Put on the JC cape, (that stands for Jumpoff Chick), hold on tight, and enjoy the ride.
Question: Does age really matter (if two of the parties are both of legal age) when beginning a relationship with someone?
TV IN THE BEDROOM>>I WOULD SAY NO, BECAUSE I ENJOY SEX TAPES WITH OR WITHOUT MY MATE
How did Fatman get Shanda’s fine ass! You know he has game.
@23, You forgive, but you will never get over it. Its gonna come up in every arguement. Then the trust issues will start. Just do it back to him, and call it even.
I don’t need advice from this fat dude and his wife, who are they?!
Damn I have a lot of questions lol…but anyway…
Question: My former boyfriend and I never had sex with each other, however, he told me that he had sex with other girls when he was in the relationship with me, so I told him that I had sex another guy when I was with him, so would that be described as cheating since we never actually had sex with each other?
I love this podcast! Watch a couple of episodes and you will too! The episode when Scoop is cleaning Shonda’s sex toys, Chris Brown giving real advice, Scoop taking a bath……….LOL funny, seriously.
OH SHIT! I love their podcasts!!
Anyway, my question involves masturbation. How much is too much, because I think I need some help.
i have been dating this man for about 4 years now. he is the best thing that has ever happen to me so far . we kick it like best friends. the days we dont see each other we talk on the phone. we on the adult level on a whole lot of things. he don’t bring me drama and i don’t bring him drama. lately we be talking about moving in with each other. we never lived together before , and it makes me wonder if our relationship will stay the same still be good friends like we were when we wasn’t living together. I really want to make this work with him. could you please tell me what i should do in this type of situation.
@#9
LUV YOUR NAME!!!!
MY MAN IS GAY . HE IS SO FINE! I WANT HIM TO MY SELF, THOUGH. SO CAN I MAKE HIM STRAIGHT OR SHOULD I JUST KEEP TAKIN IT IN THE ASS? I REALLY LOVE HIM!
I’m going to ask this, and I hope it won’t be offensive…
How is this going to be a gossip site, I mean REALLY a gossip site, if you have to endorse so many people? Don’t you feel beholden to them? Doesn’t that prevent you from saying/posting negative things? Wouldn’t you start telling half-truths? Or lies of omission? Or is that old adage true: no publicity is bad publicity?
And, I don’t want to ask them anything.
@34–if you’re being serious…doesnt it hurt?
@ 35. No. A lot of celebrities read this site and we still post our opinions. We try to do it in a tasteful manner though unlike other blogs. I don’t care who you are, if some shit goes down we are going to post on it. Just in case you forgot, I pay the bills around these parts so I can endorse, promote and post about anything I want to.
Oh and stay on topic, those questions could have been asked on the F.A.Q. page or in an email.
@19
Why was calling you back a promise he couldn’t keep??? Listen, he doesn’t want you. Women like to believe that guys live on another plane, one where their actions are rife with all this subsurface meaning (that subsurface meaning, by the way, is: I know he luvvvvv me!) Well THEY DON’T. They need and feel exactly what you do, IF THEY WANT TO. Would you ignore him? Obviously not. You want him, don’t you??? Well, he doesn’t want you. Case Closed. Anybody who tells you different is either patronizing you or rationalizing because your situation is their own.
Hold up, # 24 whatcha mean jump off, is that what u think hes on, cause Im not for that, i at least want to be platonic friends,
And by the way 34 WHAT???????? Kill yo self? Aint nooooooooo dude worth that.
@30, you’re a whore, and so is he.
Another question:
I noticed that Omibod sex toy link on the Man and Wife homepage, does that think actually work?
38 you know waht that shit hurt but if thats what it is thats what it is but i would at least like to be friends, cause i dont want to go down in history as a jump off
@34, you’re kidding right! FYI: The dookey chute picks up a lot of particles and germs. Hate to get serious, but you need to read up on the virus thats killing many african american men and women. But I know you’re not serious.
@Mrs.Jay From Sin City, I was just pokin fun.
@ #41 you don’t know my sexual history well enough for you to call me a whore…
@ Mrs.Jay From Sin City, sounds like the chase is over, and thats what excited him. You no longer giving him “the chase”, and some men like a challenge.
@46, if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it must be a whore. LOL
How can you break it to your girl that she is horrible in bed. I like her personality, but she is not a good lay. Should I try to help her out or let her go?
@49, just ask your dad how he broke it down to your mom, it was more than likely the old school safe way.
Miss Erin- think about what you were doing when he was chasing you? I would say move on with your life and go on your own dates and make plans. maybe you’ll see a different response from him, he’ll start wondering if you don’t call him as much. If you still get nothing then it’s just tim to move on for good.
Halo- think about how many partners she’s had. I can honestly say I was horrible at the beginning, didn’t know what I was doing and was so shy. I’ve only been with my hubby, he had been with other women. But now I have to say I’m pretty damn awesome. hahhaa. It’s all about wanting to please your partner.
ok-this is interesting I love how candid everyone is.
lol that was funny 48
sex advice? from these two?
LMAO
can she even find his dyck?
I just met a guy this summer and the pipe game is mad serious but, we kind of lack in the conversation department. Then I met this other guy this summer and conversation is great but the pipe game is wack (penis is kind of small for my taste) but everything else is great. At the end i find my self going back to the good dick (for sex) and the other guy for dates and good conversation. what should I do????
And no it is not only about the penis size, but sexually he does not please me and atleast for me the sex game has to be on point and I’m not in the mood to show a brother how. help!!!!!!
Dear Man and Wife
I have a question, In relationships Do you believe a man really loves his wife or girlfriend if he cheats? Because I don’t think a man really loves you if he cheats on you.
I LOVE THIS SHOW I HAVE BEEN WATCHING SINCE THE BEGINNING!!
Ok fin,fine, im going to get over it, but HOW, cause listening to Keyisha Cole Let It Go on repeat is not helping the situation,lol.
How does a female learn how to be better in bed without screwing every guy she knows?
MAYBE I GOTTA CHECK OUT THE SHOW BUT WHY ARE THEY GIVING MARRIAGE ADVICE I DON’T GET IT??? IT SOUNDS VERY RANDOM IN A MONIQUE HOSTING CHARM SCHOOL SORTA WAY…
LOL @ #57. Natually, it takes time to truly “get over” someone. When you accept the fact that you deserve better, it gets a lil easier.