funny…

A lot of Black women have ‘tudes after having to deal with one triflin’ Black boy after another. Yes, I said BOY. That’s the problem. If there were more Black MEN, we’d lose the ‘tude.

Apparently he has issues with all women, because modern women of today aren’t trying to serve no man! He has no issues with black women, well what if all the black women stopped supporting songs he produced!!! Ignorant folks like him need to hurt in the pocket.

What a dumb ass Bas’tud.

Black women probably dissed his ass for years ,so he had no other choice but to date white girls. Now he have a few dollars he want some attention . Whatever , he’s weak, just like any other black man who dates outside his race for dumb reasons.

What type of respect does he have for his MOTHER, the woman who carried his ignorant ass for nine months by making this statement…Brother, GET IT TOGETHER>>>>>
Obviously he has some issues within that he needs to work on…

why did you guys give this guy the time of day! i feel sorry for ppl who go through life generalizing an entire race/gender i think its sad.

especially coming from a black man!

and his an ugly guy! whose beats all sound the same !!!

GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE. I just lost respect for him. Men like this are too scared to be with a real woman. One that isn’t going to let him walk over her. If this negro don’t get his pitbull looking ass on some damn where. I love and respect my husband. But I’ll be damned if I let him treat me like whatever.

#74 you betta say it!!!!!!!!

only a man that hasn’t been able to be control anything wants to control his woman. a woman that only says yes, does everything you want isn’t boring, it is because she doesn’t think. that’s not a relationship her just pleasing him. was he not raised by a black woman and was it here that helped him mold this notion??

THE WORDS OF AN IGNORANT AND WEAK AS MUTHAFUCKA WHO DONT EVEN DESERVE TO BE CALLED A MAN!! a real man IS NOT INSECURE WITH HIMSELF AND DOESNT NEED TO FEEL SUPERIOR TOWARDS A WOMAN TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT HIM SELF HE IS AND UNWANTED JACKASS AND FAR AS I KNOW HE CAN KEEP WITH THE WHITE WOMEN COZ NO BLACK WOMAN IN HER RIGHT MIND WOULD WANT AN INSECURE, WEAK, WACK, ASS RAGGEDY ASS MAN ON HER SIDE!! AND I SAID SIDE NOT IN FRONT OF HIM!

THANK YOU FOR BEING REAL BOUT YOURS

ALL THE TIME BLACK MEN DENY HOW THEY TRULY FEEL-KEEP IT PHUNKY

WE BLACK WOMEN KNEW THIS IS WHY YOU CHOSE “OTHERS” OVER US

I AINT MAD ATCHA DO YOU-

WE BEEN RUNNING IN CIRCLES ON THIS BLOG STATING THE EXACT SAME THING AND BLACK MEN ON THIS SITE TRY AND DOG US OUT-THIS MAN REPRESENTS MORE BLACK MEN THAN MANY ON HERE WOULD CARE TO ADMIT-

HELL WHITE WOMEN CAN AFFORD TO BE SUBSERVIENT-THEY DON’T STAND TO LOSE MUCH

WE BLACK WOMEN CAN’T AFFORD TO LET A FOOL STEER AND CRASH OUR RESOURCES ARE LIMITED AND BOUNCING BACK COULD BE QUITE COSTLY-AND WE KNOW SISTAS AINT IN THE SAME POSIITION AS THESE CHICKS AS FAR AS HAVING MONEY TO BURN AND TIME TO WASTE

I AINT MAD JUST GLAD THAT HE HAD THE BALLS TO KEEP IT REAL-MANY OF YOU DON’T WANT AN EQUAL PARTNER JUST SOMEONE TO CATER TO YOUR EGO AND THAT YOU CAN RUN OVER

FINE-GO RIGHT AHEAD

IF BLACK PEOPLE, PARTICULARLY BLACK WOMEN WOULD JUST TAKE A MOMENT OF PAUSE TO RECOGNIZE THAT POLOW DA DON’S STATEMENT STEREOTYPES “WHITE WOMEN,” THEN YOUR RESPONSES WOULD BE STRESS FREE. FOR SO LONG, WHITE WOMEN HAVE BEEN DEPICTED AS “WEAK AND SUBMISSIVE.” SINCE THIS IS NOT A COMPLIMENT, LET THE WHITE WOMEN GET UP IN ARMS. BLACK WOMEN LAY BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DAMN, that’s a DAMN shame!

