#220, of course the black male parent should be involved in his child’s life, but judging by the extremely negative statements that Polo or whateva the f– his name is spouted against black women, it seems he’s got mama issues going on.
I can bet on it that he was raised dysfunctionally and has deep-seeded hatred toward his mama– the 1st black woman in his life.

cosign #216

I just came back from a drive, and i want to apologize for the stupid statements i made about white women, about tham stankin and all. In reality, i don’t know any white woman that stank, i just heard they stank…so that was very ignorant, and even though i’m tired of people making stupid comments like this clown did, that was absolutely no excuse for that ignorance. I am so sorry, and never in my life will i say something to that effect ever.

But i meant everything i said about black men having this “disease” self hatred. And i get hit on all the time by none black men, and i’m skipping my ass right on out with them. So many black men, not all, are fucked up in the head, and you can’t even love them, mainly cause they don’t really love themselves. They can’t even stand to look over from the table, or onto the other side of the bed and see someone that look like them….such a fuckin shame.

Polow’s statement was disrespectful to all black women. I’ve never heard any famous black women stating the issues of dating a black man, but yet, every time we look around, some dumb idiot who got lucky and made a lot of money and happen to be black, keep making statements of their perceived negative viewpoint of black women. He didn’t have to say it was a negative, but when you say, you date another race and name the traits of a black woman and a white woman, and say you mainly date white women, then even without going into details, you are clearly saying you prefer white women because of this strait, which is first of all subjective, and secondly your fuckin opinion, which he could keep to himself.

Please disregard my statement at #159, i meant some of it, not all of it.

and to think this fool went to CLARK-ATLANTA……!

This is nothing more than a man scone by a few females therefore he stereotypes all black women. We all do it…its just to what extinct. You know how it is after someone plays games with you. It’s what we call baggage. You find yourself being dramatic and stereotyping every person you date based on your past experiences…then you are dating people who seem to be “safe” and “meek”. And what I observed from Polow Da Don just a common case of resentment.

I suggest he go to therapy and deal with those issues because it only affects him and how people perceive him, which is not a good look.

Yet I can understand why so many us black females are upset. The majority of the time we open a magazine or read an article of a male celebrity, predominantly black men who are speaking of Black females in a degrading way. After a while, this can be irritating and offensive. But like someone said before, if his comments are not relevant to you, than why should you get upset?

We are ALWAYS going to be labeled and judged because many cannot understand the independence and aggressiveness of any women weather she is Caucasian, Asian, Latino or Black. Society teaches individuals like Polow, that women are beneath males and with that belief you will always find some conflict. All you can do as a woman is to pick and choose your battles and I believe that is absolutely nothing to get upset about.

To each its own. I respect he put his preference out there so this helps women from waste their time. Yet it is a misfortune because he should be interested in finding someone who is his equal…not someone who is gullible. Nevertheless if you read in-between the lines of his quote, it seems like he’s trying to justify why he dates outside his race. Overall I think he just been hurt by someone and believe by dating Caucasian women is easier and safer from getting his feeling hurt again.

Polow need to sit his corney ass down some where and stay seated. While he is a attractive in the face he is too big and doofy to be dancing as hard as he was dancing in that last video of his. He looks like a freaking idiot. Cute with no swag. So he can have all the white women he wants cause he’s WACK to me. NEXT.

@ jUDAH

How lucky for you, the women you mentioned, Halle and Serena recently started dating white men, for it was not for them, i guess you would have nothing to say, and how dare you hang your whole statement on these few selected women, when black men for decades, decades, decades, have been dating and marrying white women in large numbers, especially the rich black men. I’m not talking about the broke hood negro, though, he has also done this as well. Everybody prefer to act like this isn’t happening.

AND HOW HOME AL SHARPTON AND ALL THE OTHER BLACK LEADERS ARENT SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT STATEMENTS LIKE THIS, AND HOW COME THEY DON’T ADDRESS THE PHENOMENON OF BLACK MEN DATNG WHITE WOMEN, CAUSE I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT ONCE RICH BLACK WOMEN START DATING WHITE MEN IN RECORD NUMBERS, WATCH, THEY GONE SPEAK OUT THIS CAUSE THEN IT’S GONE BE A PROBLEM.

