BLIND ITEM: BOTTOM MISTRESS

September 4th, 2007

It was rumored that one of Wesley Snipes former non-black girlfriends didn’t have a problem when he had verbal interactions with white females but she often played interference when he spoke to black women, mainly African-American actresses at industry events.

Another non-black female has the same problem regarding her black NBA husband. She openly has a problem when she observes him having a discussion with black females but behind his back she often tells her friends, ‘I never have to worry about him creeping with black women, they don’t hold his attraction.’ This type of attitude makes her feel secure and better about herself. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but your man may give the impression to you and the media that he has rarely dated black women and he doesn’t have affairs with them BUT he is currently carrying on an affair with a stunning black woman out of state. He even put her through school and she has a high ranking six-figure position in her hometown. He tells his boys, “she’s my bottom mistress.” He even paraded her around during the All-Star game a few years ago and he openly held her hand in public. It’s rumored that he has her on an allowance (although she doesn’t need it) and in the past he gave her his black AMEX card to go shopping with on her birthday. He also bought her a customized Mercedes and he recently gifted her with Neiman Marcus and Bloomingdale credit cards. Infidelity is wrong but his wife needs to come out of her denial. Hint: You don’t have to be a sports fan to know who the NBA player is.

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  1. 2.
    plprz

    um……..i have no idea. perhaps it’s kobe.

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  2. 3.
    Hate me If you want I don't care

    Kobe

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  3. 4.
    Kiyaz

    It cant be Kobe. His girl know he cheated.

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  4. 5.
    itsme

    i dont see why it wouldnt be kobe…then again i dont kno who else to think…lebron is married?

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  5. 6.
    twintron4

    These men are dogs, they are no good. Seriously, do yall want us to jump up and down and go “see we still got em!?” No, it seems to me these men dont care about color, its just a ego thing for them. It could be a number of them. Kobe Bryant, Charles Barkely (LOL) Tim Duncan, Tim Robinson, take your pick.

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  6. Kobe?!?! Say it ain’t so!

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  7. whoever it is is gRiMy…. men can be a trip!

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  8. @ 6… NaH, Charles Barkely looks so wholesome.. He wouldn’t cheat!

    lol

    I’d probably trust him though!

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    FashionIcon2010

    Kobe

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  10. 11.
    Nickey

    Before people start blowing up the comments, LeBron James is not married and his girlfriend is black.

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    datdude

    Myra got all the dirt, wat does homegirl do for living except for spy on folk, i bet she got a government job, like the DMV, females that got those jobs stay hateful. I dated a girl that had a government job once and all she did was hate on folk and finish all my damn cereal, but she had a phat ass, so it lasted a month, but yeah who is this Myra chick, how she qualified to know this shit.

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    Amber

    I don’t know who it could be, I don’t think it’s Kobe because Kobe has dated Black women in the past so he was obviously attracted to Black women.

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  13. 14.
    fifigj1234

    I’m sick of this “black men hate black women crap”. Its the law of attraction, if you think someone is bad you will recieve bad from them, if you believe someone is good you will get that. Black men are so negative about black women that they will see bad when its not even there and will find fault no matter what because of how they feel toward black women. The same is true if they feel good about white women, they will get good back because they will give them their best and in turn get it back but they give black women their worse and get it in return. They will deny this of course and act like they treated black women good, but if they were honest, they will have to admit that they did not give the black women they’ve dealt with their best. Their attitude toward black women is an excuse for dating white women. They just do not want to admit they just want to date white women only just because they want to, its always black women drove them to it, LIARS. They sound like hooded klansmen. Black male racist is what they are, all black women are not inherently evil and bad just as all black men are not thieves, dumb, lazy, murderers, rapist as this racist society had and still do believe. The same is true if you think all white people are racist, all of a sudden you will find yourself offended by every word spoken by someone white and take everything out of context and the wrong way. This is the same driving force that drives racist cops and lawmakers concerning black men. I just wish that these black men could go to “planet white woman” and take their bad attitudes, hatred, and negativity toward black women with them. They’re so dumb that they don’t think that their comments also apply to their biracial daughters who will be treated as a black woman by society including black men like themselves that hate black women and they too will have to deal with those same attitudes and black male racism.

