LOL @ #150! STOP IT!!!!

This shouldn’t be a time of trying to analyze people’s lives or marriages because we’re all screwed up in one way or another. Instead of gossipping about something we don’t fully know about, pray for them.

#150.
Khinje
Friday, August 24, 2007
IS #109 A DUDE OR CHICK?????

I was wondering the same thing but I didn’t want to take it there. Then She/He had the nerve to try and insult me.

Amy and Blake are headed to Sid and Nancy status. Google Sid Vicious and Nancy Spungen…..you’ll see what I mean…
Too many of y’all watchin’ “Snapped” but it is addictive LOL!!! What about the mother in Texas that had her daughter’s boyfriend killed?
As for Juaunita Bynum it’s truly sad that a women who uplifted and empowered other women would be caught up in a situation like this. We need to realize that as another poster said all that glitters ain’t gold. And yes women do attract abusers and they do show signs early on. The rule is this “If a man hits you once and you don’t leave, he’ll do so again and with less provocation.”

that is disgusting that people will do this bc physical fighting doesn’t solve anything just escalates the problems..with the evangelist story thats horrible that instead of reconciling he beat her up…who cares if he is a pastor or not or anything..the fact is to abuse your wife/husband is plain ole not right

lol yall need to leave 109 alone..another DRAG QUEEN in CL..lol

I was wondering that too with women saying they’re getting moist… from another woman’s lips? (Hmmm) Anything goes these days… I guess.

ONLY CRAZY WOMEN WATCH SNAPPED FOR IDEAS
CRAZY ASS BLK WOMEN

These are two sad situation all you can do is put them in your prayers..

I SWARE WHEN ONE PERSON GETS A COMPLIMENT ON HERE, PPL START HATIN HARD!, REAL TALK

#75 is crazy LMAO!! Amy Crackhouse that is a good one! and yeah that sow Snapped be off the hook! also Intervention on A&E is very interesting!

#154.MissTee2U, Even if a man says ” I’m gonna knock you upside your head” any kind of physical threat made verbally, watch out.

LMAOOOOOOOO@158, YA DAMN SKIPPY!

LMAOOOOO!! Yep, hatin’ hard. But I ain’t it even watching it. Done Know

^^ Y’all two kinda look alike… seeing the pics together.

#165, you silly.

lol I watch SNAPPED bc its too crazy how these women are murdering their husbands and they think they can get away with it…WELL SOME OF THEM ACTUALLY DO

@165 YEP THE 2 DRAG QUEENS OF CL…LOL….IM JUST PLAYING

BUT THEY REALLY DO LOOK ALIKE AND THATS not A COMPLIMENT..JUST MAKING IT CLEAR

I have read through some of this comments, and quite frankly most of them are a trip…

Amy Whinehouse is Bishop Weeks in reverse and evrybody thinks it’s a joke.. But because one person is pastor and he gets crucified… Now before you jump down my throat I DONOT CONDONE EITHER OF THE TWO INCIDENTS….. They are both wrong.. However, both parties involved are human.. And They make mistakes.. Bishop Weeks make a mistake (A costly one but a mistake nontheless)… It is a poor shame that some of the comments claim that it was a prophcy that he wasn’t the one …. Who was the person that gave it ?? And why is that even brought up ??s I really hope and pray they (Amy and Bishop and spouses) get help and that their marraige works out.. I am a believer in marriage and I believe if you want your marraige to work you have to at it….. Bishop is a man of God who made a mistake… But first he is a man … Also … to the person who asked wern’t there signs… Let’s be honest.. If he beat her before we would have know about it…. already… look at how fast this got out…. Any way Y’all be blessed !

@165, IT WILL BE OKAY WHEN U CLICK ON DA LINK AND VIEW ALLLL MY PICS B4 U START TALKIN SHYT 2 ME WIT YA SIMPLE AZZ……..

#170, Nikki. The only reason this got out is because it was in public (the beating). So please don’t think it hasn’t happened before and yes there are signs in an abusive man whether you want to see them or not is another story.

Amy beat his ass!! YES!! That’s what girls need to do! Amy ain’t nobodys b&*$h! She did get alittle scuffed up but she got his ass! YES Amy!

@ 163 MY POINT EXACTLY
@ 167 EXACTLY YOU WANNA LEARN HOW TO GET AWAY WITH IT

Spousal abuse, NOT GOOD. I think that Amy Whinehouse and her husband need counseling. He needs angry management, I don’t know who hit who first but abuse of any kind in a relationship is not good. First of all no one gets along perfectly, everyone has disagreements, between boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, it is when it turns physical when you come to blows that this is not a good thing. I don’t believe than any man should hit a female, and if she hit him first she should not have hit him. Argue and walk off. Juanita Bynum I’m so glad that she went through with pressing charges in these situations most victims are to scared to go through with pressing charges so happy to see she is strong.