But trust, if suddently, Sanaa Lathan, Gabrielle Union, Nia Long, the whole cast of girlsfriends, all the black female singers started dating exclusive white men, trust, we’d never hear the end of this from black men. But black men been doing this forever, and no one is even addressing. And if a black woman speaks out on it, then she’s bitter. How about we’re just embarrassed, cause this is messed up and wrong on so many levels.

I agree julieisadime, he should be booed at every appearance other wise he will say more dumb ass comments like these and think that is alright to diss ppl black or white.

Ummm I hate black women with a passion when they say that bw need to find a ‘good black man’! Like their aren’t men in the world that aren’t black that can be just as loving and supportive as a black man. Seee this is 70% of black women are single and why black men are hott on the market. Its because they make themselves available to all women and not just black women which I think is awesome. More black women need to become more open minded!!!! Ignorance is Bliss and you gotta look at who’s laughing at who!!! Attempt to destroy stereotypes not perpetuate or reinvent them!!! Come on now sistas. Let the slave mentality go!!

Shit, you can’t tell me that most white men want to feel like they fucking a slave. That’s ok I’ll stick with the brothers, again, just a preference.

WTF? This house nicca deserves a swift kick in the mouth, d!ck AND a$$!!!!

you know #229 is right, I’ve actually been told by people- men and women that I have an attitude or that I’m mean or that I’m bitch and how surprise they are because I’m Asian. Or I get told that I’m acting like a black girl because I won’t take shit from people- I have to ask them what does me telling you that you’re an ass and wrong have anything to do with me acting or trying to be black?

I don’t get why people don’t see that your race has nothing to do with your attitude or your intolerant for stupidity.

LOL @ 235!!!

Polow is a black man with a slave mentality

Smell like Willie Lynch rules the day… His was the name which coined ‘Lynching’
Here is a portion of what he had to say… you can google the rest if you are interested …
I shall give you a outline of action, but before that, I shall assure you that DISTRUST IS STRONGER THAN TRUST AND ENVY STRONGER THAN ADULATION, RESPECT OR ADMIRATION. The Black slaves after receiving this indoctrination shall carry on and will become self refueling and self generating for HUNDREDS of years, maybe THOUSANDS. Don’t forget you must pitch the OLD black Male vs. the YOUNG black Male, and the YOUNG black Male against the OLD black male. You must use the DARK skin slaves vs. the LIGHT skin slaves, and the LIGHT skin slaves vs. the DARK skin slaves. You must use the FEMALE vs. the MALE. And the MALE vs. the FEMALE. You must also have you white servants and over- seers distrust all Blacks. But it is NECESSARY THAT YOUR SLAVES TRUST AND DEPEND ON US. THEY MUST LOVE, RESPECT AND TRUST ONLY US.
Polow, all wake up .
Fact. There are more BLACK MEN IN COLLEGE, THAN IN PRISON.

Ignorance is not bliss when you are showing only self hate and trying disrespect your own Mama

Amen with all. Im glad yall attackin this clumsy n!gga…yea he’s a n!gga he deserves to be called one. Talk ignorent must be ignorent.

@216

Sister, I don’t address what people say, I address their conduct and their actions. A person can say anything, but what they’re about is conveyed through their actions. If you and many of the other black women on here that feign confidence were truly confident, what Polow da Don said would not affect you. The man was ASKED about white women. You people act like they were talking about tracks and the man just spazzed out and said, “I love me a white bitch!!!”. C’mon man. He will be judged for what he does like everyone else, but contrary to popular opinion, everything is not the black man’s fault. It’s just mainly the black man’s fault but the shortcomings of the black woman must be addressed also. Where in his statement did he use the word “ONLY” in regards to the white woman. Once again, those poor reading comprehension skills rear their ugly head, lol. It’s fundamental sis.

@JSCENE

Sis, no disrespect to you but in regards to who has crossed over more in the entertainment industry and the history of interracial dating within affluent circles, percentage wise, it’s not even close. The black woman has always been a concubine for the white man in the entertainment industry. Hell, the black man has been a concubine for the white man within entertainment circles, lol. From Josephine Baker to Dorothy Dandridge to Diahann Caroll to Diana Ross, Tina Turner, Alfre Woodard, Maya Angelou, up to the ones that are doing it in secret i.e. Beyonce, Rihanna, etc. Spare me please. There are many more famous black men than there are famous black women so it’s going to look more widespread. There are so many rich black men with the black woman that it’s not even funny. How many affluent, powerful black women today are not either “single”, in fake relationships, interracial daters, or closet lesbians. Get back to me.

