So wife her already Mekhi, damn! She’s good enough to carry your seed but not good enough to wear your ring? I stay confused on this subject.

Looking forward to reading 300+ post about Mehki dating a non black woman….

HE NEED TO MARRY HER.IF I WAS HER I WOULDN’T STAND 4 DAT’….BUT B***** FORGET THEIR SELF WORTH 4 SOME DOLLAR SIGNS.

mmmm no comment … Have to see how this 1 plays out.

I don’t think she is “non-black” she pretty much looks like she is black/asian. Anyways, who cares? As long as he takes care of his son from his ex and not treat this next child better , let him do his thang.

who cares if Mekhi not dating a black women…he’s a dog anyway. i wouldn’t marry him..naw just give me the benefits cause from his track record we wouldn’t last anyway.

I Luv Rhi’s style and hair!

what happened w/malinda? i’m lost…

Mehki’s girlfriend looks busted. He needs to get ol girl some braces or put her on his dental plan. Rihanna looks great. I see people in her crew even have the same hair cut. Long time since we’ve seen Mr. Gettin JiggyWit It. Definitely love Will Smith he’s a hollywood class act!

What did he do to Malinda?

No, Bill. That’s where you’re wrong. No one gives 2 sh*ts about Mekhi or his girl. Contrary to what you and other CL men may think, not all black women focus our attention on brothers who choose to date outside their race.
Don’t confuse this with the Polow post wherein spiteful words were used against black women.

That girl aint black, she’s FILIPINO.

He was calling Malinda out in the Honey mag about how she be looking busted after she had a baby or some shit-basically, that whole women are supposed to be on it at ALL TIMES for their man. I can’t remember all the details, but it was after they broke up, if that makes it better.

I love RiRi.

Damn Mehki’s girl looks old as hell in that pic…maybe its the pregnancy.

Will Smith raking in more millions…get it Will.

I’m not feeling Ri-Ri’s dress but she looks pretty overall. I see even her friends are rocking the new, new cut.

NOOOOOOOOOOO @ Mekhi Phifer’s girlfriend!! EWWW! All of my fantasies of him just washed away! LOL! This is the first time I heard that he dogged out Malinda so boooo to him….

Rihanna and her friends hair look nice and sleek….

I agree with #11…Polow is a fyckin idiot as my gyrl Saaphyri would say “I feel sad for him” lol.

mehki should have stayed with malinda (looked better) in my opinion but you know how that is.

Mekki’s girl has a jacked up mouth area–sorta like Puffy.
Will looks heavier…….

Honey Buzzing: Folks everywhere are still buzzing about the June/July issue of Honey Magazine that features Soul Food star Malinda Williams on the cover. In the cover story, written by Features Editor Denene Millner, Malinda talks about her ex-husband, and father of her son, Mekhi Phifer’s infidelity, which ultimately led to the couple’s divorce.

Mekhi was given the opportunity to respond, and here are some of the highlights (or low points) from what the E.R. actor had to say: I was 23 when she got pregnant. You want to do the right thing — what society deems as being the right thing… She wanted a structured family lifestyle that she was used to growing up. The women are dominant matriarchs in her family and the men are subversive, subservient and subdued. Me? I come from a family of men — grown-ass men handling their business.

“It’s easy for a woman to say, ‘he cheated on me and did this and that.’ Look, I’m a very sexual person — I love to make love. In the morning, stink breath? I want to make love. At night after champagne, I want to make love. … Women have to let men be men, not walk over them. If you are dealing with a yellow-bellied, no-backbone muthaf***a, then okay… I’m a mover and a shaker — a king.

I didn’t want to be home anymore. We had nothing to talk about because she didn’t know the people I knew. Any argument that we had, 90 percent of the time, I didn’t know what the f*ck she was talking about. There was just tension in the house and she couldn’t be sympathetic. I didn’t ask her to cook, clean, nothing. I had cleaning ladies, all that sh*t. But if you want your man to be there with you, you have to be there with him, too — a stimulus for a muthaf***a. … For most of the relationship, I was the mover and shaker, she was home complaining…

totally agree with #5 she looks mixed….anyway, mehki looks happy and thats all that matters.

i’m glad to see rihanna walking better….her dress is cute and love the short haircut look.

Mr. Phifer lost his credibility with me a LOOOOONNNNGGGG time ago with that interview. Pretty much dogged her, dogged her family, said the men in her family were subservient and the women tried to wear the pants in the family. And if I remember correctly, wasn’t he complaining cause he couldn’t get a BJ when he wanted one from her and she just walked around in sweatpants and rollers? I remember thinking his son with Melinda will be so proud when he gets a little older and reads the article. He’s never been one of my favorite actors but that article right there made him dead to me…

thats one brother that i’m definitely not mad at us losing.

Malinda > that chick. Anyways, Rihanna is everywhere! She was just here in London like 2 days ago.

i’m a let her shoes slide because her foot is still messed up….

@BIll–lmao..I think CL has grown.

About the post:
Mehki- I wouldn’t marry him or have his child either. I remember that article from Honey I use to like him until I read that article. My hubby and I also had some words on it, sometimes you just want to BE that doesn’t mean that you don’t want to look good for your man, it just means that on that day you don’t want to do your hair, makeup, get dressed, you just want to BE.

Rihanna- did she break her foot or sprained it? I still think that it’s funny that she bumped into a chair or something and broke her foot. But you have Beyonce who fell down stairs and got back up with a few stratches and crackhead Amy who ran street down the street from her hubby without getting hit. It’s funny in an evil way, not way ha-ha but funny dang…

i actually have no words about mekhi — who cares.

Mehki’s girlfriend looks old! Melinda was MUCH prettier, and they made the cutest couple! Rhianna and the girl next to her looks cute! I would have never thought to put on gym shoes with the dress, but it looks kinda cute!

I think Mekhi got with her because of the “rebound.” She be gone before no time.But either his girl white, black, who cares she still human.

Thank You for posting the article!! Booooo @ Mekhi

actually she could full Asian from one of the Southeast Asian countries( Cambodian, Thai, Laos, Filo, Indo, etc). Her features doesn’t automatically say mix to me.

How can ya’ll be mad at what was said in the interview??? That shows the ages on this website.

Are job as women is to be a help-mate to our men. If yo man want to have sex, and you not on your period, open your legs up. Why??? Because if you won’t do some broad will be more than happy to do it.

Our job isn’t to walk over our men and our place isn’t to be the head of household when you have a man, not some boy but a man…. Most of these women getting they assed kicked are women, Juanita Bynum, that thought they was running thangs and then the man couldn’t take it and beat that ass.

Nobody should be getting walked on in a relationship. Relationships are about a common goal that both people have and the willingness to achieve that goal. Being able to boss your man around doesn’t make you a woman; what makes you a woman is being there when the world is beating up on him and you can sit there and hold him. Being a man doesn’t mean that you belittle your women, but be that comfort when the cramps is kicking in and you’re there to remind her that she’s still beautiful to you.

Most people got this relationship thang all wrong. If you gotta argue with each other day in and day out it ain’t worth it. If you have different interests and friends, etc; it gone work. If you or he wanna have sex and the other don’t; it ain’t gone work. If you can’t put aside who rights and wrong; then it’s best to be single.

As a women; to me; he was speaking real truth…

Oh boy what a downgrade. Pregnant or not, this chick has nothing on Malinda.

Im on Rihanna Overkill….Im so tired of see her…damn

shes better looking than taye diggs wife who looks like a ghost.

@ #26_
Rihanna broke her toe so its difference from Bee && Amy
but still that hasnt stopped Rihanna from performin cuz she did all her shows from a chair

Sometimes we as women forget the headship arrangement instituted by God. The man is the head of the household we are to follow his lead. The women should be a compliment to the man not contentious.
God has not changed and neither has his requirements. Woman should allow the man to take the lead and support him this makes for a happier marriage. A lot of woman like to challenge there man, the end result you will me by yourself a man like to feel like a man and not like he is in combat but has a wife who supports him.

@ Dimples Delight I agree with most of your comments.

pardon my mistake “BE”

LMAO!

THE BOBS ARE SO HOT-RIHANNA AND HER FRIEND’S HAIR LOOKS SO CUTE!

I READ COMMENTS THAT MEKHI MADE ABOUT MALINDA AND SINCE THEN I LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HIM-

IF YOU ASK ME HE LOOKS LIKE A DRUNK

Co-sign with Bill. You feel the heat too, man? If this shit don’t blow the hell up (especially after reading that article on Mekhi/Malinda) it’ll be a miracle, lol Mekhi gettin his Wesley on, lol

Why wasn’t Rihanna’s foot hurt when she performed at a recent event? Plus that woman she’s with looks like Serena on a diet.

Will is getting chunky.

@ #1 Ms_Mac, just because a female gets pregnant does not mean you have to get married, thats why a lot of them don’t work because they get married for the wrong reasons. And you’re right, I guess she is good enough to carry his seed cuz a lot of women are baby mama material and not wifey material, its sad but its true. I wouldn’t won’t a dude to wife me just because I’m pregnant, wife me becasue you truly do love me and would want to spend the rest of your life with me.

Damn he is somewhere eating good

MEHKI: It’s not even about the woman being “non-black” as another poster mentioned (they all do it in Hollywood anyway..”dipping outside of the race”) She can have him though, & his kid. Who really gives a damn? After the way he dogged Melinda who the hell needs him!

WILL SMITH: Looking fine as hell! WOW. Good for WILL SMITH making a new movie. Keep that bread on the table. That is a real man right there!

RIHANNA: I have nothing to say honestly about her. So let me move onto another post!!

@36- I meant it as in Beyonce and Amy were in more perilous situations and came out with a few stratches whereas Rihanna bumped into a chair and broke her foot/toe. I’m not saying that she’s isn’t working it though because I’ve seen the proof in all the pictures CL post of her.

Because basically what you’re saying is that God says women are INFERIOR to men, PART of a man, a man’s possession. Anyway you cut it, it’s brainwashed garbage just like all other sexist religions, especially the Muslim one.
You religious extremists are the reason this whole planet is at war with eachother AND the reason a total idiot like Bush is running the country.
Religion does not equal spirituality or conscience. Your post proves that.

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Love knows no color but I’m not a fan of his. Will will always be my boo.

Obviously, they were not a good match. Period. Both of them should have kept the reasons to themselves. They have disclosed only what each wanted to, to make they came out on top, I’m pretty sure there is more to the story on both sides. He states “I was 23 when she got pregnant” it kills me how men say that like the women did it all by themselves. They both should have took the time out to know these things about each other before they got married or “she” got pregnant. Let’s just hope they both have learned from their mistakes.

will and rhianna looks good

I AM SORRY, BUT THAT SHRIMP FRIED RICE BISH IS UGLY, I HAVE SEEN BETTER LOOKIN WOMEN OF HER RACE, HE NEEDS TO UPGRADE HER, BUT I KNOW THAT CHILD IS GONNA HAVE A BEAUTIFIL MIX! TO BE SHINY, WILL STILL LOOKS GOOD, RIHANNA LOOKS FABOLOUS, I LOVE HER DRESS!

kmniles said:

Co-sign with Bill. You feel the heat too, man? If this shit don’t blow the hell up (especially after reading that article on Mekhi/Malinda) it’ll be a miracle, lol Mekhi gettin his Wesley on, lol

Bill Said:

My Sisters lost their friggin minds on that Don Polow Post yesterday…
I understand where they are coming from though….
I have daughters and I want ALL my girls to be married strong Black Men !

