So wife her already Mekhi, damn! She’s good enough to carry your seed but not good enough to wear your ring? I stay confused on this subject.

Looking forward to reading 300+ post about Mehki dating a non black woman….

HE NEED TO MARRY HER.IF I WAS HER I WOULDN’T STAND 4 DAT’….BUT B***** FORGET THEIR SELF WORTH 4 SOME DOLLAR SIGNS.

mmmm no comment … Have to see how this 1 plays out.

I don’t think she is “non-black” she pretty much looks like she is black/asian. Anyways, who cares? As long as he takes care of his son from his ex and not treat this next child better , let him do his thang.

who cares if Mekhi not dating a black women…he’s a dog anyway. i wouldn’t marry him..naw just give me the benefits cause from his track record we wouldn’t last anyway.

I Luv Rhi’s style and hair!

what happened w/malinda? i’m lost…

Mehki’s girlfriend looks busted. He needs to get ol girl some braces or put her on his dental plan. Rihanna looks great. I see people in her crew even have the same hair cut. Long time since we’ve seen Mr. Gettin JiggyWit It. Definitely love Will Smith he’s a hollywood class act!

What did he do to Malinda?

No, Bill. That’s where you’re wrong. No one gives 2 sh*ts about Mekhi or his girl. Contrary to what you and other CL men may think, not all black women focus our attention on brothers who choose to date outside their race.
Don’t confuse this with the Polow post wherein spiteful words were used against black women.

That girl aint black, she’s FILIPINO.

He was calling Malinda out in the Honey mag about how she be looking busted after she had a baby or some shit-basically, that whole women are supposed to be on it at ALL TIMES for their man. I can’t remember all the details, but it was after they broke up, if that makes it better.

I love RiRi.

Damn Mehki’s girl looks old as hell in that pic…maybe its the pregnancy.

Will Smith raking in more millions…get it Will.

I’m not feeling Ri-Ri’s dress but she looks pretty overall. I see even her friends are rocking the new, new cut.

NOOOOOOOOOOO @ Mekhi Phifer’s girlfriend!! EWWW! All of my fantasies of him just washed away! LOL! This is the first time I heard that he dogged out Malinda so boooo to him….

Rihanna and her friends hair look nice and sleek….

I agree with #11…Polow is a fyckin idiot as my gyrl Saaphyri would say “I feel sad for him” lol.

mehki should have stayed with malinda (looked better) in my opinion but you know how that is.

Mekki’s girl has a jacked up mouth area–sorta like Puffy.
Will looks heavier…….

Honey Buzzing: Folks everywhere are still buzzing about the June/July issue of Honey Magazine that features Soul Food star Malinda Williams on the cover. In the cover story, written by Features Editor Denene Millner, Malinda talks about her ex-husband, and father of her son, Mekhi Phifer’s infidelity, which ultimately led to the couple’s divorce.

Mekhi was given the opportunity to respond, and here are some of the highlights (or low points) from what the E.R. actor had to say: I was 23 when she got pregnant. You want to do the right thing — what society deems as being the right thing… She wanted a structured family lifestyle that she was used to growing up. The women are dominant matriarchs in her family and the men are subversive, subservient and subdued. Me? I come from a family of men — grown-ass men handling their business.

“It’s easy for a woman to say, ‘he cheated on me and did this and that.’ Look, I’m a very sexual person — I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At night after champagne, I want to make love. … Women have to let men be men, not walk over them. If you are dealing with a yellow-bellied, no-backbone muthaf***a, then okay… I’m a mover and a shaker — a king.

I didn’t want to be home anymore. We had nothing to talk about because she didn’t know the people I knew. Any argument that we had, 90 percent of the time, I didn’t know what the f*ck she was talking about. There was just tension in the house and she couldn’t be sympathetic. I didn’t ask her to cook, clean, nothing. I had cleaning ladies, all that sh*t. But if you want your man to be there with you, you have to be there with him, too — a stimulus for a muthaf***a. … For most of the relationship, I was the mover and shaker, she was home complaining…

totally agree with #5 she looks mixed….anyway, mehki looks happy and thats all that matters.

i’m glad to see rihanna walking better….her dress is cute and love the short haircut look.

Mr. Phifer lost his credibility with me a LOOOOONNNNGGGG time ago with that interview. Pretty much dogged her, dogged her family, said the men in her family were subservient and the women tried to wear the pants in the family. And if I remember correctly, wasn’t he complaining cause he couldn’t get a BJ when he wanted one from her and she just walked around in sweatpants and rollers? I remember thinking his son with Melinda will be so proud when he gets a little older and reads the article. He’s never been one of my favorite actors but that article right there made him dead to me…

thats one brother that i’m definitely not mad at us losing.