He’s probably too ignorant to be aware that there are black women who DON’T conform to his stereotype of booty poppin video ho, or finger snappin and sassy.

Oprah Winfrey, Michelle Obama, Maya Angelou, Iman, Jill Scott-just a few women in the media, arts, politics, etc who are strong and one by one breaking down the notion of the stereotypical black female. He needs to do his homework on women like this, because he’ll learn something valuable.

He’s not a Don, he’s a piece of horse shit.

sometimes thing sound good in ur head and then they cum out ur mouth and u sound like an ass. wat kinda stupid generalisation is that clearly he dont know that many white chicks.

hm…it’s okay to say that you want to date outside your race but to just categorize black women as they’re all the same then…

WOW this dude is a serious crackhead…lmao…to make a statement like that when he obviously came from a black women makes him sound like he has alot of self hatred issues going on.One thing is for sure you’ll never here a Chinese, Indian, Arican or any nationality generalizing there women like that there MOTHER. He obviously can’t stand his mama. Why blame other women just because yo mama’s a b*&#$ son …f$%#*% homo. He is just a sad example of how America’s media seperates their weak and insecure black men and women. Don my a#%.

I FEEL YOU 88! HE IS NOT EVEN WORTH THE COMMENTS.

Are you serious…”Black women are taught to question [their men]. Black women look at submission as being weak. White women look at submission as being a woman. And anyone who has a problem with this statement is ignorant. ”
1) Generalizations in it’s self are ignorant.
2) HAHA!! will he have a surprise in store…All women aren’t the same. His mother & father must of had a tough relationship.
3) he really should stick to his day job b/c that’s clearly all he knows about.

…I wish a nigga (they come in all clolors) would say that in front of me. HAHA!!

I’VE GOT TWO WORDS FOR HIS IG’NANT ASS: O.J. SIMPSON!

I’m glad that most of the comments are NOT IGNORANT, most people understood that he’s was generalizing. NO STRONG WOMEN OF ANY RACE wants be someone’s servant.

I think his confusing being submissive and serving with catering to your man because how many ladies out here won’t cater to their man, if the man is doing what he needs to do to make them happy and take care of them.

I will take care of home if you take care of home, if you don’t take care of me and house then I’m going to be as big of a bitch with an attitude as any other self-respecting woman.

Like someone said if you want submission get a dog/pet.

What a dumbass.

I mean, who does he think STARTED the Woman’s Suffrage movement? White woman. Over here in Pittsburgh (Where I go to school) I know PLENTY of white girls who are QUICK to cuss their men out, and a few black girls who need to. He’s taking a few isolated experiences and making a sweeping generalization.

In any event, I guess he forgot about the “respecting woman” part. So any girl who WOULD end up with him, white or black, is a damn fool.

lmao…….whoa….okay….maybe the black women he dated weren’t submissive. he shouldn’t put that on ALL black women. but whatever. he’s missin out some GOOD black women in the nation. his lost…ah-ha!

#16 (smh)

You know, my problems aren’t with his generalizations. Whatever. My problem is that he feels that a woman should bow down and cater to him. Fuck that. That’s the sign of a weak man.

Obviously like # 50 stated he has a problem with women in general.. this comes from his household maybe his father did what he wanted to do and his mother allowed it…

Some women in general are told by their parents you should just let a man be a man especially if it’s a financially well stable man. It doesn’t matter black or white some women are looking for a easy ride, so they are willing to do what ever it takes to keep him. That’s a week minded individual who does not have the courage to stand on her own two feet and doesn’t have her own goals and/or opinion…

Now a strong woman (black or white) does not need to be submissive to a man to validate if she is a woman or not.. A woman will stand for what’s right, and if what he is requesting is not something she believes in she will question it…

I believe men that are looking for submissive women are just weak mean who can not handle a challenge. Also, when they try to separate the way black and white women are raised and the way they handle themselves in situations just personifies his ignorance towards women in general.