Who cares about Rihanna, I wish she would win an award for walking around in a damn cast. She ran into a chair I guess and needs to sit the f**k down, Rihanna is wack as hell on stage with two working feet so I would hate to see what she does with one working foot. She needs to win a award for the biggest gimmick. That’s about it.

I remember when the whole Malinda thing blew up and he said in some magazine that Malinda stopped trying to make herself attractive to him. Like she lost her sexy or something, but on her worse day Malinda looks 300% better than that chick he has on his arm now!

Mallato said:

Sometimes we as women forget the headship arrangement instituted by God. The man is the head of the household we are to follow his lead. The women should be a compliment to the man not contentious.
God has not changed and neither has his requirements. Woman should allow the man to take the lead and support him this makes for a happier marriage. A lot of woman like to challenge there man, the end result you will me by yourself a man like to feel like a man and not like he is in combat but has a wife who supports him.

Bill Said:
I cosign 101%

I see Mehki found out the secret!

I don’t think that he dogged her…he just called her out/ stated his side of the story just the same way she point things out about him. In life we learn from our mistake and it seems like they both did….they have moved on and are happy with whom ever is in their life…

oh damn I spoke to soon…

#52..was all that necessary…”BUT THAT SHRIMP FRIED RICE BISH IS UGLY”, how about she’s an just ugly.

@ 47 I never said that women are inferior to men. I said that the woman should allow the man to take the lead….. Your comment is ignorant.. How did you get that from my comments??????? You just want to argue and I will not participate in your shenanigans. Have the most wonderful day!

@ Get Me Bodied

Why does she have to look good to be accepted? You can’t help who you fall in love with. If you spent more time trying to be open and not bitchy, then maybe you’ll find love.

@ Bill… Thanks.

She better call Malinda Williams and get the post pregnancy scoop because according to Mheki’s interview in essence he expects hos woman to cook, clean and make love the day after she gives birth.

Anyway F Mheki he couldn’t handle the strength of a sister (Melinda Williams) so he went and got himself a subservient Asian. ANother brother suffering from fear of a black woman

@D SAN DID I SAY SHE SHOULDN’T BE ACCEPTED? UHHHHHH NO! I HAVE MY OPINION AND I’M STICKIN TO IT. AND DON’T TELL ME ABOUT LOVE BABY! I AM SOOOO IN LOVE AND MY MAN JUST SENT ME A TEXT AND IT READS, “HE COULDN’T HAVE MADE YOU A MORE PERFECT WOMAN FOR ME. I’LL LOVE U FOREVER. HAVE A GOOD DAY AT WORK BABY”, NI99A WAT, U DON’T KNOW ABOUT ME! ERRYONE AINT WHAT THEY SEEM!

@ 47 A foolish woman lacks respect for God’s arrangement of headship. She does not hesitate to speak ill of her husband. Not being thrifty, she squanders the household’s hard-earned resources. She also wastes time. As a result, the house is not well kept, and the children suffer physically and spiritually. Yes, the foolish one tears down her household.

Hmmm i wonder if he is the blink item from yesterday….lol

Earth to #60, earth to mf’in #60!
WTF does take the lead mean? Do you mean pay all the mf bills? Make the house rules? Dictate how often you have sex? Cook the mf food? Buy the groceries?
Plan your schedule. Or the whole 9 yards? No, seriously. What does LEAD mean in your opinion?
Judah and Bill, the CL extremist police you’re free to back this fool’s extreme comments up.
You tell me I just want to argue, when in fact I’m disputing your brainwashed ideology.
I feel sorry for girls like you. When your “leader” of a man steps off on you for someone less than you, you will see that man is just that–MAN.
And YOU have a BLESSED day. I’m done.

sorry i mean blind item

@ 47 . A wise woman takes an active part in the spiritual and practical education of her children. She works hard for the good of the household, making the home a pleasant and comfortable place for the family. Her style of management is marked by prudence and economy. A truly wise woman contributes to the prosperity and stability of her household.

I almost said awwww naw at the non-black gf but then my thing is she’s not pretty or well not like Malinda but I’m still in lurv with Mekhi so lol. Hmmm so she’s pregnant? So this is going to be his second?

@DADZ–wowow…hahaha.

This is going to get interesting, I wonder how many racial slurs and related insults are going to come out because the girl is Asian. Not that people may think she’s ugly or her teeth/mouth is jack-up but just for being Asian.

Dang, I tell Bill that I don’t agree with him that CL seems to have grown..but then I’m proven wrong.

COME ON NOW RHIANNA…………….YOUR DAMN FOOT SHOULD BE HEALED BY NOW! GTFOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@67 No what i mean by taking the lead is “Leading by example” Respect, Love, Filedlety , communication, support and the spirtual needs of the family.

If a man needs a women to make him feel like a man he has problems. You people need to understand that people’s life experiences makes them who they are. If two people really love each other they are willing to work on it. If a man is not stepping up and being a man, you damn right the women has no other chioce but to step up. All that sounds good but this is the real world and sometimes it just does not work out that way. Not to tell all of my business but I come from a family with a history of no good men, so I am very independent. I have learned that a women need to be able to take care of herself and or children if the man is not around or decides to leave, I am this way through life experience, yes I believe that a man should take the lead but in my experience you will be up shit’s creek without a paddle sometimes. I have been proposed to three times in my lifetime but I knew these particular men wanted just what you guys are speaking of, not saying that I want to run everything but men need to be able to accept certain women the way they are and understand their strength and where it comes from. I know I’m going to here it about this next statement but, I’d rather be single.

Damn, I didn’t mean to ramble.

@ 47 Thanks for showing your age…… The lips of a wise person guard, or protect, him, adding to his sense of well-being. The Scriptures state: “There exists the one speaking thoughtlessly as with the stabs of a sword, but the tongue of the wise ones is a healing.” (Proverbs 12:18) The words of a wise person are not rash or cutting. His heart meditates so as to answer. (Proverbs 15:28) His well-thought-out speech is healing—it encourages the depressed souls and refreshes the downtrodden. Rather than irritating others, his lips promote peace and calmness.

This is homework for you!!!!!!

@ brittanymo

OK - Here’s the thing though. You want a man to marry you because he truly loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. I understand that. But why is the standard different when this same man releases his sperm inside of you to create a product that will bond the two of you for the rest of your lives? That’s the part I don’t get. Isn’t creating a baby — a lifelong committment that can never be reversed, and is more spiritually, physically, psychologically and emotionally binding and permanent — a bigger deal than just getting married for the sake of love?

I’m not suggesting that people should get married just because a woman gets pregnant. My confusion comes in when a man and a woman call themselves a couple, treat each other as a couple, make babies like a couple, and then refuse to be brave enough to solidify the relationship and create a committed environment to bring the baby into. If you ask me, it’s really just an easy cop out for men when they run around proclaiming their love for the “baby momma” but not entertain taking it to the next level. It’s also pretty stupid on the part of the woman to not hold a man to a certain standard.

I know it’s pretty Utopic to have this idea, and Lord knows I am not suggesting that the perfect circumstances can come in every situation. But I guess it all comes down to the fact that I’m tired of seeing brothers who are ok with just being baby daddys and sisters who are cool with being baby mommas. The Black family is becoming extinct because women are making it too easy for men and men are becoming too complacent with their responsibilities as the head of the black household. But that’s just my take on this.

One last thing, the fact that Mekhi has adamantly stated how much he “loved sex” in that article, homegirl betta start on the Keigel excersises stat!

@ mehki-so sad so sad. that’s all i can say. thats exactly why the black family is destroyed now. i mean is he considering his child? a “king” wouldn’t talk about the mother of his child in that nature. 65% of black children grow up without a father. again so sad.

beyonce and rihanna look gorgeous!

tina knowles looks like a witch-beyonce beware ur mother is ur future! lol

@ 67 I have been married for six years and my husband has never cheated on me… so i guess me allowing him to take the lead has paid off i am happy. My husband loves and respects me and i inturn do the same…. ARE YOU MARRIED? Probably not…

Mallato said:

A foolish woman lacks respect for God’s arrangement of headship. She does not hesitate to speak ill of her husband. Not being thrifty, she squanders the household’s hard-earned resources. She also wastes time. As a result, the house is not well kept, and the children suffer physically and spiritually. Yes, the foolish one tears down her household.

Mallato said:
A wise woman takes an active part in the spiritual and practical education of her children. She works hard for the good of the household, making the home a pleasant and comfortable place for the family. Her style of management is marked by prudence and economy. A truly wise woman contributes to the prosperity and stability of her household.

Mallato
No what i mean by taking the lead is “Leading by example” Respect, Love, Filedlety , communication, support and the spirtual needs of the family.

Bill Said:
It obvious, that my dear sister Mallato is a Proverbs 31:10 women

Proverbs 31:10-31 (King James Version)
10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

14She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

16She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

18She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

24She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

26She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

27She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

28Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

30Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

#76, that was very well said.

Mallato said:

@ 67 I have been married for six years and my husband has never cheated on me… so i guess me allowing him to take the lead has paid off i am happy. My husband loves and respects me and i inturn do the same…. ARE YOU MARRIED? Probably not…

Bill Said:
I found that the more angry they are, the more lonely they are.
Just pray for her…
She’s confused.

Rhianna deserves an award for what? Because she is being photographed out and about? Um, no. I don’t think so.

Mekhi - If he is happy, whatever. Last I checked, Malinda is dating D-Nice and very happy, and her and Mekhi are back on good terms again. Mekhi’s new girlfriend may not look as good as Malinda but it’s not all about looks. Maybe they actually enjoy each others company.

@ Bill before I got married I prayed to God that I would be able to be the Capable Wife that Proverbs 31 takes about that is wisdom true wisdom… The same women that are getting upset and misinterpreting what i am saying are single….
No one said they have to follow God commandment for as for me as my household we will Serve GOD!!!!!!!

@47 I agree with you.

Do we down ever female who happens to pregnant and not married? It is not right….. You don’t know how Mahki or his girlfriend feel about marriage. Maybe it was a surprise…..There are many couples who were caught out there…… I wish them well. Damn I love Mehki.
Hey Tianna when they give her award, they have to hand Beyonce one also.
Everytime I see a post of Rhianna I think it is good that she is not going to let her injury cause her to stop working. Another professional young women. Don’t like the print of her dress but I wish her well in her career(s).

@ Bill…… I will just like Paul(Saul) he was once ignorant too!!!!!!!!! So many woman wonder why they can’t find a good man….. Are they doing what they need to set the right bait…. A good man wants a good woman as well….

Thanks #20 Bill~ Damn I didn’t know it was like that!