Fergie has millions of haters already sucks to be her being in that picture knowing people would tear her up. That statement is completely ignorant. Maybe he’s insecure.There are strong women in every race.

I’m out, it was nice chattin with all my beatiful black people! All of my sistas, love yourself and you won’t have to worry about anyone else luvin u, it will come naturally!
until the next post. chat witcha later!

i dont date outside my race even though i get hit on by other races. its not a preference or trait that i am seeking its just that i feel like the other races are looking for a short term relationship and i dont want to be anyone’s fling or FLAVOR OF THE MomENT. some people are ok with being that some are not. thats why i stick with black men i have no complaints about them because i make sure that i am treated like the queen that i am and if not then NEXT. its no big deal.

polo is eventually going to find a white women that is not submissive like he wants them to be and then whats going to happen? asian women? he should just say he prefers white women and thats it. no need to give an answer that doesnt even apply to every black female. and i agree with the person that said he sees women as inferior and that he should WANT a partner that can challenge him.

check what an attitide is. is the black woman u kno thaat gave u an attitude single, 3 children , working 100 plus hours a week, etc. maybe these black women that have an “attitude” are actually DEALING WITH LIFE WHICH HAS NEVER BEEN AND WILL NEVER BE PERFECT. i have a great deal of respect for the BS black women have to put up with it cuz its not easy for us.

I don’t even know where to begin. What type of man makes a statement like this? These type of racists sexist comments simply serve to set our community back further and further. I wonder what is the race of Mr. Polow’s mother, and what does she think about his comments? Furhter, if he has any sisters what do they think about these comments, and what he feels are their roles in life. The self professed “King of All White Women” is out of his mind.

This makes me so sick to the stomach because this is just going to give a whole heap of black men the excuse to go out and find a white woman. I was never so shocked in my life as the time this pro black guy started dating white. He said the same thing this dude is saying. He said their “head game” is different. He said he loved their hair and how they can get ready with ease. Come to Connecticut, you’ll see a lot of black dude, white girl. There is something about white girls that rocks, though. I can’t deny it. Their shapes and bodies are top notch without even trying! Their hair — need I say more! They can do anything they want with that hair! My father’s co worker said to him: it’s a shame that plain white women look better than our dressed up black women.

And I agree. Black ladies try so hard! This is why I try my best to imitate Kerry Washington, Joy Bryant, Rihanna (white boys love here where I live),

man if he doesnt get the fuck outta here. white women do not want to be servants i met alot white women who expect the same shit out of their men as blk women do. and for him to say blk women arent submissive is a lie and he must be on some caveman shit. what is there to be submissive about that blk women dont do???? we want happy relationships just like anyone els why wouldnt we want to please you. arent relationships suppose to be a partnership how much submission do u need??? i bet alot of u dudes had relationships and ur women did for u just a much as u did for her. kill all those tired ass stereotypes pls. from all the bitchin and bashin i hear from dudes on the internet every blk chick shouild be single and blk couples should be a thing of the past.

@JUDAH

R you serious. Look at the stats bro, black men date out far more than black women ever will be(maybe now thats changing because black women are now realizing that the loyalty they have given to black men has been ignored). If they were many rich black men with black sistahs, why are so many sistah SINGLE. Look at the stats, please…..

um #233, it’s not that easy for black gals to get with a white dude. MOST white dudes aren’t even checking for black girls — I have had tons of crushes on white boys and I wouldn’t have a problem dating them, but most of them (thought they call me cute or attractive) would rather not be seen with a black girl. They are used to their white girls. White girls and black guys, to me, have the most choices when it comes to dating. White girls can wake up one morning and decide: hmmm, I feel like dating a brother today! Then the next month they can say: I feel like dating me a Puerto Rican. Then after that, they can be in the mood for an Indian man. The fact is everyone wants them. It may not be because they are pretty, it’s just the fact that they are white! This Polow da don (i never even heard of him til now) will always hype up white girls — as long as he can get them. He probably likes Indian women and Asian and Spanish — all women except for Black. This makes me so sad because White women seem to get their fair share of love. This shit makes me wanna jump off a roof sometimes. It’s so prevalent here in New England that I fear I’ll end up alone. Dudes say to me: “You can be my black “white” girl” — I don’t want to hear that. That means they will eventually leave me for ONE!