So we as women should stop trying to break it down as why black women do this and as why white woman do this… a real woman is a real woman no matter what nationality and a weak woman is a weak woman no matter what nationality…

All I have to say is that I am a bi-racial sista. My Mother is a strong black woman and she taught me to ask questions, to be outspoken, and to never settle for less. My Father is a strong Spanish man that taught me to respect my Husband, be a help mate, but do not ever think twice about asking questions and being aggressive. He would tell me that would keep him from having to go upside someones head.

To Polows comment I would just like to state that he is a very ignorant black man. Any man that is a real MAN can deal with being asked questions and even confronted by a woman. As women we are naturally more sensitive than men. His comment just makes me appreciate the fact that I am married to a REAL black man and wheneva I have a question or comment towards my Husband he answers me with no hesitation and if I get too fiesty he does not have a problem letting me know that as well.

Woman should be able to voice their opinions in any relationship. And I have a lot of white girlfriends that will put you in your place quicker than me. So I think that this brotha is definitely lookin for a slave and not a mate..

I HAVE A QUESTION TO THE BLACK MEN ON HERE-ARE YOU GOING TO RAISE YOUR BLACK DAUGHTERS TO BE SUBMISSIVE TO BLACK MEN?

CAUSE WE ALL KNOW THAT SO MANY OF OUR YOUNG BLACK BOYS RIGHT NOW ARE BEING RAISED WITH THE INTENTION OF TREATING YOUNG WOMEN WITH RESPECT AND WON’T USE THEM OR MISLEAD THEM WILL THEY?

I WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU BLACK MEN THAT DATE WHITE WOMEN ANSWER THIS ONE-

Well, I guess everybody has their preferences, but these comments are nothing new. I have heard that from black men before. And, while those stereotypes are unfortunate, as black women all we can do is continue to be supporters of the black men (or whatever man we choose to be with) and loving them to the best of our ability so they don’t grown up like this. I feel sorr for him and any of the white girls he gets with. Submission as a general rule is ridiculous…submission as a role playing bit in the bedroom is hot tho! LOL

Why can’t the cute ones just shut up!!?? Palow, you are much cuter with a closed mouth. Gawd, what an idiot…and the really bad part about it is, he really feel like he made a valid point! *lol*

*just sayin*

@81 I was thinking the same thing .

WTF? If black men would learn how to respect black women then maybe there wouldn’t be an issue of having to be submissive. In today’s society, women are made to take on all roles. The breadwinner, the caregiver, and the freak in the bedroom. However, men want to make it see like black women are the reason they look to white women because of our attitudes. Will all the REAL MEN PLEASE STAND UP? Because statements like this one is why THE BLACK FAMILY IS BEING DESTROYED!

@ LMAO at GG BOO—”submission in the b-room”. way to keep it real.

nobody likes medicine, espically Black women - lol - Becky dad owns the Bank, Tamika daddy work @ the bank….ez choice

Wow… I am so pissed at that ignorant ass comment. I will not write down all of my feelings because I’d have 3 or 4 pages. But Polow if you read this I have a few questions. Are you talking about your mother as well??? Isn’t she a black woman??? I am a strong black woman and I will treat my man as a king as long as I’m treated like a queen. I will be submissive to my man ( A MAN) but I will not be submissive to a fool. You are truely an ignorant ass black man. And no not all black men are ignorant but you Sr. are one. I hope that ignorant comment is worth your career. Because who do you think supports your music??? I will no longer support your recycled ass beats. I hope those submissive white women go and buy your music cause if not then it’s “back to the ghetto you go.” DUMBASS!!!!!

So I see that he changed divine order to his own divine order; man, WHITE woman, child. Whatever!!! I think he just wants to keep people talking!

#105 have you ever listen to his interviews (you tube) they sound like a fourth grader is giving them. he is not that bright he needs to step us his vocabulary.. One of his interviews “Win a date with Polow” he states “She does not have to worry about looking good, he looks good enough for the both of them” that shows he has a complex. and he wants to look better than his woman????

Wow. I actually have much respect for this ignorant black clown b/c this statement he made is what he truly believes and he’s not afraid to hide his hatred for black women.
Little does he know that he is in no way an asset to the black race or to black women in particular. He is, however, a true embarrassment.

This loser can’t be serious?! He’s flocking to the white chicks because they are “submissive”?! Sounds like an ingredient for him to be abusive and get away with it. We should thank the white chicks for taking him off our hands . . . .Let’s question how unsuccessful he’ll be when WE don’t buy his CD!

