I thimk she’s beautiful, and she needs to kick diddy to the curb. LOL

And Beautiful Girls!

SHE’S WORTHLESS AND A LOSER…ANYONE WHO VIEWS LIVING OFF A MAN AND BEING A BABY-MOMMA IS A PROFESSION GETS NO RESPECT IN MY BOOK

I’m so glad that she finally decided to leave that arrogant, insensitive man. Black men always think that they can do whatever and whomever they want with no consequnces. I just hope the kids don’t suffer…

Here she goes again…trying to manipulate the media and convince she is in control when the reality is she is not in control of a damn thing. Kim did not leave Diddy…Diddy basically left Kim, unfortunately she is the last person to get the message.

If the man you are with continuously cheats on you (not to mention its so in your face)…has a child outside of your relationship and has basically told the world (with you sitting right there) he would never marry your ass…how the hell is he really committed to your “so-called” relationship?

In order for her to “leave” Diddy he would have had to be somewhat committed to their relationship…and he has made it very clear he isn’t committed to shyt. She has been very foolish to stay with someone of that nature…and she has disrespected not only herself but her children as well.

She has taught her son its okay to treat women with disregard and her daughters to stay with a man especially if he has money…it doesn’t matter how he treats you and disrespects his family.

Kim’s mouth constantly says one thing but her actions most definitely say another…I’m not trying to judge her, we all have our faults and our fycked up situations. However, Tina Turner said it best…”Whats love got to do with it?”.

Kim claims they are good friends and have soooo much love there…bullshyt. Don’t do anymore interviews if you aren’t gonna keep it real…your truthful words could have actually helped a person in your same situation, but instead you choose to lie and pretend. Well Kim personally I’m not buying what you are selling…

Sorry for the long post…but she irks my nerves. I mean is she seeking sympathy here? Ain’t nobody put a gun to her head and force her to endure Diddy’s shyt…

yea i agree with 3# sittin up there having them babies and knew the man was not gonna even be there anyways? um

Shay and Msabogada make valid points. While Kim is a beautiful girl and probably should kick Diddy to the curb, she has made a profession out of being a babymomma. Before this thing with Diddy, I never heard of her as a model, as she says she is. Her claim to fame is being the mother to those little paychecks, I mean children with celebrity fathers.

Kim must really love Puffy to put up with his mess. I just hope she loves herself enough just to let his ass go. She has a successful event planning business, she’s a model & a mother, she just needs to find herself & when she’s ready A REAL PARTNER who will love her unconditionally and won’t do her dirty!

damn #5 i had so much to say before but now i can’t even talk. lmao

I’m happy that Kim Porter finally realized that the relationship with P. Diddy was going to be a constant circus and merry go-round. Her children are beautiful and if nothing else she has some wonderful children that she can build a solid and healthy life for instead of the constant back and forth of breaking up and making up which will definitely have a negative effect on children when they are growing up.

Damn, Such. I’m glad you got it off your chest.

* So it’s true, there is another baby here in the ATL.

* The twins are adorable.

High 5 to Such Magnificence. Kim is in denial if she feels like she’s in control of this situation at all. The real gangsta move would’ve been to quietly stack her chips (a la Mrs. Shaq) and leave with no forwarding address, no more calls btn them and have her lawyer talk to his lawyer re: the kids. Why even be ‘friends’ with someone that continuously disrespects you?

Those babies are gorgeous. They must take after their grandparents.

It took allegations of him having another child for her to decide to leave?
And of course there’s no animosity between the two-
Puffy’s ecstatic to be free now. He gets to whore around freely now without having to tip-toe around the house, while she’s being paid nicely.

I hope she doesn’t fall victim to the “baby I love you and miss you” trap if he throws it at her….I just hope she stays strong enough to stay away from his a**!!!!!!

The twins are sooooo cute. Glad they ended it as friends for the children’s sake. I understand what she’s saying about not marrying him because he’s not ready. Best wishes to them both.