That’s cool if he prefers white women over black women; but how is he going to make such an outrageous generalization about ALL black women? To me, I think that statement was just plain IGNORANT. Stick to your day job for real Polow.. because you just made yourself sound like a damn fool. Real talk. As I previously stated, if you prefer white women over black women that’s COOL, but DO NOT make such a gereralized statement about ALL black women.. that sh*t is NOT cool.
I am appalled by this comment.. LOL The nerve of this dude!!!

Whenever you deal in absolutes and generalizations, you typically show how limited and uninformed you are.

It’s his choice to want to be with a white woman, why does he feel the need to qualify it? Must not be too confident in his choices.

“He said he loved their hair and how they can get ready with ease. Come to Connecticut, you’ll see a lot of black dude, white girl. There is something about white girls that rocks, though. I can’t deny it. Their shapes and bodies are top notch without even trying! Their hair — need I say more! They can do anything they want with that hair! My father’s co worker said to him: it’s a shame that plain white women look better than our dressed up black women.”
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wow….just wow. can we say SELF HATE. White women can get ready with ease, huh. well than perhaps u should go and tell god to create black women with straight hair so we could get ready with ease too.lol

Where did all the real men go??? I guess the only good men out there for real are white- they know how to treat women right.

Your funny as helll…….. because you actually believe what your saying #245 and that’s a sad shame. Bottom line these guys want someone that will cater to their small ego’s and certain things will fly with certain women, and in this case sistah’s aren’t going to stand for alot of the nonsense these men pull. You also mentioned their bodies anybody can go to Dr. 90210. STOP PLAYIN WITH YOURSELF #245 you know you need to stop hating on your peeps.

Just an example of a DUMB ignorant generalisation.

Why would black woman be angry about a shallow statement from a scrub who desires women weaker than him??? He can’t even sit at the white man’s dinner table with Becky. LMFAOOOO Keep dreaming. Keep dreaming!

Black men who say things like this about black women have an inferiority complex. As some of you have already said, he can’t measure up to sisters’ standards (sexually or otherwise I would wager), so he has to put them down to make himself feel superior. I for one am proud to be a beautiful, strong, college-educated black woman, and if you can’t be as strong or stronger in every aspect of life, I don’t have time for you. Little boys like this one give black men a bad rap, because he is feeding into what White America already believes - that black men prefer white women. To all of my sisters out there, I would like to say that we are better off without this clown and his kind. Jeez, no wonder so many black women are finding their “Something New.”

#252 No disrepect sistah white or black but men are men it doesn’t matter they all screw up. So let’s not generalize and say that the only good men are white men because trust there are some white women at this very moment mad ass a mu*** that their man is doing some sneaky ish.

Yah, this dude is just plain ignant! Do YOU Polow, ain’t no sisters want your sorry ass anyways! He has made comments about how he doesn’t care about how the hip hop community views/respects him as well. Seems like this may be a relfection of self-hate perhaps? Oh well, you’re little one-hit-wonder-makin ass won’t last long hun! Get the attention while u still can!

Well aren’t you just a lucky lil’ ass then being born a man and all… If only I could grown a lil’ dick n’balls and have a fondness for white women. Then I’d be just like you! Not… Sit down man because you’re losing fans by the second.

WISHIN I don’t know where you are from but where i’m at white men are checking hard REAL HARD, and that doesn’t mean I’m checking back. But I noticed in both of your comments that there’s alot of self hate and your point of view is just a litttle jaded GO REBOOT AND DO A SELF CHECK BOO. But yet you say I’m DUMN AND IGNORANT hmmmm.

WISHIN….New England baby luv you need to move because they are making you hate yourself and that’s not good. FIND HELP FAST LOVE YOURSELF SIS LOVE YOURSELF.