Lmao @ 52 ..

Dimples Delight, You are correct in what you said about showing age. How old are you? A women’s job is to HELP our mate, not lay on our backs. If your husband or is laying it down, then maybe it wouldn’t be a problem to open your legs everytime he wants it. She should have flipped the script on him and demanded he get on his knees everyday.

Since we don’t know what other issues contributed to their divorce, we should not ASSume anything. As a married, working, 30 something y/o mother of two, its not easy, so I can’t imagine having her job, not to mention that at the time, “Lim” was not as popular as “Bird”. She had it going on and I’m sure she was super busy.

Let’s look at the possibilities of the divorce:
1. Did she suspect him of cheating? If she did, maybe she didn’t want to chance catching something.

2. Was he not good in bed? He may have been good in bed. We will never know. Was he selfish in bed (only gettin his)?

3. Is he a sex addict? He mentions that he wanted it all the time, even with stinky breath. I can only speak for me. If my man is laying it down, stinky breath would matter, cause doggy style is an option… You feel me?

Summary: He married her for better or for worse. This means he should have loved her regardless of rollers in her hair, no makeup, and wearing sweat pants. So don’t be quick to judge the woman because she aint opening her legs everytime her mate snaps his fingers.

Much Love

Mehki is very arrogant. he probably could not handle Malinda because she is the type of woman who will not be disrespected. he always came across as cocky. if he is happy cool, but people like that don’t change. they just find someone who is willing to put up with it

I don’t care about him dating a non-black woman, fact is, he’s dating a NON CUTE woman.

LMAOO, I’M GLAD MY MAN LOVES GOD. IF A MAN LOVES GOD AND LIVES FOR HIM, THEN EVERYTHANG ELSE FALLS INTO PLACE. MY MAN HAS MADE ME WANNA TURN OVER TO THE LORD! HE WAS A HIP HOP MUSIC PRODUCER AND I WAS AN ASPIRING HIP HOP MODEL WHO ACTUALLY WAS GETTING WORK! NOW, ALL THAT DON’T EVEN MATTER. THIS MORNING AT 4:14 AM MY MAN WRITES” CANDI, GOD REALLY WANTS US.HE WANTS US FOR HISSELF. AND I THINK HE KNOWS HOW POWERFUL WE ARE AND HE DOESN’T WANNA TURN US OVER TO A REBUBATED MIND.” THE BIBLE SAYS IT IS EASIER FOR A CAMEL TO GO THROUGH THE EYE OF A NEEDLE THAN FOR A RICH MAN TO INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN. HE SAID I WAS HIS SOULMATE. I’M LIKE WOW, I MADE A THUG FALL IN LOVE. WELL, EX THUG NOW. HE WAS NEVA A SUCKER. GOD IS GOOD! I AM REALLY TRYING TO CHANGE MY LIFE AROUND. NOTHIN ELSE MATTERS. IT SEEM LIKE WHEN U HAVE A CALLING ON UR LIFE, THE DEVIL COMES AFTER U MORE. NOW THAT I HAVE DECIDED TO REALLY SEEK THE LORD, SATAN IS COMING FULL FORCE! I GOT A OFFER YESTERDAY TO DO A MUSIC VIDEO AND THEN TODAY ANOTHA OFFER FROM A MODELING AGENY WHILE MY MAN GOT THE MEANS TO HOOK OFF WITH PRODUCER JAZZA PHAE! REAL TALK YALL, THIS WAS OUR DREAMS. BUT GOD SHOWED UP AND SHOWED OUT! SORRY TO RAMBLE ON, I KNOW YALL DO’NT CARE BUT LADIES, IF U WANT A MAN, FIND ONE THAT LOVES GOD AND BE THAT VIRTUOUS WOMAN THE BIBLE TELLS YOU TO BE! NOW IF I CAN JUST GET DELIVERED FROM BLOGGIN, LOL……….I JUST WANTED TO SHARE MY TESTIMONY! GOD IS ABLE!

She is still a woman of color so lets stop hating on her b/c she is asian. But she is not attractive!

@mallato i’m proud of being a strong woman and don’t feel that there is a “place” for me. i’m way too young to get married but when i do, i would hope that my husband AND i will lead the family together instead of me being inferior and following his lead. though you stated that you never said women were inferior, that is what you are implying. and like someone else’s post stated, religion doesn’t equal spirituality and just b/c you are religious doesn’t mean you are in the “place” to give others advice. the person was right. bush is extremely religious but that didn’t stop him from invading a country and risking the lives of iraqis and american soldiers. what about when americans moved west b/c of “manifest destiny”. apparently they believed that god wanted them to kill native americans and steal their land. my point is that not only is religion the worst argument to use (so many hypocrisies exist in religion that it’s absolutely pointless to use it) but your beliefs are your beliefs. don’t think that b/c you are religious you have the duty of “enlightening” others or that anyone who doesn’t agree with you is living a sad existence (this goes to you to Bill since you think that other person was confused and should be prayed for)- the “are you married probably not” comment isn’t becoming of a so-called christian don’t you think?

I definitely agree at that summary Missy!!!!! He should have loved her unconditionally…

I agree @ #76 as well

damn dee dee you took the words right out of my mouth
she is NOT attractive
but maybe she is giving him what he couldnt find in malinda
people kill me how instead of trying to work out problems in their marriage they run for the border
like marriage is a fly by night committment

also for the religious heads on here
the best thing about a powerful blk man is an EQUALLY powerful blk woman by his side
in this day and age their is no damn lead we work together towards any common goal whether it be house, family, whatever
give that shit a rest already

#92, please don’t think I’m coming at you, but

I AM SORRY, BUT THAT SHRIMP FRIED RICE BISH IS UGLY, I HAVE SEEN BETTER LOOKIN WOMEN OF HER RACE

Just don’t go with what you posted on #92, just saying.

@ 94 I am very happy that you are a strong woman but a man needs a partner… It does not matter how religious a person thinks he or she is if they are not making application IE Bush there are many people who profess to be Christians or religious and praise God in one breathe and then curse in the next clearly they are not making application of what they are reading in the Bible. I apply what I read in my Bible… And you know nothing about my spiritual progress or my relationship with GOD sweetheart…..

@Mallato and btw you make no sense with your whole “you’re single b/c you haven’t found god/let your man take the lead/followed the bible” shtick b/c there are atheists who find love, satanists who find love, ppl who believe in the powers of earth who find love. you just have to love yourself in order to find love. that has nothing to do with the bible

Mallato said:

Sometimes we as women forget the headship arrangement instituted by God. The man is the head of the household we are to follow his lead. The women should be a compliment to the man not contentious.
God has not changed and neither has his requirements. Woman should allow the man to take the lead and support him this makes for a happier marriage. A lot of woman like to challenge there man, the end result you will me by yourself a man like to feel like a man and not like he is in combat but has a wife who supports him.

Bill Said:
I cosign 101%

Kick rocks with this archaic and misogynistic interpretation of what roles males and females should play in relationships. How do you know that order was instituted by God? Last time I checked, the words that supposedly came from God were interpreted by a bunch of men. You need to think about that while you’re spouting those purely sexist ideolgies. People are people; some of us have common sense while some of us could use a little more. Just because he is the male doesnt mean he knows what’s best for the relationship. I don’t believe in walking behind a man; I prefer we walk side by side. In my opinion, relationships work best with equality and reciprocity . This is not to say that there aren’t times in any relationship where one person has to step aside and allow the other person to lead. However, there is no sound reason why the leader must always be the male. I am a grown woman with the God-given ability to think for myself and am more than capable of taking part in any decision making that affects my relationship. I don’t believe that my gender dictates that I must submit to the will and whim of my partner. Moreover, if a man has to be in control and have his woman blindly follow him in order to feel like a man then he needs to do some serious soul searching because he is clearly lacking.

Mallato I agree … I think a lot of women are taking your comments the wrong way . I see exactly where you’re coming from

@ 94 JESUS CHRIST was rejected, hated and even persecuted by this world. So what could his followers expect? Well, he told them: “If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were part of the world, the world would be fond of what is its own. Now because you are no part of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, on this account the world hates you. Bear in mind the word I said to you, A slave is not greater than his master. If they have persecuted me, they will persecute you also; if they have observed my word, they will observe yours also.”—John 15:18-20.

@97 I KNOW IT DOESNT BUT U ARE NO ONE TO JUDGE ME. I AM STILL BATTLING WITH THIS GREAT DECISION I HAVE TO MAKE TO LIVE FOR GOD. I WILL NOT BE A HYPOCRITE IN THE LEAST BIT! U EITHA HOT OR COLD! I HAVE MY FAULTS AND I’M NOT PERFECT, THAT’S WHY I NEED TO STOP BLOGGIN. AND I THINK I’M DONE. GOODBYE…..

@ 96 you have your opinion and I have mine isnt’ that wonderful that “God” gave us the choice of free will….

#94, New Yorker. I like what you said in this statement.

i agree julie, i think everyone men and women need to be able to take care of themselves, finding a partner would be great but u cant sit around waitin on someone else to make you complete

@ 99 You have me confused….. Please do some research before commenting. Thanks.. I am married Happily married and I have been married for 6 years sweetie.

Get_me_bodied, I was in no way judging you, just wanted you to see what I saw and you did. I don’t think you should stop bloggin, you make good points on some og these blogs, we are all intitled to our opinions and I get to see other peoples views and sometimes learn something.
Bless

OMG True story:

The weirdest thing happened when I saw her, I got a craving for some korean food. too bad they have any around my way all they have is chinese food.

A friend of mine who knows this guy that has these swinger orgy parties told him that a counterpart said the The Smiths ARE down with the open relationship and then some.

This was back in 2000.

Black guys dating Asian women doesn’t make them Uncle Toms. Asian girls are cuter than white girls anyway. White women carry more baggage whereas Asian women are far less drama.

It’s nice to see different people OF COLOR (not whites) getting together, because society wants to divide minorities. Black-Asian love is hotter than Black-White love anyway.

@mallato read properly. it’s in quotes b/c you said that to someone else. i wasn’t saying it to you. for all that bible reading you do, you should be better at reading posts

#72 i’m feeling you mami ,lol lol i mean serisouly is her foot hurting that bad, what did she do stab it with the umbrella, the shit cant hurt that bad she’s still shopping and doing cameos

@ Tammy 101 .. THANKS….. They are I never said we should not be able to make our own decisions….. That is the problem with some of us we have way to much attitude… Listening and Reading is a good skill to acquire…

@89…the bible also says that the bed is a sacrite place and that neither a wife nor husband shall refuse it.

He clearly states that he loved sex; she clearly wasn’t giving it. When I got married…my grandmother (married 60 years) told me to never refuse my husband sex. From her lips my grandparents had a happy sex life up until the time God took him 3 years ago. She also showed me in the bible where it said that but i can’t find so if anyone knows that scripture please tell me.

Mallato said:

@ 94 JESUS CHRIST was rejected, hated and even persecuted by this world. So what could his followers expect? Well, he told them: “If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were part of the world, the world would be fond of what is its own. Now because you are no part of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, on this account the world hates you. Bear in mind the word I said to you, A slave is not greater than his master. If they have persecuted me, they will persecute you also; if they have observed my word, they will observe yours also.”—John 15:18-20.

