@CLEARMINDED (140)….. That is too funny but the probably the truth!!!!!!

julieisadime
Friday, September 7, 2007
no one really knew who he was or cared before operation “i dropped the toilet paper”.

FUNNY AS HELL!!!!!!
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Well he said he dropped the toilet paper and hand gestured for it back. And there was a sting going on—for toilet paper droppers.

Tiffy_from_DC, girl I’m in tears over here!

“can someone please help me to understand the “marrying him twice” comment she made. i’m just not getting it.”

“It’s so much until I think I can marry him twice, but this one is over,”

Im lost on this quote. What was she trying to say?

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It means she ain’t done getting her ass whooped. She might be ready to give it another try.

@ms_mac. Yall need to stop! I just bust out laughing at my desk and everyone is looking at me like I’m crazy.

It means she ain’t done getting her ass whooped. She might be ready to give it another try.

You are sooooo out of line for that one. LMAO!!!!!

@julieisadime…. You are always cracking up….LOL me too.

Let me decipher Juanita mumbo-jumbo for y’all: She’s saying she’s getting a divorce despite the fact that she loves him so much that she could marry him all over again. In other words, although she loves him she knows they shouldn’t be together.

The “Prophetess” who always has a “Rhema-word” for everybody didn’t see the beatdowns coming and it took more than one stomping, but she’s finally getting out of this “ordained” marriage.

Why would anybody follow this craziness? She’s always been off.

@143

I know you agree. You respect the Word of the Lord unlike the majority of the women of my nation (Ezek 3:5-7). I tried to respond to that article that you posted but the moderators shut me down. I can’t front though, it ain’t have a damn thing to do with Serena Williams, lol.

@Mallato

I Know, these people on here crack me up. they should have a concreteloop comic nite.

ridiculous..i’m glad she divorcing him no one deserves to get their ass beat..i don’t care if they are so holified or sanctified..that should not be going on in a marriage period..and then he had the NERVE to go to the next church service after whoopin her ass like shit didn’t happened..yeah u should forgive but he needs to serve the consequences just like any other man who feel they should put their hands on a woman..and the devil makin him do it is not an excuse honey…U FUCKED UP Plain and Simple..

137. TIFFY_FROM_DC

There are so many messges that people’s lives represent. Mine, Juanita, Yours, Weeks. We are all human. We all make mistakes. my beef is don’t “teach me how to love my man”–when you haven’t figured how to love your’s—-which should have been from far far far away.

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You are absolutely right about our lives representing messages. But for myself personally, I don’t look to celebrities and characters like Bynum and Weeks as an example…to me public figures operate on fame, money or entertainment. Girl I didn’t even know who they were until they drop this domestic violence on Concreteloop.

And I completely understand what you’re saying. I don’t respect anyone who plays the whole, “Do what I say, not what I do” act.

You are correct on this being world’s business now that their website is designed for the face of domestic violence…I was unaware of that. Like I said before… I didn’t even know who they were. So you got me on this one. Sorry if I offended in any way.

@ Judah .. I know I looked for the response this morning…. LOL

Yes people are definitely. . ”.hardheaded and hardhearted”. . .

But I would not put my trust in NOBLES. She is not a prohestess
(Acts 5:29) 29 In answer Peter and the [other] apostles said: “We must obey God as ruler rather than men. . .

FOR those who beleive she is Prophetess……..

(1 John 4:1) 4 Beloved ones, do not believe every inspired expression, but test the inspired expressions to see whether they originate with God, because many false prophets have gone forth into the world.

Yes I am a recovering “long” sufferer. I joke about it. It lasted for a month and half. Its funny and sad. Mostly because women who have “it together” don’t do suffering. But it is mostly attritbutable to a negro. LOL

I was googling around and found some footage of the clark sisters and juanita bynum also showed up. So for a month and a half I think I saw every sermon on both her and week’s site. It was feel good-particularly for long suffers.

But religon (and I know Im gonna get some hate posts from this) enables people to keep on suffering. That suffering is God like and admirable and some sort of test of strength and worthiness. LONG TIME SUFFERING IS NOT OF GOD.

So Juanita came in at a crucial time. Its just when I got to the love and relationship portions–some stuff wasn’t sounding right–like all the drama they both spoke of. Some of it I took-and I skipped to other parts particularly about taking action, saying no to the pity parties. etc etc.

I took major action right around the time my income started to become proportional to my “long suffering”. I guess I feel for people who go through stuff like this for years and years all in the name of Jesus.