I’m tired of these black men making money off of black women and turn around and spit on us. I will not buy anything he did or collaborated on if he feels that way. We give them a start and make them rich and as soon as they get money they reject the black women that made them and use the money we give them to give to white women. Let the white women he love so much buy his stuff and make him rich if were not good enough and not “raised right”. Just like taye diggs, getting into black roles geared toward black women and all along he was about the white lady. I bet if white actors came out and dissed white women, white women would not support them. Black women need to stop letting black men use us and get away with degrading our character and reputation like this with such racist comments. We should be as appauled by his statements and any other black man just as if he was a Don Imus.

Did you know the rate of inter-racial marriages (White men with black women) is at a all time high (based on statistics). So are we to say why white men are leaning towards black women???? No this just means times are changing and we should not see color but who makes us happy!

As you can tell, I am so passionate about this topic:

#253 — yes, I believe what I’m saying. Why else would i say it. I have heard it too many times from black guys that they love white girls (openly or in secret). In the supermarket, last week I heard this black girls (teenagers) talking about this boy they remembered from elementary school and how he dates nothing but white girls now. I felt for bad for them — one sounded so sad. I once liked this boy who was from Jersey and when he found out I liked him, he told a friend that he hates when black girls like him. He’s mixed (black papa, white mama) but he looks black. He was the type of guy I pictured myself with yet he hates when black women like him! Of course, he was after my Italian roommate! And, too, I once dated a Nigerian who told me he’d never marry black because he is used to the white girl’s hair and its fruity scent and their body and their vagina (yes, he said this). He said he dated blacks just to pass the time and that life is too short to marry black women. Yet, he did say he’d date a West Indian gal … go figure.

I hate how black women console themselves by saying black men only date white women because they are weak and blah blah blah. That’s a lie! Black men who say this are just trying to rationalize their preference! It’s a preference. That is what it is. They prefer the white women over black. They prefer her body, her hair, her skin, her style of dressing. When a black man dates a white woman, it’s like being let into some different, new kind of club, a new world. The white girl’s world: how their hair smells, the way they talk, their vibe is just really different and fun. That’s what the pro black dude said: he said white girls are more fun.

I like white girls too AND I think I’m about to go into a white girl phase for a little while…

probably has a small penis…………..

Both of you ladie’s raise valid points and that is excellent because it shows that maybe we aren’t ignorant and ghetto as some people would have everyone believe. #262 I feel you on so many levels, and #263 all that really matters IS who makes us happy that is so true.

I’m on the same opinion of # 26, don’t put us black women down, because we are tired of tying to pull the brothers, no they want somebody that will be submissive to them but half of their butts are broke as *****. I don’t know who this person is but I Know i would not support him in any thing he does. He needs to take a look at Michaiel Strahan- that broad took him for mostly all his money. 15 mil plus monthly child support. now he wants to date a black woman. That he’ll be playing ball until he can’t walk anymore because she got him for 15mil plus child support every month. i think she was a waitress, not worth anything but now she is banked. Hear we are very educated with high paying jobs and you want us to be submissive to you. I wonder how he feels about his mother, sister, grandmothers etc.

On that note, I was looking at some football show and they were showing the kansas C ity Chiefs, can you believe the majority of the wives are white. I was wondering if this was white wives club.

OK WISHIN CALM DOWN LIL ONE YOUR GETTING JUST A LITTLE AMPED UP. GIVE ME THE DEFINITION OF MORE FUN WISHIN WHAT IS MORE FUN HMM I WONDER WHAT YOUR ANSWER WILL BE.

my comments are not with # 26 but with # 75

FIRST IT WAS THE BLACK MAN PEOPLE FEARED NOW IT’S THE BLACK WOMEN IT’S THE SAME CYCLE OF HATE ALL OVER AGAIN WHAT SHALL BECOME OF THE FUTURE FOR BLACK AMERICA.

