HOT OR NOT: RAY LAVENDER

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Ray Lavender – My Girl Gotta Girlfriend

Ray Lavender, 23 years old, based in Atlanta, by way of Monroe, Louisiana is the latest R&B crooner who says that it was R. Kelly who first ignited his passion for R&B music at a young age. “His tribulations sounded like my tribulations. He inspired me to write, sing, and become a hard working young man,” states Ray. He’s signed to Akon’s Konvict Records through Geffen Records.

His racy and risque new single, “My Girl Gotta Girlfriend,” taken from his debut album, X-Rayted, due out this fall, has garnered him a slight buzz on radio. And judging from the single’s title and content, I can definitely see why Mr. Lavender what proclaim himself quite the ladie’s man. Vocally, I’m not really jumping up and down, but it seems like for a while, since nobody is really filling Usher’s shoes, R&B is trying to spit out as many male artists as possible right now.

So what do you guys think? Is this Ray’s “My Girl Gotta Girlfriend” hot or not? If you like Ray Lavender, for more information or to hear more music, check out his MySpace page. And make sure to be on the look-out for more songs!

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145 Responses to HOT OR NOT: RAY LAVENDER

  1. AJ BOOGIE

    one hit wonder in the making

  2. I THINK IT HAS POTENTIAL. I’M MAD HE STOLE YUNG DRO’S TITLE THOUGH, NOW THAT WAS HOT!

  3. babytimah_06

    I mean i’ve heard it in mixes on the radio and its not the best but I mean he’s doing what he can with the song.

  4. [NOT] Can’t say I am too hrilled about this song [or artist] either… I heard this on Sirius the other day… I am not getting any “artistry” vibes here… Just another attempt to bring in some cash… But I guess money is what drives a lot of what we are hearing on radio… But I wish we could hear some music from artists who are truly passionate about the music, times and their ideals… [sigh]…

  5. Bad Ass Gone Worse

    Terrible. This will have every little girl saying she has a girlfriend just to please her man. smhid. It’s sad that music has come to this. Why don’t he use his beautiful voice and sing inspiring music. Music is made to inspire and people must have forgot that. No wonder we are not getting in higher. smhid. Will the real musicians please stand up?

  6. fly

    I thought this was Trey Songs when I heard it before. I love it!

  7. Shit I love this Song!!! They play this song like crazy in the ATL!!!! He kind of cute too. He might be a one hit wonder but I think he got potential !!!!

  8. Bad Ass Gone Worse

    potential to do what? Bring trash on top of trash. They shit people except. smhid.

  9. datdude

    I’m not saying i know all there is to know about songwriting, but how the hell can u put down the lyrics these current singles have and be like…ahh yes this shit is classic. My girl got a girlfriend, wow…who checks off on this, probably the same ppl on the board at BET.

  10. BAMMmm

    this one aint hot… to me atleast, the beat sounds silly

  11. Asouthernpeach

    I Love it!!!

  12. Bad Ass Gone Worse

    LMAO @ 12. I totally concur.

  13. I mean I like the song…I didn’t at first but it grew on me. I really don’t agree with the thinking. He was on Wendy Williams saying the song is based on a true story. But it seemed his girl took a little more interest in the other girl and they had to break.

  14. Bad Ass Gone Worse

    He is another T-Pain, but with a nice voice. I actually like the melody, but I can’t stomach the lyrical content. CL please do an interview with him. I got so much to say and ask.

  15. Bad Ass Gone Worse

    16, she started cheating because his d*ck was too small. It happens all the time.

  16. @ 6 & 12

    Yup you are definately right and that’s why I wasn’t feeling it in the beginning…it seemed gimmicky to me because T.I. had already mentioned it in about 4 of his songs and Yung Dro did it….I think it might have had the same name too…“My Girl Got A Girlfriend, Chevy Blue Like Wirlwind”

  17. Nice smooth beat but the lyrics is not my style. I can’t see my self jamming, bumping, dancing whatever to this.

  18. one tree hill

    The beat reminds me of justin timberlake!

  19. ACS

    Reminds me of “cry me a river”

  20. one tree hill

    I like da beat but da lyrics sounds……um…kinda nasty. I mean he wants to be wit these 2 girls for what, sex, I don’t think so. One girl should be enough!!

  21. Ro

    Exactly #12. And I’m not feeling the overprocessed vocals, they’re giving me a T Pain vibe. *Shudders*

  22. Complex

    The whole time that I was listening to this song ..I did not once blink..smile…frown…nada….this is str8 up garbage!

  23. PrincessMel

    U know T.pain was the inspiration behind this, it sounds just like one of his songs on his new album, i can’t think of the name of the song though, all he changed it to was my Girl gotta a girlfriend…Thats the only difference..It was aight…

  24. tommy

    oH mY FuCKiN GoTT!!!
    WaT dA HeLL?!?!?!
    WaT a GuD VoiCe WiT a WaStE oF TraCK!
    DiZ SonG iZ sO wAcK!
    GroW dA FucK uP….
    We CnT ReLaTe 2 diZ WeaK ShiEt!!!!!
    WeLL i CaNt!

  25. Lesbians everywhere R offended……Niccaz is makin that bi sexual shit a trend for femalez and they dumb azzez go rite along wit it!!!!!!!

    If thats ya thing Im not mad but damn…err’time I turn around its my girl gotta girlfriend…..and I wanna join….

    DONT NOBODY BE RUNNIN ROUND HOLLERIN “MY BOI GOTTA BOYFRIEND” IMMA START SAYIN DAT SHIT….JUST CUZ I KNOW ITZ FINNA START TRUBBLE!!!!

  26. Mallato

    NOT …. Hated IT

  27. Ezno

    You know they guys loving this song and the ladies hating it!