Malinda > that chick. Anyways, Rihanna is everywhere! She was just here in London like 2 days ago.

i’m a let her shoes slide because her foot is still messed up….

@BIll–lmao..I think CL has grown.

About the post:
Mehki- I wouldn’t marry him or have his child either. I remember that article from Honey I use to like him until I read that article. My hubby and I also had some words on it, sometimes you just want to BE that doesn’t mean that you don’t want to look good for your man, it just means that on that day you don’t want to do your hair, makeup, get dressed, you just want to BE.

Rihanna- did she break her foot or sprained it? I still think that it’s funny that she bumped into a chair or something and broke her foot. But you have Beyonce who fell down stairs and got back up with a few stratches and crackhead Amy who ran street down the street from her hubby without getting hit. It’s funny in an evil way, not way ha-ha but funny dang…

i actually have no words about mekhi — who cares.

Mehki’s girlfriend looks old! Melinda was MUCH prettier, and they made the cutest couple! Rhianna and the girl next to her looks cute! I would have never thought to put on gym shoes with the dress, but it looks kinda cute!

I think Mekhi got with her because of the “rebound.” She be gone before no time.But either his girl white, black, who cares she still human.

Thank You for posting the article!! Booooo @ Mekhi

actually she could full Asian from one of the Southeast Asian countries( Cambodian, Thai, Laos, Filo, Indo, etc). Her features doesn’t automatically say mix to me.

How can ya’ll be mad at what was said in the interview??? That shows the ages on this website.

Are job as women is to be a help-mate to our men. If yo man want to have sex, and you not on your period, open your legs up. Why??? Because if you won’t do some broad will be more than happy to do it.

Our job isn’t to walk over our men and our place isn’t to be the head of household when you have a man, not some boy but a man…. Most of these women getting they assed kicked are women, Juanita Bynum, that thought they was running thangs and then the man couldn’t take it and beat that ass.

Nobody should be getting walked on in a relationship. Relationships are about a common goal that both people have and the willingness to achieve that goal. Being able to boss your man around doesn’t make you a woman; what makes you a woman is being there when the world is beating up on him and you can sit there and hold him. Being a man doesn’t mean that you belittle your women, but be that comfort when the cramps is kicking in and you’re there to remind her that she’s still beautiful to you.

Most people got this relationship thang all wrong. If you gotta argue with each other day in and day out it ain’t worth it. If you have different interests and friends, etc; it gone work. If you or he wanna have sex and the other don’t; it ain’t gone work. If you can’t put aside who rights and wrong; then it’s best to be single.

As a women; to me; he was speaking real truth…

Oh boy what a downgrade. Pregnant or not, this chick has nothing on Malinda.

Im on Rihanna Overkill….Im so tired of see her…damn

shes better looking than taye diggs wife who looks like a ghost.

@ #26_
Rihanna broke her toe so its difference from Bee && Amy
but still that hasnt stopped Rihanna from performin cuz she did all her shows from a chair

Sometimes we as women forget the headship arrangement instituted by God. The man is the head of the household we are to follow his lead. The women should be a compliment to the man not contentious.
God has not changed and neither has his requirements. Woman should allow the man to take the lead and support him this makes for a happier marriage. A lot of woman like to challenge there man, the end result you will me by yourself a man like to feel like a man and not like he is in combat but has a wife who supports him.

@ Dimples Delight I agree with most of your comments.

pardon my mistake “BE”

LMAO!

THE BOBS ARE SO HOT-RIHANNA AND HER FRIEND’S HAIR LOOKS SO CUTE!

I READ COMMENTS THAT MEKHI MADE ABOUT MALINDA AND SINCE THEN I LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HIM-

IF YOU ASK ME HE LOOKS LIKE A DRUNK

Co-sign with Bill. You feel the heat too, man? If this shit don’t blow the hell up (especially after reading that article on Mekhi/Malinda) it’ll be a miracle, lol Mekhi gettin his Wesley on, lol

Why wasn’t Rihanna’s foot hurt when she performed at a recent event? Plus that woman she’s with looks like Serena on a diet.

Will is getting chunky.