I love Juanita….I know she can handle hers
but somebody help Amy whino..she is on the road to destruction…
I know shes on drugs..heroin,crack…

QUOTING:
julieisadime
Friday, August 24, 2007
Lula Pear, I don’t think anyone on this post said that she was a bad person ( I could be wrong). I beg to differ, everything we do is a reflection on us, and every situation we are in we put ourselves there

REPLY:
I didn’t read all the posts, honestly. I usually just skim these topics, spot something interesting and then reply. That’s why I seem to be vomiting reply after reply. So, I don’t know what was said, really. But, I started to feel the undertow of dissing her religion (as it is my own) and I wanted to cut it short. I figured saying she was “a good person” would be going outside the realms of religion and people would do the same, address the woman and not the Pentecostal woman. It was a means to an end, I often fail with that here.

I don’t need to see a million pictures for me to see that y’all look alike on those avatars up there. From those two pics, y’all look alike. I wasn’t trying to insult anyone because y’all aren’t bad looking people. I was just making an observation. Ease up.

KEEP PUCCI RIDIN, SINCE I MAKE UR DAY……….

LOL, DONT COMPARE ME TO DAT BROAD, YALL CANT KNOCK MY HUSTLE BUT U CAN DIE TRYIN………..NI99A IM OUT CHEA……….

Lula Pear, I get what you are saying.

get-me-bodied is one of those girls that everything nice BUT HER FACE..lol..

LOL @ 182

Amy + Hubby = Crackheads 4 Life

WTF? First of all, why is Amy Crackhouse even being reported on CL? She’s a crazy ass rockstar. I don’t feel bad for her because it’s all her fault. That’s what happenes when you put yourself in these types of situtations. Aint nobody to blame but yourself. She does have a nice and unique voice but she is crazy. This crazy ass bitch even spit on her fans at a show and they cussed her ass off the stage!

I’m not surprised by the beatings of that “religious” man. A lot of religious people get on my damn nerves because they as fake as can be. FAKE! FAKE! FAKE! Everything from children out of wed lock, to sex before marriage, drugs, violence, everything. That’s exactly why I keep my religious beliefs to myself and don’t go to church.

Well time for my two cents (for anyone who cares).:

I remember reading one of her books and she was giving her spill on dating and marriage. And she was basically saying by a certain date (I cant remember which date, and I dont wont to make something up, but I think it was like by the 5th date or something) marriage should be in the near future. Now, I know what she was getting at. She’s saying that believers shouldn’t wait too long to marry, lest they fall into fornication. And I get that. I also get the fact that some people meet, date, and marry VERY soon and stay together forever. But at the same time, this is the real world, and you have got to get to know people. We know the Lord ain’t down with fornication but His Word says that God HATES divorce. So, IMO it’s best to take your time (within reason), and try to abstain as much as possible, but give yourself enough time to make a solid decision on who you are joining yourself with for life.

So, Im not saying that’s what happened with her and her hubby because I dont keep up with them, but maybe it would’nt have hurt to hold off a little while. But I really am trippin off her hubby. I do not in any way condone men beating women, but real talk, things happen, and someone may get grabbed or tussled every now and then. But for him to throw her down to the ground and kick her like a man on the street is just to much for me. I mean I know even though he’s a man of God, he’s still human. But there was nothing humane about that, believer or not.

And Angel I hate you for saying “The Round Beat Up” lol

@185 I agree all of these mega churches getting rich off other people why the poor stay poor. Jesus never took things to make himself rich he was only concerned about being spiritually rich and doing the will of his father. It’s a sad situation because no one should resort to domestic violence under any circumstances. But I agree FAKE FAKE FAKE…. The twelve disciples were all men…… Religion these days is a scheme a get rich scheme….
A million dollar four hour wedding right!!!!

#186, Cmeez. I haven’t read any of her books, but I get what she is trying to say but in the same token in these days and age the fact is, it takes time to really get to know someone. Please, the fifth date? I don’t thing so, a really good actor can have your ass fooled with the quickness. I always believed that we have a gift from God that tells us inside when something is not right but most of us choose to ignore it or are in denial, with that said I hope she takes the time out to reflect on the things that put her in this situation and asks God to guide her towards healing.

CRACKHEADS!

