BIG BROCKNESS,

Thank you for your kind words! That really shows how submissive you are, lol. Keep being you, I know you will find the one just for you… Have a great day!

nawt every black girl is like that i mean i like to carter to mah man make them feel spiecial and all

On some whole honesty shi8.I’m not submitting to my slide,boyfriends,baby daddy,dude I just chill with .women that have any faith in an form of a God will submit to their husbands cut and dry .when I was married I submitted to my husband meaning he was the head of my household .the father man provider and to be honest it never said submitt to the sukka you happen to be fuggin at the time .At first I was angry but I put it like this i bet this don what eva the hell don’t know what submission ment when he said this crap.I’m sure some sisters right now can rag on black men but had we not had some sort of a submissive trait then we still would not be sticking in with our black man threw the centuries example they let the white man rape us, they still do everytime I watch a video(now we get paid so this i guess is the step up) and see some sister shaking her ass or getting fame from being the best dick sucker,having kids and not taking care of them (QQ )having friends you know with kids that are not taking care of them(it takes a village).
I could say I date a white man and still am and he takes better care of my black sons then their black father .but I wont because I still have a black father that I respect even after he failed his responsibilities, as far as being a father to his children and a husband to his wife and man in life in general .
In saying that.growing up with out my father i still and always will respect my black man just so happened that a white man was the one that held me down but i will never say that a black man is weak.I would say just as well as some of us sisters have some issues so do our brothers and we can’t help where we come from we can change it .
And does this guy relize that if he has a baby with a white woman and it’s a female it will be a black female.Raise your daughters be fathers stop making black women be mothers fathers and grandfathers.had some of us had that maybe we would know how to submit but untill then we will still be ready for anything to be mommy ,daddy & grand daddy.
Having to be the man all this fuc*ing time has made my neck and eyes roll (saw some one say that hot shi8)and for me to be agressive and take no shi8 from anyone.My bad we have had to be women and men all these years.

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POLOW says that he was teased for being a college dude? Well he NEVER finished at MOREHOUSE!!! So what college degree does you actually hold?

Take not that he was also in a group named “JIM CROW”! this brother has issues.
For the people saying “its his right to say or feel that way”…we understand but it is also our right to discuss this issue and make sure he doesnt influence someone with his ignorance!
I personally think he sold his sould to the devil..Hes not that good of a producer….I personally think hes closeted. He doesnt seem to like women in general

I didnt mean to say DOES YOU!! i was thinking between do you and does he……Sorry I had to clarify that after questioning someones education…LOL

I agree with Big Brockness and the dude that said black women are the least feminine of all the other races/cultures. Because of the black women’s attitude, people automatically think I’m going to be that way — all attitude and loud and cursing a dude out in public. I am so far from that. I am quiet to the point of being mute. All I do is read, but I have guys (white, spanish, and black) saying that they didn’t come up to me at first thinking I’d be all loud and neck-twisting and gum popping. The attitude thing is a big problem. If your man asks for a sandwich and is dead-tired, get it. If he is near the fridge and can get it himself, but asks you THEN I can see making a big fuss. But I see these women at football games yelling at their boyfriends and husbands for no reason. It’s on wonder when the white woman walks by, these men turn their hands. It’s called “not making such a big fucking fuss over everything! Gee!” I stopped to tie my shoe in the grocery store. I was off to the side not even in the way and here comes this woman saying: move out the fucking way! Dammmmmmmmmmmmn. I wasn’t even in the way! I’m 5 foot 95 lbs! She was the one taking up all the room! Gee, so when black men go to white women, I am not mad; I just understand. My aunts are all single and divorced because of their loud, MANLY ways! Gosh!

I’m taking any song he produced OFF my MP3 player RIGHT NOW!!!!! Nonsense.

# 275 I agree with you. My aunt and uncle have been married 30 years and she has done what the bible said in the way of being a submissive wife, but she in no way is weak. She is a strong black woman, but also makes sure that she allows her husband be the head of the household.

I don’t agree with his comment because I know people who have dated outside of their race and the person is in no way submissive. My cousin recently broke up with his “white” girlfriend because she treated him like s#@t, and he told me that he had to let her go because she didn’t know how to treat a good man because she displayed some of the activities that he claims black women do and white women don’t.