That’s right #262,

Let’s not talk about it be about it! Look at these grps animal rights, gay rights they stand for what they believe in and we should too.. when you have a lot of men trying to shadow their behavior like look at the stars wives/girlfriends who was not involved with these women prior to them becoming rich and famous. These women have long hair, light eyes and so light she can pass for a white woman and just enough tan so that they will be accepted in the black community! Prime example look at “Tyrese fiancée” You think she would have giving him the time of day, a poor dark skinned bother from the hood? Now look at rich and famous black men wives prior to them obtaining thier status (LL, DMX, Denzel, ) a big damn diffrence! At least Polow came out wit it up front! These other black men are just sugar coating it.

true that……

LMAO!! @ 204…i hate dat Judah fool too…lol

This guy (I don’t even know who he is - a producer maybe?) has a right to date whoever he wants. And as much as you don’t agree with him, what he speaks of is in the Bible - WIVES are called to submit to their HUSBANDS. Biblical submission does not mean being a doormat - it means letting a man be the MAN God has called him to be. God has called the MAN to be the head of his home. Unfortunately, the world has equated submission with weakness and that’s not what it’s about. It takes a STRONG WOMAN, of ANY RACE, to be submissive to her HUSBAND - to allow him to govern the affairs of the home and provide for his family, and also to support him in his decisions, and to defer to his judgement when the two of you don’t agree. In it’s very simple form, submission is making your HUSBAND feel like the king of his castle. Men, black men especially, have been degraded and demasculated in the workplace and in the world; he has a right to come home and be made to feel like a king. Submission is Godly…but baby let me tell you, when you submit, you also release yourself from a lot of the pressure and stress of having to be “The Strong Black Woman.” Even if we have a man, we sometimes act like we got balls just like he do, don’t we women? We ALWAYS have to right, don’t we? The simplest thing a woman can do for HUSBAND is let him be a man.

It’s hard for a woman to be submissive, especially black women, because we’ve been staggered with that “Strong Black Woman” syndrome. A lot of time our mothers have raised us by ourselves with out any male support, so when we get in relationships, we don’t have a really good understanding of what a relationship is supposed to be. Just go the Word of God people, it’s all in there.

Also note the word HUSBAND, NOT boyfriend, NOT friend with benefits, NOT baby daddy, not boo. Because, guess what? It takes a STRONG MAN to be a HUSBAND. So with regard to the Palow person - what he says applies YES, if he’s somebody’s HUSBAND.

What is he talking about?

Black men like him love white women because they are WHITE——she is as close as his kind can get or have a part of the person (s) or people they truely admire…. WHITE MAN OR WHITE MEN. This is the statement,thought & heart of an assimilated black man (men). It took 300 yrs. but make no mistake white men have finally captured the heart, mind & souls of many black men —– rejecting black woman ensures less black babies (especially males). BUT BLACK MEN FORGET ONE THING —– Black women left unloved will be his downfall faster than producing & raising black babies. BLACK WOMEN HAVE HELPED WITH EVERYONE ELSES MOVEMENTS OR REVOLUTIONS BUT HAS NOT HAD ONE OF OUR OWN. It is black females who has kept the hope, love & future alive for AA or black culture (with the help of good ,loving responsible black men). For example, who is there for fatherless & abandon black children, caring for elderly, ex-cons coming out of jail, housing, jobs, education,etc. for & in the black community—–majority are black women. PRESENT BLACK COMMUNITIES COULD NOT EXIST WITHOUT HARD WORKING / RESPONSIBLE BLACK WOMEN!!!!! Watch it black men you are about to lose the black cultures most vital , instrumental component & foundation to black mans’ & culture existence—BLACK WOMEN!!! I warn you with love.

Here is some more of his interview dude is crazy!

AllHipHop.com: Oh you’re funny. Alright Mr. “King of the White Girls,” you went to the not so white Morehouse College. So many people in urban music think that attending college or something like that might challenge their street credibility. What are your views on that?

Polow Da Don: I think it’s dumb. I mean, I’m from where I’m from. My parents strived for me to be better. My brother was super duper street all his life and I had the ability to look at that situation and see what I want for myself and what I don’t want for myself. Like, it’s cool to be hood now. That’s how you know you’ve been bamboozled. N****s livin’ at home when they’re 30. Our parents did not live with their parents when they were 30. That s**t is unheard of. Now you got 25 year-olds still at home, suckin’ on they momma’s titty. That’s why we got a bunch of b**** a** n****s who have no self-respect. I think it’s simple, either white people [are] geniuses or Black people [are] idiots. And don’t get mad at me, just prove me wrong. I’m just the bearer of bad news. I’m not the problem. We are the problem, as whole.