@ #1 Ms_Mac, just because a female gets pregnant does not mean you have to get married, thats why a lot of them don’t work because they get married for the wrong reasons. And you’re right, I guess she is good enough to carry his seed cuz a lot of women are baby mama material and not wifey material, its sad but its true. I wouldn’t won’t a dude to wife me just because I’m pregnant, wife me becasue you truly do love me and would want to spend the rest of your life with me.

Damn he is somewhere eating good

MEHKI: It’s not even about the woman being “non-black” as another poster mentioned (they all do it in Hollywood anyway..”dipping outside of the race”) She can have him though, & his kid. Who really gives a damn? After the way he dogged Melinda who the hell needs him!

WILL SMITH: Looking fine as hell! WOW. Good for WILL SMITH making a new movie. Keep that bread on the table. That is a real man right there!

RIHANNA: I have nothing to say honestly about her. So let me move onto another post!!

@36- I meant it as in Beyonce and Amy were in more perilous situations and came out with a few stratches whereas Rihanna bumped into a chair and broke her foot/toe. I’m not saying that she’s isn’t working it though because I’ve seen the proof in all the pictures CL post of her.

Because basically what you’re saying is that God says women are INFERIOR to men, PART of a man, a man’s possession. Anyway you cut it, it’s brainwashed garbage just like all other sexist religions, especially the Muslim one.
You religious extremists are the reason this whole planet is at war with eachother AND the reason a total idiot like Bush is running the country.
Religion does not equal spirituality or conscience. Your post proves that.

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Love knows no color but I’m not a fan of his. Will will always be my boo.

Obviously, they were not a good match. Period. Both of them should have kept the reasons to themselves. They have disclosed only what each wanted to, to make they came out on top, I’m pretty sure there is more to the story on both sides. He states “I was 23 when she got pregnant” it kills me how men say that like the women did it all by themselves. They both should have took the time out to know these things about each other before they got married or “she” got pregnant. Let’s just hope they both have learned from their mistakes.

will and rhianna looks good

I AM SORRY, BUT THAT SHRIMP FRIED RICE BISH IS UGLY, I HAVE SEEN BETTER LOOKIN WOMEN OF HER RACE, HE NEEDS TO UPGRADE HER, BUT I KNOW THAT CHILD IS GONNA HAVE A BEAUTIFIL MIX! TO BE SHINY, WILL STILL LOOKS GOOD, RIHANNA LOOKS FABOLOUS, I LOVE HER DRESS!

kmniles said:

Co-sign with Bill. You feel the heat too, man? If this shit don’t blow the hell up (especially after reading that article on Mekhi/Malinda) it’ll be a miracle, lol Mekhi gettin his Wesley on, lol

Bill Said:

My Sisters lost their friggin minds on that Don Polow Post yesterday…
I understand where they are coming from though….
I have daughters and I want ALL my girls to be married strong Black Men !

Who cares about Rihanna, I wish she would win an award for walking around in a damn cast. She ran into a chair I guess and needs to sit the f**k down, Rihanna is wack as hell on stage with two working feet so I would hate to see what she does with one working foot. She needs to win a award for the biggest gimmick. That’s about it.

I remember when the whole Malinda thing blew up and he said in some magazine that Malinda stopped trying to make herself attractive to him. Like she lost her sexy or something, but on her worse day Malinda looks 300% better than that chick he has on his arm now!

Mallato said:

Sometimes we as women forget the headship arrangement instituted by God. The man is the head of the household we are to follow his lead. The women should be a compliment to the man not contentious.
God has not changed and neither has his requirements. Woman should allow the man to take the lead and support him this makes for a happier marriage. A lot of woman like to challenge there man, the end result you will me by yourself a man like to feel like a man and not like he is in combat but has a wife who supports him.

Bill Said:
I cosign 101%

I see Mehki found out the secret!

I don’t think that he dogged her…he just called her out/ stated his side of the story just the same way she point things out about him. In life we learn from our mistake and it seems like they both did….they have moved on and are happy with whom ever is in their life…

oh damn I spoke to soon…

#52..was all that necessary…”BUT THAT SHRIMP FRIED RICE BISH IS UGLY”, how about she’s an just ugly.

@ 47 I never said that women are inferior to men. I said that the woman should allow the man to take the lead….. Your comment is ignorant.. How did you get that from my comments??????? You just want to argue and I will not participate in your shenanigans. Have the most wonderful day!

@ Get Me Bodied

Why does she have to look good to be accepted? You can’t help who you fall in love with. If you spent more time trying to be open and not bitchy, then maybe you’ll find love.