I find it hilarious that all Black women are in an uproar over what Polow said.
Because when yall see him pull up to the club in his wip, yall will all be running over there tryna show him how low your skirt is, and how fat your ass is…

Relax, take a look in the mirrior, if he’s not talking to you then you should have nothing to worry about.

WTH?

No loss to the black women he ugly anyway.

Mr. keep it real…. sometimes you have to think before you answer because if we are not talking to you, why are you worried about what we a saying????

Okay this damn fool CRAZY! I date multi-culturally myself but I would never make that type of comment.

It’s as simple as this: If you’re a GOOD man, and you have a GOOD woman, regardless of race, if you do for that woman that woman WILL do for you. That’s the part that all these men who want “submissive” woman don’t understand. From little boys, guys like Don were raised hearing all this shit like “the man is the king of his castle” WITHOUT hearing about the responsibility behind it, so they grow up thinking that they’re “entitled” to a woman’s respect by simple fact that they’re men, and that they don’t have to do anything to earn it. You know this man because it’s ALWAYS the one who’s looking for a “submissive” woman. Palow Da Don wants a woman to be submissive and “not question” him, because he wants to continue his lifestyle of acting like a little ass kid, doing doggish activities, and have a woman back home who’ll just look the other way and put up with it, no question. In short: he wants a trophy wife. A Barbie doll.

I realize, being a gay man myself, that this is something I’ll never really encounter personally. But had a been a straight man I would have had a good example in my own father. A GOOD man won’t ask him woman to be submissive, because he won’t HAVE to. A good man will pay attention to his woman, respect his woman, DO for his woman. A good man will honor, love, and cherish his woman. And if he does those things, better believe that a woman WILL do all of those things (and more) for her man.

It’s a symbiotic relationship, not one where the woman is submissive and doesn’t question. It’s a relationship where BOTH people give, and thus both people GET. It’s a shame that a lot of men don’t seem to understand that…

@103- yes I’m raising my daughter not of the times but of the word and she is to be submissive to the man that she will choose to head her family. Now lets be smart in our words and intentions. Because this doesn’t mean she is to let any man run over her but then again any man who wants to do that in the first place is not a man (of the word) and thus he is null and void. I am also raising my son to the word and he is learning to love the women and be respectful to those that respect themselves in that manner, (polow don speaks of those women who don’t do that in his quote).
Needless to say dude has a point I don’t know where his statement dwells (meaning his past) but there is definitely a distinction between the races of that gender. I think we know where they come from. I can never abandon my black women because i know better, but that doesn’t mean i don’t want the respect, trust and love that I am deserved. In saying this Polow don has apparently abandon her not in the sense that he doesn’t date her any more, but he obviously does respect her enough to want to marry her (i’m reading in on his statement and offering my opinion on them).
On a personal note i’ve dated a caucasian woman before and she was nice very cool and into the black thing like “that”. But i didn’t want to be with her because that wasn’t my cup of tea. But if it were i tell you this much i would’ve chose her over many of the black ladies i dated and that is not a good thing. There is nothing like a sista though NOTHING i’m whipped.
But to all races and genders learn how to love each other.

….and I feel badly for his momma, assuming she had nothing to do with his warped perception on black women.
After all, she’s the one who squatted down and dumped his dumb azz out when she gave birth to him. Lol!

Has he lost his mind! Ya know what. Keep ya white women. Ya probably to sorry to keep a black woman satisfied. I haven’t even read the other post but I know it’s some cursing going on! I hope one of them white chicks give ya herpes. And black women don’t believe that we have to be subservant because we don’t, That is not what makes you a woman. And having a chick that will kiss your azz doesn’t make you a man it make you a punk too sorry to get a real woman and makes her a dumb azz with self esteem to low to know how she should be treated.

damn pitboi-break it down

you sound like my brother-we’ve had this conversation so many times before-he actually was having a hard time finding a good black man himself-fortunately he has found one-but he as a gay man was actually talking about brothas being trifling as well and their desire not to be questioned-so you may not encounter this situation in the same way but from what he has told me dating gay black men you can encounter similar problems as well-

not saying if your gay you think alike but your views damn sure sound pretty similar to his-

I haven’t heard anything that ignorant in while, I’m back at school though so I am sure the ignorance will start manifesting itself shortly. But why? I was a fan. But now I don’t know how I feel about this character. Submission at times is necessary to make a relationship work but to want to be with someone who is submissive all the time makes me question Polow’s character. Is he insecure? Is he unable to handle the strong character that most black women posess??? I mean it is what it is, he doesn’t seem relationship worthy especially if he’s talking out his ass like that.