WHOA!!!!!!!!

i have lost all respect for that SOB… I shall be going through my music library, and deleting ever damn song that he produced… he is pathetic.

@247

There go those reading comprehension skills yet again, lol. I said “PERCENTAGE-WISE”. That means that if you have 5 famous black women and 4 of them are concubines, that’s a higher percentage than 15 out of 100 famous black men with white women. The simple will only see that there are 11 more famous black men with white women than there are famous black women with white men. It is what it is man. You know what the real issue is since the brother referred to the divine order. The real issue is that in the last days, the black woman will come to the understanding that she must willingly share the black man (Isa 4:1-3). This is why so many sisters are so hellbent on bending and shaping the black man into the image that she wants him to represent. It is also why the white man has empowered the black woman. He knows that the more choices that are given to the people, the more resistant they become to the divine ordinances. It’s the same way that Satan gave Eve choices and “empowerment” in the garden to overthrow Adam and the statutes of God. This is the calm the before the storm of people getting their spirits broken and being FORCED to humble themselves to the divine order in righteousness.

TO ME BLACK, WHITE, WHATEVER COLOR…

YOU HAVE TO GIVE RESPECT WHERE RESPECT IS DUE…

NOW IF YOU ARE A MAN WHO NOT DOING RIGHT BY ME THEN PLEASE YOU

DONT DESERVE MY RESPECT NOR DO YOU GET IT..

IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE TO RESPECT YOU, YOU HAVE TO UPHOLD

YOURSELF THAT WAY.

RESPECT HAS NO COLOR LINES… MAN OR WOMAN….

WE ALL KNOW THAT MAN CAME FIRST AND WE WERE MADE FROM HIM BUT

WHAT HE NEEDS TO REALIZE IS THAT WE WERE NOT SENT HERE TO SERVE

NO MAN!!!!!

MAN CRYED OUT FOR COMPANY AND HERE WE ARE.. STRONG BEAUTIFUL,

WOMAN

@278

He speaks like that because he’s the product of an environment that encourages the worship of money. He actually saw his dream materialize. What do you expect him to say? There are cats out here broke as hell and they have the same attitude that he has.

HE IS A DAMN IDIOT, ANOTHER STATEMENT OF OUT ANOTHER BLACK MAN’S MOUTH, AS A BLACK WOMAN I FEEL DISRESPECTED, HE SHOULD REALIZE HIS MOTHER IS BLACK, HIS GRANDMOTHER IS BLACK. BUT I REST MY CASE. I’M GLAD TO SAY I’M MARRIED TO A BEAUTIFUL HANDSOME BLACK BROTHA, WHO WELL DEFEATS THIS DAMN FOOL IN LOOKS AND BODYWISE!!!! BROTHA’S LIKE THAT GETS NO RESPECT AND SISTA’S YOU ALL SHOULDN’T BE SUPPORTIN HIS ASS NEITHER NOR YOU BLACK BROTHAS!!!

AND HIS BEATS ARE WHACK AS HELL, LOOK AT THE ARTISTS, RICH BOY, FERGIE..lol GIVE ME A BREAK. KEEP THEM RECYCLIZED BEATS IN THE SOUTH PUNK!!!

I must say Judah I agree with your comments on #283

i dont agree with his statement about women but his statement about black dudes living in their momma’s house at age 30 or late 20 is pathetic. Lookin good but nothing happens. Buying shoes/clothes instead of saving money to move out and be a man and not repeat the cycle of buying clothes and looking “fresh” every time the check comes in. To be honest it happens in our community and its sad you want to look good instead of using the money for the right reasons? Looking ignorant and proving the world that that’s the only thing you’re good at. keeping the stereotype of the black men alive. Black Women getting higher education that you and bashing them because you’re insecure. Im fly , this is why im h0t, lol see you in your 40’s and looking dumb with four kids with more than 1 mother..