#187 and #185, I so agree. Once I was helping a friend out who had family visiting and I gave them a ride to see another family member and they were talking about their church which is one of those big churches out here and they were talking about how their pastor just bought a $80000.00 Hummer and they were just going on and on about their church. Then when we dropped them off they ask to borrow some money because the husband lost his job and they didn’t have any food in their house. So you mean to tell me the pastor is driving around in a Hummer and they have church members with no food in their home? Something just ain’t right. I’m pretty sure he could have bought a least expensive car and put some of that money to better use.

@188

Exactly. Now don’t quote me on “5th date” but it was some date that was in the single digits. I was like, I dont know about that girl. And you are right a good actor can fool you. I know I’ve been tricked many a times! You could tell by her ministry and books that were geared towards dating/marriage and women, that she really desired a husband. Im not mad at that but you still have to be careful and not let that desire blind you into making a big mistake.

@ 149 (Dee)

Why do you believe she looks down on women who aren’t married? Im not doubting you or agreeing, Im just curious.

ALL THIS DV AINT A STRONG LOOK…

I CAN’T STAND BYNUM ALL SHE DO IS HOLLER, BUT I DO FEEL FOR HER, I REMEMBER SEEIN HER WEDDING ON THE CHRISTIAN CHANNEL, REAL REDICULOUS!

Amy is hella crazy. U got to love her! Damn everyone fightin…

@190 exactly my point…. there concern should be helping thy neighbor not thy self. Jesus was a humble man. what is humble about a million dollar wedding on TV for 4 hours

@191

I believe this is where most women make their mistakes, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be married but most women either feel pressure or feel incomplete without a man. Women need to be patient and trust that God knows when we are ready. Women need to realize that there is nothing wrong with being single, you can’t be happy with a husband if you are not happy with yourself. That desperation will cause you to overlook the signs.

JUANITA DO BETTER BOO…THIS IS YOUR SECOND HUSBAND AND BOTH OF YOUR HUSBANDS WHIP YOUR AZZ.. LIKE CHARLIE MURRPHY SAID….WE GOT TO DO BETTER. SAD

AMY NEED TO BE LOOK UP WITH REMY….THEY ARE THE TRUE DEFINETION OF ANIMALS. I MEAN REHAB IS ONE THING BUT IN THIS SITUATION PRISON WILL BE JUST FIND. WHITE PEOPLE WE GOT TO DO BETTER LOL.

LOCKED UP

185. LUV2SPEAKHERMIND

I’m not surprised by the beatings of that “religious” man. A lot of religious people get on my damn nerves because they as fake as can be. FAKE! FAKE! FAKE! Everything from children out of wed lock, to sex before marriage, drugs, violence, everything. That’s exactly why I keep my religious beliefs to myself and don’t go to church.

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Though I can completely relate to what you’re saying and why you feel the way you do, I was wondering have you ever thought about attending a small church who is into soul saving and not in financial business?

Mega churches can be overwhelming sometimes because it seems like everyone is putting on a show but sweetie children out of wed lock, to sex before marriage, drugs, violence is everywhere. It’s a part of life. You should not allow others ignorance and mistakes to keep you away praising God.

I had the same attitude like you about not going to church. And I’ve never been a member of a large church either; it was medium church about 150 members…full of drama and unnecessary conduct. I stop going for three years. But I realized that I don’t go to church for other people, I go to church for God because he is pleases him that I attended and to also hear something that would make me a better person.

I’m not saying you are wrong (trust me, I can relate) and if I offended you in anyway I do apologize. I am just asking you possibly consider visiting a few churches. You never know…you might just enjoy the service, the people and have the same beliefs. (smile)

The problem is we ALL have this idea of how people are suppose to act and behave if they’re “saved or famous” and we are disappointed adn quick to judge when they mess up. But the truth of the matter is we all fall short and make mistakes. I just hope and pray that we all have patience and understanding for one another. I can’t look down on one because I don’t have a heaven or a hell to put someone in. Plus I am far from perfect myself. We all talk about what we would do if we were in their shoes but you never know what you may do in a situation until you’ve experienced it. I just hope we are all learning this situation and pray that Amy, Juanita and their husbands make better choices and decisions in the future.

^^^ very well said^^^ I do agreee about the smaller churches.

@198 that was well said . and as someone else said we must go though i did not know he was married when they met married with a daughter she had to be revealed but my heart still go out to her .women we let alot of stuff happen to us we have the power to change the world we must not lay with married men it causes a ripple effect guard your bodies and mind so we can get our race back i think black people can do anything if we put our mind to it.

LMAO at Amy Winehouse, her boyfriend, the ass-whoopin’ they took, and black people’s infatuation with her….