@ 13….I thought is was confirmed awhile back that the baby in ATL was Diddy’’s.

Dang that makes 5 biological kids for him…including Kim’s son by Al B Sure who he claims as his too…that makes 6. He trying to catch Eddie Murphy…LOL

@ #10, 12, and 14…I had to say it sorry lol. I can’t stand how Kim constantly runs her mouth and yet she has nothing of value to say.

I think she is full of it and has just stayed around for the money. She will get back with him. Its cheaper to keep her and I’m sure all PDiddy gotta do is wave some in her face and she will be back wit him. I think she is so triflen to keep sleeping with him unprotected when she knows he sleeps around on her and he doesnt even have the respect to use protection.

Those are some beautiful babies. They look so cute in that shot.

@ Such Magnificence

I completely agree with you. If there was any type of commitment if was on her behalf being committed to probably having babies to keep puffy in her life, or to keep her hands on his money, or she was simply committed to seeing only what she wanted to see. She probably thought if she was the down ole chick that puff would stay in her life, but she couldn’t see that he was only coming back because he knew she would take his crap and he knew he could come back.

Preach Such Magnificence!!!

Kim looks, in the picture, like she’s been through the ringer… It’s obvious that she’s depressed…I don’t know why she’s pretending to have some jovial split??? He made a fool of her, she should have never gone back after JLO…and he says he was never in love with JLO, but someone told him JLO was getting married (to the dancer, Chris, I think) and he grabbed the microphone and was like “Don’t you ever disrespect me, you hear me…” It was pitiful the way he acted… Kim is delusional, though, I watched her on this E! special and she’s just delusional… I feel sorry for her.

Doesn’t Essence have anything else to do besides interview stupid women about the stupid, gold-digging choices they make?

I have to agree with #5, are we supposed to feel sorry for her because she decided that making babies with rich men was going to be her contribution to the world? Does she really expect folks to believe that she didnt’ stay for the money then spit out more kids to keep her ATM activated while we all saw him fooling around with other women in front of her face? Did she really expect a man she’s supposedly been with for 10+ years and 3 children who told the world that he would not marry her to have any respect for her?

Yeah, cry me a river, she needs to sit down, count her money and shut up.

Oh, and are there any posts here (been here few weeks, wouldn’t know) about Diddy and the Danity Kain girl?? I believe the rumor…someone said the others said she was always getting perks…and I saw her in that Heatherette show…so, I believe he was doing her… Nobody knows her like that, not to hand pick her as a model…

its kind of easy for many of the sisters to say kim should have done this, kim shold have done that but at the end of the day kim is rich for life even without child support, because her kids will grow to inherit their dad`s empire, its a win-win situation
wasnt shaq married? didnt his wife push 4 kids for him? isnt he divorcing? be careful with what you say as if marriage will solve all the problems..marriage didnt prevent shaq from getting his dick sucked by supahead on a regular basis and within weeks splashing $40k on her…..some of you here think when you married thats it…lol
its sad

Kim Porter is the epitome of weak willed woman with no backbone and integrity. Yes she is beautiful but she is lazy. She could have graduated from Columbia, Princeton, or Barnard by now. But she chose to be “kept”. Look what it did: she has been cheated on, humiliated, and must deal with Diddy for life because she has kids from him. She probably has caught chlamydia from him too (although I hope not).

As the sayin goes “Don’t hate the playa hate the game” Kim allowed Diddy to do those things to her such as treat her with disrepect. If you truly love someone you should be honest with him/her that’s what true love is. if you allow a man , or woman for that matter (because women do it to) to mistreat you , they will take full advantage of it because of their own deep down insecurities.

You have to respect the man for his honesty , he wasn’t ready to get married. Maybe he feels when he does get married, he wants to be faithful. I’d rather not be married and be a cheater than to be married and be unfaithful. Either way he/she has to answer to noone but GOD. She does ,however ,need to pick up her integrity off the ground, get a life and identity of her own other than being Diddy’s shadow. She a beautiful woman and need’s to realize her worth.