I’ve been trying to post for about an hour now. But Concreteloop is acting up again…testing…

You see, to be completely real, I don’t think the whole “women MUST submit to their husbands” thing applies anymore. At least, not in the way it used to. Back in the day (and I supposed we can go waaaaay back in the day to when that particular passage in the bible was written), it was particular practice that the man was the bread winner, and the woman took care of the home. It wasn’t socially expected that married woman worked. Simply, they didn’t. Their job was minding the home and taking care of the children. The men were the breadwinners.

In that structure, women submitting to their husbands made sense, because if the man was the breadwinner–and he was–he controlled the money. And, if he controlled the money, he controlled the home, the food, the clothing, the livelihood of his family. The wife ran the home for her husband but her husband OWNED the home. So, naturally, the final decisions would be his. In a strange way not practical today, this was a symbiotic relationship that worked when you had two willing people (i.e. the man that wanted a family, and a woman who wanted a man to take care of her and a family to raise…and not a career of own).

Fast forward to today, and it’s a COMPLETELY different dynamic. This is the era where the working woman is common. Woman aren’t comfortable just sitting around the house watching the kids anymore. They want to be out there, getting an education and having a career, too. What’s socially acceptable has changed, as nowadays it’s pretty much expected that women–married or not–work. But the old mindset hasn’t really changed, and not too many people like to admit that that’s where a lot of stress derides from in relationships. Back in the day, when the men came home from a long day’s work, they were pretty allowed to sit around and relax while the wife made sure they were comfortable, had dinner on the table, etc. The wife didn’t have a job, her job was the home, so in a sense, seeing to his after-work needs was part of her job.

Wha…cut my post in half this time…

I tried posting the rest of what I wrote (which is shorter), but no go…

umm…#245 Where do you live in Connecticut? because I don’t see that much to often..I’m not attacking you I just want to know ..I lived in CT my whole life and interracial dating is not common here ( not saying anything is wrong with that )..by the way your post is disgusting… I hope your joking!

that was just so sterotyping on his part. people are always going to be different no matter if they are black or white.

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I know I’ll be catchin hell for this but:

The reaction of a majority of women in here is a partial justification of dudes belief. There is a difference between being strong, and being difficult. So don’t get mad at the ignorance that he displays, cause you only make him right.

yea #248 I really would love to know where your from in CT, because the way your describing the culture here is really pissing me off..you said white guys here wouldn’t want to be seen with black women?…your a fucking liar..get a life..lmao

ummm… EXCUSE HIM???!!

@ 294 I was going to say that but I didn’t have the energy for the fire earlier. Even though I think dude has some issues , many of the comments here are adding to his point.

Amen #74! And for #70 who said that alot of black women have attitudes have u stopped to considered the reasons why a Black woman maybe a lil upset? BEcuz of the stupid shit people like Polow say and the stereotypes and preceptions people like u keep on perpetuating. It is frustrating when u are a black woman, like myself, and all that is stigmatized about u is negativity, based solely on my race. When people see me they have already classified me as an angry black women without saying two words to me. It saddens me to the fullest extent that someone like Polow, who I’m sure had, and I emphasize “HAD” a lot of support from many black women, but no longer has, says these things about women of his own race. Preference is preference, but don’t sit up and try to put white women on a pedastal ( i say that very lightly becuz that was not a compliment, and many white women are offended by that comment as well).

It is so true, so many black guys believe this is how it should be, women should be submissive. WHY? cuz u believe u have blessed us women, white or blackkwith a big D*ck? Oh Please! it aint that serious. How bout u try to stimulate my mind for a change? yea didnt think so. I am a strong black woman and i dont care if every black man in the world wouldnt want to date me becuz of my “questioning,” its not the end of the world. There are other options out there. Sum1 will appreciate my opinion. But remember this, when yo black ass is in deep shit, who u gon be lookin to to have yo back? this time it wont be becky……. now chew on that Miss Polow WRoNG!

I agree with his statement. Black women need to learn how to be more submissive. You can still be strong and be your own woman, but stop challenging the black man. When a black woman date a white man, she will put up with a lot more crap from him, because he is white.

I”m just glad he is putting his ignorance out there….I’m out here dating and I need to know exactly who the hell to stay away from.
Anybody who will talk about the group of women from whom he comes has no common sense. If black women aren’t shit, you aren’t shit because you are their son.

The black woman is the be all end all because she was first.