Ok Amy is too brandnew in the game to be doin the fool already. She’s not a seasoned vet therefore, she should be playing the young, innocent game before she can do the Britney & Lindsey.

Taye Diggs

# 198 I CO-SIGN & SO WELL SAID…THAT WAS THE OPRAH QUOTE OF THE DAY!!! WAY TO GET YA CYBER WITNESS ON!!!

I can’t really get down on dogging the mega churches because the pastors can’t MAKE anyone join. They do so on their own. They all start small. What pastor is going to turn down people once they get a certain amount of members? I agree that a lof of these famous pastors are all about the dough but these members shouldn’t be paying their grocery, or prescription medicine money to these people. I’m sure God doesn’t want us to starve or take sick while our pastors are driving in Maybachs and Bentleys. That just isn’t sensible. Just because they pass the plate around 10 times don’t mean you have to empty your wallet. Give the amount you feel free to give. That’s why they call it the “free will” offering.

I will be praying for all leaders.

Momma said knock you out.!!!!!!!

We have to make sure that we keep them in prayer. Instead of “PREYING ON THEM” about the situation make sure that we PRAY FOR THEM. All marriages have their ups and downs. Bishop Weeks made a large mistake concerning the prophetess. It can be forgiven by God. Now, We all know that both of them can proclaim a good WORD from God. The devil is just attacking them because they have much influence in this nation, But his plan shall not proceed.

I hate how Amy has gone nuts over the las few months. She was better annoying us in the old days complaining that Soap Opera ‘Emmerdale’ was ruining her image by playing her record in the cafe.

Now she on crack, forgot about her long term love, married him, and got into bad stuff!

Life is full of ups and downs and we as people have 2 realize that things happen and we are not perfect. We all need 2 pray and ask God 2 restore the people. If anyone of us knows no sin lets be the first 2 cast the first stone. So lets pray. God bless us all

This situation with Juanita Bynum and her husband has nothing to do with religion - it has to do with a man. A man with faults — yes, he may be a “bishop” or a preacher, but HE AIN’T JESUS. None of these preachers are… that’s why you can never get caught up in the messenger, just get the message. And to be sure, go to the source yourself.

Your faith is yours, your relationship with GOD is yours. And you have a direct line. The preachers, bishops, prophets, pastors and churches can’t get you into heaven or keep you out. That’s between you and GOD.

Heard about Juanita yesterday…thats sad, hope she can recover and move on

Amy needs help! I dnt even kno wat to say…

THE BLOOD OF JESUS enuff said

I THINK I SEE WHERE YOU COMIN FROM # 205 BUT TITHING IS NOT AN OPTION IT IS A REQUIREMENT! PAYING TITHES IS A PART OF A CHRISTIAN’S DUTY (MALACHI 3:10). I THINK ANYONE WHO IS A CHRISTIAN CAN’T CHOOSE PARTS OF THE BIBLE THEY WANT TO BELIEVE OR FOLLOW, IT’S ALL OR NOTHING. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE LEADER OF THE CHURCH GETTING PAID FOR PREACHING THE WORD (1 CORINTHIANS 9: 7-12). WHAT BECOMES DAMNING IS WHEN THE MESSAGE GETS SKEWED TO JUST “NAME IT & CLAIM IT,” OR THE “MONEY COMETH TO ME NOW” MINISTRIES THAT HAVE FOLKS “BLESSING” THE PASTOR W/ MONEY FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF BEING “BLESSED” BACK W/ MONEY. NOW WE HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE SERVING GOD JUST TO RECIEVE THINGS.

# 198 AMEN

Damn. The world is just full of sadness. Kind of makes me not want to get out of bed in the morning. (You are blessed, You are blessed)

I pray for Juanita Bynum. I hope she gets better physically and mentally. I think she needs some kind of spritiual wake up call. If this happened to you twice, its obvisiously something is wrong with you. By all means, It is not her fault she that her husband put her hands on her. He is a coward and probably one of satan’s angel’s in pastor’s clothing.

She had to see some kind of warning sign though. There is always a red flag that tells you to be aware and cautious. I hope one day she finds love and peace with herself and spirit and hopefully if the time is right, a man who truly loves her and is a man of God. Right now is the time to heal and reflect.

Who really cares…..They’re obviously sick people…..

@ 139 I don’t put any religious higher-end people like pastors over anyone else as far as character but yet I figure they probably should act in a higher standard like the cops if you’re the people trying to keep order and telling people how they should live or what is the right way to live. And make no mistake my gender does not get in the way of my common sense or my general sense of right and wrong. It’s wrong to just be flat out attacking and beating on anyone especially to help your ego. I’ve seen ENOUGH of women beating on their men and vice versa. I for one would be mad but probably not as surprised because female on male abuse isn’t as common or at least as reported.