  28. Marcus

    It’s okay. But is has the same melody as Throwback on Usher’s Confessions Album.

  29. Lady Architect

    wACK…PLUS i DON’T LIKE THE SONG CONTENT…WHY IS YOUR GIRL HAVING A GIRLFRIEND SOMETHING TO PRAISE?…TO ME YOU DISSIN YOURSELF SAYIN YOU CANT SATISFY ALONE U NEED HELP.

  30. @ BAD AZZ GONE WORSE IS FUNNY.

    Potential meaning that give him a chance and maybe IF he has another song to see if he has what it takes to at least compete in the Industry… But I do I agree yes, I dont like the songz lyrics but like 16. said it grew on me…and now a days I listen to the beats before I think about the lyrics.. Personally but it also depends on the artist too.. All Im saying we need to at least give him a chance FIRST before we jump to conclusions.

  31. @ 35. Throwback is my shit too….I would neva mistake this song for that.

  32. Ashes

    I heard this on the radio, hated it then, hate it now.
    Hey Brian, what happened to Throwback Thursdays?

  33. one tree hill

    G-A-R-B-A-G-E!

  34. one tree hill

    I think he can do betta than dat!

  35. BC

    This is getting radio play? That’s too bad. Now, I could see if he changed it up and he had to leave her b/c she was cheating, but he just sounds real stupid. Wise up! She was cheating…not planning a 3-way…you will be given the boot. And yes, the vocals are processed then reprocessed and then processed again. I couldn’t even tell if that was actually a person singing. Garbage.

  36. Miss Erin

    This song is stupid but funny yet hell no and unrealistic…and I hope he can do better than this

  37. ms. observant

    It’s funny how artist now days will put anything on a record, because the people are sucking this kind of crap up. I heard this and was immediately turned off! The sad part is that there is some little kid in high school/middle school singing this song and experimenting with their sexuality due to being young and impressionable. To each his own but guess that’s how STD’s spread at such a high rate! Too many people sleeping with one another!

  38. Miss Erin

    I agree BC that’s why I think it’s unrealistic…If the girl is cheating on him with a girl, he obviously is not going to be involved in that…he needs to stop hoping, because it’s not gonna happen for him…lol…lemme stop

  39. ms. observant

    People need to stop listening to the beat only and listen for lyrics. The reality is that you take this stuff into your soul w/out you even knowing it!

  40. Dame

    # 32 I agree nobody wants to hear about men lol. Oh the song is ok.

  41. I heard this on the radio & turned it immediately. It was the title & content that turned me off. I’m tired of the cliche of 2007 being “girl got a girlfriend”. Nothing wrong with being bisexual (my best friend is); but every dude is memorializing it. Doesn’t anybody like girls that are strictly dickly anymore!? (J/K). :-) The song might grow on me though, he has a nice voice; I’m looking forward to what else he has to offer. HE’S FINE TOO. I’d date him.

  42. No 1 Notices Me W/O an Avatar!

    Ya’ll should do a “Who sung it better’ between him and T-Pain. Because I believe that T-pain did this song before this dude.

    The song is ok, it is strictly for listening, not singing along. I don’ t support the ‘I think its hot when 2 girls to hook up’ movement. Well, for those dudes that like that must thinks its hot for 2 guys to hook up as well then right?

  43. Every one needs to change for the better

    This is a nasty song, sorry. Not feeling it at all!!!

  44. Nottigrl01

    REALLY!!!! What is this teaching our youth!?!?
    That it’s ok to be lesbian or bisexual.
    It’s your choice when you become of age to do what you wanna do,
    but a child, especially little girls, do not need to hear this CRAP!!!
    And they have this song on heavy rotation on the radio down here in South Florida, like we really need any more problems.

  45. Eboni Eb

    yall got me rollin…
    but for real…if your chick got a girlfriend then shouldn’t YOU feel just a tad bit offended that she gotta go to a BROAD to get some pleasure that you couldn’t give to her ??????
    I’m just sayin….
    But I do feel u #6…LMAO
    lil girls er’where gon’ be on the prowl for a lil girlfriend…to make it do what it do…..DAMN SHAME…

  46. This song is da wackest bull ish fantasy i have ever heard. Prat. If this was a guy singing bout my man got a boyfriend it would’nt even reach airwaves…not sayin it should. Double standards. People don’t want hear bout two men but two girls is cool. This is filth. Homosexuality is wrong striaght up. I said it so shoot me!

  47. Oh and his voice sounds run of the mill.

  48. Eboni Eb

    i just sat and listened to the damn words, he got a good voice, real good, nice track, BUT…..SOOOO NASTY….this sh!t needs not be on the damn radio….HIS GRANDMAMA IS SOMEWHERE SHAKIN HER HEAD HOLDIN HER BIBLE WONDERIN WHAT WENT WRONG….
    hold my mule sweet jesus…
    hold my mule…..

  49. He’s okay vocally but the song content is lil freaky lol

  50. Celebrity Q

    i actually saw him perform last month in Miami at Club Bed and he can actually sing even though the song doesn’t show his skill cuz nowadays u have to make the song radio friendly to get a lot of spins. He performed about 4 songs and he was hitting all these high notes….i hope he makes it..

  51. My Pockets

    i guess convict music had to get someone who could actually sing but this shit sounds like somethin tpain would have done…akons label sucks i heard he wants to sign paris hilton to….WTF

  52. Offended Lesbian

    I agree with #32. Lesbians everywhere should be offended. This is just b.s.

    Anyway, I coulda sworn T-Pain did this song way before this kid. Can anyone find the track? I found a copy of it on esnips.com.

  53. MissJo

    No. Absolutely not.

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