Bill Said:

My Sister.
I like your point of view
Word to the Wise; Don’t ever feel the need to”argue” or “defend” God’s Word.
It is what it is.
Some will receive it
Others will reject it…….

Just quote the scripture, and keep it moving.
The word has the ability to “prick” a person heart.

Bill:

Yes, another sell-out ass cheese eating NEGRO choosing to NOT love a SISTA. I bet he is glad that his baby will not be as BLACK as he is. As long as Black babies are running around looking for their daddies and Black women are abandoned and left fending for themselves, I will TAKE ISSUE with irresponsible, no love of SELF (= community) having, cheese eating NEGROES.

Since you hate Black so much turn into a devil ass white man, at least he knows to BUILD with his OWN to strengthen his children/community (to dominate our Black asses).

Geesh.

Some women need to be married to feel happy and some don’t. It does not make one right and the other wrong nor one happy and the other lonely. To my experience those who state how happily married they are every five seconds are trying to convince themselves and every married couple who states ” my husband or wife has never cheated on me” they have. Just my opinion.

@109, I BEEN KNEW THAT AND I TRIED TO TELL YALL, MY MOM IS A PHOTOGRAPHER IN ATLANTA AND SOME OF HER CLIENTALE INCLUDE’S AQUAINTANCES OF THE SMITH’S. TISHA CAMPBELL’S HUSBAND IS DOWN WITH THAT AS WELL, BUT NOT TISHA……FREAKY STUFF HUH…

@ New Yorker my apologies… I never said that you have to read your Bible to find love many people find Love and we should because GOD is love….

Anitra said:
Bill:

Yes, another sell-out ass cheese eating NEGRO choosing to NOT love a SISTA. I bet he is glad that his baby will not be as BLACK as he is. As long as Black babies are running around looking for their daddies and Black women are abandoned and left fending for themselves, I will TAKE ISSUE with irresponsible, no love of SELF (= community) having, cheese eating NEGROES.

Since you hate Black so much turn into a devil ass white man, at least he knows to BUILD with his OWN to strengthen his children/community (to dominate our Black asses).

Geesh.

Bill Said:

I have no ideal what you are talking about.
I’m a married Black Man married to a Black Woman.

I always say that if I can find a man who will LEAD ME in the way that GOD said to lead your wife, then I will FOLLOW him in the way that GOD said to follow your husband. The key point here, is that the man has to do what GOD told him to do and provide for, protect, be faithful to and nurture your woman in order for the woman to serve her man. The problem is that most men who play on this principle try to abuse that authority in that they want to make all of the decisions and not have a woman question anything they do, when a good portion of what they are doing is not right. God said the man is the head, but if that man is not doing right by me, down to the letter, I’m NOT going to follow his lead. But trust, if you DO lead me in the right way, I will follow you with a smile on my face.

@ 67 & 47
The name “Christian” has often proved to be a false label. What acts of greed, conquest, slaughter in war and oppression of the masses are chargeable to so-called Christian people and nations! But how different it is with Christ’s true followers! “By this all will know that you are my disciples,” said Jesus, “if you have love among yourselves.” (John 13:35) There are, indeed, people who match that description today. Love among them means no ruthless competition, no provocation, no taking of selfish advantage of one another. Rather, it means speaking in agreement, having no divisions, being ‘united in the same mind and line of thought.’ (1 Corinthians 1:10; 13:4-8) Christians have learned the thinking of God and Christ and are guided by it. (Romans 12:1, 2; 1 Corinthians 2:16) A very important part of that thinking is that Christians must be “no part of the world.”— James 1:27.

Also I am 32 years old. Communication is also a very important part of a marriage.

God first and then communication.

If neither was satisified in bed then they should have talked about it before seeking comfort some where else.

Why r u women ao obessed with marriage. I agree with Mekhi or Puff 100% when ur an entertainer marriage means one things for these women …MEAL TICKET, so why should niggas wife any of these hoes.

@New yorker, take what Mallato is saying without all the Bible references. If I understand you correctly Mallato, you’re basically saying let a Man be a man, let him feel like he is the one taking charge and protecting his family even if you’re in the background making sure that he’s doesn’t stray and to help him steer him and home. You don’t have to always attack him or be in his face, you can get him to think in a clearer way without making him feel like he’s less of a man.

It’s not that you aren’t equal partners, but don’t you want a Man to be a man to be able to protect you and take care of you? Sure you can take care of yourself, sure you guys are techinically equal partners-financially and in what you give to each other, but let him lead or feel like he’s leading. Let him be the man of the house because you will always be there to help ensure things go smoothly.

124 you askin’ for it. They shouldn’t wife them if they don’t want to, and the women shouldn’t give up the coochie either. If women would stop handing out the ass, men would be fighting to get to the alter. Nobody is obsessed with marriage. Take it from me, men are the same, married or single. The only thing that changes is the amount of work that women have to do.

@Mallato

Your husband is very blessed sis. I notice that you didn’t say that a woman shouldn’t have her own opinion or stand up for herself. All you said was that the woman was made to compliment the man and that she should support her man and some of these harpies are coming at you. That’s why the divorce rate is 70%. Many of these sisters don’t believe that the black man and the black woman are equal. That’s a cover. They believe that the black woman is above the black man.

#124 must be a nigga

@114

I Cor 7:1-5

@ 125 you are absolutely right. That is exactly what I am saying never did I say a woman does not have an opinion or that there are not a team……. I said the man should lead by example. Man people are so Hostile… I am entitled to my opinion just like they are…..

Well just because Rihanna is photographed in places doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to also POST them on concrete. Last time I checked, this wasn’t a Rihanna fansite, it’s a gossip site for everyone so what are you trying to prove? That she’s everywhere? And….? I can see why these people are annoyed because it’s annoying and if it happens that I could care less about her or even hate her, it could be actually very irritating. Rhi is a cute chick btw, I have no issues with her.

Mehki is an idiot. To insult a chick like Malinda AND THEN hook up with this female?? I’m not hating but she is farrrr from pretty or “cute” and it doesn’t have anything to do with her race. I don’t think any black female on here should be angry or “jealous” and I don’t think anyone is. It’s 2007, things HAVE changed. It’s all about who makes who happy…..so forget me insulting Mehki in the beginning, he’s living his life and is obviously happy.

Will Smith will forever be hot…..

@130- sometimes things like what you’re saying is better learned through experience.

Hey Mehki’s girlfriend is a co-host of The best week ever on VH1 !!!!!!!! Yup she is pretty why yall hatin on the girl….lol she really looks betta without the makeup…

RiRi is cute….

Will Smith wouldn’t creep on nothing…Cause Jada would tear that ass up!!!!…lol

EXACTLY@DEE I HAVE NEVA SLEPT WITH MY BOYFRIEND YET. HE SAID HE IS GONNA WAIT AND WAIT AND WAIT. HE IS TRYNA TO WIFE ME UP, LOL……..

@ Judah… They took my comment and ran in a direction that I never took them in…. I never said a woman is supposed to be her Husband Slave but a compliment…. Let your Husband be a man!!!!!!!!!! My Husband respects my opinion and we make decisions together if his decision is better we go with his if mine is better then we go with mine.

# 134 you would be surprised how many friends I have who’s men are talking marriage because they can’t get none!

@ 124, phillydon said:
Why r u women ao obessed with marriage. I agree with Mekhi or Puff 100% when ur an entertainer marriage means one things for these women …MEAL TICKET, so why should niggas wife any of these hoes.

———————
So then why should they impregnate them? Serious question: Is making a baby with a “hoe” better than marrying a “hoe”?

I know no one cares…but I’m going to say it anyways..

Pigs are flying somewhere today because JUDAH and I may actually AGREE on Man, Woman, Marriage…or Husband, Wife, Marriage…

of course we’re not looking at race but the institution of marriage and the role of the Husband and Wife.

#67

Love the post. On every body is ONE head and in every household there must be ONE head in order for the body (relationships) to work,

However, I still loved your post. I understand where you are coming from and the legitimate frustrations you (me and we) have… As we have forgotten to be women in many respects MEN have forgotten to be men—and Mehki is a PERFECT example of our amnesia. You take care of HOME first and our community (people, women and children) NEED his fingers wrapped around US not THEM.

Peace.

Thank you very much #129.and Mallato.

Whether any of you believe it but sex is a very important part of marriage but a lot of people confuse sex with intimacy. They are completely different. People need to be honest with what they are looking for in a mate instead of trying to be what they think that other person needs just to be with someone.

Women, we don’t have to remind our men of their short comings or their weeknesses. And men the same. Women we are the workers in the background that makes sure that are men and family are taken care of. It is a selfless act that doesn’t need to be broadcast because it’s our job. Submissive means to agree to the goals of the family not to the every whelm of the man.

We tend to make men feel like kids and emasculate them.

@noeatingheretonight you explained it better. not sure if i still agree but now i understand

Nobody calling herself MULATO deserves any CREDIBILITY. Are you freakin kidding me right now

Bill: You can be married to a Black woman and still be a NEGRO which is a MADE MAN–a man the white man MADE. If you have to actually announce that you are Black, you are a NEGRO.

@Mallato

That’s because many people don’t see or understand strength unless it’s associated with vanity. That’s what this society is about. Convincing people that vanity is strength and that rebellion against God makes you independent.

@136, ITS HARD AS HECK!!!! HE SAID THAT HE WASNT GONNA TOUCH ME. HE SAID HE DONT WANNA DEFILE MY BODY BEFORE MARRIAGE BECAUSE I AM SO SPECIAL. HE SAID HE WANNA DO THINGS RIGHT AND DIFFERENT. HE TREASURES ME AND MANNNN I CAN’T BE AROUND HIM TO LONG! ESPECIALLY AT NIGHT! THE FLESH IS WEAK! WHEN WE FIRST HE ASKED ME TO COME LIVE WITH HIM AND I SAID NO SIR, I DO NOT BELIEVE IN NO SHACKIN. HE SAID THAT RAISED A RED FLAG TO HIM AND HE WAS LIKE MY GOD, WHO IS THIS WOMAN? I GOT THAT COMEBACK FOR REAL AND AINT EVEN DID IT YET, LOL

As i was reading 67’s post….the bible states that you should not put all your trust in MAN because MAN will fail you….

In relationship terms…you should have a job…he should have a job. if you have a joint bank account you should be able look at it and know where the money is coming from and going to. You are a active partner in this relationship. No matter how much effort you put in to one; sometimes they fail. It doesn’t matter the reasons why, but up until it fails both should put in 110% effort into continuously planting seeds in that relationship so that if you have to walk away from it your spirit, mind and heart is in tact.

@new yorker- you’re probably a few years or maybe more younger than me, but you’ll learn just like I did… it’ll be a hard and bumpy road because sometimes you really want to choke him and he you…:-). Just don’t go at it thinking that Love will save all because a relationship needs more than love.

best wishes to you…

@ 146 I agree marriage takes alot more than love….