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Tiff you betta stop before you get me all teary eyed here!!! I so want to give you a hug right about now. A big one for that month and a half and it would not matter if it was longer either. Hurt is hurt and i for one cannot claim to have “it together” to have not gone thru it. But you are right. Years and years of it, in the name of religion is very sad. This reminds me of the late mother Teresa who was famous for championing poverty (not just the poor) but poverty. Like it was a blessing to be wretchedly poor.*shakes head*

Your comment about having it together is very interesting again. Is there really such a thing as a life where anybody ever had it together always? We all wear masks. I guess thats coz society teaches us that you have to have it together always.
Anyway props to Juanita for her help– and aha! It appears you knew what was valuable and what to filter out huh? like i said you? long suffering club? Never!

Ms-mac i miss the chapel. I realise now, that i grew a lot spiritually in that chapel. Not during endless, monotonous, repeatitive,looong as hell, dull mass after mass after endless mass, but a few of us used to visit it sometimes when it was empty (it was always open) mostly coz we had some kinda assigned duty like distributing the bibles etc for next mass etc…anyway,it was very quiet and its the only times that i felt God’s presence basically and i prayed (like properly lmao) maybe also because it wasn’t forced–like it wasn’t mandatory which was the case with school. A visiting priest once robbed us. It was very exciting!!! (yeah THATS how DRY our priest was)

Speaking of wine, my protestant church is where my cousin accidentally got tipsy on his confirmation day lmao. He was the last kid to recieve the wine and i don’t know what the pastor’s helper was thinking coz he just gave him the cup which apparently still had a lot of wine in it and the kid just gulped it all down!

Lmao @ ms_mac . I though that was what she was getting at . What a damn shame !

@Mallato

No disrespect to you, but the white man knows that he is Esau and that Esau is promised NO REPENTANCE for his crimes not just against the Lord’s Chosen, but against all races (Heb 12:16). This is why he tries to claim that the edomites were done away with, which is a lie because the seeds of all the races that the Lord created are still on the earth (Ecc 4:16). The Lord said that he HATES Esau FOREVER (Malachi 1:2-4, Rom 9:13). Now if the edomites no longer exist, why the hell would the Lord need to hate them forever, lol. Honestly, there are so many scriptures and historical texts that prove that the caucasians are the edomites that we’d be here forever. When you read the Apocrypha, the second book of Ezra tells you that “Esau is the end of the world” (II Esdras 6:9). Now how can they be the end of the world if they no longer exist? The Lord says that they will have to go into slavery for the atrocities and the lies that they’ve perpetuated unto this day (Isa 14:1-3, Amos 9:11,12, Rev 13:9,10). After that, they will be destroyed forever (Obadiah 18, Rev 20:10, etc.). The other races will be slaves and then put back into their own ancestral lands and made to keep the laws, statutes, and commandments (Isa 61:4-7). Don’t get mad at me, take it up with the Most High (I Thes 4:8).

In regards to “love”, there is one thing that many people in the church don’t understand. Man’s “love” is not God’s LOVE. People are quick to quote John 3:16 and I John 4:8, but the Bible also tells you what the love of God is, to keep his commandments (I John 5:3). The scripture tells us that the commandments were only given to the Israelites (Psa 147:19,20). In regards to God and Christ loving the “whole world”, John 3:16 is referring to the “world” (society) of the Israelites, not the entire earth population (Isaiah 45:17, John 18:19,20). There are other scriptures in the gospel that use the word “world” where it obviously doesn’t mean the entire earth (Luke 2:1,etc.). When you read the scriptures, the Lord tells us not to even seek the friendsip of the other nations, much less their “love” (Ezra 9:12). When was that done away with? When the scripture says to love the stranger, it means teach them the laws in an orderly fashion, not intermarry with them and give them a hug (Lev 19:34). It must mean that because the Israelites used the other races that lived amongst them as slaves, as stipulated by the Lord (Lev 25:44-47, I Chron 22:2,3, II Chron 2:17,18, II Chron 8:7-9, etc.)

Just like Christ is the mediator for the Israelites, the Israelites are the mediators for the other races. That’s why the scripture telss us that these other races will come to us for the knowledge, wisdom, and understanding of the Most High’s word when this society starts to crumble and in the Kingdom (Isaiah 2:2, Jer 16:19, Zech 8:23, etc.). Christ didn’t deal with the other races when you read the gospels (Matt 15:24, Acts 5:30,31). Notice that he called the Greek woman a “dog” and unfit for the bread of life (7:24-29), he called Herod a “fox” (Luke 13:31,32), and he barely spoke to Pilate at all (Matt 27:13,14). The scripture says that Christ will smite the nations and rule them with a “rod of iron” (Num 24:17-19, Psa 2:7-9, Rev 2:25-28, etc.) So when the Christians ask, “what would Jesus do”, he wouldn’t mess with the other races, lol. Think about it now, how can Christ die for the sins of “the whole world” when to sin is to break the laws of God (I John 3:4). Once again, the law was only given to the Israelites (Deut 4:32-35, Psa 103:7, 105:8-10, 147:19,20).