I agree with most of what 185 says but I have my own philosophical views.

To whomever said at his age just beating her up isn’t something that came out of nowhere…..it’s gradual steps that usually lead to abuse like this not just everything is fine and dandy for a few years and then POW he just beats the crap out of you.

I hope she heals well emotionally and physically and hit him hard….in the wallet.

I’m somewhat a fan of Amy’s but she has so many issues and i’ve read things from he did that to her to yeah she was cutting herself and he tried to stop it………if she was beating on him and trying to cut him….he needs to leave her too……if that is what happened i’m sure he wants to help her but it surely don’t look like it’s safe.

HOW YA’LL GONNA COMPARE GET ME BODIED TO THAT UGLY GOODAS DI FEM ?,,,,,,AND TO ANSWER THE QUESTION , # 109 IS NOT HUMAN, ITS A TROLL, I PERSONALLY THINK THAT GET ME BODIED IS PRETTY FOR A BROWN SKIN GIRL! HATERS FALL BACK! CUZ MOST OFF YA’LL LOOK LIKE INDIA ARIE!

HOW YA’LL GONNA COMPARE GET ME BODIED TO THAT UGLY GOODAS DI FEM ?,,,,,,AND TO ANSWER THE QUESTION , # 109 IS NOT HUMAN, ITS A TROLL, I PERSONALLY THINK THAT GET ME BODIED IS PRETTY FOR A BROWN SKIN GIRL! HATERS FALL BACK! CUZ MOST OFF YA’LL LOOK LIKE INDIA ARIE!

Amy said she kicks her mans azz when she’s high. She said it like she was bragging. She’s clearly the agressor and will never get better because she doesn’t wan’t to. She wants people to keep feeling sorry for her ‘tortured’ soul so she can keep doing stupid shit and never have to deal with the hard stuff like getting help. Her husband should be rescued from her but she’d probably be mad as hell she didn’t have him around to bitch slap every time she gets an itch coz very few other men would take that BS without leaving or knocking her the fuck out. Look at those superficial two scratches she’s got and tell me that a man (even a noodle like her hubby) wouldn’t have inflicted more damage if he really was kicking her azz. She feeds off the drama is why she couldn’t wait to show us all her bruises. Same way her anorexic ass displays herself 24/7.N’way hope she doesn’t OD.

Juanita has no bizness being a preacher. I just read some of her life history and she needs a shrink. I cannot believe people follow this chick. Her ‘Mr weeks’ is finished. What a punk. Money really changes folks and Juanita is about to make a bucket load from this incident. Folks really need to get her some help because it is fucked up for someone to keep looking for abusers to marry after her 5 dates or whatever the requirement is. LMAO @ Mr Weeks tho. You just know he’s somewhere in someones kitchen surrounded by his most trusted inner circle….seated in a corner on da floor, under the sink crying. *i really need to stop laughing at people in pain* The hell was he thinking? Choke, beat down and kick? He could have killed her.
I hope he gets some real help too. This thing is going to get worse for him before it gets better.

Nikki i agree with you MR WEEKS=AMY : AMY=MR WEEKS

I feel sorry for Amy. She does have alot of talent but you know what they say genius goes hand in hand with madness. Look at L. Hill, M. Jackson and everybody who has made a mark in history. They are able to achieve so much but at the same time they are screwed as hell.

I hate men who beat women but the truth is we can say the brave things we will do(behind our computers) if we are beaten but when it actually happens it is totally different. You will be amazed at how many women who seem to have it together are abused and how innocent the men look. I wish Juanita finds strength to leave the man and find peace.

I had a buddy who became a pimp. He’d been in and out of jail most of his youth. The next thing I know, he’s a preacher, and I said to myself, “Self, he’s still a pimp!” I am not condemning all of them, but let me tell you folks, here in L.A., there are a whole bunch of them that ain’t living right. The thing is, many people in their congregations know it, and still follow these clowns. I just don’t get it.

Shag, you’re right. In many cases preaching is the new hustle. There is a lot of money to be made, and most hustlers can con, connive and fool just about anybody, except GOD.

Think about it, if you want access to lots of money, lots of women [and men], and a free pass on just about anything, what else would you do?

The devil is busy…. Folk need to really know who is playing the music before they start to dance.

LMAO@shag: “self, he’s still a pimp!”
agreed.

and cosign #201. zzz on amy and ?love for implying that she was better than lauryn hill.

who are these crazy looking white people?