@138

Why you keep mentioning me for, lol. We don’t agree on a damn thing. The husband and wife is the BLACK man and the BLACK woman. That’s the prerequisite before anything else that the Lord stipulates man, damn. Stop the madness, lol.

1 Cor 7:1-5

1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a] 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

@ 142 ……Mulatto (Spanish mulato, small mule, person of mixed race, mulatto, from mulo, mule, from Old Spanish, from Latin mūlus.) is a person of mixed black and white ancestry or the offspring of one white parent and one black parent or someone 50% black and 50% white. It can also be used as an adjective to describe something as a light brown color.
(Dictionary.com)

I just choose to spell mine differently…

@ 142 But what does that have to do with my comment my screen name???????
Please explain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@148–Dang it Judah.

Although you basically said that you agreed with me in a around about way..I mean take out “Black” and replace it with whatever race you want and it’s exactly what I said in my pigs fly comment. I understand though you have to always disregard with “The Asian Woman”, you have a persona to keep..I gotcha..

back to how I can’t stand your ass.

@148–Dang it Judah.

Although you basically said that you agreed with me in a around about way..I mean take out “Black” and replace it with whatever race you want and it’s exactly what I said in my pigs fly comment. I understand though, you have to always disagree with “The Asian Woman”, you have a persona to keep..I gotcha..

back to how I can’t stand your ass.

@ Judah I agree people want to say the Bible is old and outdated but when they are in trouble who do they call on?????? People pick and choose what they want to follow when it comes to the Bible….. Strength is associated with humility something a lot of people do not have….

I agree with Mallato, Bill, Judah, and Dimples Delight. Damn, sometimes people need to comprehend what they reading first before they talk.

@ 155 … thanks. LOL

Sade-Your Love is King said:

I agree with Mallato, Bill, Judah, and Dimples Delight. Damn, sometimes people need to comprehend what they reading first before they talk.

Bill Said:

People just like to argue about things that should be basic common sense.

LMAO and cracking up @ 153.

@157

exactly

@Ms Mac

Damn, her silly ass got you holdin’ your stomach huh? Lol.

@ 157 I Concur

Stop playing, That “Asian woman” is funny.

I guess the tension is due to the fact that it seems more and more successful black men are choosing NON black women as their mates…and the more successful us black women are …we are looking for a brotha to share it with…these brothas are picking non black women who are doing nothing with their lives..so i see where tension comes into play.

But its his life and he can live it how he wants..It just seems like when they are done wrong they wanna run back to the community that made them!

also i have lots of Philipino friends and our cultures are very similiar!

Judah, I find humor in a lot of things cause I love to laugh. And at the end of the day, CL is where I get most of my daily giggles. lol. Reading the exchange between you two is just comical to me. Even your last comment has me cracking the hell up! LMAO for real.

@162

Yeah, she funny as hell. She stay beggin’ me for attention, lol. I think she likes when I rebuke the hell out of her. Just any form of attention.

See what I mean, Judah. That #166 comment is funny as hell — for real. My sides do hurt. lol

@163

There’s a poster on that Polow da Don thread that smashed that nonsense. No. 322. The black woman has done more crossing over than the black man when she reaches some sort of fame.

Thank you very much Sade-Your Love is King.

Mekhi’s woman has that big Asian face like Kimora……she’s dumb as hell too….giving the milk away for free…..doesn’t anyone believe in being husband and wife before having a baby anymore??????

Hey Bill, I think she’s half black…I read that somewhere.

Too Tot said:
I guess the tension is due to the fact that it seems more and more successful black men are choosing NON black women as their mates…and the more successful us black women are …we are looking for a brotha to share it with…these brothas are picking non black women who are doing nothing with their lives..so i see where tension comes into play.

But its his life and he can live it how he wants..It just seems like when they are done wrong they wanna run back to the community that made them!

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Exactly!!! Let them live their lives. Just because a man is successful in sports, or movies or finance does not make him a “MAN”… Even men have low self esteem and we all have our reasons for dating or marrying whoever we choose. It shouldn’t be about color or race. If he always dated light skinned black women then the dark skinned women would have an issue with it and vice versa.

Let’s learn how to celebrate love because we never know what God has in stored for us or what he or she might look like. We should be open to possibilities as they present themselves to us.

Ok..let’s see..Sade and Judah are you really as Christians as you claim to be because you 2 sure are hateful. I was just being light-hearted. I have no intention to argue with people everyday on every single issue and just because I disagree or challenge you doesn’t mean “I’m a silly ass looking for your attention”. Don’t start being hateful because I don’t think God like it’s.

By the way, I don’t see what was so bad with what he said in the Honey article..in fact, he made some damn good points….women aren’t always the victims in a relationship. Melinda was just as much at fault as him for the break down.

I personally just don’t see it. Maybe she just does everything for the man, Mekhi. The Asian woman just doesn’t do it for me. Flat ass, the Down syndrome face, picking they nose on the 6 train, teeth like a picket fence. Naw man. By the time this chick is 40, she’s gonna look like Mr. Miyagi. Straight up. They look like that because Lot got raped by his daughters (Gen 19:30-38). I guess cats think they’re not gonna get the headache that they’d get from the black woman, but the Americanized women all have the same traits. The black woman might just be a little louder.

Judah, I enjoyed reading this post also

“YoMomma” really did a lot of research on this issue.
I commend her for telling the truth

yomama said on
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
* the Polow da don Post from yesterday….

i actually feel if all those women did start dating white men that black men wouldnt care,,,
and black women have been dating white men for awhile..
its not just since halle and serena,,,

High Profile BlackFemale-WhiteMale Couples

Alison Stewart (Host of “The Most”) & Bill Wolff (VP–Prime Time Programming MSNBC)
Virginie Silla & husband Luc Besson (French Producer-Director and Movie Mogul)
Prince Maxmilian of Liechtenstein and Angela Brown
Erica Dunlap (Miss America 2004) & Husband, Brian Kleinschmidt
Suzan-Lori Parks (Pulitzer Playwright & MacArthur Award winner) & Paul Oscher (Award Winning Blues Guitarist)
Paula Patton (Actress) & Robin Thicke (Recording Artist)
Angela McGlowan (Fox channel Host of “Street Talk”) & John Venners, CEO of Venners Group
Lydia Carlston (Model) & Mats Carlston (Global Finance Leader and Partner, Nixon & Peabody Law Firm)
Kira Arne & Tom Verica
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sorry Ms Mac, that wasn’t funny because they always have to turn things into some kind of argument. calling people silly asses and shit…well they’re hateful asses

@Bill

Thank you for reprinting that brother. That person did a wonderful job.

#43….how about not getting pregnant by a man who hasn’t “wiffed” you yet!! That’s a novel idea, isn’t it???

By the way, Melinda isn’t a beauty queen to those of you who call Mekhi’s new woman a down grade…that isn’t fair.

Wow @ #149 that is something serious…I didn’t realize all the answers I need for a solid relationship are literally in the Bible until I got older. I can’t tell you how priceless studying your Bible is…

Thanks for posting that gyrl.

How obvious is it that Judah returns with this BS about how fugly he thinks asian women are. All those hateful remarks because he’s trying to spite #173.
Judah: A hateful, predictable, soul-less christian.

Dimples Delight said:
1 Cor 7:1-5

1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a] 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Bill Said:

Thank you for printing out the WORD.
I appreciate you.

@177

Uh oh…she gettin’ tight, lol. I’ve told you numerous times what I’m about and I’ve filled you in repetitively. So I don’t know why you’re asking me why I believe what I believe. At the end of the day, you’re just mad because a black man rejected you. So many of these cats are too lustful and simple.

Whoa @ #173. Slow your roll boo, I mean just slow it the hell down. Im not hateful, I just said you were funny because well damn you funny. Now if you making references to the last post * The one with Mike Vick*, then what can I say. Judah clearly doesnt like you which was all I was saying and that there was no point in arguing with him. I barely say anything to you. I called you the Asian woman because 1) You said you were Asian. 2) Your name is too long to write out being that its jumbled altogther. 3) I like calling you the Asian woman or Lady. You acting like I said something majorly disrespectful to you. Relax girl, relax.

Exactly @ 175

Damn, I’ve been working hard today . This post is funny as hell.

Ok Sade..I take it back because you’re right I am an Asian woman..and as long as you weren’t being hateful then ok. I misunderstood your intent, it hard to read people sometimes on the net because you can’t always tell sarcasm.

#173 it’s scary isn’t it? These people are EVIL I tell you.
And the “married” Bill is the biggest hypocrite. He got called out a few time after speaking vulgar mess to a female on here.
What’s even scarier is that they believe with such intensity, every insane word they speak. These are the people to be afraid of. I’m no atheist, but these people are true serpents.

i agree with u # 1
i still dont understand that….if someone is good enough to “impregnate” and ya’ll get along and thangs…UMM HOW BOUT THAT RING?!!?!!?? WHAT IS THE DAMN HOLD UP! I will neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr understand that either!!! i know i know..people say marriage isnt for everyone…well getting someone pregnant aint for everyone either!
and who gives a rats ass that she is non-black..so be it!

FUCK MEKHI AND WITH HIS BLOATED DOUBLE CHEESEBURGER EATIN AZZ!

WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO COME ON HERE AND TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT DONT MATTER. WHY DO BLACK MAN GO TO WHITE WOMAN, THE MAN SUPPOSE TO BE THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE, ALL THIS IRRELEVANT ISSUES THAT NOBODY CARES. THIS IS A CELEBRITY BLOG NOT SUNDAY BIBLE STUDY. CAN WE STICK TO THE COMMENTING RULES AND GET BACK TO THE TRUE TOPIC. THANKS

PS. YALL GOING TO BE ON HERE ALL DAY ARGUING ABOUT THE SAME ISSUE…END IT AND MOVE ON.

@184

She offended that I called her ass “The Asian Woman”, lmao. What the hell I’m supposed to call her. Notice, I didn’t call her “chink” or “gook” or whatever ridiculous derogatory name the white man concocted for her people. She still mad, lol. Maybe she wants to be called “Kimora Lee”, I don’t know. Like you said, I ain’t typing all that stuff out.

Its alright, I agree with Judah alot but Im not mean like him,lol.
Tammy, Im dying. This is post is hilarious.

New Yorker I am with you baby! Dimples, you obviously are not articulate, so your comments are expected. I wouldn’t think that your I.Q. is high enough to know better. IT IS SOOO FUNNY THAT BIBLE THUMPERS ALWAYS SEEM TO KNOW WHAT VERSES THEY WANT TO APPLY TO CERTAIN CONVERSATIONS, BUT KNOW GOOD AND WELL THEY FORGET ALL THE OTHER STUFF IN THE BIBLE WHEN IT CONTRADICTS THEIR LIFESTYLE. I don’t see how you can cast a stone, unless you are indeed perfect. So unless, you follow God’s word everyday-ALL DAY, then I would suggest simmering down. If you are as religious as you all act, then you would know that is not your place to judge anyways. Plus, who the hell gets on celebrity blogs to lecture and preach, shouldn’t you be in bible study? Oh and to the chick, Malatta or whatever who said her husband has never cheated-is he dead or can you predict the future? Don’t count your eggs before they hatch.