@Mallato

That’s what I tried to send this morning, lol.

@Judah… thanks…

judah stay on topic. this is not a race post yo

classic diva

There is NOT one Scripture in all the Bible which says we are all God’s children. ONLY be being born-again can any person truly claim to be God’s child.

No one is immune to Domestic Violence it happens to the best and worst of us! Dayum shame the pastor couldn’t keep his composure in check!

I thought divorce was a sin but I guess you can pick and choose.

@169

That’s why I directed it at Mallato. Yo.

@ Setian, now that’s a funny story. I know we had a few people who showed up just for the wine (only the kiddies got the grape juice). I think my cousin was one of them. lol.. j/k.

I doubt if this was the first physical confrontation, but it was the first public one. That’s why she can say, I might marry him again, because he has likely hit her before, and she forgave and continued to love him, and wanted to be with him.

Leaving an abusive relationship is never about the ability to physically “walk” or “get” away. The hold is typically on the mind or the heart of the person being abused. And until they can break that hold, it doesn’t matter if loved ones come and drag them away, they will go back, they will accept the abuse.

Son of a bitch……….I knew this wasn’t the first time………I’m glad she is divorcing him……………..27 yrs. seems harsh……I’d definitely give him 5. But at least she is healing emotionally and physically…..I can almost understand her still having some love for him still yeah I just like a lot of people wanna go but why wth is wrong with her but still I can ALMOST understand a little bit…….like there won’t be total hate for that person even though they’ve did some pretty sh-tty stuff to you. I wish her all the best.

People are getting all wrapped up in the fact that he is a bishop and she a prophetess. That’s really just their chosen professions — they aren’t saints… Few people are, they face the same issues and pressures of life as everyone else…maybe even more.

People must understand that preachers, pastors, priests - don’t speak ‘for’ GOD. You can’t allow what is happening in their lives to cause confusion in your spiritual life. This is between them and GOD, your spiritual life is about your personal relationship with GOD. Don’t get it twisted.

Yeah so anyways organized religion in itself has women in 2nd place and I’m just not with that.

But new face of domestic violence she is not……this is just highly profiled because she’s a highly profiled woman. So many faces are blackened and bruised everyday and so many women DIE everyday or are hospitalized that we do not know. -_-

I’m so sorry for her pain. And I hope I’m wrong about how I feel but,

But something about this incident seems so well orchastrated.
I mean can u imagine her looking any better in a divorce court?
‘m not saying she wanted to get hit,….just that she may have expected it.

Hearing her speak today, I could not help but noticed how Well Adjusted she is.
Usually, it takes time to get to that point. She jumped to it without missing a beat.
Perhaps it’s her style, perhaps she is extra prayerful…I won’t pretend to know….
but something about her new position as poster girl for battered women bothers me.
It just does not Feel sincere….

Just My Opinion guys, don’t stress:

kind.

Oh and He needs to go under the jail for being stupid enough to put his hands on her.
We would have been BOXING. No tears for him if he did get played.

Domestic violence is too serious to be played with. Even if Juanita is using this as a hustle, if she can bring some attention to this and help even one woman or man out of this type of a situation, then it’s worth it.

If her intentions are not noble, she has to answer for that… and just like everybody else….she will.

ROTFL@ Clearminded posts Number 140

amen amen and amen!!!!!!! $500 prayer kits

Well I love Juanita, But by being a evangelist meaning the Spirit of the Lord speaks to her. Okay the Lord already knew of this before she even meet him right? Of course he did!! So the warning was there telling her NOPE, DON’T MARRY HIM!! You can’t tell me he didn’t warn her!! See you have to get beat up when you don’t obey God’s command , But thank God she is alive for by his grace.. And for Mr. Weeks What is done in darkness is reveal in light, And what you sow in is what you will reap!! God Bless..

I love her…Stay strong Miss Nita…What matters is what GOD thinks of u…dnt worry about what those HEATHENS at church think of u (yea I said it…Heathens go to church too…LOLZ) cuz some of them would feel the same way if the shoe was on the other foot…Things happen…but u need to let him go this too shall pass.

oh PULEEZE everyone saying hope for the best for both him and her and calling him a child of God its rediculous. People please wake up, its all about MONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY and it has always been.

you think Jesus called on them to have an extravagant, million dollar wedding? Please. And them holding conferences on “how to love” and all this bs? Knowing that they themselves were probably not right and having problems. Puleeeeeze. Black people will put up with anything when it comes to their ministers.