This must be the only relationship that Kim has ever had because she constantly is giving interviews about a man that has publicly announced he “isn’t marrying her”……just move on with your life….their daughthers are adorable though!!!

I believe she has wised up some, and is taking it for what it is…nothing!
When you’re in love sometimes it’s hard to see the forrest for the trees…yeah, yeah
I know, “what’s love got to do with it” and to answer that, it has everything to do with it….the average person wouldn’t take a bunch of crap if they didn’t love/like that someone. We’ve all been there one time or another where love takes a hold of you and kicks you in the ass and you can’t understand why it’s happening to you, or you just don’t care why it’s happening to you…all you know is that your “in love”. Eventually you get over it and hopefully learn from it…and those who don’t that’s their thing, more power to ‘em…but those who do learn, and do better…who are we to judge?

For the ones that have been there and done that probably didn’t get anything out of the deal but a broken heart and maybe a child or two…irregardless to what some of us may think, she and her children are set for the rest of their lives, and the kids can be taught better…just because their parents are a certain way dosen’t mean they will grow up to be the same….but that’s just my opinion

It’s funny but it does seems that as this society gets more and more voyeuristic, we’ll entertain anything! Now, you know there’s absolutely no justification for this woman’s being on a celeb gossip site, let alone a magazine! lol

all i have to say is..LMAO..LMAO..LMAO..yall r funny as hell..LMAO

leave poor kimmy alone..every girl gotta make a living right????? no???? lol

Kim is neva gonna be broke she dumb & smart as hell @ da same time..even tho i do agree w/ u guys about her willingness to stick around unhappily w/ entertainers & have babies ( her 1st baby daddy was Al B. Sure for those who didnt know)..she had a make believe modeling career that didn’t go anywhere & didnt make any $$$ off of but she wanted to live that lifestyle so of course she’s gonna go after the next best thing, a rich dude..trust me Kim didnt care that Sean was cheating until the media got involved & now she’s trying to save face.

seem*

Those twins are so adorable.
Sigh @ Diddy and Kim’s on again off again relationship….

Time for this chick to shut her piehole.

To those who think Kim is stupid for staying with Diddy without a “ring” you obviously have never been married. Marriage is not a walk in the park and i actually appreciate her not trying to tie a brotha down just for the sake of saying “I’s Married Now!” She realizes that Diddy is not marriage material at this time nor is he “ready” to be married. I think Kim is an example to all unmarried woman that there is no rush in jumping the broom. Learn your man, be friends and mostly keep it real with each other.

BTW- Yes, i am married.

She’s still sleeping with him.

Such u are so right.

How women can pull the victim card out even when they make these fucked as decisions is beyond me …… she sound like a rat foragin’ for crums . I waited to he left and took furniture and can goods …. please ! No matter how tacky a bird is …women will see it as a show of strenght . Puff is showin’ rich dudes the way . Wifey the chick …don’t wife them it cheaper . Child support ….no alimony and half your wealth . And all the Shaunie fans (birds) she ain’t gettin’ away with shit … she can’t bubble shit and think Shaq ain’t going to get his husbandly cut . Niggas stop gettin’ married when there so much unattached coochie out her . I think rich niggas need to contract these chicks like draft picks …. certain expectation …. certain performance criteria . If she play her position …. contract extention ! LMAO

Women want marriage cause it’s a contract that benfits them . Niccas smartin’ up …. read the fine print !

I’ve said it before, I don’t get this delineation between marriage and “shacking.” It’s a commitment, marriage, a natural, codified thing… I think people who don’t want to commit, want to inflate marriage… It’s just a commitment.. but I’ve been here before, in detail, so I digress..
My point is, if Kim would shack with the man for a decade, of course she would have married him… It’s a technicality, unless, of course, you’re protecting your money or leaving the door open for yourself… She didn’t get married because he didn’t want to… Because, like I said, he’s protecting his money AND leaving the door open… He didn’t/doesn’t want her.