LMAOOO @ Judah. Stoppp itttt. You gonna get me fired fool.

@188

You scared? LMAO

#172…I really hate to say this, but color does matter. Whether dark or light skinned, you are still black. It’s quite different when you’ve got all these brothers with other races. I’m so tired of that cliche “love is love”.

>>WIPES JUDAH DOWN. TAKE DAT TAKE DAT. CL IS LIKE CRACK, IM SO ADDICTED…..YALL ARE BETTA THAN THE SHOW. PURE COMEDY……

Yes, Judah. I am scared.
Keep laughing your ass off. I’ll see you in hell.

#194 your post should be the very last post on here. You are the truth.

@188-Yawn- disagreeing or challenging me is cool because even though I am grown, I may not always be right or I may not always express what I want to say clearly. But yeah there’s a difference from being evil and just having a different opinion.

But once you get stupid and evil then it’s the serpent talking like you said and you don’t have to be able to quote every page of the Bible to know when the serpent has succeded in tempting you and your vanity.

As for Bill..his extremist/fundamentalist views are his own and I don’t believe I’ve ever actually read a comment from him that was out of line. He had his opinions and beliefs and that’s fine.

@ 194 Correction I never judged anyone….. Second you should invest in” Hooked on phonics” Reading comprehension is fundamental… My husband and I live by Bible principles on a daily basis. All men don’t cheat… FYI…. Have the most wonderful afternoon sweetie… Thanks.

btw-don’t bother responding back to me- 4 comments are enough for me. I have a life.

@ 104 i wasnt directing that comment specifically to you but thank you for pointing out the obvious…

also I’ll bite…what does making EQUAL decisions in your household has to do with letting a man be a man
WTF is that bullshit anyway
let a person be their own self
dont control someone
these are things i can comprehend

i swear some of you need bible for dummies

@ 197…but love is love

I have dated outside my race before…never thought that i would be with a white man but i was 17 and he was very sweet. I got a lot of flack from my mother and friends about it and i let my ignorance taint the relationship. He could have been a very good man to me but i’ll never know.

All of us as humans are interchangeable. There’s some white and asian women out there that will cut a man up faster than a black woman will; they just ain’t met her yet.

The only issue i have is with men and women that completly exclude a race. Okay so a black man did you wrong; that don’t mean that you should stop dating the entire race. You just haven’t found the right one yet….be patient.

All i’m saying is…never say what you won’t do or who you won’t date because in the words of Liston Page “The opportunity just hasn’t presented itself”.

@199

LMAO. Why, you planning on going?

JUDAH..I wasn’t mad that you called me THE ASIAN WOMAN..hahaha. It was the silly ass part baby..I’m a silly ass because you’re hateful. As for the derogatory names bitch you just said all of them out of your mouth..do you feel that you’re entitled to say them? Do you have any Asian blood in you because if you don’t ,you don’t get a pass. Do you get mad with non-blacks who use the N-word that the white man created for you, I sure hope not because if you did, then you’re just a HYPOCRITE.

Reference below:

173.

noeatingheretonight
Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Ok..let’s see..Sade and Judah are you really as Christians as you claim to be because you 2 sure are hateful. I was just being light-hearted. I have no intention to argue with people everyday on every single issue and just because I disagree or challenge you doesn’t mean “I’m a silly ass looking for your attention”. Don’t start being hateful because I don’t think God like it’s.

I JUST DIED @ #199, ROFLMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Wow

3194 MY POINT EXACTLY….LIKE I SAID THIS IS NOT THE HOUSE OF BIBLESTUDY. LETS GET BACK ON TRACK GUYS.

@ 204 I am sorry that was directed at New Yorker…

I MEAN # 194 MY POINT EXACTLY….

THIS POST IS JUST OUT OF CONTROL! LOOSE HERE SATAN! *THROWS HOLY WATER*………

Lmao@ 213 .. It damn sure is .. Damn ,I thought I had a gutta mouth .

@207

Look how mad you are now, LOL. That’s why I told you to leave me alone, didn’t I? You see how you other races get when you face “racism” for a moment. That’s why when you face any real affliction ya’ll try to kill yourselves or run up in a college and murder “33″ people. You not built for it. No disrespect, but if I was going to call you a derogatory name, I would’ve done so without a care in the damn world. I don’t need to do that to make my point.

Hmmm, just can’t let this go. Malatta, you are judging because all of your comments are condescending. Second of all, this is a blog. I choose to write in the venacular that is being used. I have you know that I work in an industry that includes the United States Senate, House of Rep., Pentagon and various high profile law firms. I communicate with them on a daily basis-without any problems. If you want to get technical, I could send you red mark-ups of all of your grammatical errors, beginning with your backward quotation marks and the incorrect amount of elipses you used in your last comments. Play with it. Also, I never said that all men cheat, just was implying that you should never act like you KNOW the future-SWEETIE.

Guess 4 comments aren’t enough.

@ KK..since I’m the only dimples that have been on here for a while..I guess you’re directing your comment at me..

1) we are on topic because the issue of the Honey article was brought up as a topic
2) i don’t appear to or act as i am holy than thou or a “bible thumper”, but i was raised in the church and even though i have strayed from the church at times i still know God and i know what’s right and what’s wrong
3) the reason why this topic came up is because someone needed to hear it — who know relationships could have been started or saved by what was said here
4) all men are imperfect and strive for perfection, but you also have to have the strength to admit when your wrong, ask for forgiveness and move on
5) there is nothing wrong with reading the bible, owning a bible, talking about the bible, or about God. that’s the problem with society today..everybody wants to be a closet christian, jew or whatever instead of acknowledging God in all things. Remember, if it wasn’t for him you wouldn’t have woken up this morning
6) everyone journey with just that between him and God. yes there are some fakers out here but that’s when you make you’re relationship stronger. i’m not perfect by no means and i won’t act like i am, but i’m glad to know that he exists

Was that articulate enough or do you need me to break it down for you a little more

@JUDAH you are a very hateful person. you talk about the bible yet you wrote a whole post making horrible comments about asian women. if god is love and you believe in his word, why would you say those things? and the woman has a member name, you don’t have to call her the “asian woman”. if i was on a white site and they had the nerve to refer to me as “the black girl” instead of my screename, i wouldn’t appreciate it and i know most of the ppl on this site wouldn’t like that either (i came to this conclusion b/c when lindsay lohan said “that black guy drove” everybody on this site was up in arms about how she called him the “black guy” despite the fact that she wasn’t friends with the guy and didn’t know his name anyway. but ppl were still upset so show the asian community the same respect that you would want shown to your race. jesus would’ve liked that)

@kk i have no problem with ppl’s views but hypocrisy i can’t stand and like you said, there are a couple of hypocrites on this site

WHERE IS ANGEL, BRIAN AND THE REST OF THE LOOP AT. YALL NEED TO GET ON YALL JOBS. YOU GOT PEOPLE PREACHING THE BIBLE ON A CELEBRITY BLOG. MAYBE WE DONT NEED THE COMMENTING RULES BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE GOING TO BREAK IT ANYWAY. BESIDES BLACK PEOPLE DONT FOLLOW RULES….GEEZ

This post has now become way to personal. I thought we all was having fun.

I say fucc Mehki, n dat white bit**, he is a dog anywayz, :::::sell out:::::

@ 217 I could not have said it better.. But some people I just can’t dignify with a response …. LOL

Judah, just go away. You always THINK you’re pissing someone off, but we’re laughing at you. Step away from your church podium at a gotdam gossip blog.
Yall really should be ashamed of yourselves.
Same goes for the mullato and dimples. All 3 of you are on the wrong website.
Bill, you too. Lol!

Rihanna’s dress is cute . lmao guess I’ll jump on topic . If ppl would stop attacking ppl’s opinion this post wouldn’t be so long .

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#175.
JUDAH

That was so ignorant what you said in this post. What if someone said, I’m just not attracted to black men, nappy ass hair, no job having, ten kids with fifteen baby mamas, just got out of prison, monkey looking asses? All races have attractive and unattractive people, and it’s all a matter of opinion whether someone is attractive or not.

@ Tammy …Thanks…. Why can’t we have our opinion? They have theres. I have never attacked anyone personally I made General comments.

@ 220- You are right. I usually come on here and laugh my ass off at the comments or pics. But sometimes you just get tired of people always acting like it’s their job to “kick the truth to the young black youth”, lol. They really swear they are so above everybody else and they are the enlightened ones. I realize that it is mostly for attention, because why else would you FEEL the need to preach. We all have a right to speak freely, so I will leave it at that. Besides, it takes to long to keep refreshing this damn page.

Judah-haha…that’s what you and people who believe like you do can’t seem to grasp, I’m not mad that you feel like you can call me those names-it’s just ignorance, I faced people like you everyday people who look down to me for being I’m Asian or a woman. I’ve had my share of it. Because of that I refuse to ever call other people derogatory names, I can find better things to say then to attack people racially or gender-wise.

Look at yourself even though you act like I’m the one up your ass you’re the one who feels the need come at me racially, with that comment about asian women in general and then your comment with all the racial slurs.

Don’t try to teach me a lesson that you, yourself have not learn.

Rihanna yo foot should b betta by now u hurt foot weeks n weeks n weeks ago !! [ cute dress ].

@ noeatingheretonight,

I laugh, like I said, because I find humor in most things. Don’t take it personal. Truth is, when I read these threads I create a cartoon-like picture in my mind of what really amounts to characters in a play or a show. I try to imagine what each person looks like when they’re writing. All the passion, all the drama — smashing the keyboards and shit. lol I know, I know. That borders on crazy but this is my world. lol. This right here is PURE comdey.

Just a word to the wise. One thing I’ve learned from being on CL this long is that all people are funny in their own way and you have to take what people say with a grain of salt. If they can’t see you, you’re not there. lol

@226

I could give a damn if someone said something like that. It would be their opinion. I do have a right to my opinion right? You just said to yourself, “I have to pick a fight with this negro. He said something about Asians, let me get him on that!” I only commented at first because it was nice to see the lady, Mallato, with her outlook. Now if I had said, “Mekhi made a good choice..”, you would’ve said, “You anotha weak-ass nigga that hates his own people. Ya prolly hate ya motha!!” Whatever sis. Lastly, my comment wasn’t “ignorant”. We just disagree. It’s not that serious.

I love these people that say, “I’m not religious, but you goin’ to Hell for judging people!” LMAO, some people are too stupid to deserve another breath on this earth. I think that the people that hate the Bible need to buy new mouses for their PC’s because obviously the one that they have are not allowing them to scroll past the comments involving the Word of the Lord. These same people will see posts where black people are calling each other “bitch, ho, etc.” and won’t beg for moderation.

I see that Bill was somewhat correct in saying that this post would hit 300…it’s almost there!

@ Get_Me_Bodied…I’m with you, this is better than a talk show

Mekki and wife are the new Beyonce, post-wise.