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    Amber

    Ok I just thought of another couple. Maybe it’s Eva Longoria and Tony Parker. Eva always comes off as snooty to me. I bet it’s them.

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    Pnty Chser

    Thats 4 Sure Eva Longoria and Tony Parker

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  16. 17.
    Miss K

    tony parker!?
    cuz the woman sounds like eva….

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    Paris Hilton's Valtrex

    Whoever this woman is, I’m coming after her. You better watch your back Lady!

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    PHILLY CHIC

    KOBE

    B 4 Kobe got with Vanessa he was seriously dating a very intelligent black girl from philly who was on her way to med school. (his parents love her) when Kobe proposed to Vanessa she was shocked and so was his parents cause they assumed the med chick was going to be the girl. It was all over the local radio stations at the time. Wendy Williams was actually in philly during her exile from New york. Well the young lady is now finished with med school and doing her thang. GO kobe !!!! I could care less for vanessa.

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    I would guess one of three: kobe bryant, tony parker ( eva longoria’s husband} or carmello anthony remember LaLa openly states that shes not black shes a Latina which where Im from is damn near the same thing but hey whatever. But all and all i say Carmello with the way he cheat!!! hey they all do in my book.

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    virgo_vixxen

    dat dude, you are crazy! that comment was so off the handle. true enough, myrna and her staff gotta a lotta off the wall stories-kinda makes you question the whole notion of a ‘blind item’. Either way, Im glad I dont know the true answers of some of these blind items.

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  21. 22.
    Hdizzle

    Why is it that every one of these blind items reads like a book from the page of A black womans worst nightmare, volumes 1 through 8.

    Every blind item is a downlow brother , a drug addict black actress who use to be fine and sucessful or black celeb who’s trophey white women has no respect for black women. Myra J plays apon the fears of black woman seemingly to peak there interest in these posts becuase these stories are to convienient to be true.

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  22. 23.
    MEL

    Ha, thats Kobe. I’m happy that he’s cheating with a sister. Good for you Kobe!

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  23. 24.
    CoffeeBrown

    lol @ dat dude, just went somewhere else for a second. Anywho, I dont think its Carmello. Have you seen this dude in a interview? He aint the brightest of the bunch if you follow me. It got to be either Kobe (he will never learn) Bryant or Tony (mexican pussy-whipped) Parker.

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  24. 25.
    Ione

    Kobe to obvious

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  25. 26.
    TSG

    When i was reading it, I was thinking Tony Parker and Eva Longoria. Maybe Kobe, but Kobe dated Brandy for a short time and she went to his prom. I have never heard of Tony being with a black woman in the public eye.

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  26. 27.
    TAISH4U

    IT’s Kobe, why is it that celebrity dudes is always downgrading black women.
    I bet when they ass was dead broke they dated black women but as soon as they
    get a little fame they wanna run to a white women. White women need 2 know that
    they can’t walk in our shoes for a second. At least when they go broke we try to
    stickk around because we know what it is to struggle. Not a white women they r
    packing up little johnny and sally and will be gone in the blink of an eye. Not
    trying to make it into a racial thing but it is what it is!

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  27. 28.
    Brittany Beauty

    well shit i need to get with kobe she must got some good head

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  28. 29.
    well damn

    well 19 could very well be right cuz obviously his bitch is chillin regardless of wut he do if she got a 4 million$ rock on her finger.. hell she prolly want him to cheat so she can get a next one fuk she jus happy she ain’t got to go back to bein a video hoe.. shame on kobe 4 leavin a proper chick 4 that. can’t be melo they ain’t married yet and hell yea he cheat. tim duncan a pussy fag would neva leave his white woman. omg has any1 seen barkleys wife.. she is the ugliest white woman on the face of the earth n thas word. good lawd. here wut i wanna kno… memba when iverson cheated on his wife wit nas’ babymom… how the hell did she respond… i mean think bout EVERY nba playa dunn cheated n got caught n their wives will never leave.. is it cuz of prenups, money or love? also… wuts funny 2 me is how the fuck kobe ain’t sign a prenup.. wat a fuckin fool no wonda he copped the 4 mil ring cuz if his wife divorced his ass she’d b takin hella more than that wit her. he think he slick but fuck he is stupid. bout love n not needin a prenup.. rite. love n cheatin go hand in hand apparently. fuck men lol

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    T

    Tony Parker & Eva Longoria

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  30. Why just fuck for tracks when you can fuck for college credits, too? At least the girl got a degree and has a white collar job to go to after he finishes nutting on her face. Congrats, girl!