Men only treat us the way we allow them too. So it’s is important for us to set the precedent early on that we respect ourselves and we expect for our mates to do the same. Otherwise when they start mis-treating you don’t get upset because you have allowed this to take place.

KIM IS TO BEAUTIFUL…WHY IS SHE TRIPPING ABOUT DIDDY GAY BUTT. SHE NEEDS TO TAKE CARE OF KIDS AND START FOCUSING ON HER. SHE STILL SLEEPING WITH PUFFY AND THATS SAD.

@ julieisadime….. Good Morning. How are you today???/

If she had 3 kids with him..obviously marriage was not her concern…
She said she wants to STAY married…and why should people put their dreams on hold for a wedding that may never happen…Halle said fuck it, I want what I want!

So, anyway..whatever..Kim..former model, actress, and all that…do u..that’s all u can do.

The babies are gorgeous..

Those are some cute little girls.

Umm, #1, maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to respond without reading the post. She DID kick him to the curb. That’s what the whole article is about. She packed up her things, the twins, etc… it’s not THAT important to be first. Know what the story’s about before leaving a msg.

Anyways, the twins are BEAUTIFUL and have grown so much!

kim porter = LOSER

Kim Porter is a fool, she acts like one of those project woman who will settle for anything a man does to her. She may be a big time model, but her self esteem is terrible. I’m so tires of hearing about her and Diddy. He treats her like that because she allows it. And what’s so funny to me is she always trys to make comments on him and J. Lo relationship. To my understanding that’s the woman he wanted to marry, but she didn’t want him in that way. Kim needs to get a life and stay our of Diddy’s shadow. 10 kids later she decides or I got to do me, now that’s an intersting concept. Grow up Black Woman-have some Self Respect for yourself.

Don’t be surprised when they get back together, cause it surely will happen.

AT the END of all of this Diddy is going to see that KIM was really all he HAD and could TRUST! every other woman after KIM is going to take him through ALOT of Dramma… KIM IS THE BEST THING HE EVER HAD!! i wonder what Diddy’s MOM thinks of him having all these babies and not getting Married? WATCH OUT becuase when you have a GOOD WOMAN that takes alot of Crap from you YOUR bestfriend is watching how you Treated her and will STILL her from you “Diddy Watch ya Back there is a DUDE watching that will be making his move and raising you Kidz”

IF you look closer at this PICTURE LOOK at there Faces it LOOKS like DIDDY is madd about somethin KIM said to HIM and she started crackin up!! like the quote was “NIGGA im gone get all yo’ money” or “IT’s Cheeper to KEEP her” LOL…

IF you look closer at this PICTURE LOOK at there Faces it LOOKS like DIDDY is madd about somethin KIM said to HIM and she started crackin up!! like the quote was “NI” im gone get all yo’ money” or “IT’s Cheeper to KEEP her” LOL…

Hey, Mallato

I’m fine. How are you today? my sista

I was in a situation similiar to Kim except he is not famous and I was blessed to have enough common sense not to have children with this person. I do not think Kim is stupid I think she is in love. Hopefully she will mature as a woman and leave him alone romantically.

Her smile looks so fake in that pic. Seems like Diddy was trying to be serious about something, and she was sitting there grinning like a fool. “Smiling ” for the camera.

#27 you’re right.

I can’t really talk bad about her decision. A lot of women once they have become dependant upon someone else find it hard to break away from that habit especially if the person you depend on has become abusive (mentally or physically).