@Ms Mac- I hear ya. I do the same. It’s a way to me to kill time while I’m waiting on people to join my conference. And honestly, I don’t take it personal- I don’t know anyone here, for the most part it’s just people expressing their views unless they start to say stupid shit like Judah. When an ass is an ass you have to call him as ass.

But as my hubby says to me- sometimes I just don’t know when to walk away.

MALATTO

please stop using religion to justify your point. if you studied the history of religion and actually understood your place in this world (outside of all the tv, music, gossip) you would be able to justify your point with logic NOT with YOUR FAITH.. Please remember everyone has their own faith and beliefs..there are 100’s of religions so it is hard to make a point to people who have a different spiritual base than you.
The bible was reinterpreted from a lot of different religions and Christianity was brought to America as a basis for the culture..yet do you know where the principle of Christianity came from? They came from Egyptian, Tibetan, and other empires…….

I just ask that everyone respect others faith because EVERYONE in the world isnt Christian.

Some of us have studied where the actual scriptures, prophets, and such came from and if you studied that you would discover that the figures in the bible are VERY if not the SAME figures that many Ancient Egyptian and Tibetan empires worshipped..but they were Sun Gods ( the sun brings us life) hence the term Son of God….RESEARCH UR RELIGION B4 YOU USE IT TO MAKE A POINT

I also wanted to mention because the figures are so similiar it is obvious the white man took a piece of the cultures they had displaced and created their own religion…ALSO IF EVERY OTHER INSTITUTION HAS LET US DOWN OR GIVEN YOU INCORRECT FACTS (GOVERNMENT / EDUCATIONAL) WHY NOT QUESTION YOUR RELIGIOUS INSTITUTION?

We have a long ways to go!

mehki phife used to have a killer body especially in Clockers…but his girlfriend is pretty…rihanna is lovely as usual.

KK I can only speak for myself, but i’m not shoving anything down your throat. You have to find your own way and your own way of accomplishing things. There are personal statements made on this blog regardless (hello the quote unquote celebrity could be reading these post right now or at least an assistant or representative). And the word of God can be used anywhere at anytime (that’s why you were given bible verses so that if you want you can go back and read the word for yourself). Only God can convict your heart as to what is right and what wrong…

Like i said before….MAN will fail you but the word of God is the same today, yesterday and tomorrow. I don’t have to fake or front for nobody because God knows all that i have done and will do so my heart is never hidden from him.

Read the book of Revelations and tell me that doesn’t sound sound like the world we’re living in today. Read about Sodam and Gamorra. Just read.

DIMPLES DELIGHT

AS you direct people to read REVELATIONS I would direct you to view the movie

http://www.zeitgeistmovie.com/

at least watch the 1st 20 minutes!

Judah youre the prime example of the hypocrisy in our community.

PS: u don’t get free pass to heaven.

I don’t know what to say about this couple.

Ya’ll gonna leave Judah alone too. Why should he not type how he feels ? Everybody else does.

I loves me some Mekhi.. Plus, what u read in some places is sometimes fiction *we all know that*. I’ve seen pictures of him and his son and he looks like a loving, caring father. Him and Melinda’s relationship went kaput. So what? Shit happens. That doesn’t determine the relationship b/t him and his son. Y’all don’t know him, Melinda, or his girl to be judging shit. And r u ppl really serious about this interracial crap. He’s wit a Asian chick—what the problem????? Cuz I don’t really see 1.

And for those of u that do have a “problem” wit it, u should damn sure be ashamed to have ur picture next 2 ur comment cuz that’s just plain ignorance…

Judah, I was only refering to your racial insults but I realized that you were just being immature trying to insult noeatingheretonight. I am half black and half asian and found your “asian women”comments insulting because I love both of my cultures. But if you don’t mind being called a nigga maybe I should just mind my business. I do apolgize.

Thank you Too Tot I watching it now

Julies- don’t apologize. you have nothing to apologize for- it’s good to question.

Too Tot– that was very interesting to watch. I never looked at Jesus (or our saviour’s) birth as being so numerical nor did i know that the 3 stars in orion’s belt was also named the 3 kings. I have read up on lot of Greek history and even though i know that africans were first on this earth, i had never really gotten into Eqyptian history. But this also proves that no matter the name, God is still God. Me and my friends are going to view this and have a study about it.

Thank you

geez always ppl comin with bible verses on this site.

@242

Brother, I don’t know you from anywhere but you seem like one of these jellyfish negroes, lol. You’re probably to simple to even know what you stand for so you definitely don’t know what I believe in. Where did I say that I get a free pass to heaven? An idiot confounded himself and told me that he’d see me in hell, which means that he’d have to be there too. Straight up and to the point, you sound like one of these fishmouth, peabrain black males that’s angry that he doesn’t know anything. If you feel that I’m a hypocrite, then your job is to show me my hypocrisy so that I can correct my conduct. You’re too silly to do that so you make false accusations.

@244

Thank you for the support sis, I got it, lol.

@246

No man can call me or name me something that can override what the Lord named me and my people (Isa 44:5). I’m sorry that you and all the other black people that are obsessed with the “N” Word cannot understand that. The reason why it affects ya’ll so much is because you look to the people that hate you to validate your existence and give meaning to your life with their false knowledge.

I’m LMAO @ some of these people on this site that are “preaching” to others as if they follow the bible word from word. Specifically, Dimples Delight. How can you preach to others when you don’t follow God’s word yourself. Another poster (forgot who it was and have no time to go back through the posts to get their name) was right, people follow what they want to follow and use it as they see fit. Dimples just to give you some insight since you want to quote scriptures..maybe you don’t know so I’ll help you out.

Gluttony seems to be something that Christians like to ignore. We are often quick to label smoking and drinking as sins…but for some reason gluttony is accepted or tolerated. Many of the arguments used against smoking and drinking, such as health and addiction, apply equally to overeating. Many believers would not even consider having a glass of wine or smoking a cigarette, but have no qualms about gorging themselves at the dinner table to the point that they feel like they are going to explode. This should not be!

Proverbs 23:20-21 warns us, “Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags.” Proverbs 28:7 declares, “He who keeps the law is a discerning son, but a companion of gluttons disgraces his father.” Proverbs 23:2 proclaims, “put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony.”

Physical appetites are an analogy of our ability to control ourselves. If we are unable to control our eating habits, we are probably also unable to control other habits such as those of the mind (lust, covetousness, anger), and unable to keep our mouth from gossip or strife. We are not to let our appetites control us, but rather we are to have control over our appetites. See Deuteronomy 21:20, Proverbs 23:2, 2 Peter 1:5-7, 2 Timothy 3:1-9, and 2 Corinthians 10:5. God has blessed us by filling the earth with foods that are delicious, nutritious, and even pleasurable. We should honor God’s creation by enjoying these foods, and by eating them in appropriate quantities.

@ TOO TOT I will not debate the relationship I have with God with you… You can spell check or do whatever you feel…. Jesus said if you deny me I will deny you before my father I will talk about God whenever I choose too. Just as you typed your feelings I will also…. Have the most wonderful evening…. This blog is about everyone’s opinion. You don’t have the right or Authority to advise me…..

(Acts 5:29) . . .In answer Peter and the other apostles said: “We must obey God as ruler rather than men.
Exiting………

Dimples Delight, is that you on your avatar? If it is you resemble Jill Scott in your pic.

I have officially pissed my seat at comment # 252.

#242 was right, Judah please tell me that you don’t see the hypocrisy with quoting the bible and making racial insults in the same breath, brotha please, with all due respect you are an idiot.

Sorry about that Natural Mystique!

Too Tot, I know the movie wasnt meant for me, but I found it to be very interesting to watch. I guess its true, there is always room for more knowledge.

lmao @ 252. you came swinging. love it!

MALATTO

I DONT WANT YOU TO DEBATE…ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR FACTS COME FROM SCRIPTURES THAT YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHERE THEY CAME FROM.

I WAS JUST ASKING THAT YOU RESPECT THAT EVERYONE ISNT A CHRISTIAN SO THROWING QUOTES AROUND DOESNT HELP…ESPECIALLY WHEN HALF OF THE BIBLE WAS TAKEN FROM OTHER ANCIENT EMPIRES….THEN FORMED INTO THE WHITE MANS RELIGION FOR AMERICA!

I REFERRED DIMPLES TO A SITE AND SHE WAS VERY INTERESTED TO LEARN MAYBE YOU SHOULD DO THE SAME!

I AM A SPIRITUAL BEING BUT I UNDERSTAND MY CONNECTION WITH THE EARTH …NOT BY BEING BRAINWASHED

sade your love is king

THANKS it is amazing how we are so worried about celebs but dont know the truth about real issues like Religion, Government, Education and the likes…thanks for being open to watching it!

Who needs ole fugly Mekhi…he did right and got his match…Malinda is happy with fine ass D-nice check them out on D’s web page…he treats her like a queen they look good together and you can tell he lovesher… not just a trophy piece

Omar Epps > Mekhi Pheifer

Love me some WILL.

Rihanna…*yawn* (as always)

Mallato

Its sad you arent open to educating yourself..Good Luck because you’ll need it taking things people tell you at face value! I hope you would watch the movie just to see a different point of view..if not its your life!

http://www.zeitgeistmovie.com/

Peace

Your Welcome Too Tot.

I mean *You*.

@ 252 — why am i even going to respond to your comment I don’t know but I am…
I like the way you tried to call me fat and since you were so kind to try and call me that….that means that i have something or look a certain way that you wish you could. What size am I?? size 14..small in the waist and thick in the hips…**cheese** I am exactly the way God made me to be and for the most part I love it.

In today’s terms gluttony is being balimic or aneroxic…i don’t eat all day, I play football, run track, and have some fierce legs. BEING THICK IN SOME CASES DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU STUFF FOOD IN YOUR MOUTH ALL DAY OR SIT ON THE COUCH, YOU IGNORANT PERSON, IT MEANS THAT YOU CAN POSSIBLY HAVE AN EARLY CASE OF COLAN CANCER AND YOU HAVEN’T BEEN ABLE TO DIGEST FOOD FOOD PROPERLY SINCE YOUR WERE LITTLE. I had my days as a size 4 and now i respresent the thick sistas out there and even if i didn’t have this health issue my beauty still outshines you inside and out.

Male/female whoever you are…your whole post shows your ignorance right off bat. A thick sista such as me PLEASE EVERYBODY CLICK ON MY NAME, LOOK AT MY PAGE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK??? Am I not gorgeous… thank you

Oh and here’s a sidenote–never judge a book by it’s cover or try to use bible verses to bash a person because God’s word will never do that to me.

@Too Tot

I will watch the clip later because it looks interesting but one thing I noticed is the name, “Gerald Massey”. He was an excellent historian in the 19th century. He proved that the ancient Celts and druids were black and that they built Stonehenge. The only thing with the man is that he was an Egyptologist and a 33rd degree mason. He believed that he was a god on earth and he credited the Egyptians with the origins of masonry. So I’m sure that the clip will be interesting but easily dismantled, no disrespect..