I do however agree with #200 all to many times some black women bypass the 9-5 man for the thug or the baller. I have a 9-5 blue collar man, and he treats me like a queen. We are getting married next spring and I could not ask for a better man to be my husband. A lot of women period go looking for something that has been in front of them all along. He is just one man and he is entitled to his opinion, but I don’t believe every man holds his opinion to be true. Therefore if that is what he likes then Iove it, but I am not about to be upset or lose sleep over 1 man’s opinion.

why u all mad him for? he said what he beleives,some of shit that he said are true still…he just shouldn’t judge all black girls..cuz they aint the same…but still leave the homey alone..he didn’t lie..he said what he had to say…he aint tryna get wit any of ya’all…and your comments aint gonna change his view on white or black girls…

um…i c o boy in the gym all the time….and he is very much “how you doin’”. so let him have his fun pretending…but he dont like girls/women..black or white

Anyone who disagrees with this is ignorant??? He is just a dumb ass, excuse my ignorance but I definitely don’t agree with his bullshit! I really don’t believe in this bullshit about white women are submissive and blah-blah-blah, cause they aren’t all submissive and all black women aren’t out spoken and dramatic like people would like to believe. Although as a black woman, me, myself personally I have a mouth and I don’t take shit from my man… I love him but it’s a two way street, he can’t disrespect me and I can’t disrepect him. There isn’t no bullshit about him being the BOSS or me having to serve him… or any other crap! It’s a partnership. We’re both bosses! And as for his idiotic comment about man, woman, child… whatever kind of trash he was saying… James Brown said it best, “it’s a man world but it wouldn’t be nothing without a woman or a girl!” He needs to stick to producing and any woman white or black or any other race that would wanna have a idiot like that for a man is welcome to him! Sometimes I can’t believe half the crap people have the nerves to say!!! :@

Oh, hell no! I am white and we are not taught to serve our men. Although there is nothing wrong with interracial relationships, sometimes the types of white women who routinely seek after black guys feel rejected by their own and thus have low self-esteem. A submissive personality is one by-product of that. so his experience with white women is somewhat filtered. usually the white women who regularly date black guys are not representative of whites as a whole. But black guys tend to judge all white women solely by the ones who will date them, as these are the main ones they have experience with. This is a lopsided view. This is also why black men tend to think white women are all sluts. It’s just that usually the lone white girls in black clubs usually are. You know why? I am not a slut, and every time I go in an all black club, every black guy is coming at me wrong, grabbing on me, and being disrespectful, thinking I’m another white slut that they can treat that way, while I do not see them treating the black girls the same way. Subsequently, I LEAVE. So the only white girls who remain are sluts, which taints everyone’s view. The white girls who stay and put up with this do so because they might be sluts. Slutlike behavior can be another offshoot of having low self-esteem, which usually characterizes the types of white girls who feel rejected by their own and thus seek to identify with black, since being white didn’t work out for them. See how skewed a black guy’s perception of white women can be, when his exposure to them is so filtered and limited? Also, in a mixed club, some semi-racist white girls will get drunk and act all slutty with black guys because they don’t see them as being part of their world anyway, so they feel they have nothing to lose by showing their ass and making a fool of themselves. They get drunk, dance on the brothers like a ho, go home with them, then go back to their insulated white life as if it didn’t happen because that guy wasn’t a part of the “real” world to them. It’s wrong, but it’s how they think. I”m not racist, and I don’t discriminate with dating. But I was not brought up to be timid or submissive, and neither are most white women. It’s only the screwed up ones who would date someone like Polow the Don. Now he is judging all white women by the screwed-up types that would actually lower themselves to date him.

I love that explanation Drew! You are speaking on it! I am a black woman and I totally agree with every word u said. I also believe that the low self esteem runs deep with these types of black men too. I mean they have subconciously held on to that slave menatlity that teaches them to devalue themselves …..I mean why else would these “black” men have such a negative view of the same black woman that reared them and also a negative attitude about the “easiness” of white women? Your perspective is very interesting and it would be awesome if you could get that TRUE word out to these shiftless negroes that seem to think lowly of everyone…including themselves….great comment Drew!! U go girl!

I LOVE BLACK WOMEN…AND RESPECT ALL WOMEN

Why these (N-WORD) get a little dough in their pocket and start thinking that a white woman is a prize possession. He ignorant for saying what he said. He need to study his history and “Break The Chains Of Psychological Slavery”. Besides what comes out his mouth, his production is all to the good.

51.
I agree with you 110%

btw. Most Educated Black women dont date FOOLS like this anyway….so why waste your time typing??

i got 2 letters..OJ
good that get the crazy ignorant brothers out the way

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That’s ok, Baby - we don’t want you, either! Just don’t be callin’ us when you get locked up, and that white girl won’t come bail yo’ a$$ out….