@ Bill… Thanks.

She better call Malinda Williams and get the post pregnancy scoop because according to Mheki’s interview in essence he expects hos woman to cook, clean and make love the day after she gives birth.

Anyway F Mheki he couldn’t handle the strength of a sister (Melinda Williams) so he went and got himself a subservient Asian. ANother brother suffering from fear of a black woman

@D SAN DID I SAY SHE SHOULDN’T BE ACCEPTED? UHHHHHH NO! I HAVE MY OPINION AND I’M STICKIN TO IT. AND DON’T TELL ME ABOUT LOVE BABY! I AM SOOOO IN LOVE AND MY MAN JUST SENT ME A TEXT AND IT READS, “HE COULDN’T HAVE MADE YOU A MORE PERFECT WOMAN FOR ME. I’LL LOVE U FOREVER. HAVE A GOOD DAY AT WORK BABY”, NI99A WAT, U DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME! ERRYONE AINT WHAT THEY SEEM!

@ 47 A foolish woman lacks respect for God’s arrangement of headship. She does not hesitate to speak ill of her husband. Not being thrifty, she squanders the household’s hard-earned resources. She also wastes time. As a result, the house is not well kept, and the children suffer physically and spiritually. Yes, the foolish one tears down her household.

Hmmm i wonder if he is the blink item from yesterday….lol

Earth to #60, earth to mf’in #60!
WTF does take the lead mean? Do you mean pay all the mf bills? Make the house rules? Dictate how often you have sex? Cook the mf food? Buy the groceries?
Plan your schedule. Or the whole 9 yards? No, seriously. What does LEAD mean in your opinion?
Judah and Bill, the CL extremist police you’re free to back this fool’s extreme comments up.
You tell me I just want to argue, when in fact I’m disputing your brainwashed ideology.
I feel sorry for girls like you. When your “leader” of a man steps off on you for someone less than you, you will see that man is just that–MAN.
And YOU have a BLESSED day. I’m done.

sorry i mean blind item

@ 47 . A wise woman takes an active part in the spiritual and practical education of her children. She works hard for the good of the household, making the home a pleasant and comfortable place for the family. Her style of management is marked by prudence and economy. A truly wise woman contributes to the prosperity and stability of her household.

I almost said awwww naw at the non-black gf but then my thing is she’s not pretty or well not like Malinda but I’m still in lurv with Mekhi so lol. Hmmm so she’s pregnant? So this is going to be his second?

@DADZ–wowow…hahaha.

This is going to get interesting, I wonder how many racial slurs and related insults are going to come out because the girl is Asian. Not that people may think she’s ugly or her teeth/mouth is jack-up but just for being Asian.

Dang, I tell Bill that I don’t agree with him that CL seems to have grown..but then I’m proven wrong.

COME ON NOW RHIANNA…………….YOUR DAMN FOOT SHOULD BE HEALED BY NOW! GTFOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@67 No what i mean by taking the lead is “Leading by example” Respect, Love, Filedlety , communication, support and the spirtual needs of the family.

If a man needs a women to make him feel like a man he has problems. You people need to understand that people’s life experiences makes them who they are. If two people really love each other they are willing to work on it. If a man is not stepping up and being a man, you damn right the women has no other chioce but to step up. All that sounds good but this is the real world and sometimes it just does not work out that way. Not to tell all of my business but I come from a family with a history of no good men, so I am very independent. I have learned that a women need to be able to take care of herself and or children if the man is not around or decides to leave, I am this way through life experience, yes I believe that a man should take the lead but in my experience you will be up shit’s creek without a paddle sometimes. I have been proposed to three times in my lifetime but I knew these particular men wanted just what you guys are speaking of, not saying that I want to run everything but men need to be able to accept certain women the way they are and understand their strength and where it comes from. I know I’m going to here it about this next statement but, I’d rather be single.

Damn, I didn’t mean to ramble.

@ 47 Thanks for showing your age…… The lips of a wise person guard, or protect, him, adding to his sense of well-being. The Scriptures state: “There exists the one speaking thoughtlessly as with the stabs of a sword, but the tongue of the wise ones is a healing.” (Proverbs 12:18) The words of a wise person are not rash or cutting. His heart meditates so as to answer. (Proverbs 15:28) His well-thought-out speech is healing—it encourages the depressed souls and refreshes the downtrodden. Rather than irritating others, his lips promote peace and calmness.

This is homework for you!!!!!!