@Mallato

Sis, believe me, this false knowledge that these people propagate, they haven’t even researched. Lol. Like I said, I’ll view it tonight. I have some of Massey’s books. Very good, don’t get me wrong, but understand that the man was a Satan worshipper.

@Dimples Delight,

1st of all…ignorant? You are calling me ignorant but you are the one that said I tried to call you fat. By quoting scriptures? I NEVER in my post called you fat. If I wanted to call you that trust me sweetie, it wouldn’t be no “trying” in it. I STATED WHAT THE BIBLE SAID! You don’t like it? Oh well, take it up with God baby. Or do what the bible tells you to do and “put a knife to your throat”. Just like you quoted the bible, so did I. Live with it!

@ 267 You’re beautiful as all of my sistah’s are..

@252

Sis, I’m impressed. Did you write that or did you find that somewhere?

Agree with #34, I’m tired of seeing Rihanna too…
Mekhi and his new baby mama..she seems to be happy…but I bet
he won’t be there for long…

252 IF YOU WERE GONNA CALL SOMEONE OUT. YOUR DUMB ASS COULD HAVE ATLEAST WROTE IT UP YOURSELF … YOU STOLE THAT FROM ANOTHER BLOG :http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/a-matter-of-shame

TOT TOT,

THE BIBLE WAS NOT FORMED BY WHITE PEOPLE FOR AMERICA, I DON’T KNOW WHERE YOU GOT THAT FROM, THE HOLY SCRIPTURES EXISTED LONG BEFORE THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA WAS EVEN A THOUGHT.

You don’t have to jump on some Isis or Horus Soapbox either, I know all about. I have read extensively about Ancient Nile Vally Civilization, which included the Ancient Egyptians, the sometime rivals, the Nubians and also a little further over though, the ancient Ethiopians, who dwelled in the Cush Empire.

You don’t have to drill me on the similarities between their beliefs and Christianity, and yes, I KNOW JESUS AND MOST OF THE MAJOR FIGURES OF THE BIBLE ABRAHAM, MOSES, ETC, WERE BLACK. Also no one in the Bible was white, during ancient times white skin was considered to be a curse, some even think that white skin is the mark of Cain.

The issue I have with you is, you are trying to slickly question my faith (Christianity) by posting links to movies like Zeitgeist, which more about the New World Order and international banking, than anything. But the film has an obivious let’s blame religion for everything stance and I take issue with that.

Jesus is real, deal with it.

OH AND TO COMMENT ON THE ACTUAL TOPIC:

MEHKI PHIFFER CAN DATE WHOEVER THE HELL WANTS, THAT’S HIS BUSINESS.

LOL at Foxxy 380! This proves my point about people using scriptures! It is all relative-people interepet the way they want to. There are people who KILL in the name of religion…because they believe God’s word told them to do it. So just because you know how to read, doesn’t mean that you are abiding by what God wants. Have you ever played the game telephone with kids? I have and I will tell you that if you only have 10 kids, that first sentence that you used with the first kid in line will be completely different by the time it gets to the 10th kid. Now when Dimples said:

Like i said before….MAN will fail you but the word of God is the same today, yesterday and tomorrow.

How do you know what God’s word was initially? Someone wrote the bible and last time I checked God did not have e-mail to send the original attachment to “King James.” I don’t claim to know the bible inside out, but I be damn if I agree with slavery being ok.

“Slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart.”

—Ephesians 6:5-6.

Dimples Delight, I like that pic of you. You are beautiful.

Oh another thing 252 size does not represent your relationship in Christ or the ability to control ones intake of food, you silly thing.

You’re basically saying that if you have a baby and gain 40 pounds and not be able to lose the weight you’ve gained that you can no longer represent God. Or if you have stomach surgery and gain the weight or a car accident and gain the weight that you can’t be for the lord.

You need a wake up call immediately.

LMAO…I KNEW IT. I was like, “Damn, the sister never presented herself in that scholarly a fashion before.”

Oh and as you can see, that other picture picture was blown up to fit this wedsite….

and 254 i hear i resemble Jill all the time and i appreciate that she’s a beautiful and intelligent woman

BTW Dimples- I do think you are pretty girl. I think you maybe a little misguided on what people are suppose to abide by. This originally came from Mekhi’s statement about what women are SUPPOSED to be doing and you agreed with him by quoting the bible. I think the bible can be used as a guide, not word for word.

@ Judah, no I quoted that.

@Fraudulent, You are the stupid fuck because I don’t go to other blogs looking for information. Maybe you do but that ain’t how I roll. I google EVERYTHING I need to know. I googled the term gluttony and found ALL the information I needed. Now take YOUR CHILDISH, DUMB, DIM-WITTED, probably FAT ASS somewhere and exercise instead of trying to hate on someone who is Foxxy. IGNORANT BITCH!!

Next time you want to know something, just do what intelligent people do and ASK instead of assuming you CORPULENT HOE!!!!

#280 That she is.

DONT GET MAD AT ME BITCH BECAUSE I PULLED YOUR CARD .. IF YOU QUOTED THE SHIT FROM SOMEWHERE ELSE ,DIDN’T THEY TEACH YOUR DUMBASS ABOUT QUOTATION MARKS IN GRADESCHOOL ? WHEN YOU QUOTE SOMETHING HOE YOU USE QUOTATION MARKS . FAT I THINK NOT BITCH PUT THAT FUNNY LOOKING PICTURE OF YOUR MONKEY LOOKING ASS UP ! TRYING TO SEEM INTELLIGENT , KNOWING DAMN WELL YOU’RE A HOODRAT … BITCH PLEASEEEE NEXXXXXTTTTTTT !

Rihanna has to keep going to look competitive to Beyonce’s fall. I know she can’t compare to Beyonce’s bionic comeback, but this is a front for publicity. The sad part is, she didn’t hurt herself giving a good show - lol.

Judah, don’t act like you never google your scriptures when you come on here to prove your psychotic reasoning.
Dimples, are you really 4′ 10″? Or was that a typo?

thank you very much julieisadime, that was very sweet of you.

and KK i understand what you’re saying, but it’s all about you and God..there has been some things in my life that God has shown his self to me..Like the night i almost did because my tube burst and i had to have surgery, and when I almost lost my son because my bag ruptured..God kept him inside of me for two more months and when he was born he had the cord around his neck, but God blessed me to be in the hospital before his birth and they were able to revive him. There are just some situations like when you have a gun pointed at your chest and the gun won’t shot, but when he shoots it at the ground it fires. at that point you know it’s nothing but God.

thank you very much julieisadime, that was very sweet of you.

and KK i understand what you’re saying, but it’s all about you and God..there has been some things in my life that God has shown his self to me..Like the night i almost did because my tube burst and i had to have surgery, and when I almost lost my son because my bag ruptured..God kept him inside of me for two more months and when he was born he had the cord around his neck, but God blessed me to be in the hospital before his birth and they were able to revive him. There are just some situations like when you have a gun pointed at your chest and the gun won’t shot, but when he shoots it at the ground it fires. at that point you know it’s nothing but God.

Damn Foxxy380, was that from the bible too? LMAO!

Last post of the day gotta go cook dinner for my fam…

Will Smith is looking HOT in those pictures. And I want to see some better trailers of I AM LEGEND. There’s got to be other survivors.

LMAO @286!! Good to see you brother/sister/whatever. If you want me to teach you like I was taught just say that and give me your email address. I know negroes never think that another negro can teach them anything but damn…

@Dimples,

Please boo. I’m through with you. Your hasty tactics ” PLEASE EVERYBODY CLICK ON MY NAME, LOOK AT MY PAGE AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK???” tells me that you are so insecure with yourself that you need other peoples approval on how you look. So that tells me that you think that you are fat, overweight, obese, stout, plump, whatever you wanna call yourself. I can take your whole post down and dissect it if I want but I am not because I actually have work to do., LOL!

And LMAO @ “size 14..small in the waist and thick in the hips…**” You know alot of overweight people say the same thing.

I am not trying to be mean to you because TRUST ME, I can. My point is you can’t tell everyone how they should live their life or interpret the bible because it can be interpreted so many different ways. 3 preachers can preach about the same scripture and there could be 3 different interpretations of it. And I just don’t like people going around quoting scriputures like they follow the bible word from word and they themselves are not doing what the bible says.

@ double yawn!

yup 4′10″ on a good day maybe between 4′9″ - 4′10″

Honestly, Judah. I know you live in NY. You take the 6, I take the 3.
Strangely, I would love to meet you.

oh danm another friggin debate. y cant people just come post, adore, hate and move on

I’m sure you would. I bet you that you would say, “Damn, I thought that dude was a asshole….he’s a great guy”. Lol, guranteed. It’s like Muhammad Ali. The man would piss people off because he was confident and then they would meet him and couldn’t say a bad thing about the brother.

I hear you dimples, but sometimes I feel like Christians are the most judgemental people on earth-even though they be actin’ like they are not. I believe in God and my personal relationship with him. I hope that I live life like I am suppose to. I refuse to have someone tell me what I am suppose to be doing and use the bible as back-up, because I know I am a good person. I do want to apologize for saying you are not articulate-I was just shocked that you would codone his disrespect of the MOTHER OF HIS CHILD-which is the main problem. By me calling you that, it showed that I was not tolerant of your opinions which negates everything I have been saying about the “bible thumper” Malatta-now that heifer -God 4give me:) was just ignorant.

Judah, we may have crossed paths before. you never know. I am a female, btw.
You still make me sick though, but you’re somehow intriguing.

no i’m not ashamed of myself and that’s why i told people to look at me (because didn’t you make your judgment of me by that blown up photo that i had up before…so dear you must not like yourself or your looks because you were so impressed by mine that you had to steal someone else’s words to try and out) and that’s why you have a picture of tupac as you avitar.

i don’t tell people how to live their lives, but i have learned how to be a good wife to my husband and i want to pass that on to other people

IF YOU QUOTED THE SHIT FROM SOMEWHERE ELSE ,DIDN’T THEY TEACH YOUR DUMBASS ABOUT QUOTATION MARKS IN GRADESCHOOL ?

Bitch I am grown a$$ woman! Yes they taught me that in gradeschool, but you stupid muthafucka I am not doing a paper. I am on a fucking entertainment blog posting back and forth to an illiterate, brainless, dumb fuck who have a mind of a 3 month old. Get a life and quit posting to me. Hating on me will only make your situation worse.

THAT FUNNY LOOKING PICTURE OF YOUR MONKEY LOOKING ASS UP !

WTF? Now I know I am going to stop posting to you because you don’t even have a mind of a 3 month old. You got a mind of a fucking rock. Do me a favor and go get a knife out of your kitchen and fall on it.

@Julie, heck no that is not in God’s bible. Thats from the book of Foxxy380. LOL! I usually don’t do this on this site which is why I am about to stop.

O my Lawdy, I smell a love connection, j/k.

@295- I am usually like you-but today was different. Look at it like this though, the comment section would be full of boring ass “Rihanna with her 11 month old broken leg” comments.

ok last post..

sade you’re funny.lol