For a women who supposely been involve in a WWE match two weeks prior to her interview . This shit seem suspect ……………………

I see no signs of the so-call abuse ….. sound like divorce stategy to me … especially if it’s a women judge !!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyday women who arent not well known are being abused by their husbands and boyfriends. They should get out of the relationship and seek help,but many dont.They remain in the abusive relationship ,because “THEY LOVE HIM” or they are too afraid to leave! I have never been in an abusive relationship myself ,but have family members ,friends,associates who have been in involved in abusive relationships at one time or another. A woman has to decide that she wants to stop the cycle of abuse and get out. Having a strong support system helps. Lets not forget that abuse isnt always physical it can be emotional,verbal,mental, also. Both men and women can fall victim to this type of relationship!
I think that what Bishop Weeks did was wrong,no ifs ,ands & buts about it,but hes human,and humans make bad choices .His cost him the respect of alot of people ,who didnt expect this behavior from a man of God. It also cost him his marriage ,conmsidering that his wife is filing for divorce! He needs to seek forgiveness from God and seek help ,because I never believed that this was an isolated incident. I also think that Juanita Bynum might have considered goign back if the incident had’nt been put out there for scrutiny in such a public way! There are going to be people in the church who wil say that she should stand by her man and work it out through counseling.There will also be others who say that she should get out,and never look back.At the end of the day ,regardless of what we think its her life,her husband ,and her marriage! They probably had many other confrontations with oneanother .She seems like she can be a hot head and explosive if pushed and so does he. I personally dont think I could stay in a relationship with a man who put his hands on me even once ,because I always feel that the one time will lead to more physical abuse down the line. These type of men start out with the pushing, and shoving.You let them get away with it,they start slapping you, then you have the close fist punch and broken bones down the line. Thats just my thought!

Lemme tell you what I’ve learned and seen in almost 41 years. EVERY man is going to “try” you at least once. No I don’t mean a out right butt whippin, but he is going to see just how far he can take it. How YOU respond has a LOT to do with how and/or when he’s going to try that again. As an example, I know a couple that has been married for 40 years and the wife told me on day that the first time her husband put his hands on her in an attempt to shake her, she went upside his head with a frying pan, literally.

I’m married for the second time due to domsetic violence although not on the level as Juanita or else I’d be typing this from my jail cell. But I can tell you that the day I decided if he grabbed me again I’d set his ass on fire while he slept, was the day I knew that NO MAN was worth going to jail for so I left and never once looked back.

Stats say that most women will be the victum of domestic violence once in there life which means that there a more than a few people here frontin’.

Amen my sister i feel you you have to look at one self and say self i worth more than this and i dont have to sit around and take this and besides the bible says a man hits his wife and says i love the christ is a liair and the truth is not in him!

in reply to #71 & 75 post. I pray for your friends son and my God continue to watch over him and honor his mother. I havea close friend who has been abused by men in her life and I can say it is so hard not butting in and letting her live her life the way she wants and with whom she wants. I have never seen anything happen to her, but I have always been told what happened to her. Her first husband beat her in front of their kids and the jerk she is about to marry, choked her while the kids were in another room, but she almost passed out from it. I pray that she is totally sure she wants to marry this man and if not get the heck out of dodge.

As far as Ms. Bynum and her husband, It seems like she is making excusses for this man and she shouldn’t be. God didn’t tell Mr. Weeks to beat his wife. I do think somewhere along their marriage, the devil came into his spirit and he was a different man than from what she married. My hope for her is that, she knows her value as a woman of god and continues to seek him above any man on earth. I’ve read other posts that her first marriage was abusive, and all I can say is that many women repeat this pattern when they go into relationships. It’s like the norm for them and they think they can change them when in reality they can’t.

I feel for his congregation as well. This supossed man of god who preaches to them, prays with them, and more than likely has given sermons on marriage, would beat his wife like she was a rag doll. It would be hard to even walk into that church and look at him as a figure of the church and Christians as a whole. He deserves to go to jail for what he did to her, and think about that and realize that GOD didn’t have any part in him being so evil spirited toards his beloved wife. If he was jealous of her, he should have prayed about that and communicated with her positively on it and express himself in a positive way where they both could benefit from it and grow as a couple. That whole saying “A couple that prays together stays togther” was missing with Mr. Weeks. Ladies, if your man is like this, get some help and protect yourself. Be blessed everyone.