I don’t have much to say but whoever shay is just proved his point.

the only reason why he’s saying that is cuz he knows no black women would want his ugly ass anyways, its just any excuse cuz he is insecure.

Shout to my best friend, Fawn, who did this interview…I knew about this a week or so ago. Allhiphop was up in arms about Polow da Ho’s comments. They new this mess would get people talking…maybe he knows it too.

I understand what he’s saying…Us black woman tend to question men, but there’s nothing wrong with that. You have to! White woman are just too loose and they give in too easily (No offense). And men love easy girls…Black men look so pathetic when they’re obsessed with white woman. Honestly, it’s a disgrace to the black race, especially black woman. US BLACK WOMEN ARE THE BEST, holla, lol

#129, you’re just as ignorant & close-minded as he.

@103

okay I hear you but as you stated according to the word and as pitboi so eloquently put it in that sense that makes sense-to teach her to be submissive to a man that knows the word

if anything I think the point is that nobody wants to be taken advantage of and not respected-and in oh boys statements that’s exactly his spin on what submission is-and that is not the true meaning of the word

I’m married and my husband is the head of my household and I love him to death -we’re both black

I’m sorry that you found this one white woman more suitable to marry than many of the black women you’ve dated-could it say something more so about your choice of women? instead of what you so slightly hinted-the lack of available good black women?

we all have to take accountability for actions and our choices-if the quality of the black woman that YOU choose to date is poor then that says something about you and not the other way around

their definitely out there and keep looking and please don’t limit yourself- just to say you are sticking with your black women that’s a cop out-you should look for the most qualified woman to love you in the manner that you deserve rather she be black or white-your not doing us any favors by sticking with us blindly if you feel the grass is truly greener on the other side

Good luck my brotha in your search for true love!

He embarassed himself and not me with that comment. Whats sad is that there are other black men who probably mirror his thoughts but even they have sense not to make that kind of statement and make themselves look even worse .White women are raised to cater to their men.lmao That stupid azz is probably so damn insecure with himself that he needs constant affirmation from women that he perceives as being passive to make himself feel good.

#31…I agree.

@pittboi to add to what you said…it’s not doing as in $$ either. Most women were raised to get a education and do for themselves. Like with my parents, I don’t need my man’s money, although for me he better have a good job because I’m not supporting him. It’s the attention, affection, love, commitment, loyalty, and helping with the house chores and kids that we want and need. If you do all of that for your woman then she’ll cater to you. It is a partnership. If you want a trophey wife someone who wants you to always buy buy buy for her and she’ll forgive your cheating and disrespecting ways. Then you get either a gold-digger-someone who could care less about you as long as your rich or a mouse who will let you walk all over her.

*you’re

****Black women HISTORICALLY have had to be stronger than White women. Cooking, Cleaning, Maintaining households, Watching as Husbands and children were sold away from them in slave trades and ALL WHILE BEING CONSIDERED LESS THAN HUMAN. So YEA, Black women (like myself) are known to be a little rougher, self reliant, etc… BUT IT IS DUE TO A ROLE THEY HAD TO PLAY. White women are seen as weak, while it is JUST A STEREOTYPE… It is rooted in truth LIKE ALL STEREOTYPES ARE (exaggerated truths). Submission to husbands (in my tradition Black Christian in America) is seen as CHRISTIAN ATTRIBUTE NOT A RACIAL ONE. But, there also are THINGS THAT GOD CALLS HUSBANDS TO DO FOR THEIR WIVES (yet, it amazes me how much we only hear about submission to husbands)… anyways, IGNORANCE AT ITS FINEST… SAD… THERE ARE WEAK BLACK WOMEN, JUST LIKE THERE AS STRONG WHITE WOMEN. THERE ARE SUBMISSIVE BLACK WOMEN LIKE THERE ARE WHITE WOMEN WHO ARE NOT SUBMISSIVE

People give me a break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

#116

“I find it hilarious that all Black women are in an uproar over what Polow said.
Because when yall see him pull up to the club in his wip, yall will all be running over there tryna show him how low your skirt is, and how fat your ass is…”

I agree with this part of your statement.