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    Tony Parker or Kobe Bryant?

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  32. 33.
    Tommykimon

    I think its Kobe.

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    GirlPlease

    It’s Kobe. The chick he is creeping with is an Attorney not a doctor.

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    heven

    Tony Parker doesn’t seem like the type that like sisters. Kobe on the other hand wanted something new, he got it, tried a couple of others, got in big time trouble because of one of them now…he’s like you know what pops was right! Now he’s going back to black.

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    JoRo

    I’m guessing Kobe?

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    Dame

    The wife is stupid and need help it is sad men are a trip. Kobe is my guess

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    Lord Hannibal

    I don’t think it’s Kobe but it wouldn’t surprise me. As intelligent as he tries to appear, he’s a DUMMY!

    Arn Tellum, his former agent, knew it. That’s why he’s his FORMER agent. He told Dummy to make his wife sigh a pre-nup. Did he take the man’s advice? Nope.

    All of that said, whoever is doing the cheating, at least he’s in line to get a promotion if his wife leaves him. If you’re going to cheat, that’s essential. No way do you want to jeopardise home for a woman who isn’t on wifey’s level.

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    noeatingheretonight

    Kobe. in many ways I think he got railed into marrying that Vanessa girl. I don’t care for his attitude but that’s no way to get a husband. not saying it’s cool if it his him and he his keeping a mistress. keeping a mistress- sounds like a harlequin romance novel.

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    Orphan Annie

    The only person that thinks LALA is not black is her, she can say it a million times over but to the public and anyone looking at her she will always and only be seen as a black woman, so she can truly stop it!!!!!! Sorry LALA

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    Kobe just seem too obvious but it says “Hint: You don’t have to be a sports fan to know who the NBA player is.”, so it has to be one thats in the public eye a lot. Hmmmm Tony Parker could be a good guess too. *shrugs* Who knows it can be anybody in the NBA.

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    It’s Kobe. The reason being is that the “HINT” clearly states that you don’t have to be a sports fan to know who he is. Kobe is the most popular NBA player. while Tony Parker is not. Keep in mind the blind item says the wife has told her freinds she doesnt have to worry about her husband creepin with black woman, meaning that he does creep and most likely with white woman and Kobe has …well you know.

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  42. 43.
    bailey

    FUNNY SHIT!

    BLACK MEN RANT ON AND ON ABOUT THEM HAVING THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHOMEVER THEY WISH WHITE, HISPANIC, OTHERS, WHATEVA

    THEN THEY CONTRADICT THEMSELVES AND LAY UP WITH A BLACK WOMAN OR THE EXACT TYPE OF WOMAN THEY CLAIM THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO-

    IT’S OBVIOUS WHICHEVER WOMAN IS SERVING HIS PURPOSE AT THE TIME IS THE ONE HE LIES TO ABOUT THE OTHER RACE TO COVER HIS LYING ASS TRACKS

    GAME 101-THIS SHIT AINT NEW THE ONLY FOOLS IS THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHER THAT’S BELIEVING THE BULL SH#T!

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    I dont think its Kobe, cause Vanessa was at the All-Star game. I remember seeing her front row right next to La La and Mary J Blige.

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  44. 45.
    kay kay

    oh snap i got this one it’s allen iverson he married a hispanic woman and i know he likes black women lol i got this one lol

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  45. 46.
    hb801

    A lot of you are fucking stupid. Its NOT kobe. If it was, dont you think the hint would have mentioned the rape case or legal troubles the nba player was in? Besides, kobe wife aint sweatin that shit, long as he keep buying ultra expensive gifts, that chick will be around. On top of that, she doesnt seem to have a good attitude, so I wouldnt think, and have never known her to have “friends.” You never see her with any girlfriends or anything. It’s not that lil bitch kobe.

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  46. 47.
    Spencer

    She’s hella stupid, so exactly what would she do if she found him cheating with a black lady vs. cheating with a white one? Nothing? That’s what she’s saying. Oh yeah I forgot she would probably divorce him. She’s trying to act like she’s secure but she knows her competition. Now that this has gotten out. There will be plenty more trying to throw kobe’s wife from the thrown hell tony too. It doesn’t take much.