He is so right about these gold diggin women they dont even know yo last name yet an they all about can you give me money take me shopping give me give give me hell an then when you look at there name on there cellphone or there myspace it says ms. independent thats a WTF moment!!!

Black men - please don’t dismiss us. Black women work very hard to be whatever we need to be in our situations. We are Mother/Father to our sons/daughters. Wife/mother/lover/friend/counselor/supporter to our men. We become what we need to be, even when it isn’t easy. How is that not a plus? When the day comes when you need a woman to step up and be strong for/with you, will you appreciate us then?

FOOL!
no one`s gonna be your SLAVE.
POLOW DON WALLA whatever!

POLOW THA PUSSY!!!! YOU SOUND LIKE A DAMN FOOL!!!!! YOU ARE THE WEAKEST MAN TO UTTER THOSE STUPID WORDS!!!!! WHO DATES THIS CLOWN!!!!!!!!!!!

you know what that’s an you know what for you…he need to be slapped in his d@mn mouth by a black women.

i think he is just ignorant. this is ridiculous. black women have respect however knowing that generally our intuition is usually our best asset working at its fullest and men doing things to set that intuition off of course you’re going to believe that all we do is question

find yourself and stay true to yourself so that when you have a woman she doesn’t have to result to her intuition to worry about you

you would come to her and talk to her

relationships are partnerships

thats tru in a few cases but it shouldn’t matter who you like to date if you think that the person is right for you….if your happy and your other half is happy then nobodys opinion should matter…

His mama black so what he think about her?

Wtf???
Man whatever His loss..
And a White Girl can Have His D list crusty Lookin ass…

Why are some of you pleading with black men not to ditch black women? If they want to go let their asses go.

I refuse to be emotionally and mentally scarred by some little boy that calls himself a man, but the only thing he has to offer is some lame beats and his dick. Please get over yourself. I respect real men who kno where they are going, and know that respect is earned not given playa. It does not work that way. I don’t cling to men who view me as less than. I don’t deal with men who have their own interpretation of what submissive is so that it works in their favor. I don’t deal with men who cannot handle my blackness as well as his own. I do not deal with men who are going nowhere in life, or decide he is only good for spreading his seed causing more fatherless children to rum rampant in the community.

I do love and respect black men who respect me, because he understands where he comes from and where his present is leading his future. I love black men who love me, because he loves himself unconditionally and refuses to apologize for being black and a man. I love black men who are highly intelligent, strong, and are warriors. I love black men who will take a stand against the negativity. I love black men who are MAN ENOUGH to stay around to raise their children, because they understand responsibility. I love black black men who know their history and refuse to listen to the lies many have been told before. I love my conscious brothers who never back down from their beliefs. I have no time for fakes, cry babies, and the weak. Please stay in your lane and let the real men over, thank you.

This clown should be ashame of his self….the quote on quote divine order he talking about is just an excuse for men to treat women in ways as if they were less of a person off course black women are going to be hard to deal with they’ve been through a lot they been holding down the black community for years since slavery…..Black men should respect the black women and up lift no matter what because they are the back bone for our community and the same for the women its a community effort so please promote black love no matter what cause at the end of the day our culture is slow dieing peace and love………

Yall realize he’s sayin this mess to keep his name in the media to get a rise out of people…The quote mentioning: “And anyone who has a problem with this statement is ignorant. Just look at the divine order; it goes man, woman, child.” There is a statue in Egpyt of a Pharaoh with his wife standing behind him; which is signifying that SHE as his wife is standing behind him not in a state of submission but as her husbads BACKBONE. This negro has his information twisted bad.

this dude is a complete dummy but he does make one good point. There is a big difference between how the two women (black and white) were raised. White women may have been taught by their mothers to respect men, cook dinner for him when he COMES HOME, take care of the house THAT HE WORKS FOR, and don’t question because HE ACTUALLY MARRIED YOU AND ISN’T WHORING AROUND THE DAMN NEIGHBORHOOD vs a black woman whose man AIN’T SHYT, DON’T WORK, WON’T MARRY HER, KNOCKS HER UP WITH KIDS EVERY YEAR, AND CALLS HER A BITCH every chance he gets. not saying that white men aren’t triflin like the either, cuz they are, but it seems to be an overwhelming number of single, black mothers walking around vs white women. so with this being said, of course a black mother is gonna raise her daughter to not be so submissive to a man who doesn’ respect you, teach her to question why the hell her man is not coming home, and get pissed when you gave a man 10 yrs of your life and he still doesn’t respect you enough to marry you even though you popped out his babies. Black men want to do their shyt and not expect to be called on it. so if a white woman is easier to deal with because you ain’t shyt and you want to run all over her and she not say anything, then do you loser. if i were white, i’d be very offended by someone thinking im a damn doormat.