LOL @Hina
At the first sign of violence I’m out …in love or not. It will only get worse. I pray God’s best for Juanita Bynum…healing has to happen.

What kind of Church Chick meets with a dude in a Hotel at 4 in the morning anywho? No more sheets my ass!!!

Praise Him! I’m happy to hear that she’s leaving that POS. Bishop Weeks is b#tch-made for putting his hands on her. & to think that they were supposed to be reconciling. *SMH*

numb 18 and 32,
you both took the words right out of my mouth. I hope anyone in this type of situiation would leave and seek God for guaidance and spiritual uplifting. Bynum is a strong willed woman to have done this.

you guys are looking at the surface and not seeing the impact this has on the body of Christ. First of all, did she ever really accept her role as wife..the biblical role? Or did she mock the position? Why did she continue to preach to single women once she was married? She said herself that a married person couldnt minister to her when she was single. Why did she and her husband have separate ministries when God calls husbands and wives to be one? The answer to all this is money and the spirit of Jezebel. No matter what happened, if she decided she was going to divorce him (which shows NO FAITH in God to work through the situation) then she needs to do like the bible says which is to sit down. She and her husband. You cant be a major face for Christians and be divorcing. You might as well be an advocate for homosexual marriage because they look at these leaders, unable to keep their spouse WITH JESUS..so why should they feel any type of way for having a spouse without Him? But they are not going to sit down because JBynum is making too much money off of single black women and now she wants to be the ‘face of DV’. Its about cornering more MARKET people, and by the comments posted on here, the majority of you are exactly who she draws. If you look with spiritual eyes, you see this is more than about DV..its about the spirit of Jezebel tearing down the institution of Marriage. Whatever happened to “I can do all things through Christ?”..yeah yeah, juanita…except you couldnt seem to trust HIm enough to save your own marriage.

And for the record, my own husband had issues and by the grace of God he has changed and repented and loves the Lord. If I’d given up as quick as JB I’d have never lived to see this day….where our marriage is a testament to God’s Glory.

Blessings~

Do wats right i love you juanita a lot. You need to get back to the basic, get away from the shows now, its all about Jesus Christ now. Everthing in life happens for a reason.

1. i hope JB starts preaching against men’s authority over women. She preached this violence onto her..afterall, the woman should submit to the man according to the bible. The man did nothing wrong.. the women pissed him off and he has a right to beat her, according to the bible. (whatever that book is called)

2. i hope she stops preaching against lesbianism.. what a fool..women have so much more luv for eachother ..how about this..concentrate on global warming instead juanita..its so much more important than your pitiful attacks against homosexuals while your ass gets beat at home by a heterosexual lifestyle..what a shame..how many more beatings will it take for God to show her how much hatred she carries towards people that luv people of the same gender..hmm..i wonder…we should teach you what love’s really about

I HONESTLY THINK SHE HAD TO DO SOMETHING REAL FUCKED UP LIKE ——CAUGHT CHEATING—–FOR HIM TO WHOOP HER ASS LIKE THAT!! THEY WERE IN A HOTEL PARKING LOT….THAT IS IN THE SAME CITY THEIR HOME IS IN….????HMMMMM ???? PLUS THEY SHOWED HER RUNNING OUT FOLLOWING HIM BACK TO HIS CAR IN THE PARKING LOT. IM NOT SAYING IT WAS RIGHT FOR HIM TO DO THAT BUT WHAT THE HELL WAS SHE AT A HOTEL FOR IN THE FIRST PLACE??? DAMN SURE NOT FOR A SEMINAR OR BIBLE STUDY!!!!

Prophetess Juanita Bynum should stay out of the news…I wonder if she now trying to make another name or profit from this incident.

God is not for divorce, why can’t two God-fearing work it out, considering both of them have been married before..Where does the buck stop!

We should always pray for people period as christians that is our duty. What if that was your situation would you not pray or want anyone to pray for you? however, I agree that people are trying to cover up the fact that if He was so much God sent for Juanita like she says, what happened now? Was she hearing from God or her emotions. I do not believe God wants us to get married and then divorce he hates it only under certain circumstances: Adultery, fornication, etc. Does what he did fall under that? I agree he needs help, but have we all did things that was like okay I need help too.

Well Mizz JULIEISADIME, I think you need to get a life and stop judging this lady you don’t know what God has told her or what she may be feeling so just mind yo own business. And to Miss Juanita Bynum if you really read these comments I want to say to you, we all go throught things and I am not a supporter of domestic violence. And I understand that Bishop Weeks is your husband and as a seventeen year old young lady I support you and I wiill continue to keep you in my prayers and I love you