I know when I was out of work for a time and my husband was the only provider for the house I HATED it and at the same time I felt helpless about my situation and depressed. We didn’t struggle but I didn’t like having to ask for money for things I needed or wanted. I never endured any cheating and lying as Kim had but I really don’t think her goal was to gold dig anyone. She’s a pretty girl and of course men like Al B. and Diddy gravitated towards her. I think once she became comfortable in her situation w/ Diddy (he probably made promises to her not to worry, he would take care of everything) and as the kids started comming, she found it harder to leave.

HEADS UP EVRYBODY

Congress to Hold Hearings on Misogyny in Hip Hop aimed at Black Women and on other negative portrayals of bw in the media. go to

whataboutourdaughters.blogspot.com

@juliesadime.. I am good . Thanks Sis

Wow, at you bloggers, throw her to the lions. She had faith in the love she had for him and you guys call her stupid for that, again I say, Wow. Yeah cause she had a Diddy remote control, right. Press a button and he will stop cheating, press another and he will marry her, press another and he will give her anything she wants, whatever people. I hope she does not pay attention to you guys and does what she set out to do.

Cynthia said: Wow, at you bloggers, throw her to the lions. She had faith in the love she had for him and you guys call her stupid for that, again I say, Wow. Yeah cause she had a Diddy remote control, right. Press a button and he will stop cheating, press another and he will marry her, press another and he will give her anything she wants, whatever people

ITA. Some of you all need to get off your soapboxes and stop acting like its so easy to just walk away from someone that you’re in love with. I’m not defending her actions or even trying to explain them cuz trying to find logic in decisions guided by emotion is plain pointless. The heart wants what it wants. However, I’m glad that she seems committed to being a good parent to their children first and foremost. That is more important than anything

Kim says she was a model.. the only “modeling” I’ve seen of her is a Cream of Nature relaxer box…….
http://www.vibe.com/blog/...rter_gets_to_steppin.html

Has anyone eslse seen her model?

This is funny the only thing she did was moved out, it is not like he was their everyday she just gave him more freedom but he still has her cuffed.

#64 Never saw her model in anything.

She shouldn’t have talked bad about Diddy and went back to him. I am no fan of Diddy but whatever he does now, she deserves. Just dumb.

The babies are beautiful!!!
In my opinion Kim is very stupid, especially to be degraded by him in a joint interview, then to further pour her heart out to the same magazine again and not sound to bright. BUT…on the otherhand, she isn’t too stupid. She hung in there and had THREE children from a man with a near net worth of close to half a billion dollars. So really Puffy is the idiot here, because that is an astronomical amount of child support. That’s why the only modeling you see Kim doing these days is that same old photo on the Creme of Nature relaxer box!!! She will never have to work another day in her life. She guarenteed her current pay and future retirement earnings by pushing out 3 kids.
Kim is a black, female, version of Kevin Federline.
But hey…Puffy went in raw, so he can’t even fuss. But in closing, again, those babies are beautiful!!!!

I remember her cameo in “The Brothers”

Oooooh!!!!!!!! Woooooooow!!!!!!! The Brother’s!!!!! I don’t even think i’ve seen The Brother’s.

@ Such, tell it girl!

@ Lula Pear, I concur. Essence is running out of interview ideas. They kill me sometimes.

@ Julie, You know that’s right! Who is she kiddin? Puff still tappin that ass. Probably got some after the party.

The movie with fine ass, Morris Chestnut, Shemar Moore, Bill Belamy and DL Hugley? Ring a bell?

You know this ms mac, I know her kind. LOL

Sheeeit, 10 years of getting shitted on = faith in love?
How about 10 years and three kids = mo money, mo money, mo money.

Another Baby Diddy!!!!!

WHORE!!!!!!!

shes a straight up chicken head and will always be a groupie chasing after stars and having babies by them.

why are u putting these children through this?

its not al about diddy and kim anymore…do they realize?

and why on earth did they give that child the name of d’lilah and the other one a regular name? fucking up that childs life.

they should be straight up ashamed.

esp kim because shes basically saying ill put up and shut up and swallow if u give me money and diamonds….shit buy me!