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yea i agree with what he said cause its true im a brotha thats dated white women and thet do cater hell i loved it they treated me like the king i was an i didint have to ask for some reason they always seem to keep me in mind

u saying were ignorant if we comment on this but you ingorant for saying this shit you own moms is black and u saying this on my behave i can say the thing about your character.

also white women (some) act the same fucking way so what are you saying

i agree with the girl who disagree and is white he need to get it together cause no women will be his damn slave

how we ingorant for not agreeing everyone raise differently not depending on race stuiped ass ingornant bitch

one word= WOW.

This is true…

“Don’t Knock the brotha for speakin the truth, black women always think their the shit,he’s right. white women are not has egotistical, and just cuz he black, what rule that says he has to give a fuck about black women, we are ”individuals”. black women are always calling brothas out for dating white women, its a reason why brothers in high positions date outside of the race, black women need self evaluation”

Dear black women, this is PRECISELY why we need to leave black men’s dirty, triffling, baby abandoning, standin’ on the corner all day drinking 40’s and terrorizing/verbally attacking black women, can’t keep a 9-5, won’t finish high school, live with their mother’s or take advantage of you- black asses alone! Let this be a wake up call. BLACK MEN DO NOT HAVE YOUR BACK. GIVE UP THE DREAM! BLACK LOVE IS DEAD.

These same retarded ass hoodlums that start with the “black women don’t let me approach them white women do” are the ones that yell “Hey baby come heya! lemme holla atchaaa, u got a big ass!” And practically shuck jive and tapdance when a white woman walks by! I’ve SEEN it. You’d think these dirty motherfuckers never even learned grammar in school, until a white woman passes and all of a sudden “Good evening Madame, I am obliged to request your phone number in a prompt fashion”. LOL. It’s not that black women are less submissive. It’s that black men think we DESERVE to be treated worse than all other women and they treat us accordingly.

Black men are PATHETIC, and black women are cursed with them. What other race of women have to deal with all the stuff black men do? NONE. They can blame us for “not being submissive”, but what about when they ABANDON their submissive and defenseless children? What about when they CRUSH the hopes of their submissive mothers who asked them not to hang with the bad crowd and get arrested for the millionth time? What about when they underperformed in school with submissive teachers?

They are not real men. What they are is “monkey see monkey do” and OBSESSED with wanting to be white men. How many of your sorry ass brethren imitate Scarface, the Mafia, etc., White men like white women, that’s why black men like them. Don’t let them trick you into thinking that a woman who financially supports some of your sorry brethren, because they have 4840258904 criminal records is NOT submissive. Don’t let them tell you that the woman who will have children by a man that won’t marry them or who is financially successful (like white women do) is not submissive. Black women are the MOST taken advantage of women in the world. THAT’s submissive! White women on the other hand are fighting aggressively, have created their own feminist movement to get equal wages and pay. While we’re trying to “help a brotha” financially by letting him live with us (submissive), white women are marrying wealthy men intentionally and taking 90% of a man’s check in alimony AND the house! How is THAT submissive?

Don’t let them tell you about “loyalty”, when sistas are STILL holding on to the image of “black love” and the 12 or so good black men out there, when most white women are aggressive enough to go AFTER any man they want regardless of race. QUIT falling for black men’s SCAMS and LIES. Clearly, they don’t care about themselves or their offspring or their mothers grief when they turn to a life of crime and getting quick money, cars white men tell them to get, clothes with white men’s names on the, etc. Black men are like “little boy in papa shoes” to white men. Trying to BE them, but don’t have the mental maturity to go to school and get what white men have. Anything white men have that they can get, they get it illegally by selling drugs or “aspiring” to be a basketball player so white men can write their check. The only thing they have access to that the white men have IS white women. Malcolm predicted this in his autobiography, when he said that as soon as dances desegregated black men made bee-lines faster than public transportation to ask white women to dance. They were knocking over black women to do so EVEN then! Now, just LOOK at them practically beaming with joy and grinning to get a white woman that looks Ricki Lake if she swallowed the titanic!

LEAVE THEM ALONE. SISTAS. WE DESERVE BETTER!