It’s pretty obvious that this man suffers from self hatred.

#120 pittbboi

Very well said.

yall just mean lol

LOL!! I can’t do nothing but laugh at this. It’s obvious that he wants someone that he can control and run over. I’m not saying that all white women are like that (that’s what he said) cuz I know some white women that don’t play the radio and I also know some black women who are submissive when it comes to playing a role in a relationship and I must admit that I’ve played both sides (submissive and aggressive). But if thats how he see white women then that a shame and if thats how he see all black women then thats 2 shames, lol!! Anyway everybody is entitled to their own opinion so I really can’t say too much

not a good look Polow…..gee whiz….does he actually believe that garbage?

@#70 True

the problem is that too many black women think that head snapping, finger waving, and having an overall shitty attitude is the same as being strong. It’s not, ladies. that just makes you another bitter bitch

Here we go…..lol

@ 143

^^^^ dealing wit another NO GOOD nigga…

***I dont really believe that, just thought it was funny. But what u said is NOT all Black women… people, STOP GENERALIZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unfortunately, I agree #143 Grippy.

He’s not the first black man to say some mess like this…..I had a lightskinned man (who I did not know) stand near me now maybe he didn’t see me I dunno but HE went on about black women and how THEY as in all of us aren’t submissive enough and you can’t talk to THEM and all this and that on the celly to a friend of his while I’m waiting to be picked up by my bf and my mouth was wide open hearing this mess and I’m thinking can this mothaf—-r see me?! That man had all kinds of issues with the black women he happened to date and he was all i’ma start dating white women because in essence he thought they were better and they’d listen to him and not argue with/or against him like the black women he dated or that’s how all of us were in his opinion and they were better and submitting to their man and listening to their man.

I hope Polow is including his mama and anyone before her and all his female relatives period. I was taught to question everyone and everything if I felt it wasn’t right or had a problem with it or needed more evidence. I was also taught to give respect when it was due besides the general respect your elders thing that most parents give their children male or female and regardless of race. I was raised differently in a way not just a black female but I was raised different than many females period regardless of race. I don’t look at being submissive as being weak necessarliy and not because I’m black…..and a lot of that mess has to do with religion anyways (which I have no part of and don’t care to anymore), I don’t do that patriarchal hieracrhy stuff. AND I definitely don’t believe you just should be automatically submissive because you have breasts and a vagina either and I don’t serve anyone because i’m not underneath anyone nor should I have to be because i’m female. He can’t say he has nothing against black women and then talk the sh-t he does. It’s like when someone says no offense but …… and then they go right ahead to say something offensive to you or about you. -_o This is stereotypical and a messed up generalization of black and white women. I know more than a few white females (who are very different) that’d chew his a– out too for this statement. He’s ignorant.

The funniest thing about this whole thing is, drum roll please…….He went to MOREHOUSE!!!!!! I don’t understand how an “educated” man can make such a uneducated statement like this. I am all for dating who you want to date, you can’t help who you fall in love with/are attracted to. It’s when people date people for the wrong reason that I begin to have problems. Relationships nowadays are (should be) 50/50. I want a partner who is strong in the areas where I am weak and I hope to be strong in the areas they are weak. I want a HELP MATE, not a hurt mate. If I were a white girl I would be offended by this comment just as much. To insinuate something like that is just boneheaded. And anyone in the DC area will know this classic phrase: Polow Da Don you are the BAMA of the week, week, week!!!!!!!!

Who?

Negro sit down!

Hope he has enough white girls in his fanbase to carry him. Ooops — they’ve probably never heard of his low-rent ass, LOL.

*Adds another dumb nukka to the boycott list.* I’m saving quite a bit of $$$ these days!

Im sorry while reading his statement I actually laugh but it is a shame. He is an a$$. Black women are strong women and we will not let anyone step over us, looked down on us or run our lives. My thing is I repsect my man because he is my King but we have a great relationship where we respect one another. Black women question our man hell yeah because we dont like to be left in the dark.