    One last thing there is no half to it, for those african american men who dare not to date or associate with an african american female you are therefore not honoring your mother. If you want to put black women in a category then your mother, sisters, and daughters (even the mixed ones) are also in that category. If you can’t put them in that category then you must not be talking about all african american women and therefore there still must be some tasteful ones out there. With that being said there must be some fault in your choices of women. Faults may not be visible up front. But that’s your job to find them, and when you see them run. Don’t spend a decade or even a year, fuck up your live and then cry. Boo hoo it’s your fault you should have heeded the warning signs. Now pick your ass up like the grown man you are supposed to be and don’t fall into the next trap. That’s why it’s called dating and i don’t mean (sexing, or fucking). Get to know your mate. For those who have no experience with black women I can see your problem. When you see one on the sidewalk passing you by keep straight and don’t turn or better yet do the worst and turn. But until that turn shut the fuck up talking about something you clearly have no idea about.

    Oh yeah don’t let your daughters grow up thinking that they shouldn’t take bullshit and that they deserve the best and then contradict in your own relationships, it could prove to be very detrimental to their livelihood. Goodluck!!!

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  47. 48.
    Ms. T.

    This may be a stupid question:

    But what in the hell is a bottom mistress?

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  48. 49.
    Tammy

    Here we go again….

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  49. 50.
    mo

    First of all how in the heck are we to figure that out? 98% of the NBA have white wives. If you don’t go to the games and follow sports, how would you know? Your blind items SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Shawn

    The bottom mistress is what the bottom chick is to his pimp. The main girl. The girl that holds it down. The girl that he will take care of physically, emotionally, monetarily. The one that has a special place in his heart.

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    SOUL POLE

    “…infidelity is wrong.” Indeed…but it’s sooo much fun.;-> Why the hell else do people do it? Implied here is that women are above such behavior.Yes -of course.I don’t think the institution of marriage fits what men OR women really want to do in these modern times.

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    e

    1st KOBE 2nd Carmello Anthony.

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  53. 54.
    dctrinigyal

    for the person who said lala was black, you are wrong. lala is puerto rican because of both of her parents.

    i dont think kobe is the answer because he like white woman and he is married to a spanish girl.

    i think the answer is eva and tony…..

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  54. 55.
    deeznuts

    tony parker

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  55. 56.
    Kay

    It’s definitely Kobe Bryant. She’s the only well known non black NBA wife. Plus, I’ve read somewhere that she was acting flaky with Brandy when she sat in the stands to watch the Lakers play a while back. She’s probably the one in all the blind items which she’s a non black NBA wife who disrespect black women and try to hook her non black friends to marry NBA ballers.

    Yeah, Vanessa. What goes around comes around.

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  56. 57.
    LinaB

    I am SO Glad someone clarified what a “bottom mistress” is becasue I was like what the heck does that mean.

    Seems like the definition given by # 51 sounds alot like the definition for wife. If this is true then the wife in this blind item should be scared. The bottom mistress should want more out of life than being the secret bottom, SAD!!

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  57. 58.
    shimmyshimmyya

    My first thoughts were Kobe as well…but that seems too obvious. Seeing as he is an extremely popular basketball player, he wouldn’t walk around with another woman and run the risk of photos getting out. Kobe is stupid, but he’s not that stupid. Also, if it Vanessa being ignorant, then she’s a dumb bitch. She wouldn’t mind him talking to white chicks, but intervenes when he talks to black women? That doesn’t even make sense. If he’s not attracted to them, then why would she even care?

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  58. 59.
    ReTina

    #1 Lebron James….ha thats funny. maybe u are unaware that his baby momma is BLACK. if u read the blind item u would notice that they said NON-BLACK.
    Lets go Cavs!
    216-baaaaby!!!

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  59. 60.
    Orphan Annie

    @ DCTRINIGYAL I know LALA is puerto rican because of both of her parents the point I was making is that she looks black and thats all she will be known as for the rest of her life, unless she has a sign on her that says Im puerto rican or unless she’s carrying applications with her. We label people on how they look not what they say they are. Ask 10 people of any race what about LALA and they will call her a black woman bottom line.

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